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MisandryOk_Medicine_7662/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 03:45 PM
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You seem to think that sexual dysfunction is more prevalent in men than in women. Its the opposite. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/188762#:~:text=Based%20on%20the%20few%20available,%25%20to%2063%25%20of%20women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:52 PM
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Im giving background information based on personal experience. Stop flattering yourself. Time is ticking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:21 PM
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Im 27 and I own a boat and a house. I also lift 4x a week. And most of the girls I hang with are 23 or under. I can send any of them a snapchat, and they'll come over within an hour or two. I do not see anything changing any time soon lol. This is the best way to go about it. I've been doing this long before you had even hit puberty. And I've been with women of all ages. The only way to be involved is casually, and with women who are at their physical and sexual peak. None of this saggy fat low-…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:43 PM
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ED is mainly caused by health issues. Body fat aromatises testosterone into estrogen, and the associated circulatory system problems also lead to ED. So, that was covered by my condition of "stay in shape". So as long as you're in good physical condition, and have your finances in order, older men have plenty of luck with younger women. The 50 year old man with a boat and a 6 pack is having plenty of fun with girls in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:56 PM
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There is not really the same type of "wall" for men. I'll be fertile until I die, I stay in shape, and my wealth is growing more every day. Basically everything that women value about men are things that can get better with time. That is, as long as you stay physically healthy. That being said, there are gorgeous women at every age, which is due to them taking care of themselves. However, I deeply want to have my own, healthy, biological children. I cannot be with a woman who is unwilling or una…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:20 PM
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Oh you're happy until you hit the wall lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:23 PM
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Ah so you went from "better options" to "I give up" lol. Im still not seeing this whole "better options" concept coming to life. I think reality is closer to something like " We have unrealistic expectations, followed by the predictable disappointment in who we can actually have in our lives on any serious level." Getting casual sex from a high value man does not mean that he is in your dating league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:20 PM
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Interesting that you're on reddit complaining about the scarcity of the caliber of men you want, right now. That behavior is not indicative of somebody having "better options now." It actually sounds to me like you're not getting any serious involvement from anybody who meets your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:20 AM
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Dark triad traits are what women select. That is why there are so many people with them. And that is why you absolutely have to adopt them. You cannot let idealized versions of reality guide you. That is what guides males out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:08 PM
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He said "CAPACITY". You did not understand this assignment. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:03 PM
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You didn't understand the assignment. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:03 PM
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I have never had that happen, but I would not be with her if that did happen. Thats a sign that she isn't really feeling you. Shes playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:00 PM
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Biology is not a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:22 PM
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No. Welfare, feminism, and promiscuity are to blame for single parent homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:21 PM
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Biologically speaking, yes. Reproduction is our only objective. For men, we are wired to have as many offspring as possible, and pick a main family in which the children are raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:29 PM
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The reason that a red pill won't lock one down is because they know that most women today are unreliable in marriage. And they also know that the divorce courts will shred the guy's life apart. They used to get a good wife and lead a marriage and family through life. Now, the red pill man knows that his best option today is to have several very casual relationships at the same time. That is the only time your bases are covered, regarding relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:00 AM
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True. Nice is not the bare minimum anymore. It literally counts against you lol. Be neutral to everyone unless otherwise justified. If you are a guy, there will always be somebody who takes your kindness as weakness. And they will act accordingly. I have become assertive from the time I wake up to the time I go to bed. Its toxic as hell. The saint in me has been killed, and I do resent him for ever existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:07 PM
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The goal is to enjoy the decline. That would be making the most of it. We didn't "choose that lifestyle". It has become our only option. By the way, there is some pretty solid research on what promiscuity and porn addiction do to the brain. Oxytocin and vasopressin levels are vastly different between promiscuous and monogamous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:49 PM
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They are both critical. Generally speaking, you cannot have a libido without both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:32 AM
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We're attracted to them enough to have casual sex with them, for sure. Also, we're all being ignored by the women in our dating league. So, we're just working with what we have lol. Its a terrible cycle for both parties involved. Its bad for both sides. We're all having these meaningless empty flings. Its going to take conscience effort and awareness from a big chunk of the population. Not just one side. The hookup culture has negative aspects to it. Semi-serious relationships and serious relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:56 PM
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Women are ignoring men in their dating league, to have sex with men who are in their casual-sex league. And then they can't have genuine attraction for the guys in their dating league. Because they've had way better guys so often.. Its like if you had cocaine every morning... That coffee isn't going to do it for you. But which path is better for your mind and heart, long term? Daily coke? or coffee? Nobody told them what they were signing up for. Not their fault. But thats exactly what is happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:58 PM
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Its actually "make the most of the decline". If they want to be promiscuous, get in on the fun. Although having an actual deep bond and real love with somebody is what I definitely want. And its what I think most guys want. Even if you have a rotation of promiscuous women, theres something missing. However, I think promiscuity does impact your brain circuitry. It reinforces mental circuitry that associates variety as a primary rewarding factor in sexual gratification. Thats sort of similar to ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:54 PM
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The truth is in the middle. Testosterone is the primary driver of male sex drive, but it can't exist without sufficient estrogen. For females, estrogen is the primary driver of libido. But it can't exist without testosterone. With how carelessly the various forms of birth control are dispersed in mass, without checking hormones before, during, or after, I think a lot of women have hormonal side effects that never even get looked at. The doctors just put them on an SSRI to "cure" them. Ladies, ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:41 PM
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Yeah but to have 80% of them be "below average"? Lol. Men ranked 50% of women below average and 50% above average in the same study. By the way, women aren't that attractive either. There are very few that would make me stop and say "wow she looks really good." Thats especially considering the fact that women have a higher obesity rate than men, and most people are naturally not attracted to obese body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:39 PM
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Yeah I get that. I went to the cheapest state university at 22 years old. I had built my credit and savings enough to finance all living expenses throughout school. I was broke as shit the whole time but I ONLY worked summers. And I rented a notorious party house by myself. I partied my ass off every weekend, charged $5 for a cup to drink from my kegs, and had a few subletters throughout lol. The business majors loved how I lived. I joked that my strategy was proof that I had effectively tested-…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:53 AM
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There isn't much reason to tell them something offensive man. And doing what you love is definitely a good move. But always be working toward improving yourself and your life in some way. You can't just rock a gamer bod, make a half assed tinder profile, and expect a decent quality woman to knock on your door lol. Build yourself up as a man. Its an all day every day process. Keep yourself moving in positive directions. One foot in front of the other. There is nothing else of importance to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:47 AM
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True. We have to become 6 feet tall, get muscular as hell, earn a ton of money, and then marry an obese woman who wants a polyamorous gender fluid relationship that ends with her taking everything you've worked for in a divorxe that frees her from your evil male wrath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:35 AM
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Yeah that is a pattern that I picked up on very very quickly. I was there for my Mechanical Engineering degree, and I saw a lot of really high quality men thrown by the wayside. I had a pretty well balanced friend group. I ended up lifting weights juust enough, and developing juust enough social skills to get girls without too much of a time investment. I would have certainly had better grades if it weren't for those other endeavors. However, I probably would've become depressed via ostracism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:33 AM
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Ehh not really. One girl told me she was with me because she could tell that I was intelligent and would be successful. Little did she know that I am an idiot and only would become successful via luck ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:25 AM
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Yup! Nothing pisses them off more than a guy who wont simp for their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:23 AM
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Its not a linear relationship though. In a survey of a few thousand women, they ranked 80% of men as being "below average" in terms of looks. So its a 10 for the vast majority of guys, and basically a 1 for the top 20% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:13 AM
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^ Nailed it. In college, I had a rotation of girls who were a lil below my league. I would invite them over and they would always come... No dates, no nice gestures, unreliable whether I'd text them back... Etc. But the guys who were actually willing to date them, love them, take interest in their lives, etc.... Yeah those girls ignored those guys entirely. All of the girls did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:00 AM
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Women ranked 80% of men as being "below average" in terms of physical attraction. Go google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:56 PM
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Its a male friend who acts like hes only involved with intent to be a platonic friend, who has some level of will or hope that he'll at least hook up with you. If you are an attractive female, you are quite possibly going to have a lot of orbiters. And some of them might even be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:02 AM
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Not lowering your standards to the level required to have sex with fat women is voluntary and commendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:52 AM
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Yeah get off your ass and grow 6 inches taller lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:48 AM
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What is white pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:47 AM
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I saw this happen multiple times toward the end of highschool. One of the girls did it twice. One of the girls did it to a teacher, who almost got fired even though there was security camera footage showing him not even come within 5 feet of her. Still damn near ruined the guy's life.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 07:22 PM
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Evidently not lmao. I say NO PROBLEM
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 02:25 PM
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That is always a powerful option, and I recommend it.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:36 AM
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Definitely do this except I would say "Hey, wanna fuck shit up tomorrow and then get your guts re arranged?" And then shed say "Bet" And thats how I met your mother.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:51 AM
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😦 Feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 01:19 AM
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Lets be clear I did not say that shit lmao I openly hate feminism, even in person I don't go along with their shit. And I tell them straight up "I fucking hate feminism". Even people in my own friend group lol.
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 01:17 AM
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I agree. Just giving one more reason to not go along with their misandry bullshit.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 05:28 PM
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Yeah exactly.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 04:00 PM
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The guy joins their "cause", and they stil hate him. Read through the comments in that post. Its absolute bat-shit craziness. They are foaming at the mouth shredding men even when the conversation starter is a man who bows to feminazis.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 03:57 PM
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Thailand or Mexico. The U.S is really easy, if you are above average in attractiveness.
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:38 PM
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In essence, that is correct. You forgot the detail where they will be instinctually repelled by regularly being outwardly emotionally vulnerable, or seeking emotional support from them. There are very few exceptions to that rule. We are not talking about exceptions. Everybody already knows that there are exceptions to every rule. The emotional self-care for men manifests itself as us taking control of, and navigating our surroundings to facilitate happiness for ourselves. Outwardly seeking emoti…
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:32 PM
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Your entire side of this convo has been you obtusely refusing to even interpret what I am saying. You are incapable of discussing an idea. You won't even try to understand the idea before you start kicking and screaming in disagreement. You democrat, by chance?
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:29 PM
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Dude I'm literally just explaining the instinctual response that females have toward male emotional expression. You are making this into some idealistic virtue drafting session while also not even understanding what I am saying. Females instinctually lose attraction for males who are regularly outwardly emotional and/or seeking emotional support. That is what I am saying. Now I can explain why that is the case. We're not talking about "oh but it should be like this ___." Or "It would make me fee…
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:56 PM
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They want men who stick up for their life experience. That involves knowing what to do, taking charge, and leading the way through it. They think they want a guy who is outwardly emotional, but that is rarely going to do anything but decrease their attraction to you. A few tears when your dog or a loved one dies is about it. Mild amount of passion expressed for something every now and then is a good thing as well. Anything beyond that is going to trigger instinctual reductions in attraction to y…
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:45 PM
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Its not "society" and it is not going to change. Its a natural instinctual female response to a trait that has never been advantageous for men to have in the entirety of human history. Women will never be naturally attracted to men with vulnerability, insecurity, or any other weakness along those lines. They want men who respond to situations by taking control and LEADING.
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:03 PM
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Yeah I agree. I lift 4 times per week and go to failure on pretty much every set. My body looks completely different than it did 10 months ago when I started.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:45 PM
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1 inch isnt a big difference. But it does take more time and food to make a taller skeleton look filled out with muscle.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:31 PM
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A hard-gainer is a person who does not eat in a caloric surplus, and can't figure out why they aren't gaining muscle. They also think that they are eating in a caloric surplus, but they are definitely not doing that in reality.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:28 PM
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No. There is a 100% certainty that it will have long term side effects. I no longer trust Pharma at all.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 08:56 PM
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Im just gonna put a wig on and go in there Lia Thomas style.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:11 PM
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I do not see a problem here. Women in that age range are mentally mature enough to have adult conversations. They also have peak physical attractiveness at that age. They also have less baggage. Plus if you want children and marriage, thats still on the table with girls that age. At 35, you're gonna be raising a kid thats not yours. I'm personally open to any age range, but my requirements are most often met by women in their early/mid 20s.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:16 PM
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Good, so you really should just go up and talk to girls. Straight up dude you should be talking to a girl in person at least every other day just to get used to it. Once you're used to it, youll know the vibe. Girls are all about vibes and shit. And they vibe wayyy easier if you look good and youre comfortable in convo.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:48 PM
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First step is be well groomed, good hygene, and good looking clothes that fit decent. Second tip is laid back body language. Get comfy as fuck in your chair and dont be fidgety. Dont cross your arms in your lap or any timid gestures. Third is facial expressions and eye contact. Be a little bit interactive with eye contact, smiles, eyebrows etc. Dont be too extra with that stuff, but don't resist doing it. That all helps not being creepy. The flirting kinda escalates after you start a natural con…
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:44 PM
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You need confidence bro. Start by getting fuckin jacked. Its a grind, but you'll look way hotter and also be more confident in like 6 months. For quickest results, focus on these muscle groups: https://youtu.be/DHyzlap5Mjo
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:59 PM
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Get in shape and just be positive and fun around girls. I used to just sit next to them in class and strike up convo by imagining that instead of them being a hot girl, they were actually my best friend. Thats how I got the mental blocks out of the way to start the convo. Then I'd shift the convo based on their responses. Keep it fun and a little flirty.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:56 PM
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You have to be a damn social butterfly and also choose the right girls to go after. Cheerleaders and frat-house floosies are not gonna be your crowd. Art girls and alternative types are more likely to break the norms of wanting a talll guy. Some girls pick guys based entirely on what their friends and others will think. I've seen it. They'll break away from a guy they net at the bar and go over to her friends asking if she should get with him in any capacity lol.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:26 PM
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Yeah you have to be confident and assertive. You gotta build your confidence up, based on what I'm reading here. Work on your career, your physical fitness, and your clothing style. Those are 3 huge things that you can straight up just do yourself. No mysteriousness or confusion about it. Get in social settings and polish up your social skills. If you start doing that, you'll be twice as confident in like 6 months dude. And then maybe you'll see that those guys getting girls aren't being douches…
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:14 PM
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Yeah they'll use birth control as a means of social engineering. The responsible people with foresight who want to wait until they are in position to have a strong nuclear family will not be able to reproduce when they are ready. The irresponsible short sighted idiots will not take "responsible" measures for proper planning of a strong nuclear household. They will impregnate women who will raise feral children, alone, in a house with no real leadership. The only guidance and perspective that the…
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:27 PM
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The apprehension is not irrational. There have not been any long term studies done on it, and we should not blindly trust pharmaseutical companies regarding men's health. The fact that the medical industry considers 270 ng/ml to be in the "normal" range for Total Testosterone tells you everything you need to know about how much they care about men and their endochrine system. I predict severe difficulty in recovering fertility after long term use of the male birth control. I also predict that th…
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:15 PM
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Yeah no matter what Lol. Funny thing is, Im into the punk rock scene a little bit and I do sexy time with a lot of the same type of girls who think they're rebels for hating masculinity. These women that hate masculinity should, theoretically, be attracted to the incels. Incels lack most of what masculinity actually is. Thats why they can't get laid and are unwilling/unable to make themselves fucking hot. Lift weights 3 to 4 times a week, keep your bank account balance above $10,000, and have a …
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:06 PM
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Its like $5 and you can watch her impale herself with a horse sized dildo
/r/AntiFeminists24/03/22 02:32 AM
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Lol that's nothing. You should go on OnlyFans if you want to see real objectification lol.
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/22 05:09 PM
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Do they have kidnapping laws? Thats kidnapping. Or is there a domestic violence charge specifically aimed at you? Because how in the hell is locating your child considered domestic violence?
/r/MensRights18/03/22 08:04 PM
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Dude you honestly think desperation doesn't turn girls off? Btw, good looking guys don't get desperate. But I have seen guys his height with hot girls before. My close friend and roomie at the time had a girl who was probably a 7.5/10. And she was chill and a freak in bed. He had a great personality and a decent amount of muscle. Lots of friends and just a great guy to be around. Thats what she liked in him, I think. Long story short, he eventually got super clingy, acting desperate for constant…
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:07 PM
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I'd say that yeah you definitely need more exposure to women. Honestly what helped me a lot was a time I made friends with a group of girls. We actually just hung out and partied and stuff without me trying to make any moves and keep it just as a normal social circle. It taught me how to actually vibe with girls, and have fun social interactions with them. As that exposure kept going, I started having way better luck with women. I was way better at vibing with them. I say the best thing you coul…
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:15 PM
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Dude right here is part of your problem. You are doing things specifically just to get girls. They can smell and feel a desperate vibe, which is repulsive to them. Stop spending your time doing activities specifically just to get girls. That is the worst possible way to be attractive. You gotta do things that are fun that you're actually all about doing. If a girl gives an indicator of interest of some kind, or a conversation could happen, thats the best. And thats almost always going to happen …
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:06 PM
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The fact that there are actual infringements on mens rights in modern day society. And the entire feminist movement is dedicated to furthering those injustices.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:29 PM
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I specified Modern society. As in, western civilization.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:28 PM
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Yeah its equal here except when women are constantly pandered to while every men's issue is swept under the rug or met with dismay for even bringing it up. Incaeceration rates, for example. Men are arrested and sentanced way harsher than women.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:22 PM
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There is literally nothing in modern society that inherently disadvantages women. You are relentlessly pandered to nearly at all times and still hate the damn world.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:20 PM
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So your issue is mainly with 3rd world countries, by the looks of it. Women are also more prone to injury than men are in sports. Its well known that women have less muscle mass and weaker bones. So there again is a really obvious case of women blaming "patriarchy" for something that is literally just part of female biology. It doesn't matter how you design a car, the males are still going to be more injury-resistant, due to physiological differences.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:18 PM
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Take their arguments and debunk them. Post the actual numbers.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:12 PM
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You'd be surprised to find out that normal everyday women don't sit around on the female versions of incel threads all day and rage about "patriarchy". They have healthy careers and relationships and passions, like for real ones. Not some gaslighting version of "girl power". They actually succeed. I believe most of the modern feminist rage comes from low value women who failed to fulfill passion in life, and are coping by blaming something that is out of their control (gender/sexism/patriarchy).…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:09 PM
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She literally stated that she is a girl and is on girl pages. And she stated that she has noticed that the women automatically don't want to hear from men at all about anything, because they are men.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:01 PM
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Ah so feminists are mainly concerned eith 3rd world countries? That would be a valid area of concern.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:00 PM
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Gender roles are important for the survival of our species and civilizarion. Thats why there are two genders
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:35 PM
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If feminists like what you have to say, you're probably saying too much idiotic shit.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 11:52 PM
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"Show you're willing to fight, only when its safe to do so" Now THATS what I call POWER lol. Being a huge cunt and getting away with it because you're a woman.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:35 PM
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100% Chance. Men have already bowed down to their absurdity and they are even angrier at us than ever.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 05:36 PM
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Correct.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:09 PM
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The alleged "misogyny" that does come into this sub is nowhere NEAR as visious or as prevalent as the misandry in the feminist sub. Almost every single post in that thread is villifying men. Which brings me to my next topic: You came here to villify this entire sub, and call us misogynists. You have no understanding of MRA and you don't even want to. You want to hate us and have already made up your mind, based on the mere fact that men DARE have ANY advocacy group. And then you probably think m…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:07 PM
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"Im nOt sUre a cOmMenT LIkee thAt neEDs dEbUnkINg" Yeah it actually does. Women have different career patterns and mate selection patterns than men do.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 05:35 PM
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People like you are the exact reason we need this sub. Any time anybody advocates for men, its misogyny and its evil and we should be even meaner to men and villify them even harder. Almost like the actual gender being oppressed isn't even allowed to have any advocacy at all. Meanwhile you're practically forced to play along with feminazis who catastrophize every little thing and call it misogyny.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 05:32 PM
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Shes bringing an interesting perspective. You're acting like the male version of a toxic feminist right now.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 05:27 PM
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Its also to go and protect an extremely corrupt government. Ukraine is about as messed up as the USSR was.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 04:25 AM
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If anybody tries forcing me or my fiance to fight against russia, I will make it my duty to kill that person and I will sacrifice my life for that cause.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 07:34 PM
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Its mostly that last part, I think. I suppose if I just walked up to girls that gave me zero eye contact or possible signals of interest, it would be a really low rate. Most of mine are from the dance floor at bars... Weddings... Or girls checking me out from across the bar waiting for drinks. Thats all in a college setting, as well.
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:22 AM
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Welp, maybe Im not as ugly as I thought lol
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:51 PM
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Its more effective than swiping. 10,000 swipes might get you laid twice. Cold approach is 1 in 10 even if you're ugly.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:29 PM
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Im not sure what you propse is going on here. Maybe the OP can chime in and tell us about these guys she sees. You think they're short and skinnyfat? And you think you'ee the one closer to the truth? God bless your heart lol
/r/MensRights21/02/22 05:52 PM
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1- Shorter than the guys she is swooning over 2- Not as fit 3- Doesnt apply to the situation, as these guys are just passing by 4- Doesnt matter very much if you're out of shape.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah man I totally forgot to allow for the possibility that she's checking out shorter guys with less muscle and more fat. Great point bro, thats what gets the ladies excited.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 04:46 PM
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Its not his fault that his woman is attracted to muscular men. Its not her fault either. But the only thing he can do is get some muscle on him and he'll start seeing the female attention going up. I was skinnyfat about a year and a half ago. Now I have about 20Lbs more muscle on me, and the difference with women is night and day. I barely even have to try, whereas I would just get a dirty "don't talk to me" look if I went up to girls before.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 04:25 PM
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You're doing it all wrong. You are letting her treat you like a doormat. Almost all women WILL treat you like a doormat, if you put yourself in that position. And then they lose respect for you. And then her attraction is GONE. Stop this "doing everything possible to make her ferl better" shit. You're just signalling to her that you are desperate for her, which means you don't have options. Its a really unattractive way to carry yourself in a relationship. Its not a tasteful analogy, but the old…
/r/MensRights21/02/22 04:18 PM
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Not if you're in good shape and have a decent life stablished. Like somewhat decent financial position and muscle tone. You'll pull easy!
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:29 PM
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Yeah dude you better hit the gym.. Promise all of these "More her type" guys have muscle tone and are taller than you. But you cant change height so just work out.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 08:15 PM
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Helps if you stay working out in the gym and avoiding her a little bit more..
/r/MensRights31/01/22 06:21 PM
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Find a different girl. Don't be a shitbag
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:29 PM
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Thats because they are the most common, by far. Just look at reddit for example. Its actually rare to find a thread that doesn't end up being a white male bashing session. Nobody wants to even acknowledge that, though. Just watch how much I get downvoted for pointing it out!
/r/MensRights12/01/22 06:26 PM
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About time!
/r/MensRights12/01/22 06:22 PM
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Thats actually pretty natural. Modern day females being attracted to effeminate men is primarily due to the influence of mass usage of hormonally altering birth control. There are studies published on how birth control influences what women are attracted to in partners.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:43 PM
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Yeah crying once in a great while is good if its for a good reason. But lets say you had a guy who cried regularly, you'd eventually instinctually view him as weaker. Its not a conscious decision.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:33 PM
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Not if its very well justified and only happens once in a great while. Do it too often and yeah you're going to look like a little bitch and she'll realize that shes not actually THAT into emotionally charged men.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:30 PM
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The minute you start making concessions like that is the minute she subconciously realizes that you are spineless and that she is in charge of you. That will cause her to lose respect for you eventually, and she will lose attraction.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:38 PM
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Dude with that many girls, there is most ikely going to be at least 3 that will cock block you lol. Your only chance is if alll of the girls there like you and find you attractive. Then their secret little talks will approve maybe one to get with you lol.
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:41 PM
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You can foster a dog or just adopt one! I like the idea of fostering dogs regardless of this topic. Its a good way to learn if you're going to be a gold long term pet owner.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:58 PM
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This is why you only Netflix and Chill. Its not that hard guys lol.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:09 PM
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Absolutely. The women are much more approachable and friendly than they are in the U.S.
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:59 PM
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Work on shoulder and neck exercises. They make your shoulders look wider. And a wider neck makes you look like a boss. Show your smile and maybe get some shoes that have a thicker soul, as even a half inch can be the difference between a girl thinking shes taller than you, and knowing shes shorter than you.
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:26 PM
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Dude you need a few drinks at a bar and then a movie at your place. And make a damn move literally anything at this point as long as you are bkth clearly having fun at all together.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:05 AM
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With all of the birth control that girls are pumped up on, its no wonder that low libido is more and more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:47 PM
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Nice job man! Focus on building shoulder, neck, and back muscles. Biceps and triceps too.
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:32 PM
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You know how to dance.... Yet none of your stories involve dancing with girls at parties or bars. WHY? Its pretty easy. Go out with some friends who you actualky have fun with at bars... Find a girl who looks like she isn't there with a BF or isn't suuper involved in some group convo already. Stand next to her and wait like you're ordering a drink. Strike up a normal convo about something right here right now, like as soon as something comes up. Those convos about things that are happening right…
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:23 PM
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When did this encounter happen, and when did she break up with you? Jw. By the way a good idea is to stack a little muscle on. Nothing crazy, but I did that and started getting treated with way more respect by both males and females just by looking like I'm not a weakling.
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:18 PM
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