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| 23 | This video is very eye opening about how women are treated in the p*** industry. THIS is what p*** watchers support. Please don't watch it if you are sensitive. 😣Her name is Shelley Lubben. She was a pornographic actress but she transformed her life and became a motivational speaker, author and singer. She has written a book called "Truth behind the fantasy of porn". I'll definitely be reading it. Sadly she passed away in 2019. 😔 She used her experiences to educate and spread awareness about the real truth behind porn. I can't believe I just found out about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 14 | This video is very eye opening about how women are treated in the p*** industry. THIS is what p*** watchers support. Please don't watch it if you are sensitive. 😣I don't mean to trigger anybody, but I feel like this needed to be shared so that more and more people can be aware about it. I debated putting this on here but I wanted to display how much pain and abuse women in porn go through while a lot of the famous "actresses" love to pretend that those problems don't exist. There are real women who go through this. If an industry supports child labour by employing 5 children we wouldn't stop punishment because it's only 5 children and not 50. I hope you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:24 PM |
| 25 | Marina- I love you, but I love me moreBurned me at the stake, you thought I was a witch.. Centuries ago now you just call me a bitch 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 21 | Just some tips about how to keep yourselves safe.Thank you for this post! I hate that you had to put the disclaimer that this wasn't victim blaming. The kind of narrative that trying to protect oneself from assault is victim blaming is spread by libfems who can't make a change in the world. Everyone knows that these Libfems aren't going to support a woman if she get assaulted. They are only good at making noise. I do get frustrated sometimes though. The responsibility of not getting assaulted is always on the woman's shoulder and it can get sc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 178 | 🔔🔔🔔🔔 You are not a Rehabilitation Centre for Badly Raised Men, so you don't have to tolerate them, sit through the horrible date, look at them, listen to rants, feed them, raise them, finance them, parent them, better them 🔔🔔🔔🔔 Use that energy for You! 💋💄👠🤸♀️💎👩💻🦸♀️👩🎨"Be a good woman to a good man, but be an absolute noone to a nobody." ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 36 | Marina- I love you, but I love me moreI love Marina!!! I was just listening to this song. I love her comeback she's truly a queen ❤️❤️😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 11 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡Reminds me of how men complain that women don't pay on dates and when they do they feel emasculated. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 27 | Painful and confusing thoughtsI was raped and molested by a teacher of mine from between the ages of 10 to 11. I relate with you on a lot levels. We have different stories, but I can understand the pain you must have went through. My heart goes out to you sis, I know it will get better for both of us ❤️❤️ I don't like writing that story again but I'll link a comment where I discussed it. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mtda2e/there_are_a_lot_of_different_flairs_this_couldve/guzgnek?utm_medium=android_a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 6 | This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing)found it lol look up "Mick Jagger is a sexless incel" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:20 PM |
| 232 | Remember the Chris Watts family murder? There is a subreddit dedicated to blaming the wife and people who wish they could have murdered her too. 137 women are murdered everyday by their partner. Be safe ladies, these men are everywhere.In a world where violence towards women is subtly ignored, dismissed, even normalized..In a world where men create industries worth billions of dollars to hurt and dehumanise women.. in a world where men can openly talk about gutting women, raping them, shooting them.. In a world where the justice system is awful towards females.. in a world where men run everything and make sure to keep women down and when they fail, to make sure they feel awful about themselves.. are we really surprised? I kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Woman asked for help to become a better runner. I block people like this.Argh. What a disgusting scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 58 | Meeting older HVW inspires me!!I went to the Maldives as a young 24 year old after collecting some money along with my 3 friends as a girl's trip of sorts. I remember being at this lovely restaurant near the beach and this older gentleman (who was with his wife) reached out to me because his wife had asked him to look out for me, I was alone at the restaurant and drugging of younger girls especially those who don't know the language was very common. I remember I spent about 10 minutes with them while they talked to me about m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 13 | This image is so funny to me so I had to edit it 😂 (Sorry for the shabby writing)It did? Wow I feel honoured 🥰 can you say the title of the post so I can look it up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:45 PM |
| 15 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡What was the post about? I checked your profile, and you don't seem like a pickme to me haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:05 AM |
| 77 | If you miss Pinkpill Feminism, Blackpill Feminism etc...Definitely going to check this out. I desperately want an all female community (besides FDS haha) that shares these same principles! ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:02 AM |
| 261 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔Omggg! I once was messaging this guy and he said that he was looking for a serious relationship with a woman on his profile. When we started messaging he said that he already found a girlfriend and was looking for a threesome. I'm never going to try to "online date" again. 🤡🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:00 AM |
| 23 | Field report - how LVM masquerade as HVMIt is I shouldn't have used that emoji hold on 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:56 AM |
| 148 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡This reminds me of another post I saw on FDS a while ago, of a spanish woman saying that she gets her own money and pays for dates. Her comment section was filled with stuff like, "Well we all know you get that money by working at the corner".🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:55 AM |
| 42 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡Ikr. Some young boys do need a little bit of body positivity and if this woman wanted to make this post.. what's wrong with it? These are the same men who get mad at women for not talking about and caring for men's issues. They don't even care about men, they care about shutting down women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:52 AM |
| 152 | Field report - how LVM masquerade as HVMI don't really know what to say. This is so so prevalent in the real world and this has killed my want to find a partner. Most men who appear to have it all together slip up and start showing their sexism, their inferiority complex, cheapness, issues with their masculinity, anger issues, etc. Sometimes I wish I wasn't straight. You know the quote that LVMs love to use? "Chivalry is dead and women have killed it". Well, I would like to make my own quote. "Marriage rates and birth rates are dying … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:48 AM |
| 226 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡They hate you if you support them and they hate you if you don't. There's no proof that woman has an OF and even if she did, who fucking cares? Wasn't she being nice? They are mad if you charge to show nudes and they are mad if you don't. There's no winning with scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:40 AM |
| 133 | Imposed ideas of femininity harm and oppress women - Change my mind. 🥰"How to be feminine", "How to make a man desire you","How to keep your down there fresh for your man" GOSH. I've seen so many titles like these on the internet. Let me clear one thing out, nothing wrong with taking care of yourself to please a partner who does the same for you. But I've never seen men being encouraged to change how they act or look to attract a feminine woman. Never seen a guy being told his down there should smell like roses so the woman who goes down on him would taste nothing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:00 AM |
| 43 | Are there men who don't look at porn?I agree with you. Another thing could be that porn isn't made for women to enjoy. It's made for men to lessen, degrade and harm women in their fantasies. I saw a comment on FDS a while ago that to men we are just body parts, that's why a lot of men like doggy style where they don't share an intimate moment of looking in their women's eyes or kissing her. That was so scary to me. Because it's true. Porn is objectifying women to their asses, vulvas and mouth. It's all about what the women does for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 244 | I really hope there aren’t women nodding in agreement to this.Men don't ask for nudes so they can look at your naked body and marvel at how much they admire it. They want them so they can jerk off at them and share them with their male friends who are going to do the same. If that isn't the case, he might ridicule you and spread it around to lower your reputation. Don't even get me started on revenge porn AND FAKE revenge porn. Some men are so awful that they photoshop pictures of women on pornstars or pictures online so they can shame you. Don't ever ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:24 AM |
| 8 | DON'T PICK ME - Rap song written by a former pickme (me)This is actually good! It sorta reminds me of the first verse in Moment 4 life by Nicki Minaj. Drake's verse ruined the FDS energy in that song 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 135 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Just know you will be missed by everyone on this subreddit. Your posts have helped me as well as all the other women on here. You are a great human being and I am so sad to know you won't be posting anymore 😔❤️❤️please take care of yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 134 | Why you should avoid men in the militaryI don't know if this is a concrete reason not to date a person in the military because people are different but here I go anyways.. I would never date someone who's a police officer, army officer, whatever because they have a tendency to be aggressive. That's kind of their job. The last man I talked to who was in the army was very very aggressive. He would get super angry in like a second. He would threaten to harm people and that made me feel very unsafe with him. I always felt like if he can b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 61 | It's empowering!!! /sI hate it so much that young people are normalising sex work. I'm disgusted tbh. The fact that women and girls find it empowering to dance for a bunch of men to earn cash is shameful to the feminists who fought for women's rights. They didn't fight for women to take their clothes off and dance to please men's dicks. Idc if this is a controversial opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don't need to *organism* 😂🙄Of course he hasn't. What's sad is that most of the women who have had children have never had an orgasm during sex with their partner. I was having a conversation with my mom a while ago and she said that women and men would sleep in different rooms (in our culture) and men would just go to the woman to "satisfy his needs" and then leave the woman alone. "Just lift their dresses and do what they needed to do" 🤢 That's how most kids were 'made' back in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 43 | My thoughts on Whorephobia that I forgot to mention on the podcast. TL;DR: a lot of what is labelled "whorephobia" is actually just regular run-of-the-mill misogyny.Exactly. I often feel bad about sex-workers because they are products of the patriarchy. They wouldn't be selling their bodies if men weren't willing to buy it. A ton of times, these women are trafficked too, but that's a different story. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:48 AM |
| 127 | Women don’t exist for your objectifying male gaze.I was looking at this guru's interviews and one interviewer (who was a woman) asked him why he believed women should dress modestly and boys don't have to. He literally LAUGHED and said, "Because girls are looked at but no-one looks at boys. Boys don't need to worry about their looks to find a good wife." I never really respected him, but I lost all respect for him at that moment 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:35 AM |
| 221 | If we’re Femcels, then why are Scrotes so obsessed with us??? 🧐I absolutely LOVE when scrotes call us incels.🙄 I've received some messages from random men on here calling me an incel. I just don't understand. I didn't know that having standards to protect oneself from abuse and trauma is considered being sexist. And also, even if I was sexist.. atleast none of us have shot up schools or killed a bunch of women in a fit of rage. Noone of us actively advocate to legalise rape and illegalise abortion. Noone of us fantasise about hurting women. It's simply a te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Why FDS exists. ❤️🥰You're welcome ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 238 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈"young girl full of life" isn't that how grandparents describe their grandkids? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 39 | When the roles are reversed 😋💅🏽Do you still have to ask? We all know internally😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 78 | When the roles are reversed 😋💅🏽The fact that these ads were allowed is disturbing in itself. You still see sexism towards women in commercials and advertising till this day, but it's less "apparent" as compared to this. Nowadays we have images of women's body parts being zoomed at to sell a product. It didn't go away, it evolved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 82 | Nah. Just say you're incompetent and go. I'm so tired of content like this being encouraged all over the internet to make men like this feel better about being the lesser one. It's okay to be 'less' than your partner, but really? 🤡Exactly. He's just existing like a little boy being pampered by his mommy. "I'm still a man right?" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 96 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈That's a good one 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 444 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!I love when men like these tell on themselves. Atleast there's no wasted effort with these dudes. What makes them believe it's going to attract people? Argh 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | I hope it's satire 🤢🤡Oh, sorry haha and yeah you're right :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 9 | I hope it's satire 🤢🤡He said 2 minutes tho... 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 4 | I hope it's satire 🤢🤡I hope so, but you never know 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 28 | To all the dudes who call us incels, shameless, gold diggers, sexist.. don't be mad you can't pull us even if you tried. I know you're mad you can't get access to every woman's body and we don't listen to you. I know you're mad. What you are defending directly oppresses women. Sit yo ass down 💅🏽🥰I always get messages like, "wow you will die alone" or "you are so sexist" and my personal favourite "have fun spending the rest of your life changing your partner's batteries" 🥰 I will, thank you. And he will do more for me than your little dick can do for any woman. 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 15 | To all the dudes who call us incels, shameless, gold diggers, sexist.. don't be mad you can't pull us even if you tried. I know you're mad you can't get access to every woman's body and we don't listen to you. I know you're mad. What you are defending directly oppresses women. Sit yo ass down 💅🏽🥰They radiate negative energy, exactly. No need for that in my life 🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 61 | 16 and need guidance from an older womanI'm also Indian :) Trying to impress boys of your age (of any age haha) is not it. I would just like to advice you to stay away from dating at the moment. You don't have to worry about being masculine. You WON'T have to when you're a successful woman making her own money. Boys your age nowadays generally have brains that are fried from porn, plus none of them could ever treat you the way you want. Most of them don't know how to. I wouldn't want you to be hateful towards a group of people, it wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 91 | Why is it that women get shamed for being "gold diggers" (even though they aren't) but men can get away with using women so much? Answer: Patriarchy.And that's exactly why we are called controversial. Grown men can't handle we expose all of their secrets because their feefees get hurt. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 14 | How to become a HVW?First of all, I'm so proud of you for trying to consciously better yourself. That takes courage ❤️ Everyone's a work in progress, so don't speak badly about yourself. As they say, trust the process. I suffer from depression, and the lowest time of my life came in 2018. I really had to work hard and I'm proud of myself now. I can list a few things that helped me overall to make me a better person. Remember, everything takes time. Do one of these things today and do it again tomorrow. Take it slow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 79 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.This is so true! I saw another comment on here a while ago that basically said the same thing. Men don't care if you have a really pretty face if you don't show off your body or wear makeup (and they have the nerve to shame them). For some reason, the natural form of a woman isn't attractive to men. I heard a quote by a wise aunt of mine that went like, "why do women put all that effort to look good (aka to wear "sexy" dresses) to impress a guy if he's gonna take it all off anyways or just shame… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:38 PM |
| 27 | "Remember when modesty was the golden rule?" -Do you remember when people actually condemned and punished people for sexualizing highschoolers? 🤢🤢 Btw, almost all of the commenters like this were women. 😣I once saw 2 women in burqas being "checked out" (you know the creepy stare men give when they size you up by looking you up and down) by a man on the sidewalk. The only thing visible on them that could 'entice' him was their eyes. The girls immediately walked away from him and tried to keep their distance all the while looking down to not come off intimidating. That dude was an ugly skinny guy who shamelessly just stared at them as they walked away. Why is it that they got stared at? Why do wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:23 AM |
| 30 | "Remember when modesty was the golden rule?" -Do you remember when people actually condemned and punished people for sexualizing highschoolers? 🤢🤢 Btw, almost all of the commenters like this were women. 😣The worse part is.. these aren't even women. Literal 15 year old KIDS are told to cover up. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:17 AM |
| 22 | "Remember when modesty was the golden rule?" -Do you remember when people actually condemned and punished people for sexualizing highschoolers? 🤢🤢 Btw, almost all of the commenters like this were women. 😣I found these slides on instagram @you.look.like.a.man , had to censor names again due to rules | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 312 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.To the male lurkers who are probably going to harrass OP, dick cheese isn't attractive my lads 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:19 AM |
| 6 | I had to take a breather after looking at him (Anuj Singh Duhan)Yeah!! I just noticed it. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:04 AM |
| 15 | This was the hardest thing I ever had to do but he’s officially blocked from my life. Thank you FDS.I'm so happy for you ❤️ I would have refrained from giving that explanation in the end, seems to be wasted energy with LVMs like those. Time to get your nails done! 💅🏽😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 73 | What the "critics" think this subreddit is teaching women vs. What it's actually teaching womenAs it's been said again and again, where is the gold? I swear if I hear another walmart manager talking about how he hates gold diggers I will explode 🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:23 AM |
| 348 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".I had a friend who's SO went to Florida for a friend's trip and she didn't think much of it. When he came back, she realised he was a little distant and cold towards her. She finally decided to check his phone one day and in his friend's groupchat, there were images and videos of him kissing and touching other women. All of his "boys" were saying really dirty things about him and that girl and my friend was PISSED. They had a huge argument and broke up. Had she not seen that, she probably would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:59 AM |
| 12 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outI hope you have a wonderful married life with your partner :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:52 AM |
| 65 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outIt's such a red flag if someone proposes too early! It means that they are trying to marriage trap you, it's so toxic. Plus a few months is nothing to know if you would like to be married with someone. Marriage is a sensitive topic, and it works differently for people but I agree with you haha 2-3 years is it ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:51 AM |
| 23 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outI understand, we don't really need marriage to have an understanding relationship with a companion. Well said ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:48 AM |
| 35 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outMarriage is a beautiful union when done right, but yeah. It has never benefited women. However, it's still very important for people in our society and the post wasn't flexing marriage or anything, just saying that if someone takes a long time to propose he might not be as serious about you I'm sorry if I came off weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:45 AM |
| 7 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outAnd that's perfectly fine! :) I said that most people have a general idea whether they would like to spend their time in a serious relationship/marriage with someone by the 1 year mark ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:41 AM |
| 108 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outI agree. 3-6 months are not serious at all, most people are just getting to know each other in the relationship at that point. I honestly have a mixed opinion on marriage but I do realise it's important in people's life. At the same time, I've seen couples in relationships sticking together for over 10 years without a ring. 2-3 years is perfect for me, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:40 AM |
| 186 | Ignorance is bliss I guess??The worst excuses from pickmes I've heard over this : "But..but we check girls out together!" "It's not like he's having sex with them, he can look if he wants" "I look at other men too, it's not cheating." " Men are visual creatures, if they find her attractive they will look." " But the girl's ass is out, it's her fault for enticing him!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 153 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩This guy has a ton of red flags. Besides the ones that are very obvious, I found a few others. I'll write them below, please keep track of these in a person before you decide to develop any type of relationship with them, it can come to bite you in the ass. 1) He says that his friends and family know that he's a good person and he's loyal, honest, etc. I really hate when people advertise themselves like this, even on a dating app. Most of the time, what they say is the opposite of what they are.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:57 AM |
| 106 | She gives him 6 YeArS and he begrudges her 5 days?!?!Why would you even stay in a relationship after the 2 year mark and he still hasn't proposed? If he doesn't start talking to you about marriage one year in then he's just wasting your time sis. The second he finds another girl he actually wants to impress, he'll leave you and the other girl's ring will come sooner than 2 years. Stop believing these dudes' lies!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:41 AM |
| 19 | No words...Omg yes 😂😂❤️ atleast dogs show genuine love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 62 | There’s nothing better than women supporting other women speaking the truthfinally not being gaslit because of my feminism by everyone and every narrative in society Ikr! I always get trashed for my "CoNtRoVeRsIaL" opinions in real life by some of my female friends. When they really aren't controversial, just the truth that people don't want to accept. I'm always kinda pissed off at them lol. The fact is, men use women who don't agree with feminist ideas (for some reason, maybe they are deluded) to "make a point" that those ideas are useless. I had a guy recently DM me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:35 AM |
| 68 | No words...What the fuck.. the fact that this guy had to pretend to love her like he loves his dog so he could do those things just shows he doesn't care about her. You know reddit is filled with mostly men because look at all those awards. I know for sure that some of these dudes are gonna take this as advice 🤮 I'm so sorry for the girl. I always heard that if someone loses interest once, it's nearly impossible to bring it back. That's the reason why we should never chase. My motto is 'Never chase, just r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:27 AM |
| 54 | I'm always astoundedI agree with ya so much. I'm literally so surprised that even after going through so much and seeing all these red flags, these women still stay with them. I once heard a quote that a man can sometimes hurt a woman so bad that she wouldn't even know who to be mad at. And most of the times, they are mad at themselves thinking about what THEY could do better to keep the relationship instead of leaving him. I guess a lot of it has to do with loneliness. I've been so turned off from the idea of dati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | 🙄"Give me a reason to smile, your face ain't it". 💅🏽😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 182 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭If a random guy asks me this question and I feel safe enough to say this, I always say "not you." And watch them get angry and then quickly become ashamed. I don't care if i seem like an asshole. Did you just expect me to list out all the qualities I like in a man? 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:50 PM |
| 108 | To the poster and the 3000 men and pickmes who liked the post.. who's going to tell them that it isn't the 1950s anymore? (Explanation in the comments)First off, I would like to clarify that there is nothing wrong with caring for your HUSBAND, when he equally cares for you back. The page that posted this is a red pilled page on instagram run by a bald guy who's past the wall (in his 50s lol) who is very bitter about women. Most of his posts are alright, but he drops very weird gems like these once in a while. It's quite clear he does so to get a reaction, and if that's not the case, then It's probably something he is preaching to his followers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 102 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.The quote 'appearance doesn't matter as much as the personality' definitely holds true in this situation. My mom is a beautiful woman, and used to be incredibly stunning when she was younger. She was one of those girls that had guys drooling after her in school (ew). When I was a teenager, I would ask her for advice and she would always tell me that there are millions of pretty girls out there. Infact, most girls are absolutely gorgeous. What really matters is how we conduct ourselves and our in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 132 | Irritating Difference in Treatment of Female Anger v Male Anger"When I am assertive, I'm a bitch. When a man is assertive, he's a boss. No negative connotation behind bossed up, but lots of negative connotation behind being a bitch." - Nicki Minaj | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 91 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.Oh, I hate the "teen" and "barely legal" things. They creep me the fuck out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 83 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I made a comment a while ago that men who like BDSM are sexists. And a guy automatically messaged me saying that he loves femdom and asked me if that still made him an asshole. The conversation ended with him cussing me out. These people exist smh 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 68 | Well...it's true for some ladies but not us 😂👀💅🏽The "x woke up and chose violence" is said when a person speaks absolute facts and it comes off aggressive. It's said in a joking way online :) I didn't like that they called her grandma, but I left it as it was :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 196 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I remember when men used to make jokes about all the public hair on porn actors and actresses in the 70s and how they much prefer it now. I've had conversations with men who would just say, "you can prefer height, and I can prefer a hairless vagina". Men's preferences (as displayed through the most viewed content online) tells a lot about men as a whole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 503 | FunnyI once heard a quote that if men could have babies, they would have reproductive health clinics on every block so they could have all the access to safe procedures 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 79 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I never even thought of it like that. Thank you for commenting this This might not be related to the discussion, but one reason that the same standards aren't applied to WOC is because they were never seen as the "desired" women in western society. WOC are still, never portrayed as feminine or attractive to other men. They are shown as outspoken or "ratchet" in media. As a WOC myself, I wouldn't be held at the same standard as a white woman. Even if WOC are shown as attractive, they are fetishiz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 60 | I was just thinking about this. After writing it down and reading it, it hit me like a ton of bricks. That industry literally profits off of p*dos.I'm happy you brought up those content creators. I am very disgusted at them, but I'm more disgusted at the men who like and support them. There is no supply without demand, and sex workers online know that most men are pedophilic, so they cater to them. The police in a state of my country issued a statistic that most men who raped and abused woman and kids watched porn before committing the crime. It makes me so sad that we live in a world like this :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Scrote confesses that being single makes you live longer 😂I was watching a video online that said that matriarchal societies where woman have their own agency and have the right to make decisions live longer. So yes, Mr. Scrotum Dirtynutsack, she will be living longer. And to be a doctor as a desi woman in a country where a lot of girls don't even get education is empowering and liberating and sets a good example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 123 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.I heard of a case a while ago where a middle aged rich man abused a woman who had severe mental issues and suicidal thoughts and ultimately killed her. He would repeatedly stab her body during sex. The woman never told anybody until a friend of hers saw her shirt lift and saw the knife wounds on her back. She tried talking her out of the relationship, but the woman didn't comply. The man ultimately killed her in a park while having sex in the early morning when he didn't stop stabbing her even w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 364 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.This is so disturbing. I feel so horrible for the poor girl. That guy is an actual psychopath if he finds pleasure in making his sexual partners cry. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable and romantic, not whatever this is. I hope that girl leaves him and finds herself again :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 12 | My favorite hottie this week 🔥🔥🔥This reminds me of a post I saw on another subreddit a while ago where an incel's father found a folder in his room that he had made filled with images of shirtless men with abs and the father asked him if he was gay. That incel was asking others for advice on how to convince his father he was straight 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:53 AM |
| 15 | My favorite hottie this week 🔥🔥🔥That's so funny lol, I find it so weird that some men are so obsessed with other men's looks that they have categories for different types of "Chads" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:39 AM |
| 8 | Girls, it's that time of the week again! Post your hotties! 🔥👨🚒🦸♂️🏊♂️🏃🧔🏄♂️🔥Yay! I missed the party last time but I posted a hottie this week 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:38 AM |
| 66 | ~Anyone anywhere bringing up women's issues~ Men and pickmes: bUt WhAt aBoUt MeN? wHaT aBoUt MuH pEnIs?Exactly. Where was this activism before OP made the post? Do you genuinely campaign and strive to end male circumcision on the daily like the people in the image do? Men don't even care about the real issues surrounding men. No man brings up the male suicide rate unless the female rape statistics are shown. No man shows the statistics on homeless men in the USA unless women are complaining about the pink tax or discrimination in the workplace. No man brings up the draft (not an issue to me, idk)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 38 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!Detach yourself from him immediately. Block and delete his number/social media or whatever medium he is using to contact you. Remember all the disrespect, the hurt, the shame, the regret he put you through when you found out he cheated on you. Just know that if you accept him back in your life, it will most likely be the same story. He would end up cheating again, or being distant. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Just think about this, if he really valued you as a woman in his life that he wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 135 | “You deserve it.”When I read the title, I immediately thought it was said to you in a negative way after you shared something tragic that had happened to you. But reading the post I realised it was all wholesome ❤️ I'm very happy for you and I hope the moving process goes well. But keep vetting and getting to know him :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 48 | Why scrotes hate single moms...I agree with you so much, it really baffles me how men who claim to be masculine would interfere so much in a random woman's business. Our patriarchal society enables them. I would like to add another reason: Most dudes who hate single mothers are the same ones who slutshame women. To them, single mothers are women who chose to have sex with the presumed "chad" (thank you red pill community for introducing me to that term 🙂) and got pregnant and now regret it and are looking for a man (similar t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 100 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOIt's never your fault. What you chose to wear or how you choose to act has nothing to do with how he treated you. If that was the case, girls in niqabs wouldn't get harassed or assaulted. It's their mentality, not you. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I'm also really proud of you for cutting him out of your life and calling his bullshit out too! ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 140 | I love it when I see FDS ideologies on other social media platforms🥰Most of the time what scrotes call "high maintenance behaviour" is just basic human behaviour. Sorry I expect you to be respectful to everyone and have basic hygiene skills so your own ass doesn't stink. Apparently it's my fault? 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:02 PM |
| 5 | What do women bring to the table ?Don't ever doubt yourself, girl. You bring your presence to the table. You bring your femininity, something that dudes literally spend all their lifetime trying to surround themselves with. That's literally the greatest power of a woman over a man. Feminine energy never chases, it's always the masculine that does. You bring your sensuality, your duality, your intellect, your love. You bring your character, something that can never be bought ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:58 PM |
| 187 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOArgh! Or when he snoops through her diary to get to know her preferences so he can impress her. Stalker much? 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:54 PM |
| 258 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOI saw this thing on the internet and it honestly changed my perspective about the "friendzone". It basically went that guys who say that they are in the friendzone aren't friends at all, and any guy who expects people (and especially the girl he's "friends" with) to give him sympathy, he's an asshole. A manipulative, selfish asshole. Imagine thinking that the only reason to get close to a girl is to find a way to get in her pants. I was shocked when dudes online confessed that they could never j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 135 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOIkr. I've distanced myself from dudes and made my interaction with them as short as possible. My life is so peaceful now haha. I didn't realise how much stress came from dudes being rude or stupid and me having to explain things over and over again or being asked to "debate" 🙄 if I ever disagreed. I've started to spend more time with girls and it's honestly made me so much happier! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 139 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I'm literally speechless. I assume it's a joke, but some dudes actually are like this. And even if they aren't, joking about stuff like this this just shows how much regard they give to women and their emotions. It's almost like the only purpose of a woman is to make their dick feel good. I've literally distanced myself from men in my life, and I've noticed how peaceful my life has become. No stress, no drama, no nothing. 😚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:42 PM |
| 106 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Sexism is universal and it's accepted and even encouraged by groups of men. Young boys and girls are conditioned to it ever since they are young. Boys are allowed to be rough and play for hours outside while girls are discouraged from being out till late and being rough or "acting like a boy''.🙄 Obviously we see it happen when those same kids grow up. I swear I've seen literal kids and teens nowadays being disrespectful and show outright sexist behaviour in an attempt of comedy. This still defin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 333 | Nothing but factsShe didn't have to go so hard but we appreciate that she did. 😂🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 36 | Why women hate porn: it harms and objectifies women. 🤡 Why men hate porn: 🤡Men don't care. If men as a whole really cared about women and their dignity, porn wouldn't exist. Neither would rape or any type of abuse. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 242 | Why women hate porn: it harms and objectifies women. 🤡 Why men hate porn: 🤡I see this all the time! Men don't care about women, they only care about themselves. I've seen many videos on the no fap movement and they never talk about how much the porn industry abuses women, or how it traffics literal kids and young girls. They really don't care about us. I've had convos with sexist (or as they would say, "conservative") men and they have outright said to me they don't care about women's issues, they only care about the women in their family "as long as they don't do anyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 04:23 AM |
| 60 | Media portrays victims of domestic violence as vengeful exwifesI was shook as they talked about multiple women accusing their ex husbands of domestic violence as some form of genius PR trick or a way to win custody over the kids. Women who were beaten and raped by their husbands are seen as vengeful manipulative bitches. Their privileges as rich famous women don't even help them in the slightest to get justice. Accuses of domestic violence are portrayed as something women just claim when they are angry at their ex. This type of thinking is unfortunately way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 134 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmI can't believe so many men know nothing about women's bodies and whatever false information they learn is from porn. I had a guy genuinely ask me if he would be able to make me squirt because he hasn't seen a woman do that in real life. I was like, ummm 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 216 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmI hate how men will always blame women, doesn't matter if the issue has nothing to do with women. This pathetic loser is complaining that he wishes that he could orgasm multiple times in a row, just like women. First of all, he can. There's this book I read a while ago called 'The multi orgasmic man' and it explains how orgasm doesn't have to mean ejaculation. Secondly, most women in straight relationships don't have an orgasm (they should!) as their partners aren't good in bed and/or don't put … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:27 AM |
| 8 | It's okay for them to be entertained by grossed out porn but if the shoe is on the other foot..."you want to try anal? Sure bend over." 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:58 AM |
| 9 | I need support. I need to be reminded this is the right choice.I consider average joe an insult considering how average men tend to behave, but yes it sounds wrong. I'll edit my comment. I'm sorry ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 54 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.I moved from that state, that's how the abuse stopped. So I really don't know. I hope I was the only one, I don't want to think of another child he could have done that to 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 271 | My hopes for the new generation of girls (from @extrafabulous on Twitter)This is funny and also really deep 😂❤️ My mom always told me, you go to school for education, not to impress boys. Focus on studies, kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 202 | “sUB dROp” 🤦🏾♀️I felt these too, and it's definitely your brain telling you no. Please never engage in kink friendly communities, they are very toxic as they will find any way to pull you back and label you judgemental if don't comply. Take care of yourself ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 81 | I need support. I need to be reminded this is the right choice.You absolutely made the right choice! If you have to second guess a relationship then it isn't worth it. I'm very proud of you for taking time out for yourself and moving out to focus on yourself. I think this can be a great time for you to figure yourself out and what you need to do next. I'm with you on this sis! ❤️ I have to be honest, from your description of him, he seems like a LVM. I'm glad you're turning things around and transforming yourself! I'm here if you want to talk :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:35 PM |
| 94 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.That also works 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 35 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)Yes I did ❤️ and it's very true. I've never heard a woman spewing hate towards men for no reason unless it's a statement about how men talk about women. I've never seen women make fun of, abuse, and manipulate men at a huge level. Almost every woman I know has been sexually, emotionally, physically abused by a man at some point of their lives, men can never claim to be the more disadvantaged sex directly because of women. Like ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 128 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.This is so true. I've heard grown men say that it's none of their business if they see a guy they know abusing his wife/gf because the guy is respectful and smart outside of that. It's truly shameful that straight men have more compassion and respect towards other men than they do for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 455 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.I always heard that men are supposed to be the protectors but I've never seen a man who is unafraid of being hurt to protect a woman. If I see a woman getting harassed, I'm more likely to step in (like most girls) and help the girl than a man who's standing nearby. It's like their testesterone is only good for harming women and children and not for when it's needed. "Men are natural protectors" my ass 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Uh huhI do agree with what the woman did, but why do I feel like it's fake? like it's meant to enrage the bdsm community to hate us? 😂 I don't think there was an actual couple where the woman found FDS and stopped participating in it, rather it's a lonely guy who lurked on FDS one time and now he hates it 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 399 | Comic fanboys being depraved 🥲Remember when the new movie (Birds of Prey) came out which had a female director, and thus portraying what we call the "female gaze" where the character was allowed to let her personality shine more and not appear sexualized even through she was wearing the same clothes and acted almost the same, people (men lol) started saying that the movie was ruined due to feminist agenda and "ruining her sex appeal to men". They also used that as an excuse to explain why men didn't watch the movie. Is this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 306 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.[Trigger warning] I was sexually abused as a child by a teacher of mine between the ages of 10 and 11 (maybe 12).My dad was incredibly abusive to my mother (beating her and even hospitalizing her sometimes). My mom was so stressed that I never shared that with her. My mom was incredibly strict and she would scream at me a lot. I would often fantasize of running away and being a prostitute so I could feed myself. I thought that would make me feel "sexy". An abused child's mind is fucked up. My ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 66 | Don't do "quickies".Exactly. We live in a patriarchy where women are just expected to put everything on a platter for men, their bodies, their labour, their love, with little to no rewards. It's so sad. Never ever compromise, dusty dudes love to put women down who have boundaries. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 48 | It's okay for them to be entertained by grossed out porn but if the shoe is on the other foot...Omg, This! This reminded me of a funny story. There was this guy that I talked to like an year ago on a dating site. He asked me if I was kinky and if I'd let him spank me (My profile had nothing alluding to that). I replied, "maybe but I kinda like femdom and CBD. I also like pegging. Would you let me spank ya too?" 😂 He said something like, " hell nah I'm trying to get my cock and balls sucked not hurt" 🤮 It was so funny tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:35 PM |
| 72 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)Exactly! I feel much more comfortable in all female spaces. I know we have girl's schools and colleges and gyms in my country but would it be too bad to have an apartment complex, or ya know something small like a state ❤️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 162 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)The fact that women need to worry about what will happen to their corpses almost like we don't experience that everytime we go out is horrendous, scary, disgusting and pathetic. And it's all because of men. Am I allowed to hate them yet or is it still sexist to hate your abuser? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 168 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)This is so disgusting! I saw a post earlier which was talking about a woman who's boyfriend said he would have sex with her corpse. I refuse to believe that there are so many men who see no problem in it 🤮 and another one where a guy was talking about a lady who died but instead of paying her respects and being kind he talked about how she did kegels and that helped him get off better. I'm so disgusted rn 😣 If I could not have any contact with men, I would not hesitate once to take that chance 😣… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 11 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣"is it that time of the day when you scroll through reddit and get triggered again? Is that why you're acting so moody? It's okay go take a rest" "you're a man, don't talk when the women are talking" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 26 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣Because they are angry at women loving themselves 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 11 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣haha "chad" 😂 Thanks for the advice. I will probably do that, especially with all the hate I get. But I'll be honest, a part of me is so entertained to see men so mad at random strangers 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 49 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣You wouldn't believe how many bum ass dudes lurk on this sub. I get a dm for like every 3 posts/comments I write. You can smell the insecurity. These dudes have too much time on their hands to be writing shit like this. The core reason is that they are jealous and butthurt. They hate that they aren't the HVM we talk about. They are mad that a group of women comfortable with themselves are having standards and boundaries we won't let any guy cross. Another thing, they just prove the theory that g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 252 | But only if he can't go in dryThere are a few reasons why a healthy woman doesn't get wet before sex : 1) She's not attracted to the guy she's going to sleep with or, (the most common one) 2) The guy didn't put any effort in to make her aroused. I think it's usually both. The fact that he chose to make you uncomfortable and make sex completely unpleasant for you instead of putting a bit of effort in or just using lube is crazy to me. He sounds so gross. I'm glad you're out of that situation! 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 30 | Why BDSM is the worst idea, personal experienceI'm so sorry that happened to you. ❤️ I can relate a lot. I went through my own traumas after getting abused as a child and being exposed to porn and sex very early and that contributed to much more trauma when I grew up. I was very kink friendly, thought it was empowering, but everytime I had anal sex, had a guy cum on my breasts or mouth, I felt very degraded and almost guilty. People around me encouraged it, like it was my role.To please the man. I never expected anything in return, and like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 31 | If you make a joke or a statement about an LVM, see if they laugh or all of a sudden get seriousMost guys who get really defensive about the length of their penis probably have a small one. I've never heard a guy with a big penis be defensive about that. Guys are filled with ego, and if he has a big one he isn't going to spend time arguing with you cause he'd be comfortable about the size of his penis. The most he'd do is laugh. If he gets defensive, or worse, starts making fun of your body.. sis you just found out his penis size without removing his pants. 😪😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 29 | If you make a joke or a statement about an LVM, see if they laugh or all of a sudden get seriousI was treated the worst way possible by an ex of mine. He would hit me on my body in a "joking" way. Like, I'd be lying down and he would just start punching me or hitting my arm or if we were lying down he would kick my legs. I don't know why I stayed with him. He would also laugh after doing that and seeing me annoyed. And whenever I would get upset he would apologize a lot. I knew it was horrible but always felt like "it's just a joke". One time, I burst out crying in front of him after he ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:42 PM |
| 77 | Reading about Ayurveda and even the ancient teachings from 2000 years ago say the at men ain’t sh*t 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭That's the reason we call it mother nature and not father nature 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Romantic NecrophiliaBlackhead 😂 haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:50 AM |
| 74 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)I love this! I have been lurking on this sub for many months now and finally decided to make an account and join it. I love that more and more people are joining FDS too! ❤️ I also think that the idea of a 50/50 dynamic in a straight relationship is a scam. If only more women realised this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 90 | Girl talk isn't a bad thingFemale discussions are so healthy. Where else can we learn information regarding career, dating life, advice etc. if not from more experienced women? I've always felt like men dismiss a lot of women's issues. That's why it's so important to have a female community, whether it be a friend group, family, or even a subreddit! I've learnt way more from other women's experiences and interpretations than I would have if I tried to learn alone. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:33 AM |
| 29 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨If only I could go back to high school and put that as my senior quote!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:27 AM |
| 69 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨The fact that you mentioned that most men look awful made me realise I see so many dusty men but my brain just ignores them. The fact that I can only remember 2 men in my life who really caught my eyes on the street in all my years of living is just sad. They didn't even go over the top, they just looked like they worked out, wore form fitting shirts and took care of their hair and their beard..Most men really don't give a shit about how they look but they expect women to, smh. The fact that pic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:23 AM |
| 12 | Romantic NecrophiliaOmg! Atleast you're out of it now. Please don't play with your safety like that ❤️❤️ The fact that you had to call the police on him is 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 84 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸When you frame it like that, it is so gross! Why hasn't he moved on yet 🙄 fucking creep. I didn't even think of it like that 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 34 | Don't let the past disappointment and bad memories make you lose your faith in yourselfThank you for being so upfront about your experiences. I thought I was the one who "missed" certain parts of men I had been with, no matter how awful they were. I was in a situationship with a guy for a few months and he seemed like everything I wanted at the time. He was sweet to me, wasn't selfish in bed, was sensitive and tender (at times) and was also in medical school with me. It seemed like I'd always be with him. I had to break things off with him because he never seemed to care for me. L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 29 | Romantic NecrophiliaI had to! I was so offended. I've had men of my own race talk trash about other women and it pisses me off. Women support women ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:57 AM |
| 19 | Romantic NecrophiliaI didn't think about the other points besides the second one! I do agree men like to pit women against each other. It's like they get an ego boost because they believe they are the prize 🤮 I have black hair, do we have a special word for people who have black hair? I just thought I'd also be called a brunette haha 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 233 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸I don't understand why guys go out of their way and say that women should pay or atleast offer to pay when they don't want them to do it anyway. ( They feel emasculated which is a WHOLE other can of beans). Another thing is, these men want a feminine woman, and feminine women would never ever pay for a date. How do you expect her to be more feminine but still expect her to do a masculine task of paying? These guys really just want a mommy would do everything for them, pay for things, buy them th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:50 AM |
| 30 | Romantic NecrophiliaUgh. I didn't know hair colour had any role in determining how good of a partner someone is. 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:42 AM |
| 51 | Romantic NecrophiliaAn English man said that women from my ethnicity were so exotically beautiful and english women are rude and obnoxious. I had to remind him that his mother, his sister and his daughter would also be English (half or not). He tried backing out but I didn't let him. I think a part of the reason men say that women from certain communities are better or more superior is because those communities celebrate gender roles and more submissive traits in women. Did you hear about the dating coach who said … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:40 AM |
| 13 | Romantic NecrophiliaExactly. Most of these dudes who claim to have dark humour just recycle the same jokes over and over again and they expect you to laugh every single time. If you don't, you're just a triggered snowflake who cannot handle jokes. Sorry Derrick, it's not that I cannot handle jokes made at my/black people/women/LGBTQ+/handicapped people's expense, it's just that you're not funny, your joke had nothing to do with the convo, and those jokes do more harm than good (strengthening prejudiced beliefs agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:32 AM |
| 36 | Romantic NecrophiliaIkr! I hope she cut him off instantly. You never know what men really think under the surface. He might just be revealing his criminal fantasies 😣🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 49 | Romantic NecrophiliaWhat.the.fuck. 🤮 That's so disgusting! I hope you distanced yourself away from him immediately. One thing I've learnt is that people say a lot of things in a joking manner that they actually mean. They might laugh at the end or say jk just so you don't call them out. If you do, they would just say, "It was a joke!" That's why I instantly cut off people who make racist and sexist jokes. If a guy says he has "dark humour", that's code for him being an asshole and thinking that laughing at atrociti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:45 AM |
| 75 | ✨ mood ✨I hope you ditched that friend! He sounds awful. Don't surround yourself with NVMs. I'm so sorry that happened to your best friend, I hope you were there for her. Guys like him always find a way to blame women no matter what. I'm sure even if she had slept with him, he would have blamed her deep down or questioned her about what she did to contribute to him cheating. ☹️ If there are any young girls reading this, or any girls for that matter, please take me seriously when I say this. In a relatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 123 | ✨ mood ✨Of course! I've watched the movie before and I didn't even finish it because it was so horrible. The guy seems like a psychopath and the girl is oBviOusLy portrayed like a young innocent naive girl who doesn't know about sex. It's so predatory. I don't know how it was shown as a sexy thing when I could spin it in a documentary about women's abuse. It's so awful that young impressionable girls and boys were exposed to that movie thinking that's what real sex and romance is like. Ugh. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:55 PM |
| 22 | This man has found himself a mother.I'm sorry but I did actually think like this when I was in my early 20s. It was so rare to find guys who actually did their chores and didn't expect me to do them for him. I was entertaining this one guy for a bit , I don't remember how long. If I was at his home, he would expect me to cook for him (which I did do twice 😣) and he made that known. At the beginning stages of talking with him, he asked me if I can cook. I said yes, and he asked me ''can you make (a dish)?", I said yes. He then aske… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 508 | ✨ mood ✨It's patriarchy and the normalisation of porn and sex work (even romanticism) that has made "vanilla sex" a bad thing. Men use terms like 'frigid' or 'ice queen' to shame women into doing degrading acts for their pleasure. When a woman is confident in her sexuality so that she will not do what she doesn't want to do, men use that as an attack to blame how 'worthy' of a partner a woman is. "You won't let him do anal? Won't do threesomes? Won't send him nudes or accept him looking at porn? Wow, no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:15 PM |
| 20 | Die mad, scrotes 😂I hate those pickup videos. Those guys are not only giving bad advice to young men and boys, they are also perpetuating false ideals of masculinity. It's not masculine when you approach random women on street and immaturely compliment their ass, Derrick. It's masculine when you step up for women and treat them like they are human, not a commodity. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:35 AM |
| 27 | When men offer to cook for you (translation in the comments)Wow. Top class humour, eh? 🥴 Who told these guys they were funny? Was it you Brenda? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 101 | Die mad, scrotes 😂😂 he was close to looking like that when I walked out on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 169 | Die mad, scrotes 😂This image scared me for a second, almost reminded me of my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 4 | It do be that wayAt your age, it's definitely best to date in your age range. It's not just about the power dynamics (though it does play a huge role) it's also about compatibility. I used to have a friend who was 27 and dated a man who was 17 years older than her. He had different taste in everything, had different goals, aspirations, had a different love language (that's what she told me, I assume he wasn't intimate with her besides sex). The whole relationship fell apart quickly. That's kinda what I had alway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Another woman's beauty is not an absence of your own. ❤️Thank you, I should probably post this on there later :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 42 | It do be that wayI don't think age gap relationships should even happen, if a guy is more than 3-5 years older than me, it's an automatic no. Imagine being 18 and dating someone who's 28 and has a job while you just got out of high school. Relationships like these are almost pedophilic even though it's legal. An 18 year old isn't much different from a 15 year old. Anyone below 24 is a child to me haha. Maybe I'm just old 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 12 | I don’t even know what to say😂😂 it's probably true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 38 | I don’t even know what to sayThere are actually guys out there who defend others when they are caught creeping on a child because they believe it wasn't their fault as she looked older. I'm sorry, but how does a 13 year old with breasts look the same as an 18 year old?? It's the most disgusting excuse I've ever heard. Kids look like kids, they sound like kids and they definitely act like kids. there's too many guys who excuse pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 282 | I said what I said. Stay mad.Any man who likes BDSM is a sexist and an asshole, trust me. I would hang around in groups of people like this and even though I never engaged in it myself (even in my pickme days I was self aware), I talked to a lot of couples who did. Most of the guys were old, and I mean OLD. like 35, 45 and with a girl who was 19, 26. And yes, those ages are specific because i saw couples like that 🤮 the guys were egotistical assholes who always crossed boundaries even when I was just conversing with them. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 123 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyexactly! how can we stop ejaculating in women (something which is a necessity) or stop jackhammering them? Instead why don't we put women through pain, struggle and turmoil just so they can be ready for our seed, but without the chance of a pregnancy, of course! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 43 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyThe greatest way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence. There's always a chance of pregnancy even when you use a condom. But I assume men wouldn't like it if women collectively stopped having sex with them. They would rather have women suffer and die from complications related to their reproductive health than just accept that. Don't even get me started on dudes who straight up REFUSE to wear condoms. I'm ashamed to be sharing air with these creatures. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 31 | I don’t even know what to sayThat's horrible ☹️ I'm glad those girls were okay. I hope they didn't suffer from too much trauma from that situation. It's so scary for young girls out there. I was catcalled for the first time when I was 11. I was walking home from school (my school was just a few blocks away from my home) and saw a guy on a motorcycle who moaned at me. Like seriously moaned at me. He looked me up and down and then rode away. There were people (many other men) around but noone did anything. I was so creeped ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 44 | Found this on Facebook...Atleast you've changed! we've all been pick-mes once. That's why we feel bad for girls like this! We know exactly what is causing this. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 34 | Found this on Facebook...Some girls actually think like this 😣 We call them pickmes I am SINCERELY hoping this is satire too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 159 | Found this on Facebook...Ikr!! That's what it comes off as! If I'm doing this much for a guy he better be my son. Even then, I wouldn't do this much for my GROWN ass son 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 330 | Found this on Facebook...What the actual fuck? Before we even comment on the level of pickme radioactive waves this woman gives off, can we just say how a man would never say this? I've never heard a man say anything remotely close to this. Why do we as women feel like we need to uplift men or lower our standards for men when men never do the same for us? If a man doesn't like a girl, he takes no time to go out of his way and make fun of the woman or just reject her. Why do girls need to think like this? I understand th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 93 | I don’t even know what to sayI honestly think it's the other way around, ya know. It's the men who peak in their 20s when they are young and fit and strong and have loads of testesterone. As they age, the testesterone levels drop and drop until he looks like a saggy bag of bones. Women on the other hand, we truly age beautifully. We go from a youthful beauty to a classy, sophisticated beauty. Women peak in their 40s when they are successful in their careers, more confident and are matured enough to make their own sexual dec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 127 | I don’t even know what to sayI agree! It's almost pedophilic in nature.. would they go younger if the age of consent was lower? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 90 | I don’t even know what to sayOmg 😳 I swear I'll steal this comeback and comment this everytime a guy says anything close to this shit 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 61 | This is why sex work is stupid. They don’t want to actually pay for it. Paying for it doesn’t fulfill their desire for power.What did this scrote expect?? I'm so confused by his behaviour. He went on a SUGAR DATING website to look for love when all he was looking for was a one night stand?? So many women in that industry get scammed. Why even get into it anyway? It's so exploitative that women selling sex is encouraged because there are buyers 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 13 | When you tell your current bf that he can be a renter in your house 🍆 👈 that's my big dick energy 🙋🏼♀️You mean big clit energy? ❤️😂 But fr, I love that!! Yes to independence and no to co-dependence 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 78 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.I have a feeling she won't, there comes a point a woman gets so hurt and misled that she doesn't know who to blame anymore. I feel pity for her, but I would never sympathise with her actions. I HOPE she transforms herself but I can't say for sure she will. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 39 | We should all pay attention to what empowerment really means in our society and who comes up with the definition of it! Taking advice from the oppressing class is not the way to go.I agree! It's empowerment for a woman to have self respect and do things on her terms. It's exploitation to preach to them that it's empowerment when they put out for men when they don't want to and "to not be selfish" in bed BUT also please the men. I love that more and more girls are waking up! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 375 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Did you hear her husband was suspended from work because he also posted misogynistic tik toks blaming the victims of sexual abuse? She made a new tiktok talking about it in a condescending way, like we were supposed to feel bad for her? 😂 I'm so glad they got what they deserved. But in a way, I feel really bad for her. She is a grown woman and still holds these opinions. I hope she takes this opportunity to change and leave her husband! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 39 | For who doesn't know about Hedy LamarrEven when there are so many women in history who had great achievements!! I hope they change the school textbooks to include more influential queens and inventors who were women. These types of representation are so inspiring to young girls!! We should definitely take steps to encourage young girls to pursue science and maths ❤️ I was watching a video of little girls from India who were being taught by a group of female teachers about these scientists and you could almost see the fire in their e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 135 | We should all pay attention to what empowerment really means in our society and who comes up with the definition of it! Taking advice from the oppressing class is not the way to go.I hope more girls realise this quicker! This piece of information really changes everything. How long are women going to feel shamed for not being a random guy's sex dream? Do whatever makes you feel beautiful and powerful, not what makes others feel like you're sexy. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 197 | We should all pay attention to what empowerment really means in our society and who comes up with the definition of it! Taking advice from the oppressing class is not the way to go.This is why I don't agree that it's empowerment when women feel proud of being sexualized openly in media or life. It's completely fine to express your sensuality in any way you please, but doing so for a group of men who see you as nothing more than a piece of meat used for sex isn't empowerment, in fact it's self objectification. When WAP came out, I didn't agree with the backlash that it got, considering so many males in the industry talk about women sexually and people see no problem in it, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsFemininity doesn't chase, it always attracts! I agree on the 'quiet self-assuredness', I've never seen a woman (or any truly feminine person) doing the most to get attention. And when they do, it usually means they aren't feminine. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 25 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsI used to believe "not all men" religiously. But I've seen enough bullshit in real life to know it's most men. In some cases, it might be men pretending to be women for some creepy reasons, but there are definitely women and girls who believe the same things. It's conditioning that they have received throughout their lives, me included. I was raised around shitty men, first my father, then my brother and of course,my own personal experiences with guys. It really took those experiences for me to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 195 | For who doesn't know about Hedy LamarrHistory has always hidden women's contributions in the field of science and maths! There are so many great mathematicians and scientists and inventors who are females. But still, sexists still say they don't exist just because they have never done the research to know about them. Needless to say, I didn't know about her. Thanks for educating me. I just looked her up! ❤️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 14 | Found in the wild 🙄Nah baby, what you need to do is stop being desperate for a man and move on. 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:53 AM |
| 84 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsI heard this quote from my mom and it really changed how I view masculinity : Masculine energy is the most insecure energy of all. Feminine energy is like a goddess. If we try recollecting all our experiences with masculine and feminine energy, it holds true! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:52 AM |
| 65 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨in my country, porn is still taboo and watching it is considered a sign of bad character. I used to hate this fact but I'm glad my country has banned porn and removed thousands of porn websites so that we can't access them! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 8 | Red Flags From My ExThank you so much! 🥰 I made a comment about the whole situationship earlier. We weren't even dating. I left him and I've been happier since :) Don't ever stop focusing on yourself for someone else. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 12 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨This type of mentality is prevalent because a lot of girls still believe that sex is something done 'to' them and not 'with' them. Many girls believe it's the woman's job to pleasure a man they are with but also have no expectations to have the same done for them. Her idea of "have fun" is lying there uncomfortable while he jackhammers you and sometimes strokes over your clit. any woman who has had an orgasm with a man would never say that, lmao. If a guy doesn't make me feel good, BYE!! If I ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:35 AM |
| 56 | Hypocrisy - using women for sex is OK!Where's the money? 😂 I don't see it These dudes can't afford to dry clean their pants but here they are talking about gold diggers. Where's the gold??? 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:28 AM |
| 23 | Red Flags From My ExThis! I was a free therapist for a man who had depression and had suicidal thoughts. I gave so much of myself for him and even though I might be termed as an asshole, it made me so drained and depressed myself. He always talked about himself and never asked about me. Leaving him was the best decision I made for my own mental health. For anyone wondering, he's completely fine at the moment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 18 | Red Flags From My ExThe trauma one hits sooo close to home! Genuine people never ever share things so personal to them to strangers or someone they have just met. If someone does that, it's not a red flag, it's a radioactive billboard 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 43 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?That's hilarious and sad at the same time 😂 so many grown men nowadays are just grown up babies . I remember this one time I was studying for an upcoming exam in college when my boyfriend at the time tried showing my something on his phone. I didn't look at him but said "oh that's cool" because I was honestly annoyed and after a bit he was actually angry at me and started shouting at me because I didn't look in his direction. I was so confused 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:18 AM |
| 43 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?Many girls have internalised misogyny inside of them. We can't blame them, it's taught to us ever since we are young. Sexual promiscuity is encouraged in men while shamed in women (an idea that has been present for hundreds of years).It's now our job to take a look at ourselves and change our mindsets along with right education and resources. :) I'm glad you've changed! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 203 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsFDS is the ONLY community on reddit that I would consider as truly feminist. FDS doesn't take bullshit excuses from men and encourages women to take charge of their lives (whether it's dating or securing their goals) I love this subreddit!! 🥰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:10 AM |
| 33 | Hypocrisy - using women for sex is OK!Any lurkers who see this post - women are not made for your pleasure. Women who don’t want to date awful men like you aren’t incels. We choose to criticize and avoid men like you. Go fuck yourself, we’ll be happily hanging out with our girlfriends, our family, our pets and whenever we get the inclination to see another perspective - we’ll see your posts and know we’re right. I agree with you completely! I'm glad we have FDS to educate young girls and women about assholes like these ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:06 AM |
| 46 | Hypocrisy - using women for sex is OK!I just went back and read the post. Reading the comments made me ill. I can't believe men would have sex with women they don't like just because it's sex. I don't agree with the girl's actions but the guys congratulating OP for "pumping and dumping" the girl is absolutely disgusting. Sex doesn't mean anything to LVMs or NVMs. Excuse my language, but it's all about getting their dick wet and using women. 😣🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Found a cheating scrote today (Tinder)I was going to make another post of a guy who said the only relationship that would work for him is with a Japanese sex doll 🤮🤮🤮 but I didn't want to add more negativity in the sub. Never going on dating apps again. It's all LVMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Found a cheating scrote today (Tinder)He said his wife is in Canada, and we live in the other side of the world. I can't imagine living in a different country while my husband works in another country and getting cheated on while he lives a double life. I don't understand why he even told me that he has a wife, but I'm glad he did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | NVM/ Tinder tales (Context in the comments)This is a different guy from the last post I have. I have 2 beautiful cats and they are the love of my life. ❤️ My profile had an image of me with my kitties and apparently he doesn't like cats. He was being rude about it and said he hates cats. I was busy at the moment so I just ignored him until he messaged me he broke a glass because of me lol. I forgot to add the picture of when he insulted my cats. I will post a link here : | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 34 | Found a cheating scrote today (Tinder)I should have known. :( I didn't think online dating was all that bad, but I've received so many disgusting messages in the past days ranging from making domestic abuse jokes, jokes about tying me up, jokes about making me clean their house, and ofc this bullshit. I'm very feminine presenting, so I guess these guys just expect me to go with it? Online dating has really coddled men. They think they can go online and hit on women who aren't in their leagues and say disgusting shit because they thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 38 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Keep these screenshots and if he calls you, record that too! If he tries anything, you can directly go to the police as you would have evidence. I'm so sorry that happened to you :( I don't want to blame you, but how long had you talked to him before you went on a date with him? As a precautionary method, please please PLEASE wait atleast 2 weeks after matching with someone to go on a date with them. text them, call them, facetime them, but don't bring up meeting up with them and if they do, say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:09 AM |
| 68 | Found a cheating scrote today (Tinder)That's a great idea! It's super easy to find people's real name if you go on their truecaller account. I wasn't falling for the whole "she knows" thing. I could feel him getting hostile at the end there and I didn't wanna fake being okay with his actions :( I'll keep that in mind tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 29 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readI was watching a dating advice video a few months ago. It was a gay man (if that matters) giving advice to women on how to keep relationships, I guess? His advice was that your partner should never feel " left out" or "unfulfilled" sexually. He was giving advice to mostly women to have "lazy sex" and in his exact words "choose a position you could do it in when you don't feel like it, Trust me you'll get into it soon" 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 204 | 50/50If you're broke enough to not be able to afford a condom, maybe you shouldn't be having sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:44 AM |
| 46 | Found a cheating scrote today (Tinder)Lockdown is back in, so I went on tinder to see what was out there (BIG MISTAKE). This guy superliked me and seemed interested in talking to me and kept messaging me repeatedly. He finally exposed himself, it's so funny when they do that :) At the end, I had ignored his message because I was so mad and got bombarded with those messages in the span of 2 mins. I deleted tinder today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:40 AM |
| 41 | Just left what I thought was HVMI agree! We need to stop idolizing normal behaviour. Just because one guy is outwardly respectful to women and is less shitty than others doesn't automatically make him a HVM. It's so sad that men in our society suck so much that they are considered special for the littlest of things, but unfortunately we always need to vet, vet and vet some more. I wish OP the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 27 | POLL: DOES/HAS HE PRETEND(ED) HE CAN’T FIND YOUR VAGINA DURING SEX?I'm actually very surprised that people said yes 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 83 | I like good abs and I can not lie...Anyone who tries to push the narrative that women with standards will stay single forever are lying out their teeth. A man who has the qualities will automatically reach the HVW. They are just jealous it's not them. As mentioned countless times here, ugly men wish they could get access to all women and therefore don't like when a woman is firm about her standards and what she will and will not accept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 3 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...guys make fun of women by saying they will turn into cat ladies if they don't stop being picky, I'd rather stay with a cute little furry buddy than stay with them 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 07:03 AM |
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