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Fundamentals Ok_Music_197/r/seduction16/10/24 12:42 PM
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Fundamentals Ok_Music_197/r/seduction10/10/24 08:50 PM
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Fundamentals Ok_Music_197/r/seduction14/10/24 11:48 AM
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Fundamentals Ok_Music_197/r/seduction05/10/24 11:14 PM
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Field ReportOk_Music_197/r/seduction27/10/24 02:52 PM
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Field ReportOk_Music_197/r/seduction25/10/24 03:08 PM
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Field ReportOk_Music_197/r/seduction07/10/24 09:54 PM
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Gives you a wider selection of women. Even if you have friends, it's still not guaranteed you will meet the kind of girl who clicks with or you will like.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:29 AM
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No I had a lot of things to talk about tbh. But, given that she seemed uninterested I dint feel like pushing it. I had to hold back myself.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:39 AM
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I had started off along similar lines. But, after talking a little more, she seemed uninterested. So yeah.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:18 AM
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At that time I kind of felt like a predator so kept looing away. But, looking back i think this might be likely. Next time I should atleast make eye contact.
/r/seduction28/10/24 12:34 AM
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Haha yeah
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:23 PM
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Was thinking of that, just scared if she is already creeped out. She might get creeeped more lol.
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:00 PM
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Oh do they keep staring at you after the conversation?
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:58 PM
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Yep did that :)
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:14 PM
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Okay can't change anything about what I did. Yes I cold approached. Beyond that I was minding my business. I mean I was behind her in the line, I won't get my order before hers right? So it's not like I leave first.
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:11 PM
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Thanks for the advice about front part. Thats something I am otherwise trying to improve. I find that very hard to do in general.
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:56 PM
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I was standing in a line behind her. I don't think i could have done anything differently. I was super confident this time. I am kind of nervous when I do a proper cold approach, but wasn't this time.
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:49 PM
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Alright, cool thanks.
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:46 PM
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Yeah kind of nervous. I think that might be the reason.
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:45 PM
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Demn, you hit the nail. I think you are right about this. Maybe because I still have some approach anxiety so I come across as kind of nervous or not giving good energy out.
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:42 PM
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Alright, thank you. Checked him out. You are right.
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:41 PM
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Alright, thank you for your advice 🙂
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:40 PM
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Oh you are a women cold approached? Thank you so much for comment and advice. That's reassuring to know.
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:40 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks for your comment 🙂
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:39 PM
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Ahh no. Thanks for your comment 🙂
/r/seduction25/10/24 04:39 PM
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I am from India too and I have cold approached a bit in India too. So girls have told me they like their job and it doesn't pay much, favorite cafes and so on. All this when I Immediately met them. You need to have a list of topics and feel completely comfortable talking to strangers.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:19 PM
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Welcome, all the best
/r/seduction20/10/24 12:01 AM
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Interesting
/r/seduction20/10/24 12:01 AM
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1) find a way to approach people you will never see again and break approach anxiety. This will improve your confidence to approach total strangers. What you say doesn't matter much here. It could simple smile and "hi" or just a compliment. If you can, talk to them too. 2) meanwhile, get good at talking to strangers. Like making it humorous, teasing them and so on. 3) refine your game looking at tips from this sub. 4) improving your conversational skills with strangers doesn't have to come from …
/r/seduction19/10/24 11:41 PM
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I get the feeling to. I had a brief look at your profile and from your username(hindi), I am from the same country as you. I think yes we are at a disadvantage. So far I have gotten only rejections, but its okay. I have my fair share of mistakes. Do it without any expectations and keep improve your game. Now even when I get rejected, I feel more confident. I feel like that's the worst that could happen. Its a long process though, you will take a while to get better at it.
/r/seduction19/10/24 11:33 PM
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Thats what I feel tbh. But, yeah some girls have just ran away or knew what was coming. This is what i approached them politely. So I got the impression, even cold approach is common these days.
/r/seduction19/10/24 11:31 PM
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That's rare though, with social media every girl knows she is wanted
/r/seduction19/10/24 10:49 PM
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I am in the same situation as you: immigrant into a different country. When you are cold approaching, you aren't doing anything wrong. You are starting a very normal conversation or a plain compliment that can lead to a conversation. I have done this several times, although people haven't receptive I haven't gotten deported yet lol. But, make sure you make then feel safe: maintain some distance and take a no for no and leave.
/r/seduction19/10/24 02:22 PM
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People you will never see again or never seen before. Also they haven't met you before. They might also be in settings which aren't exactly social. Warm approach is definitely better way to go about it. But, its not always possible.
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:07 AM
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What you called cold approach was more of warm approach tbh.
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:59 PM
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You had the beginners luck :) but noe it's not always this easy haha. Super happy for you though, you will be far more confident than a guy like me cold approaching who has always got rejected.
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:56 PM
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Yeah :( that though immigrant
/r/seduction16/10/24 06:28 PM
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Oh okay, so escalation is what I have to learn about.
/r/seduction16/10/24 03:07 PM
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Okay so you are mentioning body language, posture, eye contact diffeenritate them. Where can I learn more about this?
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:48 PM
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But all of what you said is something I do to friends too(female/male). I can only think of physical compliments and talking about a scenario of us together(indirect/direct)
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:46 PM
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Correct heard that a lot. Whats generic I can say that isn't situational. Siutauonal is defined great, but I am at this stage where saying something >>> not saying anything at all. Sometimes I am so deep into thinking something that I can't think of anything situational but I feel like I have to say something.
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:39 PM
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Thats what I thought. Accept the low success rate and work on getting more confident talking to anybody. Saying something >>> saying nothing. Also who is Toddv?
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:16 PM
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Thanks 🙏
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:05 PM
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"Do you have macrons everyday? cause you are so sweet" thank you :)
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:05 PM
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I just saw your post. The thing is that try to get more specific. Ask questions about certain aspects you fail at. Observe your personality and interactions with women. Do the same and keep questioning yourself. Even I don't get dates. But, its important to be humble and keep learning over time. Its a long and hard process. Many people who are on this sub have actually spent lot of time learning and falling before any success. You mentioned you were focusing on your career. I was on the same boa…
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:57 PM
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Sure people made fun of some things but they also told me whats wrong. So I took feedback and learnt from it.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:55 PM
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Hmmm, honestly I think people have been helpful in this sub so far.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:54 PM
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I think more than anything, I would love if there are video examples. Its one thing to know things conceptually and other thing to learn how to do it conceptually.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:53 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:51 PM
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Yeah, definitely seen that work for me too. But, I am at the stage where approaching and no response>>not approaching at all. I am trying to defeat approaching anxiety. Sometimes I am deeply thinking about something that I can't be creative on things like finding a situational opener.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:50 PM
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Lel
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:48 PM
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Thanks 😃
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:48 PM
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I love this especially if a girl is drinking or holding something and they get confused.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:48 PM
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Lel
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:48 PM
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Good ones. Haha.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:48 PM
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Lol I am average or below average given i am from a less desirable ethnic group
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:47 PM
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Haha, you are cute is all I can think of 😶 I will go a day out only approaching and try various things.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:47 PM
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Dint get it 😶
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:46 PM
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Lel 😅
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:46 PM
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I don't get it 😶
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:46 PM
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I love this 😀
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:45 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:45 PM
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And it works? What do you say? Shower them with physical compliments? Is it in person or text?
/r/seduction14/10/24 02:39 PM
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Ohhh alright. Will check it out.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:56 AM
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Welcome :) I liked how you explained from a very fundamental level.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:56 AM
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Thanks for this input 👌 true I would say this plays a role. I think one way is to build social momentum from what I read?
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:54 AM
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I loved this idea and tried it. But, it failed terribly haha. I asked chatgpt to flirt with me, it came across a simp lol.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:54 AM
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Awesome, thank you 😊
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:53 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:52 AM
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Not denying, but I think there are things that can make you more spontaneous. Was asking from that pov.
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:52 AM
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Thank you, will check 😁
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:51 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/seduction14/10/24 11:51 AM
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Posts by u/gusolsen :) thanks to him
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:57 PM
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Okay :( tell me more. Help a bro. Also I like your username :)
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:14 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. I did speak about myself too. So there wasn't things we had in common that we could do together. The sweet part was to the conversation. I dint post the whole part. But, yeah there was more to it.
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:02 PM
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Alright, thank you.
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:59 PM
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Oh okay. I am not white, I am Asian. But, yeah will just say she is cute or I will like her facial features.
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:58 PM
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What are your favorites for a beginner?
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:57 PM
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True i have learnt a lot. But, everyone has their own style so sometimes there are lot of contradictory things. Also its all scattered, like I wanted the complete sequence chain with all possible actions. For example, cold approach -> What to converse -> escalate and so on.
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:57 PM
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Whats like a single source that i can learn about the seduction theory?
/r/seduction08/10/24 10:39 AM
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Okay, do you think I should give out physical compliments later? Aren't physical compliments the way to flirt?
/r/seduction08/10/24 01:42 AM
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This is exactly why I posted on this sub. I love your answer, it's not some vague theory but with a solid example. I will buy up some coins and give you award. Thank you so much 💓
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:55 PM
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I told her I was a grad student and my subject of study. She asked questions like my name and how long my program was. Nothing much. What do you think i could have voluntarily told in the conversation?
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:32 PM
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Oh okay. Thanks for the feedback. Then how else do you flirt? Isn't complimenting on their looks getting into flirty territory. She wasn't giving me much to work with to compliment about personality, how to drive the conversation that way? Sorry for noob questions, I am a begineer in this.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:31 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:17 PM
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Done, turns out I am scared of getting a bad rep at the University i am at and being recognized by people who know me.
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:17 PM
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Makes sense, thank you
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:16 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:15 PM
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And ask them for a date?
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:42 PM
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