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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 190 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them? | Conversation | Ok_Ostrich_7847 | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 02:00 PM |
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| 3 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?If you 10/10 purely on the external beauty your answer is simple: money But those are just 10s in your eyes if you haven’t had a good partner before. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Dark brown guy in getting ladies in clubsWork on your vibe and confidence. If you’re comfortable you can make them feel comfortable too. That’s the first step. Learn to dress well. Have your own style. This doesn’t mean you HAVE TO wear anything specific. Just clean and sharp. Hygiene, however much you give it importance, if is 10x more important. Try to be the top of the top when it comes to hygiene. Learn to dance. Have some moves in your sleeve. It’s like having a toolset ready-to-go. you never know what’ll be useful in attracting a… | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?This was very insightful. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?Idk. She was all over me two weeks ago and I acted aloof didn’t take things further because we were both a bit drunk and I didn’t want to take advantage of that. I was busy since then so I didn’t text her for two weeks. yesterday I asked her to go out for a walk. she instead invited me over. But when I got there she refused to even sit beside me on the couch. My game isn’t perfect but it’s not too bad either. This made me hella confused. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?Same. I think a relationship that starts like this, needs the same mental games dynamic to maintain and that’s just not sustainable for me. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Why are hot girls easy to pick up than unattractive ones ?Knowing how to flirt is a skill both ways. Those girls who have been approched less are less experienced and hence less skilled normally. If you are good looking or good at flirting, it becomes very intimidating very quickly for someone who lacks experience. You can see this in guys too when a girl more attractive than them initiates flirting. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do you guys keep using Dating Apps?I don’t. And this might be a bit extreme but I believe all guys who have self respect must drop using dating apps. Both as a principal and how it is affecting women’s view of men in general. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | All of your flaws as a man can be seen as positives in the dating worldI’m fat. lol | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | A woman decides in the first 5 seconds if she likes you or not, True or False?It’s true if it’s a no. You can’t change a no. But it’s not true if it’s a yes because a yes can become a no at anytime even after 30 years of marriage lol | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Trying the "come here" routine with women I liked and falling flat.I think the world has changed. :)) | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | For guys, why do you want a woman?Sex is actually easy to achieve. It’s the intimacy, feeling of belonging and a hope for the future imo | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 03:13 PM |
| 8 | How to spike emotions in womenYou know what’s the difference between a Michelin star and a Yelp review? IMO: 1. Rarity 2. Truth 3. Audience Respect Same works for women, they get a lot of attention, that doesn’t mean if you don’t give them attention you can make them love you. You just need to make sure your qualities are better than the others. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | When did women gain so much leverage?You’re not considering how much effort women put into looking attractive since very young age even taught by their moms on how to sit how to dress how to comb their hair. Men usually focus on income and success which the recent social equality movements are making it less and less attractive for women because they can achieve all of that, sometimes easier than men if they look nice. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 10:56 PM |
| 0 | How true actually is this?Attractiveness for guys depends a lot on their charisma, social status, being approved by other women and height. That’s it. It’s simple. | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 04:58 AM |
| 14 | How true actually is this?It’s 100% true. But you need to be attractive and good at sex. Just like guys, girls also want to have sex without the commitment a lot of the times when they are not ready for a full on romantic relationship. It’s not such an extraordinary thing. The only thing that makes it extraordinary is that 20% of the guys get to have this type of relationship with 80% of the girls. This is not the type of relationship that girls would tolerate your shit. You have to be exactly what they need and when the… | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Having a partner in a social gathering. Nothing makes you more desirable than another woman’s desire of you. Also having or taking care of anyone’s kids. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 01:53 PM |
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