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DISCUSSIONOk_Outside149/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 06:32 PM
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This is how he treats the mother of his child. Do you want to be next for the experience?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/26 11:31 PM
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I prefer not being beaten up in general
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 07:04 PM
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I agree with the SunRose. You come off really intense. I appreciate this is a rant, but messaging an internet friend “hey I think you don’t care about me” is overbearing. Friendship (and relationships) are built over time. The deep friendships you’re looking for don’t come from messaging and voice noting for a few weeks, they come through spending time together and going through experiences together. It’s much better to meet friends in real life for this reason, through work or school or activit…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 02:31 PM
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I thought something similar. Be the best man she’s ever had, and you’ll be the best man she’s ever had
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/26 06:17 PM
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You are in a much better position to start a family as a person with a comfortable and stable job than a woman in her late 20s going back to university to change careers.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:30 PM
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Make up, a couple of sets of perfumes and ear muffs. He secretly rooted around my make up bag to get the right product and shade! We’re a new couple so we set a budget of £50 but he went significantly over. Meanwhile i got him 1 thing right at the budget so I feel kind of bad haha
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 06:06 PM
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I agree, but on a practical level if I want to hang out with him I have to cook or I won’t eat! my bf being very traditional I’m not surprised at his attitude. I’m more pondering on what it means that he doesn’t have the thought to have dinner for me when I’m going over after work and he’s been at home, or he won’t at least buy groceries for me to cook. It’s the thoughtlessness I can’t shake. He does show up in other ways. It’s one of those “I don’t like this, but is it worth breaking up over” t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 11:29 PM
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OMFG are we dating the same guy??? I have the same problem and it’s really, really bothering me! My guy can kind of cook but there are just never any ingredients at his house. The same thing happens to me - I go over to his house, and unless I sort out dinner I won’t eat from evening till the next morning. He’ll order something if I prompt him, or make noodles, and I don’t even mind the fact he’s not a great cook, but the lack of thoughtfulness that I might want to eat (you know, like most human…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/25 07:57 PM
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How would he fully understand it’s a dealbreaker, when you haven’t told him as much? You’re being vague and only hinting. How you’re talking about marriage and kids in the next year when you haven’t even been fully honest with him about what you want is beyond me. If you’re scared he’s going to decide you’re incompatible because of your goals, well you’re just going to have to take that on the chin. A month is a better time to part ways than years into the relationship. Who knows, maybe he also …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/25 10:56 PM
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To be honest. I find the career/mother dichotomy to be something greatly exaggerated online. Most mothers are working. I don’t think it’s easy being a working mother, but most women are doing it somehow. I think unless you want to be a really high flying career woman like leadership in a big 4 company, you can probably juggle motherhood and a career. Even then, plenty of women do it. Did you know the female president of the European Commission has seven children? (I’m sure she had a lot of hired…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/25 11:24 PM
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First of all what are these life dreams you don’t share
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/25 10:12 PM
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You just don’t sound compatible. He’s a guy used to being intimate with many women quickly, you’re a virgin who has given head once. One of you will be doing something you don’t want to do if this relationship continues. From your post, it sounds like it’s going to be you. You’ve made it to 26 as a virgin. There must be a reason for that. Are you religious, have you never found a guy you like, is it the culture etc. Does this guy align with your reasons? If not (and it doesn’t sound like he does…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/25 02:18 PM
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OMG do you hear yourself. “I don’t want to do it” IS no. You don’t need to qualify a no with “absolutely no”.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/25 05:57 PM
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I agree with everyone that if you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. You really shouldn’t interrogate a man about his ex’s looks unless you’re prepared to not like the answer. However that doesn’t really help you. I don’t think a relationship can flourish if you don’t really believe he’s wholly attracted to you, so you may as well next him. Going forward you should completely avoid these conversations. Is he very attracted to you, yes or no is all you need
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/25 08:39 PM
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How did you get yourself in such a situation
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 06:55 AM
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men like younger women for their youth and women like older women for their stability right. Not saying that’s all each other have to offer but that’s the initial interest
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 06:32 AM
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Might be cheeky but I don’t pay for a few dates if the guy is much older. We both know why we’re here 😅 whereas with a younger guy I’ll pay for the third, with an older guy maybe the 5th. I definitely wouldn’t pay for things that were out of my budget, if you want to take him out take him somewhere you’re comfortable with. He’s most likely not expecting you be able to afford what he can afford But you do want to reciprocate so homemade goodies for a third date is perfect! I’ve done that and it’s…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/25 10:20 PM
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I do think a lot of tenants on how to treat men can basically be boiled down to “treat men like children”, but I imagine men feel the same way about women and our reactions to what they view as insignificant things. Maybe we’re all big children at the end of the day? WRT to the directions example, I think it’s a pick your battles thing. Is being on time more important than how your husband feels? In certain situations, yeah it is. Like if you’re going to be late to a job interview or idk giving …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 04:21 PM
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Girl there’s only a teeny tiny subset of people who are going to tell you to marry guy who cheats on you because he has money. And they’re all probably married to wealthy cheaters themselves. And yeah, it doesn’t sound real
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 07:40 AM
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I would agree with you. I feel like generally this sub is anti-expecting a man to get you presents but like you mentioned it’s actually really common IRL. “Men are not naturally gift givers/romantic ” kind of thing but I think it’s far more individual. There’s men that don’t think to get their partner anything then others who get their partners flowers every week. However what other men do or don’t do doesn’t really solve your problem. Your man doesn’t. You have to continue the relationship not …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 12:40 AM
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Cheers to 26! I’m approached more often now than ever before tbh. Also an underrated aspect is money! I have more money now and can be in places I just couldn’t afford when I was 23. And I dress better, can afford to always have my hair nails done etc
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 12:59 PM
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Girl sometimes you just have to see the most attractive man you’ve ever seen, admire and move on. If you’re at a gathering you can position yourself to be in his eye line, but I don’t think there’s any feminine way of running up to catch a man to ask him out lol There’ll be other men, why hyperfocus on one random one
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 09:39 AM
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there’s a middle ground between being super enthusiastic and never initiating. Just have a natural flow? If you prefer just texting for logistics, say that rather than leave them wondering and thinking you’re not interested. If you’re sending paragraphs to their one word sentences then yeah relax a bit. Either way I don’t think texting is really the problem. First of all, people are super flaky on dating apps anyway so they probably would have flaked whether you texted more or texted less. Secon…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 07:39 AM
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With the amount of posts you’ve made about your boyfriend in the last year, I don’t think you should get married. Not just because your boyfriend sounds like kind of a dick, but because I don’t think you are ready to be married yet. I don’t think it’s normal to need so much advice/validation/guidance from strangers on the internet. I think if you can’t trust yourself, you shouldn’t be dating. Not saying leave him. Just think you should have an honest conversation with yourself on whether you are…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/25 09:11 PM
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Are you expecting again? Congratulations ☺️❤️
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 09:55 PM
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Oh thank you Thats very kind! Started it on the train yesterday, I’ll be ready
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 09:17 AM
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I must have missed the first post! I have the book sitting on my shelf rn haven’t got round to it yet. But if you’re doing a book club I’ll catch up so I can join the next discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 10:26 PM
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I think if women have that goal in mind then this isn’t the space for them. If you have a read through the wiki the sub’s goals are pretty well defined. Those women might be more suited to the vindicta or pinkpill sub if that’s still a thing. Also, I don’t think you particularly need advice on how to use men haha. If you have the will you can do it easily. If you’re talking more about social climbing and making a living off using men then I’d bet going out and learning from pros in person is mor…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 05:38 PM
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can’t you just lie then Well, you can. But is it a good idea and gets you the best chance of keeping the man? If you’re in a relationship with somebody presumably other people knew and all it takes is a drunk friend or family member to be like “hey remember that Lewis guy you were dating right before you started dating Jamie” and suddenly Jamie realises you were lying and now wonders what else you’re lying about. Being able to trust your sexual history is really important for men, paternity and …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 05:30 PM
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WRT your other questions; i mean you don’t necessarily have to have your man be emotionally vulnerable but it’s assumed that’s what most women want and see as love. If you would be happy in a purely respect relationship then go ahead. But the idea is that men want respect and women want love so that’s why you should show love, because we’re happier showing love. If it don’t apply let it fly tho! you should have mercy for your leader because firstly, purely pragmatically, if you’re coupled/marrie…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 09:45 AM
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There was a similar post not that long ago, deleted now but here’s my comment from it “Most women’s biological imperative is a loving long term marriage/relationship with children (although there are a few childfree women here) and tbh being amoral is not the way to get yourself into one of those. It would just be bad advice to be amoral if you want a “good” man. 1) you are encouraged to pick the best man you can get. If he’s a winner, you have to have the highest SMV & RMV. There are a few wome…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 09:37 AM
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younger men “wanting to date older women” amounts to younger men wanting to sleep with older women. Pretty much the same problem that younger women have with younger men too
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 09:41 PM
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Okay looking, average and even down right hideous people fall in love and get married every single day. Do an experiment, find a local wedding photographer online and look through their portfolio. Are all the brides drop dead gorgeous? Are all the husbands 6ft and ripped? No. They’re just regular people. Who found each other attractive despite not being the pinnacle of conventional beauty. I’m sure you’ve found a guy who wasn’t all that great looking attractive before.. what makes you think men …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/25 08:30 AM
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Thermals! I just wear skirts and dresses with thermals underneath my tights. I also like knee high boots. I guess it depends what the wear is like where you’re at. It’s pretty cold where I live but not like Canada or Scandinavia cold where it’s not practical to wear skirts I like this fashion content creator https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDXmVhVIrcd/?igsh=MWZuNDllbWY4NW5oNQ==
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 11:22 AM
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It sounds like you need to make a big decision on which is the more palatable option: leaving with 2 young children or staying with him for the foreseeable future. The other comment about having a business-type marriage is a good way to view it. People have coupled up for reasons other than love and happiness for a millennia. These types of survival marriages are very common back home. Is it what you dreamed of growing up? Probably not, but that’s the situation you’re in now. He does sound horri…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 06:38 PM
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not married but just general RPW wisdom 1) you must have liked your husband at one point. enough to date him for 2 years, and agree to being engaged and having a child with him. What were those reasons? Write a list. Remember those things every day 2) yeah your living circumstances sound very annoying but there’s some good things there. Sounds like your husband is very family orientated and loyal. That has his downsides (like every family member and his dog coming to live with you) but it’s also…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 09:29 AM
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I don’t think so. I think how clean and tidy you are is simply a reflection of how you grew up. I’ve lived with all sorts of people and some of the tidiest people I’ve met were Muslim men because cleaning is a really important ritual in Islam. Military men are famously orderly, because the military forces it. Children that go to boarding school also. I genuinely just think tidiness/cleanliness is whether your parents/caregivers instilled that in you or not
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 09:12 PM
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Do you know how hard “taking care of the home front is” ??? Farming, hand washing clothes, fetching water. All that shit is EXHAUSTING. A barista job is almost luxury compared to that. Nothing takes away your delicate feminine nature like farming life lol!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 10:48 PM
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I’m quite similar to you in that I dove in too fast with too many guys but I don’t think we should be ashamed over it. We were stupid, so what? They were lying to me, they’re the ones who should have shame. Oh silly me for believing a guy who said he liked me, actually liked me. The horror! I should have been smarter, yes, but I’m not gonna lose sleep over it. I sleep peacefully knowing I don’t have to lie and deceive people into giving me something they wouldn’t otherwise. Sucks to be them more…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/25 10:33 PM
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I’m usually team “I wouldn’t date a separated person” but I think your circumstances show some good qualities; you didn’t abandon your ex when you could have and you can be civil with your ex. I’d actually really appreciate that in a potential parter I do agree that if hiking guy really didn’t want to date someone separated, he wouldn’t have started dating someone that’s separated. You’re basically in a relationship whether its labelled or not, which points to him wanting a situationship really.…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 11:49 PM
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Coming from a third world country, I think hypergamy and other Evo psych stuff is even more prominent and brutal than in first world countries. Hypergamy is relative so a successful man in a developing country can look a lot different to a successful man in a developed country. You can be successful by having the farm with the most of amount of cows in the village. It’s part of the reason why average earning men in the west can go to poorer countries in latam/Asia/Africa and be like a god, but w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 03:05 PM
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Not sure. The older I get the less I want children. 2 years ago I was heavy on the dating for marriage and children train, now I’m more ambivalent about it
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 10:18 PM
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Most women’s biological imperative is a loving long term marriage/relationship with children (although there are a few childfree women here) and tbh being amoral is not the way to get yourself into one of those. It would just be bad advice to be amoral if you want a “good” man. 1) you are encouraged to pick the best man you can get. If he’s a winner, you have to have the highest SMV & RMV. There are a few women on here who have the stereotypical HVM partner. But women on here are realistic and k…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 08:32 AM
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I feel for you, if you dislike dogs as much as I do then it sounds like an impossible choice
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 08:06 PM
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I don’t like pets so it would be for me. But I would not start dating someone with pets in the first place, it’s much harder to leave now you know how great he is. How long have you been dating? If it’s not been long maybe you will get used to it. If it’s been a while and you still feel dread going over then maybe just chalk it up to an incompatibility. You can’t live like that forever. I can relate, I hate going to my friends’ houses who have dogs
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 01:15 AM
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Does he regularly engage in such risk taking behaviour? How old is he? I can see a 15 year old thinking that’s a good idea but a grown man… It wasn’t even an extreme situation that required extreme solutions, like a child stuck in a burning building. Just call a locksmith?? 😂 Such idiocy would put me off. I don’t think you should bring it up, it’s done now and he’s fine, just consider if this is a behaviour you want in a partner
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 09:46 AM
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The leaps and bounds children make in their speech when they join nursery is amazing. Even advanced communicators get even better. It’s so good for them being around their peers
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 11:49 AM
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Teaching assistant, nursery nurse, childminding? but they don’t really pay a lot. medium to high earning jobs with a low barrier to entry would are like unicorns; everybody would love one of those. You could look into an apprenticeship also
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 06:49 PM
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I think 24 is a good age to start thinking about it, to be ready to start doing it at 25-26. I don’t think there’s any point beforehand, most couples I know that got really serious under 23 are already coparenting/divorced, by only 25-27. I think once you’ve lived independently for a bit is a good starting point
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 03:28 PM
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Me too girl. Now to find that mythical attractive masculine man who would let other men bang his woman 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 07:38 PM
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Yes. I have lusted after other men in a relationship. it’s more like a “damn he’d be fun to ride” then move on or maybe a light crush on someone I interact with regularly. It’s never an actual urge to cheat because I know it’s not worth leaving a good man. I don’t feel bad about it
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 08:55 AM
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I think this is “leave him” territory. He’s controlling, kind of unfaithful and accusatory. Like you said, if he had been upfront with his conditions at the start you would not have continued the relationship. Would you keep on driving if you realised you were going in the wrong direction?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 03:40 PM
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Yes! Great idea! Seems like completely overhauling your life at once is overwhelming for you. Sticking to one goal at a time sounds much more palatable idea. When you’re in the swing of things you can add more goals.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/25 12:41 PM
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This irritates me because why can’t a kiss just be a kiss. I feel like men (in general) don’t appreciate the finer parts of intimacy and if it’s not sex or a BJ it’s not worth it. I miss being a teenager and being able to make out without being expected to put out lol!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/25 12:00 PM
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Ok, 30lbs in 4 months then. She’s 250lbs, the weight melts off at that point
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 02:52 PM
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Girl, in the 4 months you’ve been posting on here you could have lost 50lbs and made progress on the other issues you’ve posted about. Are you being treated for your mental illness? You need to focus on that and not men. LOCK IN
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 01:26 PM
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Honestly, I wouldn’t dare say that to a boyfriend of 4 months. I feel like that would be a pretty big blow to his ego and could damage the relationship. We know men are sensitive about their jobs and status in the world, and having a new girlfriend basically confirm you’re in a dead end job doesn’t sound like something most men want to hear
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 05:07 AM
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OP posted here before and one recurring theme in the comments is she spends way too much at his place to begin with. Travelling an hour every time to spend 60-70% of time with your boyfriend of 6 months is just overstepping imo. I’m ngl if someone was in my house 70% of the time I’d expect them to chip in with dishes every now and then too
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 07:22 PM
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Always 😫you just have to put your foot down with some friends. I’ve told a couple of mine I’m not interested in hearing about their problems anymore It’s the worst when at the beginning you were trying to be supportive and encouraging the break up (because they make it sound like they’re in the worst relationship in the world) then they make up and she told the bf everything you said, now I’m the bad guy and the bf hates me. Like bro she called you a deadbeat first!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 07:55 PM
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I mean I secretly judge. But I’m not gonna lecture them on their choices, it’s none of my business. As long as they don’t continuously complain about him to me it’s whatever
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 04:14 PM
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That’s.. mean. At the very least can you get a friend/one of YOUR family members to come instead of FIL?
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/25 12:38 AM
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But you can find out they pay the bills on a first date. If they’re posting it on their profile they may have money, but they lack social understanding which would be a bigger problem for me personally
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 04:24 PM
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Why not just break up? If you’re somewhat certain he’s going and he’s “going ballistic” on you at reasonable questions about the future it’s over anyway. Just be single for a while. It’s not that bad I promise you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/25 04:22 PM
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I’ve recently joined a dating app again (🥲) and I see this a lot. “Homeowner 🏡. Own car🚗. [Insert profession]”, sometimes even their credit score. I would draw the line at posting their salary, I haven’t seen that personally though Tbh I feel sorry for them. I mean they’re not wrong that women would be happier with a guy with certain things but they’re going about it the wrong way. Or maybe it works for them idk? But if they’re leading with material things, I’d assume they’re attracting material…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/25 11:32 AM
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If you search “wife treatment” or “husband treatment” or “incremental reciprocation” in the search bar there are a lot of posts about this I think this is a good bar.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/25 02:53 PM
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Would you lend a new friend of 3 months a large amount of money? Probably not. It doesn’t make it a better idea just because you’re dating!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 09:33 PM
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Honestly this does not align with what I see in my male family members/acquaintances at all. A lot of them have girlfriends who they swear are good girls but they cheat on them. Or they have a girl that wants to commit but they’d rather play the field. My cousin is always complaining he wants his ex back because she was amazing, but he cheated on her. I met her; she was a little crazy but had a heart of gold and was really beautiful. His friends have similar stories. They all laugh about it. And…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 12:55 PM
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a) he was trying to make you happy b) you react poorly when he says no so he has learnt to just say yes and grumble about it later. I agree it’s very annoying when someone does that but if you don’t let them feel comfortable saying no then they won’t say no c) he has poor boundaries and that’s a character flaw of his. Can you deal with that
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/24 05:10 PM
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Big fat lefty here, enjoy this page a lot
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah tbf I think the line between “practice girlfriend” and “dating in your 20s and figuring things out” can be blurry. For me the line is drawn when they know for sure they don’t see a future with a woman, but pretend they do to keep her around
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/24 10:58 PM
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Cheers to 8 years!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/24 10:55 PM
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Thank you! having married family and friends is a massive green flag for me, and the article just confirmed why. Him escalating all stages of commitment is super good too. Embarrassed to admit I’ve never been asked, it’s always been me asking to be exclusive/bf gf
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/24 10:55 PM
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You can tell the original commenter is not trying to be constructive, as he did not offer any constructive criticism and is kicking a woman when she’s down. She’s ALREADY said she feels ashamed, she’s shown humility by admitting she was wrong and is asking for help. OG commenter is a man looking to shame a woman in a place where he thought that’s acceptable just because we generally agree high body count is bad. Can you see the difference between what yzuaqwerl commented and what vasiliy comment…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 05:48 PM
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I mean these days it’s pretty normal to go on a few dates and it not work out But if you never initiate conversation, never talk about yourself and just sit there smiling gormlessly then …. yeah not a lot of people are going to be interested lol. Be your weird self
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 08:22 PM
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I think leaving is one of the best arsenals a woman has in her pocket 💣 a lot of forever girlfriends (especially those that cohabitate and have children) will never leave so the man truly has no incentive to marry
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 04:13 PM
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Yeah we’re pretty tight! Without me he would deffo propose to her when her nails weren’t done or something lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 04:09 PM
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You better come back and gimme your thoughts!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/24 04:09 PM
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Completely agree. Men love being married, we can see that men remarry more than their female counterparts. I’m sure my dad will go get a 4th wife eventually, which is a shame because I quite like my current stepmother 😂 but who would’ve thought, if you don’t fix the problems that ended your first marriage they will follow you into your third…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 09:47 PM
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I agree, I haven’t seen many (any?) posts about previously divorced men on that sub. It’s mostly late 20s/early 30s couples in super long term relationships
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 09:38 PM
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I missed some context there about friends and marrying; “Those who said none of their male friends were married were two to three times as likely to tell our researchers they were not ready to marry.”, same age range I believe
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 07:59 PM
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Hitting with mal intent is always wrong. But hitting when you are surprised as a natural instinct is a completely normal reaction. I love scaring people, and I have been caught with a stray hand once or twice, even by a boyfriend. 100% of the time we laugh it off. And of course, if someone told me not to scare them then I simply would not scare them You need to be clear about what kind of pain you want. If he bit you too hard he can adjust his biting. If you actually mean you want to be spanked …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 03:28 PM
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You can avoid this behaviour by… him not biting and tickling you when you’re not into that. It’s an instinctive reaction if you really dislike being tickled/bitten. Is it like a sexy bite during intimacy or is he chomping on you randomly? Either way he needs to stop biting people who don’t want to be bitten. Honestly wtf. I don’t want to jump to abuse but him doing something unreasonable that forces you to react then telling you you’re the problem is manipulation 101. You spiralling and blaming …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 12:06 PM
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I feel like you can’t get any good advice without more information. What were the circumstances that led you to opening your marriage in the first place? Did you know/feel he was upset at your shenanigans but continue doing so? What were the pre-existing problems? Id ask him if he wants things to be fair or if he wants to be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 10:52 AM
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A 34 year old making a part time student pay 40% of the bills and do all his housework. I bet he can’t even believe he’s getting away with this
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 08:42 AM
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Which came first ? The chicken or the egg? Did he start lying/hiding/disappointing because you’re bossy and domineering? Or was he always this way and you vetted poorly? Because if it’s the first then you can draw a line under everything you and he have done to each other and start anew. Being happy is more important than being right. But if it’s the latter I don’t think you can make a liar not a liar just by adopting Laura Doyle. It’s a bit concerning that you don’t have access to his money. Is…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/24 07:39 PM
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Sorry I’m ignoring your request to only comment if this applies to you. But Search “matching luggage” on this sub. It’s good advice for women who have a colourful past
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 12:29 AM
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I know some people are crazy, but I’d bet my house that that woman didn’t just randomly start calling him 20 times and saying I love you, he made her feel comfortable enough to do so
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 10:18 PM
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I thought a major part of RP is that men don’t want to be picked for the stability/provision they provide, so I would’ve thought saying “I am looking for a boyfriend who can provide stability” would be a big fat no. Of course stability and provision are part of the husband/wife deal but you don’t explicitly say it. Like how sex is an assumed part of the deal, but women are turned off by guys mentioning it in the early stages. It’s akin to women saying they want to be taken to dinner or asking fo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 02:59 PM
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Go balls to the wall and get a boudoir photoshoot done. Not only will he love it, but in 40 years you can look back and enjoy how beautiful and sexy you were too
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/24 08:14 AM
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So true. There’s a saying like “so many men want kids but not all of them want to be a father” or something similar. For me in dating it’s an orange flag if a man doesn’t have any male relatives that are married (father, brothers, uncles, friends etc). It’s not his fault ofc but those men tend not to value marriage as a whole or see it as necessary because their whole lineage managed to have children without it. It’s a red flag if none of the men in his lives are active fathers.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 09:34 PM
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I personally don’t feel like being cute has stopped bad behaviour from (stranger) men
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 02:11 PM
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I only do it if it’s a particularly noteworthy/funny encounter otherwise I think it comes across braggadocious
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 10:32 PM
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I think if they know the person yes. Does the person know you’re in a relationship with him? Very snakey on that person’s behalf, i think most people would want to know about someone who wants to sabotage their relationship
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 10:30 PM
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Rubywootoo - i agree that dread game has no place in a strong, healthy relationship, and no woman of quality will tolerate it. I think dread game is used by men who are insecure in their ability to keep women satisfied and happy in the long term, or men who are so bitter and broken down by their partners’ indifference and disrespect that they feel like they need to light a fire under their partners’ asses in order to feel wanted and appreciated. I will admit, however, that when I see women light…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 09:04 PM
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I thought of that too. If the places OP performs is anywhere like that girl was performing… I wouldn’t want my fiancée performing there either 😂 can’t understand why OP doesn’t just go to classes or female only shows. It’s like pole dancing. Lots of men would be okay with, or even happy, about their wife going to pole dancing classes, but would draw the line at stripping for men
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:27 PM
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I see your second point in my personal life too. I’m a bit older than you but not that far removed from college age (24). Every single one of my friends in long term relationships, slept with their partner on their first or second date. I don’t know if it’s realistic to expect a guy to commit to you without sleeping with them soon-ish in this day and age, unless the guy is extremely religious or undesirable. I do think it’s easier to get a date at my age than it was in college. Wouldn’t dare lea…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/24 11:33 PM
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surely your successful family members know other successful men who may be looking? Host dinner parties/bbqs/gatherings and make your family bring a friend
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:17 AM
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Manchester is great for hiking there’s the Peak District, Lake District and Yorkshire dales not too far a drive and there’s lots of water based activities to do at those places. I wouldn’t say Manchester is hard up on organisations and groups to join? I think you should go to Bristol if you want to settle down in Bristol. But I think it’d be harder to date there as 1) like you say it’s a younger crowd and 2) I think a lot of the older men in Bristol are Peter Pan types I understand the drive to …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 12:13 AM
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No I agree, I know literally tons of people who have half or step siblings. I have 3 on my dad’s side and 2 on my mum’s side. After a certain age most people have children and it’s not like nobody over say, 35 never dates again. I think it’s just hard no for younger, childless men. Even then, dare I say if you’re attractive enough it can be overcome. I have a friend who is gorgeous with 2 children and found herself a nice boyfriend. He’s not some scrub or undesirable either
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 11:44 PM
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I think it’s okay life it shouldn’t make or break a relationship if you have to put petrol in the car once in a while. Growing up my parents always made us children put petrol in so doing it isn’t a big deal to me lol. It’s like taking out the bin - whoever it’s more convenient for to do it should do it. I’d never drive my car home empty expecting my man to fill it up, just like I’d never fill the bin and expect the next person to take it out. I prefer the idea of making life easier for one anot…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 10:06 PM
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You shouldn’t expect unconditional love, and you better not give it either. Of course love should be based on conditions. If your man loses his job and never applies for another one and starts hitting you i hope you won’t continue loving him! You shouldn’t choose to love people who don’t have the same goals in life either. Romantic unconditional love is for codependent people with weak boundaries. You could stand to meet someone more compassionate though lol. There are plenty of men out there wh…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 09:11 AM
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Would an attractive guy really want to keep in contact with a girl he met at a bar that’s not dating him? In the 2024 dating climate? 🤔 Also I thought investment opportunity in RP was about women dating their college boyfriends or other early-mid 20s boyfriends, not 30 year olds
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 03:21 PM
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He wants to be a military infantry officer AND go to law school AND he just started a business? He’s got his fingers in too many pies. I don’t necessarily think everybody gets it right and is on the right career path for them by 30, so I wouldn’t mind someone who was working on a career change, but being laser focused is important by then. I just ended it with a guy over something similar, he was 35 and had 3 businesses and a job and wanted to do something else and it’s just too much. You can’t …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 03:19 PM
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Wow those comments are completely overblown and out of left field 😂 I don’t have children but it’s your choice I suppose. Normal in some places, not in others. I see it as less him seeing you in soul destroying pain and more him giving you comfort at your most vulnerable? I also think a good man would love to be present whilst his child is born and could be hurt by your request. He could just stay at the business end (head) and not the party end (vag). I also like to keep mystery in my relations…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 01:43 AM
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My sister buys clothes for her son from a friend of hers who sells them in bulk. So it’ll be like a bag of clothes worth £100 or whatever and she sells it for £80. 100% there will be people on Facebook marketplace willing to snatch them up. It’s less money than selling individually but way less time as you don’t have to take pictures of every item. F the ironing, getting premium baby brand clothes for less than retail price will be worth whatever ironing there is for lots of people out there
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/24 08:54 AM
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My favourite retort to weird questions is - “what a strange thing to say out loud.” Whilst looking really confused. Not really sure why you’re letting yourself be talked to like this. I agree with other comments they fancy you and are trying to make you feel bad because you don’t like them back. They don’t sound like actual friends. It’s okay to just sit on the other side when you’re hanging out in a large group, and it sounds like you shouldn’t hang out with them one on one
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/24 08:15 AM
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How old are you two and how long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/24 09:07 PM
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Girl, if you’ve never met, that isn’t your boyfriend. Sorry. I am sure there thousands of eligible bachelors within your city that you can actually build a life together with, not just talk about it
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 11:11 AM
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Don’t you think this is the root of alllll your problems, not how often you sex you have, sex before marriage, your gorgeous friend etc? Why don’t you trust yourself? You strike me as a neurotic person. You can get help for that. I don’t think you’ll be satisfied with anything until you learn to trust yourself and your decision making
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/24 07:13 PM
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I’ve definitely cancelled a trip through my card when the company is giving me headache. For example Ryanair are notorious for being difficult to work with when something goes wrong so I’ve done a chargeback on my credit card instead of going through the company
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 09:15 AM
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LOL!! Well when you put it that way, it sounds crazy and he’d be understandably cautious. its never been a problem for me, but I suppose i dont travel to men I meet on the internet so ive never had to think how it feels when there’s a shaky foundation of trust. When I first started dating my ex he would just send me the money to come visit him but he had already met me so knew i wasnt a scammer Even if the reservation is in her name, if he paid he can just bypass the reservation completely and c…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/24 03:15 PM
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Oh no, its not a test at all! I just meant in a way if something goes wrong on the trip shes not left to the whims of his feelings. He wont be able to cancel any bookings if its in her name / her card. I’ve heard so many stories of people being stranded on a trip like this, and this is the way I’ve always travelled personally. Unless its someone you I really know and trust or im travelling with, i dont travel under other people’s bookings
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/24 03:11 PM
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he has no signs of being a violent man Well, obviously. Most domestic abusers aren’t broadcasting that online or to potential partners. He hopefully will not be, but you wouldnt know that just from speaking to each other on the phone. If you do go and see him, have him send you the money and you book everything in your name and card, rather than him making bookings for you on his card.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/24 06:50 AM
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Do you… do you fancy your friend? Why have you dissected how she looks and how men will like her like this? I have friends way more attractive than me and I’ve never had any of these thoughts. He’s even said he’s not attracted to her, I’m not sure what else you want from him. They don’t have to meet if you don’t want them to either. Do it. Or don’t. Just stop making a massive deal about it lol. Stop asking him about her and looking at her profile with him
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 03:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/gUqRVVnBvz If you search “matching luggage” or “high body count” on this sub there’s lots of posts about this topic. Resentment at yourself for actions you can’t undo is a waste of energy. Figure out a way to forgive yourself. Not forget, so you don’t repeat the same mistakes, but so you can move on. I’ve slept with a couple guys I wish I hadn’t, but oh well. Honestly with time you just sorta forget about them lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/24 11:18 AM
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So what you do, is go and find a woman who already has the qualities you rate highly. You don’t tell a woman who doesn’t have those qualities that she should pay a few thousands and undergo surgery to appease you. It’s very simple. Also, rule number 9
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/24 03:25 PM
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Thank you 🕺🏾
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 09:39 AM
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Agreed, stating is generally rude but sometimes i just can’t help it! I try to avert my eyes. Then wonder if that makes me look weirde/bitchier 😂
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/24 06:58 PM
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Might just be my device but those last 2 links aren’t working
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/24 06:56 PM
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I wouldn’t assume all the stares are negative. I also stare at well dressed people because they look great
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/24 05:29 PM
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Imo a lot of women are just not having enjoyable sex. They don’t know how. “Sex positivity” is only a recent thing in western countries. Before that female sexuality for one’s self wasnt talked about or even thought of, just how female sexuality can benefit men (a la glamour mags, porn etc). Im 24, and when I was in school girls who masturbated were named and shamed. It was seen as so embarrassing for a girl to be masturbating. Best believe after a few girls were “exposed” as masturbators I deci…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 11:14 PM
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Over 🕺🏾 my 🕺🏾 dead 🕺🏾 body 🕺🏾
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 07:55 PM
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He literally said he doesn’t have plans for the future, where did you get the idea he’s going to propose soon 😂
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 09:00 AM
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I am ENFP and I tend to date other E types, I’ve never been interested in “strong and silent” or “silent and mysterious” type of men
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 12:34 PM
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Don’t bring up past dating experiences without being asked and don’t share names. Also, these are guys you TALKED to. You didn’t even date them. You should really forget about them. Talking to someone for two weeks doesn’t count as a dating story so I don’t know why you bring them up when asked or name drop them. Delete screenshots and old conversations too, why do you still have conversations with guys you talked to on your phone? I think YOU are putting too much significance on these guys
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 12:36 AM
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Your mum sounds awesome! My mum is also a cancer survivor. Very hard working lady that does so much to help others. Thick skinned, she works with violent patients in hospitals and some of the stuff she puts up with would make me cry. Very generous, even at my age she’ll send me money if I’m going out. Lets me live at home not paying bills 😂 Dependable. Emotionally mature, never has she belittled me or disparaged me like emotionally immature mothers seem to do. Supportive, I can’t even imagine wh…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/24 05:49 PM
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Thank you! I do always assume childless men are either due to choice or infertility. Never really hear about men who it just didn’t happen for
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/24 02:19 AM
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I’d like to see that article if you have time to find it
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/24 12:29 AM
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Ooft I think that’s a bit much for 4 months. I feel like that’s more appropriate after a year or two when you know you’re locked in and it’s obviously a joke. At this point you still don’t really know each other, so it might hint at you being a boiler bunny. Also I think this would be better as an anniversary present, not a birthday present. Birthday presents should really be about the person and not about you. I really can’t imagine this would be on any grown man’s birthday wish list
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 03:07 PM
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I don’t think it’s a red pill tactic but it’s very common - reel women in with the idea of a nice date then switch last minute to something low-key. I’ve had scenarios where they’d say let’s go to dinner then last minute oh can we push it to 10 o clock and go for drinks or you can just come to mine. a lot of them know quite a few women aren’t down for coffee/walks/late night drinks/Netflix and chill so they entice you with dinner and hope you like them enough to just go to their house. Nope. I’d…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 01:19 AM
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SHE said he’s a narcissist. I’m not assuming anything, how narcissists (or people who exhibit narcissist traits) treat their romantic partners is well documented. I’m just describing the usual dynamic between a narcissist or narcissistic people and their partners. Even if he’s not a narcissist (I doubt he’s been diagnosed as one), the hot and cold type relationship is a common enough experience. Maybe you’re right and she’s highly sexually attracted to his narcissism, but from what i have seen, …
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 11:25 AM
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imo a lot of this is probably in your head and you can train yourself out of it. He’s a narcissist (is he really?) so he has traits like lack of empathy, arrogance, entitlement and so I bet he treats you awfully outside the bedroom when he’s not trying to sleep with you. So when you do have sex, it’s the only time you feel close and loved. It feels even hotter and more amazing because he’s so cold the rest of the time. I bet he’s not actually that amazing in bed, but the hot and cold nature of y…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/24 03:55 PM
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Totally agree. There’s a lot of women who think you can goddess of light your way into a man not abusing you
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 11:15 PM
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Sitting around waiting all dressed up for someone who may or may not show up is one of the worst romantic feelings 😞
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 07:10 PM
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Submitting and following comes with the prerequisite that you have chosen a good man. You’re not supposed to submit to any Tom dick and Harry, you’re supposed to submit to a man you trust. This sounds like you don’t trust him - and for good reason, who would trust a man that verbally abuses them and wastes the family money? The question is, is he working towards rebuilding your trust? Are you open to trusting him again and moving past resentment? I feel like there’s more backstory that we need t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 11:20 PM
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Your intention behind your actions is what makes it immoral. At 22, there’s nothing wrong with dating around, dating for fun and figuring out what you like. That usually includes guys taking you out on dates. But you seem to be punishing the guys you’re going on dates with for something you don’t even know they’ve done? If you open your heart up, I’d bet you enjoy dating a lot more than this defensive, malicious way you’re doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 01:39 PM
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Agreed this is a case of red pill brain rot. It doesn’t matter if a man is 6ft and handsome if he’s not treating you well. A 6 who treats you amazingly > an 8 who sees you as a FWB
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:55 AM
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how many chances will I have to snag a hvm that is over 6 foot? Who has strong provider mindset as in he wants to provide for a sahm and kids? I think you’re putting the cart before the house here. Are you sure he wants to provide for you? He’s not even treating you well in the relationship stage, what makes you think he’ll make you his wife?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:53 AM
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Yeah i don’t think there is a real difference if you have a HVM as a FWB or just a regular guy. I guess it’s nice that he takes you nice places but the moral value doesn’t change because of who he is Regardless though, this is not quite RPW advice but if you are are not religious and 20 the likelihood about the man you will marry caring that you’ve had 1 sexual partner is minus zero. In fact you’d be a unicorn to lots of guys. Just don’t let those numbers rack up
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 03:20 PM
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Lots of the women here say that if a guy is talking about RP man stuff, boasting about how dominant he is and how submissive he wants his wife to be, run for the hills. That’s not the type of man many women here are with or looking for. As soon as a guy mentions he likes submissive women, I’m outta there 🏃‍♀️ there’s ways a man can express the type of relationship without sounding like he’s fallen into the Kevin samuels rabbit hole.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 01:54 PM
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Tbh it seems you went from one terminally online extreme to another. Can’t you be balanced? Figure out what YOUR real interests are, and stop letting people online tell you what to do and what to think (ignoring the irony of me, a person online, telling you what to do and what to think LMAO). If you like anime then watch anime. If you are really bisexual then embrace bisexuality, you’ll be happier than suppressing it. If you don’t want to be in the church, then find a better church or don’t go t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 12:22 PM
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Check out r/deadbedrooms you’re not alone in this but from what I’ve seen the chances of it changing are slim especially if he’s not willing to address the situation like actually get his T levels checked out or stop watching porn. However the fact that he still has a sex drive and wants head all the time leads me to believe he’s not interested in intercourse specifically with you? Being honest with yourself have you let yourself go in any way since moving in together? There’s also the possibili…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 01:51 PM
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I agree with this completely. OP, I wonder if it’s truly in your best interests to have a “no sex before marriage” relationship at your age, if you’re dating men in their late 20s-30s. There’s nothing wrong with waiting of course, but marriage is a massive step and no sex before marriage doesn’t align well with the modern climate. You have to ask yourself - what kind of man in his 30s who has never been married before would be happy to have no sex before marriage? Imo only one with a low sex dri…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:01 AM
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Im a Modern day Aristotle, what can I say 😌 Jk glad it helped!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 10:04 PM
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Glad it helped! Definitely focus on the parts you love about yourself and not stew on the negative if you can’t change your situation, it’ll make the days go by faster❤️
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 10:03 AM
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To me, not smiling and being standoffish to strangers who are polite to you is not feminine or graceful. It doesn’t reflect well on you or your partner. If he’s the type of man who really wants his woman to never smile at another man I would be questioning his confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 09:58 AM
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Have you ever felt like you should be wary and worried about her? If you’ve never seen any red flag behaviour from her and you genuinely think she’s kind and a good friend, and haven’t seen any jealous or not girls girl behaviour from her, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she was just confiding in you negative thoughts about herself. If her actions don’t match up with her words then I’d think she was being overly critical of herself. Sure, having negative and jealous thoughts…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:11 PM
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No problem!! Glad to help
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 09:33 PM
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It really depends on the guy. Some guys do like flowers but a lot if not most don’t give a heck. Does he keep flowers in his home? If not I would look for something daisy themed. If he’s an adventurous dresser maybe daisy cuff links or a daisy tie? If he keeps his home well decorated (like not a typical male living space™️), daisy place mats? If he’s into self care a Daisy candle or a Daisy incense mat? I think he’d be so appreciative that you remembered his favourite flower, Im just thinking of…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 07:07 PM
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Sooo your friends, his friends, your therapist and his therapist (people you actually know and are familiar with the situation) are all team break up, so you come to the internet looking for someone to say you guys should stay together? And when that doesn’t work because everyone obviously says break up, you make a new account. He cheats, he’s manipulative, verbally abusive. You also have your own shit that you need to sort out. If you want to stay together, just stay together because you’re not…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 11:42 AM
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You can’t let your parents determine your path in life. And if being a mother is your dream then absolutely do not let them ruin that. You should start a support group for your brothers. You’re single with 11 niblings, you could surely take 3-5 of them at a time for a weekend. Hopefully your brothers will appreciate that and when you have your own children they’ll be there too. Big sleepovers with the cousins were a great part of my childhood. Also, depending on their ages, by the time you have …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 09:17 AM
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This may have been a fever dream, but there was a post on here about RP women who didn’t “present” as RP women ie hyperfeminine. There were quite a few career women and women in male dominated fields. There were also a few women who had a more laid back and sporty or alternative and grungy styles over dresses and heels. Whilst obviously femininity and masculinity have stereotypical looks about them, really they’re about values. You could be the biggest tomboy in the world but still be feminine b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 06:59 PM
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Teaching assistant, substitute teacher? I think nursing is a great option for SAHMs. Pick shifts when and where you want, really easy to keep your license, nurses are always in demand, great childcare options
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 08:34 AM
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There’s lots of opinions out there about contraception but I would just like to remind you that lots and lots and lots of very educated people have dedicated their lives to researching it and making it safe for today’s standards. It DOES affect your hormones and your moods but that does not make it unsafe. Long term use of contraception does not affect future fertility. Nearly 15 thousand women were part of this study and the vast majority of them were able to get pregnant within the year (which…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 11:37 PM
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Offering another female perspective, blowjobs do nothing for me sexually. I don’t like giving them, they don’t turn me on. I agree that it is nice to pleasure your partner - but for me it’s the same way it’s pleasurable to see my partner eat a meal I made for them. I love seeing them be happy, but the cooking and cleaning part is still work and doing it doesn’t turn me on. They do not give me real pleasure in the way touching me does. However they are a pretty standard part sex so unlikely to fi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:12 PM
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It is NOT a glitch in a moment of pressure. Is he an all round angry and uncontrrollable man? Or Do you think he has never glitched like that to his employer? To his financial advisor? To his mortgage lender? Abusive men have the uncanny ability to only blow up at the people they want to control (their woman, children), yet are completely rational towards other people in their life. How curious.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 10:09 AM
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The real him is the aggressive man who threatens your family (??? Wtf is that about). Please read Why Does He Do That Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft. He is unlikely to change. If his first response to joyous news of a baby is to be aggressive then that is who he is. If you want to keep it, go forwards choosing to be a single mother. A child without a father is better than a child with a father who abuses their mother or worse yet, abuses them
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 01:50 AM
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Interesting. With don’t be funny and let him do most of the talking - don’t you feel like you can’t be yourself around him? I’d have thought at least in privacy of your own home you’d just be able to relax instead of putting on the same show you have to for his acquaintances
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 08:26 AM
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Do you really care what men on the internet say about you, or do you only care about what one man (your ideal man) says about you? Sure, if your ideal man is a pious religious man who believes in no sex before marriage, than yeah not being a virgin is a big problem. But if you don’t, then it doesn’t matter. Single digits, no ONS is plenty “pure” enough for most men, in fact lots of men would see you as a unicorn in a society where lots of women are on double digits or sleeping around. You don’t …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:45 PM
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Its really irritating when posters paint one picture in their post, then when people (rightly) negatively respond to what has been written, the OP adds dozens of new details and defends the actions in the post. We’re not clairvoyants
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 01:52 PM
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Welllll if it’s always been that way, isn’t that a clue that you don’t have a stretched out vagina? If the guy couldn’t cum quickly the first time you had sex, it couldn’t possibly be because you were stretched out, right? You were a virgin! There are a handful of reasons guys might take a long time to cum. Yes one of the reasons is you could have a wider vagina. Or Maybe they whack off a lot and can’t cum quick with anyone anymore. Or they could just naturally take a long time to cum. Maybe the…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 08:02 PM
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I don’t think this sub appreciates any insight from “BBCSnowbunnylover”
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 07:52 PM
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What a horrific comment from anybody who is lucky enough to sleep with you. If a large penis was enough to permanently stretch a woman, why would any man sleep with his wife after she had children again? It’s pure lies. Some women naturally have wider vaginas, some have narrower ones - that’s all it is. The same vagina can feel different to two different men because they have different sized penises. The same vagina can feel different to the same man - when you’re dry and unaroused you’re smalle…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 04:46 PM
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26 year olds are not barren Jesus Christ
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 04:07 PM
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Losing weight is an excellent time to learn how to cook. There are so many recipes out there that you can try and it’ll make a diet more fun not eating the same meals all the time. Both of those things should be your priority. Walk and chew gum. Regardless, fat women should date. Yes, men are attracted to slimmer women and slimmer women have more options. Does that mean no fat woman ever get commitment from a good man? Of course not. That’s red pill delusion. Every day I go outside and see fat p…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/24 11:34 PM
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Single, seeing it from the other side. I definitely expect to be relegated to lower priority once husband and children come along and I’m fine with that. I also try and offer up kid-friendly activities so I can see them more. Easier to join them at the park than coordinate a bottomless brunch ha. However I also see where those women are coming from. The woman who drops off the face of the earth when she’s got a partner then comes running back when they break up is not a rare phenomenon. I will m…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 10:38 PM
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Please read “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men” by Lundy Bancroft. is there any chance he could actually regret losing me Yes, abusers do regret losing their plaything that is devoted to them and puts up with all their actions. He has to go find a new girl to abuse now. It’s a big inconvenience for him. and it be worth it to him to treat me better to have me? Yes… for a moment, then he will go right back to his abusive ways. The author of that book did therapy fo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 11:26 AM
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Tbh this sounds less like a case of you’re not inspiring him, and more like a case of a guy who got burned once and doesn’t want it to happen again. Your bf did a lot for his ex and if it was a nasty break up I can imagine it’s easy for him to be like “I’m never doing that for another woman again”. It’s like if you’ve ever dated someone who wasn’t that into you whilst you were pouring your heart out to them and when you break up you think “I’m never opening myself up like that again”. I really d…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 07:13 PM
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Time to pull out ol’ reliable again.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 10:15 PM
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You 100% could have acted better in the first example. The second one is rather nonsensical on his behalf. Have you asked why and how he thinks you should buy him things when you don’t work?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 09:19 PM
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It’s 2024 and people are still getting catfished 😱 has Nev taught us nothing?!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 08:15 AM
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why did you choose the other guys over Guy A in the first place? That seems like pertinent information
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 04:21 PM
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I’d make chicken wings in a few different flavours and cocktails. I love hosting!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 02:28 PM
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OP I get you. It’s particularly offensive when men older than my father attempt it. In what world is that gonna happen grandpa. May not be very graceful but oh well that’s what I’m thinking
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 07:17 AM
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this comment is relevant again
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/23 09:53 PM
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What does them having sex have to do with how he treats their son? Can men only spend time with their children if they’re having sex? If so, that’s a poor indictment on men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 11:52 PM
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I would check out r/asoneafterinfidelity and r/loveafterporn .
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 01:06 PM
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That good old classic. Some people are fine with that lifestyle which is okay, but it’s not for everyone and that’s also okay
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 12:15 PM
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I see. To be frank it doesn’t sound like he’s all that committed to fidelity with a history of messaging other women, physical incidents, thinking you were in a one sided open relationship and not having any idea how to prove his loyalty. This seems to be who he is and how he operates. If his family also engage in affairs, he probably views it as normal and something men just do sometimes and women should put up with. Some people are okay with these arrangements, you need to decide if you are. I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 11:58 AM
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Comparing your boyfriend’s efforts to some of the efforts I’ve seen on the AOAI sub, it doesn’t sound like your boyfriend is all that committed to reconciliation tbh. Him minimising his actions and your feelings isn’t a great start. Reconciliation is a gift, does he appreciate that? Does he understand his actions almost lost you? How inappropriate were his actions? “Inappropriate” implies it wasn’t full blown physical cheating which could be easier to forgive. Was it a friendly relationship that…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 09:13 AM
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But “finding compatibility” with every man you date would just lead you to having a high n count… how are you supposed to know if he is a good and honest guy after 1/2/3 dates? For every couple who slept together on the first date and ended up happily ever after, there’s like 10 more women that got pumped and dumped
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 07:54 PM
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Right? Some things are just better left unsaid 😕
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 03:20 PM
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Yikes. It’s one thing to feel that way and I’m sure a lot of men secretly do, but it’s another to express that and cause insecurity in your partner. Some things are just better left unsaid. If you said “well if a richer man came along and wanted to wife me, it’s in my nature to leave you” everybody would be bollocking you for being so tactless. What other podcasts do you guys watch? If it’s like fresh n fit stuff I would be concerned how much he’s influenced condoned by grifters.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 02:59 PM
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How old are you? Is the “similarly spaced in age” part something you can compromise on? I think once the youngest is 5 generally you’ll feel more relaxed because they’re in school but I have no idea what pressures there are with home schooling
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 09:13 AM
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Thank you for your detailed reply! I do want to cook for him… if he’ll let me. The problem is we sleepover at his place and he says it’s easier if he does everything and he likes his coffee in a certain way. He’s a catch lol. I will insist next time! And learn how to use a cafetière 😂 he does love candles, I will pick up some candles for him too. I like to think I’ve got the sex part down 😅
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 10:13 AM
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Could you give any more specific ideas of incremental reciprocation? I’ve already baked for my guy (cannoli, he loved them!) going to buy him a hot sauce set soon but not sure what else! He does so much for me and doesn’t let me pay for anything so I wanna show him I appreciate him some more. Any ideas? :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:15 PM
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I’m not sure exactly what you mean by conquering but to make him feel like a hero you could buy some furniture and ask him for help building it! I’m sure you could do with a new bookcase or side table lol. Or if he’s handy and there’s something broken around the house ask him if he could fix it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 12:21 PM
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It’s only been a week after 4 great dates and an unexpected ending. I think most people would still be upset in those circumstances! Give yourself a couple weeks to mope around and be sad then move on. You’re not alpha widowed, you’ve just been dumped. Hugs!
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 09:24 AM
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Girl he sells drugs for them 😂
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 01:23 PM
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Well I think everyone deserves respect in that general human way, like I treat people I come across kindly and hold open doors, make space for them etc. In relationships though, you’re not supposed to reward mediocre character. You have to vet to determine if they’re worthy of your wifely respect. Don’t give your love and life to any old Tom Dick or Harry. Don’t follow someone you don’t trust.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 09:19 AM
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Nah you’re trolling 😂 in what way are fun and engaging exclusive of receptive and empathetic? I now let the man decide whether or not he wants a fun conversation or a more serious one. It’s not my place to control him and tell him how I want to act. I’m imagining you sitting in silence until the man speaks and decides what to speak about. Is that how you imagine a relationship works? YOU are supposed to enjoy being with him too, you know. Have you ever seen Coming to America? Eddie Murphy is pre…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 07:25 AM
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Right? And their idea of woman is all the stereotypical traits of a woman that lots of naturally born women don’t have, yet are still women
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:52 PM
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Agreed a lot of gay people are drowned out by all the extreme trans stuff. I think lesbians have a hard time too - they’re lesbian, they don’t want to be with a woman with a penis but they’re called Terfs for having that boundary lol what the heck. I’m totally fine with calling people whatever they want to be called and they can do whatever they like with their bodies - but when trans women start talking about their period symptoms I can’t help but laugh
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 02:22 PM
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Isn’t that the golden question? Why can’t we all just get along 🥺 Live and let live. As long as we all treat each other with respect, what goes on behind closed doors is no one’s business (safeguarding issues notwithstanding). Whether that’s living a RPW lifestyle or where the lady is the breadwinner or completely egalitarian, there are so many ways to be happy and it doesn’t look the same for everyone. Prepping for the end times is exactly the kind of batshit, inoffensive things we should just …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 09:55 AM
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You gals shouldn’t be nervous! Radical feminism has been discussing the negative effects of sex work for decades and it’s a totally valid stance. Radfems and conservative women have more in common than one would assume
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 10:00 PM
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Personally I’d prefer to work, part time work would be ideal. I like some parts of homemaking like cooking and decorating but cleaning is the worst. I love children but being around them all day, every day is not for me either. I think every woman has a different temperament and should do what works best for her and the family. It’s just important to remember that it’s difficult to “have it all” and one has to choose was to prioritise between being a mother, working and the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 10:15 PM
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I have a couple of thoughts. Yes, you overreacted. Your husband was probably so happy about what you got him and was too overeager to keep the present to himself and gave it to you early. I’m the same - I’ve planned a surprise party for someone and spilled the beans because I just couldn’t keep it in. He probably just couldn’t wait to see your face when you received it… and this is how you reacted. Disappointment and poor reaction. He’ll probably be apprehensive of buying you anything again. I w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 01:35 PM
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I try to be reasonable aha! Agreed the individualism in the west is putting so much stress on people. It confuses me when I hear about people who have family members close by but struggle with getting a night off from the kids! Growing up we used to have huge sleepovers with all the cousins/fake cousins and our parents would take turns hosting them so they would all have some time to breathe. People are really missing that kind of community these days.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 08:41 PM
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Oh absolutely. People in poorer countries think money just grows on trees in the west. The sob stories really do pull on your heart strings but you just can’t help everyone. The financial stability of the immediate family comes first, always. But I wouldn’t mind going without a few luxuries if someone really needed help.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 12:42 PM
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It definitely helps if your family are reasonable people. I know some parents can be really overbearing and want to control every little thing which is not the role of parents to adults. I’d say at worst my family are too nosy for their own good, but other people have to deal with really overbearing and perhaps narcissistic parents who view the children as extensions of themselves. I find the kicking your child out at 18/21/25 thing so backwards… I will be in my mother’s house until I’m ready to…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 09:14 AM
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Clannish is the right word! It’s definitely an important discussion. I don’t want to put extended family over the immediate family but i also want to keep familial bonds strong. Yes I wholeheartedly believe marriage is the joining of two families, not just two people. My family is really close to my sister’s husband’s family. I babysit my sister’s brother in law’s kids often. If there’s any upside to having close extended family, it’s free childcare! 😂
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 09:06 AM
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I think it depends on culture. In my country families are really enmeshed, like we’re all up in each other’s business. I can understand why that might be offputting for others but it’s my normal. It’s not to an extent where you can’t make your own path in life but I expect our parents to be included in our future. My future financial plans include being able to support my parents in some way and I hope my future husband will be okay with that, because I’m gonna do it anyway. I already support my…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 10:04 PM
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It seems like all the things you’re doings are taking a lot out of you, and the disappointment you feel after your attempts don’t work is really hurting which is understandable. So I just wouldn’t do any of the stuff you’re doing for him anymore. Keep doing stuff like shaving your legs, looking pretty etc for yourself and to honour the commitment you made to your husband, but anything extra that is for him should be tabled until he is willing to meet you in the middle. I don’t have any advice on…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 07:45 PM
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Should be this approached the surrendered wife way or the why men love/marry bitches way? The comments mentioning how you’re bending yourself backwards to appeal to him made me think. It’s like reciprocal investment. If you were dating him and making him dinner, baking for him etc and he wasn’t giving you anything back, would you bake even more goodies for him? No, because that approach clearly isn’t working. It’s a two way street. Just thought I’d offer up another perspective, feel free to disr…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 05:29 PM
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Ummm I think you’re the one being wilfully ignorant if you think that doesn’t happen 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 09:07 AM
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My best friend is in a relationship I don’t agree with, but it’s not my place to even agree or disagree with it in the first place. If she vents to me, I’ll listen and offer advice but I don’t bring him up to bash him unprompted. I’ll be honest when she told me she was pregnant I didn’t know how to react and she probably would have described me the same way. She was 19, I think most people would have struggled to be supportive of that. Try and view it objectively. I’m not sure how long you were …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 10:33 AM
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I’ve found my people!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 11:16 PM
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I feel like my nose buds are broken because I hate this and everyone else loves it. I received some for my birthday 2 years ago and it’s still full. I wouldn’t even recommend it to my worst enemy 😂 funny how tastes differ!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 01:55 PM
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Lancôme la vie est belle is my favourite ever
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 01:54 PM
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No your opinions are valid I just wanted to understand a bit more :) a guy who’s commenting on loads of womens posts or messaging every woman they come across is vvv embarrassing I agree. But I think it can be a good way to connect with someone you know of (like mutual friends but never see them in person) or an old schoolmate or colleague. Maybe it’s my age but tons of people I know are in relationships that started on instagram
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 06:34 PM
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What’s really the difference between meeting someone on instagram vs a dating app? If you don’t use dating apps then I understand why you feel uneasy about it but if you do then I’m a bit confused
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 01:38 PM
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I think the fact you’re feeling anxiety and panic shows that this is more of a mental problem, and it makes sense if you’re dealing with burnout, exhaustion and the struggles of your life! Give yourself some grace. If your mum is really sick then I think it’s okay for counting calories to take a backseat as long as you otherwise eat healthy and exercise. Otherwise, what can you rearrange in your life to make sticking to your meal plan easier? If planning your meals for today makes you anxious, w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 01:14 PM
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Agree with the other comment he sounds more uninterested than just shy
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 01:05 PM
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Thank you for the advice! How do you do it? Any tips and tricks?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:43 PM
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About to graduate in engineering 🤓 i did only start looking into RPW last year but I can’t say what I do has ever impacted my relationships. I think it’s mostly because I don’t really conform to the engineer stereotype many people have in their heads. I’m bubbly, talkative, kind, present myself well etc. People are often surprised at what I do. Most guys have been impressed, or at least pretend to be. If you love animation go for it, just don’t let your job be your life and leave work at work. I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 11:48 AM
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I wouldn’t say based off that information he’s emotionally manipulating you. Some people, guys especially, can just have sex with people they don’t like because it’s just sex to them. I wouldn’t care about a guy sleeping with someone they knew they didn’t like as a serious relationship, as long as they didn’t view them as “a hole”. Not quite the same but I can’t say I’ve never shared a kiss after a first date with a guy I was pretty sure I wasn’t going to see again. I agree with your friends tha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 09:51 AM
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I know the dating market is a competition, but I personally don’t internalise it that way. As a human, i don’t feel any better or worse than other girls he’s dated, we were just simply more compatible and made the conscious decision to commit to each other. I just simply don’t give any thought to his ex-partners. I’m sure some of them were lovely girls, maybe others were awful, what do I gain from comparing myself to them? I don’t feel superiority for being the one to snag commitment from him. M…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 09:53 PM
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I searched this lady’s instagram, and admittedly I do not dress modestly, but the “worst” I can seen her wearing is flowy knee length dresses, skirts and tights or one picture where she’s in shorts but she’s on holiday in the south of France. Your idea of modesty is not everyone’s idea of modesty. I would not necessarily agree that dressing immodestly (to an extent) means you aren’t traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 10:53 AM
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I met my last ex at a wedding. I dropped the handkerchief. He was a groomsman and my sister was a bridesmaid and I’d had my eye on him the whole day. At some point I asked him if he knew where my sister was and he said he’d help me look for her. Basically just find a really good excuse to talk to a guy and if he finds you attractive he will be willing to help. Good eye contact before talking to him can help establish if he finds you attractive. It’s nerve wracking to make the first move for sure…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 01:19 AM
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I sit back and smile prettily and let them handle it. If they’re awkwardly pausing I’ll offer to go halves but can’t remember the last time I did that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 01:09 AM
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As much as men like younger women, it’s not the be all and end all imo. Plenty of people find love again after their first or second divorce. People in nursing homes fall in love. I went to a wedding last year and the bride was 37, first marriage. Perhaps when you’re that wealthy you care more about looks. I bet her girl game is on point.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 07:49 PM
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I don’t think hitting during an argument even as a joke is acceptable because obviously there’s a hint of malice in that. You’re very much opening yourself up to him hitting you as a joke during arguments and it won’t be nice when the shoe is on the other foot. I do think playfighting is fine, like a small push during jokes or play wrestling but I don’t think that’s what you’re describing
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 07:34 PM
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I definitely think the level of daily commitment and barrier to entry is what’s stopping the masses from using natural contraception techniques. Just reading this made me tired lol! For a lot of women, even taking a pill every day on time is asking for too much. I also think the average woman is not too interested in what her body is doing exactly, she just wants to prevent pregnancy. I’m not anti-contraception myself (in fact I think people who don’t want a baby but don’t pay attention to their…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 12:00 PM
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Does he have a brother or a cousin or something sis? 👀 I always find myself drawn to those kind of guys! Idk something about starting little petty fights just keeps the magic alive 😍 my most recent ex loved it when I jokingly brought up “other bitches” just so we could make up lol. Probably had a screw loose but he’s a good man haha
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 11:30 AM
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Idk, he could be one of those people that sends pictures of what he’s doing? Like if someone asks what I’m up to sometimes I’ll send a quick pic of my tea or at the gym or whatever. Consequence of growing up with Snapchat I guess, I’m around the same age as OP too. I would’ve thought that sending a picture of them would be encouraging. If he was going to cheat why would he send evidence you know?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 03:34 PM
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Aw, you sound young and very online. Don’t let this derail your mental health and think you can’t have anything just because you don’t look a certain way. The reality is most people are average, yet most people can live a good enough life. And if they don’t it’s because of other factors (poverty, health, poor familial relationships etc), and not their looks. You seem extremely concerned with how TikTok stars and actors live their lives. They live on a different planet, don’t concern yourself wit…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 07:25 PM
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• a man of his word and integrity: I want someone who does what he says he’s going to do • family orientated: not just his own wife and children but is generous to his parents, siblings, nieces/nephews, cousins etc. A big family to me isn’t just having lots of kids but a loving extended family. Not everyone always gets along but everyone helps each other when it’s important • on track to be financially stable. I don’t mind how they do this - my ex was a train driver and he was loaded (his dad wa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 02:21 PM
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Nope, I’m so-so! Overweight. Other people like me more than I like myself. I do clean up well, I get approached and complimented by strangers kinda regularly. Slowly, slowly increasing my smv. Definitely think attractiveness is twofold. Of course some people would look beautiful in a bin bag but most people have to work at it and I think a 6/7 is in reach for a lot of women, which is more than good enough. I’ve increased my attractiveness by getting better at make up, doing my hair, getting brac…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 07:45 AM
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But if we start talking about our biological need for the best man in the room, we’re the bad guy! 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 09:25 AM
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That’s next on my list after why men love bitches! I’ve heard good things. Yep, blocka blocka blocka. It’s surprising how quickly you move on from someone after you’re no longer obsessively checking to see if they’ve watched your story
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 09:50 PM
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No problem hun. Most of us have seen someone for what we want them to be instead of who they are, no judgement here. I hope you’ve blocked him by now 👀
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 09:48 PM
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1) block him. Out of sight, out of mind. Continuing to hear from him and seeing him on your social media will only prolong the pain and make the little voice in the back of your head saying you might get back together louder. It doesn’t matter that he’s “trying” now, only that he never tried when it mattered 2) listen to all the sad songs, watch all the sad movies. Good 4 u by Olivia Rodrigo fits your scenario. Wallow in your pain for however long. A week, 2 weeks, a month, whatever. But set an …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 03:09 AM
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Rule 9: your personal preference is not advice
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 12:00 PM
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Read everything you have written here. If a close friend or family member or future daughter told you the same things, what would you tell them? To get out? My dear, you’re in an abusive relationship. Blaming you for his anger is another abuse tactic. https://speakoutloud.net/intimate-partner-abuse/denial-minimising-blaming
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 05:33 PM
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Uhhh I think anybody would be anxious in a relationship like this. I’m sure you have your own share of blame but he’s literally using anxiety-inducing tactics - dread game and competition anxiety (saying he’ll leave you for a better woman) as well as just straight up abuse tactics (saying no one will want to marry you or have kids with you). This is straight from the emotional abuser’s handbook because it tears down your self esteem and makes you stay with them out of fear, not love. Makes fun o…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 04:32 PM
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Ridiculous. This is one of the least political subs out there
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 09:52 PM
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Oh wow. Unfavourable is a light way to put it. I admit when I first found this sub I bristled too, like what on earth are these women thinking. I don’t agree with everything everyone posts (does anybody?) and I’m still a raging feminist lefty lol but I was heart-warmed by the sense of community here and appreciate the choice of traditional relationships. It’s not for everyone but it doesn’t claim to be. I have never seen anybody say to tolerate abuse or even a whiff of far right nationalism, eve…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 03:32 AM
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