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Wife asks me to avoid women at work and I oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:00 PM
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The commenters here pretending like no woman ever tried to change the things she disliked about her man in her marriage >.>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:08 PM
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This is what I do for my wife. It’s common and normal. Men just don’t talk about it because we marry to uplift our wives instead of embarrassing them. It’s hidden in plain sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:05 PM
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Most guy can secure a relationship if they lower their standards. It is easier to secure a relationship as a man (keeping in mind man is expected to persue)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:00 AM
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My best advice to you is to go out and date and friend zone yourself on purpose with as many women are possible. Get genuine friendships and then learn how women think and act. Look at what they do, not what they say. Put your best feet forward and hide scars from your past. From there ask them if they had any friends looking to meet someone and you will, eventually, end up a-ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:03 PM
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So, with 2500 matches, how many right swipes would that take? If you took 15 minutes swiped 200 times, how many would you have chosen to swipe right and message? You don’t think you would be picky too with unlimited choices? It’s unfair to blame women for something both sexes would do. If you want to be upset, be upset at the app makers exploiting the nature of dating(enablers of harm) and making the traditional role of “pursuit” into an unwinnable game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:56 PM
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If you had 2500 matches, how many would you swipe on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:51 PM
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It’s a crappy reality that unestablished young men are at the bottom of the totem pole, yes, but saying that only 2% of men are successful in dating is a hysterical exaggeration of the truth. It’s not fair, but, IMO, men are valued for their wealth/status and women are valued for their youth/beauty. If you are a man without wealth and status, you will have to try dating women who are less beautiful and less youthful than you. If you try this, and put your best feet forward, you will eventually m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:43 PM
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This is not my experience actually, but I’ve only ever been in LTRs personally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:41 PM
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I probably wasn’t specific enough. I mean to say that women have more leverage before hooking up vs after. If you don’t hook up before relationship, it means you are using your status/position at “the first gate” to make sure you yourself make it past “the second gate”. Thats how relationships work outside hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:50 AM
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No, you are mistaken. If you don’t believe me, go ask your average woman on the street and ask. If a woman is willing to sleep with you, she would probably be willing to commit to be with you as well (assuming you were serious about it). It’s mostly men who get cold feet after hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:36 AM
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Your second point about “inequity in dating” is not worded clearly. Male and female don’t have equity in sex, women are usually the gatekeepers of sex. If they really wanted to, an average woman can almost always drop their standards and find someone somewhere willing to have sex. The same is not true for men unless they are of very high status. Instead, men are usually the gatekeepers of relationships. If you look at couples who have already been together, it is much more often the man who gate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:16 AM
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