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| 5 | I'm currently laying on my 10 year old sons empty bed crying like I would if I had lost him foreverI was you. I cried and cried and cried all day long and thought I'd never get better. I just knew I could never find peace with it all. Four years later and I promise you, you are going to find your peace. I rejected it when people told me I would, but I was wrong. Take it from those of us on the other side, the pain does stop. The quiet becomes comfortable. You actually begin looking forward to the days the kids are gone lol. Wanna be 3D printing buddies? I'm always making cool shit and have no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you wish you knewDefinitely. My ex moved three hours away to continue her affair. 50/50 custody wasn't possible and I wasn't giving it up. Everyone told me I was stupid for even trying to get primary custody. I sure proved them wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you wish you knewI'd argue only 1% of women can be trusted with mediation. Mine begged me for it after our preliminary hearing destroyed all of her hopes of winning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you wish you knewThat crimes of passion can get reduced sentences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How many of you bought your wife out of the house?I had to, which was bullshit because she never once paid a cent to help, especially after she left. She did not deserve shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Can you men remind me not to beg for her back? The urge is strong to ask her to come back.She won't. You're not the exception. She left because she is betting against your future. She hates you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Wife forcing vasectomyMy wife convinced me we didn't want more kids, and vasectomy was the obvious choice for us. The she divorced me a month later to go be with her affair partner. Turned out, she just didn't want more kids with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How to get over attraction for your exI'm four years out of the divorce and still struggling with this. She was the most beautiful woman I ever knew. Now, I still want her some nights, but when I see her I am filled with such rage that I can't imagine wanting to touch her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 06:11 PM |
| 3 | The part of single fatherhood I didn’t see comingI'm right there with you. I am so burnt out I can barely do anything after work. It's all I can do to bake a frozen pizza and let the kids watch TV all night. I hate this life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Four years out of winning my divorce and I cannot find peace.I wish. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Four years out of winning my divorce and I cannot find peace.I just miss the feeling of someone desiring me. I know it was worthless to her in the end, but it was so special to me when it did exist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Four years out of winning my divorce and I cannot find peace.no | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What are positive aspects of being divorced?I talk to my mom daily. She's remarried after my dad cheated on her, but her husband is controlling and getting senile, so she feels trapped and she hates going home. She tells me she envies my freedom over my money and time. There is a peace to knowing anything that needs doing is your responsibility. I used to get upset (rightfully so, I think) when I'd come home to a dirty house after working all day because she "didn't feel like cleaning today." Now I come home to an unclean house and know I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else having nightmares about having sex with her?I've had nightmares off and on for four years now that she moves back in but brings her affair partner and continues her affair but I'm powerless to stop it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I Hate that She Put me Here: Dating in 2026 is HorrendousAbandon hope all ye who enter the dating game. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Four years out of winning my divorce and I cannot find peace.Not specifically, but I don't hate the idea. Being a dad is the best feeling in the world. And, yes, the surgery exists but it is expensive, cheap, and has a low success rate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | When do I stop wearing my ringOnly when you're ready. It took me a few months. After two years, I still look for it on my finger sometimes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 18 | Ugh. So I guess my wife & her mom have been planning this divorce. I feel betrayed & setup.Sounds like me! My ex and her mom conspired together. My ex-MIL set my wife up with another man and told her to divorce me. I won full custody and kept nearly all my assets lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?Number four makes me think it wouldn't matter. It seems more written to stop people from fucking their squad mates' wives. Just army shit. After what I've seen, I often question how anything gets done in the military at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?I can't recall from my time in service if the UCMJ considers it adultery if your spouse has already walked out. I imagine not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?You don't legally have to if that's your worry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 5 | What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations?That's for sure. God women are so damn expensive. And for what? Sex once a month? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 02:41 PM |
| 3 | I think I have finished my grief journey.They get bad advice. I believe her mom and friends all just told her she'd get the kids and my income and the house without having to keep me. It's almost funny how much women ruin other women's lives with their stupidity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 15 | I think I have finished my grief journey.Not yet, but I believe she will one day. She dug herself into a hole with the lies she told everyone. Cheaters don't tell the truth as to why they leaving. She told her family and friends I was abusive and a narcissist, of course. To come back now would require admitting to everyone she lied. Funnily, she bragged to me that her AP made more money than me. Then, after the divorce finalized, he got fired and I got a new job doubling my income. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 8 | What happens if 50:50 custody/visitation is awarded and then ex decides to move cross states?My ex moved two hours away within the same state and I got full custody. In my state, she can't so much as move next door without my permission. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 11:34 PM |
| 3 | A SpreadsheetI am an excel guru. I have spreadsheets for everything. I had evidence out the wazoo for my divorce. The judge doesn't care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | There is always someone elseDon't you sometimes wish you had been less calm at the moment of impact and just given her what she deserved? I do. I wish I had indented her skull with an impression of my hand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 10 | There is always someone else"To the point where she won't even consider what she did cheating." It's like they're all just animals going off instinct. This is so damn common. It's exactly what my wife did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Moving out and Money QuestionIt is highly inadvisable to move out of the marital home. It does not stand to benefit you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are?I mean, I don't give women that much credit. They are like toddlers who cry and throw tantrums because they don't know they're just tired. Women don't have any emotional intelligence at all. We can't expect them to introspect enough to know what they truly want. They don't change anything until it's right in their face because that's how far they can see. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are?No surprise. The one who initiates is living their decision and had the chance to mourn the death of the marriage long before initiating divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are?They don't care. The ones they don't give themselves to are fighting for their attention by giving them everything else they need. They get their bills paid for, their fix of attention, and all other needs met because they're women and they can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 07:01 PM |
| 4 | If she cared would she have cheated?Nope. They're all sociopaths, man. They don't love the way we do. We are objects to them. My wife was so genuinely confused when I found out about her affair. She didn't understand why she should care that I knew she was cheating and leaving me. She truly saw me as a piece of trash she was done with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 03:48 AM |
| 9 | 354 text messages over 10 days w/ some guy and she still denied cheatingThat's what they do. I handed my wife a copy of the text logs where she blatantly described the affair shes having and she still denied it. It's just what women do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Closure possible?You don't get closure. You just learn to cope with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/24 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Still upset about divorce? Dont watch "The Tomorrow War"I didn't realize I was still sensitive until I had to watch Crazy, stupid, Love. for a class. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Wife Going For Full CustodyMy wife tried to get full custody and thousands in child support. She got every other weekend. Being the selfish one doesn't play well in the courts. Don't forget, courts side with the victim. Be the victim. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/24 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Wife Going For Full CustodyMany states now begin proceedings by assuming 50/50 is what is best for the child. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/24 04:07 PM |
| 3 | I know it was her…Why would a higher octane cause misfires? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/24 03:36 PM |
| 9 | Dating app suggestions?I'm telling you right now they're all garbage. High quality women are not on dating apps. Girls on these apps are inundated with lying, piece of shit guys who just want sex, so the women become total bitches. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/24 03:34 PM |
| 2 | poison pill(this isn't our first time getting married) Oof. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/24 02:11 AM |
| 4 | When people say sorryMy dad is a heinous sex offender. When I tell people I have no relationship with him, they always say, "Oh I'm so sorry. That's got to be hard since you'll always love him." Lolololol. I literally never even think about him. They just can't help but project their own circumstances. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Channeling Unicorse in Convos with STBXWBluey is a gem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys tell your dates about your divorce?I have kids, so it's impossible not to talk about it. I think it looks better that I was married and that both kids are from the marriage rather than having multiple baby mommas and never marrying either. I recently began talking with a girl much younger than me but seemingly very mature and accepting of the idea that I have kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Burner accountsI defintely did. I make burner accounts all the time with fake emails. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you get your stbxw to answer the questions?Just remember the judge doesn't likely give two shits. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Contempt hearing.Women live for divorce. It's a game for them. You're not a person, just a pawn now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Contempt hearing.Wtf. You are court ordered to keep paying into a 529? That seems odd. The courts sure love to take away personal liberties, don't they? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 05:10 AM |
| 18 | I just found out that I’m going to be forced to sell my house and pay around $1,500 monthly for alimony, child support, and health insurance. I only bring home $3,000 every month. How am I going to survive?And women laugh at this stuff. They think it'ss hilarious and they brag to other women about how miserable they make us. Women are truly the embodiment of satan. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I get legal council?Sorry, I thought shirt was DoD universal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Should I get legal council?Talk. To. Your. Shirt. Seriously, do it. The JAG office can help you and your shirt will get you to the right person. Do not navigate divorce alone, and do not do it without your shirt. This is literally their job. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 04:24 AM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to be happy againAbout 20 months. Don't be afraid to begin antidepressants if you need them. They can truly save your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 04:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do we seem so rare?The ex moved on because women don't love the way we do. They are utilitarians. We are objects to them. Pokemon to enslave and fight their battles, and be discarded when they're through with us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentals: You Need A Family Law AttorneyFamily and well-intentioned friends are notoriously horrible at giving legal advice during divorce. Luckily this proved to be her folly and not mine. Her parents had zero experience with divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Got a Vasectomy TodayThat's your bloodline being snuffed out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Got a Vasectomy TodayI wasn't working out at the time, but you probably shouldn't (and won't want to) for a while. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Got a Vasectomy TodayYeah but then I don't get to use it to my advantage and tell women they can have unprotected sex with me with zero consequences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Got a Vasectomy TodayNot OP but there wasn't any "pain" during mine, but I could feel tugging and I could smell my vas deferens being cauterized. There was a slight pressure feeling for about six months after that made me wince but it was mostly psychological. Full recovery takes maybe two weeks I think. Then you get a lifetime of consequence-free sexy time. Until she leaves, that is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Got a Vasectomy TodayMy ex made me get one right before she told me she wanted the divorce. She didn't want me to start a family with another woman she said. Don't be alarmed tomorrow when your entire sack is blue. the pain goes away after like two days but the color can take a while. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the anger and frustration that your spouse triggers in you?Time. It just takes time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 03:44 AM |
| 15 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?Nope. She lives in her mommy's basement and has no car. She got $20k, I got full custody. She will never be able to buy a house and her affair partner is in jail. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 03:23 PM |
| 8 | DentistI don't follow how half of this information is relevant at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Divorce equalizationNot a lawyer, but from my experience and research, you're fucked. Money gifted isn't an asset. It's gone. Her income will be considered, but the savings is legally just as much hers as yours. Your best bet is mediation where you can at least give yourself a shot at a better outcome. Sounds to me like she's been hiding money for years by "gifting" it to her parents. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Started Discovery - How do I print 5 years worth?That's your lawyer's job. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/24 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Spent the night in my truck and now I'm locked out. What do I do?Break in. You have a right to break your own windows. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?No and no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 05:45 PM |
| 28 | What is the worst thing your ex ever did to you?The cheating. It hurt me more than anything I've ever felt in my life to lie in bed at night knowing she was with him. I can't believe I'm even here today. I came so close to ending it all. All that stopped me was knowing she wanted me to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Divorce DogI'm honestly regretting it. He's been nice to have some days but man is he pissing me off now. I am not a dog person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Divorce DogMy ex, after only 6-months married, brought home a puppy without asking me. Not only this, but she "co-owned" the dog with her friend, as if that could ever make sense. When I told her we couldn't keep it (especially since we already had two cats our landlord didn't know about) she told me she'd divorce me if I didn't let her keep it. What a moron I was. We kept it but it was the same thing. I resented the dog and told her I wasn't helping with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | ChatGPTAI is gonna replace us all. Lawyers will probably be first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 03:12 AM |
| 6 | What about my one year old sonI agree. My son was only a year old when his mom left us completely. He'll never even know her. How can you do that to a child? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 03:09 AM |
| 8 | Dating a Divorced ManI don't know how I'll act if I meet someone new. I know I'm more reserved now about opening up and letting people in. I hope that goes away for the right girl. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 03:06 AM |
| 22 | Saw the ex today for the first time since the judgment giving me primary custody.I'll never let her back in. She didn't choose me first. She cost me $40,000 just to keep what was already mine. That bitch is dead to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 8 | The light switch affect..As a believer, I believe that the devil got into her head and killed the spirit of the woman I loved and a literal demon moved in. She is not the woman I married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 01:23 AM |
| 3 | I went out for drinks with a friend tonight.Her friends warned me so I'm not particularly upset about it. You know a girl is trash when even her friends warn you not to mess with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 4 | I went out for drinks with a friend tonight.I really do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 3 | I went out for drinks with a friend tonight.The last one. Sorry, I wasn't clear. She and I have been talking a lot lately, she has shown considerable interest in me, then last night she ended up leaving me at the bar while she went off with another guy she met. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 2 | She wants everythingby law I think the house will be sold of you cannot agree There is no legal basis for this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Idk why I am so weakLove is a vulnerability. You can't have one without the other. To abuse someone's vulnerability is despicable, but no one tells women that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Child supportThe judge in my case gave me primary custody but determined that the amount on our child support calculator was "unjust." I get nothing. She also gets to claim them on her taxes. Fuck the system. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 05:58 AM |
| 4 | Trouble in the bedroom with other womenYep. I haven't been able to finish with a partner since my wife left. It's normal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Would you do 10 year or 17 year alimony?That is a lot of money. Fuck I'm glad I'm not paying alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/24 03:23 AM |
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| 3 | Super Bowl PartyI threw my first new year's Eve party last year. Everyone who came was a new friend I met after the wife left. It was super fun. I miss the life I had, and I mourn for my kids, but I have gained more from her leaving than I lost. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Why Pay For A Lawyer?Most lawyers are hourly anyway. If you don't want them to go to the negotiations, just tell them, and they won't bill you. They work for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 12:15 AM |
| 5 | She's not stupid. She's not powerless. She's evil.toy lock oil strong serious encouraging escape steep cake kiss This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/24 02:05 AM |
| 15 | Is it better to divorce when wife is working or not working?Mine filed emergency motions for alimony and child support. At the hearing, my lawyer asked my ex why she couldn't work. She goes, "I am working, I just want more." Book thrown. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 05:21 AM |
| 6 | How do I move on?Welcome to the club. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 03:13 AM |
| 3 | I have created my own prison with my mind my only limits are the ones I place on myselfYou are a human being with natural emotions. You will suffer whether you want to or not, but you will also survive and come out on top of that hurt. Stay strong, know that we have all been there and we all agree it dulls with time. Read Getting Past What You'll Never Get Over by John Westfall | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Ideas needed. She’s going thru my room.Change the locks? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 06:10 PM |
| 18 | Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL?party memory squash bear many apparatus crime run repeat fine This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 06:07 PM |
| 8 | Monkey Branching in actionRidiculous. The government mandated you support your wife's affairs? I fucking hate this world. I cut that bitch off before I even confronted her for cheating. Found the call logs then immediately went online and shut her phone off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 2 | HelpI am an excel addict and I have a very extensive budget spreadsheet that tracks a lot of information. If you'd like I can PM it to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Any tips for dating appsThey are a complete waste of time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 07:04 PM |
| 8 | Monkey Branching in actionWhy are you still paying for her phone? Cut that bitch off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 07:04 PM |
| 4 | What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough.observation quiet jellyfish bike enjoy price far-flung exultant library complete This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | If you're a good person and got married, how did it feel when your marriage broke down? Did you ever wonder as to where you went wrong, and why God made you meet the person that you ended up marrying? How did you reconcile these events whilst still believing that God still has a plan for everything?The devil attacks the people he needs to attack, and he hates Godly marriages. He doesn't go after the people he already has, he only needs to hurt the people who trust God. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How.This tracks. Women change from psuedo-team player to public enemy number one when they flip the divorce switch. It's all about profit to them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 06:16 PM |
| 4 | How.Men will never fight for their own rights It would be political suicide for anyone to sponsor a bill that empowered men at the cost of women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 05:18 AM |
| 5 | AP's birthday is the day after mine.I wish it were that easy. The thoughts are intrusive and stem from my loneliness, and I'm always lonely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | AP's birthday is the day after mine.I just can't bear the thought that she is happy and I'm so miserable. She was my whole world and I miss her so much. I'm so lonely and touch-deprived. A girl hugged me at a party a few months ago and it's all I've been able to think about because it meant to much to me. That's how low I am now. I just want someone to tell me I'm worth loving. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/24 05:20 PM |
| 6 | ConfessionI did exactly this. You know what her excuse was? "I decided before I slept with him that I was going to divorce you, so it wasn't cheating." | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 04:09 PM |
| 13 | ConfessionTo reinforce what others have said, you won't get it. Confessions require accountability. Cheaters hate accountability. You won't get a confession or an apology unless they are desperate to come back. But don't ever let them come back, no matter how much you want to. You weren't their first choice and you never will be again. You can never trust them. I made the mistake of trying. I got back with my girlfriend of three years who cheated. We got married, had two kids, bought a house. 18 months ag… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Time heals all woundsThe anger does subside, but it happens a lot faster if you let yourself feel it in a healthy way, work through the emotions, and invest your time in healthy outlets. A lot of us choose to burn off the aggressive energy in the gym. I did, but I also let myself feel the anger. Now, the anger is there, but it is accompanied by a habit of ignoring it too. It has dulled the effects of the anger to let it out and eventually become numb to it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Experienced an extreemely toxic wife and mother in law duo.MILs are literal demons, dude. Mine was awesome for ten years. Then she introduced my wife to another man and told her to have an affair. My retard of a grandma told my dad to have an affair, too. Women do not have moral compasses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 21 | Total Change of Persona and IdentityNot the physical changes, but she started liking the things she always hated, started talking in ways she never did, and just started being a complete cunt altogether. The woman I married would hate the woman I'm divorcing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherShe had just as much if not more obligation not to do it. Father is a piece of shit who deserves the worms. Wife deserves the furnace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherAlt+F4 that bitch | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:12 PM |
| 10 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherFirst, go knock your father's teeth out. Then do it to your wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Under AdvisementYour ex...sent emails...to the judge? Yeah that's a big no no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Child custodyoutgoing full fine fact offer thought desert live wakeful normal This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Question for dads out thereNope. If you don't sign off, it ain't happening. Keep a close eye on it though. Women are evil creatures who think the law doesn't apply to them. They believe they can sneak around it and never get caught. If it changes, sue the fuck out of her and get her ass thrown in jail for falsifying legal docs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 9 | I feel like being a “good husband” is the worst job on Earth.Hey brother. I also faced a discharge I did not want. I feel as if I could have written your whole post. Transitioning can be hard at first. The rigidity and sense of purpose in the military were nice, but I promise civilian life is way better overall. Women all do this. They wake up one day to an intrusive thought about divorce and it's all over from that point on. The thought never goes away. Women are masters at justifying their actions. They are given a lifetime of training on how to shift a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Beginning to get some justice.I like that. "No thanks. You've proven you're not wife material." | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Beginning to get some justice.When my dad cheated on my mom and tried to come back, she made him embarrass himself by going to multiple clinics and get tested, and she made him explain the situation to everyone there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 10:42 PM |
| 6 | The WifeyMine has been "Stupid Cheating Whore" for two years now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | how to protect yourself during a divorce? (no lawyer)Probably not, but that is a decision the judge makes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | how to protect yourself during a divorce? (no lawyer)2 kids. been together ~12ish years, married 10 Get a lawyer. She 99.9999% won't be given the kids to take to another country unless your cousin is the reincarnation of Hitler himself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Does her getting disability due to mental illness affect divorce settlement or custody?Definitely can. Judges will consider the physical and mental wellbeing of each parent when deciding custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 04:55 PM |
| 10 | Amazing...lolI told my wife so many times I hated feeling like we were just roommates. She never wanted intimacy or anything, and she blamed it all on me, of course. She once told me that other men turn her on, so clearly I'm the problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 04:27 PM |
| 32 | Beginning to get some justice.Probably high. I'll take her in, fuck her, send AP a video of it, and kick her out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | STBXW withholding documentsThe cops likely will not get involved. This is not a criminal matter. They will only enforce a court order. My ex tried to come into my house several times after leaving and I refused. The cops all sided with me and said they didn't get involved in civil matters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The media portraying mothers as self sacrificing angels.I think you meant 80% of divorces are caused by women, lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 03:57 PM |
| 3 | What do u say?Most people get it. Divorce is, sadly, very common in society. Just say you're no longer together and leave it at that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget, boys, paralegals are humans too, and they're susceptible to bribery.Haha that would be funny. I'm only preparing defenses though. It just info to help me prepare. I won't be attacking based on any hearsay. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/23 08:00 PM |
| 10 | After Denial… Misogyny?Women as a whole are driven almost entirely by instinct when it comes to mating. They start out doing their mating dance to coerce you into wanting them, then they want the ring as a symbol of status to feel validated as a woman, then they want children, then they eat your head like a black widow by realizing they no longer need anything more from you. If being a misogynist is wrong, I don't want to be right. Women are like ticks. Sure, some don't carry lyme disease. Doesn't mean you should ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 01:34 AM |
| 7 | Online Dating: Best Site? Do you put divorced on profile?Sorry. I use this sub to vent a lot of anger. My advice is worthless. I'm too cynical about women right now. There are no good ones. They all go entirely off instinct. They do what they think they have to in order to get what they want, which starts off as attention, and then they use you and leave you. It's typical animal behavior like in black widows or praying mantises. Mating dance, get the seed, eat the father. Not a higher-order thought in their empty little heads. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Alimony and child support cost in MIzesty cow bear puzzled squeamish late heavy aromatic expansion crown This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 04:00 AM |
| 7 | Online Dating: Best Site? Do you put divorced on profile?Yours waited four months after divorce? Mine didn't even wait until she told me she wanted a divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 03:58 AM |
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