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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 81 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wife | ADVICE | Ok_Perspective_8441 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/23 08:11 PM |
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| 34 | AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 millionWhere/ how did you meet? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 03:07 AM |
| 17 | Not sure if I me and my fiancé are compatible enough - need adviceThere’s a very good article (The Atlantic) and book on this very topic: Marry Him: the case for settling for Mr Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb. Read the article if you’re short on time but the book is worth the read (just be discreet as it could be off-putting to your partner). You have touched on something very important and your question is valid. There’s something dirty/unkind associated with “settling” but to truth is we all settle to some degree. And best believe our partners settle for us to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/23 12:27 AM |
| 16 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wifeThanks for this. Appreciate this take and you sharing your experience. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/23 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wifeWell we both provide financial assistance to our parents so the choice to go to a single income would affect how much we can provide. Thanks for your perspective! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wife1) FIL is estranged so no he wouldn’t be able to weigh in. 2) Yes, hubby would but I feel like that’s so unfair to him. Thanks for sharing your perspective & I’m glad your parents were supportive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/23 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wifeQuite possibly, but as I was saying above, to be honest those wouldn't be my primary reasons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wifeNot sure they would appreciate that. Also if I'm being honest those would not be my primary reasons. I just want to be devoted to family rather than a job. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/23 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Made to feel guilty for wanting to be a trad wifeCongrats on your nuptials! There are a lot of suggestions that it would be such a waste if after all my schooling and years of work (including being promoted) if I were to stop working. Also, I'm told to consider how much pressure it would place on my husband who would be required to financially assist his parents and mine (filial piety). Then there are the undertones (not said directly) of me being lazy and unambitious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Dinner ideas for a first home cooked meal?Ok if he wants tacos then tacos it is but... you could set up a nice station where each person could customise their own. Nice shredded lettuce, pico de Gallo/salsa, crunchy and soft shells etc. I would also suggest that you do a dessert as well - maybe a recipe you're comfortable with Could be something simple as dairy-free cookies or muffins & if you have extra he could take some to work the next day. Trust your instincts to show your nurturing side - my now husband still talks about a special… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/23 08:23 PM |
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