Ok_Play4544 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?	Discussion	Ok_Play4544	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 11:49 AM
34	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction?	Question For Women	Ok_Play4544	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 08:01 PM
1	What's opinion on women's getting a man's last name nowadays?	Question For Women	Ok_Play4544	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 05:07 PM
0	Modern open marriages debate	Debate	Ok_Play4544	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 08:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"Pick-up Artistry" is not meant for everyone. Yes it is!!! Especially for those ones !!!!	/r/seduction	13/08/25 08:41 PM
2	Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them? Ahahahahahah	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:00 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? We are alike!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 02:19 PM
1	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Some men will never get that! Anthony Robbins helped me with that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 06:00 PM
2	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. Wtf is a neo victorian in this context ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 05:59 PM
2	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. You're right!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 05:58 PM
2	How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts Women Money lots of it	/r/seduction	04/08/25 01:56 PM
2	Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want? Appease guilt!	/r/seduction	18/07/25 05:34 PM
1	Where do you go to approach women? Best thing, real advice is to have an active life and active social life. Because in that way, you will already have the right reasons to be at the place you will be at. It makes congruence more easy. And makes you more relatable. Also is a motivation for you to have an active life!	/r/seduction	17/07/25 04:12 PM
1	Where do you go to approach women? Wherever I am when I Wake up. That should be the attitude.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 06:14 PM
1	Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation? I simply don't feel like it! My mood! When I was invested in approaching people and being more gregarious I was extremely successful, but now I barely smile. So that's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 07:01 PM
1	I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible? Dedication !	/r/seduction	15/07/25 01:58 PM
2	I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive women It works the same way with public validation too. Even not being a rockstar you can be chased, just by being extremely popular in venues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 01:58 PM
2	I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive women Yes In a way. It will never be the same but it's an emotional scenario where the gap in gender effort is brought closer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 01:56 PM
1	We should start sexualizing men Sexuality dynamic for men and women is totally different. Our lives are different, we see each other in different ways. Sexuality fulfills different things in each other. Women see Men in a way some men will never understand. And the opposite might not be true. A man likes respect and attention too. Women like to feel certain feelings around a man. A man doesn't need that. A man rarely thinks about the story or scenario, the ones that are at least aware of moods are very successful. A Sexualized…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 03:36 PM
1	What’s the best way to react when a lady friendzoned you a on date? Gentleman, lady not even Frank Sinatra talked like that!! It looks like you Friendzone yourself!	/r/seduction	07/07/25 08:42 PM
1	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I liked your opinions Want a reddit friend?, I fit all the boxes	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 08:11 PM
1	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I had a friend that looked just like him, the height too. He had girls all over	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 07:56 PM
1	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 07:55 PM
1	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? How do you get this geometry frame in the avatar ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 07:55 PM
–	Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average men No it's not that difficult, it requires emotional investment, you need to put your soul to work. No half-ass try, you need to punch through the Wall, not at the wall!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 07:00 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? Great comment! The dynamic is much more complex than simple visual attraction for women. But I believe in the way that nature made things and that it is wiser than us. All I'm searching for is to become more aware of reality and understand better the female perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 05:00 PM
1	The ONLY post you need to read to attract girls Go out and approach like your life depends on it!!! Day after day!! Night after night!!! That's the only advice everyone needs!!! Reality is the best teacher!!!	/r/seduction	03/07/25 08:45 PM
0	The ONLY post you need to read to attract girls You got things right, but it goes much deeper than value play, validation. You got the basics, it's your movie not hers. That's just the beginning, but it's very important to get that!	/r/seduction	03/07/25 08:21 PM
1	Does anyone have the fear of asking women out with people around within earshot? I bet you're still new to this, but after some time you become more 'aware' of the whole room. Think like this, the people that sees the rejection sees you as the Man! Who else would have the courage to do what you did? She's the one missing out. That above is extremely important	/r/seduction	03/07/25 08:02 PM
1	Does anyone have the fear of asking women out with people around within earshot? Not at all!	/r/seduction	03/07/25 07:56 PM
0	The ONLY post you need to read to attract girls You're not wrong !	/r/seduction	03/07/25 07:23 PM
1	Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"? Dude... I couldn't even read your gender!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 05:01 PM
1	As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these days Game is something to be aware of, but not the solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 03:52 PM
1	Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"? Dude, that already happens with many men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 03:40 PM
0	The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to be Yes they are. Most people say or write one thing and act in another way. That's reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 03:28 PM
1	Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insane You got it!!! I hope you did. You need to deeply disregard this shit, and be confident from your own 'world'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:37 PM
1	How to make her like us back(Actual advice — no magic, no spirituality) You can't. Women never like you. That's what you should get from this outer game, It's OUTER GAME! They like the GUY, the scenario, the validation you might have, the presence, not you. And that's how you control the situation to your outcome !!	/r/seduction	02/07/25 08:34 PM
0	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? I was traditional too. My views changed a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:31 PM
1	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:29 PM
1	Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating. Probably, but I think there is a bit of truth on it, at least the self reliance part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:20 PM
3	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Great comment!!! Monogamy doesn't come naturally. People should mature and enjoy their sex lives instead of cultivating jealousy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:18 PM
1	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? But, it's what happens!!! It's not agenda. Even the marriage community is filled with horror! Your comment kinda states that only people blinded by love go head on into marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:15 PM
2	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Me to!, I'm never gonna let a woman boos me around or disrespect me in any way!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:12 PM
1	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? People are so into the tradition that they can't even believe that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:11 PM
-1	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Yes, sadly many men don't get that! Maybe this horrible situation for men that marriage is today should make all think 200 times before entering! She can cheat anytime and take half your shit!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:09 PM
0	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Jesus Christ, you counted. I know it wasn't your intention, but throwing this as a bargain point seems terrible. I would say that nature burdens us in different ways! don't think it's not fair!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:07 PM
-3	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? What legal benefits? Besides maybe tax ? For man, marriage have terrible 'benefits' in case of divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:03 PM
3	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Maybe he has a boyfriend!!! Allegedly, check his phone!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 08:00 PM
4	What’s the point of marriage and having kids with men? Ok but he still is part of the group. Maybe with better traits but still... The problem is generalization. But I believe the people of reddit to be above the medium, who else nowadays enjoys reading? I find incredible people here, 'man' and woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 07:59 PM
1	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s 9 and 10 are more addicted to validation than anyone else. For those you need to do more pullbacks rsrsrsrs The game is awesome!!!!!!	/r/seduction	30/06/25 08:23 PM
2	Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductive That woman is not hot, her face is like Joan Rivers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 07:05 PM
1	Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility? Not really. Although it hurts, sometimes the pain is the best teacher, gives you focus and motivation. I never got loads of rejection because I never really tried after I understood I was a 6 at best. But I got to learn about the social dynamics much better because I could see how things played out right in front of me while others were lost in the game I could observe and learn. I did improve myself but, at the end, I never gave that much relevance to it. And I don't think it is important. When…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 01:46 PM
–	What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute) I was trying to understand if it is a bit easier for women to do work related to beauty, since women care more about it. Less dramatic I think would be to be paid simply to make an insta post of a beauty product.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 12:56 PM
2	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game My best trick was to be myself, it took ages to get that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 08:44 PM
3	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game Are you really into female dating advice ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 08:41 PM
5	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game Sure, try to hold back a diarrhea or a sneeze. If you can there's a name for that: Illusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 08:37 PM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. I heard we have twice as many female ancestors from Peterson, Jordan, but couldn't understand why. That's what I wanted to have explained.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 08:34 PM
1	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game You're being harsh, the post was ok, he is not wrong in his thought process, it's an abstract imaginative exercise. The reality is reality and all we can do is learn from it. He might not be bad at pick up, the post shows some awareness about neediness and validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 07:50 PM
2	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game Being honest, this drive is so biological, to pursue women, that if I didn't have that, I would not care. I don't believe marriage to be a good thing, nature had to make sex extremely pleasurable because if it didn't we wouldn't spend the energy necessary. The physicality of it is almost hilariously a symbol to what happens in dating. Men have to be athletes and all women have to do is be receptive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 07:46 PM
1	There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards. Work the logic on the twice as many please	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 05:12 PM
1	Q4M: to What is on your list of requirements for a wife? Prenup!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:17 PM
1	Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility? You know what's worse? Imagine she rejects him and then 'accepts' another attempt? That really makes the guy question his game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:06 PM
0	Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility? Because the woman is 'conquered' by the man, they are more reactive, and when it doesn't work it means he didn't do a great job. The reality is that many don't put enough effort into it and expect the women to be excited by their shitty try. If they really put their soul to it, they would at least have a new friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:02 PM
2	What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute) Question Men have pleasure in fighting, so many work as fighters, men like to do physical things, that's why many work in real state development. Now as a man I believe that there is a pleasure the that women have in being desired and seen as beauty. If men had the same pleasure I believe they would be more on the same social networks and related jobs. Isn't there at least an inclination for women to do these jobs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 03:42 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? It's just that soo many women reacted like you and have written their opinions that I completely got it and understood a facet of being a woman i didn't know before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:56 AM
2	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Claimed, you got me there!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 11:38 AM
–	Single Ladies, is there a general consensus regarding approaching at the gym? Approaching changed my life!!!! Everybody should have that experience!!!!! Is the best thing a BOY can do to learn about attraction!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 08:00 PM
2	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? That was a very big blind spot for me!! I completely understand!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 03:03 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? After reading a lot about it I got, that was a very big bling spot. Completely understand!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 03:01 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? So many women say it's not a privilege. Is it that bad of a lack of understanding, can you post your point of view?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 08:11 PM
1	Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men? It's not ego. It's really a growth process	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 08:01 PM
1	Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men? It wasn't just with her, my whole belief in opposite gender relationships changed. I honestly don't think it is in the best interest of both parties (after being adults) to be close friends. We were really close. She would drop her boyfriend to be with me, at least cheat on him. But it was soo complex that I ended up losing. This thing shaped my life and the person i am today! I hurt her very much! She was vulnerable with me! We liked each other, but I knew it wasn't right! Then she was pissed t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:58 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? It is true that women usually fall in love more often than men, but men get infatuated easily too. I liked your answer!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:41 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? Sad truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:34 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? My best friend, there were girls befriending me just to get to him!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:31 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? I had other women say that too... Can you say more about it? Is not really a good thing in a woman's day to day life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:29 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? That was the best answer for me. Thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:27 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? You're right, when I had lots of women hitting on me, gay guys were over me too. One had the courage to hit my ass!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:27 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? The beauty is our eyes.... Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 07:13 PM
2	The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch porn I don't think that's true. Porn can inform you and also help to train your arousal levels. But that depends on the person. When this situation happens the problem is with the guy, independent if he watches porn or not. I would never trade the women sitting on my lap for a video. Some men might but I sincerely believe the majority wouldn't either. And if a guy is not attracted enough to desire his partner deeply in order to please her well, he should look for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 04:28 PM
2	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter I always believed that the lower standards that women need to achieve in order to be considered viable partners are because of men's tastes. But at the same time, it's a nature defined thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 03:39 PM
3	If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitter Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 03:33 PM
1	Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men? I had this happen with me, but I simply couldn't keep being friends after it, and now it's even sad that if I simply send her a happy birthday it will be weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 07:28 PM
1	Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men? Oh yeah very wise from you!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 07:16 PM
3	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? I used to think about that, until I compared it to fingering. Many orgasms from proper fingering but not from PIV. So it's definitely more about how it's done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 07:06 PM
2	What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates? I liked when you said, I can't drop gender roles!!! Can you say what you think about it ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:51 PM
1	What do you think of women who ask men out, propose to men and pay for men in the first dates or in all dates? That's a controlling person. If she was normal she would pay for her part only instead of taking charge. Real men don't like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:47 PM
3	Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ? Great answer, I unconsciously believed that, and how you make them feel is a big one. But if that's true, men can create attraction by stimulating women by charm, which makes men that are more emotionally savvy stand out. Now what about bad boys, probably it's a derivation from that thought, where he already has a personality that evokes certain emotions, that draws women. It's all a play, there's a story always, and how the women fit in that, is what creates the response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:27 PM
4	Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ? Shouldn't other hormone in the female body be responsible for regulating her arousal? Is it the same in males and females?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 04:11 PM
1	I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sex I'm not jealous at all, I see it for what it is. That's nature. What I observe is how well someone deals with the situation that life has given them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:42 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Nature	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:19 PM
1	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics That's a great tittle!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 08:16 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? If I ever wanted to go through the valley of the death called marriage, I'd choose you to make the experience burn in my mind. No offense, The best part of literature is poetry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:09 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? You got it !	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:04 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? Can you give me your opinion about my profile picture, is it too weird? I'm thinking about going back to the avatar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:03 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? I want, I heard a famous porn actress say that being 'sexy' is about being self aware, and I believe that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:02 PM
0	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? As man when I walk into some public place people react, they look at you or some are more shy and hide their look and you can sense the emotion you evoke on the people around you. I'm pretty sure that with women this happens too. But with men there is the sexuality aspect of it too that adds a bit of salt in the daily opposite gender interactions. You can always sense the confidence levels of people around you. With the women we can sense that when you interact there is a kinda of uncomfortable …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:56 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? It wouldn't make me feel dominant, but I believe that the causality would be inverted, I would be reaffirmed of her seeing me as a dominant man if she really felt comfortable with me to give herself completely to the relationship, to be completely vulnerable. I believe that this level of commitment might only be possible if I'm seen as this 'strong' man in her eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 06:45 PM
2	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? And funny of course!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:06 PM
1	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? You're a nice person !	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:05 PM
0	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? I won't go with things my grandmothers used to do, but traits they probably had. The soft voice, the soft touch, the more respectful demeanor in contrast to the more environment dominant personality if we can contrast both, the more receptive and loving personality to. But I would say the loving and caring are the most characteristic. I'm not very confident on that answer...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:04 PM
3	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? In the eyes of men, you will always be sexy, doing whatever it might be. Even doing that !	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:52 PM
2	Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot? Can I answer that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:49 PM
1	Do Unspoken Dating Rules Even Exist Anymore? You seem like a nice folk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 12:55 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? I personally don't really want a woman to take care of me. All I want is for her to give all of herself when we are together, body and soul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 12:01 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? When it comes to attraction it is different, at least for me, i can't really desire women with dominant traits. Respect and admiration I have for those that had courage but not to ones that didn't make themselves vulnerable and showed dominance towards me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 05:13 PM
2	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? I can tell you, when young I would make the same mistakes. There's a default traditional view that many inexperienced men get into, where he believes that being the intermediary between his partner and the world is his duty. I like how times change and people open their eyes to treat others with more respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:58 PM
2	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Because they want to be like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 04:29 PM
2	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Great comment! I was looking for that insight. Bedroom talk should stay in that context only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:38 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Thanks, very interesting! Many women like to be led, could you answer why you think that might be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:32 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? You're honest! That's great!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:26 PM
3	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Great answer!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:23 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? I would like your opinion on this. What if the question was rephrased with the word Bad boys, what is the attraction rationale in your point of view ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:19 PM
1	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Maybe that's what I'm looking for, from the eyes of women. For me, are guys that are self centered, confident that lead their partners with such an understanding of his role that the partner feels even more attracted to his personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:04 PM
2	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? When we see in other men traits that we would like to have ourselves we do admire and respect, we always observe and learn, is a form of getting insight into self development through the experience of others. Sometimes we just see how some men naturally behave in ways that make people like them more, and that creates curiosity. The hierarchies thing is all about respect, when I was younger it was bigger in me, there was a big reward in being respected and also showing respect to others that I wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:57 PM
3	Why dominant man are such a magnet for women, what's the cause for attraction? Thanks for answering! That's the whole point, the definition of dominance from a woman's perspective. I see it as you put it, authoritative disposition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 09:00 PM
–	How normal is it for women to feel comfortable as the provider role in a relationship? Especially when she earns more than enough where she isn't stressing about money or a home because she already has both, and is looking to settle down with a man she finds attractive? Yes, and this should be a lesson for men too. If the tables are turned, men shouldn't take that role either, independence and self reliance should be better valued.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:50 PM
–	How normal is it for women to feel comfortable as the provider role in a relationship? Especially when she earns more than enough where she isn't stressing about money or a home because she already has both, and is looking to settle down with a man she finds attractive? When they love the guy they don't care taking that role	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:48 PM
0	Men below 25 want a relationship more than women below 25 I got to a point where the best option is to focus on yourself and on money! That's my thought at the moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:20 PM
1	Men below 25 want a relationship more than women below 25 You went so well then screwed at the end, but still, made a good post!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:18 PM
1	Shaming women for doing the very thing you want them to do I would classify our time as middle ground where women have freedom but society hasn't gotten used to that yet, so wide criticism still exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 03:26 PM
1	Shaming women for doing the very thing you want them to do Do you think that even the most modern women with free views deep down are still looking for monogamous LTR?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 03:24 PM
1	Shaming women for doing the very thing you want them to do They probably never saw the Matrix	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 03:22 PM
-1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? You made me laugh out loud!!! For real!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 08:40 PM
0	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop Don't be soo fatalist, hope is the last one to die! They can improve, some just don't want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 08:07 PM
1	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop Just recently, I thought about adopting as a way forward instead of natural birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 08:01 PM
1	What is men role in the worldwide birthrate drop I couldn't socialize very well, then after growing up had an absurd development in my life, nowadays I see no point in commitment. You're not wrong, modern times, sometimes it's even hard to push with my own beliefs given the blatant contrast with tradition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 08:00 PM
2	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? I was just reading a post about 'duty sex'. It created a lot of discussion about it. I would like to be perfect and get everything right, but that's not reality, I prefer to become aware of what I did wrong than never discover, but usually the body and eyes react immediately. If you're paying attention you can pick up. I'd rather try and watch the reaction than keep asking if it's good, because this usually breaks the mood. I'm someone that tries to be good at everything I do. The vision of havi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 05:03 PM
0	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? LTR is not about sex. Staying single is	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:54 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? If I was in this situation I would use this as a challenge, to face reality and reinvent myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:52 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Right	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:48 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? I think the fact of getting married makes the other partner become less attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:45 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Better would be walking out of the house and getting sex with someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:40 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:38 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? I don't think women care that much. The fact that it happens a lot shows that at some level they are accepting in exchange for the maintenance of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:38 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? I start to think that that's the best way to stop having sex with someone	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:28 PM
2	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Your points are great, what they can't get is that simple concessions are made in LTR. If the parties are not happy about it, they should leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:26 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? In defence you need to admit that since the mostly active part during sex is the male it's almost necessary for him to be more excited about the subject.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:19 PM
2	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Well most society took that step when they entered marriage in the past	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 03:15 PM
1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? I know you're in love, but why would you still support her, why not support yourself first?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:24 PM
2	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Exactly, marriage purpose is totally questioned today, what is it there for the man? Just obligations? Then why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:23 PM
2	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? I see that there's a human being in there, that's why I don't really believe in marriage, and that though you described just lowers its value even more. The guy is sharing all with this woman, can't fuck his neighbors and also can't fuck his wife. Terrible situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:21 PM
-1	How do guys who have to resort to 'duty sex' view it in their own situation? Do you ever feel like: I'm getting what I want, then you initiate and push her to the mood?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:17 PM
1	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? The whole awareness and connection necessary for a good experience during sex, especially maintaining the tension, is another layer of completely (which by the way is not that complicated when you're into your partner and is the most beautiful part of it). I feel for the ladies too, we all know that many stay silent in unpleasant situations just to please their partners. It's complicated, only men that are very comfortable with sexuality, being able to read situations well are able to deal with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 12:56 PM
1	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? No it isn't. The underlying moral of my comment is that you grow and become more comfortable with sexuality to the point of not getting so excited about it anymore and it becomes normal, like when you were learning how to drive. While learning, I would take every opportunity to go to the market just to use the car, now days I pay not to go. Everything in life with time dwindles down and loses that glow of attraction that it had on us. And that's when you really focus on yourself. And the rest? w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 11:41 AM
1	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? When a man focuses his pleasure in the whole intimacy, he can overcome his body's pressure to cum immediately and prolong his pleasure for however long he wants. Sex for men is very demanding, women sometimes don't get that. That's why some don't even try, and just burst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 08:42 PM
1	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? Get a life, bills, drama, crisis, genuine adult problems. Sex will become so mundane that you'll be able to control all aspects of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 08:21 PM
1	Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed? That's not all false	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 08:17 PM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Isn't an open relationship just a stepping stone from tradition to pornstar lifestyle?	/r/seduction	09/06/25 03:11 PM
3	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year Isn't it so simple, looking back and just knowing you're aware of all this.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 03:04 PM
1	Learned a Valuable Lesson Today F*** you!!! The guy had her, she was bullshiting and testing. He should value himself first and be more up-front with it, he is just a bit innocent yet.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 07:47 PM
4	20M – Had my first ever cold approach yesterday I still remember mine. Keep going!!!!	/r/seduction	06/06/25 07:28 PM
1	Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)? I probably shouldn't have answered that one getting to 40s but not there yet.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 06:56 PM
3	Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)? Not u.s brazil. That's the thing, even liberals deep down want you to show you care by paying. It's not just about the paying that changed for me, it's more about the whole situation you find yourself in by allowing yourself to be in taken advantage of, you really need to put yourself first even in the little things. In the end what attracts them to you has no relation to you paying or not, they will throw themselves at you regardless.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 06:54 PM
4	Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)? Even having money I don't pay anymore.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 06:42 PM
2	What do married looking women want? You can put one thousand rings on her finger, she's still a woman. That simple.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 04:58 PM
3	What do married looking women want? Fellow, what I mean is. When I started out I was a kid and believed firmly in society values and respected older people and had very high expectations about the people around me. When you really go deep into the game, and are serious about it, you find out that sexuality overcomes commitments, age, society taboos, being specific, women cheat on husbands and boyfriends in front of them. I wanted to write more but I think that's enough, I've seen reality, and life sets very few rules, most of the …	/r/seduction	06/06/25 04:56 PM
1	What do married looking women want? Wake up dude, she's still a woman, that's normal. When I found out about this I was sad for some time, but it's life.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 04:02 PM
1	Getting over the Walk of Shame He's a psycho!!!! Hope you grow with all this!	/r/seduction	06/06/25 12:53 PM
2	Getting over the Walk of Shame When you are the fun of the party, just good vibes and making everybody around you feel good, completely open, and talking to everybody, that's when getting rejected makes the person that rejected you feel silly and like the one who made the wrong choice. It's your 'state'. I can tell you, when you are having soo much joy and you're really controlling your emotions and deciding to feel pleasure... Maybe it's a bit hard to get it but the best way I would put is your state of being. I've been in s…	/r/seduction	05/06/25 07:44 PM
5	What are some eye opening thing that led you to a successful dating life Soft escalation, always accessing and refining pulling or pushing. Dude, as a man I just can't believe a whole community of all of this exists. All this changed my life!!!!!	/r/seduction	05/06/25 07:02 PM
1	Getting over the Walk of Shame My man, make it so that she is the one that looks silly if she rejects you. That was so true for me. You should do more inner work and be prepared to have so much happiness and joy and fun while going out, that even if no approach goes well you still won just by being incredible. Another one, a rejection is good too.	/r/seduction	05/06/25 03:33 PM