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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | I’m drained | General | Ok_Profile2247 | /r/MensRights | 10/01/26 10:05 AM |
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| 2 | I’m drainedHi, I appreciate your reply a lot actually. It’s rare advice can move someone fast but it did here. A big passion of mine was writing and I more or less gave up on it a while ago, but your mentioning of audacity made me want to write again. It’s stupid and maybe egotistical but I figure worst case scenario I can leave something meaningful behind in that way. As for my girlfriend, I didn’t mean it as hypergamous I don’t believe that, but I do understand she’s not signing up now for the rest of he… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I’m drainedHey, sorry for late reply. Disability is tough, I barely have a diagnosis so I’m pretty sure on paper (to the government) it looks like I’m full of shit. Not to mention it takes a very long time to get approved anyways and if it is something “simple” I won’t need it. I guess the trick is that clearly it isn’t simple but I digress. Agreed on the friend thing, I’ve taken everyone’s advice and gone dark with her. My girlfriend is incredible, I think she would obviously make space for me and be unde… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I’m drainedHi, I’m sorry for the late reply, hard to dig into. I do really appreciate your advice. I have stopped engaging with my friend. It’s nice being told that this isn’t permanent, it’s really hard to see that. My girlfriend is amazing and incredibly supportive, I’m just very pragmatic and what I omitted from the post was that there’s a lot of indications my health issues are severe because I didn’t want to be a downer. Currently it’s looking like I have 2 separate issues, the first being some kind o… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I’m drainedIronically she’s hardly educated, I think a lot of it is from social media or social pressure. She’s from a very deep blue area and all of her friends she’d made there are super progressive but she’s always had a nuanced approach to everything political. I think with recent events of the world she’s had a somewhat “slingshot” effect where she is so afraid of being “Republican” or “Right wing” she’s gone as far left as possible. I have mostly stopped engaging in conversations with her for now, mo… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I’m drainedHi, thanks for the reply. I have hard distanced myself from the friend, partially due to a lot of people in here telling me to. As for my girlfriend, dumping her isn’t necessary imo, we’ve been together for an incredibly long time and she hasn’t showed any actual signs of things going south, it’s largely just a concern of mine. Health I’m working on, but it’s a process, doctors don’t really know what’s wrong yet so I’m just waiting for their orders. Happiness is a tough one, but I’m working on i… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/26 01:50 AM |
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