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| – | Past what age women are no longer attractive to you?Don’t East Asian women generally have youthful looks/skin for a while? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens'Nah, it’s more like asking would you rather stub your toe really really hard once in a while, or bump into everything you walk past, with maybe a 5% chance that it won’t happen (less painful, but enough to get small bruises everywhere on your body) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:39 PM |
| – | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?If you happen to find that image of beauty standards progressing over time again could you share it? I’m interested but I want to find the right one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:20 AM |
| – | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?Completely agree. Unfortunately being super lean like that only tends to look “good” to almost women if a guy has a proportionately smaller head or is tall with broad shoulders. His shorts in the 2nd pic aren’t helping either but that might just be a me problem lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:18 AM |
| 20 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.Exactly, plus there were countless movies where an ugly/average or fat guy get the beautiful girl in the end. Barely any (straight) boys were watching Disney and analyzing whether the princess falls in love with a handsome guy or not lmao. By the age of 8, as an ugly girl I realized that even if I did become more beautiful someday I would probably be expected to date a guy less attractive than me. Even as a girl knowing the saying “guys are more visual” I was still gaslighted by my prettier frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.Exactly, plus there were countless movies where an ugly/average or fat guy get the beautiful girl in the end. Barely any (straight) boys were watching Disney and analyzing whether the princess falls in love with a handsome guy or not lmao. By the age of 8, as an ugly girl I realized that even if I did become more beautiful someday I would probably be expected to date a guy less attractive than me. Even as a girl knowing the saying “guys are more visual” I was still gaslighted by my prettier frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else found that Right Wing Man/Left Wing Woman pairings seem more common than the reverse?More like nature fucked us all with human nature. Plenty of men are into crazy, immoral, bitchy women just because they’re hot and young. And that doesn’t even hold a candle to the worst that I’ve seen men blame on their “biology.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Hey, the last thing I want to do is push a man away who cares about women’s rights, but I feel like this is something that could be addressed. Why do men tend to tend to state that they mainly care about women’s rights because they have a mom, a sister, or a daughter. Why not care because women are human too? Is that not enough by itself? Actually, now that I think of it, many men don’t have much empathy for the sake of it for other men’s issues either unfortunately, sometimes not even their fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 11:11 PM |
| – | Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarrayAs a girl I learned it (but in the reverse) in middle school and was gaslighted by friends who were effortlessly pretty when I brought it up. One friend in particular would tell me that I just needed to try harder to get a boyfriend, that I just needed to flirt with guys more and be more outgoing 💀 except for the fact that any time I’d meet a guy or befriend them they’d always try to use me to get them in contact with my prettier friends instead. Sometimes that same friend would complain about h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to himOh well. It’s true that most of the people I meet nowadays will only give me a chance or treat me well due to finding me attractive in some way, but I’m only 22 and I’m going to make it a goal to find someone who’ll stick by me no matter what I look like. It may take 10+ years but it’s worth the wait. Everyone has their own biases, including me, but someone who’s truly open minded can recognize their own biases against certain traits or appearances and learn to move past them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to himIt would’ve saved me a lot of time blaming myself for the horrible treatment I received, and I would’ve spent less time doubting myself and more time trying to find less superficial people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to himI was a really cute little girl until about age 8. Strangers and teachers loved me and would automatically have positive assumptions about me, and anything good I did do was rewarded to a much higher degree than some of my peers. Then my dad’s genes kicked in. I suddenly started growing very very tall and thin to the point I didn’t look “cute” tall for a child, it almost looked like I was deformed. My adult teeth grew in as very very large buck teeth that were too big for my head, and my eyesigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 11 | People should stop caring that some women want to fuck serial killers.I don’t hear women talking about how they wish they could’ve dated an ugly man like John Wayne Gacy 💀 sure maybe a part of it is mentally ill women being into dangerous men but that’s because most people lose a few brain cells when they see someone hot, man or woman. It all comes down to the halo effect, people will excuse shitty behavior from hot people, and I guess women being into hot serial killers is an extreme example. The male version of being into serial killers is whenever I see a convi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:31 PM |
| 16 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themIdk about you but I’d rather marry someone who’d be able to leave/divorce me if they wanted to. Marrying a woman without the means to leave if she wants doesn’t guarantee she’s happy, she just can’t leave as easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 3 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.Which comedian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 9 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?It’s not always that, sometimes going through a breakup is stressful and leads to not eating enough. Then, when they get comfortable and happy in a relationship again they revert back to overeating. I do agree that everyone should stay healthy for themselves and not others, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 13 | Define a feminine woman.There’s no woman on this earth that never farts or burps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 01:19 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Any idea why they irritate you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?How tall are you, just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Are social class and looks correlated? If yes are onlyfan girls exacerbating wealth inequalityWhat about beauty face-wise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Struggling men: Would you date a much older woman who adored you?Sorry for editing my comment so much, I’m indecisive as hell lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Struggling men: Would you date a much older woman who adored you?Would you ever date a woman 10 years younger than you while you’re in your 30s or 40s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that cheating is different between the genders?They were quoting a song lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 09:27 PM |
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