Ok_Record Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	My wife has gone insane. Your wife needs to see a psychiatrist and/or neurologist ASAP to rule out a primary psychiatric disorder or something neurological, including dementias such as FTD. They should also do a toxicology screen, etc. Lock your financial accounts in case she does something brash and purchases a large ticket item, gambles, etc. How long ago did she begin to change? Frankly, I would consider taking her to the emergency department if there are issues managing her at home, although I recognize this has bee…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/25 07:53 AM
13	Not sure how to deal with this. There's probably someone else if you're hearing this type of classic script.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 08:06 AM
2	After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship. We'd likely see a reverse in the rates of infidelity, but I don't know if that would translate to inverted divorce rates.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 10:11 PM
15	Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce" She was probably fucking him before all of this, dude. If not physical, then probably an emotional affair. Sorry for your pain. I've been through that. Your sentence about the relief once you found out the truth resonated with me. I had the exact same thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/24 12:07 AM
1	If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest? That's a very reasonable approach. I like it. I don't have any hard rules for a first date, but just generally avoid dinner and will not go out with a woman if she expecting it off the bat. If she's down to earth she will generally be okay with a coffee at a nice cafe, or a stroll in a park or something. I suppose it also depends on what you're dating for. If you're looking for a life partner.. and you pick someone who feels entitled to dinner, well, there might be other characteristics that com…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 10:05 PM
-2	If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest? Being willing to do a dinner date doesn't separate the "high value" men from the "low value" ones - whatever that even means. You could argue the opposite.. that a man with so many options has other women willing to just go for a drink or coffee to see how they click, that he doesn't need to take that particular woman for dinner. I'm in my early thirties and in a very high income career. The money isn't the issue. I'd rather meet casually first and do dinner the second time around. I can underst…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 08:36 PM
–	Fiances filed TRO against Deontry Wilder at the end his career and loss of fight I don't know about her character obviously, but Deontay is despicable. He was having affairs on his wife with his brother's wife, and also slept with several of his brother's girlfriends behind his back apparently. He has also said unhinged, violent s*** so I wouldn't be surprised if he was laying hands on her. Maybe she was scared he was going to take the loss out on her. I don't know, but he probably deserved it.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/24 07:45 AM
2	What are the good books for dating tips? His book is, in my opinion, written somewhat poorly but the concepts are solid.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 06:07 AM
1	ED after divorce Are you on antidepressants? If so, which one? Edit: not sure why some ignorants downvoted this. Anorgasmia and sexual dysfunction is a known side effect of antidepressants, so it was worth asking.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/24 03:08 AM
15	She left after 33 years I hesitated posting this, but "find myself" is usually code for "I want to bang and date other men". In fact, she might have already been having an emotional or physical affair. Sometimes, they just have somebody in their sights that they want to aim for. We all hear variations of the same few scripts. It's actually jarring how similar the themes are across so many different stories here. If you can access her texts, emails, Facebook messenger conversation, WhatsApp conversations, phone, etc. in…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 08:53 AM
17	Scientific study on loss of love in marriage and women. This is a great post. Just wanted to add that while men can certainly play a role in the downfall of a marriage, and often do, this variable can be eliminated by looking at same sex divorce rates. I forget the exact statistic, but of all divorced couples, I believe lesbian marriages made up a disproportionate amount of them and were higher than male homosexual couple divorces and heterosexual couple divorces. So women are confusing to even women.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 10:22 PM
1	Still hard to understand they become an entirely new person. Of course we can never diagnose based on this sort of limited information but there are so many possible combinations of the various criteria that could be present to fulfill the diagnosis that some people are of the "quiet" phenotype for BPD. The classic picture of the whipping boy and destruction of life I think just captures the most common phenotype.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 04:00 AM
–	5 months in, who knew depression 'burned'?! Hey bro, I hate to bring this up and ask but is there any chance that there was another guy? Usually when they're able to move on like that I feel like there is.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 03:41 AM
3	How Long Did it Take? Hey man, if you're interested, I recommend you check out and/or post your story to the survivinginfidelity and infidelity subreddits.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/23 08:53 PM