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It takes a lot of emotional maturity to step back and say, 'These thoughts are damaging my life and I want out.' The feelings of inadequacy and shame you are describing are very real, and it is completely understandable why you are feeling so much distress right now. The trap of the red and black pill is that it presents human relationships as a rigid hierarchy of 'alphas' and 'settling.' But is it possible that a long-term, committed connection actually operates on a completely different wavele…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 05:53 AM
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Spot on. The vast majority of men who say 'it's hopeless' are simply avoiding the discomfort of self-improvement. You are absolute proof of this. Upgrading your style, grooming (the beard), and hitting the gym are the fastest ways to build undeniable proof that you are capable of change. You started respecting yourself, and now your dating odds are reflecting that. The next frontier for you is going to be taking that physical confidence and matching it with emotional intelligence. Learning how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:55 PM
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You are 100% right: if you leave over this, you aren't solving the issue, you're just kicking the can down the road. The 'men take, women give' logic is mental cancer designed by the manosphere to keep guys angry and insecure. It’s awesome that you see right through it. The truth is, we all have eras of our lives we aren't proud of. When she was hooking up with that guy, she was operating out of insecurity and loneliness. Now, she's operating out of love for you. Sticking by your side when you l…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:42 PM
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Congratulations on leveling up. The hard-ass mentality serves a purpose for survival, but it’s terrible for actual connection and intimacy. To answer your question: Yes, a re-do is entirely possible. But you have to introduce it slowly. If you've never talked about sex, the word 'tantra' might freak her out. Start the conversation by taking accountability for the past. Say: 'I realize I’ve been pretty walled off emotionally for a long time. I want to change that. I love our sex life, but I want …
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:28 PM
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You absolutely nailed it. Whether the 80/20 rule exists or not is totally irrelevant to your actual life. If you want to get into the top 20%, sitting around in doom-forums complaining about your genetics isn't going to get you there. The blackpill provides zero ROI (Return on Investment) for your time and mental energy. It’s an excuse to give up. The truth is, attraction is highly dynamic. Once you stop obsessing over jawlines and wrist sizes, and start focusing on your charisma, your fitness, …
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:14 PM
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Hey man, I've noticed most men who start red pill end up black pilled. I created my channels to help men detox from both: https://www.tiktok.com/@women.on.men?_r=1&_t=ZT-93B6zEX8bTZ
/r/ExRedPill18/01/26 04:02 PM
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I created social media channels to help detox red pilled men by interviewing women. Check them out: https://www.tiktok.com/@women.on.men?_r=1&_t=ZT-939qeQXSqhD
/r/ExRedPill17/01/26 10:11 PM
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yeah lots to do with height. It really doesn't matter as much as social media makes us think it does
/r/ExRedPill15/01/26 06:04 PM
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that’s how it starts for a lot of guys. You’re not alone in that. I created my channels so that I could help men see the non-misandry side of women. https://www.tiktok.com/@women.on.men?_r=1&_t=ZT-9363jYvWwsh
/r/ExRedPill15/01/26 04:41 PM
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This is my largest channel: https://tiktok.com/@women.on.men
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 01:01 AM
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I get why this scares you. The Red Pill ecosystem preys on young men who feel insecure or inexperienced, and it sells them a story that women are biologically wired to screw them over. None of that is backed by real data. Pew, ASA, Gallup… all show the opposite. Most women date across or down, most marriages end for lack of support, not hypergamy, and “nice guys never get picked” is just insecurity dressed up as science. Your boyfriend isn’t evil for stumbling into this stuff. He’s 23, he’s inse…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:03 AM
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Tiktok and Instagram are my most popular channels: https://tiktok.com/@women.on.men https://instagram.com/women_on_men
/r/ExRedPill20/11/25 07:16 PM
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Hey there, I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm a content creator who creates anti-red pill content. I'd love to learn more about what happened and how he fell down the rabbit hole
/r/ExRedPill19/11/25 10:28 PM
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Please. This is made just to make men angry. Women want to be approached by a confident guy. that's 99% of what it takes
/r/MensRights18/11/25 04:32 AM
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Of course. If you want, send me a DM. I coach men on dating and confidence, but it sounds like you're on the right track.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 08:58 PM
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You’re not invisible. You’re twenty. Twenty year olds have always dated. College campuses didn’t suddenly stop pairing people off. What you’re experiencing isn’t some Red Pill law of nature. It’s just the awkward early stage of building confidence and social reps. Most guys don’t hit their stride at twenty because confidence isn’t built by age, it’s built by repetition. And you’re already stacking the right habits. Calisthenics. Dance. Friends. Emotional intelligence. That’s the exact foundation…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/25 10:31 PM
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TikTok is my largest channel but I am also on https://www.youtube.com/@WomenOnMen and https://www.instagram.com/women_on_men
/r/ExRedPill14/11/25 10:24 PM
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Hey, I am a men's dating coach who specializes in Red Pilled men. My entire social media is dedicated to fighting red pill and helping men date. Feel free to check it out but I'd be happy to do a 15 minute consult free. https://www.tiktok.com/@women.on.men
/r/ExRedPill14/11/25 07:55 AM
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