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what rights women DO NOT have under the law in the last 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:05 PM
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I just made a post considering that majority of men are sexless and everybody I mean everybody was: No! That's not true!! If so many men can't even approach a woman how come??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:10 PM
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come on you guys, you as a man, would you reject money for sex? really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:14 AM
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At my previous work there was a lot of young girls and most of them were married or had long term boyfriends, one time they had a "ladies night" and they all posted their pictures in their instagram with cocktails and so on. I'm friends with their husbands, because we play football, they all have instagram too. After that "ladies night" I saw their profiles and there was no signs of a man in all of the girls instagrams. while the husbands were totally family account, with mostly pictures togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:54 AM
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value their privacy but put the account open for everybody to watch her in bikini..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:35 AM
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I mean those tiny dogs that look like rats or that little white ugly and full of hate bag dogs that girls like to sleep with. and cats... many cats... stuff that a guy would never buy or own unless it's because "she wants it" in hopes he can get access to more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:55 PM
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usually poor people are uneducated people uneducated girl will see an average guy as a high status from her point of view just because ( he has a white car ) "not kidding I've hear that one" and BS like that. and many kids also comes with lack of education / planning / common sense / environment (A.K. everybody from their street doing the same)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:45 PM
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If it is true, it's a HORRIBLE life experience for women. How can some women spend their lives with men that they don't find attractive? It's disgusting... Well men have to live with a woman that doesn't like him, doesn't love him, and most likely doesn't give him the sex he was promised at the beginning. Also men have to deal with her BS like dogs, cats, toxic friends and so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:21 PM
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you hear it guys, just be more "emotional intelligent" get fat and poor, but a phycological tampon and girls will rain over you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:15 PM
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where is the equality thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:34 AM
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men are more comfortable next to other men who aren't competing. I do have many male boring friends and never complained about that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:28 AM
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because they are animals you wanna be an animal, you should be having kids since your first period
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:26 AM
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didn't they want equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:21 AM
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always the same argument. because we talk about women and there is a normal distribution, we should talk about the majority of them. not the edge cases or exceptional cases...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:45 AM
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if women would dislike abusive/manipulative men, there would be a lot less of them. same if men would dislike hoes and bitches, there would be a lot less of them out there. ​ "better" compared to majority of men that get no relation ship whatsoever... (for being nice) then you can say yeah better... for them...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:39 AM
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I'm sorry but I'm not an entertaining clown for your amusement. Why are always men who have to jump on a leg for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:29 AM
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I think calling her a girl or women is an insult to 50% of human population....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:27 AM
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please change the title to "Today society is PERFECT for TOP 1% attractive rich men" the rest is all true for the new title
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:24 AM
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"I thought you were a doctor" yeah Ross has a PHD "ew!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIRO22duEIA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:21 AM
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the inability of women to value the highest skills for what they are. but then you remember that they want only tall guys for security and you roll eyes once more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:16 AM
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just buy a car you can't afford
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:01 AM
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I do, but it seams similar to when people buy expensive brands.. some do it because they really like the brand, others only for what it means to the people watching. and if you say : well the majority like the quality. then the after market fake brands wouldn't exist ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:44 PM
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I didn't even mention virginity, you guys did
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:40 PM
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it was just one random example... I didn't want to give the classics: make up to look whiter in all Asia: because it means you don't work outside fake tanning in the west: because it means you have money to go on vacations brand complements / clothes / shoes ... from china or cheap places instagram in general... etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:39 PM
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there are gorgeous dresses with colours other than plain white ... and women can wear them all it's okay, you see a man with a tuxedo other than the 4 colours and it looks like the ice-cream man is getting married :D my ex was polish ( so full blond ) and went with a red blood dress to a wedding and it was so nice it was like she was getting married. and my best friend asked all the mades to wear flower dresses, it was very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:25 PM
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can't agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:14 PM
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so it's just a flex. why so many women here got so salty with me? it's ok to admit, it's just a flex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:35 PM
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or they just never associate one thing with the other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:33 PM
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well then why to even marry with a dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:21 PM
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not angry at all I just want to point out it like some other women adding a bandage to their nose to show they had a nose job when they never had one... and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:20 PM
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totally agree, I wrote "need" because I even met a gay couple that are totally not religious but they were fighting for getting married in a church both in white.... and I was asking but WHY! why do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:15 PM
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yeah that's exactly what I mean imagine a wedding with everybody in white and the bride in red, that to me makes more sense than the white just because tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:10 PM
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I totally agree with you, my point is, why not other colour? there is so many! if you love white then okay, but don't do it for tradition...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:08 PM
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yeah I thought like that for a while, and it is true if you consider humans like plants, that as far as they have food they grow. but humans are much more complex and social, slowly humans realised that kids that grow in a family with mom and dad together for longer succeed more and have more kids that also have kids later compared to the ones that grow by them selves... so the idea of marriage didn't came from a holy book but from the general experience that having a family and less kids is bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:01 PM
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but there are cultures that have even a test just before the wedding like the gipsies...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:06 PM
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misogynist means you hate women, I think you actually like them the right amount, but your ability to access them requires a payment while for others it's free
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:09 AM
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they have been always picky, now they just can, before they were to decide between the 10 available man removing married, old, young, etc... in a tribe of 60 people like we used to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:33 PM
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I guess this potato with makeup answers the question https://9gag.com/gag/an5dGjV
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:01 PM
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considering that women only care about the top 10% of men, you need a ratio of 1/10 at least to make men ( some how okay ) but this ratio will have to be in the world! because now a days a girl will compare you with any guy they saw in some random part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:55 PM
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If I stay in the sun, I'd mostly get tan, but if I stay in the rain I would most likely get wet... The victim mentality of avoiding any responsibility of your own actions is called feminism, just blame everything on men. if you get X kind of men, is because you have put your self in that area. I don't know why is that so hard to understand, if you want to get Tan you go to a sunny place, if you want to get wet you go to a rainy place.. so you decide. but now a days being a woman means wanting it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:05 AM
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Why marriage doesn’t benefit women? Doesn't? if you do nothing at all and separate, you get 50% of everything he owns... If you decide not to work he'll pay your house, food, clothes, trips.... If you decide to work all that money is for you if you want... Why married men don’t do much around the house?. because in the unlikely event of danger he'll put his life in front for you. Will you accept 1Million Euros with the condition that as soon as you get it you die? and 100Million? so how much is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:47 PM
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more money makes you more attractive for some women so the question here is: do you want superficial brats? or gold diggers? Also pretty privilege applies to men in some extend, people trust more in tall handsome guys than ugly shy ones for becoming boss
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:32 PM
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some receive the awful tip: "you can always cheat girl! just don't get caught" or "you should cheat just in case"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:37 PM
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yeah, but she had boyfriend already when we met. she used to tell me how I'm the kind of men she would marry, but I never try anything with her. the boyfriend used to be out of the country at the beginning but later he came to the country, we still meet and everything was nice, I met the guy and it was just a normal guy. in Corona times they both had a lot of issues and they had discussions, we met and talk a bit, she complained a lot about him so I tried to help them and make them overcome the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:30 AM
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I've date many girls that like "smart" guys, I'm not really smart, just curious and have good memory, I'm interested in many things so I know a bit of everything, enough for them to think I'm smart... Well for the girls that we only dated, I lost interest because they were so empty they felt uncomfortable. for the ones that could think a bit more, they got to tell me: but why do you need to ask for everything? can't you just accept it? I don't want to know why the sky is blue, I just want to acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:33 PM
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isn't this red pill documentary made by a feminist debunking all your points?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:44 PM
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Girls finding a guy attractive by his face, OK I believe you. but there is a long way from there to having a relationship or even sex. in an intimate relation, when the lights are off, girls don't want to be the bigger one in bed, or do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:02 AM
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so when a man doesn't accept woman behaviour is because HE is insecure. when a woman doesn't accept man behaviour is because SHE has standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:04 PM
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yeah and it's pretty normal that girls want only the attention. Also to match she has to select them, so if she selects guys that only want sex, it's on her. "I didn't know" is absurd now a days... I tried tinder for 6 months, actually reading profiles, I got 0 matches. so 100 / hour or whatever is still better than 0
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:28 AM
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I do agree with your rational conclusions, and I wish it is like you said. but when we see the evidence: girls choosing a F boy, married man, etc.. girls buying 50 shades of G books girls selling their parts online in OF and so on girls defending feminism = F everyone they want so they feel empowered I think the woman you are talking about became the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:01 AM
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make a tinder, choose gender female, don't even put a photo or a description. you'll get a 100 guys to choose from in half an hour. they struggle because they are picky. it's different to not eat because you are vegan than because you are in the desert
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:47 PM
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because dating for women is like going shopping, dating for men is like applying for a job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:31 AM
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isn't there a lot of experiment videos about ugly girls in tinder and how easy they have it? here is one of hundreds of videos and blogs about it : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pg931HxUhTw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:14 PM
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well but that dream is already happening no? with porn instead of sex robots. and you "top 1% woman" are just mildly annoyed but betas requesting a text response, let alone sex. Yet I don't see woman clapping in happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:03 AM
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"men only want one thing" "wont' work because everybody needs connection" This are two opposite opinions about men, and I hope this robot happens so we'll really see the % of men who will be happy with it. I personally think it'll be great for humanity in general, because when men can have sex without any responsibilities, anytime they want, then women will have to improve in everything else but sex to be valued. Therefore there'll be more meaningful relations and less superficial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:56 AM
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I did, I wrote them, you don't want to accept it? closing your eyes to reality is part of why we call women now a days delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:59 PM
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sell your assets when they are in the highest value, sure, totally perfect economic logic. The issue is that we aren't just numbers, or money, or value alone like a dollar bill. we are humans, and that woman will carry a psychological trauma for having sex without feelings, or being an object in a relation, and so on... plus when your assets are low (old age) in the gold digger best scenario she'll have a lot of money, great, but nobody will give a f about her. while a girl who dedicated her tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:25 AM
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she breaks up with him before he can be proud of her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:17 PM
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not sure, I always try to help my bros get some I'm happy when they land something and I'm there if they find out what we all knew from before. men way of teaching is harder than women style, it's not simp-shaming is more like : Bro you are being used, that's not the best strategy for you bruh ... but yeah you don't want another bro see your romantic side, at the end we are all competitive animals, but if we don't compete, or compete in different levels, then there is no reason to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:46 AM
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it's like the average woman isnt allowed to juste be. yes they are when they are young, they got all the power, attention, value... while men have to work hard to get their value. so it's only fair that later men get what they worked hard, and women get what they didn't work for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:01 AM
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for women that range depends on if he is billioner or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:48 AM
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What you want and what you need aren't the same always. An easy example is "sugar" you may like it a lot, but it's really not good for you. Now you can work on stop eating sugar and all good, but sugar won't start magically tasting worst just because you stopped it. You can say "but it's my body! I can eat what I want it's my life" in the case of sugar yes, but in relationships not anymore... Is what you find "attractive" or "arouses" really poison for you? well sadly some women do have "standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:42 AM
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is like, you want a wife while poor or while rich :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:55 AM
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still yeah. being attractive depends on her preferences, that doesn't take my brain or the use of it out of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:23 AM
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42
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:33 AM
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yeah why not? if she is enjoying it, great! if she is workaholic maybe is red flag getting paid for cleaning my OWN home? great!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:28 PM
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is there cure for hypergamy? well not sure, but maybe is the same answer as: is there cure for men liking young pretty women? maybe it's possible but it's more about our programming. going against your programming requires a brain effort...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:14 PM
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again you are using your self as the exception. if you look at people free to do what they want, like rich men or attractive women, you can see what people without constraints do. Like how many women had kids with the same rich men, or how many young women had a rich men. Like Elon Musk having kids with multiple women and Leonardo having only young girls (all without kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:24 AM
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I thought about it, but that would be giving too much logic where there is none :D Women will pick the best they can, regardless of their own status, it's simply as that. Now thanks to internet they see what's the "better" and they totally believe they deserve only the "best" so they all look for it. Yes there are women who are not superficial and care about personality, but they most likely have a 8 years long relationship, maybe married with kids by now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:48 AM
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Women don't care if the man had kids before it means he had kids with another wife and that wife take care of that kids, while he sends the money, as far as he has enough money for the new girl, the new girl doesn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:30 AM
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Everyone values experience in bed That's not true, men value purity, women value experience. Yes there is a normal distribution and it does matter, because when I say men I mean the 90% in the middle of a gaussian distribution of men preferences. and the same for women. Men don't want to invest in kids that aren't his, it goes against his reproductive interest, why is it so hard to understand for a woman? Women don't care if the man had kids before, as far as he is a father and provides to the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:12 PM
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It's always the same, once you make a point people can't rebate logically, they come with an edge case or exception. then try to make it the norm, even thought there is a normal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:46 PM
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sounds a bit contradictory, women do value experience in bed. if you say 100 is too much, then it's a matter of a number > 0? still whatever that number is, it'll be consider too much from the straight men point of view. so his point is still valid, he could have replace 100 by "too many"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:04 AM
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Okay I got your point but you are forgetting the psychological point. Yes women are shorter and weaker, but women are much better armed with psychological weapons. Rejection hurts a lot, but some women know how to make it hurt even more. you as a girl never been rejected near a 1% of the amount of rejections a man needs to go. and believe me, you don't get use to it. The more the guy cares about her, the harder the rejection, because a girl wants a guy "who doesn't care" because he is too "cool"…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:46 PM
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many many men like long legs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:37 PM
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but women base their entire life on what other people do... isn't the "social pressure" why they "dress in a way", "make up in a way", "choose a job" or "not achieve the CEO position" what girls now a days complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:25 PM
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we are at a zero sum game situation when relationships shouldn't be like that, both parties should put on work and gain from both , not identical gains and efforts, but complementary, because we aren't exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:31 PM
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could be yes still there is a lot of competition between women when they are in only women groups. there was an article about a woman that made an only women company, didn't go that well. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/34ogjp/woman_starts_all_female_company_to_realize_her/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:21 PM
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somebody asked for it already https://www.reddit.com/r/latebloomerlesbians/comments/we8p5h/why\_do\_straight\_girls\_enjoying\_kissing\_other\_women/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:16 PM
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he is the husband of the most beautiful girl the planet has seen (to my point of view) the guy is a billoner:format(webp)/cdn.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_image/image/66891306/1056110204.jpg.0.jpg).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:09 PM
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Well at least you get something extra in exchange, it's not all for the looks. in theory it's suppose to be there for the friction, it seams we are ready for a lot of friction :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:00 PM
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Thanks a lot for your answer 1.- yes men and women have levels of testosterone and estrogen that varies along the day, and women are attracted to high levels of testosterone in men, but men don't find attractive high levels of estrogen in women (only) but less levels of testosterone. that's why women don't mind kissing another woman but men really hate thinking about kissing another man. So what we really like on a woman have to be related to less testosterone, like skin, hair, smell (particular…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:58 PM
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put Evan Spiegel without money in Tinder, do you think he would land a Miranda Kerr?? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J25CCSmoaTE&ab\_channel=AustralianHotNews or almost any footballer in Tinder would land any of their model wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:56 PM
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well I do have many Russian friends, they really see the guy attractive. mostly because they don't know why they like a guy, most of them say (I just feel it) but none can't really explain with words why a guy is attractive. so my friend (guy) is a short ugly and a fatty guy, with a wife that time. my Russian friend met him before, but it was a transparent guy for her, she doesn't even remember meeting him but I did introduce both. one day this guy comes to meet me with his new BWM super expensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:40 PM
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There is women who don't care about the looks, as far as the guy is rich. Just check the horrible old men in Russia with beautiful Russian models
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:02 AM
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unless the guy get's awfully rich, then Russian girls will hunt him down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:01 AM
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the comparison is more: man's height = woman's beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:58 AM
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you just need to tell women: I earn 6 figures! (but in binary)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:55 AM
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men always date down because women are incapable of dating down, they always do equal or more. therefore the guys must date down if they want a relationship. and now a days that a girl think she is +2 points more because she works and is strong independent woman, they think they are dating equal, but for a guy is dating down all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:53 AM
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Depends, if she has a picture showing a lot of skin and trying to sexualise her self it means she is tired of having ONS and now she is "ready" for something more. But she already had her fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:11 AM
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you can always find exceptions for everything and forget about the majority https://www.medela.com/breastfeeding/mums-journey/breastfeeding-benefits-mum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:20 AM
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Well if you need two firefighters for each person you want to save, you may lose 50% of the people you could potentially save.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:35 PM
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there are quite some https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhwO8u4sZ-8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:29 PM
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Thank you very much, I appreciate your contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:24 PM
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okay but once you enter and you find a 90kg man past out, there is no machine to take him out...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:11 PM
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like this universal socket kid of works but doesn't really performs any closer compared to specialised tools if you are a professional or wanna do things the best possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:06 PM
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Yep, that sounds a much better conclusion to this topic, thanks a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:21 PM
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Thanks. There should be a movie to show with alternative lives, the impact of a good mother on any child. And how little we value their impact. Some man can't even say thank you to their mothers. Some push it down all this feelings until it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:32 AM
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Thank you, that was very inspirational. I still think we have neglected the feminine side of humanity in favour of results. And yes, it's a big risk to gamble your life to one person, doesn't matter how good he/she is...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:29 AM
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Yes but, a fireman needs to break your door to save you from fire, and time is important. I don't know who would die happier knowing it was a female fireman who tried to rescue them... https://youtu.be/GUIu86y68kA?t=482
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:24 AM
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Is it possible feminist do not represent majority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:19 AM
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breastfeeding for example, I've heard some women feel some reward, or like when they decorate a house, or just holding a baby, smelling it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:12 AM
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yes but more precisely the kids psychological state, not his body as the car, but his brain, self love, confidence, etc. it's a big difference to a kid from a broken family. If you go to a kindergarden you can really see a big difference on this kids, because even if it's not their fault, every trauma kids explain it to themselves as they aren't good enough, and that goes all the way to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:10 AM
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that's great A friend told me that her family psychologist told her to stop trying to be a perfect mom all the time. That was affecting all the family, that she as a mom has to be happy, because otherwise nobody in the family can really be. So its important that she takes care of her self first, and it's ok for the kids to not have everything , all the activities and extra lectures etc.. So the role of a mother is really important for a happy family, it should be value much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:05 AM
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I also got the vaccines, and I was in favour of them all the time, I'm sorry it was a bad example. What I mean to say is that girls in general feel more the social pressure than men, and tent to be more agreeable with the majority... Thank you for the nice conversation, I will try to go out more :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:00 AM
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so we are good and bad some times. I remember for humans, for each bad thing we need like 5 things good to see it equal. and sadly bad things makes more noice in the TV than good ones. I have never seen a wave of good caring man is making wives happy in TV as braking news...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:52 AM
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How would you know if the hypothetical well-off people are spoiled? to me is when they feel entitled and don't value things, blind to their privileges and thinking that everybody has them. What do you have in mind for your future children? What does success mean to you? Success means being happy for me, and sounds easy but is very hard and complex, and it's not the same for everybody, so there is a long way to know what makes you really happy and to achieve it. What makes a guy top 10%? If it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:50 AM
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I do agree, I'm sure Steve jobs's mom had a lot to do with his success, but it's so hard to measure it, to quantify and therefore value it properly. I wish somebody would make a movie with multiple alternative lives of a man with and without a mom. And you are right it's a human thing to push the blame on everybody else, you can't be 100 sure you'll ever be with someone forever. The romantic idea is just an idea, nice for the movies...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:38 AM
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yes I'm sorry for the confusion. Men have a lot of successful men to look up to, we just guess they have so much money their families should be well provided. But yes, we don't have famous men for being good fathers, or for not taking a model as a wife after they make a billion. Sadly we do have some artists that committed suicide that makes us question if money is really the only metrics of success. for women, from my point of view, it's looks and money the metrics, not much from there...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:30 AM
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identical twins separated at birth have the same programming but totally different environment. finding them after a life time and comparing them shows similarities to the level of writing and hiding love letters for their wives. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMlJcOSRX-8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:22 AM
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because we do overlap but we are specialised, you can say that a mini is the same as a truck because they are both cars and both have the same parts ( besides the ones that makes them different)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:29 AM
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Thanks for sharing I'm sometimes afraid to feel the same, that it'll be like a burden, what if I don't feel happy doing what I'm suppose to be program to do? maybe not everyone should be a parent, or maybe we should hire parent's ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:26 AM
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Wouldn’t the rich, attractive man raised in an attentive environment be exactly the outcome you’d want for your hypothetical family? not quite, because being good parent's is not about spoiling and providing everything but teaching how to be a good person. Going on what you’re saying, your children would all be spoiled rotten and terrible future partners. I would hope no, being humble is hard to learn when you have it all, but everybody learn it sooner or later. I come from a very very poor fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:24 AM
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nope, I'm saying a kid with a family and specially a caring mother will not do go as far as a kid with a broken family
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:18 AM
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Yes they are trends, because our XX and XY doesn't fix how masculine or feminine a person would be, there are XY females and XX males in very rare cases. A baby grows independent of gender up until a point where the testosterone is produced more in XY than in XX. that's why men have nipples, because they develop before this hormones start to work. So every person is a XX or XY with a certain proportion of Testosterone and Estrogen valanced in the body. XY females are rare cases where the body is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:01 AM
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well I'm sorry we seam to not agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:45 PM
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I'm in awe I'm sorry it ended like that, I understand more the really big risk a woman have to take in order to do such an important task. I hope some day society wakes up and realises maybe this is the key to avoid so much suffering in the world. Thank you so much for sharing your story, I'm quite certain your kids will have beautiful families too and hopefully many kids so your effort will be a real impact in our society. Your effort deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:42 PM
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kale smoothies :D that's really funny. I'm lucky I wasn't bombarded with that ads, I get the usual super hot young girl dancing with almost no clothes and saying "what would you do to me if I can't say no", they keep coming even after I say I don't like this content... glorifying instagram moms sounds so wrong, specially because everything that goes from there is fake. I guess being a mom without filters is not as exiting as one would like to think. I was imagining more like famous women for bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:33 PM
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it sounds like there is no hope... like good men are the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:20 PM
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yeah but we are a team, one brings food so the other can spend time on taking care of all of them, not just the kid. and it could be mom or dad working, but we are more specialised for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:19 PM
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maybe redefining what's success can be influenced
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:17 PM
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Well in the past maybe it wasn't much better than now, in fact in many animal species the parent's die or are severely affected after the babies are born... of course all other animals contribute to their own species survival, but humans... we just reach 8 billion... I think it's okay of people don't wanna have kids. what is a bit worrying is that people without education and income have like 5 kids in average. I'm afraid to finish like in the movie "idiocracy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:16 PM
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once I asked in reddit if there should be a license for having a kid because it doesn't seam logic that you need a license for driving a car, and also insurance in case you damage something or someone badly. but for kids, anyone without even basic education can have one. they almost downvote me to death, they thought I was a nazi eugenics lover ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:03 PM
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well that proteins build the cells that make our brains, in fact every single cell is made by the DNA instructions, so all she said in the video was made by DNA differences. not going too far, you have a full X chromosome where I have a Y, that's quite a difference. you may not like the man but he did study that and teaches it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D23b36Kf4S0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:00 PM
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It's sad but all you said it's true. don't want to enter in a competition on who has it worst, because we are both talking on the "average" group of people, not the rich or the very poor. if it's such a bad deal for women and for men, then people shouldn't have kids at all. I still believe there are men out there that do not leave their families. And there are also women out there who don't leave their husbands. As a man I can only say men are more careful on picking a girl nowadays, not sure if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:50 PM
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This is probably what I needed to read. thank you so much, I need to go back and recalibrate. I still think we are kind of agreeing this femininity was neglected and maybe things would be better if we would value it more. Thanks again, it gives me a lot to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:40 PM
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exactly, a man should take a good decision too, to be sure he can provide and also to be sure he'll stay with that girl. you never know but nobody forces you to have kids, specially without being dam sure you can be a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:35 PM
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not all women but a big amount chose men on the top 10% of all men, and the top 10% on what that woman value, sadly if they only value looks and money then they get that, the rest is neglected. If a guy is born with the looks and in a rich family, he get's so much attention he ends spoiled, his value is given with no effort, he can be like a pretty girl who also never had to work on her self to get validation and attention. That ends in many girls dating the same guy, because he wanted to use th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:30 PM
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I'm sorry, you are right, I mixed topics. I do agree in the west we have achieve quite a lot of equality in opportunities for women, and now a days women have more education and they hold more titles than men. To only celebrate mothers would be pretty cruel to those who can’t or don’t want to. I didn't disagree with it, I just wanted to compare it with what's cruel for men too, to have a reference to compare it. I'm sorry I wasn't clear about it, I didn't want you to feel attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:25 PM
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yes we have exploit vulnerable people forever, like there was never god out there. now we have the tools to stop it, and change our mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:04 PM
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I come from a broken family, so broken in fact all my relatives have broken families, almost 99% of the people I met as a kid didn't had a family... When you talked about the housewives in the 50-60s stuck at home with an abusive man, I totally know what it feels, because I was 4 years when my father had a second wife he was abusing, they got a kid and my father had other women too that he was brining home some times. My father's wife used to hid in my room after my drunk father used to hit her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:58 PM
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every successful man have a mother behind that should be recognised more often
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:25 PM
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Yes that's true, I've ask here in reddit if people chose their partner based on how good mother/father would she/he be and most of them said no. that's probably something related to our education, many of the dysfunctional relationships are rooted on traumas from broken families, absent mother or father even he she/he was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:23 PM
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construction worker and being a mom are not comparable, one is rewarded with money, the other is rewarded with life, if you want to put a price on psychological well been, alcoholism, etc... you can't measure how far can a person go with a good family. it's like saying that putting same gasoline to a Yugo and a Ferrary moves them the same distance and same speed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:20 PM
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it looks like you are going to say that men can breastfeed too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:13 PM
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that's true, you can't put cameras on your home to say: look how a good mom I am. so there is no way to recognise it properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:28 PM
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almost everybody watches the finals of any sports... we like to see the best of the best ... I've even watch cricket final and I don't know the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:26 PM
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we are quite different biologically, each specialised on what we are programmed to do.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhwO8u4sZ-8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:23 PM
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there has to be more to it. my father was alcoholic, was hitting his new wife, making her cry and bleed, and also cheating her with other woman, even bringing that women to my house. I saw all of that and I never touch a woman or cheat anyone. and I didn't had a mom, she was in another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:21 PM
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sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:19 PM
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in the past women were living together sharing their kids in a groups, for a long time moms were helping each other... grandmas moms and kids, all together all the time. now each woman is alone surrounded with 4 walls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:18 PM
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here are some https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhwO8u4sZ-8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:16 PM
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I really like your comment, so far the best in my opinion, very true and to the point. Can't add much to what you say, just continue where you left. It's true men can be corrupted, in general a person can be corrupted, there is plenty of studies about how the circumstances makes as horrible or amazing people ( like the https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experiment ) All you said is totally true if the man is shit, and the only way out would be to fix men first, to make a generation of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:15 PM
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that's a very responsible mom, that should be more celebrated than a woman that was born hot by luck and all she does is walk with some clothes earning millions...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:04 PM
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I'm sorry but women have more mirror neurones and are much better at extracting information of fascial expressions than men. women can smell better, more resistant to pain, hear better high pitch... men are better with spatial locations, logical thinking, planning, calculating trajectories, working in groups... that just a tiny list of the big amount of biological differences we have... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhwO8u4sZ-8 we are capable of doing everything but not with the same outcome..…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:02 PM
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Why? there is plenty of studies about male brain and faithfulness. in the past, when we were animals the strategy for men was simple have as much kids as possible, but then we got brains. with a complex social structure, the strategy is to have a kid and make sure the kid survives and have kids, otherwise your genes don't pass on. all complex animals tent to serial monogamy, the more social complex the more time the couples spent raising the kid together. kids from stable families tent to have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:56 PM
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that kids become men, bad men raised by good moms, who does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:47 PM
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It's not solely a women's job to educate his son on this matter. He will see how his mom is being treated. Yes that's why it's important to choose a good partner, some time ago I made a pool here in reddit asking if anybody ever choose a partner thinking if that person would be a good father/mother. the answer was: almost nobody.... A SAHM usually has a large gap in her resume, it's hard to get back on the field, motherhood is all she know. She can start a low wage job wich is never enough to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:45 PM
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I mean if mothers are always good they have a kid and raise it by them selves the kid grows to be a man that man abuses a woman was the kid raised good?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:37 PM
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Even if biologically it’s what we were made for, it still isn’t a path that brings joy to many people. Many people can’t even have children. To only celebrate mothers would be pretty cruel to those who can’t or don’t want to. Yes you are correct, in the same way not all men are cut for being CEO, not all men enjoys working all the time and specially being drafted to go to war. yet we value success in men and the rest of us that can't get a million are by default unsuccessful. you can say yes but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:34 PM
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I don't believe raising competent human beens is as simple as cooking and keeping the house clean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:22 PM
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Women also enjoy collaborating towards a goal. Something like 60% of high school girls play sports in the US (not quite as much as boys but there still aren’t as many positions on teams available for girls as boys). I mean men get a biological brain reward by just watching other men group and compete against another group. Yes there is feminine men and masculine woman, but the big majority of men do get a real reward so much that just football alone is a US$ 3.02 Billion industry Yes a man can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:21 PM
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Don’t know about y’all but where I am it is, from the time women turn, say 21, they start getting questions about when they are getting married and having kids. Single childless women are basically seen as complete failures, even if they have millions of degrees and a well paying job I guess is these kind of things that people want upon you but they don't know why... It's also easy to take decisions for other people without responsibilities. I’ve also found that SO MANY people underestimate what…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:03 PM
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money is just a token for resources we did evolve to provide for our families = be resourceful in the past a powerful man would be the leader of a tribe that had access to plenty of food, directing other man on what to do for the good of the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:53 PM
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A man's genetic programming is not about being protective and a provider. That is one strategy nature sometimes follows with greater or lesser success depending on the current situation. Yes not all XY humans follow the same programming, there can be men that are very feminine and women that are very masculine, there is a normal distribution for both genders, where the majority bulk of people fall and that's why we see stadiums full of men watching sports (and some girls) and cardigans still bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:49 PM
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but we specialised, so two specialist complementing each other would do much better than one with all the qualities. the problem is that we glorified the providing part of it and totally forgot the caring part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:10 PM
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Where’s the proof that being an amazing mother is not considered succesful? We can celebrate a woman CEO and an amazing mother well it depends on what you define as a mother, if being a mother is providing food and shelter then a man can also be a mother. But if a mother is someone who was there the first 18 years of the kid life, caring and teaching the kid how to be an amazing person then it's hard to have enough time, CEOs are workaholics, they don't have much time, their levels of stress are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:06 PM
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Because a woman who chooses to stay home with the kids will ultimately end up broke and miserable if her husband ever cheats on her/abuses her/divorces her. It’s a big gamble and it always has been. Thats 100% true, but it's not 100% of the time. I do agree it's a gamble but girls choose with whom they want to have kids, same as guys choose too. I think we all cheat and abuse at the same percentage, but the divorces not really, 80% of them are started by females. When a man gets a kid, he assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:56 PM
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Because the realities of a mother is not glamorous and the women have barely any time to look after themselves. I'm not sure I'm getting this right, do you mean her value is on her looks? If a man married her and she got a child, the man would stay next to her even if her looks go down, that's the idea of marriage, because after having a kid it's not about them anymore, it's about the new human been no? There’s this foolish idea that when a woman becomes a mother, something supposedly so natural…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:26 PM
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if moms are only good and they raise the kid by them selves, why men are so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:20 PM
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but if children are raised mostly by the mother why aren't they educated better? is really man = bad all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:19 PM
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First of all thank you very much for sharing your point of view They tend to treat a financially dependent woman like shit. Maybe this is related on how a man was educated, I'm not saying a mother should educate his son on how to threat women, but how we measure successful man by only money and not on how good of a person he is. You can't leave, you can't get a divorce. That's a horrible feeling, specially if you didn't choose the man, luckily in the west women can choose. There's no shortage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:16 PM
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My story is like this: I come from a broken family, mom never loved dad, they used each other, by the time I was born they were split. By circumstances I ended up living with my father and his new wife, they got a kid, and all my childhood I saw how he was hitting her, screaming to her, how she was crying and bleeding. So I said to my self I would never be like my father. I grew up by my self, my father wasn't there and his wife didn't even cook for us, so I spent most of the time in the streets…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:07 AM
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revert and blame it all on her ex who made her do all that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:48 PM
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100% people don't know they can get to fall in love with anyone. because love is not about finding the perfect person but learning to see an imperfect person perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:06 PM
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I want to ask to the women who said : Bad boys aren't boring Do you choose men as an entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:00 PM
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so people from both sides don't want responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:58 PM
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more confidence = better genes = more testosterone = more muscles = more confidence = more protection = more surviving = more food = more kids = kids live longer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:57 PM
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nobody said it was easy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:43 PM
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yeah... women are perfect innocent angels, they don't even need to use the toilet. they all 10/10, never lie, never do anything bad. they float like a feather. we men are everything wrong in the world .....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:30 PM
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she lives with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:26 PM
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just get a Latina :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:25 PM
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Men “starve” because they refuse to pay while telling women eat poison mm no, most men have no money to pay, and women choose ( as you said raise their standards) so they chose poison, no man would tell you to have sex with chad, actually is the other way around. Yes, men are more likely to kill women than vice versa. women are more likely to kill children than men Yes, it’s our choice. So watch us raise our standards to compensate for those risks. Women date up to compensate for the inequality …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:31 PM
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there is plenty of tests and videos about men going right 100% and getting 0 to 3 matches. if your success rate is 0, 100*0 is still 0 and getting matches doesn't mean you got a relation ship :D on top you still have to be funny etc... and she'll end up ghosting you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:56 PM
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Men can pay for it. They’re not starving. What? paying prostitutes isn't a relationship... and 90% of men aren't CEOs to get gold diggers. Dating dynamics are the result of sexual dynamics where sex is higher reward and lower risk for men. Let's see: action women men birth risk high risk no risk undesired pregnancy low risk, can abort high risk, can't tell her what to do Split marriage most of the time wins most of the time loses a lot split with kid wins custody almost always high risk paying 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:43 PM
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and you are not good at analogies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:35 PM
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some struggle because they are vegans others struggle because they can't eat at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:41 PM
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maybe its the same amount but we show it differently. for a man is ok and maybe even encouraged to go for it, but for a girl is impossible to think on openly flirting with the guy they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:05 AM
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I can only talk for all the GFs I had so far. in a word: femininity they more feminine they were the more I was in love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:40 PM
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it doesn't matter what you do. it only matters how attractive she finds you. so go for it. she'll decide if you are a creep or a chad, it's not in your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:35 PM
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well if you get a guy from now on, you can be sure he is not into you only for the looks. what men don't like is the pressure the girl brings because she is pass 30 and want kids. most men would like to have some good years together before going the kids route. if you are not in shape, you can work out and get in better shape than when you were in the 20s. There is a lot of men out there, maybe the ones you consider "men" aren't really into over 30 girls but there is plenty of men who are whilin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:32 PM
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what about the black thing going down the right leg of the mom?
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