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Ok_Statement1451/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 03:39 PM
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Ok_Statement1451/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:36 AM
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Exactly what I wanted to say
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 08:41 PM
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Shoot you seem a little soft😅I could be dead asleep and if I woke up to my husband inserting himself in me I would not be mad at all. Same goes for my husband
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 08:42 PM
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How would this be rape in any way if they're already engaging in sexual activity? If she climbed on top there's still room for him to say no, but if she just did it there would be less room for rejection as well rather than just asking for it
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 05:58 PM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 05:33 PM
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😚🤗🤭
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 03:11 PM
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Give him head then climb on top, and make sure you ride it good so he'll want it again lmao
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 02:18 PM
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Sex is marriage according to the bible
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 05:24 AM
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You should always date to marry
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 03:44 AM
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Why would you end it with him if you like him? It kind of seems like he lucked out by you breaking up with him...
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 07:22 PM
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You're not wrong
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/24 10:46 PM
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Hey! I appreciate your feedback, greatly. Everything you said is noted. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/24 05:29 PM
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What you mad about
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 09:23 PM
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We've been together 2 years
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 08:31 AM
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Um.. talk about triggered
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:16 AM
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Yep.. I've realized that pouring love into him during these moments of insecurity is the best thing I can do
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 07:33 PM
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It is definitely not righteous for him to be bearing false witness and to be a false accuser. I tell him this. But I tell him this out of frustration. He has reflected on it, but sometimes the triggers are intense for him, it's not something that is deliberate. He tells me that the enemy is attacking him and using his trust issues against me. He knows. When we have these conversations he'll kind of say things like, if it's not true then I'm sorry, but If it is you know The Most High sees all, ki…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 06:13 AM
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I've admitted to my husband that sometimes I wish I got male attention while out of the house. When we lived in VA a year and a half ago I got lots of male attention and stares tbh, and he noticed that quite a lot, while we were out together. We moved to my home state and I dont get a single second glance, ever. It's nice to feel desired. But he took slight offense to it and said that I shouldn't really be desiring to be gawked at by other dudes, especially while out with him and with a big ring…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 05:58 AM
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Most of my new friendships are short lived... I live a different lifestyle that is bible based so that rules out the majority of people
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 05:49 AM
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Hi, thank you for sharing your concern for me. I know that it's huge baggage, and tbh it's not what I expected, but I guess I should have been more wise in courting him bc we met literally a month after his relationship ended from infidelity.. I should have been prepared that if I was going to commit to him there may be baggage, and there is. That being said, I don't regret him whatsoever, I don't regret our story, I don't regret our learning process. I don't view it as him being emotionally abu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 05:47 AM
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I'm 24 and when I was about 19 I was in a really toxic relationship, we emotionally abused each other but I was the main problem. I also had wandering eyes then and was heavily attention seeking toward other dudes and hanging out with random men, but I never physically "cheated". When I say wandering eyes about myself in the present day, it's more so staring at people until I can see what their face looks like lol.... I have bad eye sight. I just try not to do that anymore at all bc it obviously…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 04:35 AM
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Hmm a little bit but I was also a very selfish and rude partner. I wanna say not as much, but again we weren't even dating 6 months before we got married. It's probably intensified more now bc there's a sense of enough comfortability to be vulnerable and he cherishes me even more now that we've been together for 2 yrs and have 2 kids together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 02:44 AM
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We got married shortly after short term dating, don't regret it whatsoever either
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 02:23 AM
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Yeah :/
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 09:17 PM
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I understand
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 09:16 PM
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I try to remember to. It's just odd bc it was just that one time we both noticed that she felt looser. I have had two babies in two years but I am healed now, so it was a strange thing that I felt different. I understand why it was triggering for him. Edit: she as in my vagina😅😂😂I subconsciously call her that lmao
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 09:14 PM
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Well, I admitted that sometimes I did have wandering eyes, and that is something that I've been more aware of and have stopped. The reason why he doesn't want to go to therapy necessarily is because we are very bible based and we want to run to God for our issues rather than a professional stranger who most likely will not understand our views. No, he doesn't go to the gym, just work, the store, home. No drugs besides recreational Marijuana from time to time. He is a great husband and dude overa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 09:12 PM
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Interesting
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 04:25 PM
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I could feel that I felt different, too though. When he brought it up I knew which time he was talking about. Again idk why
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 04:23 PM
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I've considered it for sure
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:42 PM
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I'll keep that in mind, that sounds interesting
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah. But ya know, he popped up on my last night on his break and came home. I was still feeling frustrated but we talked and after a bit I hugged him and looked at him and told him that he's safe with me and that I love him, that he doesn't have to worry about that from me. His whole demeanor changed. He just needed to be shown love and have a genuine/meaningful reassurance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:40 PM
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It's going to be more loose for a period of time, not necessarily forever. If you have a train ran on you with a bunch of big dick nggas how would you not be temporarily stretched out? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:37 PM
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When we came together I noticed that i didn't feel 100% like I normally do, so did he obviously. Before that time we had sex about two days prior. I don't know why I felt different. I know it's not permanent
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 08:32 AM
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Yeah, definitely. I shouldn't have the desire to seek relationships even platonic ones. That's definitely something I've noticed about myself and have been looking into it more deeply within the past year and a half or so. To answer your question- no not really tbh. And I'm semi okay with that. I'm busy enough with my household, husband, children and pets. The last time I left the house was a month ago when we took a walk to the playground around the corner from my house. Lol. And I'm okay with …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 07:31 AM
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You read me well.. yes, sometimes I have moments where I feel like seeking attention and I feel like that's stemmed from my high school days but im much better now. I'm a SAHM so I don't even really interact with ppl like that especially men. What gave you that vibe? And tbh even when I feel in those "moods" I tell my husband and am very honest with him. I was telling him how sometimes I want to join chat sites for innocent convo, but I know that's not a necessarily a good road for me to go down…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 04:17 AM
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He's pointed out times over a year ago that I have wandering eyes and I've been conscious about that and have fixed that and don't look at men like that in public anymore. Even if someone from my past reaches out to me (rare occasions) i keep the conversation quite short- give them a general update on my kids, tell them my marriage is great etc etc and I end the convo. I even tell him about the conversations so he never has to feel worried about it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:58 AM
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He doesn't really believe in therapy for himself.. and not really. I kind of just have to be in a good mood all the time cuz if I'm not I must be cheating... lol.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 03:51 AM
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Good for you for recognizing that there's room for improvement on your end
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/24 04:22 AM
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🎻
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 04:43 AM
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Just looked at it briefly, and no. My husband is still very loving, caring and affectionate toward me
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 03:33 AM
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I mean, he acts like he's still attracted to me. He touches me sporadically throughout the day and kisses me. It's more so that he stays up late than being disturbed by the baby. Baby and I cosleep so there's minimal getting up in the middle of the night - he sleeps well. I think it's more so a testosterone issue, idk.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 01:59 AM
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Okay. Maybe I need to put selfishness to the side more often than I think. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 01:08 AM
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You're not wrong
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 01:00 AM
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Yeah, I wanted something sexual as my physical intimacy at that moment. You're quite rude tbh
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:59 AM
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I'm a SAHM. my sleep is better than his bc he wakes early to go to work.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:57 AM
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Someone commented that I'm using him as a vending machine.. I didn't say that. You really can't read. Dang. And I stated as well, that I wanted sex with him bc it makes me feel close to him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:56 AM
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No I haven't and yeah I plan to back all the way off.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:55 AM
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Girl. Can you not read? I literally said I was giving him head.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:54 AM
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He likes when I ride but he told me to get on my back. And okay good to know
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 11:58 PM
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Trust me, he doesn't watch porn or masturbate.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 11:24 PM
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I mean I know we're red pill women but like fr tho
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 10:52 PM
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Medically yeah I guess
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 10:50 PM
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I was sucking his dick I wouldn't expect my tits to do all the work but yeah
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 09:46 PM
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My love language is physical touch so yeah I would feel connected to him but it's not his first love language and he wasn't in the mood anyway so probably not for him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 09:01 PM
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I'm sure lol. We are faith centered, so..
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:52 PM
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👌🏾
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:33 PM
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I see what you mean but honestly I just wanted to feel connected with him. And yeah I agree I'm normally on the same level as him but I just wanted to feel close with him last night before his long work week but I probably just made it 10x worse.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:32 PM
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Ty
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:08 PM
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Alright.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:52 PM
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He doesn't masturbate. I'm starting to think it's a testosterone thing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:52 PM
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No one forced him lol I asked if I could suck his dick he said I'm satisfied but then proceeded to go clean his dick for me to suck on so stfu
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:34 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:31 PM
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Wanting intimacy?! 🤮 🤮yuck!! grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:30 PM
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Damn near already in a sexless marriage once a week isn't shit
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 06:51 PM
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Sigh. Im just the worst right, for wanting to be intimate with my husband? Terrible me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 06:46 PM
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I usually do wait for him to initiate... but who wants a wife that never initiates? And yeah I feel you about the disappointment thing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 06:10 PM
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To answer your question he asked me to get on my back bc "he knew I would want to be pleased too" and yeah sometimes I do just try to seduce him by touching him or something but he'll obviously catch on and sometimes he'll say he doesn't think he can cum, that we had a good session the other day so he doesn't feel frisky etc etc. Last night i told him I wanted to give him head, he was hesitant but still let me after he cleaned up down there so I was touching him and that's when it started.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah tbh I'll act excited to do it but damn isn't that better than saying no?😂😅
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:22 PM
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I asked if he could go down on me after his dick went soft and he was going to but tbh I said nvm bc I just didn't feel like he wanted me fr. And obviously he didn't to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:10 PM
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But clearly it's in vain if I'm getting 5 strokes and then a flaccid penis... but somehow he can stay hard when I'm sucking him.. he said it's bc when I was sucking him he was laying back but when he was inside me he had to put work in and somehow that made him soft. I feel like I could apologize for still asking even tho he said he wasn't feeling it but I figured I would turn him on enough that he could actually stay hard. It kind of makes me mad tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:08 PM
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I'm not gonna start denying my husband even if I'm not in the mood I just kinda wish I could get the same treatment
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:03 PM
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Oh no no because according to some ppl it's coercion!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 05:01 PM
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But if I deny him I'm in the wrong and just another wife that doesn't want to sleep with her husband... I've never denied my husband like I said even if I'm not in the mood. But I'll just suck it up and take the L.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:48 PM
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He was already hard when my boobs were out. But you know it all huh. And okay if he's not in the mood I'll just be horny and not say anything I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:38 PM
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I don't make it a burden to me. But if I'm not in the mood I still give myself to him because I want him to be satisfied and because I love him. Don't demonize me for that. And I have my boobs out all the time. I breastfeed.. don't try to make me feel bad about my boobs lol. I know my husband still loves them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:33 PM
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This is good. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:22 PM
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It used to be like every other day or every two days for sure. There's been more stresses in our life. He also says that he's gotten used to not being able to have sex due to my healing period from having a baby almost 8 weeks ago now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:11 PM
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You don't NEED to be in the mood to have sex as a woman... your vagina doesn't just seal up if you're not in the mood. Plus, lube is always an option. It's easier for a woman to have sex when she's not in the mood compared to a man, is all I'm saying.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:04 PM
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He's only really in the mood once or twice a week . Sometimes I want it more. Sometimes he wants it when I don't necessarily want it, but I never deny him. I know all we really have to do is spread our legs... we don't have to worry about getting hard and staying hard. I see what you're saying though. I'll be sure to apologize.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 03:48 PM
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If you can actually love him and continue to choose love him (As love is a CHOICE) then definitely I would say do it. You get to be protected, your child will be In a stable two parent home etc etc. Lots of positives. You will most likely start to accept and love how he looks. Especially if the emotional connection is there. Also, don't just marry him for selfish reasons. He should be gaining something out of the marriage as well!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 11:44 PM
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