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If you can’t understand it that’s not my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:26 PM
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The appeal to nature when it comes to gender dynamics is interesting to me because everything we have done in terms of humanity has been some sort of triumph over nature or adaptation of our instincts into a luxury. I have not seen much discourse around societal competition but I agree to an extent but I’d have to think further on how I feel about it to thoughtfully engage. If it was up to me just as a fun thought not a super serious proposal but the “antisocial” men, the violent types that so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:15 AM
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The appeal to nature when it comes to gender dynamics is interesting to me because everything we have done in terms of humanity has been some sort of triumph over nature or adaptation of our instincts into a luxury. I have not seen much discourse around societal competition but I agree to an extent but I’d have to think further on how I feel about it to thoughtfully engage. If it was up to me just as a fun thought not a super serious proposal but the “antisocial” men, the violent types that so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:15 AM
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The not all men discourse is just not my problem men generalise women all the time, if they don’t like it I do not care. I called women who are doing sex work “traumatised whores” because they are traumatised and they are whoring themselves, their trauma most of the time is at the hands of men. Sometimes you have to use harsh language to get your point across, I don’t say these things out of misogyny I feel for these women (more so the ones forced or surviving in the career). Though my pity can …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:47 AM
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These are opinions. Except the statement “collectively men do this” any person on the peak of the bell curve should be able to figure out that I obviously don’t mean all 3.5 billion men on earth, it’s called speaking GENERALLY, based on personal observations of the cultural zeitgeist. You can play semantics all you want this won’t change anything you’re arguing for the sake of doing so. “The ocean is blue, HEY WOAH BUT SOMETIMES ITS GREEN, WHITE AND GREY” And whilst I’m a while away from having …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:21 AM
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I live according to my values but I want what’s best for the community I plan to raise my future daughter in. If it doesn’t apply to you, you don’t have to listen to me, you’re right I’m not god; no one is forcing you to do anything. When I make general statements I’m using the English language the way everyone does we don’t speak completely matter of fact, you cannot account for every variable when making general statements. I’ve said this in this thread about 40 times now but “if it doesn’t ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:07 AM
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I’m not interested in changing the minds who’ve been brainwashed already but hope the ones on the edge make the right choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:34 AM
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Good question. Women are very adaptable and I believe after the zeitgeist shifts there will be an increase in coupling and healthy sexual relationships. Given society is majority healthy individuals there will be more opportunities for men and women to comfortably explore exactly what they want/need romantically and sexually. I’d like to imagine in the hypothetical society the majority of men being trustworthy and the majority of women being sexually and romantically literate, it will become sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:21 AM
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I think it’s important that healthy women and healthy men compliment each other in their strengths and weaknesses. As a society we need to encourage people away from degeneracy because it benefits no one. Masculine and feminine are supposed to work in unison, so we can have real community based on trust, respect and mutual understanding. High trust societies do better in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:11 AM
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“Men have constructed female sexuality and in so doing have annihilated the chance for sexual intelligence in women. Sexual intelligence cannot live in the shallow, predestined sexuality men have counterfeiteed for women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:29 PM
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You’re adding a lot of projections that aren’t there. Get well soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:24 PM
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I don’t look at my friends as a dating pool I’m not thinking about potential relationships when I meet people I just meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:21 PM
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Please don’t link me pornography I don’t believe in “porn for women”, there is not such thing and it’s just more encouragement of women engaging in things that aren’t good for them because the idea appeals to men. Im a sexual person, I have nothing against sex but (I’ve been celibate for 2 years though) under patriarchy there is no healthy way to engage with heterosexual sex “Men characterize pornography as something mental because their minds, their thoughts, their dreams, their fantasies, are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:19 PM
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Nope no sexual trauma I’ve had fantastic experiences with men all throughout my life. Im just aware of how men are socialised. Men hate when women aren’t victims and still take issue them because they have no way to discredit how she feels (though they’re try) I love the men in my life and the reason that is because I know they’re men of quality, which the reason I have a high standard for men. Men act like it’s all men when they’re your brother and father trying to “keep you safe” (lay claim) .…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:09 PM
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UNTIL THE THIRD DATE HAHAHA, she shouldn’t sleep with him until they’ve been official for at least 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:04 PM
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Men aren’t capable of separating their lust from their hatred of women. It’s why the Madonna-whore phenomenon exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:02 PM
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Ok but that doesn’t address my claim that it is personified misogyny. Depictions of women simulating unhealthy power dynamics, and sexual abuse. As well as the very premise of having unrestricted access to women’s bodies is not beneficial to women and the fact that most porn stars are victims of trauma, or come out the industry traumatised. The fact abuse is normalised as long as it’s labeled “kink”. Officer: “why did you choke your gf and spit on her, this is domestic abuse” Man: “oh don’t worr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:58 PM
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By telling women to be whores men benefit by getting access to sex without any effort. Hypergamy is good women should be sexually selective. It encourages men to actually better themselves to be high value. I don’t ascribe to the mentality that every woman is a 10 and persons worth is only as much effort they’re willing to put in, in order to get what they want. If you want a 10/10 rich chad or whatever idk then put in the work as a woman to appeal to him, same way men should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:49 PM
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Don’t care. Porn is personified misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:41 PM
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That is nearly impossible to vet on a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:26 PM
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Masturbation is normal porn isn’t. Women shouldnt watch porn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:23 PM
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I love my boyfriend the same way I love my friends. My romantic relationships with men are like live in friends with benefits. (As I prefer seperate bedrooms). I could just get a sperm donor but you missed the part where I said children benefit from having two parents, if anything children require a community, but involving too many people into my daughters life would be to hard to control for circumstances I’d prefer she not be exposed to. Whilst I realise my circumstances are unique, most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:43 PM
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These traits can be found in strangers but the likelihood is lower and the risk involved in involving yourself with strangers isn’t worth it. Also those are terms that are subjective and I use them as an encompassing statement for my standards are. Everyone has different standards for what they seek out in a partner so if I stated anything specific it alienates people away from my initial point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:28 PM
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I’ve only had 3 serious relationships including this one, my first I knew him for 2 years, second about 7 years and this one admittedly only about 1.5 years. If this relationship ends I’m not concerned, I am not even particularly interested in romantic relationships with men, I solely want a relationship because I want to be a mother this is purely a process to find good potential fathers for my future daughter. Not financially but because children benefit from having two parents. As fatherhood …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:24 PM
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Im 25 and in a relationship. But thanks for the useless advice. Edit: also not that it’s any of your business but my sex drive is healthy and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:08 PM
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Well it’s up for debate there is nothing to debate here you are discussing your personal preferences as a man. Which is completely, irrelevant to the discussion at hand. If you have personal preferences as a male, by all means you have the the liberty to live according to your standards. Im not setting out to convince men who have no interest in being friends with women to be friends with women, because those are exactly the type of men I’m telling women to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:07 PM
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Well as long as you’re honest and it works for you, congratulations. This is advice for women to avoid poorly socialised males. You’re more likely to find a mentally healthy male who respects you as an individual if you establish a mutual platonic relationship. I don’t believe in the friend zone as I’m 25 not 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:59 PM
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Healthy relationships based on mutual respect and trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:53 PM
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It’s not dogmatic it’s reality. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:38 PM
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Stop steering the conversation to try and debate atheism loser idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:47 PM
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You do not have to take the advice like I say “if it doesn’t apply, let it fly”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:27 PM
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I’m not gonna have a reddit atheist debate with you, it’s clear you’re really set on having that discussion and as a spiritual person I have no interest in trying to debate bro about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:26 PM
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You didn’t acknowledge my examples of why that statement is meaningless. It’s clear you you’re just concerned about how you benefit from this modern detour feminism has taken
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 PM
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Nothing gross about wanting whats best for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:59 AM
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You’re the epitome of the modern male “let two consenting adult blah blah” Jesus. Immoral, hedonistic, and lacking empathy for women as long as they’re willing to show their hole, who cares if she’s traumatised and acting out sexually! There are consequences to actions and things don’t exist in a vacuum. The same way we understand if someone is watching cp is a danger to children, we should be able to understand that if a man enjoys harming women sexually he should be classified a danger to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:52 AM
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This is such a meme, women date down in looks all the time, because women’s attraction grows the more they like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:25 AM
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It’s relevant to who it’s relevant to, everyone can benefit from creating healthy connections but if they have a strategy that already works for them no one is obligating them to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:22 AM
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We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Most women aren’t as strong as men physically, and most men don’t have the same intuitive ability as women. Though I have biases and proudly, because men proudly express their disdain for women for far less, so much it’s now the norm to sexually abuse women in the name of “kink”. So yeah sure I’ll take the label. Doesn’t change reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:09 AM
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I can’t explain to you intuitive thinking that is not a male skill. The conversation is being had by many young women (amen, hallelujah) and if things go the way they should the next generation will start making moralistic choices based on healthy mindsets not hedonism. I’m a 25 year old female, conventionally attractive, in a relationship. I don’t need to worry about anything regardless I just want what’s best for young women, the degenerates and the whores will be left behind. You can call it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:55 AM
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You keep bringing up religion like that’s a jab, I don’t adhere to a singular religion (for the most part) but there is nothing wrong with having a moral code. Plenty of people have been part of this discourse for a while now just because you haven’t seen it . You didn’t like the studies I linked because people will always look for holes in studies that don’t suit them and I admittedly didn’t offer you the highest quality studies but the didn’t discredit what I said and you’re going to try and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:46 AM
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Bad study. Gg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:33 AM
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Well that’s good if true but pardon my bias, I don’t know for sure obviously; but what men view as healthy (in terms of relationships) is not a good gauge of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:30 AM
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It’s so interesting to me that sex and pornography are the only “women’s issue” men will argue for with their whole chest. You feel so attacked by someone criticising degeneracy and wanting what’s actually best for women, because you know if the zeitgeist shifts back to women being more sexually selective and hopefully this time with better tools to avoid the abuse that comes with that side of the coin, we can finally exist as people first, women second. I don’t bother trying to convince men of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:28 AM
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I pulled up the most immediate sources I had access to I know you’re a male so you think you’re entitled to everyone’s time, but I’m not going to engage fairly with someone who is already on the defensive. You can look it up yourself if you care to, or continue watching porn and fucking whore women I don’t care what you do brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:21 AM
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I’m glad it worked out for you but it’s higher risk for women, therefore should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:18 AM
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Passion is useless, and gets people into trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:16 AM
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I’d gladly offer you more concrete research if this was a good faith discussion. Not to mention none of that discredits what I said, it’s just not so concrete (as most newly researched things are, digital pornography usage is a new phenomenon)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:16 AM
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Tinder studies are not valuable data and cannot be looked to for natural dating dynamics. Most attraction studies funded by dating companies cannot account for variables the same way other research can. This is baby brained male cope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:05 AM
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Women want healthy relationships with men: “is this inceldom?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:02 AM
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“Men have constructed female sexuality and in so doing have annihilated the chance for sexual intelligence in women. Sexual intelligence cannot live in the shallow, predestined sexuality men have counterfeited for women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:01 AM
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Nope peer reviewed https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9922938/#:~:text=The%20majority%20of%20the%20studies,acts%20and%20to%20achieve%20orgasm. “Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, libido, and arousal dysfunction are the most often reported sexual dysfunctions in the general population. Some unique studies associate chronic masturbation, delayed ejaculation, higher anxiety levels, and sexual dysfunction with increased consumption of pornographic content.” “Recent findings indic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:00 AM
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It’s not pulled out of my ass but are with me whilst I get up my sources since you’re insisting on things you’re clearly not educated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:50 AM
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I’m a radical feminist and just like back during slavery if a slave said “I love serving my massa” is not a real choice. Women choosing to exploit themselves to their oppressors, or people that benefit from their oppression is not a real choice. The women are also degenerates yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:48 AM
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Sources stating the effects of digital pornography on not only individuals but society, like seriously, porn defenders are so odd. I get off on having a healthy sexual relationship with my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:45 AM
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Then there’s no conversation to be had I don’t care what the specific terms are of peoples hypothetical situations if there’s an agreed upon social exchange then who gives af
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:43 AM
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I don’t believe in choice feminism you are so correct! Women are now selling their pussy for 3.99 a month to degenerate men who don’t see women as people in the name of “empowerment” there is nothing empowering about being a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:42 AM
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Are you seriously going to force me to get up sources right now. I don’t consume pornography, and I expect people I’m around to also be mentally healthy individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:40 AM
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I’m not interested in what you classify as high value, if your feelings are hurt that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:39 AM
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I’m not interested in what you classify as high value, if your feelings are hurt that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:39 AM
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Porn is not equal to words on a page.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:38 AM
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No the state of women is in shambles too, and as a woman I’d like to reach out to women to make better choices. Because the sexual revolution has destroyed people, but women are the ones getting the worst outcome. I want women to be sexually selective and sexually intelligent in order to make the right choices, for themselves so collectively hopefully there’s is a cultural shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:37 AM
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You completely misjudged them because I have fantastic men in my life because if the fact I hold men to high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:34 AM
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That is Machiavellian which is predatory, it’s up to an individual if they want to be that way, it is known that this is a form of predatory manipulation. People will be predatory no matter where you go but men are statistically more likely to be so it’s important for women to be cautious. If you lie to someone in order to get sex that is predatory whether you like the “wording” or not. It’s an uninformed decision in this case, because obviously this is not a punishable offence by law it’s women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:31 AM
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Women are less shallow than men. But also that is what I am encouraging…that women make genuine connections with respectable men in order to find a worthy partner based on genuine connection not a superficial one. But male moment ig
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:24 AM
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Friends and acquaintances is fine, depending on how well you know them, currently there are none of my friends I’d date (if I wasn’t already in a relationship) because a number of reasons. I take issue with seeking complete strangers out for romance on superficial initial attraction, as well as I think it’s important for women to be cautious when it comes to dating but especially sex. I don’t adhere to the sexual empowerment movement shit that has plagued women for a couple decades now, it’s lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:21 AM
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About 5 men, 7 women (including myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:06 AM
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You’re adding all this redpill nonsense to the very simple idea that people should focus on making interesting fulfilling connections outside of romantic ones, these connections that happen to blossom into a relationship after time are some of the greatest most fulfilling relationships someone can have. I have a very healthy friend group with almost equal parts men and women, who get along swimmingly through our experiences together, some people have ended up dating and other times people have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:57 AM
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Two people making a consensual intimate connection based on mutual respect is so shocking to men these days they can’t even conceptualise something this simple. Yes it’s predatory to seek out friendship with someone without expressing your intent that is manipulative. Just the same way befriending someone with a yacht JUST for their yacht, that is also manipulative. Men have a habit of being degenerates who will lie to get sex, this has been the case since the beginning of time, we all know this…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:53 AM
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Nope it’s just sound advice for women who want to take it. There is literally no harm in women who want to take on the advice taking it on, the only harm that would come was is having less entitled men have access to women without any effort to be better men. Women need to learn to be sexually selective again so men are forced to be better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:48 AM
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Ok no one said you’re obligated to date anyone you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:36 AM
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Because the point is that they see you as a person first, I also didn’t say anything about sex from the woman’s end, i said a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:33 AM
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Yes unless you’re a 100% sure a woman is interested leave her alone, it’s simple courting rules, i don’t understand why it’s complicated. But to be fair as well what women find attractive is about 40% initial appearance, so it’s best to not approach people you don’t know at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:14 AM
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Thanks for the insight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:40 AM
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Well subjectively, I find them boring. But yes you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:23 AM
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Why’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:53 AM
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I’m aware, doesn’t mean I have to find them interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:50 AM
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You’re really stuck on the fact I brought up rape and murder and not everything else which is the experience of women that cannot be measured hence why it requires cognitive empathy on your part since you are not a woman. I am speaking anecdotally as a woman that’s the key, it is a shared experience amongst many women if not most to have to deal with poorly socialised males, I’ve always found men for the most part to be boring so it has made me unconsciously hold the men I do have around to a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:41 AM
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Emotionally intelligent, motivated, not degenerates (not porn watchers).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:30 AM
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What you’re not understanding and what you’re doing rn is the very male habit of completely disregarding the fact I am speaking anecdotally as a woman which requires a certain level of cognitive empathy I think most men don’t have. Sure the numbers say one thing and I’m not an anti-intellectual who doesn’t take those things into account but I’m not speaking about just rape, that is worst case but everything else I mentioned is more likely to be what a woman will run into if she dates recklessly.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:22 AM
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No I literally live by the beach I’m just saying people take personal precautions based on what is important to them to avoid. This isn’t a statistical issue because it cannot be measured with statistics. I am offering women the advice that has worked for me in mitigating the worse situations women get themselves into that go unnoticed by males because of their completely different understanding of the worlds It’s all encompassing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:10 AM
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If something romantic starts blossoming you discuss the terms of the relationship like adults otherwise I don’t see why it would be necessary to state something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:56 AM
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Sounds like a you problem don’t be insecure or find a woman who lives a lifestyle that aligns with your values women aren’t obligated to change their behaviour just cause you decided you want them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:55 AM
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I mean at best out of the bad situations, but I don’t understand that idea because I don’t respect men who seek out women actively
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:53 AM
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Actually no. Women deal with predatory men regularly throughout their lives to varying degrees, I’ve not had any severe traumatic experiences, but if womeb want to start having fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect, instead of being a man’s mommy, manager, fuck doll and therapist they need to know how to navigate dealing with men, not all men are bad people consciously but make socialisation makes the probability of coming across a unsavoury male much higher. It’s about mitigating ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:52 AM
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But it’s not lying, I’m not making friends with any intent beyond enjoying their company, and have found through experience that this is the healthiest way to achieve something that will benefit the woman. Too many women enter into relationships with mediocre or emotionally abusive men because of their need to have them centred in their life romantically. Predatory men can see this, im lucky to not be one of those women and that is because my approach to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:48 AM
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That’s why I said at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:45 AM
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I don’t know why you feel personally attacked by me trying to offer advice to women to keep them from wasting their time and live more fulfilling lives. But I assure you it’s ok if you have found a method that works for you, you don’t need to get upset and make claims about my experience. I’ve spoken generally this entire time. “If it doesn’t apply, let it fly”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:36 AM
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No things grew, feelings develop over time through shared experiences. All my friends are my friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:29 AM
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No because I’m currently in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:24 AM
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People have placed so much importance on romance it’s made them unironically worse at relationships, healthy dynamics don’t come from desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:19 AM
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The whole point is you’re not waiting for something. Just enjoy people for who they are and if something happens it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:11 AM
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You can but my point is pursuing romance for the sake of romance is an indicator of an internal need not being met that people think will be solved with romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:08 AM
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I’m not demisexual, I experience sexual attraction to people I’m not romantic with but it’s fleeting and it doesn’t matter because I don’t think women (or men but especially women) should be sexually reckless, I’m a sexual person I enjoy sex but my values and lifestyle are more important to me than reckless pleasure pursuits. I’ve been very lucky to have respectable men around me all throughout my life, and this has what has created this standard for me. I like to see people as individuals and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:03 AM
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No, because I’m friends with people for their character not their potential to be dateable I am friends with a guy (who I used to have a small crush on) who showed interest in my friend I set them up on a date and they’ve been together for years, I’m still close with both of them, I’ve long lost interest in him (even before I set them up). I don’t befriend men to date them I befriend them because the men I don’t find boring asf I enjoy being around for their personalities and I get along better …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:57 AM
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Do you need to date, if you have friends and family grow interpersonal relationships, you will feel great. Women benefit from having a community, don’t isolate yourself in hopes of finding a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:52 AM
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Me neither!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:50 AM
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My values don’t align with being the type of man who is actively trying to persue me sexually or romantically. It shows me where his intent lies, I want to be with someone I respect and who respects me. The best way to be sure if that is establish a connection outside of that mindset. A healthy person doesn’t make connections with people based on their need for intimacy, that means it is lacking in other areas as an individual. If you crave romance for the sake of it that is an internal issue. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:48 AM
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That’s reckless but if it works for you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:41 AM
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Yes I’m not insecure I don’t give a fuck I don’t lay claim to people like that, I don’t have casual sex so I wouldn’t date a man who engages in a lot of casual sex anyway, because our values wouldn’t align.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:40 AM
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No I see people as individuals first and if things blossom they blossom, there is not previous intent behind it that is the whole point behind my advice. It’s a unspoken vetting process to prove that they see you as a person and not the way the majority of men view women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 AM
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I have many personal examples of this so no not 100% Like I said if you have found a method that works that’s fine, but women have been given too much bad advice about dating over the years and it’s time that it’s better to focus on strengthening other interpersonal connections and the romance will come naturally and will be way more fulfilling even if it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:24 AM
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The difference is different intent from each party I don’t seek people out for sex or romance, I get to know people as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:19 AM
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I don’t find men very interesting overall. I’ve been lucky that I’ve never been victimised by men so I don’t know about the safety aspect I’m speaking from my personal experience of men being boring but a lot of women have had traumatic and unsafe experiences which is where this advice matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:18 AM
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You’re too worried about social dynamics, if you have a strong foundation for a friendship a relationship will not complicate things. Emotionally mature adults can entertain the idea of a relationship after some time without having it fall apart, I have some friends that I’ve had since before I have conscious memories. Romantic relationships should develop organically not an active pipline, that defeats the purpose of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:16 AM
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EXACTLY, it’s just the first part of the betting process of seeing if they can respect you as person. Not just a lover
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:10 AM
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Why waste your time with potentially useless men, when at best he’s a little annoying at worst he kills you. Women need to make better decisions when it comes to men, because it’s clear men don’t want to put in any effort into collectively becoming any better. Society caters to their degeneracy why would they. We as people look to others (our parents) to learn about healthy relationships, there are few examples of what that is, so we as women need to offer each other productive advice to keep ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:04 AM
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It’s not about sex I’m talking about relationships I don’t have causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:57 AM
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That is advice for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:54 AM
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Well if that works for you that’s fine, but it’s safer and healthier for women to date people who have proven to be capable of the emotionally maturity it takes to befriend a woman in earnest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:54 AM
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