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| 2 | The problem with dating advice today is that people are seen as trophies rather than investmentsThe problem is that they aren't seen as PEOPLE. SMV, Dating Market, high value, low value, investment, bodycount. Words dreamed up by the utterly deranged and the highly autistic who can't think of the world without NUMBERS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of casual sex for women?REALLY gorgeous women get flown to Dubai and, well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:18 PM |
| – | CMV: It is impossible to be sexually attracted to someone because of their money.True, but just like in business, having money gives you more "tries" and lets you take riskier gambles. It's easier to be "confident" and "have personality" when you're not thinking about where your next meal will come from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | "Men would still have sex with an ugly woman" is a shitty consolation prizeI think it devalues male sexuality more than women's since it implies men would bang a sack of potatoes if there was nothing else available and that if they DON'T want to have sex with someone, then she's even uglier than that sack of potatoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 7 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)Because a divorce is a stressful, lengthy process even if it goes in their favor, they might be content with their partners beyond the physical and once you reach a certain age you stop thinking about what's the hottest piece of ass you can bang and more about what's for dinner and where you'll go on vacation next year? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:06 AM |
| 5 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)He wasn't fat when she got him - once you have kids and a life together it's "do I want to throw all of this away for a chance of something better?" rather than common dating pickiness. Men don't settle for fat women with kids either, unless it's THEIR kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:01 AM |
| 13 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)Check their early pictures. There's a difference between dating a fat person and growing fat with an established SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:24 AM |
| 19 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)Fat women would never settle for fat men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successThe problem is that most men are in the goldilocks zone of "not broken enough to pull women into criminals, not well-established/hot enough to pull those who aren't either". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 4 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?People cry about sexlessness epidemics and N-counts all day here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?It's OK not to take part in casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:43 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?In mostly monogamic or serial monogamic relationships. No one's asking you to switch partners every few months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?Shows and movies, exactly. People see it on tv and think they should live that way. They shouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:37 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?Seems like an incredibly narrow timeframe between the end of the AIDS scare and modern times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are RP men becoming indistinguishable from American conservatives?Always has been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:15 AM |
| 2 | A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10Alfa Fucks, Beta Bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Try watching a woman declare an honest preference on height/dick size/wallet without the thread turning into a flame war. Men, on the other hand, are perfectly fine with liking a 90-60-90 trad housewife or any variant of it. Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:27 AM |
| – | College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is?The right panders to men, while the left panders to women and minorities, what's there to get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:03 PM |
| 2 | should overweight but financially successful men lower their dating standards?If you've got that much cash, skip the dating and just go for prostitution/SA/sugaring. You'll get the best value for your MONEY that way, plus whatever standards you can afford. Young, old, thin, don't want her to talk about feminism? Pay up and she'll talk or shut up as you see fit. Dating though? You have to be interested in your partner beyond what you think your standards are and how she fits them. You're not ready for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?Do you check $GRLFRND on the stock market to see whether you should buy the dip or sell your position? Can you trade 10.000 girlfriends a day through advanced computer algorithms? Is there any institution that decides whether you should pay for the restaurant or go 50/50 with someone? Can you go to jail for insider girlfriend trading? /joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 11 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?What percentage An extremely small percentage that the internet blows out of proportion. How does it affect the dating market It does not affect it at all, since dating does not follow market rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedHe has every right to take an insult to his wife as an insult to himself, just because he's been wronged enough and being the butt of a joke on top of it would be too much. Not everyone becomes rich and famous to do the DiCaprio thing. Guy's a father, he has to set an example for his kids. Stop thinking in money, power, women terms. People are human too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | If you are struggling in dating you are not "high value"If all you wanted out of dating was "procreation with someone of your current social/economical standing for the continuation of your society", a rather puritan take, you could speak about dating standards being high or low. The truth is, people want something else: excitement, passion, stability, you name it. I think it's a very personal choice who you partner with and when for armchair sociologists to put all men and women on a sliding scale of low to high RMV then telling them to settle for l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:41 AM |
| 28 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?Well, I think that if I were suddenly in an Occupied France/Battle of Staliningrad type of situation, the dating scene would be the least of my worries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | us men should not fear going the extra mile when pursuing unattractive good women.(Please be 6'0 or higher tho) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Ego-dystonic sociosexualityThese Redpill terms are getting harder to follow everyday. What lack of pussy does to a mf... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution Is A Good Start For Correcting The Dating MarketThis just in: women should sell their bodies to get other women to accept less so OP can finally get laid. Why don't you find a hobby instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 03:20 AM |
| -1 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouYou got baited into a reverse-the-genders post, sis. OP is making fun of women who expect men to be their lap-dogs. Better luck next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The Redpill takes a lot of flak for being "misogynistic" ideology, but it views women in the better light than most modern women see men.The thing is, women have been told to be thin, low N-count, young, good wives since the dawn of time. Their worth as people and livelihood depended on how good a man they landed on. It makes sense they're against the idea of molding themselves to please men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 26 | The Duality of WomenIt's quite simple, really. Creeps on the internet = faceless "like" points, which insta-thots crave. Creeps IRL = ugly, free, no likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?I'd have a harder time eating enough to get to Tess' girth than to Jon's, so her standard's harder to attain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?It would be if you changed the "alpha" part for a more mainstream term, like "bad boy sick" or "toxic/drama sick". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 08:45 AM |
| 19 | When you get to your late 20s, early 30s as a male virgin, you’ll probably stay that way your whole life (especially if it’s not by choice).Late 30s That's when you become a wizard who's power is unmatched even by the most cunning of sorcerers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 0 | I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for womenShould infertile or menopausal women be the ones paying for dinners, putting effort and bending over backwards for their partners then? Women from the age of 15 onwards take birth control. Neither men nor women date for the purpose of childbearing, that comes later. So why should women be treated special if neither of them wants pregnancy to happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for womenSingle mother epidemic. It doesn't take three months of effortful, expensive dating to get someone pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 04:49 PM |
| 0 | I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for womenApparently child rearing is no biggie and women don’t deserve respect for going through that process Apparently no man wants children and therefore women only have children for themselves Why should a guy pay for stuff and go above and beyond for a woman, if they'll probably never get far enough to have children anyways? There's 7 billion people on the planet. Wombs are abundant and low value. Being able to give birth doesn't make them special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex?Yeah but men can't just chuck vibrators at women until they're horny though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Why do women have a lower threshold for disgust in regards to sex?Men can get their rocks off with their hand, or with a particularly appealing meat sandwich if they feel adventurous. Women's orgasm depends on how comfortable they feel with their partner, the phase of the moon, the alignment of the planets, and whatever else they feel they need to be "right". No wonder they need their partner to be at least somewhat attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Are the warlords who control Afghanistan alphas or betas?Definitely Alphas. So many posers here complaining about women and dreaming about what they would do if SHTF or the government turns tyranical then comes Ahmed fighting the world's most powerful army for 20 years, winning and just stripping women off their rights like "what're you gonna do about it? Call Uncle Sam I don't give a f*** you're wearing a burka now". No amount of "hit the gym, study STEM" redpill self-help comes close to the alphaness of the taliCHAD. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Welfare programs, especially ones that aim to benefit single mothers give women more incentive to exercise hypergamy for mating.Men avoid single mothers like the plague anyways so I don't see why it matters whether they're hypergamous or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | What happens to a man who has not has a relationship/sex by age 30.With the way modern economy is organized, hitting the romance milestone is the least of our problems. Men and women would be more open to romance if their lives were sorted out by age 25, like their grandparents, instead of 35, if ever, like now. Men could provide, women could marry young. Both lived happy, married lives and neither required a college degree to get a foot in the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | what makes a man regret sex?Paying child support for 18 years. *ba dum tss* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Gender roles and double standardsAm I missing something or is this desperately unfair? You are, it was never about fairness in the first place. Society, and the way it is structured,has its winners and its losers. What is "free", "fair" or "equal" to some is "oppressive" to others, and social groups are in a constant struggle to redefine these terms to better their own lot in life. If feminists could convince society they are owed indentured labor from men as reparations for centuries of oppression, they would and they'd tell y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.You're painting porn watchers in an extremely apocalyptic way. For most men, watching porn comes down to putting "big boobs" into a search bar, opening the video with the cutest girl, doing the deed, closing the window and going back to whatever they were doing before. That's it All that high speed watching, searching for hours for the perfect vid then cooming so hard your brain melts from dopamine depletion until you're an unemployable, asocial husk of a human being? Total nonsense. Wish it was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | If you're a white male or an asian male you can't have a job.The market fixes itself - all those qualified white men will either make their own startups, be self-employed or join smaller companies that need workers more than they need to fill a hiring quota. | /r/MGTOW | 30/05/21 05:06 AM |
| 26 | "Sorry, I don't date guys below 6 ft"I think it's an imperial vs metric thing, really. In sales, everybody knows $9.99 seems cheaper than $10, even though it isn't. But selling at $9.99 still is more effective than selling at $10. It's the same with height. 6'0 comes to 182.88 cm. In countries using metric, the "tall" standard is 180 cm., which is slightly less than 5'11'', while the Chad tall standard is 2meters, or 6' frickin 7''. Notice how in both cases what's looked highly upon isn't the height itself, but reaching an arbitrar… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.It isn't rare. CC riders turning tradcon post-partum and women being kinky with one partner, yet prude with another happens all the time on r/ WAATGM and r/ relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 14 | If you strongly prefer virgin, or very low N count women, you're obligated to wait for sex on dates.Yeah, but they have to be virgin, or very low N count women first though. It doesn't apply to former CC riders who all of a sudden wanna be old-fashioned now that they're 30+ and have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Porn use negatively affects men's sexual satisfaction in actual real-life sexOf course it does. Option 1: Try to get laid, get rejected, get rejected, fix yourself as best you can, get rejected even more, succeed after lots of trial and error. Option 2: Try relationships instead, get rejected, fix yourself etc., get a girlfriend, jump through hoops for three months or whatever, get laid at last. Avoid forever porn,media and opinions the missus might find disagreeable or else you sleep on the couch. Find out she was banging some dude a week in while you were "non-exclusiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 04:36 PM |
| -1 | America is a country to work, NOT liveBad idea. You're assuming you'll earn American money in a third world country, you won't. Most of those places pay $500 average a month. Cost of living's cheap, sure, but so are wages. And if you do keep earning in USD rather than whatever piss-poor currency your host country has, congratulations, you're now in the top tax bracket. So pay up, bozo. It's like you'd jump into a well full of shit if someone said there's hot babes at the bottom. | /r/MGTOW | 15/05/21 08:46 AM |
| 0 | Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature?Are men upset that having money is considered an attractive feature? Not nearly as upset as women when "Economically Attractive" men choose women half their age, but above 18, rather than pick someone age-appropriate, like them. That's when the patriarchy, pedophile and privilege accusations start flying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Are relationships business transactions?I'm an "FDS-er," and for all the flack we get, our strategies are explicitly designed to weed out men who view relationships as transactions and thereby increase our chances of finding partners who love us and see us as special due to the unique, irreplaceable connection we share. Well, men want something too for putting up with all that chasing, pandering and paying for stuff you feel is your birthright. I'd call it being "reciprocal" rather than "transactional". But I guess I'm too LMV to want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | "Where have all the Good Men gone" is just the female version of "Nice Guys Finish Last".Aside from getting their dating profiles roasted 24/7 on r/WAATGM, what is the average 30+ single mother/40+ childless careerist supposed to do? Accept her life is over before she's lived even half of it? Regret her life choices for the rest of her existence? Work silently and thanklessly around the hand she was dealt with? Never, ever aspire for something better since she should've had her life planned out, picked partners with retirement in mind, and ignored all biological tingles from the age… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Female Hypergamy is the most taboo phenomenon in American society, despite being empirically provenAlso if you do agree, why do you think this is the case? If you don't, convince me otherwise. CLARIFICATION: I'm not referring to the desire to be with someone better than you (social class, wealth), I'm referring to the insatisfaction of being with someone roughly equal or lesser (hypogamy). What's the alternative? Being class-conscious, staying where you are and never aspiring for more? Men and women have been fed an idea of happiness by the mass media for the last 80 years. It's in the cartoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?It's another mark on their checklist/life script: get a degree, get a career, get the money, get the house, car, travels, get the man, get the kids. But not just any degree/career/etc. but the ones she wants. The perfect degree, the perfect job, the perfect man. Once they realize they can't just go to the husband store to buy a husband like they did with everything else, they start stomping their feet, blaming the patriarchy, hating men for liking younger women, being "traditional" and "old fash… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Glass ceiling/higher representation of men anywhere. Why should I care about how many millionaires are men if I know I'll probably work a 9 to 5 until retirement? The perception I can go out at night and women can't: I'm just as scared about being mugged/murdered as you are about being raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | What explains the prevalence of redpill in non western countries?I live in a non western country and that's exactly what our problems are except for warfare. There is no time to cry about relationship woes and gender politics outside of the anglosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What explains the prevalence of redpill in non western countries?Non-western countries are too busy dealing with oh, I don't know, poverty, warfare, lack of infrastructure, corruption, malnutrition, criminality, not being able to print/bond their way out of budget deficits and inflation to care about made-up white people problems on both sides of the political spectrum like westerners do. You physically can't muster enough cares about how races are represented in media or corporations when you're hungry and there are neither corporations nor media to care abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is a woman’s income to the household not given a lot of value ?What motivates men to say that they aren’t concerned about a woman’s earning capabilities and income ? Because a woman's earning capabilities and income are subject to sudden evaporation the moment she decides being SAHM is more fun. Also, women vet by income, if the guy makes the same money as the woman, what's in it for her(saw it on FDS)? So the man has to ALWAYS make more money than the woman. Thus, vetting by income is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Escorts and porn is like using cheat codes in a video gameThe game is dumb. The rules change all the time yet it expects you to keep putting in the same effort. The reward keeps shrinking until it's not real anymore. Why even bother? Let Princess Strong and Independant slay her own dragons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Bad news for the South Asian bros: this queen has priced herself out of the marketFrom that thread's comments "They don't make as much money as I do. I can afford my own shit, what do I need them for?" but then "Men pick younger women as a power play. By having 5 years on their partner, they will be ahead in their career while the woman's barely finishing uni." So basically, it's damned if you do, damned if you don't when it comes to money. Also, from another thread of theirs about dead bedrooms, the moral of the story is to never, ever cohabitate with a woman: any time you'r… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Hot people vs. Uglies. What's so hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Does "male-privilege" exist in developed societies ?Male privilege does not exist, period. It's a buzzword for pushing political reforms by people who want to live off the State and feel important. Or rather, if you pick a trait, turn it into an identity, then blame everyone NOT having that trait for everything wrong with the world(and yourself not being successful, obviously), then the latter acquire "not-that-trait" privilege. MRA's blame women, feminists blame men. Cis people blame cultural marxists(LGBT pushers, essentially), LGBTs blame the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How would you approach dating if you lived in either of these countries?It was the 90's, I was a 4yo kid. After the USSR broke, there were no jobs, no food. Mother decided it was time to leave town. Cheapest place a Russian single mom with no language knowledge could escape to was Argentina. Argentina broke soon afterwards. 20 years later it's still broken. Does it have attractive women? Yes. Would I stay here because the women are not as feminist-y as in other places? No, life sucks here in dozens of ways other than romance. You have it good, stay out of the third … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | How would you approach dating if you lived in either of these countries?My question for everyone, which system would you rather live under, a radical fem one like in Spain or a hardcore traditionalists one like in Russia? Speaking like a Russian, living in South America, let me tell you I'd wash dishes, give foot rubs, use every pronoun and go to every woman's march in matching bra and heels like a good little ally if it got me out of the fucking third world. Women here are not nearly as attractive or as feminine as you westerners might think. And even if they were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Pick-Me and Cool Girls Mega ThreadMBTI/Astrology signs are dumb enough yet here we are, sorting people into black and white groups like pickme/fds user or alpha/beta for the men. It shows that when the day comes that humanity stops discriminating by skin color and class, they'll find something else to feel superior about and lord over others with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:30 AM |
| 7 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?It's not dictatorship if the 50%+1 choose to give away their and the other 49%'s rights away. By that point, there is no nation left to save. Go ghost, avoid the system in any way you can, owe them nothing. That, or start a civil war, which ain't gonna happen outside Africa or the Middle East. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:22 AM |
| 38 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?For all the RP narrative about cats and wine - yeah, they'll enjoy single life forever doing whatever they want, with cats, wine, traveling, shitty arts projects, starbucks with the girls, yoga lessons and every other stupid hobby women have. Really, I don't see why men can choose hobbies over commitment but women can't. Age comes to all and the average 25 year-old dude can't seriously expect to turn into a 45 year old millionaire banging 25 yer olds like TRP says will happen. Ride the tiger - s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 03:18 AM |
| 9 | Female Dating StrategyIf you keep a boyfriend for relationships and another guy for fucking, then the latter is by all means a fuckboy pick one to be your fwb so you won’t be so thirsty, don’t tell any of your dates about him Here's another one Don’t put any labels on your relationship other than friends at this point and keep fucking your fwb on the side if you want. Man jumps through all the hoops but his pipe game weak? Block and delete qween. The only potential downside is if you go through all this and then he t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyFrom another comment in this thread https://www.removeddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dkp0l4/make_him_wait_for_sex/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating StrategyThe humor is funny to me, especially stuff like "things scrotes say". The nastiness they display towards men seems like the natural result of being fed up with bullshit and abuse. The overall intent seems to be to improve their own lives by either forming satisfying, healthy relationships, or remaining single. The same could be said about MGTOW/TRP/WAATGM but it's misogyny when men make a corner to talk about their issues/laugh at women(I'm not talking about shooters). The problem is the double … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?Judge for yourself They used to post pictures of themselves from time to time until their own mods told them to stop doing so because it would break their collective "We are da qweenz, don't drop your crown" cognitive dissonance. Needless to say, they're not nearly hot enough for a man to rip his heart out, abstain from any online content featuring attractive women and pay out the ass for dates, rings, weddings and houses like they expect a "bare minimum" HVM to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?I think people should stop using OLD altogether. It's the proverbial husband store where there's a better, richer man on the next floor/swipe except there isn't. And no amount of background checks, premium modes, shady algorithms or woman-first features is going to change that. High quality people don't use dating apps, they don't need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 11 | Why do couples wait such a long time to have children?Money. Next question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] What would you say is the biggest advantage of being Ugly?A strong sense of self - pretty people need to stay pretty, less it goes away and others treat them differently. Uglies don't people-please. Less fear of failure - Since uglies are already a failure genetically, they have nothing to lose by trying different venues - making facebook for example. You think Zuck would bother programming if he rocked a killer bod and pleasing face? Jaded morals - If they ever make it in life, they know damn well when they get treated differently it must be the money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 06:33 PM |
| 8 | What are the advantages to being a beta male/orbiter?It takes effort to be a leader of men and of yourself. It takes effort to maintain a confident frame all the time. Being a sheep is easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.Breaking! People hate work. More news at 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Because if they try and it works, they become rapists, misogynists, insincere fuckboys and other mean words. In the end they realize learning how to say the right things to get a girl to sleep with you after getting rejected hundreds of times practicing isn't worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | How does somebody "lower their standards"?List all the things you want in a partner. List all the things you are. Circle the things that are there just to stroke your ego(For example, has to be at my beck and call all the time, has to have any combination of movie star looks). Circle the things you're not yourself. Think why would dreamy 1. hang out with someone like you. If you have flaws, why would they accept them? Love is not an answer. Remove 3. and 4. Do 5. again. Your results should be: you're perfect and your demands are reasona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Well gee, I'm sorry women are most affected by men's falling economic prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who marry live longer and are healthier in generalOr maybe, healthy, long-living, well-kept men get to marry while the inferior men don't? Same with wages, it's not that "married men make more", it's that "men that can afford it, get married" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 0 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit doesn't offer any actual strategy to find and keep HMV (High Value Men)Whenever FDS describe an HVM they know of, like a father, some friends' SO, etc. first paragraph's always about how much money and gifts he gives away, then how hot he is, then what other services he provides, and finally how many typically male pleasures he avoids, making him the most boring, selfless person anyone could hope to live up to. So basically, he doesn't have to be rich(though that's a plus), he just has to spend all his money and attention on her. A Daddy McPayButler of sorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | It's pointless to give women advice on how to attract men because what women really need to learn is how to repel low quality menJust reject all of them. Why would you even put yourself and others through job-interview dating? You don't NEED a man in your life if you're as awesome as you say you are. I can't imagine someone waking up and saying "I have a date today. I can't wait to prove my economical, social and physical worthiness over the course of several months in an old-fashioned courtship ritual from a bygone era. It's what she deserves, after all." Ask yourself, is it a person you want, or a human-shaped object wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 0 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?I meant that the SEA young wives were the Chad in the story, as in, a beauty object that leads the gullible into being used. WAATGM laughs at women chasing Chad and ending up single moms, FDS laughs at the old scrote chasing young tail and being fleeced out of his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?You have no idea who this women is, who she has rejected, you assuming all this based on one simple comment where she expresses vulnerability comes across as nothing more than projection. Don't really feel like combing through fds posts for this, but they assume all men are dirty rapists with porn addictions and ED(oh the contradiction) who will make women stay in the kitchen barefoot, pregnant and expecting an engagement that will never happen, all the time to justify their views. Also mocking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 11 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Here you have a woman who, after her father divorced and lost a significant part of what would be her inheritance chasing mail order brides, being happy because that's what he deserves for chasing women younger than him(A.k.a. Chad). How's that not toxic? Talk about cutting off the nose to spite the face. You keep focusing on the self-harm part, it's irrelevant. The main message is "I'm 29 and I'm lonely, woe is me" which fits WAATGM's motif. Women can pick up their phone, open a dating app and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 16 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?Can't say anything about self-harm, that stuff gets taken more seriously coming from men, you know, because of incel shooters and all that, but they routinely roast men for any and all flaws, whether real or imaginary. Here's one about one of them laughing at her dad for getting scammed by a mail order bride, and how she wishes she could swindle a man like that someday. (He has it coming, he gets what he deserved) https://np.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ldgnbu/3_lessons_i_learned_f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 16 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?I have never in my life seen anything like above, a group of women mocking a man who admitted he has thought about self harm and callously imply he has it coming because of scenarios they made up in their head about how he acted in his twenties. They turn a women simply sharing her vulnerability into an opportunity to circle jerk about how the op is probably a whore who rejected a bunch of men in her twenties for chad and is getting what she deserved. Mind you they don’t know this women but some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women who are “addicted” to erotica/smutty romance novels/fanfiction equal to men who obsessively watch porn?Men don't care enough to pull bogus statistics about how your uterus will shrivel up and die for reading One Direction smut, so no, it is not equivalent to porn addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Splitting bills 50/50 contributes to some women being dry down thereBecause that's all it takes to get laid. It's been proven time and time again women fuck the tall, muscled idiot faster than the good, quality man that gives them flowers, dinner and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Splitting bills 50/50 contributes to some women being dry down thereTrue for both genders. Women should bring their A-game if they want men's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Splitting bills 50/50 contributes to some women being dry down thereWomen have been rejecting their gender roles for the last half century, calling them sexist, oppressive, misogynistic, burning bras, etc. Thus, men are well within their rights to reject the protector and provider roles as well. Go be strong and independent on your own dime and shoulders. If you want protection, get a gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should put effort into dates because they want to meet women more than women want to meet themUnapologetically LVM here You are not Margot Robbie. If I were Christ Hemsworth, Jason Momoa, a male K-Pop star or whoever rocks your boat, your expectations, boundaries and red flag radar would fly out the window as they have so many times before. Thus, we're at an impassé. You're not the most beautiful woman in the world, and I'm not the most beautiful man in the world. You weigh your pros and cons, I weigh mine. No one forces you to go on dates. Just stay home, it ain't that difficult. It'll … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | The Married Man Wage GapThis type of job studies never account for hours worked. Single men don't need to do overtime the way a guy saving up for a ring/marriage/kid on the way is forced to. Single men also save more money by not having to buy house decorations and other totally necessary doodads women just can't live without and will nag a man to death into getting for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 03:56 AM |
| 0 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?Being a good woman is not enough. All women must stand up against hypergamous gold diggers, and teach women not to spend their youth sleeping around with hot drug dealers, just to regret it later when they can't pull in a spouse. If a bowl of M&M's had 10% poisoned M&Ms, would you eat out of it? It's not ALL women, but it's too many, it's enough, and you being more offended by the implication that some of your peers can be bad than by the harm they actually cause, makes you part of the problem. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Vetting isn't paranoia, it's a response to trauma.Which is why men vet the vetters by dating younger, low n-count women. You picked those shitty men, we're not jumping through hoops because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Some questions for users of MGTOW, TRP, and subs like WhereAreAllTheGoodMenDamn right I haven't. It seems like bitterness goes hand in hand with too much casual dating, maybe because men aren't machines you put sex coins in until commitment falls out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Some questions for users of MGTOW, TRP, and subs like WhereAreAllTheGoodMen1.) The more partners a woman has had, the more eggshells YOU are responsible for not walking on: she's "learned her lesson", she "knows her worth", and you better pay full price on that worth, plus interest for all the mean fuckboys she let take advantage of her. 2.)Men don't do #1.) so as long as she's hot and we're happy we'll treat all our partners the same. 3.)Of course, that's why men multiply women's n-count by 3 and don't believe in 30+ born-again christian conservatives looking for a hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | What is the minimum amount of money/lifestyle a guy would have that is "sufficient" to be a target (or, if you prefer, participant), in a golddigger relationship?There is no threshold. It's like asking how hot do you need to be to get casual sex as a woman. "Why spend mine, when I can spend yours?" is a mindset, not a tax bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 4 | Why don't men care about a girl's social status or money as much as women care about a man's social status or money?Because a man can't ply a woman's credit card out of her purse to pay for her own dinner, less she runs dry as the Sahara? Because "Hubby's money is our money and Wifey's money is her money"? Because women expect to be taken care of financially, even if they don't need to be, regardless of their education level? Because a rich woman wants an even richer man, never a poorer one unless he's hilariously attractive? Because men get objectified by their utility to other people? I could go on but you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?All I'm saying is that statistics are neither facts nor arguments. Some people who watch porn do bad things, some people don't. Some people who don't watch porn do bad things, some people don't. There is no correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?It's a refutation to "throwing a bunch of statistics" being an argument. You can cherrypick all the studies and all their sources too, doesn't mean you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Feeling left out after seeing everyone else's (self marriage) rings, she decided that she too will be empowered as a struhng induhpyndynt wymyns muh vuh Gina power! She will be a car for herself and her pup. That should cure her loneliness for about a week.Seems like this queen went on too many free dinner dates. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/01/21 04:47 AM |
| 19 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?No 42.7% of internet users view porn (IFR) Ctrl-f: "%" - 11 times, "percent" - 27 times Are 42.7% of internet users (rape, abuse, violence, racism, misogyny, homophobia, child sex abuse, pedophilia)-ists? Or is it like meat and videogames, a bunch of puritans pulling statistics out of their ass to ban something they don't like, just to validate their belonging to an in-group they participate in? You can put anything in a "study says" and "X% of users of Y are LITERALLY HITLER" format to argue fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?Because certain covens of women make sure to mention how their perfect partner takes care of them financially(rather than the sexual aspect) and how it is their vagina-given right to never, ever pay for anything if there's a man nearby to do it instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 12:57 PM |
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