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I’m definitely a much better listener than speaker, will keep this in mind :p
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:18 PM
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I feel you brother. Hell, even making friends for me is so damn hard even though I try to be nice/easy going. Status really is king these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:57 AM
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I mean you have to realize the audience here. Most of us ppd men are farrrr from being a Michael B Jordan type 🤣. I’m not really sure what the lesson is here. Girls start giggling the minute he enters a room. Is the lesson: personality matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:31 AM
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Ah nice so he’s not top 1% in looks, only top 10%…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:30 AM
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Does anyone have any tips on how to make friends or at least seem friendly on a long car ride? Talk about topics relevant to the other person? Ask about themselves? I know I know it’s some basic dale carnegie stuff but I need ideas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:09 AM
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Why? He’s literally a tall, good looking muscular dude with a chiseled jaw line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:08 AM
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Damn this would be a huge move but I’ll try. If no one comes I’ll officially stop trying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:54 AM
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Well said, I’ll keep this in mind moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:23 AM
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Ugh okay 🤣. As an introvert this is painful but I’ll try once
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:30 AM
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Yup totally get it. I’m not owed anything anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:26 AM
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I thought so too but idk this is so confusing, I’m getting tons of dissenting opinions here…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:25 AM
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Yep yep makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:25 AM
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What do you guys think about timing with friendships? I’m going through a training program rn at work and I missed a couple after-work hangouts. I went to one recently and started talking to people but I feel like it’s too late to get close to anyone. Everyone else already has established groups. I feel like I’m the guy who is acquaintances with everyone. Unless I self invite myself to when they get lunch together or get drinks but man that would be cringe. I don’t know, maybe it’s because of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:12 AM
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Oh ok I thought I was being considerate of her schedule. She even thanked me for being flexible. I can’t stop thinking maybe it’s because I didn’t show enough interest on the date? I was trying to be respectful. She’s the one who had to initiate a hug
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:06 AM
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Lmao ouch. I know I’ll stop
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:01 AM
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Yeah you’re right. If anything it would just look desperate. Sucks cause it’s not like I know what to improve on, it just didn’t work out ig :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:46 PM
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So is it really cringe if I randomly text her now and just ask how she’s doing? I kind of do just want to read the rejection so I can move on. Like what if she’s been genuinely busy? She does have a super heavy course load and part time job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:43 PM
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I said let me know when you’re free and I’d love to hangout with you, and she’s like “yep no problem”. It’s been a month now. I put the ball in her court. I don’t think it’s fair for me to have to initiate everything, I think if she really liked me she would’ve found the time. No one can be that busy, it’s not like she’s a neurosurgeon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:37 PM
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Went on a date with a girl. Thought it went well. She smiled and laughed a lot, we connected on a lot of things. She suggested a second date. As the guy. I initiated the follow up over text a couple days after the first date. She said she’s busy. Fine. Waited another week. Same response. No indication of when she’d be free. chalked it up to a soft rejection. But sucks that she can’t just tell me straight up. Like she thinks that I’m the type of guy that would retaliate. It hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:20 PM
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Then that means you aren’t using your pedigree wisely, and just like every other useless Ivy major, you rest on your laurels and grow complacent. I went from making just 100k to over 700k this year just by job hopping and constantly growing my skills. These guys who “dog ditches” are probably working their ass off and will suffer tons of health problems later in life, so well deserved. If you sit at the same job doing the bare minimum you can’t expect to grow. By the time those guys make 100k in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:46 PM
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No, they’re just autistic, sexist, and don’t know how to socialize. Conflating that with “oh it must be because he’s a high earning software engineer” is idiotic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:26 PM
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This is the typical poor redditor who went to average state school and will never break 6 figures cope. I have gotten so much more attention from women when I became a “cookie cutter big tech software” engineer, then when I was some low life “bad boy”. I can go to nice restaurants, great vacations, afford the best clothes, skincare, hotels, cars, whatever the fk I want really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:24 PM
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I have very little sympathy for people that whine and complain about loneliness but don’t take any sort of action. Put in the work and things will get better. I’ve done so and continue to do so and I already see huge improvements. This is one of the best times in human history to connect with others and put yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:32 PM
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Well this entire discussion was a waste of my time. You should’ve just commented with that last line at the start. I suggest you go over to r/asexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:46 PM
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Did you not read my comment? If you can’t find men that are “at your level” travel somewhere else and approach guys that you feel measure up to your standard. No one is stopping you. Men will probably love it if you make the first move. It’s clear to me only undesirable guys are asking you out, so you need to put in some effort if you want to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:28 PM
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Then you’re not putting enough effort. Travel if you have to. That’s what tons of men do. You sound like you want Chris Hemsworth to show up on your doorstep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:04 PM
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It’s like getting resume screened. Your abilities don’t matter if you can’t get your foot in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:59 PM
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This is why I don’t believe any study. There’s always the money motive that ruins the authenticity of the results
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:57 PM
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4 billion men in the world and you can’t find one on your level?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:56 PM
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Thanks for the response! I’m a software engineer, most of the day I just stare at a screen, so I def have to go out of my way to socialize with ppl. So far I’ve seen slow improvements as I put myself out there, but damn that’s nice about your partner! For me, I try to go to events with a friend or 2 so I can always fall back on them if I feel drained after interacting with new ppl. And same as you, listening to music helps me recharge. Working out as well :). Glad to hear there are others out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:59 PM
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Question for the introverts here: some days I wake up feeling like a boss bitch, have a huge social battery, and am able to approach people and have nice convos. Other days I just want to be alone reading a book or watching a movie and even the thought of having to interact with other people is tiresome. How do you regulate this energy? Do you just need to take days for yourself sometimes? Do you feel that pushing yourself out of your comfort zone (going to parties or meetups or whatever) “incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:16 PM
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I think a lot of young men genuinely try to pursue a relationship once, get burned, and then never really try again out of fear. And that’s when you get the cope of “I’m not looking for a relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:12 PM
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I volunteered at a soup kitchen last week and it was great! Got to meet some cool people and it was a ton of fun. Would definitely want to do more of that now that my WLB is better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:36 PM
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I didn’t mean it that way; I just meant that money is supposed to be able to enhance your life in certain way, afford you freedom, etc. There’s a reason people go to college, try to get a good job, and work hard. But the value of a dollar has decreased a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:40 PM
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I think for the longest time my income has been low-ish so I’ve had to save a lot to get to my current net worth. Luckily I recently got a much higher offer so hopefully this’ll allow me to have more fun while also putting a good amount away every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:38 PM
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Net worth is around 250k but my income is a lot higher. But you’re definitely right, I’m not close to retiring because I’d probably need at least a couple million with the way things are looking in order to live at least somewhat comfortably. Even more so if I want a family/kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:36 PM
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This is going to come off as very much a “first world problem” so if this upsets you, def move along, don’t mean to brag either, being honest. I’m 23 and net worth just hit 250k. Worked hard to aggressively save and invest to get here, but I’m not happy at all. Maybe because with a quarter of a million in this day and age with inflation, it doesn’t mean that much? Women (and ppl in general) have very black and white thinking. Either you’re the dude with 10M+ net worth or you might as well be at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:10 PM
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This somehow made me feel even worse lol. 363 days ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:05 PM
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Worst feeling ever is paying for the date after she ordered appetizers, drinks, desserts, and then she ghosts you. Really evil ppl out there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:02 PM
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25th Valentine’s Day alone, in a row. Fun stuff. Here’s to 25 more 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:01 PM
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Yo why are we Indian men always catching strays 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:41 PM
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Well I’ve seen and heard of tons of women lying about their age to get more matches because they know men do want to date younger women. What age range can the 21 yr old guy even date? Like 18-24 realistically? That’s nothing. Very few 25+ women would want to be with a 21 yr old guy. Women want men that are better than them. They want a more educated guy, earning more, and with more life experience. Maybe the 21 yr old can be used as some sort of boy toy, not LTR material. Idk how you can say a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:41 PM
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I’ll admit I think the men here overdo it, but yes, our value does grow with age and 30/40 is probably the peak. We often have more money, more experience, more confidence, and as long as we haven’t totally let ourselves go, we can date girls from 20s to 40s. Compare that to some awkward, shy 21 yr old kid with student loans living with his parents unsure of what he wants to do with his life. The 40 year old man is gonna clean house compared to the 21 yr old. All things considered, men prefer yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:21 PM
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How do we cope about this? It’s always women coping about how age makes people less attractive. Men seem to be fine with it and even understand it. Women are born with value and so they can’t stand realizing that eventually you lose that value over time and you can’t land the same chads as you did when you were 22
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:13 PM
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In this thread: massive coping from women. Nothing new ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:25 PM
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Being a straight male in 2023 is F tier. We have to initiate everything, wow and impress the woman, plan everything, etc. It’s exhausting. I get tons of matches but can’t get a date cause the minute I ask to actually hangout irl they ghost me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:03 PM
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Or just being happy single :). I know it can be tough especially with such a hyper-sexualized culture, but 500k+ is still enough money to lead a great life without a women. You can go on multiple vacations a year, eat out at nice restaurants, basically do nearly anything you want in terms of hobbies. Or just continue to focus on your career. That’s my plan at least
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:31 AM
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But that’s the problem. Someone making that kind of money is probably pretty smart. They aren’t the type to blow their money on bottle service or other unnecessary things. They’d put that money in an index fund because usually high paying jobs like that aren’t the most stable and have an “up or out culture” so you’d best be saving every penny while you have the opportunity. Contrast this to some guy pulling in 10M a year, and he can easily afford a lambo and a big ass mansion while also saving f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:25 AM
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Do you realize that’s only like 500k? In HCOL that’s really not that much to guarantee a girlfriend like you seem to be implying. After taxes that’s about 269k. Then subtract out insane rent and other expenses. Plus to make that kind of money you’re probably working your ass off. Money doesn’t matter without status, like being a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:17 AM
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