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women: nice guys are abusive and manipulative that's why women steer clear of them! also women: my ex of 5 years was an abusive and manipulative jerk!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:16 AM
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damage control ITT uh uh let's change the topic..90 DAY FIANCE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:09 AM
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based and crazy lady pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:56 AM
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More irrelevant rambling. What literacy could possibly have to do wit matching with obese fatties on Tinder is anyone's guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:49 AM
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writing a rambling and irrelevant response doesn't make you any more literate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:23 AM
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I pay too, the only difference is my prostitutes are hotter than your prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:46 AM
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My boyfriend made a joke at Lizzo’s expense and I said that I look like lizzo and he’s with me so he better STFU. sitcom worthy moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:15 AM
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When they complain about men not approaching it means the guys they're crushing on aren't approaching them. They don't actually want droves of regular men approaching them. There's no way you're going to get attractive men to approach bottom of the barrel women. They're whining about their crush, not about men, you just have to be indifferent to their complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:05 AM
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Humiliation is an interpretation that you layer onto the world, not a natural feature of the world can you say that with someone pissing in your mouth in a public square though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:33 AM
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Next time a woman starts spouting on about how Lizzo is gorgeous, tell her she looks like Lizzo and watch what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:20 AM
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he's swiping on the non-obese girls too, just not getting any of them apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:18 AM
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Stop linking me to articles and just start wiping from now on, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:04 AM
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wipe your ass after you use the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:15 PM
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Proof of this is how men are disgusted by things like stretch marks, cellulite, saggy boobs, body hair, large labia etc. if this is what a woman is offering to relatinships, does she really have a right to complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:16 AM
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they have no male suitors so they turn to females who are known for being picky if that's true I wish them luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:59 AM
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Unattractive women over 35 don't count. They had their chance and they blew it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:22 AM
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There is the argument that it's justfified but it's not automatically true. I think this false assumption will become clearer to people when we are debating restructuring society so that sentient AI are permitted equal roles in society as men and women, and people who are against that are labeled bigots. It's coming, and chances are you and I will be bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:52 AM
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This is still a social experiment and not every experiment can be assumed to be a success. It seems premature to equate the recent cultural with the invention of gunpowder (strange example but ok) until that is actually proven to be a net benefit to society. What is happening now is arguably not a result of women's rights, women were already allowed to work, but of restructing culture and the workplace such that men and women are both practically required to compete in the corporate economic sys…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:49 PM
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The big fear about being honest is that it would externalize male aggression. I don't think "The real reason is we intentionally fucked up a good situation for you so that we could improve things for them" would fly. Even as a guy who will probably remain single, I'm doing ok. I don't want lonely frustrated men to chimp out and make it unsafe to walk in the street in broad daylight. I think as a society we've collectively decided to lie to average men and get a cleanup crew to deal with the mess…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:10 PM
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I think most average men already kind of sense that contrary to the narrative, they're not a freak or a loser, which is where a lot of animosity comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:36 AM
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They both are naive about foreign women. They don't seem to consider that psychologically, they're not all that different from western women. Most passport bros are quick to discard the lessons they've learned about female nature, probably because they're desperate for a blue pill reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:33 AM
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Wrong, there is no country in the world that has 50% blonde hair / blue eyed people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:25 AM
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You're mischaracterizing what people consider "average" so much that it actually reads like a bad trolling post. Who honestly thinks the average woman has blue eyes and blond hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:22 AM
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nobody said they all are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:05 AM
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wrong, Taylor Swift wouldn't be as immensely popular as she is for the past decade if her her music didn't resonate emotionally with her audience. Both the lighthearted and the more serious ones. of course the embarrassing truth is going to be denied, that's why I don't even ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:59 AM
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Nordic countries aren't actually socialist. It's bizarre to me that an American would know this but not a European.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:38 PM
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a 35 year old looking to get married isn't interested in having a new guy to date every night of the week. Women in this age range have a very real problem of no guy that they feel attraction to wants to commit to them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:19 PM
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I went to therapy, I think it's a waste of time and money for everyday people. I could see it maybe being helpful if you have some very serious trauma or or maybe dealing with addiction. Otherwise I think certain people just start going to therapy to have a person to vent to. Probably wouldn't bother with a therapist again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:05 PM
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Tingles are all important early on. They're just not feeling the tingles from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:29 PM
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The media in general that is popular with women is the truth about what women actually crave. Male comedians that women gravitate towards is the kind of humor women like in men. Male movie characters that women develop a crush on. etc This is why I don't get why men even bother asking and just hearing the PR sanitized virtue signaling version from women. As a sidenote, a lot of Taylor Swift songs are a good look into women's minds when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:22 PM
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I did a bit of game way back in the day, "cocky and funny" game that David DeAngelo and a lot of women were receptive to it at the cost of me cringing inwardly and really not enjoying it. And if you're not enjoying it, why continue to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:59 PM
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Marriage 1.0 was a bad deal for women, with marriage 2.0 all we did was make it a bad deal for men. In the end, they both suck for different reasons, doesn’t make either one better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:11 AM
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Your point about “personal boundary” is irrelevant. No one needs to respect this ultimatum of either blindly trusting or leaving a relationship, you can just get the paternity test and based on the results make your own decisions about whether to stay or whether to hand her some spicy divorce papers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:45 AM
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Men are also welcome to just get the paternity test without her knowledge. Perfectly legal in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:13 AM
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They’re just hoping to get a chuckle. You sound like you walk around with a bitchy scowl on your face 24/7. Smile a little
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:14 PM
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Coming from a woman who will never have to use humor and wit to attract a man, and probably couldn’t if her life depended on it. Just comes across like a princess complaining about gifts that aren’t the latest or trendiest because that’s all the peasants can afford. Just receiving and judging. When have you brightened a stranger’s day by making them smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:46 PM
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And her response was ‘’but men too” if you didn’t catch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:22 AM
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Not much would change except more women would be having a lot more casual sex With the same small minority of men Also wtf is up with this novel you typed out just to ask a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:17 AM
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joke intended Joke failed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:26 AM
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Ask how badly her roast beef curtains are stretched out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:35 AM
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Well there ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:13 PM
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Aren’t you a trans though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:55 PM
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That’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:52 PM
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No, the only legacy I care about is raising sons. I wouldn’t blame him if he didn’t have children especially if the world kept going down this path.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:36 PM
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I mean, there is nothing more cucked than having a daughter to begin with. If she’s getting railed by a 20 year old or a 90 year old, doesn’t change the psychological pain that she’s getting railed by some man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:20 PM
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Role playing a politically leftist but strong male provider seems to be a great way to pander to many women’s self interest, noted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:01 AM
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Post and comments read like a woman trying to act what she thinks a man might act. It just ends up being over the top obnoxious and unable to gain anyone’s respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:48 AM
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Nope. You’re becoming a regular here and this is what you do. Try making a new account if you don’t want people to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:39 AM
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Didn’t you know anyone asking this doesn’t care about the answer? they’re really just prepared to contradict anything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:24 AM
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This is such a dumb argument. The complaint is us having to pay for stuff while women insist that they are our equals. And then pretending that it’s men are the real hypocrites here. You bitches are honestly tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:46 AM
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I disagree. Porn keeps men numbed the sexual reality that they live in. You should rebel against anything made to numb you from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:59 AM
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You can’t win if you’re dumb enough to assume those are the only 2 options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:45 AM
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Oh God here you are trying to make a save. Wow, it almost sounds sincere. Got into social worker mode real quick didn’t you? I’m more of a fan of your honest disdain for men than your fake concern and fake helpfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:47 AM
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No one believes you. From your numerous replies in this post your intention is not to empower anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:29 AM
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Using mental illness as a slur, but it’s me who’s the piece of shit? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:22 AM
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Good, I’m glad you don’t approve
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:21 AM
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Nailed it. This is pretty much the reason I’m passport bro-ing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:58 AM
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Just ignore her. This chick is low iq
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:43 AM
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That's probably the only advice I'd give her. She can figure the rest out on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:32 AM
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I honestly don't care. OP asked the question, I answered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:23 AM
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I'd advise her not to have sex or any other sexual acts until marriage, but she can do what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:19 AM
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Has the orgasm gap been measured for marriages? It would be interesting to see the data on this. Also curious to see what methodology they'd use, probably self-reported =/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:33 PM
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sorry bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:25 PM
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The normalization of pre-marital sex makes it possible for men to push for sex as soon as possible. The power imbalance in an age gap relationship will favor the demands of the more powerful person. On reddit, you can type out everything about how young women should handle it, but in real life something different entirely is going to happen. Next year there's going to be a whole new batch of impressionable 18 year old girls, and again after that and so on. It's a never-ending task. So instead wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:51 PM
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No. I’m saying if you think premarital sex is damaging don’t have premarital sex. You seem to be confused because the actual person I was responding to was concerned about "minimizing the damage" for the younger woman as if it's men's responsibility, but it's really not men's responsibility to minimize the consequences in a sexually liberated society that women chose for themselves. Personally I don't view this within the lens of "damage" but if that's her issue (the person I was responding to) …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:36 PM
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Tell that to the people you're trying to protect. Not like they'll listen but you can at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:09 PM
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The root cause of the damage is the normalization of premarital sex. Women pushed for sexual liberation, they don't care about what damage it causes them so why should men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:37 PM
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Men are cool with explicitly knowing that they're only valued for their body. But women don't work that way. You have to make women feel special to get anywhere with them. So this CMV is basically "Age gap relationship are fine but you should sabotage it" which is kind of silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:59 PM
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I don't know, is it? I thought the women here were supposedly well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:13 PM
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This one was approved. Just quick edit and write the post in this OP, ez pz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:02 AM
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they are distinct. Friend zone usually means there's actual interaction even if it's superficial. With an orbiter it's mostly one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:33 AM
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I'm not denying that different women "exist" out there but they're probably not the norm. Reddit is probably mainstream enough that the women here are a pretty good representation of what's out there too. If the women in this sub were significantly worse than what's out there, I'd be inclined to seriously reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:40 AM
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No he's not even in the friendzone. I'd look at him as a pathetic orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:34 AM
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are the women here really that far off from women "out there"? I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:31 AM
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​ long term fwb are usually treated as fwb by the guy. Sometimes the girl starts to think there's a relationship, but not usually. Hard to know for sure see #2 Yeah the term would just not apply if you're not seeking any relationship because you don't have any kind of relatinship wtih them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:19 AM
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doesn’t that tell you that it might be more common than you think, and it could be worth looking into? Nope. What seems to happen often on PPD is that the women with a shared experience will circlejerk each other and the rest will generally stay silent. Then in another thread, one woman will say the opposite thing and everyone who agrees will join in. If you ever point out the contradiction, they'll just say it's different sets of women with different lived experiences. Like no shit. tl;dr women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:50 AM
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Women have an abundance of options, so they're certain they'll meet the right man who ticks whatever boxes eventually. For them it's just a matter of time. It's not something within most men's reality. "Real man" is different. Real man is basically a way to appeal to gender roles to validate your arbitrary demands upon men. Men are still very much bound to them if they want to achieve any success, women don't have to worry about any of that. Imagine a guy saying "A real woman worships the ground…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:31 AM
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I disagree. Men and women should actually disrespect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:58 AM
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ltrs because of the options, if you could even call it that hookups because insane amount of work to make anything happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:40 PM
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stopped persuing what, hookups or ltrs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:31 PM
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I was never into hookup culture, but I did end up trying it for a while when I decided I don't really want to get married and stoped looking for a wife. It's really hard to meet someone who seems worth more than a hookup, but hookup culture takes a lot of work for a guy. I wouldn't say the serious relationships I did have were "bad", but just that I knew I'd never want to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:27 PM
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I get that just as much as any other guy. The point is to show women don't really know what they like, but they say things like this. You thought it was being complimented about things you have control over, but really it's a lot more arbitrary and based on social acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:52 PM
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The lived experiences can be true for them (and their many friends), it doesn't mean they are the truth in a general sense. Sorry, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:42 PM
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Hey babe you seem to have a healthy BMI. How about we get together later tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:39 PM
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plenty of people claim to have been abducted by a UFO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:06 PM
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most churches I've been to skew towards geriatrics and couples with children, with very little in between
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:53 PM
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plenty of people beat the house in Vegas in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:32 PM
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Adjusting to an illness is not he same as adjusting to new circumstances in a marriage. She might have to adjust to both, it's unfortunate but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:44 PM
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Hopefully she would be understanding. I don't get why all the understanding and life adjustment would need to come from me and none of it from her. Marriage doesn't mean you just become a slave,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:09 PM
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Like attracts like is a variation of just world hypothesis.. The reality is much more like "attractive attracts a wide range of things".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:47 PM
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If the cancer is turning into long-term thing, yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:21 PM
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Plenty of people have climbed Mt Everest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:22 AM
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I'm just extremely skeptical that you actually have anything actionable to share, beyond a few anecdotes about your life and a pep talk. How spot on am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:11 AM
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If she has crotch spawn the relationship was already a non-starter so why would I worry about the wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:04 AM
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I don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:43 AM
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Well then, I would urge you to team up with a marketing person and use this knowledge to make the world a better place for men and women. You can even profit personally from this special knowledge or donate it to charity. You could reverse the damage of TRP seemingly overnight. The problem is you won't. It's probably because you don't actually have anything interesting to say. You're probably exaggerating a couple of major details and downplaying a couple of others. How spot on am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:42 AM
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ok but I'm not a gentleman, can I get a tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:24 AM
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compared to having crotch spawn from another man crawling the Earth that you want absolutely nothing to do with. Yeah compared to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:15 AM
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that's interesting and all but masturbation != sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:48 AM
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I consider masturbation as "not sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:40 AM
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The age varies. Different guys mature at different rates. It can start really young and carry through life or later like high school or early 20s. At the end of the day it's women that makes men red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:39 AM
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Sexual act, form of sex blah blah. It's not sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:33 AM
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You learn very early in life if Guy Y is going to be you though. It's absolutely pointless to try to be naively successful past a certain age. You almost certainly will get naively fucked over by reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:30 AM
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A man can get his own sex. He has the ability to literally go fuck himself. Masturbation isn't sex. Now I'm not sure if I should even bother reading the rest. Probably not. Good job wasting your time writing all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:17 AM
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How about actually pointing out what is invalid in the guy's point rather than labeling how it reads. Just labeling something as "teenager" sounding doesn't make things false.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:09 AM
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Anyone you disagree with has problems because you are the self appointed authority on it. Sure, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:05 AM
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You might not like how it sounds, but teenagers can make true statements sometimes. The fact that you have an issue with the teenager-ish tone means nothing as far as the validity of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:49 AM
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The overwhelming majority of relationships start out in the "want to fuck them" phase so you're not actually making a great point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:39 AM
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Not among men, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:30 AM
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The thought of average men acting all stuck up and holding out for megastacies well into their 40s or opting to stay single for life, is a thought I find hilarious because it shows us how clown-worldy things have gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:18 AM
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Just because she probably looks like a dood does not mean OP is a dood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:54 PM
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Can't the woman make her own money though? Isn't this something women are supposedly really proud of anyway? A guy can't exactly get his own sex without her. I mean technically he can, but she will not be happy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:49 PM
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What about the problems I actually have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:07 PM
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Oh yeah, I think men get a suicide prevention hotline or something right? lmao alright
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:55 PM
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That wasn't so hard was it? The problem about capitalism being the root cause is that you basically just have to wait for it to play its course on a historical time scale until something better takes its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:30 PM
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You've made a fair number of arrogant posts basically putting men down, telling them to man up, and so on. I'm not surprised you went back and deleted them, straight weasel style
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:19 PM
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Don't worry man you'll probably manage some gross post wall chick one day, and when you do I know you'll be on the same shit again. You're that kind of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:12 PM
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I mean literal baggage, i.e kids and ex's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:10 PM
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Weak. Too bad there's like 10 other dumbasses here doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:06 PM
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Why are you still just alluding to it? What makes unsustainable short term profits possible at the scale where it can become systemically oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:03 PM
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Not hypocritical at all. Both the men and women have the right to leave if they can't handle compromising. Both the men and women deserve compromise if they can't handle the other person leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:56 PM
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Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:45 PM
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I'd be fine with her leaving me. That's why in my original comment I said I'd try to stay IF she wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:40 PM
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Who knows, that's something that would vary on an individual level. Ideally, fulfilling the sex in some way herself, if that's not possible seeing other women, seeing sex workers. Something that is good enough even if not ideal, you can't just turn yourself into a eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:36 PM
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Ok, but then that means modern post industrial society has changed too quickly for women to evolve sexually to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:30 PM
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If it's a wife I'd make my best effort to stay with her if she wanted it, but I would expect some level of understanding. She would need to make some compromises. If it's a gf obviously just dump lol it's really not that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:27 PM
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Women's attraction mechanism for men has evolved to be too weak for modern post industrial society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:20 PM
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There's no point in discussing solutions before identifying root causes. So your questions about women "forcing themselves" or whatever are pointless to discuss because you don't even agree with what the root cause of the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:11 PM
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so the root cause of this systemic oppression is? You kind of allude to it, but it's not explicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:05 PM
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Ok, so let's least get on the same page first instead of blaming it on frivolous things the fear of being kidnapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:53 PM
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Been waiting for you to make another dumb post where you act like a fake alpha and heap shit on dudes. Don't die on me now Youngking41
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:48 PM
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Women go on dates in public areas so getting kidnapped or assaulted isn't a problem at all. Most dates women go on are with a decent polite guy but there's just not that "spark", there's just not that "chemistry" ie vagina tingles, if anything is making dating hard for women it's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:06 PM
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Can't relate. I've always felt fine about myself. The self improvement propaganda is primarily directed at men and it's also a complete lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:50 PM
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I mean the whole reason men supposedly need to self improve is because women are constantly judging every detail, soo I guess it sucks when it comes back at you I guess doesn't it? Try not to take it so personal. There's clearly a lot of butthurt hiding behind those gifs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:44 PM
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Learn the difference between discerning and judgmental, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:38 PM
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It's usually different combinations of dealbreakers. Not attractive, overweight, insecure, judgmental, has relationship baggage, financial problems. The only self improvement women do is ass exercises for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:45 PM
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Pretty sure self improvement is mostly a lie told to men. I've completely changed my life around since my 20s, but I still only get interest from shitty women just like before. It's clear to me that pushing self improvement is a subtle way to say that men are the problem. What if I told you maybe the problem ISN'T you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:05 PM
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actually...yeah that is a good point. Women do say that a lot to pretend like things are in some way balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:09 AM
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women mostly care about how things make them feel, not about what someone says they should do or about feminine credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:07 PM
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Hating it is one thing. I hate it also, but it seems to describe reality very accurately the majority of the time. If that's the case, you don't need to like it, but if it seems to be real then it's necessary to face it. I hate how reliable it is, but it is incredibly reliable, that's where it gets a lot of its credibility among so many men. Anyone is welcome to give it a shot with a different framework to understand what's going on, the problem is these frameworks don't really seem to map the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:28 AM
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I wouldn't want to bang a woman if I wasn't viscerally attracted her. From my understanding, having a crush is really just wanting to bang a chick, except with teenage life undertones that kind of diminish as you grow older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:26 AM
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I don't understand why certain things would need to be tolerated more of a woman because she's more attractive. For me a more attractive woman would just make strive more in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:58 PM
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Crush past early 20s is kind of strange. I frequently want to bang plain looking women. They seem to live in a reality where they think they're smoking hot and only come off it when they hit 35-40 (when I'm no longer interested)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:52 PM
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I wouldn't tolerate bad behavior. Giga stacey would probably just cause me to push myself a lot more in more areas of my life, that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:47 PM
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The accountability isn't for selling feet pics, it's for being a medically diagnosed crazy who runs a customer facing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:38 PM
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I like living simply but knowing that I could afford pretty much anything, and I want a lot of money to retire early overseas if I ever get that old,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:40 AM
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By this definition even a cop selling fentanyl to a teenage kid is mere capitalism as long as the kid wants it. I'm not saying it's equivalent just that your way of looking at it removes accountability for anyone selling anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:33 AM
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Damaged implies that someone caused the damage, but bipolar can be hereditary. Defective is more accurate. Either way you slice it, it's a person with a diagnosed mental disorder associating with men who are desperate for human interaction. Not much good can come of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:38 PM
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It's honestly the only way I know of to ensure that the woman you're seeing actually has genuine sexual desire for you. Otherwise, why would I bother with the relationship at all? As far as the risks, I'm not concerned. To me the biggest risk is associating with a woman who's after something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:05 PM
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imo most women have higher standards than makes sense for what they themselves offer. Any "loser" a woman dates often means a guy who looks great physically relative to her, and is happy with some mediocre job like security guard or uber driver. As a guy you don't need to be a bum or career criminal to earn the title "loser". It could simply mean being an introvert who wants to stay at home, or not having many financial ambitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:04 AM
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I'm a guy, this isn't a "woe is me" post. There are a lot of perfectly good guys out there that are overlooked, but as far as the small % of guys women actually desire imo they hold all the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:09 AM
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You're trying to attribute backwards logic that isn't even being made. All I said is that women don't seek commitment from touch starved guys, they seek commitment from guys who do well for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:05 AM
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Welcome to PPD also that sentiment is very common from women here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:34 PM
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men gatekeep relationships when that couldn't be further from the truth. Men are the ones more likely to be touch starved and desperate for woman's affection Women generally want commitment from guys who already manage a pretty good dating life, not touch starved guys. Those men usually do gatekeep relationships because they know they have options and maybe she's not his best choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:02 AM
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At least someone call the cops for her damn 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:01 AM
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The thing about "broke" is that it often just means someone with a modest income (especially when it's women talking about "broke men"), and not necessarily someone with chronic financial problems. You can be making 500k yearly but on the verge of bankruptcy and many women would probably think you're the shit because you have all these nice things. They'll see the nice house, flashy cars and sailboat, not the millions in debt and negative net worth. Men have no problem dating women with a signif…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:02 PM
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Beauty is subjective because they won't be attracted to every single attractive guy, they will be attracted to a smaller subset of attractive guys i.e their type. Men will generally be attracted to practically every attractive woman, plus a wide variety of plainer looking chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:22 PM
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/u/gymbronyc718 is basically the internet toughguy of this sub, you'll pretty much have to tolerate his retard tier posts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:04 PM
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spot on, and somehow it's a problem when guys say they won't commit because they know women fuck around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:52 PM
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because then the actual attractive women would have a massive advantage over them in the workplace. Can't have that. Not to mention the rampant subtle no-makeup cheating and drama and gossip and mental health crises that would ensue. All over something that is supposedly no big deal and doesn't make a real difference at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:42 AM
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There would be so few people with pretty privilege, society would actually be more realistic. Right now society works on "makeup privilege" since any plain old chick can slap on some makeup and suddenly she's looking cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:34 AM
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Of course there's no reason to fuck every date if you don't want to, I agree. That's when an actual intelligent non-desperate guy will get the hint and just move on, realizing that pursuing it further will lead to one of those shitty passionless relationships that no man wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:24 AM
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If makeup vanished overnight I'd encourage all guys to wear height increasing lifts just to fuck with women even more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:11 AM
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Yes it absolutely is playing games. If genuine attraction isn't clearly established, I wouldn't even waste my time asking for a second date. There will be plenty of desperate weenies ready to accept whatever rules you impose though, but probably fewer of them this time around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:06 AM
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Good luck. 30 year old guys aren't into playing games anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:19 AM
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There aren't multiple definitions. Usually when I see a weird variation of the 80/20 rule it's a woman or BP man trying to strawman it into other things but most TRP know what it is, so I'm asking him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:53 AM
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last place would be the US or Australia first place maybe Phillippines or Colombia
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:31 AM
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that's fine as long as you don't lead the guy on into thinking there's a chance for first date sex. Make sure you're up-front about it so it's not a waste of everyone's time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:17 AM
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or fulfilling forever gf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:15 AM
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what is the 80/20 rule, could you in particular answer that for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:12 AM
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What is it with junior high schools attracting creeps? My biology teacher would make sexual comments about how firm my ass looked. I called her a "creepy old frog" and she sent me to the principal's office. I told them exactly what had happened, and somehow she kept her job. Public schools employ people that have no business being near children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:08 AM
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Of course it's insecure, but most people aren't secure with the thought of becoming completely undesirable due to aging. I'm definlitely getting on that hair transplant as soon as my hair starts falling out, that is one thing I will not tolerate for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:49 AM
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lol asking women, prepare to be lectured and moralized at
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:09 AM
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half the time, men providing aren't even valued for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:32 PM
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it's not his dick, that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:29 PM
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they do often say they'd rather be alone than settle with someone who reasonably matches them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:04 PM
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it’s selfish and immature but "not judgmental" LMAO this sub is non-stop entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:54 PM
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I'm calling bullshit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:30 PM
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Counterpoint: fuck being a gentleman. None of that is doing any of the heavy lifting when it comes to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:15 PM
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😴 huh you say something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:04 PM
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It's this. The female "home assistant" population is about to go exponential in the near future. I don't understand how people don't see the writing on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:51 PM
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just speaking facts here: If I can't have sex, nobody should have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:34 PM
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you sound really boring. Live a little
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:27 PM
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DDOS sounds more fun and effective. The question is whether getting women off the apps and back into regular healthy dating is even worth the money investment at this point. It's debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:12 PM
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There's a serious flaw in the tl;dr -- whatever women think they are contributing in excess, even that never makes it worth it for a man to marry them. So there's really no need to resolve it with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:24 PM
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I wonder why men don't just get together and DDOS the shit out of these dating apps. It would actually make for a fun experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:16 PM
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why is there a post telling me what I supposedly like, lol Being around women is nothing like you're making it out to be unless maybe if you're extraordinarily attractive and charming. If that's not you, being around women is like dragging your balls across broken glass. You'll be spending most of your time seeking women who are receptive and rarely getting to any actual positive interaction with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:02 PM
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Just make a "Question for Women" here. I honestly don't see that much of a difference and why I don't bother to read them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:39 PM
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Extracurriculars and volunteer show a candidate can benefit the company. High n count damages the success of an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:12 AM
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What would indoctrination about male violence look like? I mean there are probably undeniable truths about men and violence just like there are about women and hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:22 PM
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I think it would save a lot of boys a lot of wasted time in adolescence and adulthood, and would give them clear options about what to do without blowing smoke up their ass. If they want to play, what it takes to be competitive. What the consequences of being a 2nd tier man. It's really important stuff imo, glad I picked up on it early in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:19 PM
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smol boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:15 PM
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ya exactly, just whining
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:34 AM
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Your 'standards' are irrelevant. The dating market tells you what you're worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:21 AM
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Right, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:17 PM
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Yeah they're the ones complaining men don't meet their standards, which is why this post would be perfect for them to read and accept
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:39 PM
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you mean it gets even more outlandish?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:59 PM
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That kind of stuff is high effort and just as pointless around here. People aren't here to take debate seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:14 PM
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You could argue that there is a bottleneck right now, and we've lived in times of peace in the west for several generations now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:33 PM
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Cooking, working out and sending sexy photos is basically a normal human relationship. The female fantasies though...yikes ladies! At least we know now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:14 PM
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That's actually kinda wholesome. Imagine if women's porn preference was anything like that, instead of being this ultra dominant bad boy / billionaire with a side of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:35 PM
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this is a way better take that makes a lot more sense. I don't get why it's always people with shitty takes making all the OPs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:08 AM
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Usually this is an epiphany many people have once they hit the wall I'm being gender neutral here too since both men and women hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:01 AM
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many of them are just using fake confidence to compensate for insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:56 AM
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It's insane how this post is directed at men when it's usually women prattling on about their high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:13 PM
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It really only harms slutty women, but they need you to care so they try to argue that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:44 AM
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the platform to air their grievances isn't online, sorry to say it. The frontpage of reddit had a mob of young men wrecking a lady's car for apparently no reason. That's how these grievances are going to be aired in the coming years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:44 AM
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he’s given up on dating because he could only get dates with average or below average women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:40 AM
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Regardless of whether it's entitlement or whatever that was the whole premise of your OP. It's entitlement. No one said you have to be resentful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:53 AM
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devotion is an interesting word because it has spiritual meanings of surrendering one's life to a higher power. Not saying you're wrong, it's just funny the role women think they play in men's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:07 AM
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do you have a real response to his point though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:03 AM
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It is entitlement. You can tell by the way women talk and act. It usually doesn't come from a place of "I'm too scared but I want to approach" but from a thought that if a man isn't pursuing and displaying confidence, that means he's not worth a relationship. Women don't try to overcome their own insecurities, because they believe being a woman makes them entitled to confident men approaching them. Not to mention the relentless shit tests from insecure women to make sure the guy is a genuinely c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:49 AM
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yeah, like I said I just repackaged the standard PPD woman take and applied it to you because fuck it I'm bored
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:33 AM
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let me give you the PPD woman take here: I mean just look around. Everywhere you go average women are in relationships, often with guys way more attractive. Many of my guy friends are with girls who definiltey got lucky in the looks department. If you can't get dates and be in a relationship, it's probably a 'you' problem. You might not be as mid as you think you are. Have you tried working on yourself and going outside, and actually talking to guys waiting for a guy to talk to you? Maybe try gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:27 AM
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when has advice for men ever not been that? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:55 PM
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oh ok, so instead why don't we double the number of people who are DIRECTLY dependent on corporate power. just make the problem worse, what a great solution
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:48 AM
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they did need to marry to survive back in like the 1840s. Why is needing labor for a corporation today an acceptable idea to commies, but not needing labor to raise a family in the 1840s acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:46 AM
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whatever form of coercion they prefer, the coercion is still just as much there as it ever was. Whether you quit and find another job, you're compelled to find another corporation to work for. Just like women who found themselves divorced were coerced to find another husband. All you're doing is substituting "husband" for "corporation".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:36 AM
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That's not what you wrote in your op. How old is the average barely legal submissive RPW? 19? 22? Andrew Tate's girlfriends look post wall to me. Most of them 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:24 AM
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They don't need to get married anymore, they need to get a job now. The economic dependence just shifted somewhere else, it's not gone. you'll be surprised. Certain companies have laid off women right when they get back from maternity leave (for reasons that are "totally unrelated" to the pregnancy)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:23 AM
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The leaps you're taking are ridiculous. Since when did RPW mean you're barely legal? Anyway, I don't think submissive tradwives are really being demanded for. They hardly exist anymore outside of religious circles and a couple of ethnic minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:18 AM
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All human adults have to work for an employer to survive kind of sounds like "all women have to get married to survive" though. All that does is shift women's economic dependency from husbands to corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:09 AM
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With this logic, isn't everyone economically dependent on an employer also "coerced" though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:53 AM
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you have zero romantic experience and you ask if you're being naive lol post pic and I'll tell you pretty accurately how your next 20 years will go
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:40 AM
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Nope. Casual sex is where the honesty is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:26 AM
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a 1-2% difference means millions of single unpartnered men ya think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:11 AM
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that's how you end up with a girl who's thought of having sex with you is meh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:59 AM
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Yes it is nearly equal. A <1% difference in western countries is not a significant amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:46 AM
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It's not based solely on intelligence. Physical beauty is still #1. Intelligence is maybe a top 10 trait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:14 AM
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For a man, it means his genetics were competitive enough to make it past the filter that ruthlessly filters out inferior men from the gene pool kind of pointless if you water them down with a mediocre woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:07 PM
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It's kind of hard to follow what you're trying to say. I don't think they're necessarily applying redpill thinking directly. It's more like a claim that redpill makes that is later confirmed through observing people in their natural state, who aren't consciously thinking about any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:42 AM
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Ok, and for all of you who stay behind have fun disposing of my bloated corpse. I'll make sure to eat lots of eggs and coffee before I go so it's extra stinky for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:07 PM
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I already said women shouldn't be compelled to date anyone. I'm kind of approaching this from the angle of what men could. be doing to live a happier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:52 PM
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unless he's exceptionally attractive you mean, then they probably will try to make arrangements for it. I didn't say women should be compelled to date anyone. I said men would do well to stop validating women and sacrificing their own self esteem, which is the end result of the overwhelming majority of approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:46 PM
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I'm more of a black coffee and no pets kind of guy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:45 PM
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Well the DSM-V lists "wants a wife overseas" as a possible criteria for psychopathy so ya never know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:42 PM
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it takes more work to arrange a Tinder date than yo go to a bar lol, no. Not by a long shot for an attractive guy, you don't even have to arrange a real date if you don't want to, where do you think Netflix and Chill came from if not dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:29 PM
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They find the Chad attractive. They find the 6-7 guy okay enough to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:25 PM
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There aren't nearly enough 9/10 dudes to be settling down with the women who they lower their standards for easy sex. Huge mismatch in population sizes there. That is the dream though, for a lot of women I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:13 PM
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Yeah. Unless you're a freaking stud, girls who are single will make up fake excuses and act all flaky all day. Rather hold out for Chad to come sweep them off their feet. Sometimes you ask a girl that's taken, and you should't hold that against them, but it's not like most of them would act any different if they were single. So yeah there are tons of average or just slightly good looking guys out there just fueling women's self esteem and draining their own in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:07 PM
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Thankfully they never commit to her and hopefully they leave her feeling like a sack of shit, whew! It all comes full circle. Thank you Chads for reversing the errors of foolish men and restoring balance back into the world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:31 PM
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Maybe men should stop running around giving women free validation when all they do is invalidate you most of the time. It would be nice for men to start having a bit of self respect. I do think men are coming around to this but it's happening at a snail's crawl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:22 PM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:14 PM
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tl;dr No but I'm almost certainly going to reject any guy who tries it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:58 PM
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Your OP claims that both genders are bad at gauging average, but the examples you gave show that they accurately rate average. Individual examples are not "the gender", you'd need to sample a larger group of people to get somewhat of an accurate reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:29 PM
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paid AI girlfriends are exploitation. Being in the Python scene, aren't open source LLMs becoming pretty powerful already, sometimes even more so than commercial LLMs? What's to stop a few guys from training their own improved version of CarynAI Also I love that they chose the name Caryn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:25 PM
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If a large group of men and women would rate lena dunham at a 5 then they're rating correctly, not "really bad". The few individual cases where they say 2 doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:21 PM
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I don’t know what photos they were looking at, but Lena Dunham as I know her (from the show girls in 2013) is at least a 4.5-5. Yeah, and by your own judgment she would be a 4.5-5, so where is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:18 PM
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If you asked 1000 men and 1000 women, to rate Lena Dunham, they'd probably wouldn't say a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:57 PM
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you're taking individual examples of people rating celebrities badly and then extrapolating it to "the genders"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:51 PM
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blue pill man almost looks like he's having some kind of an epiphany go back to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:26 PM
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No! He can't keep getting away with this 🤣 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:27 PM
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I bet you when it comes to sperm donations only the tallest, most successful, most handsome men are getting any takers, the rest are sitting in shelves collecting dust and eventually just being thrown in the trash bin. It's a funny thought. I'd rather go to where the genetics are desired. I've had way better luck just getting laid overseas. I just don't want reproduction to get in the way of how I've decided to live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:57 PM
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success if what results in confidence. A confident person is just someone who's had so much success that they kind of assume they'll continue to be successful. It's like saying "just have a track record of success with women", but if find themselves telling anyone this, they won't have that track record. At best you can fake confidence and hope someone falls for it. I sometimes wonder if that's what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:09 PM
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oh god lol, just clueless She's going to be wealthy compared to them. I come from a third world country, if you have money people kiss your ass non-stop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:45 PM
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No, lol. I want to select the "egg donor", it's my offspring as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:17 PM
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Simple: you are not guaranteed to be selected for sperm donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah, that's exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:28 PM
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what if
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 PM
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right, that was a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:26 PM
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Just worked my ass off. I'm kind of a neurotypical guy if you couldn't already tell and I need a lot of time to myself, which isn't conducive to attracting women. I'd go crazy with a woman and kid living in my house. You can either embrace your quirks it or let them hold you back, I choose to embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:20 PM
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To continue my lineage. Women overseas often raise children as a village instead of as single mothers like they do in the US. I'll make sure they're from a nice close knit family. Is it sure to work out, not really. But nothing is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:11 PM
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I make enough that my wife would never have to work even in the US, so I'm fine paying 100%. I want to marry and have children but I will arrange a legal contract with a nice girl overseas and take care of their expenses. I could spoil them with a fraction of my income and keep most of it for myself. Personally I don't want to live with my wife 100% of the time, I'd rather just visit her a few times a year. Just as long as she has my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:04 PM
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Are there people trying to be CEOs, lawyers and plastic surgeons without doing the work, or do you mean higher paying entry level jobs? I have seen entitlement to entry level jobs, and that's because...well they're supposedly "entry level". People with more social status are entitled because they constantly get special treatment. That's just like the guy who keeps getting easy sex. The personal preferences example is too vague. Skipping. The thing about public spaces is that they're getting what…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:54 PM
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It's still not connecting for me. Entitlement situations where sex isn't the subject would really help. Considering that fear can play a role in these situations, how do you think it interacts with the idea of objectification? Like I said, fear doesn't come into it at all for reasons I already gave. Fear is for guys who are unattractive but insist on playing by the rules, and their fears are not at all unfounded because they will be suffering a lot of frustration and helplessness. You could mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:22 AM
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Wouldn't entitlement mean you're expecting to get something without much effort on your part? I can't think of a situation where men who have difficult access to sex would still develop a feeling of entitlement to sex. Can you think of examples outside of sex where this happens to people? Maybe that would help me understand. If you can objectify women, you can just go straight to the people who are willing to have sex with you and disregard the women who require you to romance them into it. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:51 AM
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How can we determine that feeling entitled leads to easy access to sex and taking women for granted? You have it backwards again. I said ease of access to sex leads to feeling entitled to it. The kid that feels entitled to chocolate cake is the one whose mom is constantly stuffing his mouth with chocolate cake. You can easily measure ease of access by amount of time and effort taken to attain it. You might be overthinking it a bit with the other stuff. I already explained how objectification can…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:16 AM
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Scenario 2 is wrong. If a guy gets to the point where he genuinely feels entitled, he's usually getting sex so easily that he's taking the sex and the women for granted. So that would't be fear it would be genuine surprise if he doesn't get it, followed by anger. I'm not entitled but definitely on the "objectification" end personally and I find that it works great for me. Even that doesn't cause fear because if you objectify women you can remove uncertainty before you even make the first move. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:39 AM
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here in this post, you are the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:16 AM
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It's mind bogglingly much easier for women. Quit complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:03 AM
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And there's also "don't be short, don't be poor, don't be the wrong ethnicity, don't play too many videogames, you must constantly make me laugh, my friends have to like you also" and the list goes on but women really just have "don't be fat" and that's too much, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:50 AM
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Imagine if all it took for women to notice a guy was "don't be fat".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:39 AM
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6+ is almost half of all women though. That's insanely generous considering the way women are with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:21 AM
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Attractive guys are probably approaching a lot less too, An attractive guy can probably pull up Tinder and get a new match with a few swipes, so he probably wouldn't approach unless he's bored or the girl is pretty. That's probably OPs real complaint: "I'm an average girl and hot guys don't want to talk to with me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:12 AM
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I notice invisible women. It's usually combination of exceptionally ugly / very fat / 45+ years old. Honestly, it's probably less than 20% of women that no guy would even consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:04 AM
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Guys do try a ridiculous amount. Especially guys in their early 20s, and especially younger redpill guys try to the point of obession. The difference is that few guys just keep trying over and over again if they keep coming up empty handed. It's also on the guy to find some way to make dating fun because girls don't help with that at all. Eventually I think a lot of us guys just get sick of trying and just try less or just stop. also, if you go on a dating app and you get rejected 99% of the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:20 AM
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The intention of saying "touch grass" isn't to help anyone, it's to insult them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:54 PM
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rip
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:02 AM
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context
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:57 AM
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butch lesbo would have been my second guess. Ya hate to hear it, sorry you had to go through that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:51 AM
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OP was manhandled by a tranny case closed. Mods -- shut it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:28 AM
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average DOESN'T mean median smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:01 AM
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average doesn't mean median I'll dictate reality to you because apparently you need all the help you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:54 AM
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yeah like Jack Garbarino, he developed a world class physique and wrote a best-seller called "the movement: how i got this body by never going to the gym in my life." He has an amazing story too, heartbreaking what happened to those poor kids in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:50 AM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:41 AM
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outside of this sub reddit tends to lean in the direction of soyboys who copy trends for social approval so it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:48 AM
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It's not really a dating strategy because there's no end goal. The men are clients paying for a roleplay type of service and that's it. Nothing wrong with that if you want it, but hardly a dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:41 PM
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Too many chicks are nasty bimbos these days so it's like why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:15 PM
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Alright I guess we agree then but still a weird CMV. It's like arguing that smoking has benefits because smokers think it's worth it to keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:02 PM
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Pointless argument avoided, I'm on a roll today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:55 PM
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Are you really asking this? When you respect someone, what does that mean to you? And I'm not talking about treating people with basic respect, I mean actually having genuine respect for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:49 PM
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Happy wife happy life is usually expressed half-jokingly. By a certain age, most married men (and friends of married men) understand that the quality of their life depends more on their wife being kept happy, and their own happiness takes a back seat in the relationship unless it's something serious. I wouldn't say it's a dream, more of a realization or acknowledgement that this is how marriages work now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:07 PM
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One single data point says nothing of importance. Usually this is something I have to remind women about but it had to happen eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:56 PM
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Even if you're fulfilling your duties as a husband it won't mean crap if she just doesn't "feel" happy with the marriage. To me it seems like one of the dumbest decisions men make because so much of it seems to be managing an adult woman's feelings as you try to go through life. Probably explains why the average marriage doesn't last very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:53 PM
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Anyone who doesn't command respect are automatically deemed "low value" by women. That makes up the majority of single men but funnily enough a good chunk of husbands, ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:20 PM
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It's not much of a CMV if you don't think the so-called benefits are worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:14 PM
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I disgree with the first one. 20 year old men are competing with pretty much ALL men in their 20s for 18, 19 and 20 year old women, maybe 21 and 22. It's a small pool and a lot of competitors 29 year old men are competing for women 20-30 and their competition is also 20-30. Pool and competition pool is more proportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:46 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:25 PM
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I think dudes have started to try less and less because it's gradually sinking in. Especially the past couple of years I've seen the complaint that "guys don't even try anymore" way more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:22 PM
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it's not like people with an IQ of 70 are just that much better at holistic processing, wrong assumption there made by you that lower IQ means better holistic processing, and higher IQ doesn't mean only linear cognition I thought you were just playing along with my facetious tone, but now it seems you're actually serious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:12 PM
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exactly, probably just better to be a little on the dumber side, it makes relating to women a little easier and women don't even have to make sense because you're not even that inclined to make sense of things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:06 PM
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nobody hugs like they're two mannequins moving towards each other if they're sincere. The #1 most reliable way of gauging sincerity is body language. Stop making excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:03 PM
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they can relate to the lower average IQs probably been shown that having an IQ over 130 is detrimental for men in relationships, and that's not even insanely high or rare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:53 PM
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there was a different user who tried to respond in good faith and she twisted his response exactly like I knew she would. I was right to disregard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:49 PM
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oops, you fell for it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:44 PM
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so the benefit of spending the money and patience and resources as an orbiter is that others might mistakenly assume you're higher status?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:35 PM
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when it's genuine maybe it's involuntary, but when they're faking it is contrived and kind of nasty to see so many women do it. Sometimes they even do a fake hug where they try not to really touch because they both know they're not as close as they're pretending, it's just cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:22 PM
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Fakeness, even seeing women being fake-nice with each other and they change their voice to be more high pitched and pretending to be excited, ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:37 PM
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today's airheaded women are moving on from astrology over to MBTI
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:34 PM
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are you f'n kidding me I'm not reading all that , good job wasting your time 🤣 🤣 ​ 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:15 PM
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yeah, that too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:08 PM
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the toilet seat argument was probably the first red flag about women I ever got. The fact that this argument even exists, I thought it was a joke among adults but it just shows you how petty things can and usually do get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:55 PM
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Plenty of makeup brands have carcinogens in them based, i love makeup now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:50 PM
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that's not support, that's fueling delusion. Not sure why women think blowing smoke up each other's asses is something men want. Sometimes a reality check is the correct response for men AND women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:42 PM
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It's the generation overall. It's not in a region of state, it's just the US in general. You could argue that grad school gen-z kids in your state's university are doing great, but nobody cares about such a specific sample
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:37 PM
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What are you even asking? What does "which gen-z" mean? "Where" what, do you mean where are the stats or are you asking about country like US/Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:33 PM
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Honestly, I 100% believe women in this post. Women are super pragmatic when it comes to men and value. If a man isn't bringing value into a woman's life, they make sure he's not in their life. Something men could learn from
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:29 PM
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No, and that's irrelevant anyway. All I need to do is pull up stats on how sexually active gen z guys report to being. Plus keep in mind guys tend to overstate their sexual activity it so it's probably even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:24 PM
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It must not be that many guys with rizz then since overall your gen is doing the worst out of everyone so far
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:19 PM
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Women say they'd rather be single if they don't get the kind of guy they want. So why would any guy even bother hitting on the uglier ones? They just want to be single and keep waiting for Chad to see how special they are. If a guy is going to waste his time anyway, might as well be on pretty girls and not stuck up plain girls Male logic simplified
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:49 PM
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How many times have you heard a 2/10 guy unironically say he's a stud and deserves a girl? Can't wait to hear more bullshit from you, so please go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:31 PM
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I wasn’t eligible to attend the event apparently but there were so many guys with out with their baddie-type girlfriends. Some of these guys weren’t anything special appearance wise though most had rizz or style if you will. (I am Gen z/ under 25). People still meet up organically. I'll believe it when these gen-z guys finally decide to to have sex with their baddy girlfriends. So far the stats suggest your gen is on track to fare even worse than millenials and that's saying a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:26 PM
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A guy would go for an Instagram model with many plastic surgeries, hasn't worked out a day in her life, only eats McDonalds, vapes and drinks yet would turn down a slightly overweight girl because shes "unhealthy". "Slightly oerweight" girl is proabably has a busted face too. Be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:09 PM
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There are plenty of things that suck about the west, but people not tolerating self delusional bullshit about their looks isn't really one of them. In your country, saying it out loud might be culturally suppressed but you know they're 100% for sure thinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:56 PM
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If a 2/10 guy was saying he's handsome and deserves any type of woman at all, the response would be a reality check
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:37 PM
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Your only option, but those aren't the only options for everyone. Some guys are ok with hookers, some guys are ok with geomaxxing, or any variety of solutions. In general I don't do diminshing returns for anything so working out beyond staying fit is not something I'd do to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:04 PM
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the argument isn't "porn is bad for ou" but "Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex". Good luck backing that up with science
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:33 PM
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short guy with muscles are not in the same league from what I've seen. Beyond being reasonably low body fat, muscles are a diminishing return for unit of time and effort invested. Only do it if you absolutely love the lifestyle, it's not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:54 AM
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Absolutely no one making the "bad sex" argument genuinely cares how much you're enjoying sex. Reducing the perceived relationship value of virgin women is in the interest of women who want to sleep around but still lock down some kind of relationship eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:46 AM
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paternity tests are cheap and legal in most US states even without needing approval from the mother. After learning this, I don't even get how this is a men's issue aside from maybe lack of awareness and educating men of their rights. Men if you get paternity frauded by your whore wife and you end up raising another man's kids, that's on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:13 AM
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Just supply and demand. Shortage of guys who want a chaotic high risk "excitement" lifestyle and no shortage of bored women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:07 AM
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yeah, in general just hedging statements. It was just interesting to hear how she would hedge everything she said so that she could backtrack or reframe it if she needed to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:08 PM
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Went to a business conference sort of thing there was a girl who openly talked shit about men several times but she would preface statements with "low-key" to make it seem like no big deal. All the guys seemed too scared to call her out and some actually just nodded and validated her feelings. Deep down I knew she would probably be let off the hook with a warning, at worst, even in a professional setting I can't imagine a guy getting away with that, to criticize women in a professional setting. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:05 PM
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nah I think we're done here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:50 PM
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No they don’t. ok I'm not reading the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:47 PM
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It's always the same examples. Flight attendants? Have you been on a flight recently, half the flight attendants in the US are fucking grotesque and middle aged. I could count the number of attractive flight attendants I've seen on one hand. There was a beauty standard in the 1960s, now any old hag can be one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:43 PM
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Most women wear no-makeup style day to day to their office job, stop your bullshit pls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:39 PM
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If women's everyday look was that subtle, no one would comment that they look tired or sick. The lack of makeup would also be too subtle to notice (btw, I swear I've seen that "my eyelids aren't naturally sparkly" comment so many times I'm beginning to wonder if we live in a simulation where women are pre-programmed NPCs. Kind of unnerving that I've been seeing almost that exact same comment since I was a teenager)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:34 PM
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Women will say this, but they'll also say that they use so little makeup that it hardly makes any difference to how they actually look But who didn't already know they're full of shite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:32 PM
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and whose fault is that? Like imagine if men all wore 2" shoe lifts and then started complaining that they can't go a day without them or people start commenting that they look shorter. No shit. If you're all walking around with paint that makes you all look healthier and fertile and one day you don't, how is that a surprise to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:28 PM
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Pretty much. All this talk about "nuance" is really just damage control because it's hard to deny ouright, but it's also hard (for some) to just accept that's the basic mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:20 PM
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easy for who? As the guy I'm always the one trying to get the sex What's supposed to be easy or hard for the woman if she's not the one pursuing men? It's just a nonesensical question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:56 PM
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One of them is a real estate cougar pleading them to get tested because she knows he's fucking other girls but they want to keep fucking him too Another one was an average chubby simp girl acting jealous and trying to manipulate him to commit to her only, he just toys around with her One is a girl he met on tinder who he invited on a date, then just before the date he gets her to agree to hang out at his place and bring condoms Another one is the girl sending nudes while he just responds with 1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:52 PM
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Pretty sure OP is a guy. There are tons of guys on PPD like this, they just argue blue pill points even though they're for the most part getting shit on by women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:26 PM
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I agree, and it's just much easier and socially acceptable to just keep blaming men and see what sticks. But I doubt anyone really considers men opting out an issue, aside from a public safety standpoint when the occasional lunatic finally snaps. Why would women become more approachable? They're not playing this in co-op mode with us. For the most part the game they're playing is one where they compete in the labor market while they pray to God that "the one" will come along, fall in love with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:10 PM
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In countries where porn is illegal/banned and porn use is comparatively very low, there are still serious problems. South Korea, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:30 PM
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Worse for men and women in the long run Society has generally catered to women for the past 50 years so of course women think it's great, but it's destabilizing western society little by little. Save for some technological miracle, western civilization will collapse and there is a reactionary response from surviving civilizations looking at the root cause will set women back to where they apparently need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:37 PM
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A few buddies of mine will often show me texts they get from all different kinds of women simping desperately to be in their harem. Every single of these guys share at least 2 of these attributes: tall, high status, white -- no exceptions. As demonstrated by their actions, these are pretty much the only guys women actually want. Every other guy I know is working themselves to the bone and often ending up with an average fatty who "settles" for him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 PM
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Just polite interaction, not much else. No friendship opportunity, but that is a policy for all women. In my experience this policy has only yielded benefits in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:02 PM
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women being honest about what they're attracted to would lead to most men losing respect for them, hence all the gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:11 PM
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It's not that no single woman wants any man. If you mean as a generality, then it's hard to deny. I think women have a vested interest in gaslighting average men that they are wanted by some women if they self improve enough (which is a lie). If you keep men dreaming, they won't snap out of it and find their own solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:57 PM
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cuckmakers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:14 PM
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I agree with practically none of the women here and only around 40% of the men here. Lots of weak men on this subreddit, even the redpillers surprise me with their cucked takes sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:17 PM
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They don't care about morals, they care about virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:15 PM
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I have a sister I don't really think women have struggles the way they think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:05 PM
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The only self improvement I'm doing is my own bankroll and my own wellbeing. So much better than busting my ass with the hopes of female acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:59 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:52 AM
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I don't bother anymore. It's a ton of work and the girls that say yes I end up not really liking anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:15 AM
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Do you think you're telling me something I didn't already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:45 AM
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So it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:30 AM
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Because... because they just are, ok? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:09 AM
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I would approach too sometimes, I wasn't content with them either. I'm not saying it's anyone's fault, just that the ones that say yes are never really worth the immense effort that it took. Eventually I just kind of said fuck this, it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:01 AM
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You're fine if you do as a modern 2023 woman who probably went to college. If you don't I'm out unless you give off really naive/inexperienced vibes to where I need to take it really slow with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:48 AM
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I wouldn't always ask for a date right away. I used to get jitters as a teen but if you get about a hundred under your belt it's really nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:45 AM
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Most of them just acted all weirded out by a guy approaching them and gave some reason to why they can't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:43 AM
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Most weren't receptive. Are you kidding me, hotels have pools and tons of bored women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:36 AM
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I've approached a lot in my 20s. College dorms, frat parties, regular parties, work convenions, coffee shops, girls overseas, hotels. Literally everywhere I see a girl I like who looks single. The how is all based on the familiarity and context, do you really want a huge combination of approach strategies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:32 AM
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Not true. I've been approached by women a few times in my life. And I've been around attractive men that are constantly being approached. I've approached hundreds (maybe thousands) but I no longer approach women. The kind women I can get are just not likeable enough, it's not worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:27 AM
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Generally I would leave. I would assume she was a hoe at a point in her life and is now trying to increase the cost of what others got for free. There would need to be a convincing reason to believe that has always been the policy for everyone (or that she's actually lowering it for me for some reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:13 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/grammar/comments/ncagll/adjective_before_a_list_of_nouns_no_colon/ "an adjective appearing BEFORE (a PREmodifier) coordinate nouns (a pair or list of nouns) is usually interpreted as modifying all of those nouns, unless you break the pattern by introducing another modifier."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:08 AM
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Whatever, there is no religious element to it edit: OH I see, you just can't read English https://www.reddit.com/r/grammar/comments/ncagll/adjective_before_a_list_of_nouns_no_colon/ "an adjective appearing BEFORE (a PREmodifier) coordinate nouns (a pair or list of nouns) is usually interpreted as modifying all of those nouns, unless you break the pattern by introducing another modifier."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:00 AM
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there's nothing religious about trp. The definition specifically says RELIGIOUS beliefs or practices
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:45 AM
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no true Scottsman No true Scottsman, really? That is some really bad trolling. Or maybe you're the one who needs a prescription, can never be too sure these days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:41 AM
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TRP doesn't promote any religious beliefs or practices, so you are wrong according to your own definition /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:34 AM
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They're not mutually exclusive. It can be dysfunctional and AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:15 PM
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I think the term is "female but with male characteristics"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:04 PM
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Man here. It's wrong to kill any living human. Should be common sense that killing a human is always off limits unless they are attempting deadly force upon our own life. Downvote me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:00 PM
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women are insisting on equality so, yes it would be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:34 PM
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If women had the same dating conditions as men and vice versa, the vitriol coming from women would probably be worse. Even under much more favorable dating conditions you get women venting completely oblivious that their dating life is insanely privileged compared to the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:21 PM
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Im currently hitting 💥💥 the griddy for the Ukraine 🇺🇦 🕺💃 #TheGriddy #PartyVibes 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:03 PM
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You guys should play this game on easy mode, then you'll see how hard it really is for us!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:47 PM
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he posted a pic and...yea the chick is very much average, probably made worse by her terrible style
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:01 PM
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she blames other people too 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:34 PM
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there should be sex toys, but only for women with bad short term memory. Barneysparky, please report to the confiscation silo with your collection of XXL dragon dildos and massagers we only have one wheelbarrow so you might have to make multiple trips
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:06 AM
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they should, but the man should have full control over them otherwise I'd view it the same as cheating fight me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:06 AM
3

Here's a little more negativity for you: no one's replying to your dirtypenpals post, cringelord. Get a clue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:47 PM
5

yeah with women, if that bothers you. I don't feel like I'd be missing out on much tbh but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:41 PM
2

women are the real grifters imagine the billions that men waste per year on paying on dates, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:34 PM
2

Yeah family man isn't the goal anymore for most men. If anything it's a pipedream that hasn't sunk in for a few hardcore blue pilled. If most of those guys need to learn the hard way by trying and ultimately failing to start a family with a modern woman, too bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:52 PM
5

I'm just saying that solution I wrote will prevent friendzoning 100% of the time. You can follow whatever decisions you make for your own life, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:41 PM
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Wrong assumption, disregarded After watching FnF, most men would opt out of the family man role because they show men what women are like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:08 PM
2

They teach men to be cynical about women, who btw are the REAL grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:05 PM
6

Suit yourself. "Hang out with unattractive women" is very low on my to-do list
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:10 PM
3

you're not going to get "sensible" out of women. The only option for a lot of guys now is to be nice until one of them crosses you, then turn into a cold ruthless monster. Sucks, yes, but these are the times we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:42 PM
2

Then do the same shit. If a woman does that to you, pay it forward to the next woman and take her ass to court for fraud. Men can do frivolous lawsuits too. It's not jsut a one way street, men need to start being a little heartless back and stop cowering at a monkey with beef flaps between her legs If men were doing this level shit to each other we'd be throwing haymakers, but since it's women it's like guys lose the ability to retaliate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:10 PM
3

Solution: don't be friends with women. They're either sucking your dick or they're irrelevant, no in-betweens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:04 PM
5

instead of getting mad I don't get why guys just play their game. You can say you want a relationship and you have the right to change your mind at any time, even right after fucking. EZ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:01 PM
1

If a man is doing all the work of favors and attention, he’s needs better friends Agreed, that's why I avoid friendships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:39 AM
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It's not that. I just don't care how hard you think you have it so I wouldn't go out of my way to help any. Like I said, your LGBT or woman problems are not my problem. You might have it way harder, who knows. I just dgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:17 AM
1

Why not? Seems fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:45 PM
1

Nothing personal, but I really hope men don't support women or LGBTQ+ in the future unless it directly benefits us. If anything women and LGBT have shown men we're pretty much on our own, and men don't get to have allies politically. Wish it the truth were otherwise, but it's not. I'm not convinced things are getting better for men, just worse for women. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:40 PM
0

I have no problem rejecting the evolutionary argument. I'm still not inclined to give into pressure to change anything when it comes to sexual and gender relations because gender relations are pretty much a prisoner's dilemma where the other side has already chosen "defect" and I'm actually ok with their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:17 PM
1

In the end, success is getting what you want at any given time. So for many men this typically means a variety of attractive partners in their youth, and if they want children, choosing to settle down with on of those in their later years. I don't want to say what I think success for women looks like because I'll just be attacked for villifying women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:35 AM
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What a false dilemma. No one outside of preschool thinks you're mean just because you're not actively trying to become their friend. People just following basic courtesy is fine, yes thanks, no thanks, have a nice day and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:19 AM
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just friends = free favors, free attention dating = free favors and free attention but he will want sex eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:53 AM
2

finally an interesting post with users comparing pics. Get ready for her to tear you a new one though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:29 AM
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Don't take this the wrong way but it does make sense now. This guy is basically a heavyweight Chad. 6'4 and (according to you) extremely handsome. I don't know if it's just the pics but he also looks kinda jacked. I don't know if it's the suits but he pulls off the millionaire look. On the other hand, you're conventionally pretty. Many would go crazy over you even if not every guy's cup of tea. But hit and miss for sure. I'd say you were punching out of your league NOT because you're not pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:59 AM
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I'm sure you're cute but curious how much more attractive he was in comparison. Just hard to imagine this happening He was pretty tall huh? Still had a decent head of hair at his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:10 AM
1

Sounds like he just got sucked into new agey seminars like Law of Attraction stuff. What was it that you didn't like, the MLM aspect or was it more like he became obsessed about the topic itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:06 AM
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shooting way out of your league will lead to these kinds of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:42 AM
1

I feel like that should say "no women will tolerate a man they see as weak or needing support FOR LONG". In fairness to women they are nice enough to give about a second or two to get back up on your feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:19 AM
2

This is super interesting, how is a relgious MLM different from a run of the mill religious cult?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:07 AM
1

Has your penis been whittled down from the sex you have had? Yeah a bit but that's only because I have tons of sex. I do try jelqing and using my penis enlarger pump to get it back to normal but idk if I'll ever get it back to its original girth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:53 AM
2

I've seen chicks wih dildoes the size of a baby, but like I said I didn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:42 AM
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they might have been into extreme insertions at some point, idk. I didn't ask for the gory details
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:34 AM
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he probably has a neovagina
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:20 AM
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Written by : Carley Millhome yeah I'm thinking Carley got a loose one, why else would she make a whole article about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:10 AM
2

Everyone tries to blame the dick, but think about it. If some dudes have a small dick, why can't women have a huge snatch? Biologically it only makes sense. Think about it logically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:08 AM
2

Whether you care to admit it or not, your type also involves someone who doesn't look like Danny DeVito long before you learn about his values and personality traits. The guy you mentioned who looks physically attractive at first, that's what I mean by a "type". That's not the same thing as a good relationship match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:52 AM
0

Killing a human is murder. A fetus is a human. Abortion is killing a fetus. Therefore, abortion is murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:45 AM
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pussy too loose, big vagina from having sex with too many previous men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:26 AM
1

You're still trying to change the topic, but you're not succeeding. Why do you think that might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:12 AM
0

It doesn't matter to me whether you accept it. What I'm telling you is that I'm not going to discuss that here because that isn't the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:06 AM
1

If you're her type, where can you approach her? you can do it, I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:04 AM
1

wow interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:59 AM
1

Setting doesn't matter. If you are her type you can approach her anywhere. Get it through your head, Barneysparky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:54 AM
4

simply not true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:54 AM
4

You're nitpicking the example just so you can ignore the overall point. I could have said almost any famous celebrity and you probably would have done the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:53 AM
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Setting doesn't matter. If you are her type you can approach her anywhere. Say it with me, Barney
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:31 AM
2

That too, but usually "setting is inappropriate" is often the excuse offered when the question is asked online, when nobody is approaching them. Which then leads to guys like OP asking this misguided question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:22 AM
1

If Henry Cavill approaches a stranger in public, she would be looking for the nearest place to drop her panties, that's my point. She wouldn't be analyzing why he's approaching a stranger in public or any of what you mentioned. Setting doesn't matter. If you are her type you can approach her anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:14 AM
2

Setting doesn't matter. If you are her type you can approach her anywhere. Women want an excuse to get upset about being approached by average guys, but they don't want to appear shallow, so they make a fuss about how inappropriate the setting is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:59 AM
1

Agreed, this is why I've given the boot to a couple of otherwise decent looking girls. "Crazy ex bf" means baggage from abusive relationships, no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:11 AM
4

I totally agree with you that it's not the horn-dog thing. I personally would love to wait a few months if the conditions were right for that. They're not in this day and age. But my main aversion isn't being friendzoned so much as being buxxed. Just being used for romantic attention and fun dates when she doesn't want to jump my bones. Women can do that because they can just sit back and enjoy being courted, but it's a lot of work that I would never do for a chick who isn't crazy over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:08 AM
2

I don't know (or care) how you rationalize that one to yourself, but cognitive dissonance isn't reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:42 PM
0

Is there a single instance of a feminist murdering someone due to their feminist beliefs? seems like you did if you're still asking this question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:34 PM
6

That's a major part of it. OP is just trying to direct TRPs messaging, with ultimatum of censorship for not cooperating with her demands. I don't think she realizes that censoring TRP is like adding fuel to the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:42 PM
0

That discussion has been had over and over again, enough already. Male sexuality doesn't work anything like female sexuality. Men crave variety. It would be impossible to limit men to the top 20% if we could help it. We'd be extremely happy with supermodel girlfriends, but we'd use that pre-selection to try to bang 8s and 7s also.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:19 PM
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Men are not women. I'd feel like I'm missing out on some really bangable cuties if I only got the top 20%. Of course, I'd be happy, but only top 20% wouldn't be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:03 PM
3

I kind of want to see what happens when the manosphere is totally censored and contained on social media. Who knows, maybe everything will just return to normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:20 PM
3

On the other hand, some male posters may underestimate individual variance. There's no underestimation there, individual variance is 100% useless unless we're actually engaging that exact individual (which is never the case)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:56 PM
1

Not really because I don't approach dating from a long term relationship angle, at least not right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:31 PM
4

Chads around the world are going to be very sad when all the cute girls decide to dump them for AIs for most guys this wouldn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:27 PM
8

What about the people who do want to take the traditional vows as they've always been, and not some watered down form of them? I think people are slowly realizing that marriage isn't really for them. It's certainly not for me. If it's not for you, just don't get married. Fucking simple. What you're suggesting is like going into a tattoo parlor and changing it so that they just scribble some drawings with pen because it's less ouchies, and then go around forcing everyone to call it a tattoo when …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:55 AM
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Solution: don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:34 AM
8

If you weren't making every guy wait, then yes you're not worthy of a relationship to a some of guys. It won't be impossible it will just be **a little** more difficult. You have complete control over being a hoe or being the LTR type. You can choose what's important to you which is why it's totally reasonable. It's not like we're expecting you to meet some arbitrary height standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:40 PM
4

>Arent RP men responsible for women making them wait since it's literally what they ask for ? RP men don't ask to be made to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:53 PM
10

Hoes are ok for casual sex, modest girls are ok for LTRs (or casual sex if they want to explore with you). I don't see RP men saying that every single woman must be modest, or taht every single woman must give it up right away. I do see a lot of hoes insisting that they shouldn't be judged for their past and changing it up to making guys wait, that shit won't fly. And that's where a lot of the disagreements come from. You've got a generation of 30 something year olds who have fucked around in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:45 PM
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Women love to talk. Single women talk to married women. And their favorite topic is talking about people. I couldn't care less about actually befriending a married woman, but a smart strategy is to at least fake friendliness with them. If your name comes up, you want them to say something positive rather than "he never says anything at all, isn't that weird!?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:44 PM
2

Start believing you are a commodity and women will start believing that about you too very soon. You didn't say that. What you actually said about deluding yourself into a false belief to change women's minds is incel mindset. Git gud, son
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:49 PM
2

You are promoting the twisted mindset of an incel mass murderer, yikes buddy maybe just maybe you're the ones who needs help
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:36 PM
3

ok so the answer to my previous question was actually "No, she didn't mislead me, I assumed". I can't really blame you for making wrong assumptions, I think that's part of learning as a young person. Being wrong about your own assumptions is not the same as being used for sex. Don't let it happen repeatedly and you're good for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:39 AM
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Nah, alternative aesthetics still matter for attractive men past 25. Read: ATTRACTIVE. Career niche is just one of many. For beta bux, obviously business / career man is the only niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:32 AM
5

Why didn't you confront her about lying to you? She said you didn't know each other long enough and then you just said ok, even though she explicitly told you she wanted a relationship idk this story is kind of suspicious. Seems like some huge risks for a girl to be taking just to get some sex from a guy that she's not really into
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:14 AM
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Still looks like 100% your fault here. You say you thought she wanted a relationship. Why? Did she say something to mislead you into thinking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:08 AM
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If you didn't get anything worthwhile out of having sex with her, why did you choose to have sex with her? 100% your fault, same as women who get "used" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:44 AM
1

I can already tell you what is going to be a significant % of replies from here on: "I don't fear MY man. I LOVE my man." Oh you thought you'd get some thoughtful responses lol. Welcome to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:33 AM
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Eliott Rodger believed he was a "hot commodity" and complete man (a supreme gentleman, no less). In his videos you could hear him comparing himself to other men and seeing himself as superior and worthy (but still not getting girls). Forcing yourself into delusions of grandeur is just as as being a pessimistic sap. Deluding yourself about your value to women isn't going to magically make those women deluded too. Go back to whatever shitty life coach seminar you crawled out of and stay there, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:55 AM
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Does wearing makeup automatically qualify you as a ‘fake and dishonest’ woman? yes
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