Ok_Tune_5442 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How should I approach hookups/dating?	Conversation	Ok_Tune_5442	/r/seduction	12/10/24 08:21 PM
1	Questions about the basics	Fundamentals	Ok_Tune_5442	/r/seduction	29/10/24 03:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do you actually touch to escalate? Did I do it right (doubt it). Hope you’re only trying to hook up with her. I had my run in with a still married but separated woman in September who I thought I could be serious with and that was a terrible decision on my end. Sounds like you’re in that thang if you want it though! Good luck homie	/r/seduction	05/11/24 06:09 PM
12	What improved your first dates the most? I’m also curious about this as most of gen z despises phone calls and I really hate FaceTime	/r/seduction	04/11/24 02:43 AM
17	What improved your first dates the most? Echoing what others have said. Regardless of the mood/intentions between you two, you gotta actually want to get to know her and let her talk. Women can have sex with anyone they choose, so it helps if they see you as a good listener and someone who is not just using them to get off. Eating her pussy until completion also doesn’t hurt for getting texts back the next day.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 02:42 AM
14	The meaning of “no spark”? Just because women say they want a long term relationship on their profile that doesn’t mean they don’t want sex or not willing to hookup. I’ve heard it referred to as the slut defense. Don’t be afraid of kino although all women are different so this will turn some of them off regardless. “No spark” could be either or both of the things you mentioned. Being attractive but boring is the more common scenario but if you look wildly different than your photos even being charismatic won’t be enough. …	/r/seduction	20/10/24 06:43 PM
1	I'm confused, am i doing this "seduction" right or wrong? I recognize myself in your description of being a mirror conversationally and I can suggest that you practice just saying things. You can practice when you’re with safe friends or even strangers whose opinions are not important to you. Speaking of my own experience, I am usually quiet and socially anxious. So I usually don’t start conversation, and by playing it safe to not come off weird it can mean awkward silences where nobody is talking. For many women (and men) that can be received poorly a…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 12:08 PM
2	I'm confused, am i doing this "seduction" right or wrong? I think from your description, without being the one to approach women romantically you will be stuck waiting for the “right place, right time”. As to why you suddenly had 4 women interested, did you lose weight, gain muscle, get a haircut or something that altered your appearance? Sometimes it is not that you repel women, but you don’t sound like you are doing anything to attract these women even after they show interest. I don’t mean to offend, but you are likely fumbling them. You had one com…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 01:16 AM
2	How should I approach hookups/dating? I completely agree. I have worked hard this year to not be head over heels after the first date. Making sure the women actually show a genuine interest in me and are someone I could see myself with long term before investing myself. I think it could be beneficial to allow myself to do more casual hookups, that way I’m not as desperate to jump to sex with someone I’m unsure of. Thanks for sharing your perspective and good advice!	/r/seduction	13/10/24 12:16 AM
1	How should I approach hookups/dating? I appreciate the validation. I certainly see now that dating a very freshly divorced woman would have been a very long and bumpy road even if things had worked out. How do you think I should keep tabs on woman #3? We last texted in February this year and her last text to me was: “You’re amazing. I hope you know that. I’ll make sure I’m really ready when I try again in the future, and if you’re still available and around, I’ll definitely reach out. 😊” It seems promising but the ball is also in he…	/r/seduction	12/10/24 09:17 PM
0	How should I approach hookups/dating? Thanks for commenting, I appreciate the input! That is a really interesting point that I have not heard articulated so directly. We should allow women to be the one bring up defining the relationship? I assume this makes them feel like they’re locking you down rather than being locked down themselves? Makes sense. Your second point, I think this approach may have worked with woman #1, but with woman #3 I think she was lying from the start about wanting long term as she still lives with her ex(an…	/r/seduction	12/10/24 08:52 PM
6	She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why... Tbf, men don’t see that level of friendship modeled often. Theres a certain level of emotions that I (and I imagine other men) would not admit or talk about with even our closest male friends. Many women are skilled in emotional intelligence, yet men won’t trust them unless they’re in a relationship together. I suspect that is where OP is coming from. Women feel comfortable to vent to friends, but men don’t, so it feels like a one-sided friendship to us. Wrong as it may be, it is hard to blame m…	/r/seduction	12/10/24 08:40 PM
5	How should I approach hookups/dating? Additional info: I’m late 20s, a solid 7/10 attractiveness who’s tall and has great manners/respectful. Woman one was 30, woman three was 25. Happy to provide more info if it helps.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 08:26 PM
2	Daygame Approach Format Explained + 5 Approaches This was actually insanely helpful as a total beginner. To see you still get positive reactions from these women despite getting rejected helped ease my nerves. Hope to see your successful approaches soon. If I could make a suggestion, the audio is hard to hear while the phone is in your pockets. Are you using the microphone in your earphones?	/r/seduction	17/07/24 11:42 PM