When I say “don’t take it personal” I mean the victim should not take the repulsion personally because it is a biological survival strategy. Not because the woman doesn’t like the victim. They are a visible threat. They don’t need to know anymore.
In all honesty lack of social skills is just a direct alert to a woman NOT to procreate with an autistic man. It’s hereditary. It’s a danger to her offspring’s survival. It’s not personal.