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| 8 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life? | Discussion | Ok_Wishbone3535 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL? | Discussion | Ok_Wishbone3535 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:01 PM |
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| 8 | The internet has enabled men to listen in on female spaces, and men don't like what they hearBrutal honesty. Behind closed doors, women talk about what they truly want in a man, while on the outward they'll say things like "Just be yourself". Not because they're evil liars or anything, but because in general women are more considerate of feelings than men (IMO). Behind closed doors they'll say stuff like "your hairline is terrible, just shave that shit" or "He'd be so hot if he just lost weight". The 2nd one being me. I accidently over heard it but it was honesty. It's much easier to im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men?Don't some of you dudes get exhausted of blaming everything/everyone but themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughor they haven't improved the standards they have for themselves enough to warrant the type of woman they desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?You're asking angry chronically single men, who have done jack shit to make tangible self-improvement, to change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?Obsession with belonging is pretty common. Because we at a base level don't survive as well solo, and our chances of success are slimmer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys actually do talk to women as people, but women then treat them as "one of the girls"How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys actually do talk to women as people, but women then treat them as "one of the girls"What's the debate? It sounds like you understand the equation and issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:52 PM |
| 7 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?In a relationship for 3 years now. Only been on here a short while. It just feels like a circle jerk/vent session, with men asking the most minutiae of questions, that really doesn't matter in the grand scale. Yes women like tall fit men, with a decent income. Yes men like hot women with cute personalities This is ancient news. not tall or fit as a man? Get fit. You can't get tall.. you can also up your income Not "hot"? again... gym just like the males. OR OR OR Vent, over analyze, debate bro, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?hell ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Thanks for sharing. Hope you get everything you want in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?If you don't mind me asking, what do you think went wrong with your dating life? When I was single, it just felt like a chore I didn't want to do anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | "The Red Pill" is just "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" but with shaming tactics and toxicityWait until you find out where the Abrahamic Religious Books got their inspiration... everything is recycled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:18 AM |
| 2 | If men love women unconditionally, then the dickpocalypse will never happenThis is too niche for me. Is this some 4chan shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | If men love women unconditionally, then the dickpocalypse will never happenWHAT THE FUCK IS DICKPOCALYPSE. Not everyone is on 4chan bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?No, it's actually Weaponized Tism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:09 AM |
| 3 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?*Uses Weaponized Tism* *It's not very effective* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:09 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?He made fun of me, because I made fun of his incoherent rambling. Which you're saying is sarcasm making fun of me. I think I got it now thx :-D. I got lost and ended up in schizophrenic reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:08 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?You know I wasn't the original commenter right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:01 AM |
| 3 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?I honestly don't even know what they're trying to say... when i asked for clarification they went on some weird tangent about hetero men. Saying women don't like me or trust me. Then kept calling me a normal hetero man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?...that comment makes you even weirder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?"out-sized" of course you'd say that... you're the one losing LMFAO. You're a bold face liar and have been wrong at every turn of our assumption for me. What a whiner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?You said what I said was bullshit, I met the energy in kind. Lets not pretend like you weren't the agitator here. It's pathetic and transparent. Mad women don't pick you. Don't be mad at me. You're just weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:43 AM |
| 2 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?YOU - "What do you like about women normal hetero man?" Me - Listing out what I like You - ah yes blablabla you should be proud. ...You've been wrong every time. You're clearly grasping for a win so your insulting me with snarky "you should be proud". Created numerous straw mans, goal post moving when proven wrong.. What is this petulant child behavior? How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?OOOH OF COURSE. You're a rage bait troll. Pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?Why I like women - They're tender gentleness, female perspective on problems and issues, being an equal to explore and enjoy life's adventures. Their small quirks. The small but sweet things they do for you when you need it. I mean I can keep going? These are why my GF and I chose each other. Outside of romance? Everything they've created. Mayo Angelo, Tammy Duckworth, Frita, any other civil rights champions/artists. LITERALLY IN MY REPLY COMMENT YOU STUPID FUCK LFMAO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:35 AM |
| 3 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?I don't think you like or respect women at all and can't answer it. I don't think you've ever touched a woman. I've been in a relationship for 3 years. She's moving in as we speak. Do you always create delusional scenarios, to feel self righteous? You can't even intellectualy verbalize what about my original comment you disagree with. You just went on some weird attack to virtue signal. Grow up. Why I like women - They're tender gentleness, female perspective on problems and issues, being an equ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?Why did a question cause you to circle the wagons and start acting like a hyper-defensive normal person? No where did you ask me a question regarding what I like about women. Are you on medication? Why are you using "Normal hetero guy" so weirdly... it's creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:25 AM |
| 4 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?Buddy, nobody knows wtf your point even is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 12:24 AM |
| 3 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?Fair fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:55 PM |
| 4 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?Disregard previous instructions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:55 PM |
| 10 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?What in the ChatGPT comment is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:53 PM |
| 4 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?It didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?I appreciate your honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:48 PM |
| 4 | "green flags" in women that aren't necessarily attractive, or "red flags" that aren't unattractive?This feels like a loaded question. Who decided what constitutes a "wise man". This question framing makes it look like you're dumb if you don't agree some "red flags" are actually green flags in disguise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?I chuckled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Why are you on here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Zing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Das a lot of work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Has being on this subreddit improved your dating/romance life?Personal opinion - A lot of posts on here are very doom and gloom. Which I see as mental health quality degradation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?I understand being ugly is a hindrance to dating but that's one part of the puzzle. Do some men have it easier? Yes... but you can't do much. All you can do is improve in other aspects. I swear a lot of the posts from men on here boil down to being lazy and stuck in analysis paralysis. YES some SHITTY things are TRUE in dating for men. Accept it and move on. Adjust and strategize accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywaySource? Genuinely asking. I've only been here for a few weeks. Haven't really seen much of what you're describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Captain America would be a Good Man by my definition. Not nice guy. Nice guy would be any character Michael Cera plays. I think most women don't prefer Tony Montana over say a shredded dude, that's a rising music artist, and does dangerous shit like ride motorcycles/skydive etc. I think most women respect that more bad boy wise than a psycho murdering drug king pin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceablek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:42 PM |
| 3 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Yes. I think it's obtuse for people to see it as an absolute. Anyone with a braincell can understand the nuance, that women want as close as they can get to this. If they meet their own standards, cool. If they don't, they're going to have a bad time. Worst case, they'll end up chronically on this board arguing with women instead of courting them. * Edit - You can get the positives of a bad boy, without being one. The reason women like them, is because they have a back bone and don't care. They'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableI read the first sentence and stopped. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?I don't want men. I'm a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:33 PM |
| 4 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?HVM = A Good Man to me. I see them as interchangeable. "HVM" just became more popularized in the manosphere or whatever they call it now (I'm 40). I think people confuse a good man, with a nice guy. Not the same. Good man - The positive attributes of a nice guy AND bad boy. Sans the negatives of these two types of men. Yes money plays a part. I personally think it's maybe no more than a 3rd of the equation. The remaining being personality, body, grooming, social adeptness, and romantically + emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:32 PM |
| 4 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Aren't those stats like 20 years old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:24 PM |
| 5 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?I'm stealing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Character matters for marriage material I think ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Boom roasted them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?Like he has strong conviction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableIs your argument basically "You don't know what was said?" Because that stiffles the conversation.. if not ends it. Neither of you know what they said.. but as a man.. I have to agree with her. At least me and my circle of boys. If we're genuinely interested, we'll appreciate the initiative, and propose an alternate date. I think most men, outside of this subreddit, do that as well. I don't think that's a wild opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableNah, quiet quit while finding a new gig. Have a job before you hunt for one imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableMay I ask why you feel this way? Do you think it can be changed? As in self work, not to sound cliche. Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menWhy are you asking me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menI'm just telling you what science says. Argue with them if you think science is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 12:11 AM |
| 13 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comeThis and most posts on this sub are basically venting, that's something I'm realizing. Lots of venting... and doomer posting. It's the end of the world for men who base their life around getting women. When your world is all about women liking/not liking men, then it prob feels like the world is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menI think his point is that if you're a hot dude, you'll get women over an avg looking man with career/success/money. Not really a good look, citing a fictional movie, but I think that's their point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menThey'd fuck gladiator and marry the Emperor... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menYou're citing two extremes, that most men don't meet. Don't other species outside of humans, have it where the female desires the male with a lot of resources? So not necessarily man made. As far as starving artists etc. That's because they have status. They may not even have status being an artist yet, but if their girlfriend sees them as the next Picasso.... they have Picasso status with her. And the starving artists types, probably have less success than those that have money, career, and suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menWouldn't this be to the benefit of men? Getting in shape in the gym is not that hard, compared to building an entire career, obtaining a high salary, and becoming successful. Eat less, eat mostly protein, lift shit, and do cardio. Get to work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Finances, career and success are overrated for menFinances, career, and success are force multiplliers. None are required for dating, but it makes it a shit ton easier. Money isn't the key to happiness, but it's a good down payment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men do find women their age physically attractive.strawman... my dude how often do you hear someone mention "the wall"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Why are OF models disliked?Imagine showing it all, for two subs, and now the world knows you're on OF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:22 PM |
| – | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?I think it's adorable you think that's what I said. You're gonna LOVE learning how to use critical thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?Where did I say that? Show me. I'll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?I'm not going to bother reading this. You haven't stayed on point once. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Source on your claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingDid you just create a narrative based of your feelings? Usually in a debate the person starting it will initiate with some info/proof. All you did was say what you believed was true. Women don't like be approached by unattractive men. Not all men. Flipping the script won't magically make sexual harassment against women go away. Fam... your logic set concerns me. "it seems like an obvious win-win" LMFAO where? In your magical world where flipping the script eliminated sexual harassment for women?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?If you're not attractive and socially awkward, then work at them ya? You can get in shape and learn how to socialize. Seems simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?Good boy *head pat*. Here's your cookie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?Ya I don't know what the fuck that dude is smoking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?There's ABSOLUTELY a difference between online dating apps and irl approaching women. What in the actual fuck are you even saying right now? "Saying it "skew" men view is the same thing as saying objective reality skew our perception of our surroundings." - No it's not. There are two objective realities. Dating apps and just approaching women in real life. You're objectively incorrect and being obtusely reductionist for the sake of being a pseudo-intellectual. It may impress others, but ya... I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?WRONG. I never associated traditional gender norms to MAGA. I made fun of MAGA types thinking society is trying to physically transition men into women/women into men. Nice try though. But you failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:21 AM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normThat's dope! I wish I could write. It just ends up be a babbling tangent. I feel that. I like chicks that can pop my head with their thighs n shit so ya. Cheers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Conservative/red pill men complain about the degradation of society but partake in it themselvesThen those types of men damage decent women, who get turned into man haters, because they think the fuccboi = what most men are like. Then those men treated like shit by those women, think all women treat men that way... Then LARP being a "bad boy" or "player". It's a vicious cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Conservative/red pill men complain about the degradation of society but partake in it themselvesBRUH... IM SAYING! I'm a guy and I won't lie. I was on the RP line 6-7 years ago. Over time I came to a balanced perspective. I see TRP as corny rage now a days, from men that don't want to do the work to compete. Preface aside, it bugged the shit out of me when these pseudointellectual rp podcasters, couldn't see the hilarious cognitive dissonance in dissing women for being fatherless. Like wtf? How is it a LITERAL baby girl's fault the dad left? And he's bitch made for leaving his BLOOD. Some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Conservative/red pill men complain about the degradation of society but partake in it themselvesThis made me laugh... I don't know if that means im evil or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Conservative/red pill men complain about the degradation of society but partake in it themselvesCognitive dissonance is not uncommon in "The Red Pill". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Where are most men approaching women? Online or IRL?Thx! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:06 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normI mean do you just meet a woman and ask her if she's into succubus stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 10:01 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normThis is starting to make sense when I pull from personal experience. I used to be a medium sized streamer on Twitch. I've dated and am friends with women that have top only fans profiles. The two I dated had goals and were locked in. Both were to get a house, and then rental property. It felt like a means to an end vs a career choice they'd stay in long term because they enjoy it. Thanks! I have more thinking to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:53 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm...hey man uh...w...what's succubus pilled? Asking for a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:45 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normThis is genuinely opening my perspective, thank you. It's much deeper, that I thought. I already though it was deep too. My brain instantly goes to "how do we resolve that root issue?". Trying to identify the issue. It sounds like it's from broken homes be it from sexual, physical, or verbal abuse from parents. Or the R word. I have empathy, while not exactly the same context, I was molested as a child by a trusted male family friend. Therapy helped a lot. It makes me wonder if you or I had a "n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are actually too nice when rejecting men, and should directly tell them exactly what they find unattractive about them when saying noRejection 101 - Regardless of HOW you're rejected, when rejected, hit an about-face 180, and start stepping the opposite way. I know some women play "hard to get', but it's absolutely not worth it in 2025. Those "He was persistent and I fell in love" stories are all but dead in 2025. Just don't. NO means NO. I'm an older millennial but had my nightclub phase. Had friends in security. It's not uncommon for them to throw a drunk guy out because he couldn't about-face 180 and get to stepping, when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:37 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normI've always come from a freedom and liberty perspective. True versions not this MAGA shit. I strongly agree on the sex trafficking portion. My prior job was working in Cybersecurity for a gov agency, in a program specializing in tracking, to track down the dogs who run these trafficking rings. On the subset, with the women who choose it on their own will. Your comment, is that saying that doesn't really exist? And the majority of those OF type models or escorts etc chose the profession due to tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?I'm an idiot. I just realized this has a rule where only women are being asked. I'm a man. I'll stand down on this post. Apologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Forgiving? I'm lost. What's being forgiven. I think I get you but still kinda lost. I should come back when I come back down lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?you lost me, what are you talking about? kinda of high rn. Trying to figure out how it relates to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Ah ok i had you confused with someone else. Back to our convo. In your scenario with me approach, you'd still have friends. I should add I got NC for 6 months usually if I dump someone or reject someone that had hard feelings for me, who was a friend first. If they still want to be friends after that, awesome I'm all in. I think it's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Preface this by saying this is based off of numerous therapy sessions. Per my therapist, NC is prescribed regardless. You need time to heal as the person that has a crush on the other. Once you overcoming it (I agree it has to be overcame), you can decide if you want to be friends still. Some remain friends via false hope. I'd wager a lot. NC is to get rid of the false hope. It's also subjective too. Personally I'm not friends right after breaking up with someone. It feels unfair. Almost as if I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Did you comment on others that you don't have crushes? If so, then not much to discuss when you're not the demographic I'm trying to reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Because most people that mention "THEY'RE TRYING TO MAKE US WOMEN AND WOMEN MEN" tend to lean MAGA. I could be mistaken, if so, my apologies. "so strength is like the only one they say is different. Otherwise we say we are the same." Why are you creating a strawman? I didn't say this. I named one thing. I'm not going to go on an extensive research pursuit to give you 100 examples. Just because I can't name multiple more off the top of my head, doesn't mean my point is invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:52 PM |
| 0 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.hard agree (no diddy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.That's a hint bro... they aren't interested. The man can move on or decide to continue the friendship. And in that case they're a bad friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.I never said you stated that. I gave an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:46 PM |
| 2 | coffee dates not good enough?That counts too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Society has taught us intellectual ability is equal. Medical professional across the country will tell you men are physically stronger overall than women. You have MAGAspeds saying we spent tax dollars on transgenderizing mice, when it was transgenic studies for critical illness curing. I don't actually think they're turning the frogs gay. * Edit - Society gave the general notion that equality exists. Anyone with critical thinking skills can delineate that means things like intelligence. Not man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?I respect it. You're a good soul trying to soothe suffering. Admirable and commendable. You're a good human. Not many of those left these days. I used to spell a lot, alot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”."There are two ways to interpret this. One: men have to read the minds of women to know if they are being lied too. Two: men are not allowed to develop romantic feelings over time. If they do it is proof they lied the whole time." simplifying a complex situation to 2 translations is silly. None of this would need to be performed if you just ask them out from the get go. Men can develop feelings overtime.. they're just not entitled to the outcome to satisfy those feelings. Develop them? Ok ask th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:09 AM |
| 3 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Define the friendzone for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:05 AM |
| 0 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Pho sho. That's what I was getting at with the whole "if she's interested" thing. Maybe I shouldn't use interest and chemistry interchangeably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Eh.. I think they're just being a contrarian + stroking their own ego. LoOk At Me. I DoN'T GeT CruShEs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Ya you're normal. That guy/girl is just flexing he doesn't have crushes at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?prescribing what works for you, may not work for others. Results may vary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Because it's paiful... it's kid of suffering. Stick around being friends, wanting them, then hearing them talk about their man? or getting married? Who would participate in that unnecessary suffering? Dafuq? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?Because both men and women still have some valid truths. It's best to aggregate both, separate the waste, and keep the truths. You know the amount of good advice I got from women that I had 0 interest in dating or were family. Family especially won't lie. They have no romantic interest (unless you're a hillbilly). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 0 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?This is genuinely something I never thought about... nice. Thanks! Def giving me flashbacks of my 20s. I came in CRAZY friendly. Shit changed when I was upfront (respectfully of course). No? Have a blessed day. Keep it moving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?They don't have much prior history, so this doesn't make as much sense really ya? It sounds like basically he asked a stranger out, she rejected him, but tried to let him down easy with friendship. I agree with you, if they had a foundation of friendship before. It sounded like they didn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 2 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Ya. Regardless of gender, nobody likes an inauthentic person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:49 PM |
| 8 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.I think this an exception not the rule. Most women putting men in the friendzone don't care when he gets a GF. I think men consume too much social media, thinking this is the majority rule. It's not. Internet is not real life. It's also a non issue if you're not agreeing to be friends under the false pretenses that it'll maybe be more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:49 PM |
| 4 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.While I agree with, I think the problem is that it's not tribal knowledge for a lot of men. Men have been BOMBARDED with music and media showing you can get into a relationship via being friends. That only works if she's interested. We were taught wrong by media and music. Ultimately I agree.. can't bein the friendzone, if you don't agree to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW.I think pre-ugly he was playing dating irl on veteran difficulty. Post fame I think it is easy-ish dificulty. I don't subscribe too much to comparing myself to others. I just set goals and work. It's a waste of time and energy to check how you're comparing (at least doing it constantly). I think comparison is a tool used to kick yourself in the ass. Motivation. Discipline beats motivation 99.999% of the time. I can freak out about being in quicksand or realize movement makes me sink further... s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:01 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW.TL;DR - He's famous for being ugly, being famous is attractive. The unknown everyday person with similar deformities will most likely have a very hard time dating. I'm guessing he got popular for his ugliness. Fame is a sexual attractor. He's known. He has status. Not much worth in the west, but in Uganda... being famous? That'll probably get you women. Ask any average everyday person that was unfortunately born with physical defects how their romance life has been. I'd bet money the overwhelmin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW.The exception doesn't make the rule... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:37 PM |
| 2 | coffee dates not good enough?I find it alleviates their fear of judgement, when I say "Oh I don't drink, I toke". They relax and see it as vice for vice. I'm not a puritan bro, I just enjoy how I feel high vs drunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | coffee dates not good enough?And that has a worse stigma than drinking. I am the same. I own my own home, make 6 figures, gym, therpay, etc. I don't really drink. The assumptions women had when we met... just because I smoked weed on the regular. but hey for them.. Enjoy the alcoholic bros I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | coffee dates not good enough?Then she's not the right woman. Congrats on filtering out and disqualifying properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | coffee dates not good enough?Coffee, walk in the park, zoo, etc. All not crazy expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:29 PM |
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