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You're just making fun of me now, quoting RedPill 101 as you do 😋 (I dismissed it because she had more extreme hookups with others, as the sex-centered male I am !)
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 06:53 AM
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Maybe you're right: that'd explain that terrible ex who keeps coming back after 11 years... and keeps trying me between each other romantic attempt!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 06:43 AM
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I think women don't deceive men, I think men use women to deceive themselves. Very nicely put. Her love switches from being opportunistic to being idealistic [...] Women can only truly fall in love once in their lifetimes Agreed, too. And having witnessed it, experienced it, which means I have been loved at least a few times (some men don't even have this luxury!)... how much did it drive me nuts that I could NEVER get a girl to become that unicorn again! I'd tell things as simple as "Remember h…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/21 08:53 PM
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I fucking HATE having to be perfect and still being able to eat shit. Man, you can't control people. Neither do I. Learn to be your own best friend, all chicks will palish in comparison. At least I could end this one, beat my dick and call it a night. Hey, see? THIS is positive 😀!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 09:18 AM
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how the fuck can she bite me so hard in the end What you are feeling now is called withdrawal syndrome. When you are with someone for long, some hormones activate in the body, which make you physically ill and depressed when they dwindle. I was on a plane when I felt it for the first time. The only thing is you're feeling it later than her, because she already switched some time ago and "sudden indifference" is an essential tool in the female dating arsenal.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 09:14 AM
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I just ended a 3 year relationship because I fell. You could see it the other way: you had a 3-year relationship, some people don't, some have longer ones that suck = dead marriage. Even better if it was more than 50% good (i.e. the "fall" only lasted for a few months). I couldn’t grasp how the fuck I lost attraction If you cannot figure it now, just don't bother. Maybe later you'll discover she switched her interests, got to know someone, planned a trip with friends... all totally unrelated to …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 09:05 AM
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We’re fucking worthless. [...] Our worth is entirely based on what we can provide. Ever heard of Sweet Dreams (are made of this) ? Besides that, so much negativity. There's what you can provide, and there are circumstances. If you don't want to provide, try to shake circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 08:36 AM
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That's too broad/vague of a question. For the "out of the blue" part; I was playing the as*h*le with a pro acquaitance (being alternatively humorous/rude when she asked for favors), and at some point she dropped "you're acting like you were Christian Grey". Cliché, but a cue of what she was into -a woman never alludes to kinks innocently. I escalated by building my character, and at some point she suggested to drive me home in her car -having only seen me 2ce in person, most happened on texts. w…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 08:52 AM
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I was a bit the same as you. Women, especially those who I started dating in my 30s (either because they where in their 30s themselves, or because I gave this "older" vibe) all brought this Dom/Sub card into play. I was really uncomfortable with it, not so much because I preferred to cuddle or empathize, but just because I wanted to outright jump to sex -and this seemed like an awkward and unnecessary layer of foreplay. But when I saw how it made them go nuts, there was no turning back. I starte…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 01:13 PM
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This I can answer. Female-led families, and mothers especially, often try to decrease their sons' SMV, because they secretly want "their boy" back. They cook too much, give poor dating advice... all in the hope of keeping their spawn in a state of betaness and permanent dependency. Personally, if I had listened to any "mother advice" past 15yo, I would probably still be a cave-dweller virgin. Simply ignore all this shit. Do not even answer. If they do psycho things such as throwing your stuff to…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 01:53 PM
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Love without conditions would be worthless to sexual evolution. [...] women (people) are ultimately self-interested Great point. The problem is that people expect the former, but in reality this is the latter. Why do they expect this? Well, because this leaves them a virtual chance to score, despite their lazyness, shortcomings, and deficiencies (the first being addressable, the middle sort-of, the last one unfortunately not). If Red Pill is right, and you have at most 30% of men getting 90% of …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 06:28 PM
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This (2.): Perhaps the relationship wasted some of her prime years that she could have been on the open market, thus creating more resentment for the relationship. Pretty much every relationship that lasted > 6 months, when I initiated the breakup, the girl told me that I "used her" or "wasted her time". The amount of shortcomings on her side -cheating included- didn't prevent her to make the point. As a previously BP male unaware of female psychology, this surprised me the 2 first times. After …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:55 AM
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How come no one noticed she harbours the thousand-cock-stare ? You don't make a housewife out of a...
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 01:51 PM
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It's hard to find guys that are willing to talk about these topics in the open This is why TRP is so essential. The thing is: Chads and BP men brag all the time. The former because they get pussy, the latter because they don't want to appear desperate and stick to the social narrative. Only honest (autistic) men, a minority, will actually say the truth. Happened to me a few times. But then there is a bias: maybe they are negative because they indeed are, ahem, autistic, and thus unsuccessful wit…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:58 PM
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Sorry for the edit, found myself overwordy, and now can't find it back. Totally agree. And this indeed applies to all areas of life. For instance, doing commissionned job when you already have enough money. So you're just doing it for fun, and can throw a rude client away any time. Flipping the script over them when they try to lure you with vague promises, realize it doesn't work, and try very amusing alternate ways to appease you :). At the end, not caring is key for getting to the bottom of a…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:49 PM
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After going through similar shit, I strongly needed TRP to verify it was, indeed, a pattern. The dissonance between the social narrative and first-hand experience was so enormous, and most men so unwilling to address the topic IRL, that I would probably still be wondering if I was just "unlucky" or cursed.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:28 PM
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Nope, told I'll leave. Sorry for that, didn't seem elegant in english.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:50 PM
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Sure, nothing to lose here. I just want to imply the thing without being too upfront. I already refused money by ignoring the text; we stopped texting since. My idea was to disappoint first: say I come or she comes, chit-chat a bit, then say I have to go (flip the script on 3rd visit).Turn on the oven. Wait. If she still doesn't "get" it, there comes your option :).
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:28 PM
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First meaningful answer, addressing the full context here. Already envisioned, definitely confirmed as last-chance-move now. Wish I could double-upvote!
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:03 PM
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"go for it" won't cut it brah. It's more how to "go for for it" without ticking all the bullet points ^^.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:57 PM
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red flags rivaling the soviet union LMFAO this one :D
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:48 PM
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Not the question, I know; by what is actually written on your shirt ? "Don't Pump Take The Money..." ?
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:07 PM
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Focus on yourself rather than Thotiana upstairs. Then aim a littler higher. This is good generic advice; my question was more strategic and contextual, though. Thx anyway.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 11:14 AM
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I'm trying to work with what I get. You could consider it a challenge. Your advice is generally good though, so thanks anyway.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 11:09 AM
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Yeah. Hence why I said "you'd pull on a LTR only". LTRs providing you with comfort sex is good though, definitely not 100% common, and what I'd actually expect from a LTR. Thus, can't really blame you for playing nice here .
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 03:34 AM
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There have been times when I told a women "I'm finished" without actually coming. This always happened when sex was unsatisfying (not doing what I like, not into it, not responsive...). I always made sure they noticed: you'd see the dread on their face, this shit is gold on a chick you just met. I suppose "fake orgasms" are the same, just pretending you came (by hiding the condom as @RompeChocha suggests). It is IMHO a beta move, which you'd pull on a LTR only, to avoid hurting feelz.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 09:59 AM
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Ho OK, thanks the clarification. I just didn't take the ""she got truly sad" thing seriously. Not the type of girl I'm used to. "she stopped being friends with anyone that drinked alcohol on weekends". This is pretty extreme. I get why you would consider her a unicorn; and ye more, why you would be disappointed by her cheating. (PS: I dated a pretty religious girl, who also cheated on me)
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 05:25 PM
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IMOE, all this "no drugs, no alcohol" BS qualifies as shits tests + ASD (acronym porn here, do I earn a prize ?). Personally, in early texting, I just disregard the topic. I don't A&A these, results have been mixed: You risk walking into her frame by playing sobriety, and scaring her by playing cocky. Then if I successfully game the girl, she often comes back to topic, though in a more cheerful way ("together, we could try..."). And after reaching the goal, I generally discover she has tried lot…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 04:47 PM
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Hey man; have nothing of value to add, but this was a very good comment. I'll have a look at this book.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 09:02 PM
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♂ Forcing yourself to text when you're busy, so you're forced to be concise and natural. This is very good ! Already did explicit fore play before meeting, never during first contact though. Felt like she wanted it, did not cave, not sure was would have happened here.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:11 AM
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I thought about it again, and now I think you're probably right. Previous text approach was very concise (not more > 2 texts/day), it escalated well though. I should have defined that as "her style" and applied it to the convo.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:03 AM
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♂ Thanks, that's what I planned to do. She'll come back if she doesn't find better elsewhere, and then it'll be easier -unless I mess up.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:41 PM
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♂ Thanks again, I get it. My brain understands it logically. Logically, still, it wonders how it will be able to manage so many of what it considers petty details...
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:24 PM
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Talking about drinking/drugs/past life 100% disagree here. She asked it, and it lead to best part of convo. You came off as needy and desperate when she wanted to hang up and you talked her into staying on the phone. ♂ Wouldn't have said "needy and desperate", but I admit I got this part wrong : Oh my god, it's so late ! I'm unemployed but BLAHBLAH - No problem BLAH I couldn't believe she could be bored and took it literally. It didn't even cross my mind before the next day, convinced I was only…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:58 PM
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♂ Thanks, man. So this is option 2 : "Voice chat was too long". Yes, the "anything can happen" part happened between 1h30-2h. I should have left shortly after, instead of letting her cool down.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:07 PM
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You're saying this as if people, overnight, decided to become greedy and selfish. I agree with you for the most part, but am trying to bring what I think is the last missing piece to your reasoning. Look : a few years ago, I would have agreed with you. Now I'm just asking : what does your "nobility" buy me ? I tried to be "noble", but was fucked over and over by people who weren't ! You may think that I'm playing devil's advocate, but I'm not. I really think, right now, that caring and noble peo…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:39 PM
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Then you have this whole "NEET" generation which is essentially overgrown man children whose parents coddled and sheltered them to the point where they never developed any social skills. How is a person like this going to carry on the torch of their ancestors when they're having a literal meltdown over a video game and can't even muster the self-discipline to complete higher education, some workforce training, or even simply just getting an entry level job somewhere? Great comment. But even with…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 09:12 PM
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Women never love your "real self" anyways. I think that OP realizes this (otherwise they would have fucked him earlier, don't they ?). He knows they only get horny for Chad, and would like to have them horny at least once. But now that he got status, they flock for the status, and he cannot be sure anymore. The world can be a very ugly place sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:56 PM
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Very good advice, thanks Deapluv. Meanwhile, she already texted having been once "naked at home" with BetaOrbiter1, without actually having sex; which is a very lame way of trying to light my jealousy without risking too much. I'll wait one day until she chills out, and then apply this. Nothing to lose after all !
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:28 PM
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I do not deny that. I don't deny comfort tests' usefulness either, but what's the point passing them when the girl already drove that far into this road ? I mean, I could eventually get her back to her previous behavior, but persistent suspicion would ruin the whole experience anyway.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 02:19 PM
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I second the "demo chapter" idea. This will get you the most sincere feedback, and also bring value to the sub as well as having pre-sale teasing potential.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 09:10 AM
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Curious about what ? Such girls are funny, but they are also loaded guns. If she got a random chad to impregnate her before -knowing he would go poof, as he cleverly did- then she can do it again. And you might not be as lucky. You don't want to play with them unless you are abroad and with enough money or connections to afford a return flight any time. I'd never bang such bitches "at home" personally.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 08:46 AM
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Wow. Totally respect what you went through, and thanks a lot for sharing. I couldn't really help him, you know; I'm a foreigner with no stable connections there -only party pals. Any official would consider me with suspicion. And, to not give the impression that I'm making it easy for me: went through serious shit -not as much as you- but my compassion is out of stock. Lots of people trying to take advantage of it. Women, "friends", all double-faced. And now it's all gone. I simply don't care en…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:16 PM
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I'm sure you're well-intentioned, bro; but you should not report her unless you personally know someone who would take good care of the kid. Otherwise, you're just lessening your moral burden, while transferring the problem to random (mildly competent) people.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:44 PM
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aanarchist, you are totally spot on: she has a childlike mentality. I couldn't explain it right, and there you come; done in five words! And you know what ? That's why she is funny, still extreme in bed, And also why she is a mess I wouldn't, on my life, bring to my place. Me, "saving" this child, though ? Come on. That's not how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:36 PM
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As I like your way of thinking vengefully_yours, and because I also like a bit of comforting from time to time... I'll list here, and not anywhere else, the reasons of me plowing her: sex is awesome. She's open to pretty much anything; I had a cougar fetish for long now. Done; she knows all bars and clubs in town. Brings me to cool places; she's actually fun to hang around with, given you treat her like a bro and not a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:29 PM
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I pity her. I wouldn't take care of her in any way, though. Because she would suddenly stop being "nice" to me if I did.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:17 PM
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Thanks guys. But I already got burned before, and now everything is covered. Can even leave the country in 12 hours if needed (yup it's foreignland).
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:12 PM
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Haha, that's a good point :) ! Didn't think of that; feeling a lot less sorry now !
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 02:07 PM
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She'll get desperate enough to snatch up captain-save-a-ho or slowly fade away. That's what I think, too ; really wonder which option she'll choose. She does not seem able to "act" enough to sell herself to Beta Bob. Even saying "hi!" repulses her. In some way it's unfair, because she puts the lesser burden on men's shoulders, but gets the worst outcome. (as my answer may show, I care for her in some way; but as you know, cannot go further without getting caught in the drama...)
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 01:47 PM
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Ha, that's the misunderstanding : I don't care about being alpha. I have my own criteria for what I want to be. When I mention "alpha game", it's merely a technique I employ. Plus I don't care knowing if RP works, because in this case, my technique -having some RP elements- worked anyway. This post is not about my eventual self-improvement; but the girl's life choice, the frequency of such a lifestyle you can encounter, etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:58 PM
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In fact, it's more like, around 19 times this week. I can understand you getting the number wrong, though; it might have naver happened to you before.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:41 PM
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Thanks. Brief; but that's the kind of feedback I want.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:20 PM
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What is "true" ? I'm not saying anything about this girl is "good" or "bad". Ok, I say her life is in a "bad" shape, but that's all. I'm just interested in seeing if people had a similar experience; if they did, if they came to a similar conclusion; if not, where my analysis might be flawed. You are of course free to judge the context; it has no value to me, though.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:14 PM
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eventually she may see the OP actions as taking advantage of her while she was grieving, though she was a co-conspirator the entire time This is exactly, 90% sure, what will happen when the embarassment becomes too much for her, and her "lover" not as valuable as he used to be. The main reason why he fucked up by upgrading her to girlfriend status, worse than advertising thirstiness and losing his friends, is in fact that it puts him at her mercy. And we all know here that women tend to redirect…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 08:56 PM
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Physically, my cousin and me resemble each other; and his girlfriend, as I noticed more than once, is also attracted to me. Which is not surprising, given how sexual attraction works. Last time we met in a family venue, she went as far as going directly to me, initiating some kino while telling me how my cousin was "disappointing" her lately... The poor guy was going through some depression. AWALT. Anyway, this is purely sexual and thus amoral. Would I fuck her with my cousin alive ? Not on my l…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:19 PM
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I was told earlier that I have to work for everything I hope to get. Instead I realize this at 25 Man, I realized this at 30. You should consider yourself very lucky. Most men of today will never know the truth; our grandparents' generations didn't need to know anything, because life was pre-played for you back then (life-long career/life-long marriage/3+kids). My impression is that you're depressed because, now that you know the brutal truth, you think you cannot measure up. You definitely can.…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:40 PM
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Supernatural ? We cannot know. Maybe it creates its own rules, or it obeys a subset of the natural rules we know of... Creator origin ? Motives ? You're going too far, we do not even know its very essence, these questions are unanswerable. When I say "God", think of it as a closed box, with "Created the universe" written on it. You cannot open the box, but it was required at some point. The box may even have disappeared in between, with the universe now running entirely on its own ;).
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 06:25 PM
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You're saying that God may very well not resemble what mass-market religions sell us : the mix of a benelovent saviour (Christianism) and a vengeful assessor (Judaism). I agree with you, but this is NOT atheism : remember, Atheists believe that God does not exist and they have to disprove its very existence. You are not doing that; instead, you're positioning yourself more as a "questioning agnosticist". Personally, I think it is very probable the entity called "God" exists (the probability of s…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:26 AM
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Ochlocracy seems to be what you're describing -and where we tend to go lately. It's basically democracy where the majority consists in easily-manipulated jerks with no idea of common good.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:35 PM
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This, Sir, is what I call a very good and practical advice ! Despite our mutli-secular rivalry -but come on, it's as ridiculous as wearing a beret in 2015 - I planned to visit your beautiful country soon. When I do, I'll make sure to check these places by myself :-). Kudos to you ! ♂
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:04 AM
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Having never been in the US, I have a real problem comparing the situation with Europe ; my reading of TheRedPill has depainted a rather apocalyptic situation from a male-LTRer point of view, but not any eventual good side of things. However, I can pretty much agree with your 1) and 3). Women tend be more relaxed (very few false rape accusations) and to want to settle down even during their early 20's. 2) tends to be true in Southern Europe (Spain, Italy, Greece... I ) but not so much in Norther…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:26 PM
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In that case, I guess an environment has to be very-very liberal (at least more than mine) to allow obvious cougar behavior. I have yet to find the "perfect cougar environment" © :-).
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:12 PM
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So this emphasizes her eventual inability to "lock down" men as a terrible flaw, as DanReggins said below. Thanks. ♂
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:08 PM
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The question was more about what motivates cougars than about what they do, and what motivates men who do not want them, but thanks for the "locking down" thing ; I reused it in another message. ♂
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:05 PM
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So this says that even if a cougar may seem to dominate a relationship, she advertizes low self-esteem because she admits that she gets men she is unable to "lock down" - as drrtyfrrnr said below (which underlines that "locking down" is recognized as a very feminine quality... depressing. How can this gender be so nefarious ?) Thank you, this makes sense. ♂
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:02 PM
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Thanks a lot for sharing ! So you think younger men have little more to offer them than older ones ? Interesting. It may be true, given that women generally disregard looks but valorize other things (money, social position, reputation...) for which a younger male won't compete. This makes sense, thank you. ♂
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:50 PM
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