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I don’t think it’s rp, it’s either your personality or the personalities around you. Sorry. I wonder if there is a bit of self awareness you are lacking. Either that or like others said, you’re just in high school and people are jerks
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 01:46 AM
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Sex, food, sleep, and space. Usually does it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 07:37 AM
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How do you express your feminine energy in your home? I'm very curious about exploring that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 05:31 AM
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Hey, your parents sound just like my parents. I'm going to try not to be too harsh but I also think you need a bit of a wake up call to do with them. I know I am indebted to my parents in ways I can never repay: they gave me life, they paid for my food, clothing, shelter, & even dance classes while I was growing up. You realize that almost all of those things are either inherent of parenthood (giving you life) or mandatory and enforced by child services, right? I'm not saying you can't be gratef…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:50 AM
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Food in the oven, house is clean, bed made, and giving him some space.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:41 AM
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I would draw the line at leaving nail clippings on the sofa. It's one thing to have an unconscious or compulsive habit, but it's another to leave nail clippings on furniture. And him asking you why it's a big deal to you, frankly, sounds like him playing stupid. But I always try to assume good intent, so if that is entirely unintentional I would just quietly tell him that it really bothers me when I want to sit down but I can't because there are clippings everywhere. You don't want to become a n…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:36 AM
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Realizing that rejecting it and trying to "do it all" by myself was affecting my husband in a negative way. And realizing that I actually have a lot of fun getting dressed, doing my hair, and letting someone else take care of things for me. I was hellbent on being an "independent woman" for a long time because that's how I was raised. Now I'm learning how to accept help and to let him support me and how good that can feel.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 03:03 AM
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He was interested from 6 months in. He was born to settle down. Marriage, house, kids, he wanted all of it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/18 06:49 PM
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It’s weird but today I’m thankful that I have a house to clean. I actually kind of enjoy cleaning now that it’s my very own house and not a rental.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/18 06:48 PM
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If he has a pattern of seeming rude, inconsiderate, or materialistic then maybe ditch him. If this is a one time thing maybe its just a nice scarf and he doesn’t trust someone else with it. Caring about how much money you’ve invested in something isn’t a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 02:28 PM
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Lose 10 more pounds Yoga Meditation Clean the whole house, deep clean the kitchen Whiten teeth Stay hydrated
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/18 04:09 PM
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I remember why I'm being healthy and remind myself that I would hate to be fat or sick because of bad eating. And remember that if I want to be average, I can do what everyone else is doing. But I don't want to be average, I want to be the best version of myself that I can be, and that demands doing difficult things and straying from the pack.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 05:36 PM
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Yes!!! I hang out at /r/eroticauthors a lot because r/romanceauthors is generally very slow. I also joined my local RWA chapter recently and it’s okay, though I feel odd because I’m the youngest person there by 10 years so idk if I’m gonna go back I’m always looking for romance writer friends! I am also self published :P
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 12:37 AM
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I’m a huge fan and I started writing romance about a year ago. For me it helps me get in touch with my feminine/submissive side. I live a very “masculine” life otherwise and I miss that part of myself if I go too long without tapping into it. It’s the same reason I love cooking elaborate meals and baking. I can see how for some people they could be bad but for me they are almost like therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 12:16 AM
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I also write romance!!! Hello!
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 12:15 AM
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Quinoa, shrimp, and veggies.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 12:11 AM
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Thanks, this gives me something to think about. I definitely want a self-made man and not, like, a trust fund baby or anything like that. He doesn't even need to make as much money as I do, I just want him to be ambitious and to care about his future. Good luck in your pursuit of that respected job with stable $! I know first hand how much it means to have that after being poor during childhood.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 05:27 AM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 05:22 AM
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That's very fair. I don't really want to inflate my lifestyle with additional income. I want to invest it. I "capped" my lifestyle about a year ago and although I make more now than I did then, my lifestyle has stayed the same and my savings rate has increased. I'm not sure what I'm saving up for. Early retirement? To go full-freelance and be able to take vacations and sabbaticals when I want to? I'm not sure yet, and I've got a little time to figure that out. I'm fine working this job until I f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 05:21 AM
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Yeah feel free! I am happy to help.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/18 03:41 PM
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I do, and that concerns me a little bit. I don't need a man to make more money than I do, but I've heard of men not liking women who make more money than they do. I'm 25.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 05:34 AM
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I’m also a remote software engineer and I have to say, it’s amazing being able to work at home from my computer. And the pay is incredible. If you’re into computing, or even design, check it out. I’m a front end engineer so I get to work on the UI and flex my design muscles too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 09:27 PM
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Aww congrats! It just seems like cheese to you but it’s the small stuff
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 09:23 PM
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1) Yoga 2) Pedicures 3) Indian head massage 4) Making fresh sparkling lemonade at home 5) Baking chocolate chip cookies 6) Taking hours to do my hair and makeup really pretty before a date
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:30 AM
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I don't do the silent treatment. You just need your space and don't want to talk? I can give you that, 100%. But if you're giving me the silent treatment to manipulate me instead of just telling me what you need or what I did to bother you, then gtfo.✌️ Again, the silent treatment isn't the same thing as just needing space to cool off and not feeling like talking about it, which I can respect. The silent treatment is passive-aggressive, manipulative bullshit that is a huge turn off.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 02:44 AM
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He somehow can fix anything. Even if he's never fixed something like it before, he always manages to figure it out through a combination of googling, calling his dad, and cussing at it until it works, hahaha. It's incredible. He's saved us so much money on repairs and replacements because he always ends up fixing it and making it last longer. My friends are spending thousands on car repairs and new appliances and house repairs all the time, but not us. I really appreciate that. When he loses his…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 05:05 PM
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I think it might take longer than a month to fix whatever was broken. I would back off and try to take the pressure off of your sex life. Be open and inviting and sweet, keep yourself up, all of that. But generally back off and let him come to you. When it does happen, just enjoy yourself. Don't worry about the way you look, the sounds you're making, the way you're responding to him. If you're anxious and over-thinking, it shows. If you're already worrying about the next time you'll get to be th…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 07:48 PM
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We don't do a lot of gift giving, if we do it's usually one item each. He collects pocket knives so lately I've been looking for an antique civil war era knife. But I'm always afraid to try to buy things for his collections since I don't always know what is interesting to him. Or those special little details that he has memorized by heart that I don't. But I'm trying and I figure it's the thought that counts. :) Sex toys are always fun, too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 07:23 PM
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This is seriously immature. All of it. First of all, if a guy is distant the answer is _not_ to double down on attention-seeking behavior. A guy ignores you and is disinterested and your response is to send him nudes? For real? What the hell are you thinking? And then he responds with disinterest and comments like "your butt is white" (lol wtf) and you continue to pursue him. I don't understand that at all. First, don't send guys who act like they do not care nudes. Second, don't sleep with guys…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 07:16 PM
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My husband and I both wfh and even though he says he doesn’t care I notice that he responds to me differently when I’m dressed nice, hair done, with makeup. He says he hates when I wear makeup but his reaction to it says otherwise. It’s all about balance, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 11:01 PM
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Does it make things smell and taste like vinegar?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 08:51 PM
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We are very good at fighting, and finances. When we fight, we're really good at staying calm and fighting fairly. No personal attacks or name calling, no yelling. When we get heated, we know how to walk away and come back. We didn't used to be good at this. I used to get really emotional and cry or yell. We still slip up now, but we're really good at vocalizing feelings in calm words now instead of blurting them out in the moment in their raw emotional forms. ​ With finances, we've just always b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 06:51 PM
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I think you need to leave him, and get therapy to investigate why you might have found 2 abusive men in a row. Abuse isn't your fault, but sometimes we - especially those of us whose parents were abusive - find ourselves sucked into the lives of other abusers. There are so many good men in this world. He is not one of him. Please put yourself first and leave him, There is no reason you need to try to talk yourself into staying with him or come up with things that make up for his abusive (yes, ab…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:46 AM
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I’m going to be totally honest here, so if that is not what you want to read then skip this and move on. You sound like you’re in denial and I think you need to snap out of that. Nobody around you is going to tell you that you’re fat. They’re going to sugar coat it or outright lie. Idk your height, but unless you’re 6’5” or something, 225 is enormous. You are obese and need to lose weight if only for your healths sake. Turning heads is the least of what you should be thinking about. Have some pr…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 07:27 PM
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Did you find it difficult to fit that into the budget, and did your partner have an issue with the cost?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 07:29 PM
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I keep up with politics. I try not to talk about them in the company of people I don't know very well, but it's something I care about a lot. While I understand those who would rather stay out of politics, I wouldn't say that nothing positive comes from talking about it. In fact I think talking about issues and staying engaged and informed is one of the most empowering things you can do, and something my generation (millennial) could do much more of. What makes things...interesting...is that my …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 04:22 AM
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Amazon is your best friend.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 04:27 AM
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I was honestly just kinda like “ummm ok. Bye” because I was so shocked she reacted like that. Because she ASKED ME to give her advice! I would just leave the issue alone and let the evidence stand for what it is - that you live your life every day like a good person, and she doesn’t. Most intelligent people are able to observe that and draw their own conclusions and it sounds like the people who matter are already on your side.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 02:40 AM
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I've been with my husband for almost 10 years now, so I can pretty much read his mind AND I can predict when he's getting sick. He will always deny he is sick until it turns into the fucking plague or something - that'll never change, I know. :) But by now, I can see it coming on and I stock up on all of his favorite stuff, the exact brand of cough drops he likes since most brands give him a stomach ache, etc. I really enjoy knowing him so well that I can do this stuff for him. Nobody knows him …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 05:21 AM
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Oh my god. Nearly the same thing happened to me, minus the job. I’ve been with my SO for nearly a decade and his parents treat me like a daughter, which is lovely. His brother got a girlfriend a couple of years ago and the difference between how she was treated vs me was hard not to notice. Like at Christmas I’d have a pile of presents from them and they’d give her a single re-gifted basket of lotions. Or they’d exclude her from family events, or they’d not talk to her at all and be familiar wit…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 03:34 AM
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Love yourself enough to do that work. I know that you can do this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:58 PM
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A lot of people feel like once they lose weight, THEN they'll have self respect and will be more confident, etc etc. But self respect comes first. When you respect yourself, you want to take care of yourself. When you hold yourself in high esteem, you raise your standards and you start to want to take care of your body, to feed it well, to hydrate it, etc. There's no diet in the world that's going to give you discipline and self-respect. You need to think about why you think it's okay to treat y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:21 PM
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To be honest I think men just enjoy teasing us about this stuff sometimes. Sometimes I think our feminine habits (and woes!) make them feel...idk, like more of a man? "Oh you silly woman and your hair problems!" You know? Some people really enjoy the contrasting roles, and things like hair and makeup can draw attention to the contrast. If you were to look in my bathroom right now you'd see a countertop covered in bottles and sprays of all shapes and sizes. It baffles my husband. He doesn't under…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 02:44 AM
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Yeah I saw a friend from high school when I was out yesterday with my husband. We're both 25 and graduated the same year. She has nothing going for her in life - still living with her mom, graduated college but without any marketable skills, and because of this, still working the same waitress job she had when she was in high school. On top of this she acted really immature and...idk, just goofy, like we used to act in high school. She's also gained a lot of weight and puts no effort into her ap…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 12:35 AM
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For about the first 9 months, we never fought, he was very romantic, we wanted to spend every second together. He never had issues complimenting me or sharing his emotions. That's not sustainable anyways regardless of the quality of your relationship or compatibility. Don't compare the present to the honeymoon phase. He flat out told me that he puts in less effort because he sees the relationship differently. He doesn't care about keeping you if he's willing to say that to you. He doesn't care w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 12:21 AM
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I don't usually say anything about hair or clothes unless I think he might be over/underdressed for an occasion or specific venue. And usually for things like that, he will actually ask my opinion on the matter. I'll ask him if he wants my opinion. He's free to say no. Usually he says yes, and I just tell him. But there are some opinions that simply don't need to be shared. The choices he makes are often a reflection of who he is, and I agreed to love him unconditionally, exactly for who he is. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:24 PM
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It is hard and I am still learning. Meal prepping and shaving time off of chores whenever possible is essential. Outsource any labor that you can afford to. Optimize. Order your groceries online, hire a maid, whatever you can do to scale back the responsibilities at home that you do not enjoy the most - or at least become more efficient at them. Also, do not aim for perfection. Do not set impossible standards. Because what happens when you do that, is you inevitably FAIL and feel insecure and up…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:11 PM
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Yeah I find it is best that I stay out of these excursions unless 1.) other people are bringing wives/kids and 2.) I know that it will not be a very long trip
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:07 PM
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Oh, I've gone before, as well as fishing and other outdoors things. We love to hike and travel to national forests and state parks. And we shoot clay pigeons together at least once a year. I will go hunting with him if other people are bringing their wives and children. But hunting with the guys in his family, which is what these trips are most of the time, I never go with him. He has never asked me to, and I've never asked. If I ask him anything, it's "Why don't you take some time off of work a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:06 PM
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I’ll hold him, listen to him and stroke his hair, not interrupt him, when he pauses say things like “that’s a lot for a person to deal with” or “it sounds like you’re feeling really angry/sad” and stuff to help prod him along without asking a bunch of prying questions. I say very very little, because the less that I say, the more he does. And then I spend the rest of the day being very sweet to him and I don’t mention it again unless he brings it up.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:37 AM
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Scalp massages Shoulder massages Foot massages Cooking for him - esp his favorite meal or a dessert Bringing him lunch at work Washing all of his clothes and putting them up for him (we usually do this together) Getting him something special at the grocery store, like a bottle of his favorite soda or a six pack of beer. We don't keep soda or beer in the house normally, so it's like a treat. Getting home before him, getting showered and dressed up, and having something good-smelling cooking as he…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 08:44 PM
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Yes, it's resolved itself. I gave him space and that very same night he insisted we go exchange it and then we got dinner. He was in a fantastic mood. He also googled the item number and saw that nearly everyone else who bought this piece had the same frustration and that seemed to cheer him up. Usually I would fret and pester him and this time I gave him space and it's amazing how fast the turnaround in his mood was this time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 08:40 PM
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That is what we do with her. :) But she still inexplicably listens to me and is perfect for me in the bath and an absolute MONSTER for him. My personal opinion is that she can sense his weakness. I'm the tough one, he's the one who will melt if she gives a pitiful whine and looks at him with sad puppy face. He's a sucker, and she knows it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 08:37 PM
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I also feel like a style chameleon. But one thing that has always stayed the same is my love for wearing my hair long and stick-straight. Even though that's not the popular style anymore I still love it and so does my husband. I also tend to wear a lot of red, purple, black, and white. Most other colors make me look sallow. I used to hate wearing dresses and skirts but I'm coming around - especially in the heat of Texas summer, they can be so much more comfortable. I like tight jeans and basic c…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 12:12 AM
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Blind cleaning is no joke and neither is cooking buildup! It IS sort of humorous. Sometimes I think men underestimate certain chores until they try to attempt them themselves. For instance my husband can't bathe our dog. She doesn't listen to him at ALL and he ends up soaking wet himself. The dog behaves perfectly for me in the bath and it makes much more sense for me to bathe her always, but sometimes he just insists and is determined that THIS TIME is going to be different. Lol. Thank you for …
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 12:03 AM
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My husband and I have only ever been with each other, and have been together for nearly a decade. If anyone should be getting bored, it's us. There is the idea that if you haven't had multiple partners, you haven't really explored enough and will always feel unfulfilled - which is BS. While there is an ebb and flow, I don't think either of us have really been "bored". It's always been a good time and we've always had a lot of sex, maybe every other day during the work week, and everyday or multi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:38 PM
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