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GeneralOld-Condition-119/r/MensRights18/05/23 10:15 PM
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I'm on board with this, ending a relationship even with someone you love and who loves you can hard never mind an abusive relationship. Good shit.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 06:09 PM
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If you love a woman for who she was... lets say you knew each other since being kids. She had no attractiveness rating as a child but as she grew up became like a natural no makeup 3. Your yourself are a natural little effort 7 or 8. Lets say you are dating and other girls keep making comments on how you get a prettier girl, though you never leave that woman because you're in love with who she is and want to marry her one day. A problem arises, because "pretty privilege" is such a thing (or shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:21 PM
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OR WE COULD STOP BEING SO SHALLOW THEN IT DOESNT MATTER
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:52 PM
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I was a stripper for a bit, that job sucked ass. Everyone's having a shit time. Different people value different people. Corporations probably value men more cos they don't need maternity leave. Men value women more cos they can give them more than a bro can. It's all in the eye of the beholder. To me men are more valuable cos women are often arseholes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:05 AM
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Women put up with some right shit and watching men have life while they sit at home with a nasty period or pregnancy or screaming child is some of that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:45 PM
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The tooth fairy
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:19 PM
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I'm glad you say this, that I'm not getting loads of people telling me : "yeah me too this is our role as "loser sluts" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:17 PM
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Am I the only girl that just feels really vulnerable? like just gets taken advantage of by guys who are absolute PRICKSSSSSSS. Getting hot is a dangerous game, dating is dangerous. I have literally given up. I enjoyed being hot for the sake of just feeling confident and it got me in so much trouble, to the point people blamed ME for men's poor behaviour towards me. Not joking I've hardly met any decent guys, even the "nice guys" turned out to be arsholes under their masks. They would get angry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:34 PM
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It appears men actually have the more desired metabolism
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:37 PM
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Okay. I'm just going to do a list of women's biologoical issues linked to just being a woman. I wrote a paragraph but had a technical issue so gonna go for list format now. I've hand picked all the links making sure they cover points I believe are important. I'm not going to drill on about HOW painful anything is I'm just going to lay out the facts of if something is dangerous or uncomfortable, I'm not gonna milk the labour pains and period pains shit, although I could, cos shit a human coming o…
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:03 PM
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What the hell is the "facebook thing" she posted to? I'm a woman from UK, and I know we have multiple things like clares law, ask for angela, ask for ani and possibly other code words for abuse. I also googled how to check if a man is safe and got some wiki how, little check list of red flags sort of thing, like a quiz. How can she be sure these women would be reliable? How does it make you ok? Imagine going on this facebook thing to get the all clear to only get the shock of your life that the …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 04:01 PM
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I think it's important to still practice self awareness. I think being as open as you like is cool, as long as the time and place is reasonable. As for being more closed off, be aware you're relying on people to read your non verbals which may be difficult if who your with is autistic or drunk or doesn't know you well. I think the lack of tact is what puts people off. I think both parties should be open, but both be conscious not to "dump" or "project".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:23 PM
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As much as you wanna be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:44 AM
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Some victims blackmail their rapists, so gotta tot them in too Edit - they don't report
/r/MensRights27/05/23 07:31 PM
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TLDR. But responding to title- I prefer guys who aren't unhealthy because I don't want to be influenced to be unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:22 PM
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Depression
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:31 PM
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Why? Edit - why, do you think they're doing that, and not to the girls? What is the difference?
/r/MensRights27/05/23 03:53 PM
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I'm not saying it's right I'm just saying this could be the argument for it jesus. Why else would they have the girls open more than the boys? Have you got a better idea as to why they're doing it? Fricking hell you people.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 03:52 PM
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I'm not saying anyone should NOT have access to a bathroom I'm just explaining WHY the school is doing what they're doing
/r/MensRights26/05/23 03:07 PM
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I think it might be because of the urgency with periods and the fact that a girl can start leaking and will need to get to bathroom pronto to prevent blood from getting everywhere. It's gross but true. At that age periods are often really infrequent and heavy and many girls are not used to dealing with them, this might be the real reason, and if they didn't have periods, would have the same rules as you.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 03:30 AM
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Maybe they picture these men in a shopping mall on Christmas Eve... Niceness doesn't get the last Lego mega bricks for poor little Timmy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:01 PM
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Men are automatically less desirable than women cos women aren't as horny. Women are fully aware of it too, men will sooner go on 2 dates with a less value woman to secure sex or a relationship rather than 8 dates with a higher value woman, as he becomes inpatient. Women have more patience with this and higher stakes- child birth! They are being picky because they can be (patience) and because they should be (child birth). I don't really wanna bring abuse and or violence into it really cos I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:32 PM
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I think both are right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:08 PM
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I think you're both right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:05 PM
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Sending love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:46 PM
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Not cool, sorry OP. You could press charges if you want or at least report it. I dunno how easily you bruise but it sounds a bit violent and worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:34 AM
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That's why I bring it up cos while I'd say the most important thing is dealing with how I feel about my body , that may factor in to my decision. Having breast implants makes having a child a no go, unless I want to pay for extra surgery to remove the implants before pregnancy. Pregnancy ruins that sort of breast augmentation. There will be no pregnancy or job though if I'm starving myself cos I hate my masculine body, so if getting breast implants helps me to stop restricting my food then I'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:31 PM
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At the time of getting them I was a sex worker, if you're saying that in the sense that it would actually turn men off... I dunno I'd probably still get them cos I really was battling myself to be ok with my body, it was either get some boobs or die of anorexia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:46 AM
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some women are more money motivated, some are more sex motivated, some are more power oriented (want a man who's submissive and controlled), some are trauma motivated (they are controlled by their trauma to go for guys who emulate the opposite or mirror image of their abuser), most are safety orientated. Depending on a person's priority, they may budge on other stuff so long as their main desire is there. Eg- ugly guys looks are waived as he has the money she is more bothered about or the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:35 PM
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I thought of something like this before but it was more of a family organiser app than anything else, where house members can assign, swap and notify each other on chores. Say you have a busy house and the laundry needs taking out, hanging and Dad is meant to take it out, but Son gets home first and does it for him- he could then open the app and take dads chore of "empty washing machine" meaning dad gets a little notification while just finishing work "1 chore claimed away, by son" ... what a r…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 09:23 PM
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:) I wish women weren't seen as a commodity similar to a car, or promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:48 PM
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just used to being targeted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:46 PM
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Women taking accountability for men's sex drive. Yeah it's also instilled in men to take accountability for women's lack of sex drive too. We should all take accountability for other people's behavior and not our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:43 PM
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are they chihuahuas? the white fur baby looks like one, both look super cute btw <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:04 PM
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DOG PICS YES!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:02 PM
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not really gonna get them anywhere is it :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:01 PM
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There could be a safety issue there sadly 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:04 AM
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I'm picturing 4 dogs called dog1, dog2, dog3, dog4 A guy near mine has some dogs called beans and toast 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:56 AM
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I thought of menstrusaur, bleedy, lacti, aneamee, at first I thought of BP double D but I dunno if that's offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:55 AM
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Now we need some names
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:03 AM
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Infantilizing- that sums it up :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:24 AM
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Most stuff I see on here is just red pill deep down, horny frustrated guys not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:22 AM
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So that's why men are doing the approaching, they're just hornier and more driven?? Of course there's a higher demand for women then. The part I feel is painting men to be cunts is where you talk about they use women to place hold and will have multiple women at a time and it makes women sound like pokemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:21 AM
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I enjoy dressing up, my implants are for me to feel less fat, and less masculine- I'm going for a conventionally attractive look in the male gaze and female gaze. I create my self in my own image of what I interpret as beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:21 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ this just paints men as massive aresholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:17 PM
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Ok, she's not very hot headed or full of attitude. I know what you mean though, you're entitled to your own opinions. I dunno what anyone gets from arguing lies on the internet but ok. I don't hate men btw I hope you don't hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:16 PM
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Yeah it's the lady I mentioned earlier, if you're interested to ask her about working in a male dominated workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:13 PM
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Life, by accident
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13jnew3/what_is_sexualization_if_sexualization_is_based/jkgnn6j?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:07 PM
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Scroll down in this thread and ask her yourself mate 🧡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:04 PM
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Theres a woman further down in the comments who works in a male domain and she has said the amount of shit she gets from her male colleagues is off putting- We are not avoiding the labour but the men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:37 PM
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I'm tired, I'm trying to bring up the point of sexuality and how that fits into this. I'm just delving further into it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:05 AM
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OP I dunno why anyone likes anyone but brining fertility into it is super creepy. I never look at a man and try guessing how good his sperm is 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:01 AM
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Homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:57 AM
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Explain why I like skinny pale guys 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:55 AM
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Cos they're weird. They wanna grow a little them and need the best incubator cos incase their sperm is fucking shit. Jokes it's just more alpha bullshit GOTTA BE THE BEST OF THE BEST OF THE BEST YES SIR. also probably an excuse for not including women their own age in their interests. "Uuhh she's not fertile enough waaaaaa!!!!" We can already see your shallow and or creeps give it up already, we're already over it. You're not fooling anyone with your weird scientist shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:28 AM
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That's not even logical
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:53 AM
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You put it so well then at the end. Discreetly appreciate. OP pisses me off too. Southpark, throwing star episode hits on this thing about parents ignoring violence if there's anything sexual to worry about. Sex is more bothering than violence - which says a lot about the idea that women sometimes are blamed for the abuse they receive from men. "She provoked it" like there's more focus on the sexuality of the woman than there is on the man's aggression/violence. You don't see this same thing wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:50 AM
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It's similar being a stripper except at least we didn't work our arses off doing a degree to NOT BE harassed. It's like you're damn if you you're damned if you don't - and THAT is why I was a stripper. 🫣 Then I could at least call it as it is and when they try deny it I'm like mate - you are in a strip club, this is the height of sexual objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:45 AM
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And that's why they stay male dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:42 AM
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Those are male dominated for now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:41 AM
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But then how you gonna get payed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:38 AM
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Like fathers ignore their daughters? Sons of their sick grandmothers just not give them medication? Male hairdressers just ignore all their clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:35 AM
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No attention at all? So like 50% of the world pretending the other 50% don't exist... There would be chaos across the planet. That would be a logistical nightmare. I think a better way of putting this would be if you said all men were asexual for 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:33 AM
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If she keeps privacy up and is careful of the followers she accepts it will keep most students safe. I don't think she's that sexual she's just got a very interesting body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:31 AM
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Thank you. I had a big arse and even my mum harassed me about it. THANK YOU 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:22 AM
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I'm aroused by hot men but I choose to avert my thoughts and possibly gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:19 AM
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If you have a really sexy body and are very sexy, everything you wear is sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:16 AM
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I'm not offended you've not really hit any nerves. If you did hit any nerves by talking about extremes I understand it's coming from a place of pain and frustration. I've definitely had my moments in life following breakups and stuff when I feel like women are victims of X,Y,Z. Yeah it definitely causes anxiety dealing with cults and mob like thinkers. Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, Richard Granon... I see these people as cult leaders. They call out to anyone but especially men, who feel they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:24 AM
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Are these scare mongering stories from other men? Is it women who have absolutely no intention to date and actually just like the idea of trying to motivate men to be robotic militant weirdos ... Actually ruin the dating scene for those who do want a genuine guy not a guy acting like what he thinks a guy is mean to be. There's always money involved, loads of money in the makeup, fashion and cosmetics industry that all thrives on people in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:53 AM
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I'm a woman and I don't want a cold boring militant personality. I want someone sensible, mature, open minded and not too serious - I'm already an anxious personality type as it is I need warmth. What do you want in * a woman? It's funny cos we're just 2 individuals 🤣 we can't speak for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:46 AM
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Haha I'm not I'm just tired and rambling, yeah you have good views to share that have helped me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:58 PM
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Thank you for explaining it better for me to listen to 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:41 PM
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Don't be sorry! I hear you there's a weird war of the sexes it's true and the female indoctrination is insane, not that I'm competing with men for that spot 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah that's a really good way of seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:02 PM
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I dunno I just keep hearing that women are doing stuff wrong and I just wonder what are we meant to be doing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:57 PM
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You're gonna have to explain that better to me sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:50 PM
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And you too, thank you for your advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:47 PM
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He seemed to understand my pain yeah, I kept trying to read his mind as I was scared that he could simply lie to direct questions. I just wanna be careful I'm not gaslighting myself into believing I'm a victim in order to avoid feeling responsible. A therapist sounds good this isn't the first thing that left me confused. I think it's just so cruel how someone could do that and keep on doing that. It doesn't help when I constantly see red pill stuff about how women play the victim and how men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:30 PM
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Thank you for reading I know that was super long!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:02 PM
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I'm not perfect so I felt I deserved it and also I'm really understanding that life is hard and sometimes you just need a helping hand. We started fucking while I was recovering from anorexia and I was not "a normal girlfriend" so I felt lucky to even have his attention. I care about him still and I think any abusive behaviour he did was to try and get me to understand his pain. I think he understood I needed him so badly and I wonder if he stayed out of pity and fear I'd kill myself. That's wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:01 PM
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What do men actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:49 PM
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Who doesn't like predictive behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:35 PM
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There was a guy who wanted casual from me and I wanted commitment and he would sort of do the bear minimum to keep me happy and we would have sex. Eventually I put my foot down and was like look, if I want casual sex your paranoid thoughts of me two timing you would make sense but I don't, I actually want something real and all you seem to care about is getting laid, you only do what you do to get sex, I don't want a fake relationship where you pretend to be something to get what you want. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:25 PM
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Sounds like me 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:40 PM
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What level are we talking? Are they incapable of learning at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:32 AM
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He can't do anything to upset me if I really am into him, apart from ignore or avoid me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:53 AM
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I think we all like to embellish stuff, to have our own style. Whether we decorate our home or put a bumper sticker on our car, badges on our school bag, stickers on our books, different shoe laces. I think men and women are embellishing themselves. No woman wants to be accused of dressing like a 10 yr old or a 70 yr old when she's 16+ not for sexual reasons but more to fit in and be respected by peers. If the trend set by peers is to look sexually provocative, I think even people who don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:27 AM
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No like the date would involve him doing something like stealing or something really bad 😂 Tbh I've always told guys I'm low maintenance anyway so it's not like I can complain, but I say that too cos I appreciate noone is made of money and I don't wanna feel bad if we don't work out. My dates have never cost the guy more than £10 and that's usually just him paying for his half haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:09 AM
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The bar is so low he would have to steal from me or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:38 AM
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"bad person on a leash" was something I heard someone use to describe people who need religion to keep them good. I sort of feel like this is a bit parallel to this concept and discussion on "the nice guy". Is he actually nice or is he an assehole on a leash? Asseholes don't all look the same. Some are just plain arrogant, some are aggressive, it's no doubt a spectrum. I feel like there's a little cross over area where nice guys pretend to be asseholes and asseholes pretend to be nice guys. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:39 PM
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I acknowledge it, we are dodos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:25 PM
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I love how analytic this has become, it's not even red, blue or purple pill it's now just gone full science/algorithm talk 👍 there's so many variables! First things first we need to find out how the original stats were collected. What classed as a relationship? Do none heterosexual relationships count? Etc Then we can see what the stats truly reflect and decide if it's really reliable enough. Then if still satisfied with the data go on to see if there's any patterns and try understand why more m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:04 PM
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Yeah, you're sort of right. It also makes us (me) feel unattractive. "Why isn't he trying... other guys are usually tooo fast, but then WHY is he dating me at all?? Is this just to waste my time and stop me from dating other guys who actually fancy me!? Maybe there's someone else he's currently fucking and he's just warming me up for when her and him end then he's going to take me to the next level. Maybe he actually wants ME to initiate? Oh my god what if he's doing that so that I do initiate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:18 AM
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The dream for me is to date my best friend, anything that makes us friends before lovers. If I feel the reason I'm approached is because you're attracted to me (no matter how hot you yourself are) I'm gonna be scared off for fears that I'm just seen as some sort of object rather than a person. I will chat to strangers like at a bar or in a line but I'm really weary now of letting randos into my life- stranger danger and all. And then when you are my friend and want to be something more just be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:17 AM
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Red,pink,yellow, whatever you want to call the movement it's basically more woke crap IMO Everyone always knew women are manipulative when they wanna be. That movie made money. MONEY, MANIPULATION using you to fuel it. And the same goes for women, basing standards for a man loosely off their father. Especially if he's a single father. She is paying tribute to his legacy and trying to find someone not only with the same values she's familiar. It feels predictable, like home. I think the genders s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:36 AM
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I just want to be the exception, I just want to be untampered with, not pressured and I feel like after a while they just drop the idea and I seem so familiar they friend zone me back out of respect and boredom. I don't want to ruin the freindship with such suspicions. Also they will repeatedly tell me they see me as a mate and stuff. If I do think they do, saying it sounds like an accusation, and again I don't want to ruin the freindship. If they then admit they do like me am I meant to banish …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:38 AM
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My problem with guys criteria is that sometimes you'll find out after you've had sex. Another thing I find a bit upsetting is that some of their criteria is stuff they only find out during sex. Another thing is feeling invisible and just sort of like the game is rigged, like it doesn't matter what my personality is or how much we get on or have uncommon - if I pay $6700,00 to get work done and behave like a bond girl, I've got ya. You know the people who were ugly and then suddenly got hot, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:14 AM
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They don't voice it they just put moods on half the time and make snarky comments and you're right, that's why I stopped spending time with them. They got jealous of me caring for my grandad, going to the gym, going to the counselling sessions, walking my dog. They never had credit on thier phones, or money in their own pockets or plans to change that situation. I was greatful just for their presence. They wanted me to have more spare time to fuck them more and I think when they ever did anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:29 AM
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In my experience it's not so much I want a mind reader and more just not a child who doesn't know how to understand that mummy can't do X, Y and Z because she's very sad and tired right now. It's not because she hates you, or is trying to manipulate you. It's not about you. mummy has feelings and a life outside of this relationship and you making it about you is making mummy very very tired. She'll read you a bed time story in half an hour please stop stomping around. Or- can you please listen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:28 AM
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Worse than being savagely shot down? I get what you're saying, that the pity is a bit patronising, and sort of drags it out. I think cheeky responses like"you can't handle me" or " after I've fucked your mate" are good witty banterish sort of rejections, that put a play on irony where they're basically saying "I'll flirt with you in a fun cheeky way but no, thank you" and by putting a slutty spin on it you're not shaming sex and making him feel like a creep or loser- just making out that your su…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:11 AM
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People are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:04 PM
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Humour me man, what do you do before a date 🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:50 PM
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The fact a woman wants him shows he does something right for her. If she is a dick it makes you feel sorry for him. If she's with him but unhappy in a mad way it makes you wonder why she's with him even though he pisses her off... And why he's not ending it either - makes it seem he's probably a dick, maybe emotionally manipulative cos she can't go but she isn't happy, odd. Same for if he makes her miserable. Sometimes the woman is clearly a trophy wife, for me that's a huge turn off. If he's wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:39 PM
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What are your worries before a date? Run me through your prep routine the day of your date or night that you intend to hit the bar in search of a beautiful stranger. Date, not a definite on the sex just that your trying to meet someone in a none platonic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:16 PM
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How many men have you had sex with? Edit- Would you like women to initiate, take you on dates, pull chairs out for you, pay for stuff for you and drive the car and hang out at the bar searching for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:11 PM
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I don't but I'll still try
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:09 PM
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I see what you're getting at and I did suck a lot of dick, I enjoyed showing off my 3 tongue bars, for their pleasure, cos from a young age I was worried I wasn't good at sucking dick. I think something they had in common was communication and really wanting to hold onto me. And when I say suck dick I mean usually till they tell me to stop or till the end. I had a lot of love to show and don't like talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:27 PM
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I think women with confidence issues struggle to express themselves sexually, especially if they've ever had someone who's held it against them ie- laughed at them for being easy, criticised them for things in the bedroom afterwards in an argument, told their mates about it or even just said something about their appearance or smells. Equally if he doesn't seem to be as interested this might effect her confidence making her feel less sexy and more introverted/frigid. An obvious one is if she fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:22 PM
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I like to think they're just daft and assume it feels great for us... And their ego literally doesn't let them even go near the idea of thinking otherwise like to think that way almost physically hurts Haha masterbation tool 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:28 PM
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I know right!! Like drinking to get drunk... Shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:54 PM
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It was the body language mate 🤣 at one point one of them said all you care about is having an orgasm that's the only reason you have sex with me. He went on to accuse me of touching myself. This intense victim mentality... Craziest shit. It's the body language and sulkiness that was a thousand words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:48 PM
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I can vouch for all of these. Literally just stopped having sex now tired of this shit. Can we also add anal to that list please!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:21 PM
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I've slept with nearly 50 people only had orgasm by oral from maybe 4 people. 4 PEOPLE!!!! 2 of which was only one offs. Honestly of all of them only maybe 8 have gone down on me. Hands??? Again maybe 2 or 3 guys have summoned it with them. I have to go on top if I want the job done. I'm pretty sure most of them were bad at foreplay on purpose. I've had like 2 guys I remember especially wait no 3- that actually got upset about me orgasming, like genuinely annoyed that I got something out of it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:17 PM
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They do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:10 PM
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I was sort of thinking this 😂 there have been times I've been like ah not tonight I have no energy or I'm drunk and they're like don't worry that's cool I'll go top I got this... Commence undignified starfish then! I can only cum on top too soo... If you're up there for me you're living in a fairytale mate. It's a race against time. Let me cum on top before you do. Cos once they're done they're done. In those starfish cases I do try make up with the head and stuff. They don't do that with me giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:05 PM
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8, 3, 11, 13: trusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:57 PM
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I love all the disagreements here like I feel like everyone is disagreeing with the other and like everyone is getting offended... Can I be misandrist and misogynistic at the same time, making me not exactly sexist but just a complete arsehole? Stupid fucking misandrist whore should get in the kitchen and cook for her hard working sugar daddy, the man is alpha and should have his food made without having to ask. If she doesn't wanna be sexually objectified maybe she should stop using only her se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:52 PM
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I just wanna say we do a lot behind the scenes that you don't see, we may seem passive but it takes a lot. We will show our love in ways you can't and we might grow your baby inside us, if we did make all the moves many men would feel patronised. Once we're yours we lose a lot of "freinds" Once we become mum we are physically never the same and sadly there's a cliche that women do most the house work, even after returning to work work. I feel like the chivalry at the beginning is cos you hope sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:16 PM
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All my exes were broke, lazy and selfish. And it led to the whole thing falling flat on it's arse. I'm a strong woman who's been through some real shit, these guys hadn't experienced anything close and yet were like my children. I was the one doing everything, money wise, effort wise, emotion wise, romance wise and I felt so invisible, especially when I'd spend like an hour or two giving head and never get any in return. I wondered if I want pretty enough? Was I too easy? Why didn't they appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:12 PM
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I was talking about the idea that men are expected to initiate and someone was saying that women don't initiate cos they don't want to be responsible - on someone else's comment much earlier before you joined and that was the context I was following. Multiple people were discussing that they didn't want to risk rejection etc and I do see that could be so in many cases but I wanted to give another take I appear passionate but I'm really just getting into character. I literally don't dare or anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:43 PM
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Initiate seems like it relates to sex? Hence why I've focused on the sex element. If I really like you I'll initiate spending time with you and being available for you as much as possible. What are we referring to when we say initiate? As I understand it we're talking about making the mooooves not proposing or having deep talks? I think who ever is feeling in love usually "confesses" and who ever feels that intense physical attraction or spark "initiates". Admittedly I waffled a lot though, I tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:34 AM
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In order to compete with the insane beauty standards in porn and on shop billboards I am having to shave my whole body if I want any head, wear my nice clothes, shoes,makeup, not eat the day and hours before because ibs and sometimes anal is on the table, I have to be sure I'm not on my period I'm gonna just put up with you not making me cum when it comes to it cos making you carry on when you don't want to is rape, and as I don't want to embarrass you or myself like that I'm gonna possibly have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:18 AM
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I'm scared the "nice ones" are the cleverest, slyest. I get scared that they can be just as nasty as they can be nice and that they will flip, with self righteous rage due to all that good behaviour that should have paid off. I know that's a paranoid theory and not a type but I dunno it just seems too good to be true, psychopath vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:48 AM
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Bring sex up and address it on the 3rd date- will it or won't it happen? If you want to do it but not yet make sure you express your sexual interest heavy by the third or their attention span dies that day. Doing it before that?? Try not to. Even if you really want to try not to. What's the rush? If there is a rush that implies there's not time ahead to do it... Cos you'll be dumped... Logic? I dunno. He may have already realised you're a bad fit but still wants the experience of getting in bed …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:22 AM
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