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| 2 | My wife mentioned divorceLet me be real. I’m about to be six months into a separation. I also messed up a lot, she did too. But let me tell you this much I reflected and found out I’m a “nice guy” like a lot of people in this situation. Apparently like 40% of marriages. Now…there is a book called no more Mr nice guy. Read it, because you sound like a “nice guy”. It isn’t meant to be offensive but it will make you laugh and realize all the little things. Spoke to my lady the first time in person today and the vibe from t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 3 | My wife mentioned divorceNah man I feel like the OP is lacking details. Let me guess, a lot of arguing, she feels you’re never home, states she isn’t “in love with you anymore” but loves you or something along those lines. You work too much, lost the emotional connection but the kicker is she has mentioned this to you before. She might even say you aren’t listening or emotionally available. Almost all the guys here will tell you she is a narcissist, the rest will say “her loss”. I’ll tell you now they are all wrong. Not… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Wife has all her stuff packed. Last ditch effort or do I sit by idlyGuarantee the emotional affair is because she couldn’t get her emotional needs met by you brother. Hear me on this, women act on emotion not logic like we do. You arguing and wanting to be right brings to the table an additional feminine aspect where the masculine (you leading and being an emotional guide as a man) should have been. From what I am reading, and being perfectly blunt, she needs you to bring leadership and to stay in your masculine frame. Not argue with her about things that in the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Would you take her back?Let me comment here and give you a quick take…women do not rationalize, and she thought from an emotional standpoint that the grass would be greener on the other side. Typically, women stray when one or multiple of their core needs aren’t met in their relationship. Wouldn’t she tell me you ask? Why no good sir, she would not. Quite the opposite, women expect you to read between the lines. Options you say? It’s either truly forgive her, and learn to understand your own flaws in why she thought yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Anyone have kids that went off the rails after divorce?Actually I have found nothing but evidence that children are worse off after divorce. Academic struggles, issues forming relationships of their own(both friendships and romantic), emotional issues, the list goes on. No seriously, it goes on! I am a firm believer some clowns who wanted to validate their own reasons for divorce came up with the reasoning that “the kids will be better off”. Like…suck it up, be civil and be a f&@$ing parent. Get divorced when they are out of the house. People are so… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 05:42 PM |
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