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| 2 | Divorcing after 20 years of relationship. Panic at falling apart.What's the difference between putting yourself first and loving someone and making them happy because I feel that .. I am happier when seeing someone I like to be happy. Meanwhile sometimes putting myself first feels unsatisfied . Should we punish the current girl we are with for the crime that someone did us wrong in the past? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Divorcing after 20 years of relationship. Panic at falling apart.To all the guys. I have a question -- I often hear husband wants *alone time. Or they want to be quiet in their man cave or that they need to be by themselves. But when I read this , most of the guys are showing they are worried to be alone and they hate to be alone. Is that the same group of guys or there are two extreme group of guys ... | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Help me articulate why divorce is so hard for menI don't think it is always about money. Being with a guy is also get free money why must she divorce him and take "half " | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Help me articulate why divorce is so hard for menMaybe because girls had been choosing silent as ND suffering from tempers she got from guys years after years. Didn't feel love and at the end part of her just die. Meanwhile guys thought he was suffering or he wants even care about that girl much . He had also been suffering but he " chooses" to stay. So he thought both parties are suffering. Eventually when the girl chooses to leave the guys are shocked . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 05:44 AM |
| 1 | All I see for the future is darkness.I feel the same way ....I feel very very bad for not having kids . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 05:26 AM |
| 1 | All I see for the future is darkness.I hope u will feel better. I always wonder why people get divorce. It must feel hurt to have heard having u here or not feels the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Wife moved on fastSome people use this as a distraction. Others really craving for the fresh start. Sounds like u still want her. I know it must be hard for u. Some people can try putting their mind to another guy. Maybe it can distract her for a second . Maybe she will then figure out this is not what she wants. Feeling comes and goes don't worry about it too much . Is there any chance u two can be together ? Since u haven't formally divorced ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you still love her and think of her?I realized all my IG has been reels telling me do not message him . Do not go back to him. This is red flag. Better to ..better that .. I really feel it is more stressed for me to "control"myself . While hearing everything is manipulating . Am I NOT allowing those "dating advice" to manipulate me in the same way literally shoveling to my face saying what I should or shouldn't do ? Who doesn't know I can go for a walk. Who doesn't know I can go to movie alone , read , join classes , go out ,make … | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you still love her and think of her?People are weird here !!! Crying is manipulation. Begging is losing face let her have the power. Everything action we do there is a negative impact on the event. Now what ? Just be a keyboard warrior gathering around talking shit about ex wife that's productive ? And let time heals ? That's Crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you still love her and think of her?Honestly it is hard to find someone u love or bond with and yes there is always hope or chance. But everyone has their flaws everyone has their own experiences to make them become who they are ! .... Come on if u die tmr would u have regretted not telling her how u feel or having one more day with her ? Just a thought | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 04:51 AM |
| -1 | Do you still love her and think of her?You feel loyal? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you still love her and think of her?That seems so painful. She is confused about life. How different do you want her to be? To be so satisfied? ... Did it matter? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you still love her and think of her?Hope different you want her to be | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Do you still love her and think of her?There is no evidence she did that!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:36 PM |
| -1 | Do you still love her and think of her?SEND!!!!!!! ! Doesn't matter !!!! If u die today u would never have a chance . I messaged a girl my bf is talking to out of anger from his account. It is completely insane !!!! But I was at my breaking point knowing he is talking to other people but me. I don't have any chance anymore because everyone would think this is insane !!!! I'm forever a bad person that causes drama. I'm very sad now too and wish I can message him. So. .. message her !!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Can someone give me hope?YES | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Can someone give me hope?I know a lot people telling you u need to work on yourself and you need to Improve yourself In order to find love. But at the same time people are saying to be loved is not how hard u work on things. Don't u see all the advices are just bullshit however you listen to it ? Having kids is great !! If they are 7 and 1 your priority should be making them the happiest kid in the world and not to project ur trauma onto them. Don't regret later u spend more time hating ur wife being angry lost ur mind … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 06:48 PM |
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