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OldRoke/r/askMRP11/04/17 07:27 AM
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OldRoke/r/askMRP26/01/17 06:41 PM
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OldRoke/r/askMRP01/04/17 03:12 PM
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You've done some excellent work here - very strong to do this! You can never ever take her back though or else all this journey will be in vain.
/r/askMRP23/04/17 08:20 AM
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Go to your thing because it's your life. Don't modify your behaviour because you are afraid of her reaction.
/r/askMRP16/04/17 11:04 AM
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This is next on my list. Reading this or rational male next.
/r/askMRP16/04/17 11:01 AM
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I have opposite, sometimes feel it would be a blessing to be more like you. Does yours fluctuate or always like this?
/r/askMRP14/04/17 11:38 PM
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It sounds like you tried everything to make her change by going through the dread levels (oneitis and mother of covert contracts). This didn't work, because you wouldn't be posting on here if it did. Aka she still sucks or your relationship sucks. And now you want to climb back down to being a beta phaggot because it didn't work and you think that you want to do that to keep the relationship? Is she the person you want to be with, if you just met her would you put up with her shit?, is she drain…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/17 07:26 AM
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I can't speak for you, but to me that is no relationship at all. Without the physical and the fun it seems like it really is a bit of dear diary
/r/askMRP14/04/17 07:13 AM
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What's the point of a LDR? Isn't that the same as imagination
/r/askMRP13/04/17 08:27 PM
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Gym: Start a programme and stick to it. I do 5x5 stronglifts and find the app on my phone really helps. Useful for someone who suffers from 'fuckarounditis'. Reading: Read everyday for at least 30 minutes and start a reading list to get through. WISNIFG, NMMNG first. Next - Rationale Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Book of Pook. Tips, use a kindle and highlight the important bits, or make notes. Reread your notes to get them into your skull. There is no easy way - you find your own way
/r/askMRP12/04/17 08:47 AM
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What is going on here, is this AWALT? If I look back critically at my life the time when I could've done with my partner's help (any of them over the years) was the time when they were least prepared to give it and when they were most critical of me. They seem to be exceedingly selfish? Maybe I haven't been as strong as needed, I grew up thinking that you both put in work to make it. This is causing me a bit of anger and a feeling like what's the point, but I am working on it.
/r/askMRP11/04/17 03:19 PM
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SMV equal Income is 20% lower than hers before tax - working on my income. I do freelance work and building this up. She rents, I am buying a place but paying my way / sharing rent costs. There was a time she wanted me to live there rent free, but I felt it wasn't right. This area is my greatest problem - looking back the biggest fuck up I made. This made me into a fag by default. What is in your favour, to make her act like you want her to act? Thought provoking and important question. I am a g…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 03:15 PM
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Yup, I've just experienced this this very week. It's a test when you are doing well, just to check that you are for real or are still a fag. I've got to stay more vigilant.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 02:17 PM
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I know tell me about it. I felt nuts lifting 40kg on the squats, but I want to get really good form so it's the only way - In three months I will be lifting 130kg anyway. I did get some weird looks, but I DNGAF
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 02:04 PM
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I am lifting again now man, this has helped more than I can imagine in learning to un-fag. Going to the gym would've been an appropriate reaction to be honest, even though I was about to sleep, it certainly would've been more useful. I know I've fluffed up, but need to pick up and carry on working on myself and don't get too wrapped up in these mistakes, but learn from them.
/r/askMRP11/04/17 01:57 PM
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Thanks for your input. I knew this to be the case, I didn't bring it up, but she did. This is insane to me "accuse me of faking, and turn up the shit tests to eleven." Yet I guess the test makes sense, checking strength and viability as a sperm donor. Must try harder.
/r/askMRP11/04/17 01:43 PM
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I've gone NoFap too - feeling like it's much easier to be a man with the testosterone. Feels weird at first, after draining it for so many years. Good work keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 01:00 PM
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Great thanks for taking the time to reply to me. Appreciate this "This is a standard but illegitimate pressure flip tactic that has no logic, but which nonetheless usually works with codependent betas, pussies, and faggots. Apparently it works with you. It's the politically correct "you hurt my feelingz so you automatically lose" ploy, which is the argument equivalent to overturning the gameboard when losing a board game."
/r/askMRP11/04/17 10:07 AM
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This is my first post on OYS, so here's brief background. 30 years old and 4 year live-in partner (28). Started off good frame in relationship - let it slide, became beta and balls deep in her frame. Started thinking partner was Asexual (she just wasn't a lesbian, and for a time I had a vagina). Found RP in December and sorted my shit. Hungry to learn and develop, do not want to waste my life. Success so far with DNGAF, STFU and having lots more sex. Big problem I have is living in her flat - I …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 09:19 AM
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I've found the way is to lead - now I'm still learning, but I have a partner who eats way too much sugar (luckily she is not fat). I lead by organising the shopping and planning out meals. Ultimately it is up to her though. Are you mega ripped, if you were maybe she would feel more inclined to work to keep you?
/r/askMRP11/04/17 07:40 AM
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Fucking tough situation mate. Sounds like you have it all sorted though, wish you all the best and keep us all updated.
/r/askMRP11/04/17 07:38 AM
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I'm 6ft1 and 185lbs. Need to get more muscle and gain better shape. I'd say my body is skinny fat, but on the better end - there is some muscle there
/r/askMRP01/04/17 06:42 PM
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Excellent post, really needed this
/r/askMRP31/03/17 08:19 AM
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I don't think you can or should lead anyone to anything. You can't force it upon anyone who is not ready.
/r/askMRP14/03/17 05:26 PM
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I imagine if a biography twas written about me, and my bad beta behaviour, then the chapter on my early manhood could be entitled 'portrait of the artist, as a young phaggot.'
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 12:51 PM
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This sub is waking me up. I feel ashamed at the lost opportunities and the true depth of faggotry I displayed and now I am learning to change. It is exciting and scary, but will be nothing without action.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 01:35 PM
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Excellent response, thanks for that.
/r/askMRP04/02/17 12:58 PM
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I think you might be right with the theory on this - by just following the rules, reading the lines of a sheet and doing everything to a T - you are not exciting. This post has been useful to me, because it's made me think how so far I myself have been quite robotic in my advances. If it seems like your reading off a script it must kill tingles. Although you sound much too deep in her frame still: her telling you about the conversation and then again luring you back in with the emotional words o…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 07:51 AM
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Nothing is true or false - just how you make it work. I like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 07:40 AM
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This is gold
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 08:38 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Setting the tone is right - working to undo some of the previous faggotry and getting out of her frame.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 10:41 AM
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Thanks for your reply - I'm sure that it just takes more patience and work to keep going in the right direction. I like the idea of breaking a philly, I am being too impatient, I need to remember that behaviours are conditioned in people. I have been acting soft for too long and her responses have become ingrained in her.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:47 AM
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The time during ovulation is maybe the time when they test you most to check that you are legitimately not a phaggot. And in answer to your question, no I am not currently tracking her period, but am planning on starting next time.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 01:43 AM
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