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Jeez I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:45 PM
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It’s interesting to see how many commenters here are rejecting the notion that women can be romantic. From my experiences of dating as a woman, I’ve pulled some pretty romantic things on the guys in my life. When I was 16 I would regularly bike mostly uphill for half an hour at all hours of the night and during terrible weather to see my boyfriend when he was feeling down. I would buy food for my partner and bring it to work for him. I would spend good money on concert tickets and games and what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:03 PM
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Nah but there’s plenty faking it to get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:39 PM
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I had a “hoe” phase after escaping my abuser. He was my first real boyfriend and the man I lost my virginity to. He estranged me from my family and friends, alienated me from my community and hobbies, and left me broken to an indescribable extent. I was so desperate for connection that I latched onto any guy that showed interest in spending time with me, unaware most of them were solely interested in using my body. My past relationship conditioned me to be extremely docile and agreeable. I had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:32 PM
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Is it actually? As someone who’s invested stupid money into both I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah… it’s the ultimate teenage pick me anthem. This song/video isn’t unique for it either, this was a common trope for many movies marketed to teenagers. This nerdy guy/girl gets the hot girl/guy in the end thing is like the most common trope directed to an audience of young teenagers. This song isn’t celebrated for the trope, it’s just a super catchy nostalgic remanent of this trope playing out in the early 2010s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:13 PM
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“The folks at MyNavi set up a survey” - hm, sampling bias perhaps. A voluntary response survey of this kind attracts those who are already open to the idea. That doesn’t even matter though. You’re still not getting special white guy privilege by showing up in Japan. When people fantasize about hooking up with foreigners, they’re thinking about movie stars - not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:59 AM
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They really don’t lol. If you ask the majority of Russian woman what they think about Western men, it would be something along the lines of “stingy” and “un-masculine”. Now I’m not sure if I agree with these sentiments, but they are the most common. Actually talk to a Russian woman before spouting out random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:48 AM
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I’m just commenting on how delusional it is for white people to assume that they’re somehow a top tier guy/girl in a foreign country on the basis of being white. I have no idea what you’re trying to say lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:33 AM
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They make up significant enough of a “minority” for it to be a problem. It doesn’t matter if they’re not directly being trafficked or pimped. My comment was addressing all forms of coercion, which include financial desperation and drug addiction amongst other means. It’s cool that you’ve found a way to profit from this, but the majority of people do not have this experience. “Vulnerability and prostitution are interconnected. Anyone that has studied prostitution is aware of this: prostitutes com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:31 AM
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Yeah I am angry. I have a right to be. My mother grew up in 90s Russia. She saw shit she never should have, because people with your mentality felt the need to take advantage of a crumbling state. Eat shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:23 AM
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This might be a mind blowing revelation to you, but brand name items cost more across the board. Every single industry marks up the price tag on brand name items. This is just capitalism. Also … no? Watches to tell time? In this day and age? You’ve got to be kidding me. Not to mention how uncomfortable suits/tuxedos are. Trust me I’ve heard men complain about wearing that shit too. Btw a purse is a bag, it also has a functional purpose - you put shit in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:21 AM
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Damn imagine if I was talking about the underdeveloped third world counties. Oh right, I was. No one brought up Singapore. This is explicitly to comment on western men who take advantage of countries in crisis to fulfill their sex slave fantasies. Honestly go fuck yourself. You stupid fucks were the same sort that came to Eastern European countries and legally raped children in the 90s. Now your breed is flocking to the Philippines to rinse and repeat. Scumbag flock that migrates to wherever cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:16 AM
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I don’t care if you “prefer” women from Japan or SK. They don’t want you. It doesn’t affect me at all. What’s pathetic is the fact you hold some sort of delusional complex that makes you believe being white in a rich, developed Asian country will grant you an all access card. Like imagine if I told you I could bag any sexy Arabian billionaire by showing up to his country, just because I’m a white woman. You’d rightfully call me delusional. No one’s name calling. The only calling I’m doing is on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:09 AM
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Go ahead and tell me, with a straight face, that the majority of prostitutes aren’t in one way or another forced to work via means of coercion. Drug addiction, poverty, human trafficking, gang violence etc. rule over these industries. There is a small, small minority of escorts who work in these industries without some amount of coercion. You don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:02 AM
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What the fuck are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:58 AM
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Have you actually considered that perhaps women “demonize” these sort of men because the behavior they are engaging with is exploitative? Example A) Passport bros. They come from wealthy western countries to take advantage of unequal exchange. They take advantage of poverty/war torn countries to participate in prostitution. They are using their “status” (obtained in a country made wealthy by the exploitation of the global south) to continue exploiting women from those same countries. It’s a symp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:17 PM
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Consider going outside
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:05 PM
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Okay and? Resold for less value, just like the handbag. Doesn’t prove any point. You’re also dismissing other fashion status symbols that are marketed towards men: watches, designer clothes etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:05 PM
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And every man dreams of winning the lottery so he can attract young, hot women that are “status symbols”. The reality is most women aren’t dating Saudi Arabian princes and most men aren’t winning the lottery. We’re a collective of working poors who watch the wealthy accumulate and hoard more and more while we survive on less and less. Rather than alienate women in this struggle, accept them as your equals. You are both equally exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:02 PM
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I don’t know any women like that. I can only imagine these women as the kind of people who have the disposable income to make frivolous purchases, in which case they’re not buying because “ooh shiny color!”, they’re buying because it’s a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:30 PM
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“Ladies you” - directed at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:28 PM
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Well you’re just making a plain wrong assertion then. Any woman who isn’t asexual will choose to fuck the guy she wants over just receiving compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:19 PM
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Sex is attention though. Well, good sex anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:16 PM
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Right. Let’s just ignore the PCMasterRace guys who race to buy overpriced graphics cards. Let’s ignore the dudes who take out stupid loans on “cool” cars and trucks that get repossessed. Let’s turn away from sneaker heads who’s closet features 150+ clean designer shoes. Frivolous consumption isn’t a gendered thing. Most people are doing it lol. You’re just picking out products aimed at woman. Consumer culture is ingrained into everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:26 PM
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Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:31 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with shoving your shitty views down everyone’s throat? Stop projecting on other men lmao, if you’re desperate enough to date someone with no personality then just admit it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:45 PM
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TRP isn’t really about finding peace. It’s a marketing scheme. People make stupid money taking advantage of divisive politics, manipulating young men with potential into misogynistic losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:32 PM
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Explain the logical process behind your conclusion then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:09 PM
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Just because you call something logic doesn’t make it logical lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:04 PM
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Oh brother. You do realize for the majority of recorded history (and even up to this day), women had no choice in who they reproduced with. This decision was made by men. This is like… one of the key points in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:01 PM
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Men really come up with the craziest shit sometimes and think following it up with “basic logic” makes the shit sound less crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:57 PM
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Don’t worry about the commitment part lol, apparently most of you guys aren’t giving women orgasms either.I’m not anti-sex though, nor am I really commenting on sexlessness. Also what makes you say that women feel entitled to commitment? My personal experience as an aromantic woman has been quite the opposite. A surprising number of guys enter FWB relationships expecting me to get attached and seem disappointed when I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:53 PM
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Square one is to accept women as equals. All women, not just the ones you want to have sex with. Accept that you are not entitled to special treatment because you are a man. Everyone’s path is found in life, I cannot give you a specific set of instructions to help you find love. However, I can certainly tell you that you will not obtain fulfilling relationships with women if you cannot see them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:49 PM
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Husband material in which way? In the sense that he could keep the children alive - sure, none of that factors into husband material. Father’s might have married off their daughters to the wealthiest suitor but wealth in no way accounts for husband material. Father’s would also force daughters to marry their rapists, keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:46 PM
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Internalized misogyny. It’s ingrained into women to judge their own appearance from an extremely early age. Even when a girl grows up and develops the awareness to realize that these standards are wrong and that the people who perpetuate them have no right to impose them, the damage has already been done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:21 PM
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The man’s energy has perhaps manifested itself into internalized misogyny. This is not time time to be a pick-me. You and I know plenty well that you’re in the small minority of women who haven’t experienced the effects of this widespread cultural normalized abuse. Stand up for your sisters, ignoring abuse will not protect you from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:18 PM
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Then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:14 PM
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We’re speaking in the context of dating/marriage, not generally so don’t try and shift goal posts here. If you read my words instead of you would have already understood that I addressed exactly this in my post. Average men are taught to adopt values that benefit other, powerful men at the expense of their own well-being. The pressure on men to labor (wage slave), serve in wars (feed the military industrial complex) etc. is instilled through the same cultural norms and expectations that objectif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:04 PM
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Keep talking, you’re proving my point honey. These sons are not any more or less progressive than their fathers, the change has been made in women not men. These young men are exhibiting a reactionary response to young women who have rejected the oppression and degradation their mothers faced. First of all - Women’s rights were not “given” nor taken with brute force. Women never had to “go to war” with men because women make up half of the population. Even 100 years ago, women made up half of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:45 PM
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Women are not discontent with feminism. E-girls with internalized misogyny do not represent women. If anything, women are upset at how feminism has been co-opted via capitalism, but that in itself is a feminist issue. Feminism has many different schools of thought, there is no “problem” with feminism. There are issues and criticisms to be made, but you will never convince half the population to give up their rights. Sorry. Anyways your last statement is a great example of why we still need femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:16 PM
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Men (patriarchy) tell boys that if they do what they’re told in society, they will get women. They raise them with certain values (hard work, conservatism etc.) that limit their self expression and isolate them from each other. The reward for their compliance is women. Do what you’re told and you will be rewarded. Boys believe their fathers. They believe they will end up as successful as their fathers and will continue the lineage. They are raised having mother tending to their needs, working un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:07 PM
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No problem with men who choose to stay single. Just don’t claim it’s women’s fault. If it’s your choice, own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:26 PM
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Absolutely. I think men could absolutely use gender equality to promote compassion for men. Men need to be able to express their feelings and not view themselves with contempt for seeking support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:12 AM
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People in general are “unhappy”, but it’s not because of gender equality. I hate to burst your fantasy bubble, but 1950s housewife’s we’re the largest consumer group of barbiturates (“mommy’s little helper”). The reason people are overall less happy is due to capitalism, stagnating wages, low social mobility and economic inequality. Pollution, poor diets, sedentary lifestyle, car centric planning etc. alongside consumer cultural play a role in this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:11 AM
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You feel entitled to women submitting. You go as far as to argue that for a woman to be happy she must submit - voluntarily. Male entitlement - I want a slave, mother, maid with a smile on her face. That’s not how it works. Women don’t want to serve you. Serving men does not make women happy. If it did, women wouldn’t have fought to change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:07 AM
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There is a difference is choosing to remain single because you don’t want to settle, and choosing to remain single because you have given up on yourself. Women are staying single voluntarily. Men are not staying single voluntarily, and because they feel as if they were forced into such a position they become bitter. You’re overly focused on the courting process. You can pass off as a “great guy” while dating, but you need to stay that guy in the relationship. That’s the hard part for a lot of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:01 AM
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Well, by empowerment I mean less in the “power” sense and more of a “self love” kind of a way. I think a lot of boys are brought up without good male role models and are pressured to act “like real men” without having an understanding of what it means. I think men need self love, stronger relationships, access to mental health support etc. Getting rid of stuff like circumcision, the draft, and promoting paternity leave would go a long way and wouldn’t hinder gender equality whatsoever. Men deser…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:58 AM
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Not really. Most of western civilization was pheasant/working class individuals. Women were expected to labor like men. People married through their social classes and marriages were arranged at an early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:54 AM
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Agreed. Social support is a must. I can’t say much for pretty privilege though, or how popularity affects the rate. Suicide is an unexpected killer, some people have it all together one day and then they’re gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:52 AM
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I wouldn’t say that was common. Having multiple wives was for the elite. Majority of agricultural societies though, married individuals were expected to reproduce as having no children meant no labor. I am also not entirely certain I can subscribe to the idea that polygamy is the default. I genuinely believe that monogamy is well and alive, it is simply adjusting to changing times and circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:34 AM
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Yes. Though men are more successful in their attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:27 AM
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Agreed. I believe a movement to empower men, that doesn’t rely on putting down women, is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:25 AM
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This doesn’t matter. You can cherry-pick examples of things you don’t like and it does not define a movement. Feminism in its definition is a struggle for gender equality. I am not here to debate feminism though. I am here to debate the male response to feminism. Your response - claiming oppression. “Feminism is not equal rights, it’s misandrist” is exactly what I’m trying to point out. To humor you, the US women’s soccer team get paid out because they make it to global championships. They get p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:23 AM
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What reproductive problem? How are men attempting to solve it? I also disagree. Who said women are unhappy? Women are happier than men. Less suicide, less violence, stronger social networks etc. Women are doing great for themselves. While I agree that humanity is overall less happy, you cannot tell me that losing rights will make women any more happy. I’d much rather be depressed with my disposable income and quiet home, with opportunities to study and travel then depressed and stuck in the home…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:08 AM
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Did I really though? It’s funny to me how you read into this a “rant about men”. I would say this is less of a post about men, more so a post about the current condition of men. The male response to equal rights is reflected in this sub especially. You don’t have to scroll too far left or right to witness men who are upset that they no longer retain privileges for being a man and come to the conclusion that women are putting them down. I can hardly say I’m mischaracterizing anyone. All the ideol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:59 AM
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Actual Marxist Leninist here. You’re either a very dedicated troll or one stupid motherfucker. Enlighten me please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:12 AM
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I’ve had this account for many years. Don’t post much but I have plenty of comments because I like to have conversations with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:21 AM
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Shoe lifts are boring. Get the guy some sick looking platform boots, more inches + aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:58 AM
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Not wanting an old, high n, fat boss bitch and wasting all your time on Reddit complaining endlessly about old, high n, fat boss bitches are different things. One is not necessarily insecure, the latter most definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:32 PM
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Majority of women I know spend a lot more time taking care of their appearance than men. Women tend to have complex skin care routines and experience with make up. They are more likely to have a large wardrobe curated to their body type/aesthetic. They invest time in shaving body hair, waxing eyebrows, getting their nails done and styling their hair. They have a collection perfumes and body lotion. They’re more likely to be self conscious about their weight and will be more invested in dieting/n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:36 PM
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Eh doesn’t the same apply to men though? Most men do get to experiment. I’d say most men have dated a variety of different girls before getting married so this concept doesn’t apply to a single gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:47 PM
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Why do so many men have an issue with the idea of “settling” then? So many guys here have this complex around the idea that women experiment with the men they want then settle for a financial provider. These men want to be desired and not settled for. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:59 AM
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This is selfish. You’re wasting a woman’s time. Justifying this by saying marriage was a requirement for women to survive in the past is not an argument. You’re forgetting that less than a century ago women couldn’t survive without men because the society men designed deliberately kept them dependent on men to simply survive. Half of the population had less legal rights, less opportunity to financially support themselves, and limited/no access to birth control. Now that women are on the same lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:58 AM
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You’re missing the part where what you consume is taken by someone and sold to put money in their own pocket. You get paid for working, not for “producing”. Communism is the only way to get paid for what you create, not for someone else to get paid and taking a cut of that to give you for selling your labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:22 AM
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30 seconds add up. The average person sends a lot more than one text a day. Constant cellphone use is linked with a whole host of mental health and productivity issues. It’s much more personable to call someone or talk in person. Constantly demanding communication from others isn’t healthy.
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:29 AM
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Some women just aren’t on their phones. Cell phone addiction is very normalized in our generation. Consider making different lifestyle choices which don’t involve you constantly being on your phone.
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:27 AM
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I’ve noticed there’s a lack of women in the response section, particularly the women who this question is directed towards. I’m going to answer this question in the way it relates to myself, whilst also advocating a lifestyle change to anyone reading. I have a lot to say, so I’ll provide a TLDR here. TLDR; I’m a woman who rarely responds to texts. This is a deliberate choice I’ve made to improve my life. There are others who have made this choice, I recommend you to challenge yourself to do the …
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:25 AM
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He’s asking for advice on where to meet women, he doesn’t really need advice on how to work on himself. Dude has a career, works out, and dresses decent. Seems like he doesn’t have much of a social life though, and suggesting he invest his free time into personal development hobbies as a way to meet women is meh.
/r/seduction16/10/22 02:48 AM
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What female quotas lmfao. Women make up over half the population, many fields are overwhelmed by women to the point where a male quota would be more applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:46 AM
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I found a love for philosophy when I actually bothered to engage with it in an academic setting. What discouraged me from pursuing any study of the field was the significant amount of people who have no background in the field, watching a few basic YouTube videos and proceeding to jerk themselves off about how intelligent they are by constantly bringing up basic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:46 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, what sort of women are you approaching? It sounds like you’re aiming out of your league.
/r/seduction05/10/22 02:01 PM
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That’s just factually incorrect. Women have different types, some (like myself) have no type. Attraction isn’t something that’s 100% visual for women. You’re not factoring in other aspects. Environment absolutely plays a role. If you’re comfortable, in your element, and respected or well liked by others the attraction develops quickly. Personally, I’ve gone from indifference towards a guy to asking for a number after getting to know him and feeling attracted to the presence he carries into the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:17 AM
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Might want to reconsider. More women are graduating college than men, maintaining higher GPAs, and ascending the corporate ladder than ever before. As more and more women realize that the purpose of life has nothing to do with carrying some man’s child, this sentiment will become laughable and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:31 AM
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I know understand the correlation between men who’s primary hobbies include “philosophy” and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:28 AM
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I don’t really have an interest in marriage, or a long term relationship. There’s plenty of guys who are cool w a FWB type situation so it’s best if I don’t waste anyones time and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:39 AM
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I wish more men thought like you. Unsolicited sexual attention is very overwhelming and uncomfortable.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:59 AM
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100% the right answer. Trying to hard to act stereotypically masculine won’t get you anywhere. Women will simply think you’re an asshole and won’t want to engage with you because you’re unapproachable. Having common interests, being able to hold a mentally stimulating conversation, making her feel comfortable, listened to and interesting while also having a good time yourself is definitely the way to go.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:09 PM
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Not really. Asking for authenticity is more of a call to stop trying to be someone or something you’re not. Think upper middle class white kids trying to act hood, or that one dude who’s whole personality is instigating fights over stupid shit and acting “tough” when he’s anything but that. It’s good to seek improvement and upward mobility, but do that at your own pace and in private. Trying too hard to fit in and impress people often makes you cringy at best and a social outcast at worst.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:05 PM
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Manipulative ? Maybe. Abusive? No, men definitely take the cake. Examples: Starting an argument when he’s clearly wrong about something, and lashing out violently when he doesn’t get his way. Using threats and gaslighting techniques to get women to submit. Demanding sex from their partners, then proceeding to use unsatisfactory sex as an excuse to cheat or hire a hooker. Beating, degrading, and controlling the mother of their children. Setting an example for their boys on how they should treat w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:20 AM
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I’ve noticed that a majority of low self esteem women tend to internalize their negativity. They sacrifice everything for their partners, allowing their partners to do with them as they please. I’m sorry to report, but a vast majority of abusers seek out people who behave like doormats. Insecure women are most likely to internalize their issues, blaming themselves constantly. They put up with cheating, manipulation, violence etc. because they just hate themselves. These relationships end abruptl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:11 AM
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I am happily singe and plan to stay that way for at least a decade, if not my whole life. In my personal experience, relationships have only dragged me down. Men want to control and waste. everything - your time, your money, your energy, your body, your decisions etc. I have so much to do and contribute to this world, why would I waste my time on developing a relationship with a man that brings nothing into my life? Don’t get me wrong, I love men - I love having them as a friends and especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:24 AM
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Women are damned if they don’t, damned if they do. If you’re not wearing make up as an adult women in a professional setting, you will be judged. Not wearing make up is viewed similarly to slacking on dress code and will screw you over in many fields where professional appearance is held in high regard. Many women who have little to no interest in make up still resign to wearing it for this sake alone. However, when women do wear make up, they’re called deceptive and vain by men like you. Despit…
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:25 AM
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Alright, I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are simply clueless instead of a troll. The anatomy of our tits is very different from your fat rolls. That shit is sensitive, first of all. Not wearing a bra in general is painful when you’re exercising, even mild physical activity is painful for some women. That’s not even to mention that the size of your boobs most likely will not correspond perfectly with your size. When men have manboobs, the man himself is quite proportionally large…
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:13 AM
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Because it isn’t about women. You should want to live your best life as an individual regardless of sex or orientation. You’re working on your mental, emotional, physical and financial health for your own future. Trust me, the guy who thinks he’s got it good because he can get laid right now is going to “expire” in a matter of years. He will no longer be desirable and will be broke and alone.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:28 AM
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It’s prevents your nipples from showing and lifts your boobs up they stay in place and don’t hurt your back.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:54 AM
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If a guy tells me he’s “into” Reddit I would dip no questions asked, sorry. It’s not a hobby. Video games are fine, but there’s a high amount of men who are actually addicted to them. They’re designed to keep you playing, which makes them rather different from a traditional hobby.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:24 PM
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There’s something off putting about expecting blowjobs and feeling like you got “scammed” because you didn’t receive head. I’m telling you right now, as a woman - I love giving head. I love to please my partners and take care of them, sex is one of the most important forms of intimacy for me. That being said, the best blowjob is given with enthusiasm and I believe good head is only going to be given when the giver actually has a desire to give it. Sucking dick is not fun when you don’t want to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:15 AM
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Then why are men across the board so much obsessed with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:13 AM
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Your photos are probably boring, unappealing, or off putting. If you’re getting laid with a cold approach you’re clearly not ugly. Look for some basic photography tips online, how to take a proper selfie, what angles you should go for etc. So many guys are completely helpless when it comes to putting up photos that actually convey their personality while also being aesthetically appealing.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:07 AM
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“I only get ugly or fat women” 🤡🤡🤡
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:57 AM
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God the fucking irony in this statement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:25 PM
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I met a guy who I thought was straight up hideous upon first meeting him. Spent a day with him and was absolutely enamored. He made me feel something I don’t think I’ve ever felt for another, before or since. Regardless, we had sex in a FWB situation, he blocked and ghosted me, we got drunk and made up, had sex again a couple times and he then ghosted me once more. It took me a long time to get over him, we were very close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:04 AM
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If the procedures are well done, you won’t even notice. The thing is, you don’t like the idea , but if you came across it unknowingly you would be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:58 PM
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I’ve noticed bisexual and straight women really tend to differentiate when it comes to height. As a bi woman myself, I’ve dated plenty of men and women that are short or below average height. It’s not a factor to me, facial structure, style and body tone are. From a purely practical standpoint, being with someone tall is pretty uncomfortable. It’s hard to cuddle, hard to keep walking pace with them, and the best sexual positions just aren’t as easy. I’ve noticed straight women are the first to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:49 PM
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Depends where you live and who you want to attract. If your goal is to get with 8/9/10s in a high competition area like LA or whatever then like … yeah. If this list for men is appalling to you, check out what kind of operations and procedures women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:33 PM
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I guess it depends on skill level. If the fat nerd that plays guitar is touring in a famous band it’s definitely a different story. Fame and status definitely open your opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:25 PM
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If you want a girl to pay attention, give meaningful compliments. Coming up to a girl, and calling her “cute”, “hot”, and “beautiful” will only work if she’s already interested in you, which isn’t likely the case if you’re not acquainted. Instead, try and notice something about the girl that she evidently takes pride in. Women have interests and hobbies too, take notice and incorporate that into your compliment that lets her know you’re attracted. This happened with me a couple days ago and I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:21 PM
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You can’t control factors, like having a small dick or having an “outie”. You can control your hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:43 AM
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From my experience, this is not really the case. We may reject men, but we wouldn’t expend excessive energy leading them on and “settling” with a man because we can’t get attention from men we want. I understand there are men that are attracted to me, that for whatever reason I am not interested in. I very simply state so and offer my friendship or to act as a wingwoman for them in the future. Manipulating a guy into a relationship and sex, while desiring others is a pointless endeavor as it was…
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:27 PM
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Mistreat doesn’t necessarily mean abuse. Mistreatment could be emotional neglect, lack of interest, or monkey branching. It sounds like OP was getting with women he wasn’t even attracted too for validation, and naturally was not an ideal partner as he didn’t even want to be with the people he was with. If someone described their ex as someone who jumped around from girl to girl, clearly felt like he was settling anytime he entered a relationship, or expended energy into chasing hot girls instead…
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:19 PM
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Speaking from a woman’s perspective here. Girls talk, a lot. They warm each other about lackluster men. You do not seem to treat these “lower value” women with any respect and want to shop out of your league. You need to understand that these “lower value” women are friends, sisters, or even just acquaintances with the girls you desire. When these “higher value” girls hear how you have treated the women in the past, there is no hope for you no matter how many weights you lift or how much game yo…
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:25 AM
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I think you’re either unaware or unaccustomed to how extremely dangerous BDSM can be if not done correctly. If both parties aren’t clear communicators, there’s chance for long lasting physical and/or psychological damage to occur. Safe words, limits, boundaries and aftercare are incredibly important to differentiate BDSM from criminal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:11 PM
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Not a “young Chad” by any means. As far as I’ve heard about him, he’s still bitter about our falling out, still works no more than a couple hours a week, and hasn’t bothered getting a diploma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:16 PM
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You head must be firmly stuck up your own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:55 PM
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This sub is designated to whine about first world dating issues and I am comfortable whining in the void with everyone else. The problem in this thread is people comparing whatever we discuss here to real problems such as wealth inequality, which makes it impossible to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:50 PM
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I literally don’t want or need one. I’m actively avoiding committing to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:43 PM
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I mean I don’t really give a shit about male virginity, single parents, or divorce. I genuinely don’t care. I can get an education, hold a job, have my own bank account and buy a vehicle or home. For most of history, women didn’t have access to those things. Many women still don’t. Living in the western north, I am incredibly privileged and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:46 AM
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Oh fuck off. I’m a dreaded “feeemaleee” coming here to “gaslight” you. Women aren’t a monolith that have no interests outside of pop culture. If you bothered talking to a woman, you’d realize each and every one has topics and interests she could happily delve into great detail about. I’ll throw myself in as an example. I love to debate, discuss history, politics, economics, philosophy and literature. Plenty of people get turned off by those subjects, both men and women. I realize we might be inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:51 AM
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Having a life outside of me. A man established in his own career, hobbies, friend groups etc. is attractive. If he has his shit together and isn’t using a relationship as a bandaid to heal deep rooted dissatisfaction with himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:42 AM
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Mom says it’s MY turn to be a victim!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:40 PM
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Mhm no, just went through this. Yesterday I was walking to meet up with my family in a very hot southern state we are visiting. I went out of my way to put on baggy cargo pants and a windbreaker because I figured I’d be wandering alone for a while. Within 5 minutes of walking alone I was getting creeped on by a man who appeared to be in his late 20s. I’m 17 and was dressed like a middle school boy. I even found him somewhat attractive physically, but the fact that I was walking alone with no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:38 PM
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Fuck this noise. You’re not getting a fucking badge for asking a girl out. Cry misandry all you want, it’s not like I’m advocating for handing out participation awards to women for asking men out. There’s bigger things to worry about and first world “dating issues” don’t compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:34 AM
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I speak solely from my experience as a Gen Z woman, so take my perspective with a grain of salt. The structural reforms we need have nothing to do with “traditional values” or incentivizing marriage. We need to reform our neoliberal capitalist economy and the society it has produced. I personally don’t see a fucking point in engaging with men in a traditional manner. I tried a monogamous relationship and it drained me and set me back. Many women my age have similar experiences. We’re all rats in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:29 AM
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How did you message her? Was it a vulgar or an overly forthcoming message? Did you think you could talk to her in whatever way you wanted because she was fat? Let’s be honest, fat or not, no woman appreciates scummy responses to their socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:01 PM
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Inviting him out to do something I enjoy (also must be something he had also expressed interest in). Ex. I took some shots in an abandoned building, a guy I had a massive crush on at the time expressed interest in the photos. I asked him if he wanted to come with me next time I took a visit. We had a great time together and ended up having a FWB relationship for a while. Honestly though, paying attention to him and making sure to give him lots of compliments, indulging his interests and hobbies …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:26 AM
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Just saying, the pictures on your profile can say a thousand words each. I’ve found myself swiping left on very attractive objectively men and women because their displayed persona really does not seem compatible with mine. Ex. I’m very a very outgoing, extroverted person who cannot focus not sit still for very long periods of time . Previous experience with relationships have taught me I wouldn’t be able to enjoy much quality time with someone who’s hobbies revolve entirely around things like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:30 PM
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You ‘re failing to realize women also get dismissed for equivalent factors out of their control such as height (taller women), bone structure (symmetrical face that isn’t “manly” looking required), and boob/ass size as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:52 PM
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I think it has more to do with access to a successful method. Men are statistically speaking, more likely to have access to a firearm. It’s quite hard to botch a suicide attempt with a weapon and is seen as relatively painless and quick. Ensured methods such as hanging or jumping could also be associated with risk taking, a trait found more frequent in men. There is also “risk” in leaving behind a grizzly scene for family/friends/police to find, which is more likely through the use of “violent” …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:06 AM
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Not all of us are addicted to our phones? I have other shit to do and prioritize. If I spent all day answering text messages I wouldn’t have time to go to school/work/take care of chores etc.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:43 PM
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You’re definitely not alone in this. I have pined over men that are conventionally unattractive because they just complete me. There’s nothing more attractive to me than a man who is intense and passionate, bonus points if we share values.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:48 PM
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Because men who don’t see you as worthy of them will open with lines that indicate they want to bust a nut and leave. It’s honestly better to stay home alone then serve as a cumdumpster for a man who’d put a paper bag over your head and escort you out the back door when he’s done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:44 PM
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Forgetting that a large subset of men who date the women on this show fetishize their size and use them to fulfill their feeding fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:36 PM
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Lol me and my friends have hand signals for when we want a casual way OUT of these situations. If the girl didn’t keep at it with you she probably signaled for her friend to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:12 AM
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Uhh what bee? Because last time I heard the worker bees that gather pollen were all females. New species?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:16 PM
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A social life comes to everyone, interaction with others is a part of every human beings life. It’s comes down to accepting the social interaction and working to upkeep it. I face mental health issues that have limited my ability to maintain relationships with others, my lack of ability to maintain relationships is what prevents me from having a social life. It was quite hard to admit that the problem wasn’t my “lack of options” and “other people suck”, rather I wasn’t giving myself opportunitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:42 PM
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It’s pretty fucking scary, especially if you come from an area where women who are raped and maimed turn up on the news every morning.
/r/seduction19/04/22 02:30 AM
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Okay and? Hot girls wear nothing special and do just fine, the rest have to get creative. Get with the program
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:26 AM
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I’d love for men to treat flat women the same as curvy women. I’d love for men to treat skinny women the same way as fat women. I’d love for men to treat young women the same as old women. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:18 AM
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It was so similar I stalked your page a bit to make sure it wasn’t the guy before answering lol. But to answer the question - considering my feelings at the time I would have just asked to be exclusive.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:46 PM
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Eek this is oddly similar to a situation I recently ran into from the opposite end. So I had a brief FWB relationship w/ a guy who told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship, which I was fine with. He then made new friends and sort of forgot about me as he had to focus on himself, however he very poorly communicated the shift and gave off the impression he just didn’t want to spend time with me. Since I’m not the overly attached type, I made my own plans and ended up hooking up with another guy …
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:24 AM
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I think that the general consensus is to not flirt with service workers (they don’t have much autonomy in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:40 AM
1

Methods. Men seem to use “dirtier” methods of suicide that get the job done (think shotgun to the head), while women often take “cleaner” routes (think attempted OD). It’s pretty hard to reverse a bullet to the brain but someone found overdosed could potentially be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:49 AM
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That’s a blatant lie. All studies demonstrate that women work more hours domestically than men, on top of equal working hours for their employers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:45 AM
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Depends. It’s possible life in your culture is different. I was raised lower middle class in a predominantly white working class community. From my perspective, women who marry and have families work harder then their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:43 AM
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I included men in this statement as well. I don’t think either gender is fairly represented. The sort of people to consult an expensive matchmaker are likely of a very similar demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:41 AM
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Not in all cases, but considering the relative ease women have finding men on dating apps/clubs etc. I doubt women would really use a matchmaker unless they are very particular about who they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:41 AM
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Male suicide rates are higher because men are more successful. Suicide attempts are more or less equal between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:17 AM
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I’m sure there’s women out there who like their alone time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:28 PM
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That would make sense. Someone upper class who has the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:25 PM
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I just personally think that in many relationships women give and men take. At least in my parents generation, women worked AND took care of the house and kids while the men worked less and sat on their ass. It does make sense as to why women have such high standards, because unless the man is giving her a net benefit in life by being attractive or high earning or something she is literally better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:20 PM
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Well if she accepts male clients it’s because they’re desperate and easy to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:12 PM
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I don’t think her clientele represents the average man or woman. It seems to me that only extremely desperate men and very picky women would consult a matchmaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:01 PM
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No literally! I have NO issues with men hitting on me in public as long as they follow two rules. They are no rude (no PUA) They do not look like they are old enough to be my father (I am 17, I look 17 - no excuses)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:23 AM
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You’re assuming women want to have long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:07 AM
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As long as you’re not openly telling me you find me unattractive I don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:05 AM
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And yet many Ukrainian women stood behind to help the cause. They bravely stayed put to fight the war waged by men, for the security of their homeland.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:03 AM
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Well that’s actually something I’d love to argue. I am a woman who wears make up for myself. I take interest in the alternative scene and alternative fashion. A part of that look involves heavy makeup (think extreme eyeliner, huge fake lashes, black lipstick, red contacts etc). I can definitely say that I do not wear this makeup to attract men, in fact it often deters them. To me, it’s an art form and a method of expression that I enjoy. I think everyone understands that the butterfly wings draw…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:30 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:03 PM
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You can’t have your cake and eat it too buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:52 PM
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Asía probably does have different dimensions. I was considering my white friend at 5’6 who weight about 100, she looks unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:53 AM
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Nah I have an ED I’d rather die lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:52 AM
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BMI 19.2 so not quite there yet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:33 AM
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Dude 100 pounds on that height is like really underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:16 AM
3

How short are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:15 AM
1

No one dislikes Pick Me’s for their life choices. Pick Me’s are universally disliked because they consciously resort to putting down other women whilst making those choices. No one hates the guy who likes x over y. Everyone hates the guy who cannot enjoy x without putting down those who enjoy y.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:56 AM
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Nah. Seventeen year old Gen Z girl here, for reference. Older men showing interest in me sets off alarm bells instantly. What I’ve personally observed about these sorts of men isn’t great. These men are often behind their peers when it comes to career/self development. They almost always struggle with sobriety or severe mental health issues. Women their own age avoid them, as a result they attempt to take advantage of younger women (who due to their lack of experience) are more tolerant and easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:48 AM
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Your mistake is taking “be yourself” literally. No one wants you. You are cringe worthy, your personality is shit. When people tell you to “be yourself” it’s because they feel second hand embarrassment from watching you attempt to be someone else. Don’t be yourself just stop trying so fucking hard to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:04 AM
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Masc: 115 Fem: 101 Placed right in between masc and androgynous. I’m a cis female for reference. My take on this test is that the test itself was a product of its time. The 1970’s held onto gender roles a bit more tightly than we do today. Some of these gendered activities simply play into stereotypes. For example, I don’t think fantasizing about being a hero or experimenting with fire makes one masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:31 AM
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Are you stupid? Men can get breast cancer and if it not uncommon for men to ignore the early stages of its development under the impression that only women have breast cancer. Male pattern baldness is common. No one gives a second glance to a man with a shaved head. A man with a shaven head can still be professional and masculine. A bald Women, on the other hand, will experience discrimination in the workplace due to her “unprofessional” hair and will likely be seen as non feminine due to her ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:57 AM
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It’s been almost two years since I turned 15 and my life, my values, my goals, my experiences and my personality have changed me into a person I wouldn’t have been able to recognize. People change drastically throughout the late teen and early twenties period, the brain is rapidly developing throughout this period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:24 PM
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Married women live shorter lives than single women. Married men live longer lives than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:36 PM
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A lot of FDS seems to be avoiding broken men so they aren’t given a chance to use. TRP seems to be seeking out broken women to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:38 PM
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I’m sorry what? What the fuck is wrong with you. Imagine your ex girlfriend loved to peg guys. You have never felt the desire to be pegged, and this refuse. Your ex girlfriend then manipulated/coerced/forced you into being pegged. So… you leave the ex girlfriend because her lack of respect for consent makes sex painful and unenjoyable. You get a with a new girlfriend and she is a much kinder person than your ex. She unfortunately reveals, midway through the relationship, she is into pegging. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:49 PM
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I don’t have your experience, for all I know you can be right. Do you think a similar average exists for a young brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:22 PM
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Shit dude just realized what you meant. But still, there’s lots of them out there and they don’t act like this. They have different personalities and don’t behave as a monolith. Don’t pay attention to what is on social media, pay attention to your daily interactions. All girls are different in every demographic. It just isn’t realistic to generalize them like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:10 PM
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Hello, average young woman. Don’t know any of those fucking artists except Megan, only reason I know Megan is because of memes. I don’t know if the food shit is satire but I fucking hate crab and fries. Seafood is nasty and potato is a dumb carb I don’t enjoy eating. Fashion choices are whatever my mom recommended I wear like two years ago and thrifted apparel. Sexual choice is first long term relationship w a guy who games, no drugs, no scams, not an athlete. I don’t know if this is satire but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:06 PM
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I know a guy who is the son of my father’s friend. He isn’t objectively attractive, about 5’5-6, and used to be a bit awkward and nerdy. He never dated a girl in all four years of high school. We met up again once after he joined the military. Super buff and very self assured. He showed me his girlfriend, who was this gorgeous busty red head. He then proceeded to let me swipe through his tinder (as long as I didn’t swipe on “fatties”). When I asked him why he had tinder despite having a girl, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:30 PM
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What the fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:23 PM
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No, women have more trouble under patriarchy. They were abused and silenced with no escape. They did not have less responsibility, but rather an inescapable workplace. Feminists have not been fighting to “do more stuff”. They have asked to equal legal representation and opportunity to support themselves without being forced to endure abuse and mistreatment at the hands of a man enables to do so through her lack of control and personal freedom. Women do not need to do domestic work. Men are perfe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:20 AM
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The sort of men who say things like this are also the sort to pump and dump or immediately wife up a hotter girl if she comes along. It’s okay to have standards and not settle. It’s not okay to expect women that don’t meet the standard to be happy they can “qualify” in absence of a preferred candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:16 AM
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God do men have it so much easier. I spend two hours thirty minutes a day at swim practice, 6 days a week and I can only say now after two years of learning how to maintain a diet that I am in top physical shape. Props to you for maintaining a good diet and sticking to a realistic and achievable workout. A lot of people struggle with that the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:13 AM
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Are these standards for a half assed hook up or a genuine relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:10 AM
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If you desire shallow women, because of your own shallow desires, you will be judged by something as shallow as your height. I’m speaking from personal experience here. I am 5’2, my boyfriend is 5’7. Easily the hottest guy I’ve ever dated or looked eyes upon. Observe couples in real life. Girls are attracted to attractive guys who make them feel attractive. Height isn’t a primary factor here. Go touch grass. Not to mention height is a non issue in many non western countries. My parents have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:09 AM
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That’s alright, I’ve matured past that stage in my life and have taken steps to live a healthier lifestyle since. That being said, it’s the extreme black and white mentality that drives many to develop eating disorders. I would be a bit wary to promote such extreme ideas to young children or teenagers. It is definitely a complex mental disorder as opposed to simply a product of unrealistic beauty standards. That being said, promoting unrealistic beauty standards drives many to attempt to replica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:00 AM
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Women (on average) work more than men do. https://www.bbc.com/news/business-53558250 There are more women in the workplace https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2020/01/14/why-more-women-are-working-in-the-us-than-men.html “ In the United States, women now financially support 40 percent of homes and tend to take on more domestic chores. They typically spend two hours and 12 minutes on daily housework, while men invest about one hour and 21 minutes into the home.” — Women are not set to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:45 AM
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Lots of teenage girls and young adult women develop unhealthy relationships to food. I was judged for my weight as a young teenager and began to exhibit symptoms that could be assessed as bulimia nervosa. Sure, food is addicting and amazing but the pressure to lose weight means that instead of simply exercising the excess calories off I chose to vomit them beginning at age 12/13. This caused me to form an unhealthy relationship with food which stunted my growth and damaged my mental health. Exer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:22 AM
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OLD is a poor representation of dating dynamics. Men outnumber women anywhere from 4:1 to 9:1. Women are simply exposed to more options which helps boost their chances at obtaining a date. However this post does not review online dating, but rather highlights the ridiculous standards imposed on married women with children to uphold their youthful appearances whilst at the same time running a household and working full time. It is inspired by a previous post which detailed how men are held to rid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:15 AM
2

The Wikipedia page on the matter is interesting. Learned that historically vampires were not rumored to have turned humans into vampires, it is a more contemporary work of fictional adaptation that has promoted this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:11 AM
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Dividing domestic duties equally would be a big help. A cultural shift away from promoting unnatural and unrealistic standards of women could assist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:09 AM
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Women’s bodies store fat and gain muscle differently from men’s bodies. For a woman to gain muscle, she just exercise much more intensively and for a greater period of time than a man. Testosterone and biology dictate that the male body simply carry more muscle. Since women carry less muscle than men, their metabolism is slower. On average, men have a 3% to 10% faster metabolism then women. Biology also dictates eating patterns. Women’s bodies are designed and equipped to produce life. To remain…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:06 AM
1

Believe in some tales that you turn into one if you get bit. Would be nice to be forever hot and immortal haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:41 AM
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You are coming off with the idea that men start at 0 and must work their way up, whilst women start at 100 and must not be knocked down. This is simply a ridiculous perspective. The average women must dedicate her financial resources, mental health, and personal desires to be considered conventionally attractive. Unless blessed by the ways of genetics, women tend to dedicate much more effort to their appearance than men do. (Just ask the average man how much $$$, time is being spent on his skinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:39 AM
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Just get bit by a vampire or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:11 AM
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Unfortunately under the current economic conditions it is unlikely that anyone may become a stay at home mother or even father at will. The cost of living would remain relatively the same regardless. There are simply not as many couples having children as there were 60 years ago. I also do not believe that families would benefit from women becoming stay at home mothers, as their families will be at great financial risk if the breadwinner of the family is for whatever reason unable to work or is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:07 AM
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Probably meant to write an hour a day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:59 AM
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Yes. I don’t need not want other men’s validation. I have a partner and he is everything I need. It would be awesome to live in a society where I wasn’t constantly on edge about being harassed or assaulted. It would be great to be taken more seriously in professional settings. Fuck the male gaze, it only carves up young girls into broken women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:29 PM
3

I have to be with someone who either has no developed strong opinion on the matter or leans far left like I do. Not only does that give me less or a headache, I find myself simply more attracted to left leaning or politically questioning men. Similar values are important, and they can predict a partners behavior in future situations. I broke things off with a guy who was a “Blue Lives Matter” type of person during the protests. He was kind but also a bit naive and sheltered. I then also dated a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:43 PM
1

Can I have person A personality with Person B looks and hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:53 PM
1

I sincerely hope you are here for the lulz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:45 PM
1

Who the fuck is going to consent to carrying your genetic waste?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:41 PM
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Okay? Women can have more STDS by a slim margin. That doesn’t mean that all men are exempt from them. This adds nothing to your argument. If Steve has 5 apples and Bob has 6 apples, Steve still has 5 fucking apples. Also to quote your own linked article… “ The increase in sexual problems was also seen in those who had a comparably earlier sexual debut. And the researchers were quick to point out that there isn't enough evidence to say for sure whether waiting to have sex necessarily leads to sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:40 PM
1

Explain please? No one owes anyone a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:33 PM
1

A lot of them seem to believe that women with standards, who do not bend those standards, are the gatekeeper of relationships. They then cherry-pick the standards they most disagree with, cry out how unfair and unjust it is that women are gatekeeping the potential for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:33 PM
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Look, lots of men are worth it. There are men out there that are caring and kind. That will support you in sickness and in health. There are men out there that are worth struggling through the days for just to see them crack a smile. There are men out there that will respect you and your children. These are the men you want to grow old with and share the most intimate moments of your life with. There’s also men that are the opposite of that and somehow worse. Marriage or a life long partner is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:31 PM
1

Lol at least I can make the choice whether to have them or not. Yours is already made for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:27 PM
1

I assume you’re implying I am a “woman going my own way” coper. Correct me if I’m wrong, but WGTOW implies a woman who focuses on herself and her career and stays away from men and dating. While I have nothing against those women, I am not one of them. I have been in a long term relationship with someone since I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:26 PM
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There’s a lot of guys that are worth it. The criteria for what is worth it changes form from woman to woman. A lot of people also want to start families. The pressures of economic factors and traditions also factor into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:24 PM
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Look, women don’t owe men relationships. Look at the facts. Single women live longer and tend to have happier lives than single men. Married women live shorter lives and are less happy than married men. Being in a relationship is a sacrifice for women. Women aren’t going to sacrifice their years and happiness for someone who just isn’t fucking worth it. Standards are standards. Men love to claim they are the protectors and providers, but when women tell them to protect and provide they throw a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:35 PM
1

Nah. Guys that go around fucking everything they can become desensitized to sex and often encounter disease. They can’t get hard and wear their “tools” down. I can’t imagine sex is satisfying with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:48 AM
2

A pencil that’s been sharpened too many times functions poorly compared to the pencil sharpener.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:19 AM
1

Honestly, he probably is much happier than the average single man. The sort of bond you develop with a person who has been there for you for nearly half of your life is intense. Being in a content relationship and not even acknowledging the presence of other potentially viable partners is a fucking blessing for anyone to have. Finding a soulmate is the most desirable outcome of life for a majority of people, and he has had the opportunity to have his soulmate in his life since he was 16. Your fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:53 PM
3

I think it depends on what sort of relationship you want to have. I personally would be okay with hypothetically “sharing” a man that I simply see as a guy friend to hookup with. I don’t care about him being exclusive unless he is asking me to be exclusive for him. That being said, I’m in a long term relationship and I would go batshit if my man even asked to hang out like that with another girl. We’re exclusive for each other and I would definitely not be okay with sharing my boyfriend with any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:12 PM
1

Eh I feel like it’s a bit of both. Obviously if the guy has the ability to attract women easily he will have a higher count. That being said, in certain social settings the high count itself is considered a “trait” of the man, and that in itself can attract more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:54 AM
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I am a cis woman myself. This is from my personal experience with dating and speaking to and observing the behaviors of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:39 AM
1

The sexuality of many women is often based on how desirably they are viewed by others. While men get off on what they are attracted to, women get off from being attractive. (This obviously has exceptions, but is an observation I’ve made in a majority). However, to take this explanation and relate it to the statement at hand - women get off more from being desired by men who are desirable members of society. Women fantasize about being the object of desire for an important man. It turns her on to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:35 AM
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Just my personal insight here, but if my boyfriend admitted to the fact that his ex girlfriend (who dumped him) was better in bed to his FRIEND, I would be heartbroken and enraged. I could never imagine marrying someone who doesn’t believe I am the very best they have ever had. That is because I cannot imagine marrying someone I don’t believe is the best I’ve ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:07 PM
3

I would kill myself if I had to live pre feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:18 PM
2

My boyfriend’s 5’7, and it definitely isn’t a problem for me. I’m around 5’1, so having the half foot difference is cute. He’s obviously shorter than most guys, but I always joke that the extra inches went to his dick. 5’7 really isn’t a “struggle height” imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:17 AM
1

You’re making a generalization that each and every women that has ever walked this planet is some sort of an unashamed narcissist. No one thinks that men shouldn’t be allowed to have their own dreams and desires and whatnot. You’ve created an imaginary issue where men constantly fall victim to women wishing them to be playing the parts of perfect role fulfilling characters. This has nothing to do with what I am attempting to discuss. If a man’s dreams and desires happen to include something I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:14 AM
1

Tbh it’s just fucking cringe to have a porn addiction (and be proud of it) or to be following insta thots at the age of 25+. I’m younger than OP and I’ve found a partner that does not engage with this sort of content, they actively work to avoid it. It shows maturity and loyalty to our relationship. Simple as that. There’s other things men can do for their own enjoyment (videogames, sports, hanging out with friends, etc.) that aren’t damaging our bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:29 PM
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Women spend inordinate amounts on plastic surgery, much more then men. Women are most likely to develop eating disorders (and die from them). Sure, it’s sucks in the dating market as an unattractive man, but if he has other qualities he should have no problem with his career. Ugly woman? Not given a chance. They will always be outcompeted by a pretty girl, and I’m not talking out of my ass there are legitimate studies upon this issue. (Ill get together a few links if anyone actually gives a shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:50 PM
1

I have an N count of 1, boyfriend has an N count of 2 including me - this is the furthest I would take it to be honest. Men who have double digit body counts are disgusting and the chance I would contract an STD is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:25 PM
1

Does that also mean we should provide gay men equal, government enforced, access to straight men? OP, are we allowed to seize the means of your asshole? Rules for thee and so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:37 AM
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The reason for the cancer awareness discrepancy is simple. Breast Cancer survivors and sufferers have built up a community of support, which has turned into organizations which spread awareness and research. Prostate cancer survivors have made no such movement to form social support groups and work on advocacy and awareness, and thus have no comparable support. A lot of men complain about the issues facing them going largely ignored. They point at woman and women’s issues as though their issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:26 AM
1

Quick question, do you know what liberal arts is? A sadly large amount of men here think it is absolutely associated with studying “liberal” ideology (rather interesting). Are you aware of what “transactional” means? You’re confusing me a lot with this response. What is the transaction exactly? Rather large word that doesn’t really work well here to convey your meaning. To simply respond to what I believe you are saying - I’m not asking for men to date “gender studies” majors. Simply women who e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:29 AM
0

I think society has failed men. It’s not just your girlfriends who won’t let you cry. Fathers beat you when you cry. Childhood friends laugh when you cry. Men don’t cry on TV and the ones who do are never depicted positively. This problem is a byproduct of patriarchy and its values. Women you date also live in this society of patriarchy and are thus unconsciously influenced by it. For men here, I strongly encourage you to find an EDUCATED feminist girlfriend. Women who delve into the topic of ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:33 AM
1

My boyfriend cries a lot. I love him dearly and don’t plan to ever leave him. I never feel disgust with him when he does, I simply hold him whenever it happens to be an issue. I am much more of a cold and distant type when it comes to handling emotional issues, so he helps me cry a little too, even if it’s not externally. The sort of people that look down upon you with disgust when you cannot live up to their inhumane standards aren’t worth keeping around. “In sickness and in health” should appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:59 PM
0

With good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:37 AM
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It’s rare men care about anything but your appearance when they first meet you. Appearance and your “soft skills” tend to win men over easily. I don’t do make up, I don’t care for nails - that is something women tend to do to impress other women. Quite honestly, managing my appearance entails that I simply am able to keep myself as hygienic as possible (entirely shaved, hair brushed, eyebrows done, nails short and trimmed, smelling nice). I wouldn’t consider any of this self improvement though, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 05:45 PM
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Eh, I find it a bit therapeutic to speak to people on here. I was never quite the type to fit in amongst my peers and frequented these sorts of forums often when I had nothing better to do. As to address the latter question, we met when we were both, mentally, not in the best places. He’s been my support and I’ve been his through a lot of the ugly things that happen in our worlds, and while life would go on, it would be very miserable without his presence for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:05 AM
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Not necessarily running from it. (Admitted to preferring Man A for genetic material). Personally I am happy with a long term relationship I already have and do not feel the need to relocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:15 AM
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Don’t engage. Spend my free time accelerating my career and accumulating knowledge, growing skills I am passionate about. I would invest my free time into body building and studying and trading off cryptocurrency, perhaps even an artistic medium. Alongside this, a thorough education with prestigious marks. I would surround myself with people who are like minded and successful in life, however only allow one or two close friends into my personal life. Truly a man going his own way. Once I have ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:11 AM
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Found that person for myself so I hope we will get to the point where we can settle down and be secure in life. High school relationship - I’m 15, he’s 18 so relatively young. He’s not perfect but neither am I, we’ve been through a lot together and we have grown as people. I feel genuine love for him and his existence makes me happy. He’s definitely an attractive person, beautiful and striking but his eyes gleam when we’re together and that’s what makes me feel crazy about him. He’s fiercely loy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:57 AM
1

Not surprisingly, men once again chose the strategy that will help them spread their sperm the most. Your reply coupled with the main thread seems to uphold the idea that women set the standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:47 AM
1

Snow. I have a personal dichotomy for you. You have two options. Option A is a very attractive women with a beautiful hour glass figure. She has long beautiful hair and a naturally attractive face. She wears no make up. She makes you feel desired and loves to passionately fuck you. She talks to your for hours about your dreams and hobbies, respecting and listening to each and every one of your ideas. She has amazing talents for cooking and cleaning, and works out regularly - taking care of herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:41 AM
1

No thanks. I don’t need a relationship to survive. I can spend my time and energy on myself and focusing on my career and personal happiness. If I am not loved and happy, I have no reason to stay. Man A is a waste of time. He will give me nothing but self esteem issues and make me question my self worth. It will be an insane waste of time attempting to win him over with constant make overs, and he will occupy way to much space in my head. Man B sounds disgusting. I don’t want a slob. If someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:30 AM
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These women don’t have any “privilege”. If men collectively quit whoring around, there would be no issues for men who are less fortunate in looks. Men slightly above would simply stick to long term relationships with their looks-matches and force women of lower SMV to date men equivalent to them. The only people you have to blame for what men call “hypergamy” is the male instinct to fuck anything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:09 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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