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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"Incel Shaming" is just virgin shaming with a new coat of paint Feminists rescind each other’s “feminism cards” all the time. For having the wrong view of pornography or sex work. For using the “I have a boyfriend” line when being harassed (“a real feminist doesn’t perpetuate the idea that a man has to own you to avoid harassment”), for trans exclusion (as you mentioned), whether feminists should vote as a unified monolith for the cause, over all kinds of legislation and whether it helps or hurts, for workplace betrayals (the stereotypical HR lady protecting…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/22 03:34 PM
29	"Incel Shaming" is just virgin shaming with a new coat of paint There’s lots of infighting in the feminist movement, so that’s to be expected, I think. Some people are just looking for a group to belong to, so they can attack the group they aren’t in, and feel a sense of “solidarity” (i.e. echo chambers) when they get called out for it. Those people are ripe for radicalization, because they’ll happily eat up as much “feeling right” as they can get, no matter who gets hurt. Other people ally themselves with like-minded others not so they can feel right, but s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/03/22 07:53 PM
3	"Incel Shaming" is just virgin shaming with a new coat of paint But “Capital I Incels” are potential threats, any virginity notwithstanding. There’s a big difference between “guy who is frustrated by virginity” (not shameful, shouldn’t be shamed) and the “weaponized shame and resentment” that radicalized incels employ to rationalize all kinds of weird dogma, like state-mandated girlfriends (institutional rape) and hilariously inaccurate understandings of how genitals work. The problem is that, functionally, the “incel” label often gets used disingenuously. P…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/03/22 06:07 PM
58	"Incel Shaming" is just virgin shaming with a new coat of paint That’s exactly what it is. Thank you for saving me from trying to get this into a probably much longer diatribe only to arrive at the same point. People are always “shopping” for new ways to wield shame as a weapon of righteousness, and always high on the wishlist is a socially acceptable way to call men “pussies”. Misogynists (who are also self-hating men) use “cuck” because they don’t care if you object to their heteronormative regressiveness. Non-misogynists/“enlightened male advocates” have …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/03/22 05:42 PM
3	How do we see women? Men have dynamic value while women have static value. This is a really interesting shorthand for it. I like it. And it’s probably something like 60/40 dynamic/static for men, and vice-versa for women. (Those are just arbitrary proportions, but the point is simply to acknowledge the people who will say “But I experience static and dynamic value assignment!” Which yes, we all do.)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/10/21 05:33 PM
22	How do we see women? We (society) still easily write off women as gold diggers, attention seekers, call them bitchy/bossy when they are assertive, stuff like that. At the same time, I don’t think the average woman truly understands how often they are given the benefit of the doubt. That’s the polarized nature of it, right there. Everyone (including feminists) has an opinion on how women should be, and feels entitled to women’s bodies, reproductive health, behavior, and appearance. I think we (everyone) “commodify” w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/10/21 07:07 PM
3	Dear Menslib - we tried to tell you. While we would normally allow divergent views to be discussed, the amount of upvotes this comment is getting shows that some shenanigans are going on I'm really glad this explanation was added. I'm new to this sub, am constantly interested and open to having my assumptions challenged (I straight up enjoy it)... but as soon as I saw "post removed" I groaned. My first thought was "Fuck. This place seemed pretty cool... But maybe it's just another echo chamber. I'm so tired of those."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/09/21 01:49 PM

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