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| 1 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.Why would you go out with somebody you don't even like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Antiporn is usually motivated by misandryIn reality, is less that women hate porn itself, and more that they hate their partners watching it. Why? Because of jealousy. They hate the idea of their man getting his rocks off to another lady, and all the cheap moralism around it is pretty much just a cope, because they just don't want to admit that it makes them jealous. Because jealousy could be taken as insecurity, and women in online spaces like this like to pretend that only men can be insecure or feel jealousy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Men Shouldn't Apologize for priortizing beauty and refusing to settle for lessHuman beings are not really rational creatures. Both men and women look for partners that they find physically attractive. So maybe drop the whole "mEn aM iRRAtioNal!!" Insinuation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What do abusive men bring to the table?what part of it is made up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 03:02 AM |
| 0 | What do abusive men bring to the table?Such as? In my personal case? Been told by people online I must be controlling, sexist, or a player. Also had an ex calling me an "emotional vampire", for wanting to spend time doing things that weren't just shopping for her new clothes or taking her to get blackout drunk on weekdays, and then telling me that's why no other girl wanted me Perception bias Those have been my experiences. Just because you don't like them, it doesn't make them invalid And clearly, you think sex should be distributed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:01 PM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.I do agree that we men really need to learn to choose our partners, and not just 'take whoever comes first' Specially since, whoever comes is usually the kind of girl that throws a temper tantrum over you wanting to have the same assurance on your supposed child, that naturally comes to her by default | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:46 PM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.Acceptable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:38 PM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.Because, literally everyone has the capability of doing wrong, lying or changing for the worse. And understanding that is not the same as having "thrust issues" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 7 | What do abusive men bring to the table?Because for your average dude, whenever we ask online what we could do to improve our dating lifes, we are often told we fail due to our moral failings. Meanwhile, I think most men would agree the biggest, most blatant misogynists irl are the ones that are never alone, and always have women willing to commit with them, or women to cheat on their partners with So yeah. We 'focus on the abusers', because they are the ones women reward with their actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.He's probably repeating it, because many, many woman nowadays have this idea that, if you as a man want to be with them, then you have to "provide" for them. Ie, pay all their expenses so they can stay home all day browsing TikTok. If they wish to keep working, then their money will be for them to enjoy, while you as a man have to provide for them, pay the rent, buy them whatever trendy thing they want that week, and also take them out to expensive restaurants or nightclubs because "I'm a queen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 04:09 PM |
| 0 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingThe whole passport bro thing is exploitative and transactional to its core. And ironically, it's way closer to the whole 'beta bucks' than most of them would ever dare to admit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Artificial wombs will displace female hierarchyOk dude. This may come as a shocker to you, but for me, and probably most men, wherever or not we want to partner up with a woman doesn't depend on her ability to pump out kids. Hell, even if you want to start a family and the woman in question doesn't, that only really mean that you're unfortunately not compatible as long term partners; not that she is worthless as a human being Hell, many women in this thread have already pointed out that artificial wombs would be a benefit for women that want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:23 AM |
| – | Most men do not have passions or hobbies in their life because they focus more on getting a job and making money, even if it is not what they are passionate about, for a stable family.Honestly? Speak for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThe more I read up on this sub, the more I realize everyone here, both men and women; is terminally online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 3 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.How about this: Wherever you're a man, woman, non-binary person or whatever; and you're in a relationship that feels transactional, instead of turning it into a game and trying to "win", you can just And I need you to hear me out here You can just move on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility.-Bullyng the people around them -Swearing -Flirting with other women -Having multiple children with multiple women -Performative masculinity -Needing to pay for everything/ showing off their money -Gambling -Drinking and clubbing on work days -Being rude to service staff -Getting into arguments with random people on the streets -Talking about moving together/ moving to another town after only a couple of months of relationship -Having blatant gang tattoos -Day drinking -Being 10 years older All … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)OP, for the love of God, seek some therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 09:57 PM |
| 18 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsI will never understand why people in this sub, both men a women; obsess so much over marriage and kids, when most of you all cannot get or hold a relationship for more than a couple months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 02:40 PM |
| – | Men do NOT need to “do better”.I think that this is a great post to remind allt he commenters that your average, everyday woman is just as mediocre, insecure and ignorant as your average man. Just because they are more "in demand" due to the disparity in sex drive between the sexes, doesn't mean they are inherently better people, our shouldn't look inwards and strive for self improvement. And I mean, seriously, I am a man and most of my partners were pretty insecure, intrusive, rushed things out when it benefitted them, were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 03:10 AM |
| – | Where would you lrefer to get to know people?That is great an all, but that kind of experiences are not universal. For many men, dating is something you gotta put an active effort on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Where would you lrefer to get to know people?"You don't interact to date" The thing is, as a man, you have to do so. Romantic and sexual relationships aren't something that 'just happens' to us. Almost every man, even the most extroverted ones, have to take the first step and be active in pursuing women if they want anything to happen with any particular girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Can’t ask a fish how to catch fish. Women’s dating advice is pointlessDo women ever ask men for dating advice? Because, I struggle to think of a single time I have seen a woman doing so. At best, they ask for stuff like, "what would you as a man like to receive for your birthday" and so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life.The post says that 90% of men get into long term relationships just to get sex, because they are unable to get it from dating around with multiple women (as it implies the other 10% men do) So basically it is just the old "men only want sex wahhh" bs rephrased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:27 PM |
| -2 | Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life.MEN BAD WOMEN GOOD Just don't date men if you are gonna have that attitude. Believe me, you would be doing us a favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 04:05 PM |
| – | Let’s lighten things up a little bit. What are your “hear me out(s)”?Aman of refined taste | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Male FeministMale pick-me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?We both know women love using gay as an insult against men they don't like, even in caes where their only crime is not performing the masculine stereotypes they do like and find beneficial. And no amount of whataboutism is not gonna change that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?That is some grade-A lack of accountability. Women are free agents with free will, not children that just copy everything men do. If you and other women do things like that, it's because you choose to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything at all that you feel like men need grace for?Maybe men wouldn't be concerned with being perceived as Gay if women didn't use gay as an insult so much. Seriously, any man who disagrees with a woman, doesn't perform stereotypical masculine roles or just expresses his negative experiences dating women immediately get bombarded with the old "you gay" and "you wanna date men admit it lol" from women. And of course women get away with being as homophobic as they want because ~women are wonderful~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of romantic love.This stinks of "I'm not like other men!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 11:32 AM |
| 41 | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menNot that all women look for immoral, abusive, or deadbeat men. But immoral, abusive and deadbeat men NEVER have any trouble finding women into them, or women that will be willing to accept infidelity or get with them despite having a reputation. Dating success has nothing to do with moral values, and the women here should stop pretending otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible for a man to move from being viewed as “long term” to “short term fun” or vice versa?That just sounds like the "loser" gets to have sex with you without any of the responsibilities of a real relationship. Yeah, that'll show them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 11:10 PM |
| 11 | Men want to compete more than date."It's ok if I do it, but not ok if you do it!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Should men forgive a cheating girlfriend that wants him back ?That sounds like a confession | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazy"MEN BAD, WOMEN GOOD" Go touch grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:55 AM |
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