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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum Game Only saw your comment today, my bad! What’s the strategy when telling them we expect marriage early It’s a standard and to some extent a boundary. You demand it with assertiveness like you would for any other standard. Some standards do not need to be communicated, it’s either he is up to par or he isn’t. However “wanting marriage early” needs to be explicitly stated from the moment you mention you are looking for marriage or if he’s the one to bring up looking for marriage, follow up by communi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/22 03:01 PM
40	Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum Game Amen to this! The few number of women I know who adopted this mindset (or were raised with this mindset) are either happily married or in the dating market but have gotten lots of proposals (rotational dating). Scrotes usually weed themselves out real quick when you tell them you expect marriage early and sex isn’t what you bring to the “table” 🙄 Edit : “were raised”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 01:37 PM
28	My best friend told me she's jealous of my "glamorous life". I realized it's all because of our mate choices due to this subreddit. u/fireforestfairy POT means potential partner ;). It’s better to be low-key in all circumstances. Not to be machavellian but not everyone has your best interest in mind. The only people that will neither be jealous of you or have a superiority complex over you, are the like minded friends or the ones that have a similar lifestyle to you/already levelled up/are content with their lives. Nonetheless, they still have to be vetted. Anyway, sending you good vibes ! You will meet genuine friends that …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 10:49 AM
164	My best friend told me she's jealous of my "glamorous life". I realized it's all because of our mate choices due to this subreddit. I second this. As much as you want to share your happiness with someone you consider close to you, it is the worst thing to do when the other party isn’t content with its own life. It can easily breed resentment and jealousy from the listening party. Friends needs to be as strictly vetted as POTs and partners. EDIT : Added two whole paragraphs. Corrected the grammar too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 02:29 AM
37	Write down your boundaries Yes write them down ! Before writing them down, one thing that helped me figure out my boundaries was asking to myself “will I do X to my partner/friend in X situation” every time the answer came out as no, it would create a new boundary. It also works if you’re unsure a boundary (that wasn’t defined) was violated just ask yourself “if I was at [alleged violator of your personal boundaries]’s place would I treat myself/the other this way”. Again if the answer came out as no, new boundary and a t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 07:36 PM
9	Posted this on another sub and people defended this dude. Is this not weird behavior? Right !!! Seriously how can you dislike dogs !!! Except if you’re allergic or were bitten by a dog in the past…. People defend him probably because he reflects the standard man-child.self-entitled.mysoginistic.weirdo.borderline racist dude thus appealing to the mass. To top it all that part about not seeing people yada yada screams trust issues	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 05:00 AM
28	Posted this on another sub and people defended this dude. Is this not weird behavior? “Dogs are also not for me ; CATS and REPTILES ARE” Idk doesn’t sound like a safe mix. Oh well he’s stating his pReFEreNCeS 🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 04:00 AM

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