OleGriffyBoi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Anyone else ever heard of a temporary custody order taking this long?	Custody	OleGriffyBoi	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 04:49 AM

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2	Tips for keeping spousal alimony low You're absolutely right. She put the kids clearly in danger while only thinking of herself. That's sickening really. I too am currently fighting ex wife for custody, but I feel like I stand a good chance for at least 50/50 as well. My ex is mentally ill and cannot make proper judgment calls for our son's sake at all man. Both my attorney AND her attorney know she's insane, and I've been informed this. Example: ex walked into court WITH my son in her arms, interrupted proceedings, just to tell th…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 06:28 PM
11	Tips for keeping spousal alimony low "DUI with kids in the car", and she still got some custody. Courts are a joke man.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 06:17 PM
2	Found out my wife is a garbage human. Are there kids in the picture? If not, this will be a lot easier after the initial heartache. Divorce is easy. The custody stuff is what is hell.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 06:11 PM
6	Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump. My ex-wife tried to alienate me from my family, going so far as to keep them from our only child's birth. She literally told the mediator that she did this because she is the birthing person, and she has the final say. The divorce should be finalized any day now. She is literally getting nothing except a small amount of support. Besides the continual alienation and harassment when I try to see my son, she lost big time. She may end up losing him too down the road, due to all the unhinged insanit…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/24 06:31 PM
7	Thinking about getting married again PRENUP	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 09:48 PM
1	I filed for divorce and STXW had me arrested for a staged DV simple assault. I also had the character statements made too. Idk if they did much, but my defense attorney was pretty much instrumental in getting me in the best position to get the charges dropped.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 09:36 PM
2	I filed for divorce and STXW had me arrested for a staged DV simple assault. Good advice. I do the same thing for my situation as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 09:34 PM
2	I filed for divorce and STXW had me arrested for a staged DV simple assault. Bro, I have definitely been there, so I know how much it sucks and how stressful it is. Getting a lawyer is an excellent first step. Next, make sure you follow what your attorney says to a T. I'm hoping you guys don't have kids? If you don't completely stay away from her, greyrock her, and get your own place. If you HAVE to be around her for any reason, make sure you have at least 2 recording devices on your person at all times. Don't get anywhere near her physically, and ignore all her emotiona…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 09:30 PM
9	Should I win my wife back even through I know that she was 100% about to cheat and was going traveling with a goal to get laid? Dude, I literally just read the title. The answer is a resounding NO. Get that toxic person out of your life and enjoy the peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/24 08:58 PM
8	My ex hates my guts Dude, I'm right there with you. I filed back in March of this year (I'm in NC, so I filed for divorce almost immediately after the 1 year and a day separation), and she is still contending the divorce. I did get lucky though- her and I were married just under 11 months, so she isn't getting anything from me, other than child support. She's furious too, and keeps trying to stall the divorce I guess to piss me off, along with thinking there's some way she's going to take all my shit. The worst par…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/24 02:39 AM
1	Anyone else ever heard of a temporary custody order taking this long? I've heard this, but my attorney said we'd have to prove my child was in immediate danger to be able to file an emergency order. I'm in NC.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/24 06:04 PM
1	Do you wish her happy birthday? Absolutely not. Besides the mountains of horrible things the narc/borderline did to me and my family, anyone and I mean ANYONE who would use their child as a weapon to hurt someone, use the child to play victim in court settings, not put the child's best interests and safety first, and withhold the child from the other parent out of spite (this hurts the child worse of all!), won't get shit from me besides communication only about the child, support for the child, and a restraining order. Courts…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 07:45 PM
3	Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce? Getting out is the only option man. I'm glad it's getting better for you. Not meaning to pry, but hopefully no kids are involved with your situation? I tried to stay for my son's benefit, but it got bad enough to where I had to leave just so he wasn't exposed to that shit. Actually, the night of her calling the police, I had already left and told her I was done. She then went on the offensive after I had already left and started to formulate her story with her being the victim. The next day, whi…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 06:59 PM
5	Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce? I'd say my current divorce qualifies with that buzzword, as well as borderline personality disorder. Basically, I'm in a situation where my ex-wife played the system and acted as though she was the victim. Had me arrested under the guise of "assault," then proceeded to stalk me when I was trying to stay away from her craziness, distance myself, and live my life. She continues to try and stall the divorce, stalk me although she's been arrested for it, as well as put our child second to herself, w…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/24 03:46 AM