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No.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 01:50 AM
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Pick up Rollo Tomassi's first book, "The Rational Male". Amazon has an online version. Not expensive. Stop dating for right now. Being angry at them for being women will bring you nothing but grief. Understanding women will really change your perspective. Educate yourself. Life will get a whole easier. BTW, been there, done that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 06:39 AM
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Lawyer. Up. Now. My guess is that her side piece made her an offer she couldn't refuse. Her affair fog will lift eventually and now is the time to get a divorce settlement that will benefit you and your kids. Take legal action now. Grieve later after the court order is in place.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 09:25 PM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/20 04:03 PM
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I did this about two years post divorce. I did the math up to the end date and offered $5000 less than the total. Greed and the fear of me flaking I think, caused her to accept. I had the money from a house sale. It was a chunk of change but severed that last tie. Made me feel great. Had to file the change in court.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/20 09:58 PM
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This
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/20 09:44 PM
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She's banging someone else. My advice via you to your friend, is for him to not bother with couples counseling but instead, to file for divorce asap. Simping and hoping that she'll change her mind is a fools errand. I would point him towards therationalmale.com for some "light" reading. Fortunately, there are no children. Sell the house, split the assets, and GTFO, Seriously. She wants to bang other guys. Best she do that while single. He needs to learn to live alone,
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/20 10:08 PM
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This exactly
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:16 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:54 AM
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Start with purchasing The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi........second, begin reading all the sidebar material. Gather data, then come back with your question.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 06:45 PM
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You lost me at the racist shit. Go back to 4chan
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 06:53 PM
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There are fewer higher demonstrations of competence than being able to repair both minor and major items in your life, to fabricate things, or know where to get it done. These are skills I learned from my father, uncles, trade programs, the military, books, other male mentors, and yes, Youtube. Many men today cannot even change a flat tire. This is less than attracting female attention but more about being able to move in an often confusing world with grace and confidence. I would posit that the…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 06:26 AM
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It was just your turn....... She got some more important (than you) action happening and doesn't want to screw it up. My guess it's a guy who's "marriage material". Soft next. You're not "friends", you're lovers and right now she has some decisions to make. Move the fuck on and make it clear that you're not a friend.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:50 PM
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If you want to bring a high level of excitement into your life with no guarantee of a positive outcome, then do it. Trust your gut. If you do bang her, she will not play by the rules and your life will turn into a living hell. Just don't bring it back here.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:51 AM
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In all seriousness. Waiting for sex past 2 or 3 dates is a waste of not only money, but of your most valuable resource, time. If a woman is aroused by you, she'll risk eternal damnation to have sex with you. Remember, "Women make rules for Betas and break rules for Alphas." My recommendations are follows: 1) Read the side-bars. 2) Read the "9 Iron Rules of Rollo Tomassi". You don't even want to wife-up a woman whom you've never had sex with. You're currently in her frame. Back off and create som…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:36 PM
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Here's my take: 1) Good thing the dashcam was on. 2) The dude held it together actually and he knows his stuff is toast. Kicking her out of the car wasn't warranted at this point. LE would've been called (see number 1) He held it together and got her out of the car. Whether he hard nexted her or not, we'll never know. 3) I hope that his takeaway is that he learns to vet better. 4) Good thing the dashcam was on.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 04:51 PM
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Here, here.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 03:36 PM
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Here, here.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 05:44 PM
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Re-read the sidebars. She's not a "plate". She's not even interested in fucking you. Stop embarrassing yourself and soft next her. Don't call her on her behavior. Don't whine. There are many more women out there who will let you know they want to fuck you. The only person you're in control of is yourself.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:45 PM
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Hmmmm.........My second ex-wife lives this rationalization. The damage she did blowing up her marriage pales in comparison to the need to "self-actualize" and more importantly, to have a story to tell. Classic solipsism that she'll take to her grave. I hope the man she zeroed out got woke and had a good pre-nup in place. Thank God there were no children to fuck up. Eat. Pray. Love, y'all.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 09:28 PM
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What's happening is that she doesn't want to fuck you. She gave it a whirl with the off chance that the tingles would increase. They didn't. Offering comfort tipped her decision. Don't text. Don't call. If she does re-initiate contact then communicate in logistics only. You've invested a little bit into this failed business but don't invest anymore. If she wants to fuck you, it will be perfectly clear. It's not what they say, it's what they do that matters. Re-read the sidebar material and do no…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:29 PM
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Yo, Pharmpharm7, No contact is the way to go. Not to teach her a lesson or somehow make her miss you and beg to come back. In her mind, you're gone and you've been gone awhile. She branch swung long before dropping this on you (you'll probably find this out later). No contact is for you to come to grips with the fact that it was just your turn and to address the pain and loss of having your "one-itis" disappear. Closure ain't gonna happen. Staying friends ain't gonna happen. Her coming back ain'…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:57 AM
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Your response was appropriate. This is a hard next. Block her social media, lose her phone number, and start in on other women. You're in a mess because you developed a case of one-itis for her. For her, you were just a placeholder. She may try to re-connect if only to add you to her orbiter collection but probably not. You would've known if she truly desired you. The ex wouldn't have stood a chance. You learned something here. Re-read the sidebars and The Rational Male, lift, and focus on your …
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:29 PM
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I think you're missing the point here. Women are women and subject to the rule of hypergamy. This applies to feminists as well. If, you fall into that 80% SMV that women find undesirable, you won't get the time of day from any women who perceives you as being equal to, or lower than, her own perceived SMV. No point in getting mad at this fact. It won't ever change. They make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. The key here is to improve yourself and improve your own attractiveness and fr…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:58 PM
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"I’ve always counted on girls and material possessions to bring me happiness and it’s been working but not anymore." Then you're not listening. Girls and possessions are always a by-product of your mission. Never the point of it. You're relapsing so it's time to lift, eat right, re-gain your frame, and quit worrying about pussy. You could win the fucking lottery right now and still not be happy unless you used the money to move to Jamaica. In all seriousness though, S.A.D. (seasonal affective di…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:37 AM
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Yep. ​ If I remember, Rollo Tomassi discussed the issue of "buffers". Using the tools on the internet to mitigate rejection. As we all know, OLD, Tinder, etc. can be utilized successfully for a very narrow band of men to obtain NSA sex however........the vast majority of men don't fall into that high SMV category despite the marketing promises and wind up being frustrated. The smart one's leave that realm quickly and adapt using tools developed in the PUA community for face-to-face game. It's wa…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 01:00 AM
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The medium is the message........I hate to sound like a pill but she's done with you. I'm not real optimistic so you have two options IMO. One, soft next and do not initiate anything or, go ahead and cut her off completely to keep your dignity intact. The level of disrespect she has shown you calls for a hard next. It was just your turn.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:08 AM
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Ahhhhhhh.....the quintessential RP tenet: "Outcome Independence". Don't forget. RP is a praexology. A tool box with PUA being simply one wrench to help you achieve on particular goal. It's about continuous self-improvement internally and learning how to navigate in the world. Thanks for this FR.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:18 PM
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So, here's my experience in educating guys. I had a construction firm and now own a farm. Both places where young guys work and work hard. What they observe is women coming and going from my place constantly and they talk about the jefes girls. They're all struggling with women and I've learned to drop RP nuggets on them like "She's not yours. It's just your turn" or "Hypergamy doesn't care". This always prompts other questions. They're interested in getting laid. Period. It's usually at this po…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:12 PM
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This was painful to read. Not even in the depths of my post-divorce, Blue Pill despair, did I sink this low. Jerry doesn't know that there's a way out and so this raises that "Don't Talk About Fight Club" question again: How can we effectively help our friends, family, or others, in getting a clue? Can the same techniques based on observable and verifiable data that gave us PUA and RP, be used to "game" clueless men into a different way of looking at the world and women? I'm willing to bet that …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 03:24 PM
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Bwahahaha!!! Good luck with this!!! Seriously, in case of a divorce, this will get thrown out. You will pay child support and perhaps some alimony. You will lose half of your stuff that you accumulated post-marriage. A pre-nup is only good for stuff you bring into the marriage. If.....you decide to in fact marry, then good game is absolutely essential. This will become tiresome. Research Married Red Pill. ​
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 07:11 PM
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I'm sorry....I just got lost in the Jerry Springer videos. This was the most entertaining thing I've seen in a while. I really liked it when the guys got up and danced. The RP truth here is to wrap it up. Seriously. Women are gonna be women. No point in getting mad at them.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 10:13 PM
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Agree......especially your first point.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:12 AM
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The chronic users. Not many. Occasional users. Quite a few. All things in moderation, I guess.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:27 AM
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Sure. Any sort've drug use and this includes tobacco and alcohol, negatively affects neural pathway development. The human brain doesn't stop growing until about age 27. Healthly adults who take up drug use beyond their mid-20's are less like to develop dependencies.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:23 AM
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Congratulations. I really mean this. You have identified not only the key problem but also who's responsible for fixing that problem. First steps: 1) Get thee to a gym and begin lifting (light) a minimum of three times per week. 2) Educate yourself on nutrition and exercise (gotta love Youtube) 3) Get a job. Even if it's PT. Preferably one with customer contact. 4) Establish a daily schedule for yourself even if you don't have a job yet. a) Get up at 7. MAKE YOUR BED. b) Shower, shave, and walk …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:38 PM
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Just text her letting her know that you'll be 10 minutes late. If she doesn't respond, then next her.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:34 PM
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Fit and attractive is your baseline. This needs to be always running in the background without deviation or distraction. You're also in a field that unfortunately balances the need for redundancy/functionality against profitability. I will recommend two directions to explore in order to do harm reduction and to tap into the phenomenon of crowd sourcing solutions to engineering problems: The first is to engage in more continuing education in the fields of materials science, electronic engineering…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:32 PM
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It depends on their value to you: Long time "friends" who do this and can provide you with social proof, you're banging his sister, you want to work in his Dad's company, etc., just keep at arms length and never open up about anything. Use them. Most other people, just ghost. Period. There's no point explaining or calling them out. You just don't have value in their eyes. Most men are lucky to have two or three close friends in their lifetime. Learn to cultivate those. These are the guys who wil…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:21 PM
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This was necessary but absolutely brutal. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 05:38 PM
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I cringed when I read this.....I think a lot of us have been here
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 02:33 AM
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Then you've done what you can do with these guys. See what I said in my original response. Take the next step, and the risk. Your metrics are blue pill and you're living for external validation. Regional fame in a band is still regional fame. You're stuck in doing the band's music and if they're starting to irritate you then leave. Remember that all relationships are transient and come to an end by choice or by death. Leave on a good note and consider this band as a stepping stone to you own car…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:28 PM
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If music is your mission and your band mates are stuck in the cover song/party scene, then bail. Learn to sing and take it to the next level. Become a singer/songwriter and own your music. Be the guy. Start a new band with the intent of creating radio-ready content in a pro studio and not some guys garage who has a MacBook and ProTools. Find a producer/engineer with gold records on the wall (they're out there) and do exactly what he says. Own your name. Determine your content and be the business…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 12:14 AM
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Well, shoot......this guy certainly did poke a bear. I doubt that he's done much delving into Red Pill theory but is instead a really good looking, higher Beta who has monetized his looks as a dating guru. His looks probably do not trigger disgust. He's physically in that 20% and women naturally come to him. With that said, he said some things that are anathema to the current feminine imperative and directly challenged the "fat is sexy" solipsism that seems to be prevalent in not only in Britain…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 04:36 PM
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Are you a troll or just stupid?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 04:33 PM
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This. This. This. Myself, and probably 200,000 other guys on this forum, wish we would have had the natural fortitude and frame of your cousin to do this. Pass this on to him. Please. Thanks for this post.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 04:09 PM
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Bwahahaha!!!! This happened to me a very long time ago after I got out of the service. Ran into a HS crush at a party, went home, and she was really lousy in bed. This was most definitely before RP. I actually regretted it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 08:56 PM
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For the OP: This is a blessing. World-shattering and painful but a blessing nonetheless. The point is not to get or stay angry, but to seek a greater understanding and subsequent mastery of human mating strategies. One of the most common themes harped on here is about self development....not to get more pussy...but to make yourself your mission. Re-read "Mental Point of Origin" at The Rational Male and glean more from the sidebars regarding frame. Everything else falls into place and remember th…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 08:11 PM
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I am an old guy with really cool digital hearing aids and I hate 'em. Heed what the OP is saying (like taking care of your teeth) Mine was caused by serious gunfire and then loud music. I have tinnitus too and it's a constant whooshing sound. Wear protection. Especially where there is pressure overload like a shooting range really loud music. Hearing aids actually hurt because they amplify everything.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 06:32 AM
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When I started hitting the gym in 2004 I knew that I didn't know what I was doing (I was post-divorce after 27 years of marriage to a woman who had an Eat Pray Love moment) and I knew it. Being naturally outward, I walk over to four really well-built guys about half my age and simply stated; "I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. Can you tell me how to not hurt myself?" They all said. "Why yes, we can?" I chatted with all of those guys for the next three years I was in that city. They corrected …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:10 PM
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I initially thought that this post would've been better suited in asktrp however, the OP's issues are perhaps worthy of a little more discussion. TRP does provide a box of customizable tools based on basic insights and principles however, I do think there's a age-related Bell curve to most of the members with older (50+ guys)who are a distinct minority, facing challenges totally alien to younger guys: First and foremost. Some of us prefer women closer to our age but the pickings are pretty slim …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 08:59 PM
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I'm in the re-invest/get a good financial advisor camp. Putting 900k into a reasonable mix of financial instruments that re-invest divedends, will generate a whole lot of fuck you money over the space of ten years. Tell no one, buy yourself some nice clothes, and buy a decent (but not extravagant) ride, and if you think buying a Phillipe Patek watch will make you feel better, then do it. Personally, I think a million is a good start however, you can piss it away real fast. Maintain your current …
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:36 AM
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Good, solid info. As the owner of my own company, I never expected candidates to know the particulars but they needed the basics and more more importantly, needed how to learn. I often hired "autists" (God, I hate that word) for positions that required repetitive attention to detail. When a candidate presented well, and did a follow-up email or letter, it always left a good impression. I needed to see if they would fit with the team. Thanks for this post.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 03:44 PM
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How funny!! I had a landscape maintenance business for 9 years and only once did I get hit on by a customer. I turned her down...flat. I didn't want to lose the account nor did I want to to deal with any sort of hassle with the Landscape Board if it went South. That income and my reputation trumped her desire to get laid by a dirty sweaty guy. She was sort've pissed and embarrassed but I didn't get fired. Don't shit where you eat needs to be ironclad and non-negotiable. There's tons of women out…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:59 AM
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Having been dumped by a couple of women with whom I thought there was a future with, I'm going to recommend "Please, break up with me" by Rollo Tomassi at www.therationalmale.com Just put the phrase into the search box. Hold off until asking until you get further information. I'm in the Hell Yes or No camp right now. You may want to visit the MarriedMan Redpill Reddit also.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:17 AM
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Hair....I'm a woodworker and my compliments go something like this: "I'm a woodworker and I gotta tell ya that your hair looks like Brazilian Rosewood. It's absolutely beautiful and looks like it needs to be on a custom guitar." Their hand immediately goes into to hair twirling model and their eyes sparkle. Seriously. What I don't do is collect a phone number. That's next time we meet. THEY WILL REMEMBER. Walking away after my weird, off handed, wood compliment is a form of long game that I do. …
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:47 PM
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Dude!!!! Stop the man hamstering!!! You had a half dozen guys just tell you what to do....the right thing to do. If she were invested, she would've been blowing your phone up. Take the hint and soft next. Do not contact her in any way......but that's not what you wanna hear, is it? Read the sidebars.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 10:37 PM
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1) Hard next now. Delete all contact info, block her social media, spam her email, and block her phone number. 2) Read the sidebars starting with "Rule Zero". 3) An LDR is not a relationship. I think she's got some side action happening. Especially in the hospitality industry. They always do. In fact, you should spinning plates yourself but I don't think you've internalized any RP principles yet......you will when you get the "I think we should see other people" text. Her angst is being driven b…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 09:06 PM
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Perhaps the question should be: What particular geographical area has the amenities close by that would help me achieve my personal goals? If your goal is banging a series of beautiful bodies without any sort of long-term plan, then a college town full of well-heeled coeds is the place for you. If you're looking to make career connections and up your game with older folks, then a well-defined neighborhood with eateries and nightlife should work. Personally, you weren't born with those muscles so…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 05:01 AM
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Stop with the man-hamstering. The workplace can be dangerous....even a PT shit job.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:50 AM
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Always personal success. It's like catnip. Seriously. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:48 AM
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This. Talking to her like a normal person both in OLD and in real life has seriously worked for me.....to the point of almost laziness. Never lose your frame though. This is critical.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:31 AM
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Like Triadis3, I own a couple. I bought them for myself as part of my toolkit along with lube, condoms, etc. Keep 'em in the bedside drawer. Some women are harder to get off than others and a vibrator can help when used appropriately. You would be surprised at how easy the kink comes out after they've come a few times. Buy them for yourself, not her and use them as a reward for good behavior.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:23 AM
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This. Day game is the best.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:34 AM
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This is the basic process. I want to add a couple of moves here. Don't go for the breasts first. Lightly touch her arms and lightly kiss her neck. When her breathing changes, lightly touch the breasts through her clothes. Cue on her breathing. Move your hands under the clothes as the breathing quickens. Lay her down as kiss her stomach, turn her over and kiss the small of her back and the back of her neck. PAY ATTENTION TO HER BREATHING. Undo her bra while paying attention to her back. She'll ro…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:44 PM
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You're new to this and not gonna get much sympathy here but WTF?!!!! Trust your gut and see an attorney asap. She's banging other guys and you're believing the gaslighting. This is classic and I see that you have basically two choices: 1) Hire a PI, do all the shit like go through her phone (you'll never find the burner), install a keylogger, and all that other expensive shit in order to confirm what you already know and then what, confront her with all the evidence? Or, 2) Retain an attorney to…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 12:40 AM
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I was sorting through old photographs of myself from the late 80's and 90's when I was doing the family, provider thing (just before my first wife left) Seriously thought I was doing the right thing....you know the story. I was fucking horrified and embarrassed. Fat, fat, fat. That was then....60 pounds lighter. Look at old pictures of yourself and cringe. Good job BTW.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:35 PM
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I own working dogs. One's job is to kill rats, gophers, and ground squirrels. The other's job is to keep the deer, elk, birds, and moose off the farm. Both excel at what they need to do to earn their kibbles. I absolutely love dogs but like the previous posters have said, ya gotta be in it for the long haul and get them for the right reason, which is not being a "chick magnet". Trim is an added bonus. Especially for women who own and like dogs. Do not get any pets unless you can put the time in …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:56 PM
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I don't thnk you're done leaving everything behind yet. RP is just a toolbox, the rest is entirely up to you. Having a good understanding of women makes it easier to interact with them. Having a good understanding of evo psych helps at work and with the other people you interact with. This stuff is neither good nor bad but it does give you more control of yourself and of your environment. Continue with your education and continue interacting with the world knowing these truths. Give your beta th…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 05:27 PM
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Believe the other posters. Projection. There's a 99% chance she's banging somebody else but doesn't want to be the bad guy. My advice: Pick up your stuff and hard next. You had your turn. Re-read the sidebars.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 08:21 PM
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Please stay on track and continue the field reports. I think this is an important aspect that perhaps needs to be addressed more in the manosphere. We sort've discuss it but perhaps this discussion needs to be elevated. Be strong.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:58 PM
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Gotta start somewhere and a good solid physical exam will give you a baseline. If you're not clinically depressed (again, which is a medical condition) then the next steps will require a plan of action. This forum will help with that. Ultimately though, you're the one responsible for changing things up. Don't go to a doctor if that doesn't work for you. Just my 2 cents...
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:12 AM
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First and foremost, get yourself in to a doctor and get a full physical. Get a baseline on your physical health. You may be experiencing adolescent onset depression (which is a medical condition) or something else. Get data on your own body first and address any issues that get identified. Once the mood stuff gets settled then there are 200,000 men on this forum who can help with the other things. Get to a doctor asap. Please.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:00 AM
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I'm "bald-ish" by choice and by genes. Learn to rock it but start with a number 2 clipper cut using steel. Your barber will know what you're talking about. Get used to it for a bit then just bring it on down. A number 1 leaves just enough fuzz to escape the shinyness or just shave it in the shower. It's who you are. Embrace it!!
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:19 PM
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You young guys who get all geeked out by considering women as old as your mom as potential bangs just crack me the fuck up. This will change as you get older however several points ring true in the previous posts: 1) The percentage of 50 year old plus women who stay fit is low. It's really hard to maintain a high level of fitness in middle age in order to stay reasonably attractive or so they say. Menopause reduces the desire to please and the increases desire to fuck.....other men.... as gazill…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 10:47 PM
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The steady paycheck is a red herring unless this is your day job and you focus on the other aspects of your life like your real estate or houseflipping/rental development....think long game. Your road to wealth here is real estate but as an owner and not as an agent. Stay if you can't tolerate the risk but....getting in on the ground floor with a series of new products that people actually need (not MLM or anything stupid like that), then your prospects of making money are much, much greater. Yo…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:37 AM
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I'm in the "Hell yeah or no" camp. IMHO, he has told you he doesn't see a future together. Believe him. Break it off completely and lick your wounds. You will be in pain but you will learn and become stronger. There are tons of guys out there who may see a future together with you. Don't be a "plate".
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 05:15 PM
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My marriage to a BPD woman lasted exactly 7 months (pre-Red Pill). I walked and filed based on the advice of my really sharp attorney. Lawyer the fuck. Now!!! Protect your assets, freedom, and reputation. Minimize your losses.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:05 PM
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Kept your thoughts to yourself. Make nice, nod, participate, etc. Keep the goal in mind.....a decent grade. This is not a hill worth dying on. This discipline will prep you for the world of work. Seriously....
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:59 PM
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She lied, got caught, you made the right choice but slipped a little, the actions are the truth. IMHO, she had a good thing going because of the distance thing and never had any intention of doing right by you. The obvious course is a hard next on your part, lick your wounds, and stay close to home. Don't be a hard learner....like me.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:45 PM
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There are no shortcuts other than good game and liquor. Kinda like tapeworms for weight loss. Re-read the sidebars, lift, etc., etc., etc.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:36 PM
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Actually, we'll all find you. Yep. Your life sucks now but this virus and subsequent loss of status is a wake-up call. You'll regain your strength, stamina, and social standing in about a year but if this is what you're depending to give meaning to your life, then you live in a house of cards and way too exposed. You're dependent on one thing to define you as a man. Expand your life. Expand your missions. Lift, eat well, become stoic, and read the sidebars. Quit whining otherwise we'll come find…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:39 AM
4

Yep. Sucks, don't it? However....I think a deeper understanding and acceptance of women's mating strategies and learning stoicism and outcome independence will help with the healing process. You're successful but unhappy because you haven't accepted the fact that you are the prize. Not her nor any other women. I am going to recommend; Hard nexting this one and do not under any circumstance engage with her or stalk her social media. If you have legal or contractual ties, she can contact your atto…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:40 AM
10

Stop. Right. There. 1) You're not done growing. Wait until you're 25 to re-visit this question, 2) Like kick6 said. "Get fit", and stay fit. Focus on building solid muscle mass, good diet, and especially, good sleeping habits. This will pay off in droves in 5 or 6 years when you head off for college. 3) Start planning post HS career/education now. If I was aware as you are now at 14, I would have been building a solid foundation. This means study, sobriety, and social engagement. 4) Don't worry …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:50 AM
2

A long, long, time ago, I learned a trick from a Master Chief in the Navy; The first guy you need to connect with in a new assignment is the Storekeeper (Supply Sergeant) and the best way was to bring him a gift (a bottle of good scotch). You show him a little respect and recognition with a token of that respect and the guy will remember. This type of approach might work here. Especially if he's in charge of scheduling. Think "long game" and he may be able to make your life a little easier. Do y…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:10 PM
1

Bwahahaha!!!!!! I have several of those in my past. All of them were absolutely nuts in retrospect, and that's the part that I have to constantly remind myself of. Just don't forget that they give that to all the guys....it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:59 PM
1

Stop now. He's not ready and his friends are not ready. They may never be ready. Do not engage and fer Chrissakes, quit posting shit.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:47 PM
2

Agree about form. There are 200,000 members on this forum. Nearly every one is hammering on fitness first. Start light. Use a trainer if necessary but do it.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:10 AM
1

One step at a time. You asked about ideas? First, get thee to a gym. Consume everything you can on fitness and set yourself some short and long term goals. Read and re-read everything in the sidebar, the Rational Male, etc. In about a year, with a combination of diet and exercise, you'll have peeled off another 50 lbs and you're worldview will have changed dramatically. Everything else: Women, work, game. etc., will flow naturally out of this physiological change. Lifting is the key and you'll u…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 02:12 AM
10

"There's this one girl." Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/08/17 12:24 AM
2

Eating every meal naked in front of a full length mirror
/r/askTRP25/08/17 08:52 PM
2

If the music isn't consuming every waking thought then it's probably not the right path for you. You will indeed be fucked if you follow this path with a shit ton of debt and a job at a restaurant somewhere. I also think that you've got far more than three choices. But first, I'm going to recommend that you quit getting high. Don't make any choices until you've got about 90 days of sobriety under your belt. Secondly, I'm going to recommend that you give up gaming completely. The same chemicals t…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 04:54 AM
10

If you're doing it to meet MILF's then you're doing it for the wrong reason. If you're doing it for the discipline, the strength, and the flexibility, then you're doing it for the right reason. Yoga done right is powerful. Side trim is an added plus.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 02:23 AM
1

This. However....his actions by his description tell me he's seriously interested but will probably next you if the no's keeping coming. One way to salvage this is to invite him to your house for dinner. No departure times. My guess is that you'll have a good time and he'll reciprocate the invite. Some men have a lower tolerance for offputting. You're also asking him for exclusivity in a roundabout way before it goes any farther. He told you he wasn't seeing other girls. He might be lying. He mi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 06:35 PM
2

"There's this one girl." Read. The. Sidebars.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 01:57 AM
1

Two songs to never think about: Walk This Way by Aerosmith and The Lion Sleeps Tonight from The Jungle King. Oh, shit. Ear worm. Seriously though. Play it out to the end. Listen for the various parts and if you can sort've dissect a tune to this level of detail, you can usually go back to what you were doing.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 12:35 AM
10

You're angry at the wrong thing. My advice is to learn to move past this by 1) Accepting women as they are. 2) Lifting and seriously focusing on self-improvement and 3) Reading the sidebars. You need to turn that anger into "How could've I been so stupid". Being angry at women for being women is a waste of time and energy. Improve yourself. Don't let it happen again.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:44 PM
2

Having gone through this....divorce and losing 60 lbs, death of parents., it's not about appearance but most likely the grief you have comes out like a bad smell. Divorce, the death of loved ones, the loss of a job, etc. are all major life events. Even knocking all that fat off is major stuff. Took me a while to deal with the emotional stuff and in retrospect, it seriously threw my game. My advice based on my limited experience is to; 1) Process the grief with a professional. Not online and not …
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:30 PM
1

Understand that your hindbrain has taken over. Be aware of how your own biology is driving feelings. Also understand that she may be hot for you but that at this age, it's just your turn. Get her number, get her away from the ring (or gym or dojo or whatever), and escalate (she knows what you feel like and how you smell). I think that throwing each other around probably destroyed any LMR she may have and you'll wind up at her place after an espresso. This is the easy part. The real question is h…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 09:08 PM
1

Just date a couple or even worse, marry one.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:29 AM
2

This
/r/askTRP25/07/17 12:23 AM
1

Thanks. This makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 10:45 PM
4

She's not there to see you. Do not pick her up at the train station. Text the logistics of the planned days but don't be suprised if her plans change. Have a plan B. In fact, make her your plan B. If you can separate her from her friends then escalate. You're not a ride resource nor a meal ticket. She's not coming to see you. The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 06:37 PM
2

Mostly tired because they're all so predictable.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 12:09 AM
5

I wish I had Alzheimers....it would probably make life a lot easier. I have banged those hot, rich, 50 year olds and because I was fit, sociable, and not an ex-felon, it was as easy as pie but you know what? It was classic AWALT. They were all predictable and all post-post wall. Nexting is real easy for me and right now, that's my impulse. I kind've like this one though because she really cooks well and mostly stays out of my business. You did summarize my post accurately.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 12:08 AM
4

Agreed. I think the issue from her is that I've always maintained some semblance of distance and autonomy. Took me a long time to learn that. I don't think I've budged from my happy place but I think she's amping up the pressure to fall into her frame. I choose to not do it because of past mistakes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 11:57 PM
3

Good reminder. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 11:53 PM
2

This is helpful. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 11:53 PM
2

Blah, blah, blah. My guess is that she wants to keep you in plate status and an old boyfriend just came back into town or something sordid like that. Someone with a higher perceived SMV than you. Soft next until she contacts you. If....you get together, sex only at your place. Women do not get swept off their feet. Read what your just wrote. Maintain frame and just remember, you ain't the first and you won't be the last. Re-read "There's this one girl...." in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:54 PM
7

That my friend, is the $64,000.00 question. IMHO, it's not when, but more of a matter of how and why. If you're dependent still on a paycheck, then biting the hand that feeds you is ill advised. You'll need lots of money in the bank to get to a point where you can do that without regard to consequences. Until then, stay in the closet (pun intended) at work. It's gonna be tougher in your personal life. Ask any straight RP guy what happened when he tried to "share" his new found wisdom. Right now,…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 05:31 AM
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IMHO....I think that your sexual orientation is probably less important to RP than you think. RP is more oriented to evo-pysch and reproductive strategies. My best advice to you is keep your yap shut about RP. You'll just piss a lot of people off if they're not ready to hear it. Especially at work. I know lesbians who love Trump and Latinos who want to build a wall. You're a minority in a minority. My guess is altTRP (look in the sidebar) might be a place to start.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:56 AM
2

IMHO......IQ is a bit like good looks that are inherited. You have potential that can be developed but it takes a lot of work. Chess is a good start but it addresses only one aspect of the problem solving function in your brain. One thing that I've seen that seems to help, is increasing your vocabulary. Another is learning and mastering different skills. I'll bet there's a whole lot of research out there regarding this but here's my question to you: Why is this so important? Why not increase the…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:44 AM
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This
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:36 PM
0

This
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:35 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:35 PM
15

You will make yourself crazy tracking his OLD activity. It's not official until it's "official". The crush is chemicals wreaking havoc on your brain (we're built to do that). Always assume there are other people in his life until you and he become publicly exclusive, and he shows you the courtesy of taking down his OLD profiles. Four dates isn't nearly enough time to think clearly or make any decisions. The ideal would be for him to catch "oneitis" for you. Take it easy and slow and have no expe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/17 10:20 PM
2

Good for you. That means your efforts are paying off. Just tell 'em, "Thanks, but no thanks" and that your flattered.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:37 PM
1

Volatility in the financial services sector. Also the chance for way more money. Civil Engineering is transportable. You can stay at home or go work in Belarus. Less money but IMHO, more job stability.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:34 PM
2

Chads don't have to think about it.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:29 PM
3

If you value your friend and even if ratting her out may end that friendship, then forward the messages to him and don't go......he'll either hate you or thank you later. If you don't value his friendship, then go over, bang her, and never mention it again. Personally, I would want to know.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:28 PM
3

None of your business. She'll let you know when she wants to let you know. Just maintain frame.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:36 AM
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She's getting ready to branch swing.....probably. She may be getting a little bored and needs some variety but needs an excuse so she can justify it. As I see it, you got several choices: 1) Agree and amplify. Perhaps a little dread will bring her back into line but I don't think so. She should be mate guarding and going fucking ballistic but instead she's wanting to "open" the relationship but wants you to do it so she doesn't feel like a slut. This is a huge red flag IMHO. 2) Cut it off cold. …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:32 AM
1

Good for you. Personally, I feel that an MBA from a Tier 1 school is a ticket into the managing class. Your best bet would be an emphasis on finance (stay away from human resources). You want your name on the bottom of the contract. Alternately, anything to do with sales. Doesn't matter what. Heavy equipment, derivatives, phamarceuticals, etc. Anything that is a profit center for a company. But, that's not your question. How do your protect your investment and maximize gains and earnings and kee…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:31 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:57 PM
2

Dude....all an MBA does is get you in the door. The rest is up to you. As for an MBA being an "ultimate" pre-nup, disabuse yourself of the notion right fucking now that there is anything, except not getting married, that would prevent you from losing your ass during a divorce. If you haven't worked for any length of time at a decision-making level in the private or public sector, then do it and keep the conspiracy stuff to yourself. People in the real world will think you're nuts. Save it for an…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:49 PM
1

"Was I smart for leaving and not risking being the second divorcee?" Oh hell yes but understand just exactly "why" you were smart. Sidebars and The Rational Male. "Is there a chance she will pull it together after school and be the potential person I saw?" There's a chance, but the odds are against it. She may get her BSN and go to work but will be surly and resentful the entire time. She'll be cruisin' real hard for a provider who will give her what she feels she's entitled to. You're hurt beca…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 09:58 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:05 PM
6

Current LTR is a doc.....my second. What nomorerebsever said.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 07:02 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:09 AM
1

Absolutely believe what I'm going to tell you..... HR is not your friend. They are management's friend and exist solely to help management manage the workforce. You have a couple of strategies to consider, 1) Do nothing. Say "Yes, sir" and back down. The spotlight will soon shift if your work product is good. This is just a job and really not worth getting all worked up about....you will lose. Look for a new job on the down low and leave asap. Most people leave jobs because of their bosses. 2) E…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:50 AM
1

This right here.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 04:28 AM
1

This. Please Google the "Sunken Cost Fallacy." This is a business decision. Cars come and go...like women.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:43 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:11 PM
1

This!!! Weddings are a blast!!! Great food. Lots of liquor. Great time to socialize.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:47 PM
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Had The Rational Male up. Stepped away from my laptop and she looked. Might've been better if I had been looking at porn.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:10 PM
5

Here's my thought........this is a political move. If you have maintained frame in the workplace up to now (different from girl frame), then go in early but time limit your participation to the length of the project. If your co-worker does have the ear of management, then doing a good job will get back to the boss. They'll also know about your boundaries. This is a way to create an ally. There's nothing beta about this. This is about workplace survival. What you want to do is create goodwill so …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:08 AM
1

This. BPD traits......Danger, Will Robinson.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 11:36 PM
1

1) Don't worry about it. 2) Don't do OTC remedies for ED or energy drinks. 3) Stop masturbating (easier said than done) 4) Heal. I'm all for getting back in the saddle asap but.......letting go of a woman you had serious feels for is like giving up a drug. Same brain chemistry is involved so be aware of exactly how much of what you're going through is hormonally-driven. Takes a while for the central nervous system to heal up. Women are always there so my recommendation is straight out of the sid…
/r/askTRP30/04/17 08:53 PM
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Lawyer. Now. Do not talk with anyone without representation.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 11:33 PM
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Funny!! Several were in fact, church ladies. I have absolutely no fear of rejection and so day approaches work best for me. Tried online but that mostly irritated me. Mostly IDGAF anymore and sort've do my thing. I'm also a lightweight when it comes to liquor and always have been so I'm kind've boring.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:09 PM
1

Plan B means going solo. She'll re=connect or she won't but in my experience, if she had dropped her phone in the toilet or something and she really wanted to go, she would've borrowed a phone. When they go dark like that it means either an ex blew back into town or she got a better offer. Happens. Don't fret and certainly don't chase. You've done enough. Take a friend with her ticket but go anyway. I would.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 05:07 AM
2

Dude...you're thinking too much. You've been pre-selected. Meet her for drinks and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:27 PM
2

Agree with Dunkaroose. Give yourself at least 24 months. The key here is the frustrating aspect of metabolic re-set. Doing the weight loss slower allows your skin to adjust. Get to your target weight (about 150-160) for you and then begin the bulking but you have to let you body adjust to the new dietary regimen. My thought on Subway is to avoid it because everything there is so highly processed. You want your cells to have to work to get the nutrition. Find a workaround like packing your own lu…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:24 PM
1

Probably this
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:17 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:12 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:10 PM
2

If this is a real question, then you're not understanding the position you place yourself in even if there is no official oversight to your trade. Banging the help, your co-workers, or your customers significantly increases your risk at something going wrong. If you piss off the wrong one, or two, or three, than the chances of losing your job, getting sued, and being blackballed increase. All the frame in the world won't help you if you get some sort of sexual harassment claim against you. I don…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:04 PM
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DO. NOT. SHIT. WHERE. YOU. EAT. There is no safe workaround on this. Your job, livleyhood, and reputation is a stake here. All it takes is one BPD to raise hell with your State licensing board or County health department to fuck your life for a very long time...especially at the State level. Yep...easy pickins' here. Doesn't matter if you're a masseuse, a doctor, whatever....your risk of losing your license increase exponentially when you mack on co-workers and customers. Don't forget that there…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 09:00 PM
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Some people (like me) are hard learners. My advice to you is to let him go with the best of wishes and stay in contact. My guess is that it will blow up and will need a lifeline without any "I told you so's". He'll either make it or he won't. She'll wind up cucking him to the point where he walks away. Be willing to drive out there to pick him up...seriously. You might enjoy the scenery.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:10 PM
6

Agree and amplify. Comfort test. "I think about sex a lot...with you."
/r/askTRP02/04/17 11:02 PM
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My 2 cents.....done stuff like this several times. The first was when I was your age. Left grad school and joined the Peace Corps. Came back and finished. Left an executive position in senior management at age 53 and started a construction company. Did that for 9 years. Enrolled in yet another trades program (vintner) at age 62. BTW, I am lifting 5 days/week (core, weights, HIIT, cardio). The gym is my constant. I almost always finish what I start so with that in mind, if this is your passion, t…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 10:26 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP24/03/17 02:11 AM
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The dude fucked up. What's the first rule of Fight Club? Don't talk about Fight Club. The moron lost frame completely and got nailed for it. He knew he was walking in muddy water with bare feet and stepped on a broken beer bottle.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:29 AM
1

Oh, hell no!!! This may be one of those cases where ghosting is appropriate.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:22 AM
1

Take a break. I think there's an addictive quality to this just like all other social media. Just remember that most of us wound up here after getting jacked up by some woman and are seeking answers. The nuggets of wisdom that you have contributed have lodged in some people's minds. RP is an existential bitch and mostly not very pleasant and new men find this sub everyday some repetition of mistakes is to be expected as is the repetition of solutions. Some folks actually do something with their …
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:20 AM
3

Having owned 35 motorcycles and, worked in Voc Rehab with a number of survivors (motorcycles always lose), I would recommend that you do the research into the survivability in MC related accidents and then make a decision. My neighbor's sister was stopped at a stoplight, wearing a full face helmet, and full on Field Shear armor, and got slammed into by a 27 year old woman texting. 6 weeks in the hospital, TBI (her face is crooked) and a lifetime of chronic pain ahead of her. That's when I got ri…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 10:00 PM
2

Personally...."nice" things mean very little to me unless they're functional. You can buy a Longines or you can buy a Timex. They both tell time accurately but....if the Longines brings you pleasure, than buy it. Just understand that it's just shit you gotta haul around. My recommendation is to think function first, status second and use your hard earned bucks to travel solo. I do it all the time. Expanding your worldview from your backpack is valuable plus, if you're discreet with your social m…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:07 AM
3

Welcome to the world of cortisol and adrenaline. Confrontations like this always have the potential for 1) You getting hurt or killed or 2), you going to jail. The first thing IMHO you need to do is accept the fact that you're a ambulatory meat sack subject to storms and hurricanes of biochemical responses and hormonal surges as a result of stimulus from the environment. Unfortunately, fight or flight can get your ass in trouble......your forebrain stops working. Become aware of how your body wo…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:43 PM
3

Welcome to the world of work. IMHO, this is a perfect opportunity to learn hard, work-related skills but also workplace social skills. It's just a job. No point in picking a fight. The fat fuck may know things that you don't. The fact that he's still employed there and dumping scut work on you tells me me that he knows the system you're in. Use him as a resource. It's just a job. Keep your ass-whupping impulses to yourself. DO NOT SHARE THAT WITH ANYONE. Doesn't matter if you can whup everyone's…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 12:49 AM
3

What a perfect opportunity to meet and network with new people?!!! I recommend meeting everyone and working the room. Introduce yourself, shake hands, and ask them about themselves. Both men and women. Keep your mouth shut and listen to what they have to say.This is a perfect time to practice IRL approaches and alpha behavior. Be sure to shake hands and touch. Kino women if getting IOI's. Get numbers of both men and women and follow up with a "Nice to meet ya last night" text. Men can be potenti…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 12:34 AM
1

You're in her frame. Why is that? Seriously..... DO NOT CATCH ANY FEELS. You will be dumped or ghosted when you start confessing. Remember, it's just your turn. Regain frame. On the other hand, maybe she'll buy you a kayak or new truck. Just be painfully aware that you're in her frame. Consider a soft next and quit dating her. Just sex at your house or at a hotel that she pays for. Please understand that her actions as described by you indicate that you're a toy for her. Learn to not care.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:21 PM
1

She has a primary...perhaps already married. You're just not that important to her. There are b'zillions of other women out there. Move her rotation to the back or....just enjoy the sex. Maintain frame. DO NOT DEVELOP FEELS OR ONEITIS. Maintain frame. Remember, you are the prize. Texting for logistics only.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 09:06 PM
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Then I concede to your point. It was indeed, about choice. My feelings of disgust and revulsion were just that.....feelings. I have no rational explanation. I actually wasn't thinking about a liberal narrative while watching this, I was thinking about the disrespect that "I" felt was occurring. Thanks for calling me out on this. Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:33 AM
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Sorry son, disabled combat vet here. Mostly I stay out of these discussions but I watched the speech in it's entirety. I was sickened by that perverse display of patriotism when they trotted that poor woman out. When I listen to draft dodgers and their ilk go on and on about this stuff, I just want to vomit. Limbaugh is a draft dodger also. Lot's of tough guys out there....
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:59 PM
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Good point. Based on the OP's post, she was willing to give it a try and got burned. Unfortunately, there was no real consequence for the boyfriend. He was in the wrong and his behavior was slimy. I think it's hard to walk away from that emotional investment and that possible future that might have been had he been an honorable man. As for the spiritual aspect, I can't really comment but I do personally think that sharing a discipline helps couples strengthen ties and move forward. Not everyone …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 10:42 PM
1

Agreed but IMHO it takes a lot of discipline and work that most folks are loathe to invest in because of what we sense at the end. BP is easier to live with if you suffer no negative consequences from it (which is rarely). If BP was still evolutionarily relevant, than RP probably wouldn't exist. History and technology have made our biochemical impulses irrelevant in today's world.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:23 AM
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Man here.....yep, he most certainly had another woman in his bed and he betrayed your trust. Hard next IMHO. Consider this a lesson learned. Trust your instincts. Vet better. DO. NOT. TAKE. HIM. BACK. This most certainly wasn't the first time and he was a douche by not acting honorably. However, I did have the experience of getting dumped by a woman that I had committed to because of her suspicions and she had accused me of two-timing her when in fact, I had fully invested into exclusivity and m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 11:45 PM
7

Two things: AWALT (with different cultural spins) and two; I wonder if there's a Chinese version of RP?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 10:57 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39k2ro/men_even_trp_men_love_women_very_much/
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:38 PM
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Absolutely.....unless you're a natural Alpha. Then you're not really suited for LTR's. T'is all about reproduction. Men, IMHO, fall in love way too easily and I personally believe that's how we're wired. We provide and protect for women because they're smaller, weaker, and most definitely needed for procreation. Worked fine on the plains of the Serengeti. Women optimize their mating strategies through seeking out the healthiest and best genes in a sperm donor but seek out providers when the babi…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:36 PM
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Do not ever forget that grieving the loss of a woman is evolutionary biology. There is a very real addictive process to oneitis and when women branch swing. They leave you going through a withdrawal just like kicking junk or cigarettes. It can take months!!! Your brain actually grew receptors to receive the serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins generated by being in her magical presence. Pining away for her is your brain and central nervous system healing. Bang lots of women but do not seek a LTR.…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:16 PM
1

Damn!!! I am a kayaking fool. Both river and ocean. I do meet a number of folks usually briefly but my primary reason is for my own enjoyment. Go for it!!!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:52 PM
7

Text the address, time, and day. That's it. No small talk. No "Looking forward to seeing you". Nothing. Have a plan "B" for your weekend and don't get butthurt if she doesn't show. She should be blowing your inbox up with requests for the address. She ain't. What does that tell you?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:45 PM
5

I'm late to bachelorhood. Marriages, kids, careers, etc.....all done with. I am serious about the girl kino. It's just a riot!!
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:35 AM
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I appreciate it. I have fewer days ahead of me than behind me. I still like to travel and hike and sometimes stay up late. Here's the funny thing, women just ain't that important now. My "missions" are but having been married a couple of times and worked my ass off for nothing, I would rather pack my carry on and travel solo to Buenas Aries to see what I can find.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:33 AM
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I dunno....at the gym I go to there a number of men and women my age or older who have significant discipline. Of course, this may be all in my city.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:29 AM
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The stomach is done in the kitchen unfortunately......I have to do this now. It ain't a choice.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:27 AM
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Can confirm and I'm over 60.....It's the same principle of hip/waist ratio that causes men to turn their eye on a woman. My waist is 1 inch smaller than I had in Basic in 1971. The cut on my arms is incredible and my stomach is flat (not 6 pack flat) but flat none-the-less. I wear T-shirts all the time except when I have to wear something else. They're "tightish" and they do generate a lot of kino from women of all ages. That's almost easier than opening with me for younger women because of the …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 10:58 PM
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I'm going repeat the "Lift" advice. I thinks that this applies to women as well as men. First, it gives you an obligation to yourself. It should always come first. Non-negotiable. Human beings are meant to be active, healthy, and strong. Engage with a regular gym and hire a trainer initially to show you good form and routines. Adopt a paleo diet suitable to your weight and judgement. Even if you're an emotional wreck, this activity will force you back to a state of balance.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:14 AM
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Last two paragraphs. Truth. Il128 also nailed a real brutal reality when he described that "vast majority of them are looking for a maid, or an emotional kleenex, or a "friend" because they lack nearly all social skills and are damn near alone in this world." Frankly, this is the distillation of a lifetime of BP victimhood. Good observation......
/r/askTRP24/02/17 05:19 PM
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I am way past 40 but I'm not going to blast you. The previous 3 posts made some salient points and yes, this sub is mostly populated by some very angry, 20 something guys. Here are my thoughts; Hit the gym. Most older women that I would even consider, all pay attention to their health, their weight, and most importantly, their attitude. There is a whole cadre of RP men between 40 and 60 who are either naturals or have come to RP late. I have nothing in common with a young guy practicing game in …
/r/askTRP24/02/17 08:02 AM
3

Agreed
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:25 AM
3

Whoa!!!! Do not tell anyone to just go kill themselves. That is just fucking weak. The OP, troll or not, is asking for help. Whether or not he accepts it is obviously his choice so I'm gonna offer some suggestions. 1) Stop using right now. Everything...including alcohol. 2) Get back into the gym and resume whatever lifting program you had yourself on. 3) Get rid of the Playstation and read instead. The gaming is addictive and artificially stimulates endorphins. Have a friend hold it for you. 4) …
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:22 AM
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Here's my thought on this subject prefaced by the fact that you're 20...If you love cars then pursue this. Everyone has got to pay their dues in any field. Automotive technology is no different. Try to think 10 years ahead: If you have the discipline to plan and budget then I would recommend 1) Saving at least 20% of your paycheck every month in a couple of no-load mutual funds (you can buy them online) 2) Expand and enhance your skill set to unfamiliar technologies through additional schooling …
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:16 AM
2

Why is anyone fat? Specifically, why are Americans fat? Personally, I don't think this is a "lesbian" problem but more of a diet and lack of exercise problem.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:26 AM
2

If you're serious, then begin with the following; 1) Begin researching the labor markets in 4 to 6 communities that you might be interested in. Most of that data can be had from the States's Unemployment Office. Call the switchboard at your local office and ask for the name and number of the labor market analysts for the cities you are interested in. Call those folks up directly and ask them questions. 2) The money thing is secondary unless you're servicing a lot of debt. You can always make mor…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:53 PM
2

Bwahaha!!! You conspiracy guys just kill me!!! Ain't nobody that organized but...it don't matter what I say, does it? Post your stuff on Breitbart.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:33 PM
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,,,,and now that trip into despair begins. You'll do fine. Hey, what happens to Marines when they go to hell? They regroup!!!
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 03:56 AM
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Been there, done that. First: Read the sidebars. Re-read them. The fact your here means that the pill is stuck in the back of your throat and no matter how hard you try, you can't cough it back up. Start with the links that TheGod4Real posted. Understand hypergamy and Briffault's Law. My guess is that when you start changing yourself up, the shit tests and resistance will go into warp speed. The key is to not lose frame (like I did). If she doesn't respect you or your mission already, she probab…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:48 PM
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Bwahahaha!!! This is one of the stupider things I've read. Read the sidebars. They will not do it for you. Like RP, they have to do it for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:10 PM
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I made my gf replay it and I was was just in tears laughing. She didn't get it and I didn't explain it. Someone on that writing team has been reading the sidebars.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 07:40 PM
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This was funny as hell!!! Thanks for this post. I had never heard of Ali Wong before.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:16 PM
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A Boston move would be stupid. Plenty of women in Idaho Falls. Quality of life plus more money in your pocket.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 01:19 AM
2

I am in my 60's and began solo travel after my second divorce and absolutely love it. Traveling light, not having to negotiate, and being naturally social has taken me places I never thought I would ever go. Sometimes I even get laid but that's not the point for me. I often connect with FB contacts and have been offered couches to sleep on in places like Istanbul and Panama. I say go for it...smartly...but go for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:05 PM
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Agree with Shitlord.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:52 AM
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Close to the kids. Grandkids too. I don't think there was someone else. Never even crossed my mind at the time. I was full on, blue pill provider. Got fat. Got boring. Got predictable. I "thought" that I was doing what a man was supposed to do. Work. Provide. Protect. Blah, blah, blah. Got blind sided like a gazillion other guys out there. Discovered RP after my second divorce.....now, she was banging her ex but I didn't find that out until 2 years after the divorce. She got ratted out by a mutu…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:05 AM
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I was married 27 years before she informed me that she "didn't love me anymore". I'm late to RP. No twins. It's been 13 years since the divorce and she's still an asshole. Gents....I'm old. Do. Not. Be. Me.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 04:48 AM
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Guess what, you're gonna be a daddy, 1) Get a paternity test as soon as feasible. If you ain't the daddy then you dodged a bullet. If you're the daddy then you're in for the long haul...even if you hate her guts, 2) Don't run and don't pussy out. Take some parenting classes...by yourself if need be. 3) If you are indeed the sperm donor, then make sure you are listed on the birth certificate as the father. Go downtown to the courthouse and establish an airtight parenting plan that lists you as at…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:47 AM
1

I so don't want to read about this....please stop.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 06:50 PM
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Well then.....the first rule of Red Pill is; Don't talk about Red Pill (except in a safe place. Like here) If you can sift through the angry tirades and just plain idiocy of some of the posts, then this place will help you understand some of the basic, biological drivers behind the mating and reproductive strategies of both men and women. Keep in mind that we're all meat sacks carrying a shit ton of chromosomes, RNA, and DNA that drives the organism for the sole purpose of reproduction. Most oth…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:28 AM
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Your first house is the hardest. These are just my opinions having done exactly what you're planning to do with 8 different homes. 1) No lending institution will touch you yet.......buy with an owner-carried contract. Borrow your down from relatives. 2) Buy the shittiest house in the best possible neighborhood you can. Look for houses in neighborhoods that have begun gentrification. Buy a residential property. 3 bedroom, 2 bath. Good indicators are a nearby Starbucks or a Wholefoods. 3) Be aware…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:25 AM
1

Had a wife of 7 years divorce me for her ex. I was real, real confused. The RP sub helped email understand some of the reasons but more importantly, has helped me with self-improvement.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:12 PM
1

Missed the second part of your question....I'm here because I asked myself the question; "What the hell just happened?"
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:49 PM
2

The fact that you're asking and not trolling tells me you're serious. Bear in mind that this sub is primarily made up of men and tends to be raucous. Like tttsss and detachedbymarriage stated, r/redpillwomen is geared towards women seeking rp wisdom. Lots of vets in this place, me included, so ask away.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:46 PM
1

Tiny steps. Start lifting or walking or even running. Develop a new habit. You'll be suprised what flows from this.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:27 PM
2

Take it one step further......your brain and central nervous system is responding to the sudden withdrawal of serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin that were being generated by all the "feels" you've gotten in this relationship. 5 years is a long time for your nerve cells to develop additional receptors as a result of your body being awash in these additional hormones that re-inforce bonding, pleasure, attraction, etc. You're going through drug withdrawal....seriously. You cannot negotiate with the …
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:13 PM
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Here's a couple of thoughts to consider 1) 50k banked is not much of a cushion....seriously. All it takes is one visit to an emergency room to wipe that out. With that in mind, I recommend building your reserves to "Fuck You" levels. 250k is a nice start. Also, diversify your investments into several no load sector funds and select the "reinvest-my-dividends" option. 2) Do.Not.Get.Married.....yet, if at all if you don't absolutely fucking love yourself and your life. It will not fix anything nor…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:02 AM
1

i began real simple core last year and it was brutal. Now they're a part of the regimen and I treat them like any other grouping of exercises. My advice: Hire a trainer for an hour to teach you proper form and learn how to use a kettle bell.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 04:47 AM
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The fact that you're asking this question tells me that you're ready for a change. 1) My first recommendation is that you obtain a good neuro-psych evaluation to rule out any subtle stuff that might be going on with your brain. With this in hand, you'll be able to establish a starting point. If there's a medical or a processing condition, then you'll be able to work with a professional in addressing it. 2) Engage the services of an anger control professional. There are techniques like circular b…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:37 AM
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The clothes make the man. IMHO, like MortiMorphosys recommends, clothing that emphasises rather than reveals is best unless it's at a beach. Women can see that your belly is flat. Great arms and a genuine smile really trigger them bad. They will move closer if you're well groomed...
/r/askTRP26/11/16 06:09 PM
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You are not responsible for your wife's mental health.......this is unfixable. Your life for the next two years will be hell. I promise you that. 1) Engage the services of a good divorce attorney right now. 2) Protect assets. 3) This can get ugly real fast so prepare a "Go Bag" and line up some couches at buddy's houses. 4) Normally, I would tell you to stay in the house but the chances of violence and you getting arrested are very high now. If the cops show up, you'll be the one going to jail a…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:59 PM
1

I have made that mistake and paid dearly for it......what Gomezie and Jupc said.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:18 PM
3

Agree with DonaldBaelish however.....plan on spending big bucks on maintenance. The real question for me these days is; What vehicle gives me the most utility, reliability, and cost effectiveness, so that I can do the things I want? A nice ride will certainly generate tingles with a certain type of woman but personally at my age, IDGAF.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:26 PM
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Then challenge yourself....... You have transferable skills that can provide for you anywhere. My advice is to pick a country where English is not the primary language and go live for 3 months. Treat it like a challenge to all of your skills and see if you can not only adapt and survive, but thrive. Your best bet may be second world economies that have an emerging or newly established tech sector. You have a Commonwealth passport so that gives over 50 nations to choose from. The more alien, the …
/r/askTRP20/11/16 05:39 AM
1

I am in my 60's and a combat veteran (2 tours in Vietnam and a brief 3 week foray into Cambodia).....I am also relatively late to RP and this is what I know to be true for me regarding PTSD. No one gives a rat's ass. You'll get lip service and a lot of "Thank you for your service" comments but it will not change the fact that you get up at 3:20 every morning to check your perimeter, that loud noises make you jump, that intrusive thoughts cloud everything.....it never goes away. Make friends with…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 05:40 PM
2

Hard next
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:40 AM
1

Serious hard next.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:26 AM
1

Personally, all things in moderation. Have a drink once in a while. Don't fret that but don't up your consumption beyond what you're doing now. IMHO, too much liquor, like most things, can fuck up your clarity. Socialize but drink a diet soda. Be careful though, as your friends get more twisted, it'll make them look kind've stupid as the night wears on. This could cause you to want to leave.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:25 AM
2

So.....RoamingAmber and I just had a brief chat. Mostly about stuff that we could agree and possibly disagree on. Nothing heavy. Nothing vacuous. Having been married, raised daughters, worked for women, worked with women, and had women work for me, I've concluded that they're like men. Sometimes the stuff is inconsequential and sometimes it's not. They talk because that's what humans do. Styles vary. Content varies but I would hazard a guess that there's nothing secret going on out of the earsho…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:05 PM
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@RoamingAmber .....Agree about Mexico. I'm even having problems with Costa Rica. Panama is my "new place". .....Talked with neighbor this morning (single, female, mid-40's) about our shared resistance to kitchen remodels and how to park travel trailers.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:04 PM
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I am a musician and have been playing and recording since 1976. Just released my second album on CD Baby and I'm working on a third. I will never, ever be a rock star however, I am still following my passion. This is what I recommend (with a RP twist, of course) 1) Continue to engage with the RP community. 2) Hammer on your health. Lift, do cardio, and do core. Eat the best possible food you can get.This also means; NO FUCKING DRUGS, NO TOBACCO, MINIMAL ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION. Your voice and creati…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:46 AM
1

What Metalgear said.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:30 PM
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It's fucked up now..... 1) Be present for your father. He may be frightened now and really needs to know that his son will not only survive, but thrive. 2) Stupid jobs are always there. Not to fucking worry. 3) There are so many women out there. Let her go gracefully. No drama. No scenes. 4) Take your training to a new level if you haven't already. Add cardio and core. Stay engaged with your family. This too, shall pass. Stay engaged with the RP forum. We've all been there.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:28 PM
4

At my gym....the women are pretty serious about their workouts. Just watch. I would recommend long game. Nods, occasional chats about routine, etc. The number will come but understand that the gym, IMHO, is not a good place for day game. However......if you see them at a club or elsewhere, all bets are off. Open with..."I see you at the gym. My name is.........."
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:35 AM
1

Like everyone else....stop smoking weed, get back into a serious fitness schedule (cardio, weights, core, diet), quit worrying about all the pussy you're missing, build your career, and if the LTR is good, cultivate it. I guarantee that in 5 years, you'll look back on your peers and go "Damn. They're still doing the same thing". Build your body and build wealth. The rest will follow...it really will. BTW, I'm nearly 62.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:22 AM
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I agree with War.....I have hired a number of receptionists and the most important quality needed is an outgoing personality. People will be in your lobby for business and competence and professionalism at the front end inspires trust. Physical attractiveness, IMHO, is secondary. Hire to meet the business needs of your company.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:59 AM
1

Magma.......I lost frame at warp speed. Even on my most whipped, BB provider day as a full-on earner family man, I wouldn't have done this. I wish I took drugs. At least I could have blamed it on that but nope, I lost frame thinking that this one was different. I was so wrong.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:30 PM
1

All Ads.....Indeed I did. Stupid and blue pillish. Old habits die hard.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:26 PM
1

Mabden......I failed badly indeed. Fortunately, I was able to quickly add new plates. Consider me chastised.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:24 PM
1

Willow......Agreed. This could have been much, much worse. After this I did a lot of reading about LDR's. Not a real viable thing in most cases.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:21 PM
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Yashugan......agreed. I slipped badly into beta mode. I really went through a process of self assessment after this debacle. My biggest takeaway was an internalization of AWALT.....at all ages. I currently have a primary now, a doctor no less, whom I suspect has been consuming red pill online based on her behaviors and how she acts with me. It's actually quite pleasant but I will not lose my frame this time. I'm also practicing game at all levels with all ages. You mentioned generational differe…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:17 PM
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