TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Olt3rn8iv Archive

View 0 posts and 80 comments by Olt3rn8iv on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

All of men's problems supposedly being caused by insecurity is the modern version of all women's problems being caused by their wombs. I'm surprised we don't see it on suicide death certificates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:49 PM
1

So it's nothing to do with having friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:25 PM
–

Alcohol makes a big difference too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:24 PM
1

I think no differently about sexual dynamics now than I did 20 years ago, when I still had plenty of friends. If anything, I'm more forgiving nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:17 PM
–

The experience involves her, so it's all about her. Will probably be like this until kids come along, when hopefully she'll grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:09 PM
–

It's weird that's what you think it's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:24 PM
1

Sorry to be pedantic, but it's the carrot OR the stick. The carrot dangled in front of the horse's face entices it to continue; the stick striking its arse bullies it into continuing. I don't have a definitive answer for your question, though. It usually involves substantial amounts money, either in the form of gifts, a holiday, a new house/home improvements etc. We men are far more easily pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:15 PM
-1

Not true. I haven't spent time with my friends in the best part of a decade, but I've been married 17 years. A lot of men drift away from their friends when they settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:44 PM
3

I've looked too, and that's got to be one of the most severe cases of body dysmorphia I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:55 PM
4

Rookie mistake. They want you to be receptive to their emotional vulnerability; they don't want to be importuned by yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:59 PM
0

I would only say this if it was my daughter at risk. But parents can be over-protective, and it's not necessarily gendered. If my son wasn't disabled to the extent that he'll always live at home with me and his mother, I'd warn him of the dangers men face, like getting into potentially-fatal fights and being exploited by shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:14 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:07 PM
1

I'm not in the US either, so a lot of the stuff I see on here (men always paying for dates, for example) baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:47 PM
4

It's all about having the upper hand. If you don't think you're very lucky to have them and don't believe you're punching well above your weight and could easily be replaced by someone better, they lose power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:45 PM
1

I'm sure he is happy. The wives with unhappy husbands usually say shit like "of course he's happy - he's got me" in a joking/not really joking way, and they think trying to be a good wife is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:43 PM
1

IMO it's a lot more common than you'd think. I see loads of women on here claiming to be in happy relationships, and I'm sure some are. But some will be in denial, or doing the old "look at us and how great our life is" flex popular on Facebook. Others will be happy themselves and will simply assume that because they're happy, their husband/boyfriend is happy too. Seeing themself as "the prize" is so deeply ingrained for some women that they can't possibly conceive the idea that they're neglecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:19 PM
1

Do they have prohibition in Thailand now, or something? Gen Z need to get over this weird new fear of drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:55 PM
1

Context matters. If you say, "I don't only want to have sex with you because I want to have a relationship as well", then that's good. If you say, "I would only want to have sex with you if we were in a relationship", then that's not so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:51 PM
3

Women are just too honest. Yeah, your man's dick might not be the biggest, and he might not have the perfect jawline, but do you really have to point it out? They know they shouldn't and why they shouldn't, hence why they get upset when men are brutally honest with them, but they still do it anyway. It's like they want to put men in their place and remind them that she can always do better if he's not careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 PM
2

He's right. A black pill man doesn't necessarily have to be ugly. Some black pill men only become so once they've glowed up, because they realise how much better they're treated now they're attractive compared to when they were unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:13 PM
3

What you're saying makes some sense, and I appreciate you taking the time to reply. However, the strangest part of all is that, when we did eventually become an item, she approached me. Her friend was my friend's sister, and she occasionally went in the pub where I worked while at uni, so we saw each other once every two/three months or so. Over 3 years of knowing each other, we probably saw each other about 20 times. 2 approaches from me (both fails) and 1 approach from her (success). What I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:52 PM
8

Or maybe we're not looking at couples around them. Perhaps we're looking at our own relationships and understanding a similar dynamic exists or existed. I approached my wife twice before we eventually got together. The first time, she was sexually active, in that she had ONS with 4 men, and a brief holiday fling with another. But she turned me down. She then decided casual sex wasn't for her and was celibate until we started going out; the second time I approached her was during this period of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:41 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:37 PM
3

The ONS. Apologies, I didn't notice that some of the stats were for UK and some for England and Wales only. But given that about 90% of the population lives in England and Wales, I doubt it's skewed the results that much. And twice as much means nothing. I'm probably twice as likely to die in a plane crash than a boat crash, but I don't factor either possibility into my plans in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:43 PM
5

So would you always be suspicious of people making unpopular claims about controversial subjects in this manner? If a male writer pretended to be a woman and admitted afterwards that living as a woman was harder than he thought it would be, would you say he's exaggerating to sell books? Or would you believe him because he's confirming your biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:13 PM
5

By this logic, we might as well ignore every memoir ever written, as they could've been exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:57 PM
5

50% of female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners I'm not sure if this applies to where I live, the UK. But if it does, that means 87 women - half of the 174 female homicide victims (compared to 416 male victims) - were murdered by their partner between March 2022 and March 2023. The UK has a population of 67 million. Even if every single female homicide victim was killed by their partner, we're still talking about a tiny number. Every murder is tragic, but to suggest it bears any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:44 PM
2

You missed an opportunity to say: "Don't tell women how to flare; teach men not to stare".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:25 PM
5

Your flair (is it a flower?) always catches my eye as I'm scrolling, and you're usually being a bit of a dick. Probably no worse than many on here, but I only really remember people with unusual names/flares.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:30 PM
2

No, of course not. But is that the only thing you've ever said?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:58 PM
2

Good point. There's a bloke on here who says we should actively destroy the world as a response to dating inequality. There are far better reasons for actively destroying the world than that, ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:47 PM
3

Do you have to work at being this insufferable, or is it a natural gift?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:41 PM
1

Plenty of misogynists and misandrists are married to people of the opposite sex. Do you live in a cave with broadband?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:07 PM
1

Your flair is red pill, yet you're obsessed with how women see you and are so desperate for sex that you'd be willing to shame yourself for life. There's nothing more beta than simping for female approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 09:26 PM
9

When my 17 year old twins went to Kindergarten Weren't they a bit old for kindergarten by then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:49 PM
1

Sorry to break it to you, but one day you will also be dead. And as you slowly drift away, drooling, shitting and pissing on yourself, I doubt your memories of having sex with mediocre, vacuous women will soothe the regret of a life of cowardice and simpery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:47 PM
1

I've got a huge amount of respect for you. The vast majority of my fellow Brits and I appreciate everything Ukraine is doing, and I hope we would be as courageous in the same circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:22 PM
1

Women want men to be as falsely nice as women are with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:29 PM
-2

Future generations of women will view modern feminists in a similar way to how millennials and gen z now view boomers. And to think they had all those decades of steadily increasing liberation yet failed to codify Roe vs Wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:47 PM
3

No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying that when men are told to get therapy, it's virtually always an insult, and not genuine advice. But people will tell women to get therapy because they actually care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:27 PM
1

I honestly don't know how common it is. But it's frequent enough to have its own adage (women marry men hoping they'll change; men marry women hoping they won't).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:55 PM
1

Of course they do. But it's not used as insult with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:50 PM
1

When men are told to go to therapy, it's an insult. It means "your brain is so broken that you need professional help".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:24 AM
1

So not just the 2 you originally mentioned, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:19 AM
1

Average men often settle for women who dislike them. They are not even attracted to these women The first sentence is correct, but not the second. Not in general, at least. A lot of women settle for men they don't really want in the hope they'll be able to mould them into the men they do want. Unsurprisingly, their combo of nagging, coercion and bitchiness doesn't work, at which point the women give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:55 PM
2

Do you want any help moving those goalposts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:36 PM
1

Apart from the traveller community, of course, where men are still very much top dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:26 PM
–

Well you can think that all you want, but you'll still be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:17 PM
1

If by "intimidated by" you mean "not at all impressed by" or "neutral towards". A highly-educated, successful woman who is also attractive, feminine and pleasant to be around will have no problem with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:01 PM
49

And it's not something just men do, women engage in it as well It's funny how when a woman gets a younger bloke from the Caribbean or Africa, he's accused of exploiting her to get a green card or her money, but when a man gets a girl from eastern Europe or Asia, she's a victim of unequal power dynamics. In both scenarios the man is supposedly the unsavoury one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:57 PM
7

And it’s astonishing how many men don’t find it dehumanizing After several millennia of being cannon fodder, dying horrible deaths at the whim of kings and queens - AKA tHe PaTrIaRcHy - men are more than accustomed to being dehumanised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:54 PM
–

Rape convictions are at an all time low because acts that would not have been considered rape 30 years ago are now rightly being investigated as rape. These same acts - for example: marital rape, date rape, rape where consent has been given and then withdrawn - are more difficult to prove than stranger rape. Stranger rape will typically also involve battery, which is in itself strong evidence that something heinous has happened. Unfortunately, I don't see a way this can be fixed without signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:46 PM
–

being genuinely desired by a woman. Even men who do get sex via relationships will often never be genuinely desired by a woman, or they'll never feel like they are. I have a theory that this is why porn addiction is still an issue for men with partners - porn actresses typically appear like they're highly aroused by their male counterpart. Some men will be desired by their woman, but she will have been socialised to hide her desire. Playing hard to get and making their man work for sex - the old…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:22 PM
6

upmost *utmost
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:31 PM
3

Shopkeepers - if a customer only ever buys items that are on sale, refuse to sell them anything at the normal price. That'll teach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:00 PM
10

He doesn't seem angry at all. Is English not your first language, or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:47 PM
1

Women can have as high a libido as men, sometimes even higher... for a couple of days a month. They typically only get pregnant from sex had during or a little before ovulation. For the rest of their cycle, they are basically sterile. Men are fertile all of the time and are therefore horny all of the time (barring illness, personal issues etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:01 AM
5

Oh yeah, Her, not She. I must be thinking of the Elvis Costello song. It's a quite sad, but also funny film.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:45 AM
5

If you've not already seen it, you should watch the movie "She", starring Joaquin Phoenix.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:07 PM
0

Are these "other men" in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:05 PM
–

She's a good woman. One of the only ones I've ever met who didn't automatically label me as a dangerous creep because I'm a bit weirder than average. The service she runs tends to cater for people who are maybe a little lower functioning than you seem to be. Most of them don't work and still live with parents, and some can barely even speak to strangers. There are a few who aren't obviously autistic; they have jobs, their own places. But they struggle socially. The female members are always more…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:37 PM
6

The majority of people on here are American "upper middle class" (whatever-the-fuck that means). So they tend to be puzzled by the struggles of normal, working class people ie. the majority of the world's citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:39 PM
2

£40k in the UK is fine, if you're not in London. Sounds like you're being too harsh on yourself to me. Especially given your autism. I too am "kinda autistic", but I got lucky 20 years ago when I met my wife. I have no friends, though. In general, life is far harder for autistic people. My wife runs a charity that offers a befriending service to autistic adults, and there are so many isolated, friendless autistic adults out there, both male and female (though more often male, in fairness). Unfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:15 PM
1

And just like that, we ended sexism amongst Muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:39 PM
1

Wait, you honestly believe actual gods were involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:15 PM
–

I, for one, will welcome our new female overlords. Just imagine how much more exciting global politics will be, for a start. Iran assassinates an American journalist, but they didn't know the US President had PMS. She launches ICBMs at the whole of the Middle East, killing hundreds of millions. Afterwards, as Madame President's hormones are settling down, she worries she may have been a little hasty, and considers wearing a Palestine flag bikini on her next 500 Insta photos. Until the female Pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:03 PM
2

it was very effective It was effective because they had a well-trained, well-led, technologically superior army than anyone else at the time. Not because they were making sacrifices to the gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:39 PM
1

New copypasta has dropped!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:54 PM
–

Agreed except the puny brains. I don’t understand how this ideology from women is faulty at all The brains are puny because they're being hacked (which implies the man doing so isn't genuine). If they weren't puny, they'd see it's just a hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:53 PM
2

It's not a "slur", but it's definitely a negative judgement. One that 99.9% of people aren't qualified to make, even if they were genuinely concerned and not just mocking someone. The vast majority of times you see it online, it's an insult, in the same vein as the "Reddit care" message trolls send. And it's not "another issue"; it's precisely the issue people are discussing: disingenuous 'go to therapy' advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:49 PM
2

It's not factual unless you've got qualifications, which I'm assuming you don't. No doubt you only say it when someone disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:42 PM
13

Exactly. If someone removed the sugar-coasting and said to you, "I believe you're mentally ill", would you take that as an insult, or a genuine attempt to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:55 PM
12

It's not even polite, most of the time. Basically, it's a coward's way of telling someone you think they're mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:51 PM
0

Men are less forgiving of conscious, voluntary decisions. Women are less forgiving of immutable characteristics like height, looks and ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:37 PM
1

A lot of men are misunderstanding the women's replies, IMO. When the latter say their ONS were "average" or "nothing special", they don't literally mean 5/10. Women see 80% of men as below average, remember. So these "average", "nothing special" men were probably more like an 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:40 PM
1

Yeah. There's loads who aren't anything special. On any given day, there's a good chance I'll see better looking woman than Taylor Swift, and I live in a basic, generic suburb of Manchester, England.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:35 AM
1

What a strange accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:33 AM
3

She's above average facially, but her figure is mediocre at best. If she wasn't famous, she'd be nothing special looks-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:46 PM
0

something that is not bad in any way not immoral in any way In your opinion. In some people's opinions, it is bad and immoral. Some people think doing drugs is bad and immoral; some don't. Some people think content piracy is bad and immoral; some don't. Some people think the rich getting richer while the poor get poorer is bad and immoral; some don't. Neither you nor anyone else gets to definitively decide what is bad and immoral. Obviously, there's a common consensus for some subjects - like pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:23 PM
1

My wife is very harsh on her judgment of both women and men, and she is shrewd, perceptive and sees through people's bullshit. So in my limited, anecdotal experience, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:53 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter