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| 1 | The paradox of male friendship and it's link to desirabilitySo it's nothing to do with having friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:25 PM |
| – | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Alcohol makes a big difference too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | The paradox of male friendship and it's link to desirabilityI think no differently about sexual dynamics now than I did 20 years ago, when I still had plenty of friends. If anything, I'm more forgiving nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:17 PM |
| – | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?The experience involves her, so it's all about her. Will probably be like this until kids come along, when hopefully she'll grow up a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?It's weird that's what you think it's about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?Sorry to be pedantic, but it's the carrot OR the stick. The carrot dangled in front of the horse's face entices it to continue; the stick striking its arse bullies it into continuing. I don't have a definitive answer for your question, though. It usually involves substantial amounts money, either in the form of gifts, a holiday, a new house/home improvements etc. We men are far more easily pleased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 05:15 PM |
| -1 | The paradox of male friendship and it's link to desirabilityNot true. I haven't spent time with my friends in the best part of a decade, but I've been married 17 years. A lot of men drift away from their friends when they settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention?I've looked too, and that's got to be one of the most severe cases of body dysmorphia I've ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Why are women surprised that men ask mostly for physical intimacy only, when emotional vulnerability quite often results in judgement, ridiculing, or rejection?Rookie mistake. They want you to be receptive to their emotional vulnerability; they don't want to be importuned by yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomyI would only say this if it was my daughter at risk. But parents can be over-protective, and it's not necessarily gendered. If my son wasn't disabled to the extent that he'll always live at home with me and his mother, I'd warn him of the dangers men face, like getting into potentially-fatal fights and being exploited by shitty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?It's all about having the upper hand. If you don't think you're very lucky to have them and don't believe you're punching well above your weight and could easily be replaced by someone better, they lose power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with?Women are just too honest. Yeah, your man's dick might not be the biggest, and he might not have the perfect jawline, but do you really have to point it out? They know they shouldn't and why they shouldn't, hence why they get upset when men are brutally honest with them, but they still do it anyway. It's like they want to put men in their place and remind them that she can always do better if he's not careful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her bookFair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Women on average have more power in romantic relationships than men, and more often than not, they are abused.The ONS. Apologies, I didn't notice that some of the stats were for UK and some for England and Wales only. But given that about 90% of the population lives in England and Wales, I doubt it's skewed the results that much. And twice as much means nothing. I'm probably twice as likely to die in a plane crash than a boat crash, but I don't factor either possibility into my plans in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her bookSo would you always be suspicious of people making unpopular claims about controversial subjects in this manner? If a male writer pretended to be a woman and admitted afterwards that living as a woman was harder than he thought it would be, would you say he's exaggerating to sell books? Or would you believe him because he's confirming your biases? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:13 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her bookBy this logic, we might as well ignore every memoir ever written, as they could've been exaggerated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Women on average have more power in romantic relationships than men, and more often than not, they are abused.50% of female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners I'm not sure if this applies to where I live, the UK. But if it does, that means 87 women - half of the 174 female homicide victims (compared to 416 male victims) - were murdered by their partner between March 2022 and March 2023. The UK has a population of 67 million. Even if every single female homicide victim was killed by their partner, we're still talking about a tiny number. Every murder is tragic, but to suggest it bears any s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.No, of course not. But is that the only thing you've ever said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | If women are your biggest problem, you don't have enough real problems.Good point. There's a bloke on here who says we should actively destroy the world as a response to dating inequality. There are far better reasons for actively destroying the world than that, ffs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Do you have to work at being this insufferable, or is it a natural gift? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..Your flair is red pill, yet you're obsessed with how women see you and are so desperate for sex that you'd be willing to shame yourself for life. There's nothing more beta than simping for female approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:26 PM |
| 9 | Short version: Men are not slobs. Husbands are not slobs.When my 17 year old twins went to Kindergarten Weren't they a bit old for kindergarten by then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..Sorry to break it to you, but one day you will also be dead. And as you slowly drift away, drooling, shitting and pissing on yourself, I doubt your memories of having sex with mediocre, vacuous women will soothe the regret of a life of cowardice and simpery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..I've got a huge amount of respect for you. The vast majority of my fellow Brits and I appreciate everything Ukraine is doing, and I hope we would be as courageous in the same circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | "Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptiveWomen want men to be as falsely nice as women are with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:29 PM |
| -2 | In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation?Future generations of women will view modern feminists in a similar way to how millennials and gen z now view boomers. And to think they had all those decades of steadily increasing liberation yet failed to codify Roe vs Wade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesNo, I'm not saying that. I'm saying that when men are told to get therapy, it's virtually always an insult, and not genuine advice. But people will tell women to get therapy because they actually care about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | What positions on here do you believe are fringe or not representative of the real world?I honestly don't know how common it is. But it's frequent enough to have its own adage (women marry men hoping they'll change; men marry women hoping they won't). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesOf course they do. But it's not used as insult with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesWhen men are told to go to therapy, it's an insult. It means "your brain is so broken that you need professional help". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What positions on here do you believe are fringe or not representative of the real world?Average men often settle for women who dislike them. They are not even attracted to these women The first sentence is correct, but not the second. Not in general, at least. A lot of women settle for men they don't really want in the hope they'll be able to mould them into the men they do want. Unsurprisingly, their combo of nagging, coercion and bitchiness doesn't work, at which point the women give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Ireland: A Case Study on the Most Difficult Country for Dating on EarthApart from the traveller community, of course, where men are still very much top dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:26 PM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell you can think that all you want, but you'll still be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenIf by "intimidated by" you mean "not at all impressed by" or "neutral towards". A highly-educated, successful woman who is also attractive, feminine and pleasant to be around will have no problem with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 07:01 PM |
| 49 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createAnd it's not something just men do, women engage in it as well It's funny how when a woman gets a younger bloke from the Caribbean or Africa, he's accused of exploiting her to get a green card or her money, but when a man gets a girl from eastern Europe or Asia, she's a victim of unequal power dynamics. In both scenarios the man is supposedly the unsavoury one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:57 PM |
| 7 | The double standards around male standardsAnd it’s astonishing how many men don’t find it dehumanizing After several millennia of being cannon fodder, dying horrible deaths at the whim of kings and queens - AKA tHe PaTrIaRcHy - men are more than accustomed to being dehumanised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:54 PM |
| – | Rape victim advocates while right about rape culture are wrong in their prescriptive changes to trials.Rape convictions are at an all time low because acts that would not have been considered rape 30 years ago are now rightly being investigated as rape. These same acts - for example: marital rape, date rape, rape where consent has been given and then withdrawn - are more difficult to prove than stranger rape. Stranger rape will typically also involve battery, which is in itself strong evidence that something heinous has happened. Unfortunately, I don't see a way this can be fixed without signific… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:46 PM |
| – | I'm tired of people telling men that they shouldn't care about relationship/sex/intimacy and just focus on "being happy singe"being genuinely desired by a woman. Even men who do get sex via relationships will often never be genuinely desired by a woman, or they'll never feel like they are. I have a theory that this is why porn addiction is still an issue for men with partners - porn actresses typically appear like they're highly aroused by their male counterpart. Some men will be desired by their woman, but she will have been socialised to hide her desire. Playing hard to get and making their man work for sex - the old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Bear vs Drake alone in the woods?upmost *utmost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:31 PM |
| 3 | If you are in a casual relationship, or if the guy is trying to avoid commitment with the usual 'Not sure/Wanna take it slow' excuse, I think ya'll should be more impersonal and not offer anything apart from sexShopkeepers - if a customer only ever buys items that are on sale, refuse to sell them anything at the normal price. That'll teach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 06:00 PM |
| 10 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysHe doesn't seem angry at all. Is English not your first language, or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionWomen can have as high a libido as men, sometimes even higher... for a couple of days a month. They typically only get pregnant from sex had during or a little before ovulation. For the rest of their cycle, they are basically sterile. Men are fertile all of the time and are therefore horny all of the time (barring illness, personal issues etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:01 AM |
| 5 | AI, Augmented/Virtual Reality PartnersOh yeah, Her, not She. I must be thinking of the Elvis Costello song. It's a quite sad, but also funny film. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 12:45 AM |
| 5 | AI, Augmented/Virtual Reality PartnersIf you've not already seen it, you should watch the movie "She", starring Joaquin Phoenix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 0 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toAre these "other men" in the room with us right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 10:05 PM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingShe's a good woman. One of the only ones I've ever met who didn't automatically label me as a dangerous creep because I'm a bit weirder than average. The service she runs tends to cater for people who are maybe a little lower functioning than you seem to be. Most of them don't work and still live with parents, and some can barely even speak to strangers. There are a few who aren't obviously autistic; they have jobs, their own places. But they struggle socially. The female members are always more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingThe majority of people on here are American "upper middle class" (whatever-the-fuck that means). So they tend to be puzzled by the struggles of normal, working class people ie. the majority of the world's citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are struggling£40k in the UK is fine, if you're not in London. Sounds like you're being too harsh on yourself to me. Especially given your autism. I too am "kinda autistic", but I got lucky 20 years ago when I met my wife. I have no friends, though. In general, life is far harder for autistic people. My wife runs a charity that offers a befriending service to autistic adults, and there are so many isolated, friendless autistic adults out there, both male and female (though more often male, in fairness). Unfor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:15 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI, for one, will welcome our new female overlords. Just imagine how much more exciting global politics will be, for a start. Iran assassinates an American journalist, but they didn't know the US President had PMS. She launches ICBMs at the whole of the Middle East, killing hundreds of millions. Afterwards, as Madame President's hormones are settling down, she worries she may have been a little hasty, and considers wearing a Palestine flag bikini on her next 500 Insta photos. Until the female Pri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you care if your gf hung out with guys she’s slept with in the past?New copypasta has dropped! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 09:54 PM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredAgreed except the puny brains. I don’t understand how this ideology from women is faulty at all The brains are puny because they're being hacked (which implies the man doing so isn't genuine). If they weren't puny, they'd see it's just a hack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchIt's not a "slur", but it's definitely a negative judgement. One that 99.9% of people aren't qualified to make, even if they were genuinely concerned and not just mocking someone. The vast majority of times you see it online, it's an insult, in the same vein as the "Reddit care" message trolls send. And it's not "another issue"; it's precisely the issue people are discussing: disingenuous 'go to therapy' advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchIt's not factual unless you've got qualifications, which I'm assuming you don't. No doubt you only say it when someone disagrees with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:42 PM |
| 13 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchExactly. If someone removed the sugar-coasting and said to you, "I believe you're mentally ill", would you take that as an insult, or a genuine attempt to help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 07:55 PM |
| 12 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchIt's not even polite, most of the time. Basically, it's a coward's way of telling someone you think they're mentally ill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Men are less forgiving of conscious, voluntary decisions. Women are less forgiving of immutable characteristics like height, looks and ethnicity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift "The Man" summarized how women see "male privilege"Yeah. There's loads who aren't anything special. On any given day, there's a good chance I'll see better looking woman than Taylor Swift, and I live in a basic, generic suburb of Manchester, England. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift "The Man" summarized how women see "male privilege"What a strange accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Taylor Swift "The Man" summarized how women see "male privilege"She's above average facially, but her figure is mediocre at best. If she wasn't famous, she'd be nothing special looks-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Does the past ever matter?something that is not bad in any way not immoral in any way In your opinion. In some people's opinions, it is bad and immoral. Some people think doing drugs is bad and immoral; some don't. Some people think content piracy is bad and immoral; some don't. Some people think the rich getting richer while the poor get poorer is bad and immoral; some don't. Neither you nor anyone else gets to definitively decide what is bad and immoral. Obviously, there's a common consensus for some subjects - like pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women not wanting to be judged and having terrible judgement are two sides of the same coinMy wife is very harsh on her judgment of both women and men, and she is shrewd, perceptive and sees through people's bullshit. So in my limited, anecdotal experience, you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 06:53 PM |
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