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| 1 | How do you escalate in the middle of a date and when she visits your place?Ahhh shit I forgot this discussion was in the context of a date. I normally meet women at pubs or clubs while going out with friends, so generally there's no prior concrete confirmation that a girl is attracted to me (like agreeing to a date or whatever). Your advice makes total sense for a date. I think having just met someone that night, like I usually have, makes it more strange to grab their hand in conversation. But it seems like a really good step to take in order to gauge interest before … | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate in the middle of a date and when she visits your place?OK, I like the idea of being more blatant because it's difficult to pick up on subtleties sometimes (though I think my being blatant can make me look overeager). I can't help but think that if I grab someone's hand mid conversation they will ask me what I'm doing though. Even if there is prior contact like high fives, arm around shoulder/waist, hugs etc. Maybe I need to demonstrate some other form of attraction in between the more subtle forms of contact and the hand holding - like prolonged eye… | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate in the middle of a date and when she visits your place?I'm not a naturally touchy kind of person. Do you tie these touches into your conversation incidentally, as you would put your hand on someone's upper arm to emphasize a point or take their hand to lead them somewhere, or do you literally just take her hand while you're talking, with no "purpose", and observe her response as you continue to chat? I'm sooo bad when it comes to this - it just feels so unnatural to touch someone unnecessarily (though when I'm in a relationship I am very physically … | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Guide to Real Confidence/Self-Love?If you're interested in meditation, Google 'metta meditation'. Its purpose is to develop a sense of warm, positive regard towards yourself and others. I've been doing it recently, and it makes me feel much more friendly and self-accepting. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 07:50 AM |
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