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| 1 | Are there any women/men here who don't think looks matter at all or that they matter very little?Looks matter because they affect your confidence. And confidence affects your decisions, whether you challenge yourself or just stay home is the biggest determining factor in if you are meeting people or not. Online interactions obviously don't count as meeting. But, I tend to go for people who are somewhat off, looks wise. I've dated a guy with severe psoriasis, lots of underweight guys, bald men, short men, a few guys with missing/gimped limbs. I know I'm not attractive either but I prefer peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women have a prefer obese men over average weight or muscular men?1) Some obese men can be due to other factors. 2) I personally don't. I'm attracted to skinny/lean/fit men, but in my relationship experience those guys also treated me the best. Or I likely worked harder because I was also more into them. But, seems to be no shortage of them into me the fatter I get. However, I'd rather date a guy that is currently fat than a formerly fat guy that became average. Not to say you shouldn't get into shape for your health. However, I feel like now if a guy brings u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that women love assholes and not nice guys come from?I could, but it was actually such a shitty time I had during that quitting experience and the breakup that coincided that I use it to fuel my resolve to never start again. Quitting is something you do for yourself , but I might have misrepresented by how my last reply was stated. But, it was just one of the reasons I needed to not hesitate on beginning. Basically, if you're thinking about doing it, do it, there will never be a right time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Where did this idea that women love assholes and not nice guys come from?Uhh..we moved in together and years later after his 2nd alcohol-related accident he just presumed my car was his to drive illegally and it was really stressful having to try and get to work and you not knowing where the car was. I was also on a huge bitchfit due to quitting cigarettes, in order to try and make things work financially with him having no job + fines. It was a lot of fun for a while but we crumbled under the stress of having too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 06:10 AM |
| 2 | What are your favorite dents?I had had more than enough free booze by that point in my life. I turned 21 with something like a $800+ bar credit (long story). This was a couple years later and I had rarely been to other bars because of that. So, it was more curiosity about that than trying to scam free drinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you have a backup person in case your relationship doesn't work out?No, I am a pretty extreme introvert anyways, when in a relationship I tend to go into my shell further as the one relationship tends to be fulfilling enough for most of my social needs outside of work/hobbies. I think its always kinda surprising to end up outside a relationship again and get so much attention at once, it is definitely kind of like a high, can see how people get habituated to it. But, I also find it exhaustively distracting from other things going on in my life. I think that's an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What are your favorite dents?I have ended a "date/in person meetup" partially because of a nickelback taste. I met this person at my 2nd job and they invited me to a place to drink/shoot pool. After learning he liked Nickelback..I was finishing my drink intending to leave another woman comes by and was upset she wasn't invited out that night (possibly b/c of myself). And and the other chick left together and had a drunken party at her house. Bruised myself on a stripper pole in her bedroom. It was a weird night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that women love assholes and not nice guys come from?Yeah, but, If someone is an asshole to me they also cease to be hot, usually. That's how I have (some) exes. I hooked up with a guy that overall wasn't that much to look at but was really giving as a sexual partner but somehow completely self centered in other areas of life. His assholishness and lack of other redeeming qualities killed my libido long before the relationship was over but the whole thing just kind of kept going out of habit/familiarity/convenience (he lived closer to my work than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite dents?Brian Posehn told a joke about nickleback being crap that got turned into a ridiculously long running commercial on comedy central. It pretty much became sub/consciously memeified as a go-to crappy band. My official opinion on nickelback btw: Fuck nickleback, except that one song that happens to have Dimebag Darrell in it. edit: comedy central is "that network" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that women love assholes and not nice guys come from?No. Huge difference between falling in love and falling in lust. As in, falling in lust doesn't really happen, seems like binary set when you meet them. Falling in love takes time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Where did this idea that women love assholes and not nice guys come from?The actual reality is that women like hot guys, and they especially like hot guys who are nice to her. Definitely true. They'll put up with assholeness to themselves if necessary, and they don't really care about assholeness to other people. Some women (not all, but certainly some) actively like when "their man" is an asshole to other men. Actually, with a guy I dated I was actually impressed with his social connections and that he had so many friends, and it was because he was a genuinely nice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/17 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Rate the attractiveness of the following men6, 9, 4, 8, 1, 8, 10!!, 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/17 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Rate the attractiveness of the following women7, 9, 4 (7 with dental work), 8, 7, 1 (or a 10 if thats your thing), 7 (but likely 5 without makeup and hair extensions), final one is too obvious shoop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/17 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Are girls meaner to women they find unattractive? [self.asktrp]This is probably one of the few questions I can honestly answer for trp. I am a chick with below-average looks and I have quite a few female friends and find it really easy to make them. I am probably not going to start hanging out with the hottest women in town, but that's more because I likely wouldn't go do the things that they're into. But among average ladies that work, I find its pretty easy to strike up conversations, get invites to do stuff, can give & receive emotional support by talkin… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentYes, financial abortion requires much more planning, but do you think that people who make children impulsively have the wherewithal to follow through with the financial abortion paperwork? Some will, but I think most will abandon the kids when its most convenient for them, because that is how (some) deadbeats act. Filing the paperwork would likely incur some sort of fee, like a physical abortion would. Financial abortion will just increase the occurrence of children supported by welfare instead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/14 12:56 PM |
| 4 | If sexual strategy is amoral, why should any woman disclose having had many partners? Shouldn't both sides be equally amoral?I'm not self-pitying about being alone, its more of an acceptance for my previous choices. I never intended to be a wife or mother, though the idea of finding someone for companionship into old age is still appealing. In the military town where I grew up it seemed like I witnessed rampant cheating. To me there wasn't much of a point of going after a legal marriage when they seemed so meaningless anyways. There was also a skewed ratio of 20 men to one woman in that 18-25 range. It really was too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/14 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentNot entirely. Some shitty parents will reject thier chidren WELL after they're born, simply for the fact that the child reminds them of the other parent. It happened to me during my parents' divorce. Just because it is possible to head off some deadbeats before they happen, doesn't mean that the issue will be completely resolved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/14 02:11 AM |
| 3 | If sexual strategy is amoral, why should any woman disclose having had many partners? Shouldn't both sides be equally amoral?I've been dumped over a discussion about partner count. There is still no reason to lie because I still answer as honestly as I can. "I don't know exactly, but if its important to you than I've likely had too many partners for you." I don't want to stay with someone who is bothered by that, as ultimately they're not right for me. I accept that I'll likely end up alone, so why should I put on a pretense that I've been trying to save myself for someone special when I don't expect to ever find that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Isnt women's insistence on monogamy total proof of their inherent solipsism?I can and do tolerate non-monogamy with the right kind of people who can be very honest and play safely. I would not marry someone that I didn't desire to be monogamous AND sexual with for the rest of my life, because that is a standard expectation of a marriage. I don't respect people who play without their partner's consent and if at all possible, I avoid people who make choices to cheat, lie or otherwise be deceptive. Because if they would do it to someone they knew much longer and made parti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/14 06:51 PM |
| 3 | That "creep vibe" that guys give girls is the same thing as not liking fat chicks who try to look seductive.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-4Wm0kCIks | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?Pretty sure feminism still gets plenty of criticism despite that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?I wouldn't say anybody gets to decide if the children are a good thing to happen except the parents themselves. If the child was mistimed or accidental, it is unlikely to get the same resources as a deliberately created child. And then the courts/welfare system steps in and allocates those resources from the parent(s) and taxpayers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/14 01:43 AM |
| 1 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?Well, men should put up their own resistances to pair-bonding as well, and not just take a "well, but I'm getting laid" approach. Not that I'm against people reproducing I just think it should be done more purposefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 10:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?Actually most of them, but westerners specifically because of our high energy consumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 09:41 PM |
| 2 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?Redpill works for getting women into bed. It does not work to cultivate the qualities men say they desire in a mate. Its your right to hold hypocritical desires to your actions but its also part of your disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 09:34 PM |
| 0 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?"Breaking LMR" is tactics of manipulation. Why bother discussing that if they didn't on some level think that their need for sex outweighed her right to decline? RP goes beyond folk wisdom or D/s principles applied to the vanilla scene and is pushing an agenda to limit women's lifetime options to the amount she can barter with her sexuality.That is wasteful on a terrible level. Not that it can't be very satisfying, just accept that you don't deserve pay/ovations for watching your genetic experim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 09:12 PM |
| 4 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?Entitled to sexual access to women means, RP men express disdain for women who are not sexually attractive or available. The also express disdain for women competing professionally as well as women who "shit test" as an attempt for her to discern his qualities. This link is part of RP theory articulating the sexual entitlement. I empathize with men on their frustration over lack of access to reproductive healthcare options and legal protections from unwanted parenthood, and the limited resources… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 05:48 PM |
| 5 | TRP as a collection of anecdotes: If men find success in dating from employing TRP strategies, what makes TRP inherently "wrong"?I don't see the sexual strategy meetings amongst men to be the thing that's bad about TRP. There was a very active thread about not hiring feminists. As a feminist it is my responsibility to put myself in a position where my skills are so overwhelming you can't afford not to hire a feminist. But those attitudes can intimidate some women out of applying themselves fully to their work. We (women) need to get over that. Freedom is not something granted by an outside power but a position you take an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Sexual relativity: opinion is based on the status of the participantFemale, almost 30, slutty, live in the US, demographics of the places I've lived have tended to have more men than women. I'm not conventionally attractive but I have almost always been the aggressor in my dating career. As a child I rejected Christianity due to my interpretation of the bible being a document created by male slaveholders to keep their slaves obedient and productive. I can understand some Christian morals and may even overlap with my own but I refuse to act as a slave just becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't there more women entrepreneurs?That's fantastic. Not every business model can be as quickly self-sustaining. RP Men are hostile towards ugly ones, so of course they talk to far fewer women with interests beyond their own spheres. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/14 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Why aren't there more women entrepreneurs?Because they're probably more interested in keeping steady revenue over the higher risks of a bang-or-bust situation. Early investment opportunities not as easy to market if most investors are men. Less networking opportunities. Young men have more opportunities to rub elbows with the investor class without his morals being questioned. The World's Oldest Profession isn't entrepreneurship (if she's independent and not pimped)? Just because we haven't taken majority yet, does not mean it can't or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/14 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of the "fake gamer girl" trope?I remember video games before they were defined as a whole lifestyle craze, so while I did play a lot of video games as a kid, I do not see it as a defining characteristic of my personality. While I still play I do tend to associate video games as originally "a kids' thing." vs an adult thing. Then I grew up and realized i could still keep playing. Awesome. But what the fuck was I playing when they decided guys were the gaming gender? I have no idea, and its a rather large surprise to me that ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything morally wrong with letting a partner's romantic history influence your decisions on romantic interactions with them?If that is their one uncompromisable quality they were looking for, hopefully we can still appreciate each other in nonsexual ways, or at least they could appreciate my honesty. If someone is worried about my high partner count, they could have relevant concerns about my ability to be faithful or STDs which I'm willing to answer. But I suspect that most people really concerned with high number for reasons other than that would likely have other overall personality conflicts with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything morally wrong with letting a partner's romantic history influence your decisions on romantic interactions with them?Can you rephrase the question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/14 12:44 PM |
| 9 | Is there anything morally wrong with letting a partner's romantic history influence your decisions on romantic interactions with them?Thanks for clarifying that. You can judge me as being unsuitable because of my history. That's your right to turn down sex from who-ever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/14 11:35 AM |
| 6 | Is there anything morally wrong with letting a partner's romantic history influence your decisions on romantic interactions with them?No. I'm a slut. Don't like it? A lot of other people would/will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/14 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Defining FeminismMen and women have different biological needs/functions that contribute to some of our differences between the sexes. However in our capitalist system it is more profitable to pit two sides against each other and over-exaggerate those traits. But you see it happen in a lot of other situations, sports, politics etc. We're addicted to it. It is so easy and so many of us fall for it. Things are shitty for both genders due to these enforced roles and divisions. I'm not against more traditional roles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/14 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Disregard most women below 7/10Being a nice guy is not the same as being creepy. In essence a "creep" is someone who ignores social cues. It is evidenced by things like poor hygiene, criminal record, or actions like being rude or presumptive. If you want to conflate morality with physical fitness, well, I live in a country where you are free to do that. However, I think you understand that it is not part of the prevailing definition of morality. But it does go to prove how morality is an entirely subjective construct, just li… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Disregard most women below 7/10Absolutely. Just making sure it is considered in the whole aim for only 7+/10. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Disregard most women below 7/10This is actually pretty reasonable answer and is similar to how women do it. If you're "creepy" you don't register, and looks are only one of the factors. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Disregard most women below 7/10Alcohol is well known to adjust people's subjective ratings, yet it is often involved in getting people together. Do you think RP men should be wary of this? Do drunk hookups count? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Disregard most women below 7/10How does the scale work? How do you know that every RP man imagines a 7 the same? Is it just relative to your geographical location? I'm pretty sure a 7 in North Dakota is not at all comparable to a 7 in NYC. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Please, volunteer a better analogy. You can criticize, but do you have any original thoughts to contribute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Women, as part of society, participate in enforcing these roles as well, which is why I called it a societally enforced. It is unfair to BOTH sexes that one is overburdened with the duties and another can be forced out of their role completely. Just because I acknowledge how things work in reality does not mean I agree. Please don't confuse the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Yes, men and women are not held equally responsible for custodial care, legally or in everyday practice. You're welcome to prove otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Programming was that initially it was considered along the lines of secretarial work and therefore a woman's job. Ada Byron Lovelace was the first programmer, and Admiral Grace Hopper discovered the first computer bug (which was literally a moth.) I think that is all the more evidence that its socially enforced roles. AA isn't actually a quota program to make sure there are x number of women for y number of males at every company. It doesn't quite work like that, but it does try to promote minor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/14 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?If you want to use a baseball analogy: feminists fight for women to get up to bat, not to be walked to 3rd base. They also want someone to watch the children while they do it, since they were put in charge of those decisions by society. I think it's dishonest not to admit my own self interest. Men have long taken advantage of systems designed to benefit them without apology, but when women use a system to their their advantage they are considered traitors to their ideology. I'm just pointing out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/14 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Well,I didn't invent the wheel, but I'm still going to use them to get around. I think that's the same principle. And yes women, especially middle to upper class ones have been HELPED the most by affirmative action. I don't dispute that point at all. Don't try to spend too much time on the why's or wont's or bullshit reasons, just be better than you need to be and smash on through. On that note, I have studying to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/14 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?Do you have any qualifications in diagnosing emotional problems? I think I would only trust that job to a woman, as they are naturally more emotionally attuned. Men shouldn't be therapists, or child care givers. Those last two statements are just as ridiculous as saying women can't pursue science or math based careers. Firing because of pregnancy is still a net loss as they then have to absorb a cost of another interview, hiring, and training process. It is still cheaper to hire a man. Wanting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/14 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Is "Sexism" really what angers, or is it something else?There are very very few people who put ideology before their own self interest. Like everyone else, I want to be recognized for my hard work and dedication. However for me, if affirmative action action gets my foot in the door during a recession I'll take it. Does the fact that I'm an opportunist cancel out that I'm a feminist? On the same token, I don't want to be left out of a chance to prove myself to do something I'd be very interested in and talented at doing just because I was born a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep hearing this same rhetoric from blue pillers?Didn't work out quite as well from my perspective, since I was looking for an interesting mind, body and soul to explore. I can't presume to know what they were actually hoping to find. If they were looking for one of the very few decent girls, they failed. If they were looking for a good time, that's exactly what it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/14 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do I keep hearing this same rhetoric from blue pillers?That's true that if you can't generate any attraction then being a jerk won't help your case. My happiest/longest relationships though were all with "nice" guys where I made moves first. Its not that I have never dated people who made the moves initially, its has not just not ever worked out quite as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/14 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do I keep hearing this same rhetoric from blue pillers?I don't deny that RP theory can work and yes I'm talking about the psychological end of RP, and not the general "improve yourself" areas of it. But like with anything, if you go all out over the top with the red pill's script you're going to be playing the asshole. I still get way more genuine satisfaction from a sweet beta though, and they are the ones worth pursuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/14 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Dedicated to the Young Women of Reddit, the Smartest women in History, Determined to Remove their Genes from the FutureI didn't grow up in functional family conditions so I'm not sure if I could create them for my offspring. It seems unlikely and I'm starting to feel a bit relieved that my reproductive years are coming to a close. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand the "cock carousel". BP and RP opinions welcome.A lot of attractiveness seems to stem from effort. So maybe the attractive chick just spends more time preening, going to the gym, going to the grocery store for fresh produce (as opposed to buying frozen pizzas), salons, waxing, teeth whitening. Not saying that it is an end-all but I think it could be a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Did your parents relationship make you a RPW?I feel like I'm excluded from the womanly RP endeavors because of my past. Parents are divorced. My relationship with Dad ranges from nonexistent to occasionally ok. I find RP woman theory intriguing but in practice, well, basically took all the wrong turns, missed a boat and I'm on the other side of this wall. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/14 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Tattoos... on menI wish people with tattoos would just accept that they will be viewed negatively in some contexts and stop complaining about the consequences of something they went and voluntarily did. And then some people with tattoos get massively defensive about how meaningful and carefully selected their piece was like they're still trying to convince themselves it was worth it. I think overall they're mostly frivolous, and don't very much matter in the grand scheme. But I do see how the experience of getti… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls cheat?Forbidden sex reminds us of initial forays in sex, or at least evoke the same kind of feelings. Personally I think the guilt/shame attitudes about both get very muddled so both seem thrilling and wrong together as a kind of multiplier effect. Oh, and there is an opportunity factor here as well. Have known guys who were happy to hook up with only married women. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | I've been lonely essentially my entire life, I've dreamed of getting a serious GF and after a while of dating confiding in her about my struggles with loneliness and having her acknowledge my troubles and basically do the "I am here now, it is going to be okay" thing.Hypothetical women operate under your projected assumptions and real women have far more variables. You may have to run many tests to hone your approach. If you have not yet met many women you will find yourself modifying your list of necessary qualities as well. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/14 04:19 AM |
| 2 | I've been lonely essentially my entire life, I've dreamed of getting a serious GF and after a while of dating confiding in her about my struggles with loneliness and having her acknowledge my troubles and basically do the "I am here now, it is going to be okay" thing.The more time you spend imagining the way this future woman you might meet will be, the less time you will have to seek the kind of woman you desire. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/14 03:21 AM |
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