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Sperm bank is better than stay at home dad, because normally she has to have sex with him. But for a high earning woman it is difficult to find a partner who both is on par or better financially and is physically attractive. So she has to search hard without guaranteed success, or indirectly r@pe herself (settle for undesirable man)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:37 PM
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I largely agree, but also, no one wants to provide their emotional labor or even actual labor for free. Those who complain probably got rejected after the talking/dating stage too many times and feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:30 PM
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Unpopular opinion: the one who invites should pay the full price. Yes, 99% of the time it is the man. I say, agree or quit dating bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:24 PM
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There is but it's too far away Starting new one in your area might be a good business idea if there's enough demand there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:19 PM
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A chunk of modern young men deserve to be lonely, agree or disagree? Agree. But those who deserve it aren't those who actually end up lonely most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:27 AM
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At places where people go to be social -- parties, community groups, hobby/book clubs, meetups ... Isn't gym a hobby space?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:25 AM
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Why there's no female-only gym? Or maybe there's one in your area, try to look for it? I don't know, if it goes in a developed country, I'd expect this to be available and would search for it if I were a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:23 AM
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I don't have any insight into these women's minds, but what I know is the really misogynist men usually do not quit pursuing women, so I wouldn't expect misandry to be a predictor for women quitting dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:14 AM
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The rule is simple: look, not listen. Look whom people date, it's not hidden after all. And don't listen to socially acceptable lies. I even think this is obvious to most people, but some of them are just dissatisfied by what they see, and start to look for alternative truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:18 AM
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Just being smooth, understanding unspoken things which other people understand. Don't be fucking awkward or out of place, at least most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:23 PM
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please lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:41 AM
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If height was less important, there would be more couples where the woman is taller, which as we know is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:38 AM
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Women are simply to complicated to be understood or known by men. But men need something to work with when thinking about women, so they create a mental substitute and project concepts they can comprehend onto it. Not saying this is good approach, but it explains the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:04 PM
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Do you believe that male and female sexuality are the same? Definitely not the same. Do they have the same sex drive? Sex drive is person dependent. I'd assume female sex drive is lower but the average value in this context is especially useless, since you're with a specific woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:28 AM
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Why should I research on abuse? I am not abuse victim. Maybe those who are should do it to better understand themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:40 PM
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Logical people research. Not much to research here. Some outwardly judged and condemned behavioral patterns are rewarded in practice. Being abusive is one of these in regards to dating. So these people should just grow up and stop buying socially acceptable lies. And therefore we reach the same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:16 PM
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There is no evidence base for that, provide a link? I been describing my personal experience and motivation, but apparently there's at least one experiment which backs it up: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31285348/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:11 PM
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I already did. Giving advise is usually self therapy attempt or ego boosting. It provides sense of inclusion and importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:57 PM
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They better immediately go research on abuse. Well, yes. Being overemotional is not an excuse. I was talking about women's emotions and feelings which those guys can't understand (why women choose abusers, contrary to obvious logic). If anything, they're being overly logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:56 PM
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I can't believe it actually happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:33 PM
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As someone who likes to give online advise, I wanna tell you one thing. These advise are always given for the sake of the adviser. The person who receives the advice is secondary, if in the picture at all. Giving advise is either a (low effort) attempt at self therapy or pure ego boosting act. So how it works: someone wants an advice (or does not really want it, whatever), they post their situation to an online space, where it's seen by people who want to give advise for their personal reasons, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:25 PM
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It’s 2026, people have been having this conversation for two decades, especially the last decade. Every dating question is beat to death. People who keep asking just don't want to understand or fail to do it. They don’t want to understand, they want to be misogynists. Or maybe they are just confused? Because there are people who come of age each year, or discover new things. On a logical level, it could seem confusing why women choose abusers (even those whose tendencies are already known) and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:14 PM
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Someone in a video I saw recently said it perfectly. Why are we as humans afraid of sharks and avoid them if we see them? Even if out of 10 sharks, only one might actually attack. We still avoid all of them and are scared of them in general because of the risk. Continuing your analogy, people of certain gender seem like they are deliberately looking for interaction with sharks. Makes some of us bit confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:28 AM
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I think their issue is slightly different. They don't understand why abusers are adored and chosen for relationship. They go 'I never beat or abused someone, yet I get less, why?' This mentality is still wrong and to be ditched to avoid frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:25 AM
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I think their issue is slightly different. They don't understand why abusers are adored and chosen for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:21 AM
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This is the argument you want to make? Right. That's why no should mean no and yes should mean yes. If it doesn't, there's no framework to distinguish rape and consentual sex. She doesn't. That's why she said no. Nine times. And then she said yes, presumably after saying no. Like I don't even know how to explain this. It's common sense. We're stuck then because we don't have common ground. But it shows your point is the matter of pure taste, while mine is based on what the woman actually says. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:11 PM
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Ok, and? Like let's play this ridiculous game. So what if no means something else? He asks: 'do you want to have sex my princess?', she says 'no', but he proceeds to fuck her, because her 'no' is as unreliable as the 'yes'. It may seem grotesque, absurd and destructive, but that's what you get when introducing these dynamics. She did. Nine times, in fact. And? Was the time when she said 'yes' chronologically latest? Then it overrides the previous answers. I don't know how to even explain this, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:12 AM
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She finally said yes because she was sick of him badgering her and wanted to shut him up Looks like a lame reasoning, but she said yes, so what is the problem? That's on her if she says yes when she doesn't want it. Not his job to find out whether she has some indirect motivation. Is she not an adult? Is she in some altered state? The experiment does not mention this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:06 AM
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If a man asks a woman to have sex 10 times and the woman says "no" 9 times before finally saying "yes" on the 10th, did she consent? Yes. This is dead obvious. The thought experiment is lame and incomplete (who is she? why does he ask 10 times? How long between each advance? Why would she answer 'no' 9 times and finally say yes). But yes literally means yes. If you wanna deny this, you should also accept that no can mean something else. the answer should be "no" Why though? That woman should've …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:59 PM
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I hate myself and I adore people who are nothing like me, good where I fail. I wanted to add 'fail where I am good', but I am good at nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:24 PM
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No one could and should be their true self. Social interactions are always about pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:50 AM
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He is better than you, I promise. Your mind just created some defense mechanism. Many women are stuck in long distance 'relationships' literally for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:23 PM
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At this point it just seems too difficult to understand in all honesty. I am not really concerned about it, since I am unlikely to ever face any sex related situation. But I can see why some men can give up even trying to comprehend all of this. I'd either give up on pursuing sex (unlikely) or stop caring and hope things will sort themselves out somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:45 PM
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S*x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:16 PM
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Making the first move is inevitably traumatic. I have seen women reporting doing it and feeling strong frustration or worse after they get rejected/misunderstood, because they probably had no idea about it. I am the kind of person who likes to give dating advise , and my advice to women is always not to ever make the first move, because they can avoid it in practice. Almost no one will do it by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:07 PM
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I think sex might actually become a privilege for either absurdly rich or very attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:08 PM
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at least one male acquaintance, classmate, coworker, etc has thought about you while masturbating. One? You still have to learn a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:02 PM
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this is something never seen in real life, so even our intuition about it might be unreliable. It feels like no, I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:43 AM
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Just love the pathetic and despicable me as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:21 PM
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I am not celebrating such things in fear of getting banned for being rape apologist or that sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:15 PM
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What rape? Prison style male on male forced butt/oral sex? I am sure few lunatics will downplay/deny it but most will agree that's awful. Or you mean something else? Then I'd say certain things, but I got site wide ban for exactly this type of discussion years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:13 PM
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I myself am not a native speaker and my English is terrible. But dude, work on your grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:27 PM
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Why should sexual things be any special?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
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I am talking about voluntarily doing things that one does not want to do, which is part of life of any adult person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:02 PM
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Why are you acting like you are an expert on something that you have no experience with? Because I 1) want and 2) can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:38 PM
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Personally I can’t imagine enjoying “sexual favors” that someone is doing for reasons other than their own horniness. engaging in something out of one's horniness has zero value, they want to do it anyways. True love is about sacrifice, and if we strip away the pompous language, it's about doing something for the sake of your partner which you wouldn't do otherwise, are uncomfortable about or have difficulties doing. People tend to understand this, but only until it goes about sex. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:51 PM
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If I were a woman and had experience with the alpha, I'd do everything to repeat it. Why not? It gives best emotions and satisfaction and pursuing your own good does not make you a demon or something bad, thus it is very logical. Also there's legit chance to actually repeat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:51 AM
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This is also true before you get married as a guy. When you had a gf/bf dynamic the sex were more frequent and intense, but after you get married, what a lot of guys report is decrease of sex and the intensity of sex. Women give their best before they get married, because the goal is to get a ring from you. When you give her the ring (The gain), She suddenly gets disinterested in sex and starts to decrease effort to sex. Discover bait and switch dynamics. In fact women are not only ones doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:33 AM
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It's not about me specifically. People go through great hardships to find love. For me and people who are in the same boat this is likely fueled by life-long deficit, but goes same way even for 'normal' people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:29 PM
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What do you like about women? They are sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:27 PM
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Maybe good for them. Or maybe they can't and try rationalizing. Or they choose it now and will change their mind later. Without deep insight to their inner world, I wouldn't even try to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:04 PM
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What is your definition of need? You can't live normally without something (immediate need like food or water) One seriously feels like something is what they need and can't properly live without it. Yeah, personal feeling is enough, but there are some very serious evidence supporting the love/relationship case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:01 PM
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Why do you need a woman/ dates/ a relationship? And what happens if you don't have/ get it? I don't have it, and that's awful, trust me. That's basic human need. 'not dating' is as much of an option as telling someone to starve instead of working, if they don't like their job. I can't imagine someone forever choosing this misery, if dating is available to them, no matter how difficult or bad it is. The person should be asexual/aromantic or whatever, some uncommon state of mind. Just drop the 'if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:53 PM
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And I should take advice from a guy with a virgin flair No, you shouldn't. Would be very dumb to do it. I'm pretty sure most red pill dudes ... I am not one of these. And to find someone with extremely rare kink, you'd need more than five 'plates'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:00 AM
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What of genuinely sexually submissive/masochistic men? They just have to forget their fetish. Genuinely dominant women do not exist (well, let's say they're extremely rare because we can't of course speak about all roughly 4 billion women of the world). So disclosing this preference is not only dangerous, it is useless. showing vulnerability to your witch = no, don't let her see you cry, don't bitch about how you are a victim to her etc because it is just unattractive, and she loses respect for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:54 AM
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Provided you are asexual, this is kinda same as telling gay people to just become straight if they feel discriminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:58 PM
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That is the reason to advocate mandatory paternity testing. But I am not doing that, because as you can read in previous thread, endorse paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:58 PM
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These days it goes the opposite direction, and it is source of grievance for many men. Even without buying full blown theories like TRP, many men realize mutual desire is not possible for them. They might not fully articulate or understand it (or prefer to deny since it is difficult for one's ego), but they observe their own reality where they jump through hoops and put effort (financial, emotional etc), while at the same time women stay in toxic/abusive or one sided relationships with other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:39 PM
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I've seen women complain, also they are more likely to have friends and discuss it with them, meanwhile for men highly anonymous communities are the only space to do that without being stigmatized and made fun of. Six month is for sure not enough, but I believe I've read that prolonged touch starvation has measurable negative effects not only on the mind, but also on one's body. It is a basic human need, it does not give one the right to demand but is a valid reason to complain and become upset.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:53 AM
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I can even believe that your main driver is not sexual attraction. It's probably rare, though not impossible. But you were around them for a decade yet haven't felt a second of desire? Really? Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:17 AM
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Having a female 'friend' means you desire her, she does not reciprocate but lets you stay around for whatever reason (not necessarily bad or evil). Nothing wrong with that, it's not just friendship exactly, more like one-sided love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:50 PM
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Age is very hard female preference, almost on par with height. You have to be older or at the very least same age. End of story. Thus, by time you simply get access to more women. When you are, say, 20, it is mission impossible to hook up with a girl even 2-3 years older. But when you're 30 you can do it in the 18-30 range and you are preferred choice for younger women (18-25 or around).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:33 PM
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Sex with hot men has inherent value. 'commitment' is form of substituting that in case of men sex with whom has zero or negative value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:58 PM
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Why should they lower their standards if it works? I'd have high standards too if I could. Wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:24 PM
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Let's be honest, we cannot realistically sell our body to the opposite sex. Us not doing something we can't do says little about our virtues or superior ethics. Men also do other unethical things, I wouldn't use selling one's body as the universal morality marker, in fact I'd argue that doing it isn't even immoral by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:20 PM
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Most dead bedroom type situations go like: they have sex then marry, sex disappears. So the man gets some sex, which is categorically better than no sex at all, never. You can then even try to rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:37 AM
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Not much difference, just randomly disqualifying some people based on things they can't control (one does not opt in for his family) as usual. So for me the hard worker version is slightly less moral. Also: nothing wrong with being gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:28 AM
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Brutal, what else can I say. How come he wasn't matched with some bots or male LARPers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:49 PM
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I can't believe this situation really made you confused, because you're not a freshly born baby. If you have a job, you surely know what's going on by your age. So there's some sarcasm, but I'm not really digging it. The situation literally goes as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:18 AM
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What room is there for discussion? You as a socially competent man have to read the consent rather than expect direct answer. It is not debate starting point, it is a lesson to learn. And you seem to jump to the same conclusion: If you make your intentions clear, you’re coercing women. They like to be passive and indirect. You cannot ask for consent up front. They want the grey area. I'd only add that coercing is less relevant than showing once own lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:11 AM
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Our consent is usually default or at the very least predictable. It's very easy to understand. I am not saying it absolutely can't be breached, but you have to purposefully create some very specific dynamic and situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:05 AM
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Directly, verbally asking for consent is probably the biggest sign of zero emotional intelligence and absolute lack of social skills and experience. Don't waste her time and do not incite contempt towards yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:04 AM
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Like 10-20% of all men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:44 AM
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Fear not, I haven't read it past the title. .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:06 PM
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Q4Men who care about body count + her past sexual behavior in general: What is a formerly slutty women who has a high n count and wants to "repent for her sins" actually supposed to do? Of course use her accumulated sexual skills to make me happy. I believe the main resentment source is not the N count or 'dirty' things she did with others but rather she won't do them with you. Though I am not the type of guy who cares. So I guess the options are: 1. Take it slow with new relationship prospects …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:50 PM
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Just do it, why do you seek approval? If you're from a western country this is the genuine way to maximize your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:46 PM
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Debate: Boys are supposed to BECOME men Wondering whether someone will dare to actually debate the title
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:02 PM
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Lol @ comparing country with arranged marriage culture with western dating. So relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:00 PM
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Where are you from? Also, note that women are overall more attractive, especially to you as a man. your observation might be real, or you overestimated their beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:18 PM
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I think single men can also be viewed as empowered, but only when this is not related to chronic loneliness. It is that single man stereotype who can get women but is 'wise' enough not to commit to family institution. Many men celebrate this role model. As for the industry bit, there's just less support for men in general, because men are more competitive. We sort of view each other as rivals, which means less motivation to form help groups. Also, cat lady and other stereotypes still exist, wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:15 PM
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You must be very new to the internet my ram, here literally anything posted 'as a girl' gets more attention. And, guess why? Because men are horny. Also maybe women are a bit less competitive and more likely to support each other. On your anecdote. Literature discussion requires substantial engagement and initial interest, while 'I feel you' kind of reply is appropriate for the 'I need a friend' post. P.S. Let's discuss books type of post seems pretty meaningless. which books? Romantic novels, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:17 PM
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Pills explain individual reality, not the whole world. The idea of blue pill is 'it just works'. And those for whom it just works need no explanations, also a lot of mainstream culture is already blue pill, so most people naturally buy it, no need to use mental gymnastics and force the thing down their throat. Theories like red or bl@ck pills are for people who fail and are looking for explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:14 AM
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Pills explain individual reality, not the whole world. The idea of blue pill is 'it just works'. And those for whom it just works need no explanations. Theories like red or bl@ck pills are for people who fail and are looking for explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:07 AM
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Which book is best to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:04 AM
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Well, if they actually give you feedback, your skills and learning are more real than I implied. I didn't think of it because I'd never tell my partner (if I had one) anything of that sort out of fear, in all honesty. I thought your confidence comes from just being praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:11 PM
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I appreciate your advice. Thank you. My point wasn't just 'women have everything', but rather that many of us see sex as very complicated and nuanced social process surrounded by lots of insecurities, not something two people do, and also that learning curve and entry barriers are different for men and women, whether you like it or not. It is empirically evident that male sexuality is very simple, so yes, those who interact with it (women) have easier time. I am sure women have their own issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:30 PM
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What happens during sex? That’s what I learned to do Good for you. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:38 PM
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This argument gets circular, so I'll repeat for the last time: there's no reliable way to tell how much you as a woman learned and how it helped you, because the expectations put on you were initially very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:37 PM
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We have no way to know what you've actually learned. Male arousal and pleasure on basic level is achieved so easily, it's not even worth talking about. You probably learned a lot and put effort, but it can't be taken for granted as a fact based on the self report. To summarize: we have different expectations and different entry barriers, different failure costs, so comparison is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:28 PM
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It's also not about what other qualities she might have (ltr/marriage)...my hypothetical question is only in regards to sex. Your experiment is really poorly designed. Does LTR simply give once a month sex and nothing more? Is casual sex on the same effort level as LTR? Does LTR provide emotional support or other benefits. What's the average quality of casual sex, 'so-so' or better, or random like irl? Your design really points towards choosing casual sex, ssimply because it is more straightforw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:20 PM
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This is probably because many men believe their sexual success to be more predefined and less learned. Also, I don't really know you or your sex skills, but you should note that as a woman you have higher chance to be adored and complemented regardless of your actual skill level or effort. There's a persistent stereotype that woman's role in bed is passive and not much is expected from her. You might not be as good as you think, you simply meet or surpass very low expectations. Keep in mind that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:08 PM
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For me this is not possible, due to penis size and lack of prior experience. On the bigger picture, it doesn't really matter how good you are, since you don't know whether a previous partner was better. That's the point of this whole frustration. You cannot have any reliable knowledge, but probably cannot also escape the thoughts since it is too important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:50 PM
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Or, you could…try? Try what? Stop thinking about it? Perhaps, but I am not sure this is possible. I am sexless so who knows, I imagine I would have these thoughts but would be able to keep them in check. Or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:25 PM
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Most desirable, another woman already chose him for procreation. Preselection at its best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:44 PM
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Men compete with other men. And this is important. However, you are absolutely right that it's impossible to know. So these thoughts are pointless and self destructive. But commanding oneself not to think about something is generally deemed difficult or impossible. That's what many men care about and will think no matter what. In fact I'd seriously argue in favor of accepting 'you're not her best' as the default premise and work from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:31 PM
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The man does what he wants. The boy does what his mom instructed him to do. This is kind of built-in filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:54 AM
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What's the point of announcing your goals? Your end game should always be a secret. But the goal itself is legit and many people are like this, they just either do not admit publicly or are in active denial
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:02 PM
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Culture didnt tell women that’s real. No. But it created narrative and recognizable pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:36 PM
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So these guys are picking and choosing things that conform with their worldview Yes, but their worldview is shaped by culture. Women also buy the prince-Cinderella dynamics, and then pick few rare real world examples to support it. They know Cinderella type stories are fiction, but its narrative is incorporated into the culture and absorbed since early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:16 PM
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Culture is not just Hollywood. Most classic or contemporary novels, poems and whatnot else feature romantic line and leave exactly the somebody for everyone impression. Again, separating fiction from reality is default expectation, but even if you do that, a narrative pushed by the culture you grew up on sits with you. But its a large minority. If incels and redpill didn’t become a massive problem in society, no one would care. I see you really want to scapegoat porn for creating incels, but thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:04 PM
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The real lie is the somebody for everyone narrative, and it is very real in cinema, books or wherever. It is kind of incompetence to mix fiction and reality, but if the whole culture consistently pushes that, it becomes harder to dismiss. Only a minority of people can't separate porn from reality and those are very incompetent. Giving this any significance is a huge overstatement and a cherry picked argument. I wanna tell you it is too obvious, stop using it for your own good. The point that som…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:22 PM
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In principle, I agree. Yes if I had same sexual power I'd enjoy myself. But on the other hand, anger is an emotion which is difficult to control. Personally, I never actually felt it towards women as a group. But if I did, I imagine getting rid of it would be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:25 AM
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Why? Since he's 6 years younger, if you get married, he has a fair chance to outlive you, so it will be the longest possible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:58 PM
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Are you intimidated by his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:55 PM
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I say, flush self reports down the toilet, instead always listen to the opposite gender when you wanna know who likes what.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:23 PM
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Why should the pedoph1le/killer-helper part even matter, especially when you are explicitly talking about sex, is really beyond me. You are trying to force an arbitrary standard on me and likely all other men, while some women do not hesitate to desire and love-bomb actual serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:07 PM
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Yet another baseless claim. But internet is the place for people to pontificate their personal opinion as the ultimate truth, so whatever. I'll do the same: I don't agree with you just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:04 PM
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I think your point about emotions is very clever. I'd add that most men do not understand that the kind of emotion does not really matter. This is where the good vs bad guy frustration comes from. going to a fancy restaurant with a billionaire on his sport car brings emotions. Abusive relationship with a drug addict bring emotions too. And counterintuitively the difference is minimal, while the latter is more available Living average life with the average guy brings much less emotions, and is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:53 PM
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You are spitting facts, though some are really grotesquely overstated. What is even a point of debate? People who believe otherwise do it exactly out of belief. Also what is your social status my ram and what is your income?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:41 PM
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serial killers and shy men also operate in different niches. assortative mating like i mentioned. i don’t think shy men would even want to be involved with the women the serial killer is involved with You simply keep saying this, but repeating it does not add any weight. It is a rather weak and arbitrary statement, that has no basis in male attraction mechanisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:17 AM
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saying that women like serial killers more than shy guys is like saying the general public prefers doing heroin over eating donuts because the drug dealer is more financially successful The fact people purchase H probably doesn't upset donut sellers. They operate in very different niches and do not compete in any sense. if you don’t care how bad these women are Your statement that these women are bad needs examination, or is better to get rid of, because good/bad are very difficult categories. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:23 AM
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rapists or serial killers having more success with women =/= women dislike shy men more than they like rapists How so? Having sex is a very bold way to show who you like. because the women they’re fucking are equally as bad as them First of all, you just try to devalue something that contradicts your narrative. Secondly, we don't care how 'bad' these women are. I think you could've constructed better arguments. Maybe state that the fame helps convicted killers to attract more women and have lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:11 AM
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down to earth celebrity actress i
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:10 PM
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couples considering divorce often change their mind if they simply wait 5 years I have even better solution then. Wait until one of them or both die. For a woman, waiting for 5 years to try and change her mind is critical to her possibilities to re-marry, unless she's well over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:01 PM
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If an unexpected pregnancy happens She's an idiot and her partner most likely is too. Also, how does unexpected pregnancy relate to moving in? You should better advocate sexless dating then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:58 PM
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I have a very self-contradicting and multidimensional view of this issue (which is not interesting for anyone, but) First of all, to me as a sexless man it's a 'sex haver issue'. Yes, this puts men in an unfavorable situation, but they still were chosen by one or more women as sex partner,which I think is priceless, so in this regard I view paternity fraud if it was committed as the price. Brutal, yet still worth it. Secondly, it depends on the fact whether the fraud is ever revealed. This is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:34 PM
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I don't need a licence to trust or distrust someone, also this is reddit my ram, it is to voice polarizing opinions, upvote what you agree with and downvote everything else. Also if a woman would outright say she's looking for a rich guy, some people will call her a materialistic b1tch for sure unless it is a specific predominantly female space (and possibly even then).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:01 PM
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Yes, of course. Everyone wants to be seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:51 PM
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No need for anecdotes. Most stories on subs like that one are made up. In 2021-2023 I myself written and posted over 30 stories to the very sub you mentioned, all of which were pure fiction. Any relationship/dating advice or psychological help space is full of LARP and fantasies. See who pursues sex more actively and who's more likely to pay for it. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:27 PM
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No need for anecdotes. Most stories on subs like this are made up. In 2020-2023 I myself written and posted over 30 stories to that very sub you mentioned, all of which were pure fiction. See who pursues sex more actively and who's more likely to pay for it. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:25 PM
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Yeah, no. If it were true, why in almost every couple I know the man is older? Even many prostitutes these days set the minimum age to 25 or 30. Women are so intimidated by younger men that they can't stand them even for money. Swallow the age pill please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:29 PM
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Dating apps are the literal reality conveniently put together. People will try to gaslight you because the 'real world' is very difficult to quantify; they are likely to default to 'that 5`6 dude I knew back then fucked 200 girls in high school' type of argument. Using dating apps, you actually can cheaply run your own research without relying on statistics which can be bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:26 PM
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No need to die. This is the obvious reality. Trying to deny it takes extra mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:22 PM
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Just be your best self
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:20 PM
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Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive Stop right there my ram, there are tons of broke men who aren't lonely or single. Money is overrated. Women can buy basic comfort on their own, emotions is what they can't buy. If you are truly rich yes it helps to attract more women, but these are low-key prostitutes (which is not necessarily bad, but you should realize that if a woman wouldn't get along with broke-you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:17 PM
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I read only the title so if you imply that people will withdraw from dating because of sex toys or masturbation, since it is a safer alternative, then you are very naive and deluded. I am sure you meant something else, but I don't care enough to dig further.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:52 PM
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Wealth is by far less important, the ability to fuck is at least 2nd and probably the very first choice, though eternal youth/immortality is also compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:48 PM
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Feeling like a victim and having victim complex is not necessarily the same thing. One could be an actual victim and it does not require additional mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:46 PM
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Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them Cause that's the only thing we actually care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:43 PM
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You can accept that cheating is likely to happen as the reality, though neither all women nor all men do cheat in fact. But you absolutely don't have to be comfortable with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:41 PM
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it’s all biology bruh. The difference in height is one of the most prominent sexual dimorphic traits between male and female of many mammal species not just humans. Females of all of these species Wait so this animalistic stuff matters again? Then, can I behave like an ape rather than a civilized man please? But in reality I agree with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:38 PM
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I used to be more black pilled in the past, now also rather no-pilled or mix. Ironically, I think the blue pill might be the closest to how things actually work at scale. Everything else seems forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:26 PM
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The thing about all 'pills' is that they do not explain you the whole world, they explain your reality. That's why it works. I don't know about the blue pill or TRP (probably the same), but as for certain dark pill, people buy it because it gives them coherent explanation of their experience. And, although it seems dumb, counterintuitive or whatever, one's situation is what really matters, not objective reality presented by someone else who has not much in common with you. I really laughed at us…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:42 PM
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Man's status is also always challenged by other men. We 'watch' each other too. The alpha fears the day when another, stronger alpha comes and takes his place. Beta fears to fall lower. And bottom of the barrel men whine, just like the least attractive women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:10 PM
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If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:03 PM
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Women will lose their mind Just like men do right now. And men who condemn AWDTSG will be this new app's main audience. Nothing to even debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:01 PM
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I must confess that my effort to become a hung 190cm Ch@d was too low. Jokes on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:58 PM
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Finally someone said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:47 PM
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Support is a bit too strong of a word. No one needs my support. But if you want, I support age gab relationships where the woman is older, because it extends sexual access for men, and oppose 'classic' age gab relationship where the woman is younger, for the opposite reason (it tightens sexual access for younger men). Women have very stable preference for older men, I'd put it next to height. So it is yet another variable you can't control, of course it's immoral to support or promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:43 PM
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Aren't all women good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:31 PM
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No real issue has a solution. Issues are there to persist, all that can be done is complain and whine about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:29 PM
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It is a laughable speculation that the threat of unselected men ever reaches the level which will require either solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:27 PM
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Big dick is the matter of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 PM
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Be thankful you didn't get site wide ban for that (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:54 PM
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Anyone knows this already. You don't have to ask or read scientific stuff. If it wasn't a problem, no one would talk about it, there would be no developed framework of small penis jokes, etc. If someone is an absolute idiot he probably can ruin sex no matter how big his thingy is. But it probably takes some genuine effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:51 PM
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If as a foreigner I went to India and tried to have sex with local women, how long until Indian man stab me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:57 PM
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Social skills is a real thing. Some people are awkward and boring, others pleasant to be around, most in between. Can you initiate conversations? Can you respond appropriately? Can you distinguish between standard social situations and navigate them? Can you correctly understand subtlety (things that aren't said, but implied and understood by people)? Do you understand that some situations require lying while some require honesty? Where they come from and how are they developed is a more nuanced…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:49 PM
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It's difficult to understand what you mean, but I advice you to try and think less about giant dicks. Trust me I know how hard this is in practice, but you should do it for your own good, independent of the sex and dating stuff. I am myself working on that and the work is not easy and does not even seem rewarding, but it is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:10 AM
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Honestly, there's no real way for the dating to get better, more fair, etc. Women (and men either) will never ever take collective action to 'change their ways'. Romance is the field where everyone pursues individual success, which is the reasonable strategy. Only external circumstances can really change something, and the circumstances are not favorable for men, nor have any predictable potential to become favorable. It may happen, but some very serious social events should predate I personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 AM
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Heck just a few months back a 12 year old boy was forced to pay child support to his rapist I absolutely need to read more about this asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:43 AM
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Take a shower and be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:01 PM
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I seriously believe >95% of 'women' in places like this are actually men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:54 PM
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Everyone acts to maximize their benefit, which is logical. And I think you really overstate the number of women who have casual sex, especially these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:49 PM
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I would if I were a woman too. Sometimes if I have constipation and spend a bit of time in toilet, I already feel off. Giving birth must be way harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:49 PM
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Frankly, I don't know. Even social media is dying seemingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:47 PM
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I think the word autistic is not relevant here. It is natural for people to try to work on something where they can't succeed. A premise like "if you don't have it then you don't, better accept this" is a bitter pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:46 PM
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These days there are less people everywhere. My comment was more about regular topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:14 PM
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I remember visiting this place and commenting at least in mid 2019. I think little has changed since then, which confirms my expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:07 PM
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