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| 38 | [FR] "You're gay" to F-close in the next day (Long and descriptive) | Field Report | OmegaWalker | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 05:18 PM |
| 9 | Traveling to Miami and Orlando in a week. Which venues? | OmegaWalker | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 11:10 AM | |
| 0 | Traveling to San Diego for the Comic-con. Which venues? | OmegaWalker | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 07:46 PM |
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| 2 | I knew the entire party, girl called me a hunk, went home alone anyway. Tips for tonight, please.I kinda wished he read up on that and then tried to see where was that but... The age talk with Foo is classic and there are quite a few ways to handle that better. The groups interaction as well. You should win the group before a target isolation. Taking a (VERY) long shot, he seems to be the kind of guy that rely only on the fact that he's well built on his interactions. Nothing wrong in that; but if I'm correct, groups will tag him as an asshole AMOG. And that takes a lot of flak. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | I knew the entire party, girl called me a hunk, went home alone anyway. Tips for tonight, please.I fail to see you building any rapport in almost every one of these interactions. Running out of things to talk is a symptom that you're not actually listening or getting involved in the moment. Also, read up on calibration. There's at least two moments where your calibration was way off in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Night game eludes me, going to a bar tomorrow and I need some help.Bar or club? They are two very different venues. Your title says bar, but you mention club. Nevertheless, let's start: bar isn't my speciality, but always be mindful of your surroundings (you seem to know that well), use situational openers and cold reading. If you hook, you already know how to amuse them with the sweet talk. Now, club. Music will be loud, convo is probably not gonna work. Try a more non-verbal game: stay amused, dance and show that you're having a good time. Spot your targets a… | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] kinda...TBH, this FR lacks details. Great field reports focus on the techniques, mindsets and phrases you specifically used that changed the course of the night to being successful. Nevertheless, good job. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 08:22 PM |
| 3 | [FR] About 2 weeks ago, K-Close but I don't know howThe first half of the post was pretty good on opening and situational awareness. However, the last part of it adds nothing to the purpose of a FR. You were blackout drunk, there's nothing we can learn from that. Sadly, I'll have to downvote you. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 08:18 PM |
| 5 | I don't know what else I need, I feel like I'm the best person I have ever been, and yet I can't get any girlHow's your kino? Escalating nicely, or just jumping from nothing to a kiss? Maybe you're trying too hard. You may have become a social robot because of the overload of theory. Also, these expensive fragrances and car might also be hurting your game, they may not fit the overall standard of the girls you're looking. Lastly, are you 'in the moment' or just trying to fit the situation into one of the routines you've learned? Most girls I know loathe the canned stuff, but love when you're 'in the fl… | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 06:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "You're gay" to F-close in the next day (Long and descriptive)Me and her were always pretty open about everything, we'd talk about our other hookups for input and whatnot. And she was a bit of a nympho. I'd be surprised if her girlfriend hadn't known about us before, every single one of her friends wanted us to date. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 06:38 PM |
| 1 | AskSeddit, I need to know what I did right and did wrong with tips to improve. (Sorta FR)Why wait until Monday? You have her FB, shoot up a message for plans on the weekend. Honestly, 'creepy' usually means 'out of context and without confidence'. Try the three basic tools: kino, eye contact and confidence. Be self-amused and draw her into your frame. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You're gay" to F-close in the next day (Long and descriptive)This is one of the few times where "fake it until you become it" really shouldn't apply. Just do whatever fits your frame. Since mine is "I don't take anything too seriously", it fits like a glove. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "You're gay" to F-close in the next day (Long and descriptive)She was making out with him. I figured she was already on the point and he capitalized on that. I've read that somewhere before, one does all the ground work and another just swoops in and takes the prize. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 01:52 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Almost F close gone bad, and Questions about LMRHonestly, he failed the first one so hard that the others were bound to be asked. OP, don't take this too seriously, you're new and mistakes are bound to happen. It's important to see them and learn from them. BTW, the answers the OP gave reveal some serious lack of inner game. (To OP) You seem conflicted about what you want and the 'Should I… uh… I can leave.' reeks of low self-value. Work on that, brother! | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 07:00 PM |
| 2 | My bar game is terrible, I don't know what to do, help?By my definition, that would be a club, not a bar; regardless, when there's loud music, either go situational or dance and up the body language. You can close without saying anything with a little practice dancing and having a strong body language. BTW, I'd say this is an r/askseddit question. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 12:32 PM |
| 2 | The Power of Words, Emotions, and IndividualismEven though I think you have a point here (the power of emotions), I think you missed the core. The problem per se was not "ballet". It was "other crappy female activity". That view reinforces the thought that there are "male activities" and "female activities", that there are things a man must like and there are others he cannot like. I believe seddit tries to reinforce the idea that men and women are equal and should be treated as such, no "white knighting" and "putting women on a pedestal". A… | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Just saw a girl I hadn't for awhile and now really want to close. Tips/advice?Seddit is about getting better with girls, not a specific girl (among other things). I'd game her as any other girl: go partying, kino, escalate, the usual. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Not sure where to go from here, could use a little adviceYou were not an asshole, she's just not comfortable with what you did. I'd own that move, but respect her wishes. Something like "That's just how I treat everybody, but I'll make an exception for you". Also, don't fret. There are plenty of other girls out there, go for them. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Critique Me. My Text game is really poor. Where did I go wrong in this situation?AAA: Always assume attraction | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 11:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Practicing text game how do I push it further?Agree with what everyone is saying: far too much texting, seems you are aiming for friend, not FB. Texting for me is to set up meetings/dates. You can't kino over text. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Need some help with calibration and general social circle adviceHaters gonna hate. Treat their remarks as shit tests: ignore or agree and amplify. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Competition theoryThe ones I AMOG tend to get agressive, therefore confirming my theory that they're assholes. Those who just walk away, I try to talk to them later to see how they respond. If they seem like they could be helped, I point them to seddit. But you have a point, I'll be more cautious from now on to those. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Competition theoryIt's not the "fake it until you make it" kind of guys. It's those that are full of hot air, the ones that are trying far too hard. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Competition theoryWell, I wouldn't say all men are competition. Those I see that have no game and are clueless (the typical AFC), I try to point them to seddit. Those who seem natural and GGG, we take turns winging each other (there are plenty of women for us, usually we're not interested in the same). The jerk/fake confidence ones/assholes, I AMOG and wreck their game like there's no tomorrow. Basically, help those with potential, guide those who have lost their way, obliterate the fallen. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Pulling from Bar to Her PlacePrizing and role reversal, if done properly. My first f-close was when I reversed the script and made the girl gamed me. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 11:57 AM |
| 1 | The best way to approach the issue of exclusivity?If she has to ask that, you're not showing your intentions correctly, or you're giving very ambiguous signs. Nevertheless, if one were to ask me that, I'd say the truth. @wontonsouper has it right, abundance mentality. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 03:00 PM |
| 3 | The best way to approach the issue of exclusivity?Well, I believe in the honesty upfront. I usually let them know before the hookup that I'm taking this year to meet new people and that I'm not looking for nor can have an exclusive relationship. It's all about letting your intentions be known early. Don't drop it out of the blue, but try to steer a conversation towards that and be upfront about it. If she doesn't want that, others will. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Bars or clubs: Which are better for gaining confidence and learning?To each their own. Bars in my town are places where you go with your friends to sit down at a table, talk and drink, not really to pickup per se. Clubs, however, are to dance, meet new people and pickup. I run a high energy, dancing game and have way more success on clubs. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:11 PM |
| 0 | How do you deal with "I'm Impressed" and other compliments?If it seems to be a shit test, respond as you would to a shit test. Else, "Thank you", and continue as usual. BTW, this seems to be an AskSeddit question. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Really hot girl at the gym...but she is always with her mom. What do i do?Use a situational opener, talk to both of them, isolate and set up to meet her at a different location, one easier to escalate. She's just a girl and her mother is not a Hydra trying to kill every single person that tries to talk to her. BTW, I think this should be on AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a diagnosis from some sedditors (Oneitis and such).She definitely got under your skin, and I got the feeling this whole ordeal is taking a tool on you. I personally hate the indecisive ones. I'd cut her loose and FTOW, then reavaluate the whole thing. | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 11:48 AM |
| 7 | I'm a lady's man --- when I'm drunkI was exactly like that. Before, I didn't drink and was always overthinking everything. Then, I found out seddit and learned I needed to stop giving a fuck. At first, I drank (not too much, just tipsy or buzzed) to silence my brain. But whenever I got to that stage, I forced only one thought in my mind: "Remember how this feels, you need to internalize this so you don't have to drink to be like this". I also wrote a FR of the night, to solidify this state. And slowly but surely, it sticks to you… | /r/seduction | 01/06/12 11:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffee date, (first ever) k-close. And make-out session in a creepy alley in broad daylight!As everyone said, congrats bro! Remember: don't put her on a pedestal and don't revert back to your AFC ways. I don't think there's anything you need to recover from, but maybe tone down just a bit the last part. Seemed slightly too "dependent" (can't find the right word right now). I like to keep them investing more than me, but with calibration. However, that's just me. Do whatever fits your frame. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Eye contact while meeting new friends (dudes)You might be overthinking this. Looking at a dude's eye just means you do not fear maintaining eye contact with anyone. You need to get over this 'OMG I'm looking at a dude in the eye, everyone'll think I'm gay" because, truth to be told, no one will think that just because of eye contact. That being said, just don't break eye contact by looking down. That is a massive sign of submission. I either do the blink-away or add someone else to the convo so I can share my attention. | /r/seduction | 29/05/12 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Couldn't go all the way, need some insightMy personal rule is: first "no", back off and tread carefully; second "no", full stop. If it was some kind of LMR (as much flak as this term gets), she'll reinititate. If not, you're respecting her decisions. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | It's hard not to settleFair enough. I'm also fairly new at this, so take my advice with a grain of salt. Where I'm from, single mothers have no trouble having FB. Something about "fun without too much rassle". About reputation, treat them nicely and instead of "man-whore" you'll probably be known as "he's pretty good for letting off steam". Remember, leave them better than when you found them. Finally, I don't see how to improve without practice. Here I read how people handled situations, get some good ideias to try o… | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 03:57 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Good things WILL happen if you never doubt yourself, take some charge, and have fun.You reacted nicely to her refusal to kiss. Though your initial thoughts about it reveal some fear of rejection. Work on that bro. By the way, if you're dancing with someone you just met on a slow dance and you don't AT LEAST go for the kiss on the cheek/neck, that'll easily get you in the friendzone. Remember, even if she rejects, you're telling her subtly that you're attracted to her. Half of the battle is conveying your intentions. I'd say go for the date. We're in this to meet new people and … | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | It's hard not to settleWe need numbers to have a better advice: how "small" are we talking about? 1,000? 10,000? Second, "so I can't lead a girl on"... You do realize some people just want sex for the fun of it right? If you're upfront about it, there shouldn't be any blowback. I'm still pretty new on this PUA business, but I'm always upfront about my intentions: I always inform them I'm not looking for a relationship this year, and that has never affected me negatively. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 12:37 PM |
| 8 | Playing it cool when someone tries to AMOG you."Dance to express, NOT to impress". That dude failed at the first lesson of dancing. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 11:06 AM |
| 2 | I want to hear what makes you guys so fucking great. Don't be modest.Hmm... let's start: I solo dance like a beast (everyone always open me saying I'm the best dancer they've seen in my city) I can learn anything incredibly fast I can make drinks no one has ever seen around here (in a town where people think a caipiroska and a tequila sunrise are things from another world, making a B-52 and a Screaming Orgasm totally hooks them) I'm an excelent sushiman; I'm fearless, but down to earth And I have a killing sly smile | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 10:46 AM |
| 1 | This isn't just about picking up women, right?Truth to be told, I'd say it was never about women. We're here to improve ourselves, to be the very best we can be. Women will just naturally flock around confident men. Take me for example: the single most common shit-test I get is that I look a bit gay (one leg slightly smaller than the other makes my hips move a lot more and people say I walk like a girl). Before seddit, I used to get super self-conscius about that, and it ruined my game (both inner and outer). Now, I learned to use that to m… | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Traveling to Miami and Orlando in a week. Which venues?Thanks man, went to chillers on Wednesday, best moment on my trip (sadly, got there later than expected, but still had fun). | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Traveling to Miami and Orlando in a week. Which venues?Thanks everyone! I'll be looking into the options and hopefully posting some FR's two weeks from now, after the trip is over. EDIT: Just returned from the trip. Went to Chillers on Wednesday and Vain on Thursday (unexpected situations prevented me from going out on the other week days). Chillers was excelent, big upvotes to it. Vain was pretty good, but not my kind of club. There was a lot of movement in front of Tier on Thursday, would have gone there Friday. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 10:30 AM |
| 8 | My friends keep trying to hook up with the chick i bring to partiesHonestly, unless the girl shoots my friends down or they say they're no longer interested, we wing instead of trying to steal the girl. Your "friends" are scumbags and so are their tatics. I'll tell them to fuck off and get new friends. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 03:35 PM |
| 15 | Reconnecting, reestablishing rapport, attraction, and intimacy with an exJust because you "banged many girls since her", doesn't mean you don't have oneitis for her. Oneitis is when you overvalue a girl; which, without further context, is what you seem to be doing. Unless the breakup was because of external factors (she/you had to move somewhere distant, whatever god she might have worshipped was against it etc), something was off in the relationship. Regarding ex, my advice is always move on and go find someone better for you. SPECIALLY if it was "over an year ago",… | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Was dancing with a girl at a club last night; what could I have done differently/better?Why didn't you use the fact that it's loud to bring her closer to you when she was speaking? You could point to your ear with a puzzled look and pulled her closer (incidental kino class 3). Also, could have used the opportunity to isolate her on a quieter location. If you danced for at least 15min, after 5 I would pull this move. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 05:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Noob breaks his clubbing cherry. Three questions.Do you have fun in clubs? Going to a place that you don't like usually hurts inner game and it shows on your behavior. Even when I'm soloing, I project a way better vibe when I'm somewhere I like. If you feel awkward in your body, that will kill your outer game. Get comfortable with yourself first. After I met seddit, Istarted really working out on getting comfortable with who I am and how I look. Now, I notice girls checking me out even when there are "better looking guys" around. It's all abou… | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 11:48 AM |
| 17 | Anyone still has the .rar posted in the "To the introverts, nice guys, AFC's, new to pick-up, inner game people - listen to two mp3's and it just might change your life." ? (link in description)I'm uploading it to mediafire. When it's finished, I'll edit this post with the link. edit: http://www.mediafire.com/?9k8ga81197424qa | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 03:46 PM |
| 24 | how get rid of the 'old' ideas/expectations people have of you?I happen to know that feeling. Honestly, you need to ignore that little voice inside of you that's saying "you can't do that, that's not who you are". That voice is your old AFC self, trying his hardest to stay alive. Just go and have fun, no fucks given. If some of your old friends says "that's so not like you" (a couple of female friends told me that when I started improving myself), I said "perhaps you don't know me as well as you believe", and they were immediatly more attracted to me. As te… | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 05:39 PM |
| 9 | FR Crazy conversation with girl--double friend zone reverseAlso thinks it sounds beta... I would go with honesty: "Oh, I'm gonna build up the tension a little more and then steal a kiss" with a big smile. @Fangs78: I also got the creepy vibe from yours, but you might pull that off with the right attitude. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 09:38 PM |
| 7 | [FR] I Decide I Need To GFTOW So A Girl Bumps Into Me, I Make Out With Her.I'll say the same as everyone: cut the oneitis girl off your life! Seriously, she's just wrecking your game. She's using you (and any other man) for validation and taking value. And you DO NOT want value takers in your life. | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 01:36 PM |
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