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| 27 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychology | Omelas74 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:45 PM | |
| 0 | The First Cut is The Deepest (Mostly a rant but there is some meat here to discuss) | Omelas74 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 08:48 PM |
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| 1 | Red pill says fuck other girls while in ltr. What do you say?Yes they did, and your analogy is comparing women who can get laid by damn near any man with men who can't get laid if their life depended on it by any woman so that doesn't work. But this is all opinion anyway so to each their own and best of luck in the pussy game, we all need it... well most of us anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Red pill says fuck other girls while in ltr. What do you say?I don't think it's that simple. The guys in prison who have zero SMV have hot chicks bawling for them at every court appearance so there has to be something else going on besides just SMV. I've known high SMV guys who couldn't keep a woman around to save their lives and spent their entire existence being the settled for beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Red pill says fuck other girls while in ltr. What do you say?All the people saying cheating is bad mmkay... explain why men who cheat are always the ones women want the most and always have the most "ltr" options if they want them? I am not one of those guys, but it's absurd to ignore this reality. I think if that's how a guy likes to live, go for it. I prefer committing to someone if I really like her and have lost count of the number of those girls I wanted to commit to who never stopped pining for their last bf who treated them like shit and cheated on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What are people's thoughts on this Reddit post?If you turn the tables and the OP in the OP is a woman and the partier is male, all the vote up/down numbers immediately reverse. This place is just an example of society as a whole-hyper feminized man hating is not just the norm, it is the ideal, and has now even begun to target beta male friend zone types like the OP in the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for men should aim to make men more sexually attractive rather than emotionally attractiveIf there had been no attraction there could have been no arousal. I'm hetero and it's literally like me telling you I'm hetero and then talking about how much attraction and sex I had with men when I was younger and kinkier. It doesn't work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for men should aim to make men more sexually attractive rather than emotionally attractiveDeciding I'm right and taking credit for my thoughts to avoid having to admit I'm right is poor form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for men should aim to make men more sexually attractive rather than emotionally attractiveSure thing. Next time someone you have zero attraction to arouses you, you let me know. No attraction does not = arousal because they are both part of the same continuum... as I explained but just let that go right over your head. Arousal is a process, attraction is the first step in that process... this really isn't difficult stuff I'm explaining here and as a woman to not get it makes me question if you're just a teenage boy trolling or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for men should aim to make men more sexually attractive rather than emotionally attractiveJust stop. Anyone who doesn't understand that initial attraction is the first stage along the arousal continuum and thinks they are two separate things has no business commenting on such things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The First Cut is The Deepest (Mostly a rant but there is some meat here to discuss)Right over your head with all of that it would appear. Maybe this will help a bit: Laughed at the song. Commented on what the song implies in relation to society as a whole. Was saddened by my friend's reaction when she would have agreed with me only 3 years ago. Does that help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Common Arguments against the Impact of SexbotsYou replied to me but I think you thought it was someone else you had been talking to because your response referenced things he/she said, not me. Either way I'm not on one today like I have been for several days and it's all good if you'll forgive me for being an ass. If not that's okay too. I can be a pretty big one sometimes and it's not okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Common Arguments against the Impact of SexbotsYou're responding to the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Women as RewardGenuine lol... I forget my psychology training makes it unfair of me to engage with the average fool on reddit and for that I apologize. If you'd like to discuss this further pm me, seriously. I really don't mean to be such an ass but when one knows he is right about things it makes it hard sometimes not to come across that way. The private pm discussion offer is very genuine and real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Common Arguments against the Impact of SexbotsJesus... anyone who could read my post and then claim I was defending men who want sex bots is so far below my intellectual level of functioning I just can't continue this discussion anymore. But as I go I want to point out how ridiculous it is that you are so intellectually impoverished you can't see the similarity between a sex bot and a vibrator, and that men who use sex bots are the same as women who use vibrators. As an ADDITION to good sex it's all good-as are all forms of masturbation-but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Women as RewardAm just saying that looks & status are no guarantee. Whereas if it were purely a transaction in the way rp has it, and women are just a store of goods that men buy from, then such a man really could get any woman that he sees and desires. You're complete inability to understand what I was saying betrays how triggered you were by it... making you not only wrong but not even able to stay on topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Common Arguments against the Impact of Sexbots"We’ll show you, menz, when all the women have vibrators and you’re all alone with your dogs!” You sure showed us... :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women as RewardYou're laughing at yourself, just an fyi. The fact that you were so triggered by my post tells me I am speaking to someone my comments resonated with so deeply they are in the throes of a reaction formation. So yes, you are literally laughing at yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Women as RewardBut why can't you see the nuance and understand we all have different ways of arriving at this conclusion--and different qualifiers--in spite of what our hindbrains tell us? I never said this isn't the case, but you're taking it way deeper than my comment and then accusing me of saying that depth doesn't exist. You're making a false argument. and instead settled down with a solid 7 man when I was 21 (33 now). If this wasn't simply settling because you couldn't land the man you really wanted you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Women as RewardNothing really to say except you're wrong. Completely. It never fails though, one or two women get all upset at my truth bombs and tell me I'm wrong, and then several of them send me pm's and say "my gawd you are so right it shocked me." So throw around your bitter jabs all you want, the more truth being told the more passive aggressive insults get thrown at it. You're just not a high status enough female to even have the chance to feed off the status of a high male because they never wanted you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Women as RewardYou're going off course with the "make them feel desired" bit. Women are not seduced into the bedroom by men they are not attracted to, no matter how much that man wants them and let's them know they are desired. So while I agree with the OP you are missing the crucial elements of the man being of sufficient status that women reward him for his status in whatever form he has achieved it, not for making them feel wanted. The most successful guys I've ever known when it came to women didn't give t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Would feminists have better luck in changing mens' behavior by framing the discussion as a "here's how to improve your chances of getting laid" instruction manual?Feminists don't want to change men's luck or help them in any way. Feminists want to destroy all things male and especially all things masculine, so what you're proposing here would literally be the sworn enemy of men helping them... totally opposite of their actual mission. If anyone disagrees I'll give you a case study example. Feminist veterinarian started collecting the balls of all male animals she neutered from day 1 in vet school. Is now a full fledged vet for several years and has a wall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If a woman keeps talking to you and flirting with you, at what point do you ask her out? More inside.invites you to go with her to a couple events. ??? You want to know how to ask a girl out AFTER she has already asked you out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerIf you feel the need to ban me then do so, but don't expect me to conform to your way of seeing the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerI'll call bullshit when I see it and feel like calling it. That is not invalidating, that is calling bullshit. Very different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerI'M A WOMAN AND HE TELLS ME HOW WRONG I AM! MISOGYNIST! Lol, if I had a nickel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerI'm sorry you've never had good sex either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerYou are wrong but it's okay. If you are an actual rape victim it's understandable why you would feel the way you do. As for your anecdotes about "other women," I call bullshit. Nice try to make anyone who disagrees with you "creepy" though... classic female bullshit, classic. Now go masturbate to Khal Drogo raping Khaleesi, as I know you have done many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerIf you've actually been raped then the power dynamics of sex play are going to be a problem for you and you won't understand the separation between fantasy and reality, and while I'm sorry that happened to you it means you cannot comment on this OP or the differing opinions in any way. This hits too close to home for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerYou are the exception that proves the rule, you're not really that into your boyfriend, or you are in total denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many redditors outside this sub believe that the friend zone doesn't exist?I don't know exactly what virtue signaling means, but it would seem to go way beyond just trying to impress. Guys that are getting laid by girls try to impress them too so is there more to this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many redditors outside this sub believe that the friend zone doesn't exist?Explain how it's virtue signaling for men. Honestly interested in your thoughts because I've never heard that and it interests me to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerIt's got to be beyond that. Virgin 16 year olds who think that's all sex is don't go crying about it, they just wish they could engage in it. This OP has something more going on, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerYou've never had good sex or been with a woman who really wanted you. Women who are really into you will want you to hurt them as one part of their overall sexual experience with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerYes but OP was saying it's only domination, so I call bullshit one him/her ever having had it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerLMFAO, you just tried to COMPLETELY do a 180 on what your OP was about... nice try, hahahahahaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are right. Sex is about powerWhy tell her, then force her to grab her rear cheeks and pull it apart? Now the room stink more of butt and it actually feels less. Somebody has never had ass sex. You make them spread their ass so you can go deeper, and no, it in no way widens anything but the opening maybe a fraction of an inch deep. Second paragraph makes no sense to me. Throat no where near as good as vag or ass but some girls do like being choked by a dick and it's fun when you get your hands on one of them. Rest of OP is j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/18 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Because when a woman psychologically and emotionally abuses her partner for an entire relationship/life, it's legal, and the man gets told 'happy wife, happy life' and encouraged to cowtow to the abuse. Yes, but don't forget the totalitarian family court system that will ruin a man if he dares to escape such a situation. THAT is really what is behind such abuse because if men could just leave like women can men wouldn't put up with that shit for a second, but when the courts and the law tell you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 02:02 PM |
| 12 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Lol, thanks for proving my point so perfectly. Have a vote up just because you did that... even though you have no idea how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Don't worry buddy I'll try to be around to tell you that how you feel it's OK. Thank God someone does it right? How you feel? That OK man you get to feel how you feel, because I told you that you can. Let me guess, English is your second language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Edited... better now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Even for this subreddit I am highly impressed at how many people are either too stupid to understand the OP or pretending not to understand it. Impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?No it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not allowed to be afraid of women?Lol @ your dumb ass. Women have every right to get upset for no reason. Men have no right to get upset for any reason. Where do you people come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.That's odd because that is exactly what I tell people in order to educate themselves on this issue-attend family court for a day, any family court, anywhere in the U.S. No one who has ever taken me up on that has come away thinking like you do, not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.I think you've confusedly conflated rich male celebrity types (pro athletes, rockstars, movie stars, etc.) with actual men. Those types are the only ones I've ever even heard of thinking as you describe here. And the family courts are an absolute joke and use reasoning for their decisions that are completely made up, based in a reality closing in on 100 years old, or as you are doing here, take a micro-fraction of the male population and make all men pay for it... which also makes children pay f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 06:57 PM |
| 5 | CMV: "I Like A Man That Will Break A Few Of The Gender Rules Because He Is Secure In His Masculinity" is a demand for Costly Signalling, NOT a genuine preference for gender-nonconforming menwomen are viscerally repusled by male homosexuality in terms of attraction. this is just reality I have known women who were, all were fanatically religious, and I've known women who weren't-and who masturbated to gay porn and loved having threesomes with two guys who were bi and therefore engaged in homosexuality in front of them and were highly turned on by it. So you are wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you sign a 'baby-nup'Right... but you would never say that to a woman because, well, you're a pos is why. If women can't raise children on their own maybe they shouldn't breed if they can't feed em... that cut to the core of your entitled soul didn't it? And no, no you have not and this is getting silly at this point. It's so clear I'm talking to a low-class person who has and is living a miserable life and is just spewing impotent male-hate rage onto reddit that to continue to engage with you would mean I'm just ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you sign a 'baby-nup'Made up statistics prove nothing... other than your propensity to make things up, and even if a man is only paying $400/month that is because he makes next to nothing so that $400 is a lot to him. When a man has to give up 25% of his check in taxes, another 25% or more in child support, and then still try to live, he is going to have to work more and see his kids less... I know, what a shock right? As far as the men you've known not wanting to be in their kids life... you are choosing to hang ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you sign a 'baby-nup'No, it's because society only wants men to pay for kids, while women reap the financial reward of men's labor far in excess of what it actually costs the woman to care for the child and in spite of the fact that most men would gladly take full custody without any financial help at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you sign a 'baby-nup'You can be for or against it, won't matter. The Law has absolute veto power on anything once you have a baby... and by the Law I mean the woman has absolute power once she has your baby and the Law is just there to make sure you don't try to forget that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality and HappinessYou are right OP, all those who want to shut you down are wrong. This won't make you feel any better about all the hate, but at least you can know someone, who is also a PsyD candidate in clinical psych, agrees with you and the studies prove you right as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity, protection, and femininityYou claim to know... why ask me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity, protection, and femininitySexual dimorphism as a result of mating selection. Saying sexual dimorphism is meaningless. Why is there sexual dimorphism? The answer: mating selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity, protection, and femininityYou just proved my point so you might want to think through this a little more carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity, protection, and femininityAnd how did most men end up taller than most women? Because women have ALWAYS chosen taller men to mate with. You can say it started when we were in trees and females had to mate with the biggest, strongest male, but evolutionary psychology disagrees with you that is is sexually dimorphic because if it was you wouldn't be so weirded out when looking down at a man, no matter how infrequently you did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?I want to apologize again. I was on one most of last week, I did not mean to use you as an outlet for my overwhelming stress levels. I am better now... kind of. Your associations are why most men fail to live up to the standard though, especially today. So few have the genetics to be "masculine" and only so many are willing to use drugs to enhance their physique/size. I am not willing to wax my chest hair or take steroids, and hair... I don't know about hair. Old men can be masculine. If Khal Dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Linguistic labels mean different things to different people too, which is why examples should be a better foundation for a discussion. And I can get very... to the point from time to time. How about I apologize and back off and you tell me what you're definition of masculinity is... maybe find some common ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?If giving you an actual example is worth less than some linguistic label you may not be capable of engaging at a high enough level of discourse for this to be of much value to you. But if you wish to continue this then fine, all of that works except temperamental. Lol, Khal Drogo was not temperamental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?You need me to describe masculinity? What if I asked you to describe femininity? Difficult to provide a definition in exact terms, but Khal Drogo fits about as well as any if you need a definition of base, primal, masculinity. All women loved his character in spite of him being such a perfect example of what all women claim they do not want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Evolution would not select for or against such things as surface as male expressions of affection toward one another unless such a thing has an effect on sexual reproduction, which it does not. Evolution selects against things that make women either want to fuck or give them no choice over fucking men. Modern societies have largely eliminated rape as a viable source of sexual reproduction so that one doesn't count anymore, but look at the number of people found to be descendants of ghengis kahn.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Female privileageThe same reason the feminists care when men have it better in some ways... oh wait, I forgot, men can't have it better, that fucks up the whole feminist agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?I used the construct of time as a demonstration of how far back our current evolutionary "pressures" go, you used it to dismiss those "pressures" as no longer relevant. Very different uses of the time construct and yours is inaccurate, it just is. True masculine expression changes very little across culture. The apex of masculine expression is every culture's warrior societies, and they are so similar across time and culture it's absurd to say they are not nearly identical. Physical affection to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Do you know how long it takes an evolutionary adaptation/change to occur? Saying such pressures are ancient is... I don't know how else to put this, ignorant as hell. The evolutionary "pressures," which is an odd way to say biological and ultimately psychological reality, you speak of may as well have happened yesterday. Psychological evolution takes as long to occur as anatomical evolution, so... maybe such pressures are not as "ancient" as you would like to believe. Masculine expression is als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:27 PM |
| – | Female privileageI didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:22 PM |
| 6 | Female privileageThe concept of "privilege" is nothing more than social advantage but was meant to only apply to white males so the word privilege was attached to bring insult and condescension to the label. As it has played out it is so painfully obvious this is nothing more than white male social advantage that to identify where others have social advantage, and where others have social disadvantage takes maybe a 1st grade education, if that. However, we are not supposed to talk about female privilege, or blac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Well you have to break that down further. Originally where do you think socialization and cultural norms came from? Evolution, and the socialization pressures you speak of that lead to this double standard are still in play today, but modern socialization pressure is for boys to be soft and sensitive, something no cave man culture would have ever tolerated, so you're actually making the case for this to be evolution based, since those socialization pressures are not modern, but ancient. Insecuri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?You can't challenge biology based evolutionary psychology. I get why it sucks and one would want to challenge it, I would think there is something wrong with you if you didn't, but we are thousands of years away from evolving out of this double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyLol... now I know you're just trolling. Well played, you got me. No one actually believes inherent value and physical attractiveness or health are the same thing so I thought that was just a slip up previously, but doubling down on that outs you totally. What that says is that all the fat sick people out there have no inherent value, which is absurd and contradicts everything you've been trying to argue here, so you done let the cat out of the bag friend. Troll troll your boat, and again well pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Yes, you are an outlier. Look at the experience of the men in this thread alone, ignore the one's who just want to argue and are making things up, and all you have left are outliers. Honestly though, it is better for men to learn to carry their own water anyway, even if they have a woman like you to cry to. Society at large does not tolerate that shit from men and it's better to deal with that shit on your own, makes you more capable in all areas of your life. All the most successful men you and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyLol, for the LAST FUCKING TIME no one has brought up anyone's inherent value but you. Attractiveness and inherent value are two totally separate things, unless you think all the pretty people have more inherent value than the ugly ones... you see there, that's what you're actually arguing for so take a step back and understand how full of shit you are. This has always been about nothing but health and/or sexual attractiveness, for fuck sake. I'm done here, you just cannot let go of this bizarre … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyIn your analogy the "fat is sexy/beautiful" movement would be the equivalent of telling you it was healthy to be a smoker, but to further the analogy, only if you were a female smoker, male smokers would still be criticized. It is pure fantasy to engage in that behavior and would be very bad for the female smokers if they bought into it, as it is for the fat women who do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyI agree as far as emotional support goes, but making people feel comfortable in an unhealthy body to the point of lying to them or letting them lie to themselves about it I don't support. I do think there is a fine line though and I agree that most people who see it as I do on the physical issue have no compassion for overweight people in general and are just scumbags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyYes, that is the question and so I ask why? As for men, no they don't. Why don't we swap out "beautiful" because it is a loaded and subjective term and insert sexually attractive, because that's what's being talked about here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyNo... not sure how to help you comprehend this thread because it's really simple. The whole thing is fat women are gross, and so are fat men, so why do fat women get to push this "fat is beautiful/don't fat shame me" bullshit on the rest of us while men do not. The inherent value of any individual person outside their physical appearance has not been brought up by anyone but you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyNo, it was written specifically about physical attractiveness and nothing else. You've let those who use derogatory terms to describe fat women trigger you into responding to something that isn't there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Well, maybe you are one of the outliers who is so emotionally healthy the ingrained evolutionary reaction to male weakness is something you naturally transcend. I'm being serious, there are always exceptions that prove the rule and maybe you're one of them, that's a good thing and your man is a lucky guy. Most of us men have to Just Walk Away From-couldn't help myself there-the idea of showing weakness in a relationship and we have good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyThis isn't remotely what this thread is about. This thread is about physical attractiveness. No one is saying anyone has to think less of themselves in any way outside of that if they are fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?Hmmm... that changes things because while men can argue about their experiences with women when they show weakness, women are out of my pay grade with this stuff. Imo it's either you are just lying and trying to get your partner to show weakness as a shit test, he is higher status and getting him to show weakness brings him closer to your level and makes you feel more secure in the relationship, or you just don't realize what it its you actually want, and as a woman you have to admit women say o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?u. k. le guin Yes. One of my all time favorites. But since you're the second person who says they have had different experiences my guess is that you've had them in relation to women who were of lesser status than you are and saw it as you coming down to their level, for lack of a better way to put it. I just don't believe that same status or higher status women put up with any expression of emotion or weakness in any way. I have experienced lesser status women eating up a moment of weakness in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 03:39 AM |
| 0 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?I get what you're saying, but I'm 44 years old and never had an experience that contradicts what I said or known anyone who did, so I'm afraid I'd have to call bullshit if you were the exception that proved the rule, but even if you were, you're still the exception that PROVES the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 03:34 AM |
| -1 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?You haven't had any that contradict mine, no matter what you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologySo it is an evolutionary psychology concept then? It is in the lizard brain why women think they are attractive when they are not and get angry when they can't get higher status males when they shouldn't... and are then able to look down on similar status males? I don't know... that means these fat women/feminists are just making biology/mating behavior part of their women's movement agenda... which would be crazy in one way but they would never admit to it so I still ask, what excuse to THEY ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyWhile you're right, I don't see how that relates directly to the OP. Can you explain further? And since the fat shame warriors don't subscribe to anything biology or evolution related, the question still stands. Why is this okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Why is insecurity NOT a kiss-of-death trait for a woman?Pretty much this 110%. Evolutionary psychology will help say it a bit better than this but yes, even if you don't see why this would be the case psychologically because of the biological realities of the sexes... actually you just need to understand it that way, because that's just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:34 PM |
| – | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?In general, within an intimate relationship, sharing insecurities is not attractive in the sense of being a turn-on. It's also not unattractive in the sense of being a turn-off. It's essentially sexually neutral. No, it is not. It absolutely is a turn off and the only time it remains neutral is if a man slips up and is punished by his partner for it in some way and IMMEDIATELY hauls that shit back in. If you are in a bad place and can't keep it from seeping out somehow it will ABSOLUTELY be a tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How unattractive is insecurity to a woman?You are correct, and women will of course tell you different but they are lying, pure and simple. I'm not sure if it's a case of not knowing what they actually want, being uncomfortable with the sexual attraction of masculine confidence, or they just like to lie, but however it plays out your experience and mine have been identical. The only time a woman will like seeing a man be insecure is when she wants him to be seen as less by others so she doesn't have as much of a threat of being left by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | When I'm married will I eventually lose attraction for my wife?My experience has been the opposite in all of my long term relationships, but I was also just lucky in that none of them ever hit the wall until the relationship had ended. So my opinion is that if you are attracted to her, like really into her physically which you should be, don't settle, and she doesn't let herself go, you will be more attracted to her as time goes by, not less. There are a few girls who let themselves go years after we broke up and I would think, thank gawd I got out of that,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Selection and Male DIgnityI am in a clinical psychology doctoral program and subscribe heavily to Evolutionary Psychology models, which make perfect sense despite what anyone may tell you. This is almost perfectly in line with such theories and a very good post. I only call them theories because everyone tries so hard to believe we are not animals first, whatever the fuck we want to think we are second, so these "theories" are really just biological fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 04:56 AM |
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