Omgareyouforreally Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Misandry is more prevalent than misogyny I think I’m in love	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 03:41 AM
4	The ‘manic pixie’ is an immature fantasy, but women are only hostile to it because it’s one of their fantasies in a role-reverse Same. I am not attracted to men who are more than a few inches taller than I am. I have never been interested in a tall man; I am attracted to good eye contact, comfortable hugs, and the short soccer player type build. My mom is taller than my dad, and he was her high school sweetheart, not someone she “settled” with. This “only like tall men” thing is wildly overstated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/26 07:25 PM
2	Men Shouldn't Complain About Being Locked out of Casual Sex if They Think it's bad for Women Right?? I literally have zero friends that have casual sex; relationships only. I’m sure people who sleep with “Chad” are out there, but there is no way it’s as common as so many of these men think it is. I don’t get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 01:05 AM
5	Whereas male attraction is largely amoral, women’s attraction seems actively immoral and sex itself is therefore bad for either gender 10/10 comment, no notes	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:48 AM
7	Is promiscuity and casual sex just the norm with women nowadays? Same. I’m sure there are people around who are into hookup culture, but I’ve never been close with anyone who is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 01:06 AM
2	Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive? No. Most men I see around my age pass my looks threshold for attraction; however, it only turns into sexual attraction for me if our personalities jive and they seem intelligent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 07:41 PM
1	How attractive are the men who cold approach you? I agree, the attractiveness level of men who approach me varies wildly. However is will say that almost all of them had reasonable eye contact, and seemed warm and friendly (excluding random men who yell from across the street; this is just men who initiated close conversation).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 12:00 AM
2	"The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women? Oh nice! I haven’t been there in a while, but if you’re ever in Lubbock Texas, I recommend the Free Market Institute’s Speaker Series :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 04:05 PM
2	"The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women? There are dozens of us!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 04:02 PM
3	"The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women? Omg another Austrian economist in the wild :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:50 PM
9	Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"? Many women like myself, as well as many men, have never been involved in casual sex or pick up culture. The ability to get casual sex literally means nothing (to the people I know at least) because we are not participating in that and have never participated in that. If men or women value it that’s fine for them, no judgement either way. Using offensive language about men or women probably isn’t the best idea if you’re trying not to offend people though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 02:11 AM
1	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person I married my first boyfriend. I met him because he went to church with a good college friend of mine. He was a “good guy”, involved in bible studies, worked with the soup kitchen, he was nice to my family and friends, did regular check ins with my dad, got to know my brothers. We were both virgins on our wedding night. Literally as we were driving away from the church venue his temperament changed. He started screaming at me because he had forgotten to pack a weekend bag, and it got worse from t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 11:26 PM
3	Most people nowadays enter relationships like a contract, and then they try to find any loop hole in them to get what they want from them, no matter if it hurts the other person involved. It’s still this way in many religious communities. My friends and I were encouraged to go on casual dates to get to know many men, but there was very little physical intimacy that happened until the wedding night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 04:03 PM
10	Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens' You seem like a reasonable, empathetic person. Is there a way for you to address these issues with your friends by stating how it is for “most of your male friends” on dating apps instead of using yourself as an example? It would probably be healthy for the girls to have their eyes opened about other’s struggles from someone they trust/respect, and it would certainly be better for you not to have to keep all that bottled up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 01:15 PM
1	There’s no such thing as an unreasonable standard or preference. Your objective level is who is buying what you’re selling. You cannot deem what makes somebody’s standards unreasonable Mises strikes again 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 10:48 PM
1	Have you ever received unwanted attention from a woman you found attractive? Maybe so. I don’t know any physically aggressive women (aggressive with men or women) so I would hope not, but that might be wishful thinking. Ideally IMO this would mean women wouldn’t have a low level background fear for their physical safety while interacting with new men/acquaintances, resulting in a lot more general openness and friendliness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 02:26 AM
3	Have you ever received unwanted attention from a woman you found attractive? This is so interesting. I wonder how different male female relationships would be if there wasn’t a big strength imbalance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/25 12:57 PM
11	Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship Not true for all women. I can’t be attracted to anyone without an emotional connection. I’ve had two long term partners, and have had plenty of attention from “Chad” that I was not responsive to. It’s the same for almost all of my friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 01:49 PM
–	I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationships I think he is under the assumption that most women are on welfare or some kind of government subsidy which is a wild take. This is just my own experience, but all my friends have good jobs, no debt aside from home or car loan, and manage their bills just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 05:24 PM
1	Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man? Shocked 3 didn’t get more love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 01:43 AM
6	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? Right?? Absolutely not, no thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 12:55 PM
3	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? You’re out here doing god work. We appreciate your service.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 12:53 PM
3	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? For me, shoulders back, normal, relaxed stride, looking around and aware of their surroundings, not afraid of friendly eye contact, can give a quick smile. Someone who seems friendly and socially well adjusted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:17 PM
2	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Omg this is so wholesome ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:05 PM
3	The break up didnt come out of nowhere. There are guys who ignore signs their relationship is in trouble. I think if you repeatedly say that something is upsetting you, and your partner does not care to change, they are showing how they feel about you. I personally would not want to be with someone who I had to threaten to leave to get them to care about my feelings. That seems wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 07:58 PM
5	Men: What do you bring to the table? This is so cute	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 12:03 AM
0	The Male Loneliness Epidemic Many of us have never used dating apps, including myself. I do agree with you that that type of set up makes things worse between the genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 04:02 PM
14	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. You seem like a strong, hardworking person, and I wish you the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 01:48 PM
1	Telling women that they are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships reinforces women’s need to have high standards. At the end of the day you’re another day colder 🎶 And the marginal utility theory of value won’t keep out the chill 🎶	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 07:29 PM
–	No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period. 😂👌	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 04:52 PM
–	No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period. Austrian Economics strikes again	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 04:29 PM
3	Why does the perception that "most men are physically unattractive or below average" exist among women? It’s so sad; I feel like you’re giving these guys the keys to the kingdom as far as how to turn women on sexually (which benefits everyone!) and he’s just… deciding not to believe it for whatever reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:16 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning This is so wholesome	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:28 PM
22	Older men pursuing younger women while belittling other women Thank you for being a kind brother to your sister ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:22 PM
2	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. It is sad. I wish there was an easy way for men to have meaningful, deep, friendships. I’m sure many do, but on PPD at least it seems like it’s more difficult for men to develop a truly supportive friend group that can satisfy most of their emotional/social needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:13 PM
2	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. You’re doing gods work	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:50 PM
11	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. Omg girl, no. You’re clearly just acting ignorant/ hiding all the sisterhood secrets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:46 PM
2	The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 06:44 PM
3	CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame men This makes is so obvious that many men do not see women as people. We are just objects, and if these men don’t get a toy they like, they think a reasonable response is to “get revenge”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 12:53 PM
1	CMV: Villification of men is toxic You look good. Some women will be into the facial hair, some won’t, but you’re definitely not ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 05:30 PM
6	Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop. Omg, a hobbies of the women of PPD breakdown, I’m so excited 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 08:53 PM
14	Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop. Sure. Some of us, like my friends and I, paint, write and do yoga. There are so many different hobbies women love, just like men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 06:48 PM
1	Men’s positive actions are individualized while their negative actions are collectivized and … I’m sorry if I misunderstood or offended you. I thought you were unaware that female genital mutilation was still happening, and thought a link about it from the WHO would be less aggressive than a less vanilla news source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 07:59 PM
3	Men’s positive actions are individualized while their negative actions are collectivized and … It’s literally still happening. https://www.who.int/news/item/06-02-2024-putting-survivors-at-the-forefront-of-the-global-movement-to-end-female-genital-mutilation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:19 AM
0	Too many women are seriously NOT looking for an actual human connection with a man. Absolutely, you’re totally right. We should all be with someone who meets our preferences, or single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 01:16 AM
-3	Too many women are seriously NOT looking for an actual human connection with a man. For me at least, it was about the type of man I wanted to date. I had no problem asking someone out when I needed a date for an event; weddings, etc., but I only wanted to date someone who liked me specifically enough to go through the potential awkwardness of approaching, and someone who values their goals more than they are worried about social anxiety. Also, I prefer to have the man lead in multiple areas of the relationship, and asking him out would start a bad precedent for what I would wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 12:38 AM
5	Women are leaving dating apps Why does that follow? Many of us don’t do casual sex. I married my first bf, and was a virgin on my wedding night. After our son was born he began having severe mental illness/violent episodes so I’ve had to start the divorce process. If I ever decide to date again, I definitely still wouldn’t be interested in casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 04:40 PM
–	I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same. Men and women should only be dating people who treat them the way they want to be treated. If someone is not meeting your needs/standards, and you are not being treated the way you prefer, being single is a better option. Having standards for how you will be treated is healthy. Trying to coerce a man or woman into behaving in a way they do not want to behave is not healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 12:06 AM