OnARolll31 Archive

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3	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. I see but, it’s not only normalized in the places you mentioned. There’s gyms that don’t allow it but if it wasn’t against the rules it would be socially acceptable. Look at other places like a skatepark or a basketball court at a park. In areas with no rules or management to deal with, men will go shirtless and wear whatever they want. Generally, they have more freedom to wear whatever they like including being half naked in public if they choose to do so. Women don’t get that luxury.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 10:47 PM
7	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. What world do u live in 😭😭 go to a CrossFit or warehouse gym and you will see men working out shirtless… in what world are men’s bodies considered gross and evil?? Women can’t work out half naked, it’s illegal in most places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 08:43 PM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. I'm not debating that testosterone is one of the biggest hormonal factors between men and women but I am saying its incorrect of you to draw such an incorrect comparison based on the ratio of testosterone between men and women that is explicitly the same as the ratio of desire for sex between the two sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 05:20 PM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. Other hormones and factors play a role in libido, its not solely based on testosterone. I've met many women who have a very high sex drive, I don't think you can solely equate desire for sex to amount of testosterone in their body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 04:42 PM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. I think the issue is when you're not in control of your sexual desires or exercise sexual discipline. Its important to control your lust and not let it control you and your life. Thats the offputting aspect for women. If you only see the world through lustful lenses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 04:37 PM
9	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships You might be right I may have used the term wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 06:40 PM
47	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships Yup, people forget the halo effect is very real	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 05:06 PM
1	Is sex a need? Depends on how you define need Not having sex does not automatically reduce lifespan, and other factors like overall health, lifestyle, and genetics play a much larger role. Therefore, it is not a need, just a desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:55 AM
14	If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and blood He sure can, theres lots of rich gay men out there that are into that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 05:03 PM
14	If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and blood You don't have to slave away at work tho.....why don't you just go find yourself a sugar daddy to take care of you?? lol Theres so many options out there if you don't wanna work. Also why not just do what you want with your life, do what makes you happy. No one is forcing you to live your life a certain way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:32 PM
2	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Yep data breaches are everywhere. Count my words, that app/the developers or whoever is responsible will be sued into oblivion and that app with be taken down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 08:56 PM
29	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Very big double standard. I don't understand it at all. Women have the potential for abuse, its time the world takes of the rose colored glasses. I have been lied to, gaslit, cheated on, given STDs by women in my past and other people deserve to be warned about them. I get that the Tea app is operating on the aim to protect women, but people who date women need to be protected from the female sociopaths and leaches out there too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 02:48 AM
4	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Very good point. Data mining is more common than most people realize	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:55 AM
1	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Looks like the app doesn’t allow screenshots so best to have another phone ready to get evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:53 AM
29	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? There should be one for women too. I’m a lesbian and I have encountered many women who are very shitty people, serial cheaters, and liars and women who pass around STDs. I’m all for equality in this case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:52 AM
1	Women don't approach men because of other women. No I don’t think they will be defensive as long as you’re just genuinely curious. Plus the more women you ask, the more answers you get and you will be able to see if there is a pattern. That’s all I’m saying. Even if it’s fear of rejection, disinterest in approaching, or thinking that it’s a man’s job, still none of that is what OP laid out. I think it’s a very strange take and quite inaccurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 01:19 AM
1	Women don't approach men because of other women. I mean it’s more of a let me pick your brain situation. So a woman won’t give you reliable information on this subject because…? I’m not following. It’s one thing to ask a woman dating advice - that could be unreliable because unless she herself also dates women, she won’t know what it’s like from that perspective. But to ask why a woman acts a certain way? I’m sure you will get a reliable response	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 12:40 AM
-1	Women don't approach men because of other women. Have any female friends/sisters/cousins who will give it to you straight? Or just don't trust women as an entire group?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/25 12:22 AM
1	Women don't approach men because of other women. But taking the suboptimal approach as someone with few options is like shooting yourself in the foot, no? Why not use methods that have better outcomes statistically? It’s lacking in common sense and quite nonsensical to use ineffective methods..	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 11:58 PM
3	Women don't approach men because of other women. I guess what I don’t get is the approach a stranger part. A lot of couples meet through a shared activity, work, school, mutual friends. Approaching a stranger who most likely doesn’t want to talk to you doesn’t seem like the best approach to forming a genuine emotional connection. Even online dating is a good avenue for that. Cold approaching? Not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 11:51 PM
0	Women don't approach men because of other women. Here’s my best explanation. I myself am attracted solely to women. If I find myself noticing a woman that is a complete stranger to me, it’s because I find her attractive. Would it be wrong for me to assume men also feel this way? (Rhetorical question mainly, I have a lot of guy friends who do not hesitate to point out a hot girl in the vicinity) Additionally, if I were to approach a women or give her my number, it’s because I’m physically attracted to her. I know nothing about her personality o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 11:16 PM
2	Women don't approach men because of other women. No, I don’t think men are “vile dogs” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 10:59 PM
0	Women don't approach men because of other women. Oh my, the mental gymnastics you did here instead of just asking a woman lol I don’t think this covers it at all. Most women don’t want to approach random men they see. Most women want to form emotional connections with people, most of the time they are not overwhelmed with sexual/physical attraction and a drive to approach. Please make more friends with women 😭 you will find more answers to your burning questions by just talking to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 10:37 PM
1	When times are hard financially for women, Why do they choose to be sex workers instead of moving in with one single wealthy man? Most likely it’s because these wealthy men have higher standards and are not going to settle for a poor homeless woman. They are smarter than that and not desperate either. I’m sure there’s a lot of women out there who would like to be with a man who has his shit together but a lot of the time these successful wealthy men are partnered with successful women who are from similar social circles. Also your question is a bit strange to me, it seems that you have a limited world view. Women don’t jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 10:25 PM
1	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Yes actually humans can chose to be vegan and they do so every day. Look into peer reviewed studies about about whole food plant based diets. There’s a lot of research done on this very subject and there is enough data that shows that humans thrive on this diet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 03:40 PM
3	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Yep there’s people like that unfortunately. Animals can’t choose to be vegan though. I have cats myself and they are obligate carnivores therefore I feed them meat. Feeding them anything else would be abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 05:38 AM
2	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? The majority of humans are hypocritical though. You wouldn't believe the amount of people who will hold their pet dog or cuddle with their cat and then within the same hour eat flesh from a pig or a lamb. Many people claim to love and care for animals but only the ones they are in closet contact with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 04:20 AM
2	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? People generally hold less compassion for insects though. Even being vegan myself I don’t hesitate to squash a mosquito or flush a roach down the toilet. It’s different when you’re looking eye to eye with an animal like a fish and you are able to see them suffer. Additionally, insects like mosquitoes and roaches can carry disease so it makes sense to kill them. But a fish is just minding its own business going about its life and fishing for a hobby means you enjoy hurting animals for fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 03:08 AM
0	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? While a vegan or vegetarian is more likely to feel this way, women who eat meat can still say they love animals and not want to see them dead or in pain, even if that means some hypocrisy in their diet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 01:26 AM
6	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Women don’t like it because it means that a man enjoys a hobby of inflicting pain and death on innocent beings	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 08:54 PM
3	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Just because the fish are released doesn’t mean that the fish didn’t just experience unnecessary pain and injury	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 08:53 PM
2	What Cheating Statistics Tell Us About Relationships Very good way of putting it	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/25 04:14 AM
0	Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men. Lets be real though, men pay for the dates willingly, because they are mainly the ones asking women out on dates. lol you can't ask someone on a date and then expect them to pay for your food too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 12:39 AM
1	Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men. Do you have any anecdotal experience you can share? I wanna see things from your perspective and why you drew that final conclusion about most women. I’m guessing you have been on one too many unsuccessful dates that you had to pay for? Find women who truly like you for you, even friends who just basically like you as a person, you will find that women can be quite generous and compassionate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 02:33 PM
7	Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men. OP, surround yourself with better people. There’s a lot of selfish ppl in this world, men and women. They tend to love to take advantage of ppl who are too giving. Screen people much better before letting them into your life and take and take and take. Find better more loving people. But first you have to believe they are out there. If you think all women are selfish, that’s all you will find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 06:35 AM
2	In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship? Don’t sweat it dude. Some people lose their virginity later in life. People who make you feel that way don’t belong in your life. And no women definitely are not asexual in the slightest. Women love sex as well. But for a lot of women it’s a mental thing. You have to stimulate their mind. Also, be funny. If you make her laugh and feel safe, you got it in the bag lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 01:33 AM
2	In your opinion, how would you like men to introduce sex into the relationship? Terrible message to send. As a lesbian, I wouldn't ever send something like that to a woman, its so disrespectful. Continue doing what you're doing and just let her come to you. Give her compliments, be flirty, but ultimately shes going to be deciding whether y'all have sex or not, not the other way around. Women don't like to feel pressured into it. Hold off on it and tease her until she jumps your bones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:10 PM
-1	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? Describe what “a bit misogynistic” means? Like to what level does he hate women and what does he do or say to them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:00 PM
0	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" You didn't included an example with a man ..... What are we supposed to be comparing to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 03:56 AM
7	Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil" Understandable fear, kids aren't for everyone. They are a lot of extra stress, which can actually trigger different types of mental illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 03:55 AM
1	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. No I was arguing against the statement that you made about how “ a large part of their sexuality is focused on accessing an entire woman” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 11:09 PM
1	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. Then why are glory holes a thing? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 10:44 PM
5	Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise. I don’t think it’s correct to call sex robots male vibrators bc men have their own handheld sex toys. Sex robots are an entirely different thing, you cannot compare apples to oranges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 06:43 AM
2	I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west) How have you spent that much money on dating/women? I have a feeling that while you probably make a lot of money, you're a bit too careless with it. Unless you're a millionaire/billionaire who legitimately has the money to blow	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 07:19 PM
2	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms Agreed. Other commenters are saying it’s a good sign to know how much a guy is interested- if they offer to pay the entire bill. But I don’t think that’s fair whatsoever. A relationship isn’t one person shouldering the financial burden (unless both are super into the traditional roles). A relationship is about both people helping each other, I think it’s only right to split and then after that take turns treating each other to dates. Expecting one person to pay always can cause resentment to bui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 05:25 PM
4	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms I agree. Coming from a masc lesbian as well I think it’s harmful for the more masculine person in a pair be expected to foot the bill. I think it should be the norm that dates split the bill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 05:01 PM
20	Submission is earned. Agreed I personally see it as a red flag when men demand submission from a woman . What’s wrong with a confident woman who is sure of herself but shows vulnerability with you at the same time? I’ve seen the relationship dynamic where cowardly men need a submissive and less intelligent woman as a partner in order to feel like they have the upper hand always in the relationship. I think this is what’s turns off a lot of women to dating/marriage - they want to be seen as equals in a relationship, n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:34 PM
2	Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them. Any chance you could link the post about the gay guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:22 PM
6	Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them. Honestly theres no need getting so worked up over this topic. Friendships tend to be easier when there's absolutely no chance of feelings becoming involved. For this reason, as a butch lesbian, I have more friends at work who are straight guys than straight/bi girls - it gets awkward when there could be potential for feelings.... Honestly women would rather be around friends who make them feel safe and respected as equals - I think thats what a lot of those comments were saying on the post you w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:18 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men People with bachelor's degree earn higher than average and that's a fact you can look up	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:10 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Read the first sentence of your post lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:31 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men So then that voids your entire original post. First in your post you're saying women are getting paid too much and are too successful, but now you're saying that none of those lead to high paying jobs? Biology and nursing can lead to very high paying jobs by the way - esp. nurse practitioners and nurse anesthetists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:29 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Genuinely curious how old are you and do you have a college degree? Earning a degree for many jobs is the first step to entering that field. Sure there are some fields where some self taught folks can breakthrough due to skill and experience alone - but that is the exception and not the rule. If you are trying to get a well paying job, experience alone won't suffice. A lot of degrees have hands-on real world experience needed as well such as clinicals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:22 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men Job performance is highly dependent on competence in that specific skill set. Therefore having the intelligence and determination to obtain a degree from an institution of higher education accounts for quite a bit. How are you so sure that women aren’t outperforming men in the workplace? Do you have any concrete evidence of that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:06 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men This isn't necessarily because women are outperforming men, but because the system adjusted to address past imbalances. Men who once had higher incomes now find themselves on equal footing or even earning less. Women are more educated than men in the US and perform extremely well in leadership positions. So this statement is completely false. https://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinkruse/2023/03/31/new-research-women-more-effective-than-men-in-all-leadership-measures/	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 02:49 PM
–	Heterosexual trans men should just remain lesbians It seems you’re not a heterosexual woman… I don’t know how accurate your description of their sexual desires are. I’m a masculine lesbian and the amount of bisexual, bi curious and straight women that are into me is much more than 100% lesbians. I think some women are generally just attracted to masculinity and the way a masculine person can make them feel. Sometimes for women attraction is less about how someone looks but more about how someone can make them feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 10:24 PM
11	Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern women As one comment on this post I saw suggested - it’s validating for men to find a woman that wants to give birth to their child. It would then make sense that the ugliest men might be wanting that extra ego boost to prove that they are attractive enough to be mated with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 12:50 AM
6	Modern men appear interested in having kids or having a large family more so than modern women This post is asking why men want to have kids so badly - we're not focused on women here. Look at the post linked in the original post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 12:31 AM
1	First harsh rejection Your first words to a woman should never be about her physical appearance. Talk about something happening (band thats playing, something happening in the close vicinity) strike up a conversation, lead with a joke or make fun of yourself even. Never make it about her looks because that puts SO much pressure on her and is an uncomfortable feeling that someone is looking at you in such a focused way. If you are only talking to her because shes so pretty, how do you think that makes her feel as a pe…	/r/seduction	11/07/21 07:08 PM
1	bouta approach this library employee Its still inappropriate, kinda hard to flirt on the clock.	/r/seduction	12/02/20 01:22 AM
1	bouta approach this library employee Because if they don't like you or think you're creepy they can't just say "fuck off" and walk away. They have to stand there and be polite even if they don't want to.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 08:09 PM
21	bouta approach this library employee Never hit on someone in a customer service position. It is literally their job to be nice to you. And its very uncomfortable for them. Approach girls at a bar or club, somewhere that social interactions are voluntary not mandatory for their job position.	/r/seduction	11/02/20 12:02 AM
6	How to deal with sexual depression I agree, or even a female friend could tell you whats wrong with your approach, or what you could try to make yourself more attractive. Girls typically know what girls want/are attracted to. If you have any lesbian friends jackpot lol - they would probs be more than happy to share some female secrets hehe ( coming from a lesbian here :) )	/r/seduction	19/11/19 03:37 AM