| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls.You count the numbers you get? Also 40 and 0 numbers you must be doing something a little off man | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls.Look at the amount of time per day you spend on tinder. Would that not be MUCH more useful spent out and about. Not trying to make this personal, but have you had luck with tinder? | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls.Hey dawg, when I deleted tinder I had 200+ matches after about a month. Statistically, if I am the average, I will meet 20% of those girls, and bang 2 of them. What do you think those 2 will look like? My point is exactly yours. Tinder is too much time and effort for what it's worth. Meeting girls out and about during your day, in the places you were going anyways is much better. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funTypically go clubbing, but I also have groups from school. The ones I went clubbing with have become friends I get lunch with or chill with during breaks of class. | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funHoneslty, it's better to meet GROUPS of girls and befriend all of them, rather than meeting one and trying to get her to introduce. It works best if you go out with say u for guys and then meet 4 girls. And befriend them. Edit: read this wrong, that's basically what I did. But you gotta try to do it with way more than 1. | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funI did approach Edit: most tho I met in class or through friends or at the club. 2 years ago I made a huge social circle for myself which consists of a lot of girls | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funThat's why i was using past tense such as "felt" and "didn't" you're right, it wasn't all that great. I've now had a dope girlfriend for the past 2 months who I really enjoy spending time w Edit: also, for the record this is a pickup subreddit, for the exact purpose of sleeping with women. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 02:19 AM |
| – | 100 approaches in a month - making progress and having funYa honestly sometimes I felt like I didn't get enough progress if I slept with 4 chicks in a month, then see these posts about talking to 100 chicks and not banging, when I've probably also only talked to 100 chicks in a month. Also makes me kinda depressed tho too and I feel bad for these dudes. At least it's progress | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Right Girl, Wrong TimeIt's all of it combined honestly, including the comments random ppl are making | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Right Girl, Wrong TimeYeah this whole thread is sad. Why go for a taken chick when there is roughly idk 4 billion others. So desperate | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my FWB that I'm exclusive w someoneIt is true but in this context I don't know why you said it | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my FWB that I'm exclusive w someoneLol I don't think that's really what the saying is referring 2 | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my FWB that I'm exclusive w someoneThanks, I don't want them to be pissed, all I can do is just give them a heads up and be nice about it | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my FWB that I'm exclusive w someoneYa that's the thing I'm worried about, these girls seem to really like me, and I also like them, also their groups of friends are all friends with mine so it would cause problems. | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | When my FWB meet? How to handle?Lol no it's not, who made u decide? | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | When my FWB meet? How to handle?What | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | When my FWB meet? How to handle?Honestly that's the thing. They weren't connected but everyone my age all goes to the same bar, same school, same parties. So eventually everyone meets. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Come on fellasThe angry lol, no this guy just cucked himself. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.Sorry, your comment just made the OP comment more concrete, although I imagine he was serious referring to the WIN | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What to introduce a fwb as, at a party?Because I've said friend before and people kept pushing | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Friend used me for sex to rebound. Caught feelings but she got back with her ex. Any advice to get over her.That's a sad way to look at things, this comment made me depressed. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling with turning conversation flirtyTbh, I would say, yes I'm attractive. BUT I was attractive before too and had no luck. Once I started putting myself first, that's when things changed. Edit: also just to clarify. I would NEVER say some of those things to a girl I JUST met. But after talking and establishing a good frame, I 100% would | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 01:05 PM |
| 19 | Really struggling with turning conversation flirtyI am that guy, and yes I'm bragging, but also proof. I sleep with around 6 different chicks on the regular. I attribute it to the facts that: I literally do not give a fuck If I want to say something I say it, be it tell her I want to fuck her, her hair looks funny, that other girl is hot, an edgy comment, "literally bout to shit my pants" anything I want to say, I say The girls knowing that I'm with other girls a lot really helps too. Definitely don't tell them straight up, but post snapchat st… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up...I turn into autismo gizmo when high and for that reason I do NOT smoke at all when pulling/trying to pull | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 04:42 PM |
| – | How bad is it really to have only selfies and no social pics in your Tinder profile?Just saw recently a study that people who post more selfies are seen as less desirable. Don't shoot the messenger but basically the reasoning was that the brain makes the psychological link that you took the picture yourself. Whereas with other pics the brain automatically assumes someone's else took it, therefore subconsciously thinking this person has friends, therefore they are more desirable. I could see the link being even stronger for tinder. I'd suggest taking some other pics. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Seducing married ex gfDamn dude, why are u so desperate that you have to go for a married women.... THAT'S ALSO AN Ex. you do realize there are roughly 3.5 BILLION other women out there. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 02:07 PM |
| 51 | I don't wanna buy drinks for random girls at bar.My boys and I do rock paper scissors drink loser buys the drinks. I'm telling u God is in favour of girls losing when at the bar, I'm like 17/20 win rate | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Are there real playas here?Tbh in the last 6 months I've gone from 0 to 5 FWB on the go as of now | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Sliding into the dmsI have the most success responding to a girls story rather than just messaging them out of the blue. You have a head start cause the story she posted is likely a topic she is already interested in and you can just put your own spin on it, challenge her, flirt. I would get into the habit of responding to every story that interests you in some way. Even if it's a person you barely know or haven't seen in years. They posted the story for that exact reason, it will get you comfortable talking with g… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 12:34 AM |
| – | Sliding into the dmsWhy you need snap? Just DM on insta and go from there. Many guys make the mistake of getting her number, her snap, her insta, her FB, her Kik, her tinder, when you only need 1. Keep it simple and just message her on insta and set up a date from there. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | 101 QUICK Tips to Get Laid, Often"You're good at dancing..... For a blonde" | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What to do when the girls start talking?I got slapped last week for literally making out with a girl at the bar... By a girl I made out with the week before. That's a big problem in my eyes. Edit: and just to add man this is what the sub is for. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKI had the bodies of 12 different women in my room at one point. Better? | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKI started working out, putting myself first, forcing myself to talk to every girl I thought was attractive unless it was a bus, gym, or work. And became a yes man, anytime u are invited out, say yes. Even if you feel like gaming or chilling. Opportunities favour the bold. And only the bold. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKI actually did start working out. And I will admit, I'm pretty decent looking but my game was straight up trash before | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKI appreciate it, it does make me feel good to tell them though that's for sure. What was the change that made u stop caring? Only age? | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKHuh, that's a good point. I actually like the criticism tbh with you. I definitely do tell my friends when I have sex, usually only if they ask or it was relevant in the convo. But yes, I definitely did make this partly to brag because yes I'm proud of how far I've come. But also to let others know that are in my previous position that it's not as hard as it all sounds. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKWell more what I meant was I was extremely needy. I'd complement girls just to try to bang, or buy them shit.... To bang lol... I'd get oneitis and text the same girl for months and never ask her out, I was an orbiter | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKOkay basically I met some really shy girl and we dated for a year, and ended up having sex a lot. But I was not good with girls at all even with her or others | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I’m 17 and I’m happy I got cheated on.If a chick cheats, that automatically puts her straight into the hoe category, this is common knowledge | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | girls on snapchatDon't do heart eyes | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Demographics of this sub?U could literally be me | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Some girls look better than others (Question)Yo, I literally knew someone might say that and thought to clarify | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Some girls look better than others (Question)Is this a play on your username? If not UTI = under the influence | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 09:57 PM |
| – | Some girls look better than others (Question)There need to be more categories Girls you'd bang, Girls you wouldn't, Girls you'd actually date, Girls you wouldn't go near with a 10 foot pole, Girls you'd bang only while UTI, The list goes on. | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 07:00 PM |
| – | Help me with this guys!I really don't know why you are being so confrontational, we are all here for the same reason. I said like twice because well, I've only banged 2.. That's what twice means. I've banged plenty more that I didn't meet on tinder, and the two from tinder that I banged would likely be the least appealing of them all. This guy shouldn't be trying to get girls on tinder when he can't even in real life. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 05:29 PM |
| – | Help me with this guys!I disagree, girls on tinder have 100 horny guys saying the exact things you did. You have to tease in different ways and act like a normal person for at least 5 messages, get the number, set up the date, THEN once in person start acting much more flirty and sexual. You'll scare her off if you do it like you suggested. And for the record, I've hooked up on tinder like twice, because there are much higher quality girls that aren't on tinder to have fun with. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:22 PM |
| – | Help me with this guys!It's the second message and the guy is asking what to say. I really don't think this is the best approach for him. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 02:35 PM |
| 8 | Help me with this guys!Jesus, don't say any of this | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Girls wanna buy me drinks at the bar?You're making fun of me but I'm actually wondering... | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanna buy me drinks at the bar?Well obviously not every girl leaves. It's odd, I sleep with women a decent amount, an I know for a fact my game is great, but the girls who buy drinks... Will talk to me for 30 min/dance... Then buy a drink and be gone in 5 minutes... Almost like they owe me or something Its only happened 5 or so times but it just so happens the ones who buy drinks leave.. And the ones who don't... Don't... Just was wondering if anyone had a good reason | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Kissing girls' handsWhy should you? Sxpecially a women you just met | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app wants to meet up but do I look different on the pics? U.K.Can I get a "yikes" | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Kissing girls' handsThat's fucked bro | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Groups Of Girls (5 lines you can steal)The who is the leader is a good one | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to make snap and insta stories when out without being cringe.Typically I just post stuff with a funny caption, for example last night I posted something about us watching game of thrones and drinking wine on the patio. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 03:46 AM |
| 0 | How to make snap and insta stories when out without being cringe.That is a very good approach in my opinion as well. I have a good looking cool friend who doesn't have instagram, never posts stories, and girls ask about it a lot. Although in my opinion it's either all or none, and I'm more of the extroverted get to know everybody, rather than the mysterious type. Thank you for the input though I do appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How to make snap and insta stories when out without being cringe.Hmmmm, typically many people who believe in social value would say broadcasting hangouts to people. Not every single move, but just something to show what you did... Yeah it does sound cringey but it works. So idrk. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble kissing women for the first timeDont make kissing the next step after talking. Should be hugging, touching hair, hip bumps, and more in between those 2 steps. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Stop Dressing Like SHIT!Just watched it last night and thought the same | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls who like you who you aren't completely interested in?Like I said, these girls are intertwined in my social circle already. Girls talk, they aren't necessarily datable but their friends are. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Trust your fucking gutWhat actually happened, was somehow the girl saw him, said he was cute and asked her guy friend to open for her | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls who like you who you aren't completely interested in?Lmao, thanks man that's perfect | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 12:55 AM |
| 2 | How to respond when girls who like you who you aren't completely interested in?Well wtf, I'm definitely not doing that. I dont think I'm not good enough for them Edit: sorry that was harsh I just believe saying that would be lying. And also they will think I have low self esteem | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 11:35 PM |
| 7 | FUCKING EYE CONTACTYeah I've told a story on this sub before that was 100% real and everyone was calling bullshit. Basically I was out on the town with a friend of mine. A random girl walking by comes up and asked for a lighter. I turn directly to her, look her in the eyes for 3 seconds and just reply "no, I don't" and she stares back in my eyes for another second or 2 and replies "holy shit, you are sexy as fuck" turns to my friend and says "your friend is sexy as fuck". And walks away still linking arms with som… | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | 5 Tragic Reasons Why The Average Guy Doesn't Get GirlsI'm 20 and I've slept with exactly 8 different women. You're saying I'm more likely to get divorced when I'm like 35 because of this? My ass, that stat is skewed by the people who get divorced, of course people who get divorced and remarry will have sex with all the people they are with. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Took a girl’s virginity from day game instadateOfc it's possible... It doesn't happen everyday and that's why he posted it, cause it's rare | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 07:06 PM |
| 5 | How do I get a girl to stop sending me nudes?He was just a guy who was too nice to tell you he isn't interested. You are "that crazy bitch" he knows. | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How do i make it more obvious that i want a romantic relationship?And yet you haven't asked yourself what the girl wants. And it sure as fuck isn't poems. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 10:26 PM |
| 6 | 5 things most guys don’t know about messaging girlsAll the tips you gave are not good. Sounds more like how to be a nice guy 101 | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 09:03 PM |
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