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| 94 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino. | OnMyDaleCarnegieShit | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 10:05 PM | |
| 23 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date? | OnMyDaleCarnegieShit | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 10:43 PM | |
| 4 | Seddit, what do you do when you hook a set, but they were planning on going to another venue? | OnMyDaleCarnegieShit | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 06:54 PM | |
| 4 | Body Language Example: How to Confidently and Seductively Deliver a Joke | OnMyDaleCarnegieShit | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 09:38 PM |
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| 2 | How To Compliment Correctlyvideo is private..mirror? | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date?Yep, I was blind-sided by that once. The girl was on the fence and if I was expecting that response I think I could have made it happen. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date?It's more fluid and natural that way and hopefully you can avoid the part where she feels like she is acting slutty (and therefore more likely to come up even if you both know the real reason). Yep, these are exactly]why I like to have a reason. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date?Nice. Interestingly, I remember reading somewhere that you should always start doing whatever it is that you invited them up for...but I can't remember the reason so it must not be too important. I think it was in The Game though, I'll see if I can dig it up. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date?Ah a less-ridiculous spin on the classic "wanna come up and see my etchings?" | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Three tips you would give yourself on your first dateAdditionally, if there's something you want to ask her you can "cold read" her instead. Bad example: instead of "so what were you like growing up?" you can say "I can tell you were a over-achiever/trouble-maker in high school." People don't really change much so it's easy to make judgments like this and get them right after spending a few minutes with a person, but for some reason they eat this shit up. It's more flirty than just asking a question. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 10:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] She Can't Believe I Made Her PayInteresting perspective. Say there's a situation like this: a woman in college going out with a man with a job Assume the man pays for most things, but occasionally doesn't pick up the check or he tactfully asks the women to pay. Only every so often, seemingly at random, and for small checks. How would that come across to you? | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 12:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She Can't Believe I Made Her PayNicely done OP. Any ideas on why she thought you'd be paying for the dive bar food? I usually always pay on the first date because it's usually just drinks and only $15-$20 tops. However, she will lose points if she doesn't reach for her purse, offer me some cash, or at least say "thank you." After that, I just generally go by the rule 'whoever picks the date is paying'. Actually, this rule would probably apply to the 1st date as well if I wasn't always the one proposing it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 12:41 PM |
| 2 | 21 years old, never been on a date. Decided "fuck it" and asked 5 girls out. Got 4 dates in a week.So anyway, I know this isn't anything special for a lot of you guys, and no k-closes/f-closes... This is pretty damn special. Fuck trying to pick up random chicks in a bar, your chances of closing on dates 1-3 are infinitely higher. Now don't get discouraged if you don't, but you could very well end up with 4 k-/f-closes. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentYou're the man | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Tip: Keep your phone on silentI suggest setting it up so that calls come through, but all other alerts are muted Anyone know how to do this on an iPhone 4? Google didn't get me anywhere. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Extremely frustrated. How do I talk to women in a loud club?You can't run your normal game in loud clubs. You have to match their energy. RSD Tyler explains it much better-- if someone wouldn't mind linking to the video I'm thinking of. | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 03:03 AM |
| 3 | If you were to create a list of places where you have had the most success picking up women, what would go on it?Someone on a similar thread suggested volunteering. I don't have a link unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 02:42 AM |
| 1 | If you were to create a list of places where you have had the most success picking up women, what would go on it?I love the elevator. I chat them up, if they respond well I go for a #-close. There's no time to beat around the bush and they understand that which is why I love it. Also, laundry room of my apartment building. | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 02:32 AM |
| 2 | A non-PUA's thoughts our community.Have you read How to Win Friends & Influence People? If you haven't, I think you would enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upFrom this experience and based on an article written by a respected pua blogger on the subject, I'd conclude that they quality you end up laying from online will be the same as the quality you get from cold approach. Would you mind linking the article? | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upDo you say "let's play 'would you rather' first or just fire out the first question? It seems like if you don't specify that you're playing WYR you'll get a lot of "Dream job. hbu?"-type answers to the first question. Do you find this is the case? | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 11:42 AM |
| 0 | To all the non-believers, and especially those that like to be vocal about it in the commentsAgreed. I also find the word "Kino" cringe-worthy but am guilty of using it on here. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Who is your favorite fictional PUA?Hank Moody | /r/seduction | 07/07/13 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.Plus if you do happen to have a witty comeback you count on him tearing you a new one for the next 5 minutes. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.After some research, here are some of my favorites: Outdoor concert / play Fireworks Watch a play rehearsal / (sports) practice Some place haunted / cemetery (might have to get beyond a couple dates for this) Comedy Club Share a bottle of wine or some beers for all of these. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 01:03 AM |
| 17 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.For my own curiosity, what would you guys think of a date that went up to the top of a university residence in construction for a few beers on the roof? That's gold, man. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 12:55 AM |
| 2 | If you're going on a date, make a reservation and chat with the hostess for a minute on the phone.That's some Dale Carnegie shit right there. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 12:49 PM |
| 12 | Seddit, what is your "go-to" escalation for the kiss/sex once back at yours/her place?I like to do this if there isn't a pause in the conversation where I can make a move: put my drink on the table, take her drink from her and put it on the table, kiss her. I like this because once you take her drink she knows exactly what's coming and it takes a second to put down so it builds tension. Look her in the eyes while doing this and glance at her lips or even neck/cleavage/legs while doing this (it's appropriate here and will probably turn her on). | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Do you have a personal pattern on how you approach women and talk with women? Share it!This philosophy has helped me a great deal: anything funny/interesting that pops into your head that you could potentially say to a women, you HAVE to say it right away. Even if it's a women you have no interest in seducing. Oh, you noticed something interesting around that group of girls? Don't say it to your friends, go over and say it to that group of girls. Oh, you noticed something funny about your surroundings? Don't waste it on your friends (those assholes), say it to the cute girl standi… | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You AreOh Michael, you're such a *bleep*. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 09:04 PM |
| 3 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerI like this: I think it's a good idea to have a default opener in case you're blanking on something to say. (It kills me to have a girl make eye contact and not know what to say. I realize "Hi" or "What's your Name?" should be said at a bare minimum, but I feel a lot of pressure in that situation and I don't usually get AA. But I digress) What would be the default response if she says "why do I look interesting?" and you can't think of anything off the top of your head? FYI for anyone interested… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 11:38 PM |
| 5 | An Incredibly Powerful Technique to Get Any Girl To Follow You Around a RoomTake Away Principle: Keep Her Wanting More. Try the routine, once you know the routine, can it and go for the same result in a more natural way. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 12:29 PM |
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