OnYourMarkyMark Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How old is everyone? Doing well. Chose not to divorce 10 years ago primarily due to financial reasons and the time honored but somewhat misguided belief that most men have that “I can fix it”. What I did to fix it is create my own peace by not tolerating shit behavior (some people call this “boundaries”) and defusing and sometimes using her weaponized pop psychology such that she stays in her place. Learned independence and ability to get social needs met without her. And getting the emotional and physical needs met…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/25 12:22 AM
3	Amicable divorce, but my ex wants me to contribute to her “rent” for an apartment she owns. Am I being unreasonable? She is “amicable” because she doesn’t want you to take half of the property portfolio she’s built, but entitled enough to ask for more.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/25 04:32 PM
2	Men walking away from marriage The narcissistic urge by women to overshare on social media has caused men to learn the truth about women, and they don’t like what they see.	/r/MensRights	07/08/25 02:53 AM
0	Lack of male therapists All the power to you	/r/MensRights	03/08/25 01:29 PM
0	Lack of male therapists You’re not wrong and in fact why I cited a more reputable journal as my first source. You can find more - just search replication crisis in psychology. I only put Psychology Today in to point out that even the lowest common denominator agrees.	/r/MensRights	03/08/25 05:02 AM
2	Lack of male therapists To make matters worse, most of the research it’s predicated on is probably wrong. “In psychology, only 39% of the experiments yielded significant findings in the replication study” in one analysis. Psychology Today itself admits it and calls it a crisis	/r/MensRights	03/08/25 04:20 AM
3	Lack of male therapists My experience also. It’s their standard clinical practice. There’s little a man can do to understand a therapist’s approach much less their biases when attempting to choose a one. You’ll do just as well if not better with an AI as the NYT pointed out this week.	/r/MensRights	03/08/25 03:54 AM
13	Lack of male therapists Even most of the male therapists are feminists, but little you can do to discern it when selecting. If you’re religious you possibly may find one that aligns with your values, but even then it’s iffy because in any case most of the customers are women and they end up aligning with that perspective as correct.	/r/MensRights	02/08/25 01:08 AM
1	I'm afraid to build wealth Off shore it	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/25 12:59 AM
6	How many of you left because you wanted MORE? You pick your bad.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/25 06:17 PM
2	Went to my first consultation with a lawyer. I’m having a hard time accepting the potential amount I would need to pay. How do I get through this? Depends on the level of discord, but you are right to ask how much is it worth. Is it worth a million bucks? If it is affecting your mental health such that you get in a dark place then probably not worth sticking around. Or if you want to work post divorce longer or harder to make up for it. Or if your have a moral foundation that says not to violate vows before God. It is possible to find peace with your “wife” as a roommate and find physical and emotional needs met elsewhere depending on how …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/25 12:08 AM
2	Dating after divorce - She sent the money back Did she need money? If not it was silly to “have it prepared” - shes not a child and should be capable of arranging someone else to fix her car. If she did need money then she’s acting like a grown up taking responsibility and that’s possibly a good sign. It also may be a sign that she doesn’t want you to feel like she owes you something but the relationship seems to have progressed in a way that this is unlikely.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/25 01:54 AM
2	Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's? If you’re fit and healthy now you’ll be fine into your 60’s and maybe beyond. By then they’ll be out of the nest. Just need to keep your energy up to match the wife’s and kids’.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/25 12:09 AM
10	Wife said something that I can’t comprehend While you may not want it or need it it’s best your wife is making good money when signaling she may divorce you. Had a friend who became unemployed and unemployable through his own actions when he knew divorce was inevitable and two years later she was paying him alimony. I can’t say I’d do that but if that’s what the family courts reward then I can’t say I blame him.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/25 01:17 AM
2	How do Democrats win back white men? Read, quote, and espouse Martin Luther King Jr’s “I have a dream” speech. This began to draw us together before the leftist, socialist, intersectionalists began their poisoned narrative and power. Deconstruct identity based everything- policy, law, funding and don’t hide the diaspora of the sh1t under other names and HR department. Eliminate affirmative action. Enforce title VIi with strict interpretation against those who do. Make some companies legal pariahs when they don’t comply that set the…	/r/MensRights	09/02/25 07:47 PM
5	How do Democrats win back white men? lol. No going back from decades of anti white male policy you put in place	/r/MensRights	09/02/25 07:20 PM
6	Why does everyone always side with the woman? They make up narratives to justify their behavior. After enough repetition fueled with raw emotion to reinforce, they begin to believe it themselves You arguing with it seals it. Then you wonder if it’s true and begin to doubt yourself. You stop sharing the truth because it just makes it worse. Her gaslighting becomes the truth and when things do hit the rocks this false narrative is what is shared. Best thing is to know your truth, hold on to it, and become practiced in speaking it. Shed light …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/22 12:44 PM