On_ur_left Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	After divorce wife asks, Friends with Benefits...		On_ur_left	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/18 03:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	PCOS Dude. Yes. Omg.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/20 03:14 AM
2	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it? Sorry, look for “The Divorce Remedy”. I gave the wrong title.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/20 08:06 AM
3	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it? Read “How to stop a divorce”. It is better than counseling in my opinion. Some of the things I learned I found out too late but they are excellent tips for salvaging and or enhancing a relationship. Please give it a try first.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/20 05:46 AM
2	About to loose my mind!!!!! I am so sorry. Married 15 years with three kids when my wife said divorce was the only option 2 years ago. We have now been divorced for one year. something changed before the divorce. Cheating possible. She seemed to change one day and listed every shortcoming, which appear quite tame ( you didn’t help put kids shoes on, you worked at an outdoor outfitter in your 20’s, you didn’t attend my party with friends after graduating nursing school, etc.). She had been planning for a long time. I provid…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/19 01:08 PM
6	Rejection I am in the same boat. Today there are so many accomplices to a woman leaving. T.V. shows glamorize it, friends are divorced and telling her she deserves to be happy - leave because he sounds awful, family sides with their daughter to maintain their friendship, and the courts are setup in favor of the woman. A woman can have a midlife crisis and your suddenly kicked out of your house and to blame. You can provide, be a great dad, friend, let them do whatever they choose, but if they want to see …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/19 02:33 AM
6	my emotions are crazy I am in the same boat. My Soo. To be ex- wife has positive attributes , and is extremely outgoing to other people, bit to me she gave me nothing of years, unless it was a either the silent treatment or a critique. I made a lot of mistakes but I provided well, loved my kids, and am a great dad. I was not controlling and she could do what she wanted. She is divorcing me and says I crossed lines, which is an embellishment and she makes it sound like I am a loser. Focusing on the negatives and not a…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/18 07:54 PM
2	Need some advice I would second getting out now. My wife started off critical and it proceeded to verbal abuse. I've been dealing with this and threats to leave for years. We are now getting a divorce and have three young beautiful children who will be very sad. My advice is to find someone decent and enjoy life.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/18 02:33 AM
5	Heart breaking... The spouse comes first. It keeps the stability of the system together and enables one to collaboratively focus on the family unit. Without the strength and respect between the two adults with the same goal, it becomes unstable. Think of a plane, while the goal is getting the passengers to the destination, you won't see the pilot and Co-pilot put more stock in the passengers opinions or feelings. They know the goal and they trust the other with their life so they can reach their destination. Same…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/18 01:26 PM
3	Heart breaking... It is completely heartbreaking. I can't imagine it either. My youngest gives me kisses or just comes over to give me a hug and says I love you. My wife has been pushing me away for years. It's a woman's world and unfortunately my wife assumed control early on. She has run the show for years and gets whatever she wants. Started threatening divorce early on for insignificant things. It's mind boggling that a mother would first if all, think that the kids come before their spouse (which I completel…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/18 03:52 AM