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| 0 | How important is social media presence when it comes to dating?Agreed. If it's all selfies it's a HUGE turn off. I'd be happy to see them going to the gym, traveling, or having an artistic flair. But Insta-O-narcissism is a red flag. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How important is social media presence when it comes to dating?If it matters you're looking at the wrong type. That's not to say you shouldn't have something. It's good to show your interests and that you might actually have friends. But if it's a real factor then that person has issues. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?I just downloaded MeetUp the other day. The group hike I picked to try this out already has 46 people signed up for it for this weekend. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 8 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itYes. 🤪 It's still true. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itA person is smart. People are stupid. You can't have a riot with one person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Most women don't realize how hard average guys have itA person is smart. People are stupid. You can't have a riot with one person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | how do you game very attractive girls in their mid-20s if you're 10+ years older?Show them a large bank account. Done. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 07:38 PM |
| 10 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Chances are you'll never see that woman again for the rest of your life. Why would you care how she reacts or talks to her friends about when you'll never hear about it anyway? You're fabricating situations that are irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Tips on not freezing in the head when talking to women?It helps to ask her questions that you have an interest in yourself. That way if she asks a related follow up question you can keep the conversation going. But not too much on your end. You need to leave a little for mystery. The goal is to learn about her and if you can even tolerate her in the first place. Don't worry about yourself. That's for her to decide. It's not a job interview you're relying on to pay the bills. And you shouldn't "need" her either. Think of it more like a shared experie… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Your desire for ignorance is yours alone. The facts don't care. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Statistics. If a woman has been with 15 men there is a 20% chance her marriage will survive. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Her text read “stop by & crack this pussy open like Humpty Dumpty lol” & I’m starting to catch feelings ..Everyone falls for their first. It's the morons like me that end up marrying them. Just have fun with this. You'll always remember it. But don't ruin it by trying to lock it down so it doesn't go away. It's just lust and fun. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidThat makes sense. My experience is a little different just due to time I guess. Texting was a brand new thing when I started dating my ex-wife 17 years ago. We texted a ton when we were dating. And then in our marriage we text all day as well. It was just normal to me. So to hear this different dynamic is a learning curve. But I understand it from a modern perspective. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidYou missed the first sentence. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 18 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidI get the whole don't text often thing. But I always find this argument a little silly when girls will text their friends 300 times a day but when a guy double texts or sends too many it's a red flag or just gets ghosted. It just seems a little hypocritical. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menI wonder if you can remote work for US companies? I would imagine the exchange rate is quite favorable. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menWhat does someone from the west do for work if they move there? The only thing I know about the country is the women are gorgeous. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menYour story resonates with me. My wife kept pursuing higher degrees and making more money. I kept staying at the same "decent" paying job because I was complacent and depressed. It got worse over the last two years. I felt like shit and stopped going to the gym frequently. She gave up on me. Now being single again and getting my shit together. Gym 5 days a week, lost 20 lbs in two months, talked to the bosses about a promotion and they are working with HR to give it to me, etc. Heartbreak is abso… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDThere are some of us that care more about genuine connection and romance. Some of the tips in this page help keep the right mindset or at least give you the courage to try. But the real you is still in there looking always looking for someone special and not just another body count to brag about; as if anyone actually cared. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?Yes sir! Good options. Another along those lines would be shows that have cosplay. You can find some down to earth girls into that as well. Obviously if you ignore the OF's ones. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:17 PM |
| 13 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?It's truly amazing how many of you don't know what "girl next door" type is. Maybe you're just being combative. Think of the girls in country songs or the type that would never go to a club. Mostly shy but honest. Cute and with a personality that makes her a 10/10 in your eyes. Doesn't care about superficial social status. The idea of sitting on the couch and watching a movie together makes her adore you. To some people this is far more desirable than any bombshell bimbo you'll find in the club. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | ThoughtsHave you even been with a woman? I'm not saying you're a virgin. You and your buddies probably "practiced" after you got too excited watching anime. Shouldn't you be paying attention in summer school right now? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 01:05 PM |
| 22 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…Don't be a sack of shit | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | ThoughtsYou couldn't sound anymore pathetic and beta. "As a true man." LMAO. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 3 | ThoughtsI don't care how hot she is. If she is a shit person I don't want her in my life. I won't tolerate it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Woman's intuition ??It's the hive mind. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I always get held back by myself when I see a really pretty womanYeah look at Kim and Pete. That dude is exceptionally ugly and yet there he is. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I always get held back by myself when I see a really pretty womanWhen she goes to Taco Bell, she blows up the toilet just like you. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 27 | Did having your own place make you approach women more?Having your own place does make you more desirable so it could increase the probability of women wanting to be with you. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?I didn't even know Facebook had dating. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.The statistics show that women who have slept with 15+ men have a 20% chance of a marriage lasting. Yeah this sub is about learning women and getting laid. But that directly translates into a solid marriage on the man's part. You know how to please her, understand her, and tempt her. Then you protect and provide for her because you've learned your path and value. A woman with a high body count simply isn't worth the risk if it were to transition into something serious. And many men 30+ are datin… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Have you read “The Game”? Has anyone had similar experiences/success?It can work. It won't work on everyone especially if they are very intelligent. And the style may not work for you personally because of how you perceive others and yourself. It may also go against your morality. Either way it's a tool you can use but not essential. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Have you read “The Game”? Has anyone had similar experiences/success?Right because everyone happens to live in your area to scare your fish away.... | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Esoteric question to seasoned "pimps"I read "way of the Taco" and got hungry for a feast. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:37 AM |
| 7 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meI'm afraid you have the eternal single curse. Burn some sage and peppercorns and rub the ash on your balls. It may help cure you. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | When girls call you out on negging. What to say?Your problem is you're using boring PUA lines on someone intelligent. They won't fall for your BS and you won't be seen as trustworthy. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Anyone ever take dance classes?I'm tempted to try this myself in the near future. I'm not quite there yet but I'm making the moves to be able to add this in. I think it would help me greatly. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | 🤓 The Numbers Game Explained (plus bonus proof pics)Or you can just stick to Rosey Palms and her five daughters. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 9 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?I was married for 16 years. And if she wasn't a lying cheater I would have been with her for the rest of my life. Marriage can be amazing. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:18 PM |
| 6 | First date on Wednesday. any advice?I would say initially sit across from them if it's a booth. If she slides in first and you next to her she can feel trapped. She doesn't know you and her defenses will kick in making her uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?Some women have boundaries they won't kiss on the first date. If she recoils when you try, but you're sure the date is going well, tell her you can respect her boundaries. It shows you're not weak and you value her as she is. After she mulls that over in her head and gets turned on by it, she might just kiss you later that date. If not, it'll definitely happen the second date. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Seducing ex-gf who is trying to friendzone.If she is married leave her alone. Don't be a piece of shit. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I see girls with several sexual partners as unfit for being gf materialIt's been really difficult. 16 years down the drain. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 8 | I see girls with several sexual partners as unfit for being gf materialIt's not as wrong as many of these people are claiming. It's a well known fact that the more promiscuous a woman's past is, the more likely the divorce. Just look up the statistics. If she has been with 15 guys there is a 20% chance the marriage will last. When I was dating my ex-wife, we were 22 and she told me I was her 11th. This was a big red flag to me and I was going to break up with her. But we had fun so I decided to stay a little longer. That turned into marriage, which turned into her … | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Alabaster Girl (book) thoughts?Probably because there is little natural about it anymore. With dating apps and social media, most women appear to believe they are of higher value than they really are. Post one picture and thousands of sad and pathetic men will gladly flood their comments with hearts, flames, and any manor of ignorant drivel. Or worse pay money for pictures and video. So even some guy that is a good match and will give her great pleasure and happiness will get kicked to the curb because she feels like there is… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Apart from Physical appearance how do you Mentally seduce a Man?You're up and you're down | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:32 PM |
| -3 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?Lmao | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:42 PM |
| 4 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?Lmao | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to flirt.You're confusing flirting with something different than a conversation with someone you're interested in. Most of what you will do is learning and talking just like you would to anyone else. The flirting aspect is the little hints that you're more interested romantically than just platonic conversation. And that just depends on the person and the direction the conversation is going. What do women do to attract someone? They get dolled up. Compliment her shoes, her earrings, her clothes and infer… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop putting hot girls on a pedestal?It's tried and true advice that he learned from people that were successful with it. A teacher rarely does the research and education they share. If I learn about a particle accelerator, that doesn't mean I know how to operate it myself. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:58 PM |
| 36 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Definitely sex. Legacy is a myth. Two generations from now you'll have never existed. But while you did you could have enjoyed pleasurable company. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outIf a chick is no longer a virgin, she doesn't want a virgin. This has a lot to do with how often people fall for their first. Or always think about their first. It's the most bonding experience two people can have. Needy puppy love follows after your first and that's not what most women want. That's only acceptable if you were both virgins. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to take a step back from women and focus on myself for the time being?Men chase women. Women chase success. That doesn't mean just financial success (still important). If you work on yourself, make you and your needs a priority, especially when in a relationship, women chase you. They don't want a lazy, needy, weak man to follow them around. They get a stupid little dog for that. They want a leader. If you can't stand to be with yourself, how can you expect a woman to? Work on yourself as it's far more important than chasing tail. You do that, and the tail comes t… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How straight forward should I be when asking for a number?Stealing their game is an interesting concept I've never heard before. I shall ponder this. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:38 PM |
| 10 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?I think tall and muscular is the trick. I'm 6'5" and fairly muscular. Not jacked but certainly not average. I'm 39 years old and get girls in the 20's looking and smiling at me often. But when I was overweight they didn't give a damn about my height. I've heard that girls don't like a tall skinny guy either. If you're lanky you just look like a tall girl. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 9 | whats the step by step for getting dates/sex??If you look up the statistics on women's preference, they prefer aesthetic bodies. More lean swimmer to natural fit. And this seems to be the case all around the world. The women who like the bulk body builder type are a very small minority. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first nightIt sure is great having a vasectomy. She can have that baby gravy all she wants; no soldiers on duty. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep girls I meet in club interestedTell them you'll add them to your bank account. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:28 PM |
| 5 | This one girl told me she fantasized about me being president and she was my spokeswoman. Why is that appealing to her?She wants someone to lead her. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:44 PM |
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