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Children don't mean any more responsibility than they ever have. It's still easy enough to raise a family off of one salary you just won't have the time or spending money you may have desired. Modern men are the weak men though in the pride cycle and they don't want the responsibility. Which is to be expected. Next up comes the hard times but that will likely be for our children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:37 PM
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Hmmm I went back and reread our discussion and I do think I didn't pay enough attention to what you wrote. Sorry about that. As far as men valuing single mothers less for a relationship this is true and it is true regardless of the how or why she is a single mom. Still I will say that the women I know who are single moms have much better lives the the ones I know who are childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:35 PM
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You worded everything in a way to remove all accountability from the women. That's a huge red flag Also who is saying being a mother is a punishment? That's a pretty bizarre thing to say. I think women should probably avoid men that think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:01 PM
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So it wouldn't involve encouraging them to find a man to marry or encouraging young pregnant girls to give the child up for adoption? Mostly just encourage people to feel good about being a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:59 PM
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What would being supportive of single mothers look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:03 PM
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Well no people raised with good parents who are taught well will still keep getting married and having nice big families. It's only the middle ground people that will fail to breed . It's just like the midwit meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:02 PM
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Nobody puts widows into those categories but yes men do view single moms as low value. For all the reasons you just described only you describe it in a way that removes all accountability from the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:59 PM
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I'm not saying it's irresponsible I'm just chatting about how it happens and the scenario. Let's take your example though. What if one of the times you were fornicating when you were young the condom malfunctioned and your gf got pregnant? Should we condemn you for being irresponsible and not ready to raise a child yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:46 PM
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It makes sense to me especially when the girl is young or even a virgin. She likely isn't going to be thinking, "I have to make sure he wears and condom and keeps it on". Extra especially amongst the lower class where she probably hasn't been taught much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:15 PM
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What scenario is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:23 PM
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Absolutely. One big issue though is that the young lower class girls are often choosing to go with a type of guy I call SFers, or slut fuckers. These are sex obsessed low IQ guys that follow a pattern in life that sees them in and out of jail, unable to even hold down a job at Wendy's, and typically ending their own selves around my age. So we can be upset at those guys but that isn't going to fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:22 PM
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Hey you asked for the label I'm just letting you know what it is. I'm mostly a tradcon myself but spent years as a pua before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:32 PM
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I would say that this is a two part issue. The first issue is having sex. I would say that abstinence is not easy at all as the sex drive is extremely powerful especially when you are young. Expecting women to remain abstinent just doesn't work. The other part is birth control. Here we can see that this becomes a class issue. Most single motherhood is in the lower class and it is likely because the girls raised in such circumstances aren't being taught how to use birth control and the importance…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:30 PM
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There's already a different term it's tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:17 PM
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Single motherhood is an insidious form of child abuse so I understand the anger. That being said it is also an issue mostly only for the lower class so it is a generational problem of bad parenting. I don't see how we can really make a difference. Legal abortion with millions of abortions hasn't had the affect of eliminating single motherhood that some proponents had claimed. Rather half of mothers are now single mothers. But thankfully nowhere near half of children are in that situation as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:15 PM
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They aren't virgins cause they just to be visible. Now they are just invisible to single men. Hopefully they are married and have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:39 AM
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Why are you getting angry at me? I'm not criticizing your comment at all and like I said I'm no expert on Mohammed just relaying what I know. I don't really see why their is as need for you to get so upset
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:09 AM
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I really don't know. I always thought Mohammad had a nine year old wife but waited until she menstruated to consummate the marriage also but I'm not an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:59 AM
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Men will say that most men are invisible to women but I think this is just projection. In reality most women are invisible to men. They are so invisible that the men don't even realize that they can't see them. They are truly invisible. Any woman that isn't sexually attractive is invisible to most men, either by her age or by her weight. Normie men then take the women that they do see, say the top 30%, and claim that is all women. And to them it is because the other women are literally invisible…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:48 AM
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This is a very weird hill to stand on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:42 AM
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I think there are just too many cucks right now that are desperately trying to serve women. This makes women crazy because they can't stand servile men but they also need them around in case they become single moms. The servile men breed very little when the patriarchy is absent, though. So over time there will be less and less of them and more masterful men. This will change the dynamic of society from one where women are commanding subservient men to one where women are following masterful men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:16 PM
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So what's stopping the two of you from getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:46 PM
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I am saying the opposite. I am saying that a lot of women do have sex right away only they end up successfully married so they aren't loudly proclaiming how terrible it was. I also do not encourage women to have sex right away. I also believe that it is women who demand sexy players who push for sex immediately and reject men who do not behave this way. It is women who demand sex right away, not men. You literally do not understand anything I've written here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:03 AM
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No I think you are reading something that isn't there into my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:24 AM
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You know I think at least half of the commenters here don't even read the posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:31 AM
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No I wanted a wife and I got one but only by learning game and becoming a player. Anyway I do wish you the best. Plenty of girls do get married so there is a reason that you have not. It is most likely that you are overweight. Also you might want to work on your agreeableness. We all like people that make us feel good at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:30 AM
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In your case I doubt the lack of dates has anything to do with some kind of prude vs sloot dynamic. It's probably your looks which is mostly about your weight. Have you tried the keto diet? I highly recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:44 AM
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I think everyone should do their best and get the best life they can get. You included and I wish you the very best. My point is that men have had to adapt to women's demand for sex right away. This isn't something men have pushed on women, it is something that women have pushed on men. The reason you only hear the opposite online is because it is women who are over 30 that are the loudest voices online. And that women over 30 have a change in priorities (which I understand) but this doesn't cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:49 AM
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And may I ask are you over 30 now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:01 AM
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It's just survivorship bias. Plenty of people get into relationships with young girls and don't bounce but instead get married. It's just the ones who do get bounced on end up alone and then hit the epiphany phase and get very loud online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:34 PM
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Women over 30 keep saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:32 PM
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Men have to push for sex right away because it's what women want. Men that don't go for sex right away are put in the backup bin or seen as friends. Men might want to date a different way where you can get to know the girl and she will appreciate your wit, intelligence, and personality but women are in charge of the dating market now. So we have to push for sex right away whether we like it or not. The good news is after you start having sex then, over time, those other things will matter. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:13 PM
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In this part of the cycle the old patriarchy from 50+ years ago was very successful allowing all the midwits to breed. The midwits, however, are unable to sustain anything as they are filled with pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:57 PM
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I didn't but I think it was a mistake. Those girls didn't get the feedback they needed to realize why guys would get into situationships with them but never actually commit. The guys that are hating on them are the guys that want to be more than a situation but aren't confident enough to sit down and be frank with the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:53 PM
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That's done by families and the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:08 AM
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Titanic, Aladdin, and The Little Mermaid come to mind as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:08 AM
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As men we do want to have control over our woman. But it is always voluntary. Do x for me or... I'll move you down my roster. That's the red pill way. I think the real issue though isn't how the girl dresses but that the guys are insecure and aware that she is still on the market. So they have a situationship not a committed relationship and the guy, in these cases, is the one who wants more. Just accept what you have and what she's offering you and have fun dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:27 PM
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You can even still date the immodest girls while you continue looking for a girl that is more in line with your long term desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:24 PM
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My little sister, RIP, was able to experience a 'romantic relationship', or the taste of one, with a severely handicapped guy. She was as well. In her older age before she passed away she spent a lot of time online trying to form romantic relationships with men. I felt kind of bad as the guys could not see that she was severely physically handicapped and she refused to accept that nobody was going to be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:24 PM
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Some of the ones I was with in my past got married but they are obviously in very poor marriages. Openly very poor. Most of them, though, are now single. One girl that was my girl that got away for a long time has been married four times now and has turned into a wretch. I feel bad for her and the rest of them. Honestly most of the women I've been with, other than my wife, have lives that have gone very badly. Thankfully in the community I live in everyone is doing much much better. Oh and for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:29 AM
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I think it's more a pattern of behavior. A woman who is trying to get into a serious relationship will still have multiple partners, unless she's raised in a religious community, but she's probably not a 304. A girl who is happy to casually sleep with strange men because it's exciting though? That's definitely a 304. Nothing wrong with girls that like to be party girls. Fun to be fwbs with them. You just don't marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:15 AM
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Turn your phone upside down and read it like it was letters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:03 AM
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In this case I would just take time every day to say the things you are thankful for out loud. It will help you recenter yourself where you actually are and then allow yourself to start looking upward from there and making progress. I do it every day. Daily affirmations also work. I would buy a white board and write down one affirmation. Then I would look in the mirror and say it three times every day to yourself. If you catch yourself thinking negatively about yourself then replace the negative…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:06 PM
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The feminine equivalent would be to demand that women change their behavior so that the men get good results. Like, "I had sex with a prostitute and now I have herpes! All women must be taught not to give men herpes! I'm a victim of an abuser!" Or here is a better one from this forum earlier today. "All men must stop trying to date women. All of them must do it. That way I can finally get good results in dating!" I've noticed a lot of guys that aren't getting good results say such things online.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:30 AM
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I've heard guys say it. Part of the modern sexual morality is that consent determines morality. This means that women have to be free to select so they can use their consent to grant moral goodness to the sex. Which means it is women's responsibility to select the man she consents with. I understand where they are coming from I just do not think that consent is what makes sex moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:32 AM
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People tell others that it is your responsibility because that gives them power. If you take responsibility for something then you have power over it. For example if I say it is my responsibility to make sure I don't get cheated on again then I will start to figure out why it happened and what I can't do to prevent it. And if you are told it is your responsibility to pick a partner that isn't abusive the same. However, women to not have the same kind of time that men do. Due to a great deal of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:25 AM
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My kids are homeschooled but I think that's a good idea. How old are the kids when they begin learning about this gendered presentation stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:46 PM
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I don't think the social narratives are there to reinforce ties between men's self worth and the ability to attract a mate. I think those ties are incidental to advertising campaigns that advertise products to increase your ability to attract a mate and then show increased self confidence from the product. As an individual you still have power over what social conditioning you expose yourself to. In addition to taking the two steps I already mentioned I would also suggest that every individual c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:09 PM
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If you depend on a relationship to define your self worth this is an issue of being emotionally stunted and failing to reach appropriate levels of emotional maturity. It isn't caused by a social narrative it is an internal lack of progress. I would suggest working on that. A good first step would be to start doing daily affirmations with consistency. I would also recommend praying in thankfulness to help eliminate bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:23 PM
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Society isn't telling you that being single sucks. That's reality. Being single sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:12 PM
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I don't see how men only have sex with women for procreation follows from the sluts are a shitty lock studs are the master keys analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:26 AM
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No is isn't. I have two illegitimate children and it most certainly isn't my responsibility to raise them. Bastards have been around forever. Just getting rid of the name of the thing doesn't somehow eliminate the thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:25 AM
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Paternal certainty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:36 AM
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What country had brothels a few decades ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:36 AM
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Don't be that angry though. Are you angry at an alley cat because she goes into heat and then wanders around in the alley? It's up to us to fix these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:35 AM
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Are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:32 AM
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Honesty is embarrassing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:32 AM
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You as an individual can choose how you view things. You as an individual looking outward at society can only discover what society thinks. Perhaps that will help clear up your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:32 AM
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I don't recommend men sleep around. I recommend men follow the law of chastity and look for a wife. I'm just explaining how it works as I spent five years in my thirties as a player. Being a player sucks but is necessary because a lot of us are born in the matriarchy and when women are in charge they demand players.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:07 AM
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If a woman is a slut and gets pregnant the man does not have paternal certainty. If the man is a stud and gets a woman pregnant the woman always has maternal certainty. Because women always have maternal certainly they do not naturally understand men's desire for paternal certainty. The understanding requires empathy. The lack of understanding demonstrates very low empathy. This is a character flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:04 AM
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Men don't lie to women. Women lie to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:02 AM
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Women don't gatekeep. If they have good parents the parents gatekeep. A woman on her own acts according to her feelings. A huge part of that is her hormonal cycle and whether or not she is in heat. For men the cost of sex with a lot of women is very low. The risks are STDs. For women the cost of sex with many men is very high. The risk is pregnancy and no resources provided during the pregnancy as no man has paternal certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:01 AM
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You don't lie to get women. You just be very direct and upfront. Then once you get a reputation the women who are in heat will come find you. It's the weird nice guys who are deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:57 AM
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A key that can open many locks is a master key. A lock that opens for many keys is a shitty lock. No amount of arguing about it will change reality. Reality is already determined by God and we do our best by discovering reality. No argument will change what reality is. Studs Sluts Welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:54 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:40 PM
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I guess we could argue about the word most. Could most men, should they decide they want a big family with a stay at home mom, do so? I think they could. My grandparents had nine and eleven kids in smaller homes then I have. I think men deciding this is what they want is the change that would create it. We could find a way. Now would everyone be able to get up into the top of income? No, but they wouldn't need to. People can also adjust to less abundance. I think it would be a good decision for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:29 PM
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Hmmm I'm sitting here thinking through the couples I know and there is a huge disparity. People aren't look matched like you claim. Especially the young couples. The best physical looking young man I know is married to a very large young woman, though she has a great personality and is talented. The two best looking young women I know are dating goofy short ugly doofuses. Then the older couples there is just a huge variety. The only other couple I know where the wife is an HB9, for her age, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:32 AM
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Nah there are like sixteen total people in the world and everyone is just a copy of one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:56 AM
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I absolutely adore it when women wear dresses, skirts, heels, paint their nails, etc. I love all those things. That being said my wife was a tomboy when I met her. I just told her I would like her to wear this dress and hey come shopping with me and helped her grow into her femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:06 AM
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Men have it good as far as looks go. We have so many other ways we can be attractive. Not only that but for women looks really are subjective. If she is attracted to you then she will invent that you are attractive in her mind. I have two great examples of this in my life. One fwb I had for a year and my wife. In both cases we ran into ex boyfriends of theirs and in both cases they were short goofy looking guys. Both times the women said to me, "he didn't use to be so ugly!" I had the opportunit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:04 AM
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Power imbalances are very sexy. I do find the whole house wives are lazy idea very funny though. I work some long hours, often 60 hour weeks, and I think my wife has longer hours and more responsibility than I do. She has a lot on her plate. I think of our relationship more like we both specialize heavily. This allows me to really focus on my career (and being masculine) while she can focus on children, home school, and being feminine. I handle the money, she handles the appointments, etc etc. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:16 AM
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It's working great for me but I decided in my thirties that the whole equal relationship crap wasn't for me and I wanted more of a 1950's vibe. So when and got myself a pretty young girl, turned her into a housewife, and now she home schools my six children. Of course I have to work a lot to support them and I'm in the top 10% of income earners. But when I decided I wanted my 1950's style white picket fence family I was unemployed. I think if men decided that they wanted a big family with a stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:49 PM
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You ever hear the phrase with great power comes great responsibility? Like most things in modernity, this is an inversion. The reality is with responsibility, comes power. It is always the man's responsibility. Even if the dead bedroom is because of a fat wife it is still the man's responsibility to keep his wife trim. Always the man's responsibility means the man has power as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:34 PM
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Sexual compatibility is a nonsense term unless you mean two women trying to have sex or something weird. The problem people have is poor sex lives and the cause is always the man lacking in assertiveness and self confidence. If he is assertive and self confident he will be able to solve all the issues that arise in a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:22 PM
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I'm immersed in a community where the people were taught these morals. I do see issues but not issues that can't be solved by teaching the young men to be more assertive and self assured.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:05 PM
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I think the confusion you have is you imagine being an established older woman with a lot of opinions about sex and politics. So you imagine trying to take a fleshed out individual life and trying to mash it into a man's fleshed out life to somehow combine them. For women, and men, that follow the law of chastity they marry young and build their lives together. Hence their political opinions and sexual experiences grow together. I don't think women who have not been raised with these morals shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:25 PM
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That's how women can raise their standards though. Otherwise we end up where the secular world is today. Women with no standards at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:06 PM
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Dead bedrooms aren't because of sexually incompatibility. They are because the man doesn't lead. Example; Many years ago, during my player days, one of my little brothers was complaining to me about his dead bedroom. I didn't want to hear him whining so I looked straight at him and said, "dude, just go home, throw your wife down on the bed, and fuck the shit out of her". Which he did and now he is happily married with a good sex life. Because he took action. So it's not some kind of incompatibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:05 PM
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Thanks I think I understand. I would argue that those things aren't standards but are desires. We all have desires but they aren't our standards and IRL women have basically no standards. They happily have sex with short, ugly, low IQ, jobless, potential-less, losers just because that guy approached them when they were in heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:53 PM
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I'm sorry I'm getting lost here. Someone above said their are two different kinds of standards. My original point was women have no standards but I think they should be taught to follow the law of chastity and look for men with the ability or potential to support a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:34 PM
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What are two different types of standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:11 PM
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I think women desperately need to raise their standards. Is it even possible for women to lower their standards any more than they are now? Women sleep with strangers they don't know at all then invent nonsense about them and often begin relationships with them that way. What standards can you have at that point? I think women should be taught to follow the law of chastity and refuse sex before marriage. That alone will give the women actual time to actually date and get to know the man before b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:01 PM
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I agree I don't think the problem is scarcity mentality so much as that is a symptom of a larger problem. I don't think that is what is causing these marriage problems anyway. I think the real issue is many husbands are taking the supportive role in their marriages and the wives are also trying to take the supportive role.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:19 PM
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That sounds more like scarcity mentality, and I see you have addressed that. I don't think that is what it is ultimately though. When the man doesn't want to lose his woman because he doesn't internally believe he can get another one. This results in the woman believing what the man already believes, which results in the man becoming unattractive to her. She will then institute fitness tests to test the man, as a form of internal reassurance. You are describing the man then failing those fitness…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/wDECqJsiGqw?si=l3uQJ7aYJeJZBnmO How can you resist such a display of alpha male strength? Though it appears this poor gorilla only has a post wall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:44 PM
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Well good for you for trying! Next time it should be less nerve wracking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:43 PM
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What if I were to start thumping my chest like a gorilla, then called the other men around me weaklings and slapped them around for a bit, and then said I'd like to go out with you but only if you lose five pounds first?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:34 PM
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Just go up to her and say hey, I want to invite you out on a date. How about tonight at 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:25 PM
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