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| 7 | CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problemsNope. Just people who have tried it and realized that it not only didn’t work for us, but actually worked against us. Just like every single blue pill talking point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problemsIt is. I usually don’t pay attention to this person’s posts but I just had to. I absolutely fucking loathe it when women give this type of advice to men. They ask men to be more open while not realizing that they are fundamentally unable to extend their empathy to men. They just can’t do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problemsLow-tier bait but I’ll bite. Men are raised to solve problems, not talk about them for the sake of it. Crying, complaining, and bitching about the problem doesn’t make it go away. Solving the problem does. “Women are human beings, men are human doings.” The value of a man in society is based solely on what he does. THAT is why men focus on solving problems. And the funniest part is that it is WOMEN who loathe it when men talk about their problems. Women do not extend their empathy to men. This h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:01 PM |
| 9 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Most women aren’t worthy of being committed to in a relationship. Most of you can’t even meet the standards you set for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 06:46 PM |
| 11 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Do bluepillers have any arguments that aren’t anecdotes, conjecture, or unfalsifiable claims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How important is physical fitness to you?Probably a 6/10 importance. A woman being overweight or obese won’t even get their foot in the door (literally as well). I don’t expect my partner to be someone who is already into fitness, but I do expect her to at least grow an interest in fitness after we get into a relationship. I don’t see it mainly as a thing about looks but more as another activity we can share and do together. She doesn’t have to be particularly obsessed with it, but as long as she tries that’s good enough for me. Being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 03:13 PM |
| 8 | Men should decenter women tooThat’s merely how you have been socially and culturally programmed/conditioned Are you fucking serious? Humans are SOCIAL creatures. Everything about a human’s life, from relationships, to jobs, to hobbies, to you and I sitting here interacting on the Internet, revolves around the SOCIAL interactions between each other. This is hardwired into our biology. There’s no “conditioning/programming” in place. People are not meant to be solitary, so you going around and saying “well just get used to it”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 03:03 PM |
| 23 | Society Was Better off When Female Preferences/attraction triggers Were Kept in the DarkThis guy doesn’t understand that the dichotomy isn’t nice guy vs bad boy, it’s strong man vs weak man. The reason why women like “bad boys” is because they make their strength apparent through aggression. But that doesn’t mean women inherently like aggressive men. You can be kind AND strong too. It’s just that kind and strong men don’t feel the need to flaunt their strength by using it against others. Just be strong/attractive lol. That’s it. Women love strong/attractive men, regardless of their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to know if a woman expects you to pay on the first date?I’d appreciate the transparency. I will certainly see her as a gold-digger who takes advantage of men and their money. So yes I’d want this information up front so I can know to not waste my time with her. Wow, she sounds like a spoiled brat who never lifted a finger in her life. I guess she just expects men to hand her the world on a silver platter huh? No. Another “traditional for thee, but not for me” exercise modern women love to pull these days. Most men, including myself, would be happy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 10:15 PM |
| -1 | Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave”Traditional in what sense? They’re from an entirely different culture Traditional relative to modern western culture. It doesn’t matter if they don’t share the culture 1:1, traditional women from other cultures will share more traditional values to your own culture than someone who explicitly defies them. Isn’t it a coincidence that they always choose women from either poor countries or countries with very strict views on gender? It’s not that deep bro. Men just don’t want to date women who hate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:54 PM |
| 7 | "Choose better" is an easy/bad advice we give people nowadaysYou guys are constantly missing the point of the “choose better” argument. It is not meant to be applied to literally every relationship failure. There are multiple reasons why a relationship fails outside of someone with obvious toxic behaviors. You don’t really think that “choose better” can seriously be applied to someone who is divorcing their spouse of 15 years, right? “Choose better” just means vetting out obviously toxic behaviors, such as a history of physical assault, verbal abuse, chea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 02:17 PM |
| 3 | "Choose better" is an easy/bad advice we give people nowadays“Choose better” just means vetting out obviously toxic behaviors, such as a history of physical assault, verbal abuse, cheating, etc. “Choose better women who won’t care if you’re small” doesn’t apply here, there is literally zero way to know how she will react to you being small before sex outside of letting her know beforehand. In this example, yes, it is absolutely a cop-out argument. But most of the times it is true and solid advice. Men: stop dating women who have obvious mental illnesses, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Is relationship virginity a turn off for women?It’s really telling through some of the comments here how women generally don’t care if a man’s been hooking up and sleeping around. This should be 100% a red flag under every condition. If the roles were reversed I’d expect a universal no from men. Think about it, someone who has been hooking up in their younger years then “suddenly” wants to settle down… what does that sound like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: proposals should be specific to the womanMan she isn’t even trying to hide it anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 12:19 PM |
| 8 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.“If you have to ask, the answer is no.” Failed to understand this many times. Now, when it comes to women and relationships in general, this is a fundamental operating principle. Fuck the choosing signals, fuck the mind games, fuck the “hints.” If you have to ask, the answer is no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Online dating really isnt that bad.”Online dating really isn’t that bad” Woman no further discussion needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:11 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?I mean it’s pretty obvious right? No heightism, period. You can have your “preferences” but outright excluding men for not achieving an arbitrary standard is no different from excluding men for being a certain race (racism). A man who makes enough to provide for himself and a family, regardless of his partner’s income. Even if you make 6 figures, expecting a man to make 6-7 figures is ridiculous. Not judging men for having emotions. Physiques that don’t take a decade of intense diet and training… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Coffee dates to see if there's chemistry is a red flagNo, it’s just not in my best interest to waste my time arguing against obvious fallacious reasoning that you’d have to be incredibly stupid to believe. Your posts are boring and don’t lead to interesting discussion. The only logical conclusion one can come to when reading posts like yours is either You’re baiting. You’re really fucking stupid. Pick your poison. I choose to believe that people are not genuinely this idiotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:40 PM |
| 9 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Then that ultimately means you do believe you are entitled to certain things in a relationship. The basic premise of entitlement is summed up as “I am entitled to x. If you do not give me x, I will leave.” x can be anything, respect, loyalty, honesty, love, care, or in your case, sex. If you are unhappy with your partner in a relationship, it’s because you feel like you are not getting something you deserve or are owed. That’s entitlement. Commitment is the first entitlement in ANY relationship.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:32 PM |
| 4 | If you dont want to be accused of thinking with your dick, be more mindful of your actions/attitude.wake up babe, new lilith post lecturing men on how to be men just dropped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 01:27 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Coffee dates to see if there's chemistry is a red flagThese bait posts are getting really old tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Coffee dates to see if there's chemistry is a red flagthe narcissism and misandry is strong with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 03:29 PM |
| – | Women can expect men to take responsibility for themselves and not be man haters.For real lmao. After seeing the same person make three posts in a day shitting on men using the same terrible, bad-faith arguments one really has to sit down and think about her true intentions. Engaging with posts like these is a complete waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:50 PM |
| – | Women can expect men to take responsibility for themselves and not be man haters.She’s been ranting about men for over 6 years. At this point she’s not here for a debate or to have her mind changed. She’s just a misandrist troll who likes shitting on men online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Treat attraction like a non-negotiable“Most men refuse to treat women with human decency or kindness and they deserve to die alone” The misandry is strong with this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong personWhat a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | The concept of emasculation to me, feels like something born out of ordinary insecurity, swirled together with the sexist need to feel superior to women and men.We aren’t talking about YOU, we are talking about women in general. I won’t go over every point but I will address the most egregious grifts. Fight avoidant: Yeah, I’m sure you’ll think your man is so “hot” when he sits back, cowers, and does nothing to defend you when someone displays any form of aggression towards you. Mood swingy, emotional: I have seen countless stories of women losing attraction for their man after seeing them cry. Whether or not men are mood swingy/emotional isn’t the poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Whats your go to statistic or argument when some women try and say throughout history, wars were the result of men?Collective responsibility is bullshit. Individuals make decisions, not groups. People aren’t hive minds. Believing in collective responsibility for wars and genocide and then making it about gender rather than the societies and nations that carry out these acts is such an unbelievably contrived argument. -> Believe in collective societal responsibility -> Pretend that women do not actively influence society -> Absolve women of collective societal responsibility Congrats. You can now blame men fo… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysI can’t imagine being this emotionally fragile. I’m sorry, is that verbal abuse as well? If I were to break up with a guy for saying “enjoy your cats” or “no wonder you’re single” to a random lady on social media, most of the men here would say I am overreacting. I love how you’re conveniently leaving out important context of the situation. The only reason I can think of that would warrant such comments is if the woman is going off about how she won’t date anyone under 6ft or anyone who makes le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysOk so you’re not stupid, you’re just arguing in bad faith. Thanks for clearing that up 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysBecause attraction is relative, not absolute. If you’re only ever shown the tallest, richest, most attractive men, the average man is going to seem unattractive to you. If you’re only ever shown the shortest, poorest, ugliest, fattest men, suddenly the average man doesn’t look too bad. If what I’m saying isn’t true, then geomaxxing/passport-broing wouldn’t be a thing. But it is, your average looking man will have no trouble finding someone in SEA or LATAM. Because relatively speaking, the averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysYou are making zero sense. “Choose better” is not about the point in time before the relationship has formed, because neither will suffer the consequences of choosing poorly. But for some reason you want to turn it around and make it about “male loneliness” when the situation for women isn’t even close to being the same thing. Both men and women should choose better. The difference is that a man who chooses poorly will have his life ruined, but the woman who chooses poorly will have her life END… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysMen don’t choose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysWe are saying stop choosing men who are obvious cheaters, liars, and domestic abusers. It has nothing to do with hypergamy, but it’s really telling that’s what your mind goes straight towards. I’d say you were strawmanning if you didn’t genuinely believe what you were saying. Men: “Choose better.” You: “So you’re saying I should go for a 6’6” man with a 7 figure salary instead of a 6’2” man with a 6 figure salary?” rofl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:47 PM |
| -1 | The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost alwaysNope, they were actually attracted to them. Back then men had to be strong and fit, so it’s not like the men back then were unattractive even by today’s ridiculous standards. Women finding 80-90% of men unattractive is a modern invention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then what is this about? Please, do tell us about these “common dealbreakers among men.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 12:16 AM |
| 3 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”“Show me your friends and I will show you your future.” People who surround themselves with a bunch of violent thugs are likely to be a violent thug themselves. People who surround themselves with intelligent, hardworking individuals are likely to be intelligent, hardworking individuals themselves. A man having no friends isn’t a red flag. It’s just one less thing you have available to effective vet out bad men. You’d be a fool to think that a man who is friends with violent thugs would be a bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Unless its family, youre not getting unconditional love.What the fuck are you talking about? He said the girl just stood there waiting for him to speak. Not a hello or anything. That’s “approaching” to you? Doing the bare minimum effort and expecting the other person to carry the conversation? Women like you will do literally ANYTHING but make your intentions clear. You will either blame men for ignoring “signals” or blame men for mistaking “signals” as signs of interest. Grow the fuck up and learn how to communicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:15 PM |
| 22 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”Dude, it’s not hard. 99% of men are not psychopathic master manipulators and pathological liars. Figure out their history. Figure out their friends (big one). How they treat others. How they react when things don’t go their way. What his N count is. Common red flags. Again, it’s not hard. In fact, it is often super obvious. The problem is that women will choose to ignore all of these red flags if he’s attractive. Or even worse, they think they’ll be able to change him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 07:50 PM |
| 6 | Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious TruthYou are missing the point. It’s not about whether you are lying or not. You’re just being dishonest about why women turned off by short men. Just say you’re less attracted to short men. If you’re going to be shallow, then at least be honest about it. There’s no reason to virtue signal by claiming that short men would be ok if they didn’t have some failure of character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you continue seeing an attractive woman if you found she was previously battered? Why or why not?Is that so? Then I wonder how you feel about the women who dump men for opening up about trauma or abuse, which is far more likely to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 07:02 PM |
| 2 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.No one charms a woman This is true, but the rest is wrong. Social skills 100% matter in the context that a lack of social skills will only make you seem less desirable. There are plenty of attractive, but socially awkward/autistic men who can’t find success with women. Social skills, charisma, “game” do nothing to elevate your attractiveness, they just stop women from seeing you as less attractive in the long run. If you’re a crybaby, a doormat, or a pushover with no self respect, you WILL be se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAll of these are wrong Men who go fucking around are part of the problem and don’t get to demand a woman who is a virgin. I despise this double standard because women will see it and use it to justify their own promiscuous behavior instead of demanding that men stop sleeping around. It goes both ways. You can’t hold women up to a standard you can’t even hold yourself up to. I’m red/blackpilled and this shit still makes no sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Will we ever stop the "standards" madness?You have some terrible reading comprehension. His argument makes perfect sense. Read what she said: Men don’t even take on half of the physical risks, sacrifice, and labor women are burdened with in terms of reproduction and raising children yet they still demonize us for having standards and not being as willing as them to fuck anything that moves. This statement is completely idiotic. The issue this person has with men is clearly an issue with men’s character. Yet, women are not vetting men ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Will we ever stop the "standards" madness?one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Can you empathize with the other side?Absolutely not when it comes to relationships and dating. Women hold all of the power in those situations. Any faults or misgivings is 99% on them due to poor mate selection, being naive, or just plain lack of self-awareness. Any woman can find a genuine, fulfilling relationship if they actually tried. Meanwhile men who seemingly have their shit together i.e. decent job, fit, and well-meaning can’t find anyone who would give them the time of day. When it comes to issues outside of relationships/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 02:28 AM |
| 7 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?This post isn’t referring to men who have no idea how to handle their finances, this post is simply referring to wanting a man that makes more money than the woman does. As a matter of fact, the guy could make more money than the woman AND also be a complete lunatic when it comes to spending. But hey, like he said, it’s very telling that you genuinely think that who you marry is the biggest financial decision in your life. Only a woman would say that. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 08:18 PM |
| – | Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?Name does not check out, like this comment is legitimately so stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 08:08 PM |
| 9 | Is there a solution for women’s delusion and inflated standards?I mean there does need to be change, it’s quite obvious that the current situation of the dating market is unsustainable. But yeah, you’re right on the rest. There is no solution that doesn’t involve collective coercion and violation of women’s rights which would only make women despise men more than they already do. Well tbh the best we can hope for is a MASSIVE shift in cultural values but that’s not happening in mine or the next 3 generations lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there a solution for women’s delusion and inflated standards?you only need to be ever so slightly ‘better’ before you reach a point where you basically have a harem full of contacts in your phone In what world? It isn’t enough to be “slightly above average,” you need to be CHAD for most women. Only if you are CHAD do you get to be picky about women. 80/20 rule is now the 90/10 rule. The solution isn’t “be slightly above average” and obtain a harem, the solution is max the fuck out of LMS and find ONE good woman, then exit this complete shitshow of a datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Is there a solution for women’s delusion and inflated standards?Nope. The damage is already done. The best thing you can do right now is work on yourself/self improvement/LMSmaxx, play the numbers game, and hope for the best. If you secure a good woman, exit the game, hold on tight, and NEVER look back. This honestly might be the last chance for the majority of men to find a good woman. The next generation is going to be absolutely fucked. This reason alone is why I am seriously questioning having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 16 | Woman alone in the woods with a bear, or a tall handsome stranger?hahahaha lmao it’s funny to watch it play out in real time, the memes really do write themselves you can’t make this shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Can a young man be a 'red piller' and live a red pill lifestyle even if he is dating or married to a much older woman?I’m somewhere between red and black-pilled but I disagree with the notion that it’s just something men should accept. Reducing human beings to animals who act purely based on evolutionary biology and instinct justifies women’s discrimination against “inferior” men. Women being attracted to tall men is the same thing as men being attracted to big breasts. It’s biology. But it is the culture/environment that allows women to exclude men who don’t meet their ridiculous standards to the point of irra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 12:12 PM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?this is legitimately one of the dumbest things I’ve ever read on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?To be fair it’s a thread about something seen as traditional masculinity that turns women off. But yeah it’s best to assume that the majority of them are either lying or virtue signaling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 07:04 PM |
| -1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Here we go with the women here claiming they love “emotionally available men,” men who cry, lol. They don’t get it. They seem to think that the reason men choose to be emotionally unavailable is because of “toxic masculinity” or that other men will see us as weak. This has never been the case. My male friends have opened up to me about shit and vice versa. I’m not emotionally closed off because of the way other men have treated me. I am emotionally closed off because of the way I know other WOME… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 7 | The advantages in dating men seem to think women have really aren’t advantages for womenMen have it 100% worse in the dating market and it’s not even a question. Denying this is absolutely delusional. Both you and this post are saying “having too many options to choose from isn’t that much better than starving to death.” Just lmao. It’s like that study where rich people have been rich for so long that they’ve literally forgotten what it’s like to have nothing. You wouldn’t understand because you don’t and will never actually have to live with that reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:04 PM |
| 2 | We often talk here about how successful, high-performing women want educated and successful men, but do most educated and successful men want ambitious women?Personally yes. I’ve always been a big dreamer and an ambitious person, and I would like a partner who is the same. Having someone else who is motivated towards achieving their goals only motivates me even more to achieve my goals. One of the biggest signs that my last relationship wouldn’t last was when I asked my girlfriend at the time if she had any goals or dreams in life and she legitimately could not come up with an answer. She literally said “what’s wrong with being mediocre.” That killed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:14 PM |
| 19 | "redpilled" and NOT misogynistic?Good women are kind, humble, caring, loyal, and empathetic. Like a mother. When I had a girlfriend all of the problems and insecurities I had from before just magically vanished. That’s the kind of effect good women have on men. Unfortunately the vast, vast majority of women are not kind, humble, caring, loyal, or empathetic, particularly towards men. Feminism’s constant attack on men and shunning of motherhood/mother-like qualities has destroyed many of the good qualities about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 56 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?Because women and mainstream media have spent decades lying to young men about what women find attractive. I’m talking decades of “just be yourself,” “be kind funny and generous,” etc. Obviously none of this advice ever worked, but it wasn’t as bad until the advent of social media. Now with that… we got to see the lies in full, unadulterated display. We went from “you just need to be yourself” to “you need to work on your personality” to “ok you’re right, we lied to you and are actually as shall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 8 | RPers who refuse to simply Go Their Own Way, why?I think women drive men to achieve more and better things, they are one of our strongest motivators, and I don’t think it necessarily stems from wanting to get laid. This. Women just can’t understand this. In general I find that men love women more than women love men. And I’m sorry but I genuinely do not think modern women are even remotely capable of loving and empathizing with men on the same level. Maybe there are a few good natured, humble women who genuinely appreciate men, but those pale … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 08:42 PM |
| – | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.We’re happier alone we value close platonic friendships This proves that you have no actual understanding of what true loneliness is. Not only are you neither alone nor happier, but you would literally be suicidal if you had to experience the type of loneliness that some men go through on a daily basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 01:58 PM |
| – | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.and they say men are the ones who are bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 01:50 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?You are missing the point. No one is arguing that beauty standards aren’t a thing. The problem is that women have far, far higher standards for men than vice versa. That’s literally the entire reason why TRP even exists. Men will date all types of women; fat skinny tall short black white rich poor whatever. Men are far more compromising for the shortcomings of women. Women, however, only want to date one type of man. Men also behave this way, that’s why they are constantly reminding everyone how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?Yes we all know that women don’t actually have a varied taste in men and that they all essentially want to date the same guy but I am not sure on whether to take your story literally or figuratively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:53 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…If I’m not dating fat old single mothers, I’m being hypergamous? Is that really how low the bar has fallen? All three of these traits are clear evidence of bad lifestyle choices and can be avoided: Fat - Avoided by taking care of your body. Single Mother - Avoided by not sleeping around. Old - Avoided by not being picky and discriminating against men based on factors they can’t control while young. Meanwhile women’s hypergamy revolve around guys being tall, having an attractive face, and making … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsThe distinction doesn’t matter, and the fact that you think it does tells me all I need to know about you. Effort is effort, and no guy gives 110% effort for a girl he likes only platonically. But you seem to think a guy does and should. You reek of misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsI get so tired of seeing this. Please stop pretending that sex for women is some inconvenient, time-consuming task that they get absolutely no enjoyment from doing. You may see sex as a means to an end to get commitment from a guy, but don’t for a second act like it’s not mutually enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsIf that’s what your female friends are like, they suck So you’re agreeing with me? You’re agreeing that the guy was right to dial down the effort once he realized he would not get equal reciprocation in the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsI’ve done for MEN and WOMEN what I think others should do for others. You keep missing the point. The problem, as I’ve stated many times, begins with your thoughts and views on men’s friendship should operate. Its not going out of his way Hello? The guy said he was getting tired of walking her back home and then walking back to his home. People who share ur beliefs are just not what I consider good people Sorry for not believing that men should enslave themselves to one-sided relationships. Man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsNo, I’m just good at reading comprehension and being able to tell how a person actually feels based on what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsIt’s people like you who don’t think anyone should care about others safety Why do you keep strawmanning? At the end of the day, each person is responsible for their own safety. No one else. Sucks what happened to your guy’s friend but no one is responsible for his death. This post isn’t about “caring for others’ safety.” It’s about reciprocation of effort put into a relationship. Just because someone doesn’t answer to your every beck and call doesn’t mean they don’t care about your safety. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsEverything I think is common decency There’s your problem. You seem to *think I someone going out of his way to play bodyguard is “common decency.” By default, everyone is entitled to common decency. Therefore, you believe that she is entitled to someone to play bodyguard for her. As I’ve said, you have very warped views and expectations with regard to men’s friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsYou don’t have to explicitly “say” it; your views on this scenario tell me all I need to know. You’re angry because a guy no longer wants to play bodyguard for someone who won’t reciprocate that level of effort. You very obviously think that she is entitled to his protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:16 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsLet’s say Annie was a guy named Andrew. But instead of rejecting him Andrew doesn’t reciprocate the effort put into the friendship. Andrew never makes an effort to talk first, only talks him when he needs something from him, never has his back, etc. Do you really think the original guy would continue walking back home with him if he felt “unsafe?” Why is the idea of equal reciprocation in a relationship so foreign to you? If I give 110% into a relationship while the other person only gives 70%, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsYeah this person is a cut-and-dry misandrist. Thinks men are responsible for women’s safety and gets angry when men don’t feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsWhere in the post does it say he’s angry? He said it didn’t bother him too much and they were still friends, he’s just not going to be her lap dog anymore. You’re projecting so hard on this guy. Genuinely sad that people think like you nowadays. Men aren’t responsible for women’s safety, and women aren’t entitled to men’s protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsIt’s genuinely disappointing how people like you see this sort of behavior not as “going the extra mile” for someone you really care about but as something men should do, lest they be labeled an asshole. There’s a reason why people like you get labeled as “entitled.” No one is responsible for anyone’s safety but their own. She’s an adult, she can take care of herself. But you seem to think that women are entitled to men playing bodyguard for them. You just prove OP’s point: you have really warpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:32 PM |
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