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Okay and women initiate most domestic abuse, single mothers are the most abusive demographic of parent and lesbian couples have the highest rates of abuse. Not to mention that men in low income areas that exhibit anti social behaviour overwhelmingly come from single parent households, which are mostly single mothers; which are the most abusive. Can women not discern from right or wrong? apparently not because they seem completely immune to taking any accountability in the fact they spout that ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:27 PM
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Na they generally do find men with options attractive, I guess it's just nature. When I've had girlfriends or girls flirting with me I always had even more girls flirt with me. Whereas men want non promiscuous women with low social status
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:23 PM
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Men are pressured into having sex, mainly by women because it's associated with being a successful man. Women like men that have options. Men in my age group are shamed if they're virgins. Whereas women are celebrated It's a complete myth that men are responsible for this as well, it's entirely on women. It's not men that want to have sex with the same guy that's having sex with all the local women; it's not men that find successful men attractive on a primal level. No guy is high fiving his bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:16 PM
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Women are just more selective, only men that haven't had sex before or guys that have girls only dating them for their resources will say women don't like sex as much as men. Or men that started dating later in life when women lost some interest due to biological factors. Women are absolute freaks sexually, and don't get me wrong that's awesome; but it's not for the average man. I've read the books girlfriends had and it was... rich I've had countless girls lose interest in me just because I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:12 PM
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... do you not understand basic maths? do you really believe if you replaced all the men in your area with bears the bear on woman violence would be lower than with human men? More people need to go try chill with a bear, we'd see a massive bump in the average IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:36 PM
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I've had girls grab my ass, randomly kiss me and also get me drunk enough to sleep with them. Was just seen as a funny little cutesy gesture. I got fondled by a group of women once and basically got told I was lucky. While it did feel a bit horrible I wouldn't have considered it traumatic, I think the fact that women are essentially cradled like children by society is what separates the definition of assault. I don't think anyone should touch another person without consent, but we absolutely hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:31 PM
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That's what being raised in a warzone full of leprechauns does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:19 PM
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Rejecting this advice is how I got put in a lot of positions to be laid, even with picker less promiscuous girls. Only men appreciate other decent good fellas, women see it as weakness and disgusting until their 30's after they've slept with over 3 random dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:13 PM
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I grew up on the same street as that actor. Did you know he beat the shit out of a student for being a dick? total 6'5 gigachad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:23 PM
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"Just be nice and work on your self" This was when I was ripped and further ahead in life than most people in my age group, yet I still got stuck with the absolute bottom of the barrel girls with no respect for me. Which women on this sub will say is my fault, because being even more in shape and ahead in life would totally make me the magic 6ft that by default gives tingles and gains respect for just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:27 AM
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I work two jobs and deal with people all day, yes; they're much more interesting. They're mostly confident cool guys I can talk about soccer with. Meanwhile every single problematic petty person I've had to deal with so far has been a damn middle aged woman, I didn't even believe in the Karen thing until I got these jobs. God if people want incels banned from places we need to ban unmarried women over 30; they try to make everyone around them miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:34 AM
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My mother and grandmother are are true strong women that work hard and love their men and children, they've have been transparent with me in regards to how young women think and I'm thankful for that. It's saved me a lot of potential heart break.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:59 PM
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People on this subreddit have made me realise lots more people need to walk into the woods alone, it'd do a lot of good for humanity. That being said if you don't carry a gun into the woods, you're an absolute dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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You do understand what inflation is right? you do understand that wages being higher does not mean people have more lol. My family, and very possibly your family grew up very poor and were able to afford a home and provide for a family while working 40 hours a week at a job that provides cash in hand; even having the disposable income for recreation like going on holidays. I work two jobs and I'll never be able to buy a home, I can barely keep my self afloat never mind a family. Things are objec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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No, it worked perfectly fine for both men and women. Women that assume more 'traditional' roles are happier; there are statistics out there that back this up. Who would have thought doing what you have evolved to do makes people happy. Women entering the work force was entirely an employers wet dream; it's the exact same with migration. Social left wing movements are absolutely BEAUTIFUL for 'greedy capitalist pigs' that you guys really seem to hate on reddit. Women in the work force has destroy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:12 PM
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It was fine, it worked perfectly. Now we all have shit wages and parents don't have the time to take care of their children. I guess being a replaceable asset for a company that will fire you the second you're seen as a liability is so much more humanising than fulfilling your natural instincts, caring for an extension of you and having a tight knitted family that loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:10 PM
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They are too high, they are genuinely insane. Have you ever considered what percentage of men in their low 20's earn significantly more than their female counterparts, are over 6ft, are handsome, drive a nice car and don't live at home? Seriously think about that, women genuinely seem incapable of accepting just how little that % is, seriously factor in all those basic requirements young women have then throw in preferences and we're talking maybe 2-3% absolute max? Meanwhile young men just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:00 PM
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Statistically women will only date men that earn more than them, this is a woman problem; nothing to do with men "not listening to women". We are listening to women, they're telling us we're too short despite being average height, that we're not earning enough despite working two jobs, we're not exciting enough and don't have enough time for them because once again, we're working two jobs for half the disposable income our parents had. I'm not sure how men aren't the 'loving' members of society …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:36 PM
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Different generation, guys in their lower 20's that are average height are now considered short. Marriage rates are dropping and this is a factor. Outlier, yes it was easier for average guys to date a decade or two ago, but shorter men still had to marry below their level financially and looks wise. There are statistics that indicate that not only prove taller men are much more sought after, they're also less likely to be divorced. They also earn more and have lower suicide rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:24 PM
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That is not true in any capacity, women divorce men because they had promiscuous pasts and destroyed their ability to pair bond. There are statistics that directly draw correlation between sexual partners and divorce rates. Women initiate domestic abuse more than men, especially in relationships with other women. The fact lesbian couples are as abusive as they are should really highlight just how patient men are with women. Men put more effort in at the start yes, because women demand they do. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:29 PM
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Absolutely 100%, dating is not worth it as the average man I'm average height = I'm too short for the average Woman I'm average weight = I'm not muscular enough for the average Woman I work two jobs = I'm a loser to the average Woman I have a low body count = There's something wrong with me To the average Woman The only girls that have shown any interest in me have openly admitted they'd consider me much more attractive than them, I always went for the 'ugly looser' girls and every single time w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:23 PM
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If you are too good to be true you'll quickly find they'll do everything in their power to ruin you. You have no idea how horrific dating is as a unproblematic guy, they find it too mentally unstimulating and start doing things to 'spice it up'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:26 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:53 PM
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I've never approached a woman, I never will. I'm quite physically imposing so there's a good chance I'd probably end up in a cop car, that being said I have been approached; I rejected one girl for her 'n count' (I think that's what you guys call it) and I got hounded for weeks getting called all sorts. Even my family got harassed. So yea, they can't. But let's pretend the average woman's ego isn't insanely inflated, because them actively pushing the average man into the depths of society wasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:55 PM
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If somebody genuinely believes that telling a lonely person to pay somebody money for company is a good idea they should seriously walk into that woods with that friendly bear I keep hearing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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It's almost reversed in a sense, now there's a pretty vocal minority of men salivating over it. I guess watching our parents marry in a pretty ideal time and seeing them do well; then wondering how things changed so rapidly. I truly believe the loneliness epidemic is mostly to do with money, women generally won't date men unless they're making a good chunk more; which just isn't how it can be anymore given wages are universally terrible regardless of gender. It's unfortunate because men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:28 AM
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I've said this so many times, it's money. All of my friends are single now, mostly by choice. I nearly got married but I'm very glad I didn't. I really don't want to work two jobs just to be seen as a potential suiter for the below average woman that spent her younger years sleeping around while the average man (me) rotted away slaving just to make half the disposable income his grandparents did. This is my money, Basically, the life style women demand from us is insanely unrealistic; then you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:28 PM
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After I dated an abusive feminist/misandrist I went down a pretty dark path and the more of a cut throat I became the more women I had trying to get with me. They have strange wiring, they're the ones that reward poor behaviour in men but point the finger at decent guys trying to get by. Even when you look into statistics for men in prison they overwhelmingly come from single parent households, which surprise are mostly single mothers. So we all know abuse goes in cycles, and single mothers are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:36 PM
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Blue pilers just run on an engine of self hatred, they think agreeing with bitter people will lead to success, they're dishonest by nature. Women know this too and it's why women hate them even more than they hate the likes of Andrew tate; at least he gets laid. I do wish they'd just admit they hate us, at least that I'd respect. It'd be a good start instead of pussy footing around; we could actually start making progress and repair the divide between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:12 PM
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Yep, I've had girls make me social media accounts so they could tag me in stuff to show.. their friends? I don't know. Women are much more programmable than men, they'll shame you for not having social media. They'll shame you for doing a lot of healthy, practical and sane things. I see social media as a big glowing red flag, it's weird as hell how women are just casually talking to random men despite having partners. I swear there was a study proving most women have back up men as well. It also…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:41 PM
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While I do absolutely hate Tate for giving a false narrative of what 'trad' men are like I feel like the reason women mostly hate him for telling young men a lot of uncomfortable truths. Women like rich assholes, always have and always will. The average woman tossed the average man aside and he basically told a lot of fatherless young men how to get laid. He's not the cause, he's just a symptom of prolonged misandry; you can't abuse an entire demographic and expect young men to just roll over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:22 PM
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Women are basically treated like children by society, they can get away with literal murder. Just don't listen to them man, I let blatant misandry destroy college for me and looking back I wish I just told them to f off. When things fall to pieces they'll realise how silly it was abuse the entire demographic that gave them the modern comforts and platforms to project their self hatred. They won't have rights again with the way we're going anyway, history has a weird way of repeating it's self.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:11 PM
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It's not acceptable, I've asked even the purple pill women about this and they always point the finger at men saying respect is earned; that we need to become more respectful. How about you just be a decent person and show people some respect? I've had to tell girls off for being disrespectful to my friends for being short, or shaming them for their hobbies and interests. Every relationship I've been in my partner just got progressively more and more disrespectful and downright rude, then you fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:55 PM
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Not sure if it's a hot take anymore, but me and plenty of other guys have come to the conclusion that dating isn't worthwhile for the average man. It's also somehow the average mans fault women don't treat them with common decency. So yea, just not dealing with it anymore. Life has been better single, far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:22 PM
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No, I've never seen this happen in any space. I have however seen men be shamed for being virgins and I've been on the receiving end of it. But this was in college not work. The more 'manly' girls aren't treated as delicately but that's about it. Generally non promiscuous woman are celebrated, whereas men that can't get any are seen as worthless. However, I have observed girls in work slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:19 PM
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I wish I could agree but I've had plenty of conversations with women saying they only want white collar guys that earn well above minimum wage. (Minumum wage is the new norm in my country). I've also been dumped over moving to a cheaper place or working in a job a girl found "embarrassing" as if I had any choice. Got rid of my car so I can save up money a few months ago; got dumped. Friends all have the same experiences. My apologies for the sharp reply earlier, it's been a long painful week; ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:44 PM
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Everyone in my age group has issues. We have to work this hard or we're treated like vermin. It's not how it was 20-30 years ago; we have to work ten times harder for less disposable income. The people on this subreddit that are well into their 30's/40's have absolutely no concept of how the work and dating landscape has changed. A guy my age has to work two jobs while juggling university or women in our age group won't even look at us twice, because like I said women statistically only date men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:32 PM
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I moved out when I was a teenager and I'll never encourage anyone to do so. Moving away from your family is a recent scam put in place by landlords. I don't get why people act like you can't just build on your parents property, a lot of people have land. But even that's an 'ick' Just move out and abandon your family only to give half your wages to a landlord that hasn't worked a day in their life! I also like to hunt and drink beer, it is cheap in my country. I work two jobs and the idea of bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:08 PM
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You're just lying. Men only work because we have to, if we don't we can't procreate. Why do you lie on the internet? literally what do you earn from implying men work for them selves lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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Women know this, wasn't there literally an SNL skit making fun of these kinds of men; women HATE them lmao. I was pretty blue pilled, at least I considered my self very much a feminist until I dated one and it flipped my entire view of women on it's head; for about half a decade after I treated every girl I came across like 'ish' and it put me in numerous positions where I could have gotten laid. Matured a good bit from then and I'm not as resentful, but I'm never falling for that trap again; be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:03 PM
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In my experience men become toxic because they dealt with women, me and my friends were happy go lucky simple guys that loved life before we started dating; now we're bitter pessimistic assholes that bond over how much we hated the time we wasted on women. I severely doubt dating has ever been this bad because it's not like it's a small portion of men that are dropping out completely; even in work all we do is talk shit about dating. Generation Z men really are just done. Even saying we want pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:49 AM
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It also has to be considered that men have a much higher threshold for abuse, Women call men abusive because they don't want them to hang around with bad people, or we want to look at their phones because somebody told us she's been texting a 'friend' a lot, or that we want them to stop putting too much on social media. Meanwhile men have no right to their own privacy, all our devices are open at all times, we get slapped, scratched and screamed at and will laugh it off after a woman and all her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:17 PM
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Women are so insanely manipulative lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:07 PM
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very emotionally charged responses here for something that's been observed for centuries. It's not men that enable bad psychopathic behaviour in other men, it's not men that find it alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:46 PM
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Me, my friends, friends of friends and family have never turned violent. Women just like violent men, I've been in the purple pill spaces long enough to know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:44 PM
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Oh yea true I dealt a lot with that in my late teens and early twenties, that's when I found sisterhood just isn't a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:40 PM
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The irony is if you try flip it on it's head and do what they do to us they'll just dump you because they find male vulnerability disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:29 AM
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"I like badboys...wait why are they punching holes in the walls!!!??"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:28 AM
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probably the e-girl thing? it's weird girls go for guys that follow or speak to lots of girls in the first place, I guess it's just attractive because he has options? idk The only women I text are a friend and my mom, probably a major red flag to women but I like it this way. Social media is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:57 PM
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Men don't care about looks anywhere near as much, I think we all know that by now. I was going to say not obese would be nice but there's good looking tall guys that even like that. Just be nice, men like nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:53 PM
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Things will get better, they just have to get a lot worse first. We need another war.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:55 PM
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Put some weight on ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:54 PM
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A really common issue with people in those fields is they have this weird 'put on' personality, I have to deal with them from time to time and the girls at work do commonly make fun of them when they leave. I understand it's needed in their line of work but people do quite commonly find them odd. It's not necessarily a bad thing but maybe they're too feminine for the average every day girl? maybe feminine isn't the right word... too peppy? forgive me I'm retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:17 PM
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I think it's all commercialised now, or the council do the jobs we would do. Tried to live in the city for a bit but couldn't sleep, although I've heard of people from the city coming out to where I live struggling to adapt; nothing to do and the likes. Have a good un
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:16 PM
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Doesn't really make sense to hate on people just chasing the money, I'm a qualified technician but that's not enough to get a job in tech where I'm from. Money is horrific Hating on men in tech would be like hating on women in nursing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:14 PM
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I'm very much an average joe, literally average face/height/weight or whatever. I wish it was as easy to be an 'average joe' as people make it out to be, I love the countryside and I love my peace and quiet but watching the city absorb the areas around me breaks my heart. I never had access to the education city folks had so all I knew was little cash in hand jobs. It really isn't viable to be a handyman anymore, landlords bought out all the village homes and only city people were making the mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:00 PM
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I genuinely thought your avatar was a close up of me, nearly had a heart attack. Anyways I'm glad abortion wasn't legal at the time because I definitely would have been aborted, actually sometimes I wish I was aborted Nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:17 PM
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Doesn't matter what a woman's views are, most won't date you unless you're making significantly more than them; or you have to be tall to compensate. If you don't have either of those things you are simply not on the radar of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:25 PM
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Wtf I was wondering where this question came from, had no idea it was a huge thing (hermit). My friends girlfriend brought this up and it just turned into a conversation about different kinds of bears and whether or not we could take one in a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:38 PM
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It's hugely ironic that women still demand a man that earns more than them which is without a doubt the biggest factor in the 'male loneliness epidemic'. We have to work our selves into the grave to even be seen as a suiter then they complain we don't have any time for them. If you even bring this up you just get told to man up. They asked for this, this is what they wanted. They have their own money but they want YOUR money. dating is broken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:44 PM
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What would you consider mature? a big issue where I live right now is women complaining about so many men moving home so they can build money and support their families; we have a housing and healthcare crisis. It's almost like they're being paid by landlords to just shame men for not blowing their wages on terrible rent or impractical cars in order to be datable, to me that in it's self is extremely immature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:35 PM
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I'm an average looking guy making ends meet the only way I can; I might even have to move back home. I can tell you for certain that no woman in a similar situation to mine would even look at me twice, they find it repulsive if you're not at least blowing all your money on rent or a nice car. I refuse to make poor financial decisions just to be seen as a viable partner. Meanwhile it's completely acceptable or even encouraged for women to live on government handouts and wait for not only a financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:16 PM
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Was just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:41 PM
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I don't care, I've been described as pretty manly but I/m introverted, average height and weight, don't care about money, cars and I'm tired of women. Everyone has a different definition, women see at as something inherently toxic (that they still find attractive) more often than not and men see it as a good thing that they appreciate and respect in their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:01 PM
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"I've been pegged by her", was this her idea? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:58 PM
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Thanks bro, I'll up my shower count to 14 times a week, work on smiling more and hug my mother more; hopefully be 6'2 in a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 PM
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are you sure? like said FB I know would absolutely pretend to love women if he knew it'd get him laid; then dehumanise them in a groupchat after
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:11 PM
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I was friends with a fuckboy, they're shape shifters. He'd pretend to be 'submissive and timid' to appeal to lonely 'femdoms', then brag about it. He truly was a piece of shit, he was mean as hell, always openly hating on women but he was tall and handsome so he got whatever he wanted; it was genuinely quite irritating. He's cheated on every girl he's known and takes pride in it but of course a good chunk of women find that antisocial behaviour alluring; which he knows... hence why he does it. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:02 PM
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I don't need a youtube channel to tell me how fucked I am, I work with a nerdy anxious guy with acne but he's 6' 2" so the girls in work just casually hug him and flirt with him all the time; he barely even speaks back to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:54 AM
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They still don't seem to understand how bad wages and rent are, It's socially acceptable for them to depend on the government for housing and work meanwhile guys have to work them selves to death for scraps, moving back home so they can actually keep some of their damn money so they can build for the future just get relegated to 'undatable'. It's like you have to make poor decisions financially to date, most guys my age in my region have to go back home but they're being shamed extensively, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:48 PM
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The women at my work do the vast majority of the talking despite being in the minority. Guys socialise yes, but they're usually a bit more direct/concise. That's not to say there aren't overly social men, however there's a reason they're mostly friends with women, or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:34 PM
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Yea I think as long as you practice what you preach and don't shame others for their choices it's all gucci
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:33 PM
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That... is definitely on the rarer side lmao; is there anything in particular that draws you towards a guy that's done that? an ex friend of mine swore he gets a certain demographic of girls by pretending to be 'submissive' and a little bit 'fruity'. It wasn't the fruity stuff that makes him an ex friend, he was just generally a bit creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:03 AM
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Yea I've seen women shame men for having too many partners but also for having too little, I don't even know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:00 AM
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Well I think it's good we had this discussion and I believe having these standards are important as long as you're willing to actually back up your preferences and you actually practice what you preach. I think a lot of women's standards are unrealistic and won't help them but it'll never change, especially if men don't increase their own standards. We all have to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:59 PM
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How is it dumb? also why would it not help me? It's in any potential partners interest that we share similar values, I've rejected girls for their sexual histories and I think that's fine. It's not like I'm shaming them, we're just different and I think it's better for both parties. Would you say women are dumb for having height preferences? or going for a guy for the money he makes? does it not help them? I think it's much more reasonable for somebody to not want somebody that does casual hook …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:54 PM
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I don't care if a girl has had sex in failed relationships, that's not her fault. I just don't want to date one that's ever done anything casual, I've never done that and never had the desire to. Is this fair? it seems like I'm kind of being shamed at times for having this preference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:49 PM
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I've met a lot of women like that as well, had a few try use me for sex. I get why women feel so strongly about it, it genuinely does feel horrible thinking somebody likes you as much as you like them only to find they want something from you; not you. These girls were commonly diagnosed with BPD in my experience, I think in most people it stems from low self esteem, I'm sure on some level you have to be pretty mentally unwell to just want to jump someone's bones without a real connection. Unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:26 PM
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No don't worry, I am a pretty conservative guy and do come across as quite grumpy; not my place to judge people for what they enjoy though. Sex terrifies me so I just run away when people talk about it half the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:04 PM
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I was trying to deliver that in more of a playful manner, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:02 PM
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You need Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:29 PM
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Men just want peace ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:27 PM
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They like the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:19 PM
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My Boss is a woman and literally only hired men because the women made the place an absolute living hell. They'd talk behind her, insulting her for being a fairly masculine woman. Not to mention they kept walking out of work to gossip in the vape corner and left the men to do all the actual work. Now it's all guys and we just get along and talk about guy stuff, we can also get work done without worrying about gossip being spread about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:15 PM
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Never heard of demi, by the definition it just seems like being normal right? Me and my friends all went for girls that were sweet to us then built upon that. That being said It's not like average guys have a lot of options, maybe it'd be different if they had more. Although I've got mad at girls for just trying to sleep with me idk I'm just a silly little guy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:09 PM
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Not true, both sexes desire companionship. The difference is women want a small portion of men that are above them, men want a large portion of women. This creates an illusion that women aren't looking, they are; just not at the guy around her level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:04 PM
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I have God, I drink beer with my friends sometimes. Play games with friends and shoot the shit quite frequently, have a good relationship with my family that I love dearly. Have some online friends too that I meet up with from time to time. I have a job where I work far too hard for too little but that's just 2024. I have hobbies that I enjoy. I'm a grown man, I can tell people to fuck off if they're in the way of my peace and quiet; a very underrated part of being a man imo Honestly being singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:49 PM
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I don't think topping your self is rational in any capacity, I'm far from the peak of masculinity and it never occurred to me that I should self delete despite a life of misery, I'm working within the confinements of severe illness... although I am very easily pleased. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of these men had a lot, then lost it. A good chunk were probably divorced and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:34 PM
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I'm not very intelligent, but given it's known most men hide their mental issues because they've been shamed into it for generations, with feminism somehow making it even worse not to mention mental health care being pandered towards females I don't think it's fair to say that a good chunk of them that are LITERALLY blowing their brains out didn't have mental issues... That is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:34 PM
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Yep, it's an absolute nightmare. I was extremely ill for a long time and found it insanely difficult to get a job after fighting for my life for just shy of a decade; the only reason I even got my current job was because my employer really liked my personality (I have no idea how) I work insanely hard, I'm in complete agony. But that's not enough for women around my level (I'm very average) Which is fine, even dating down they've only ever brought me misery. I've accepted I'm just not tall, hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:26 PM
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My mother and grandma are very open about things like this, they tried warning me about young women a lot when I was growing up but I didn't listen and paid the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:50 PM
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Well I don't approach girls, I'm quite imposing and don't want to scare women in public and end up arrested or something. Used to be quite handsome and in great shape so sometimes girls would ask me out and eventually I'd cave in and give them a shot. It was okay at the start but over time they would just start being more and more disrespectful, they'd keep pushing my boundaries as if they're doing me a favour; I got physically struck over not wanting to go to a rave for example. (I don't like l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:44 PM
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See this is the strange part, she would claim she's quite masculine but I think it was just something hammered into her because she was by all means extremely feminine. It was all an act, she fell down that rabbit hole that told her that men and women are the same... or something I really don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:39 PM
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Nope, always been very sweet to my partners. Been told I've been too nice, boring and been physically struck over something other people did, been cheated on because I'm "boring", been taken advantage of because I'm "too gullible", had food and water thrown over me because it's "been a bad day"... it goes on. I do have autism and sure I am a bit boring, I'll admit that but I don't believe that warrants the treatment I've received from people I've been nothing but kind to. I cant tell you're a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:35 PM
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In my first relationship I got told romance was stupid, all I did was make her some art and get her flowers for valentines day. Yes she was a feminist, and yea that's most likely how I ended up on subs like this. I have a sneaking suspicion most the guys in these communities had similar backgrounds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:48 AM
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This reply made me laugh so much harder than it should have. God bless you, that was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:45 AM
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Yea, when I was at my peak I figured it would be time to give a girl that liked me a chance. Made my life hell, set me back massively. Find my feet again, give another girl a shot and same thing. I don't understand why they can't just be happy with a good thing, it's like they need some dynamic or they get bored. But all it does is destroy us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:43 AM
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Great, now autistic women can filter out all the non 6ft guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:17 AM
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I disagree, women are absolute freaks they're just more selective. Tall guys turn them on just by existing for example, that glimmer they get in their eyes when a 6' 4 man walks by isn't just awe; they're turned on. I don't think us having lower standards means we're hornier. I've dated girls that would show physically frustration I wouldn't have sex with them, like literally screaming into pillows. I've never done that as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:52 PM
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As stated prior, I have tall friends. Even the goofiest looking ones get fetishized for being tall, you can't lie to me. I also have a life and talk to women, I've seen how they react and how they talk about tall men. Just accept your privilege and take advantage of it ffs. Wouldn't catch me on a place like this if I was 6' 4
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:20 PM
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Did you miss the part where I literally expanded on what I meant by dating down? Was trying to squeeze some positivity out of modern dating but this place just leaves me more depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:59 PM
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I'd date a taller girl what? literally any guy would. The average man has less options than the average woman, I think even you would admit that. We don't have the ability to filter out girls over height. Men aren't worried about the 'shame' of dating a taller girl, him and his friends are just calling it "fuckin awesome"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:52 PM
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Then try harder. Men are hardwired to find young women with wide hips and the perfect fat disruption attractive; we've been bashed over the head repeatedly by women for it for years now. I just find girls that are sweet to me attractive, it really isn't hard. I'll notice little things I like about the person after they've got me hooked, like I said treating me like a human helps; judge them for how they treat you and it'll come with time. I know a 6'4 guy, he's by all means what ladies would con…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:46 PM
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Yea, judging people for things they can't control is some goofy ass behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:42 PM
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My friends 5' 5", he might as well be a legal midget going by the women talk about him. The amount of abuse he's received by drunken girls in bars is criminal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:37 PM
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They don't, I'm just honest about my height. They care more about that number more than anything, probably social media I truly do not know. I went out with a girl that thought I was "quite tall" until I told her I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:34 PM
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No, it's just below 6ft (183cm). But yes, I've been called short dozens of times by girls, even when the average in my country is about 5'10. I've also been called short by American girls so I know it's not just an issue in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:04 PM
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I'm probably part of this problem, I've always dated down, because the girls around my level (I'm average as hell) think I'm "too short" at 182cm, I wouldn't ever want to be with anyone that holds that insane standard anyway; it's just a disgusting reflection of character. When I say dating down I mean more measurable and controllable things, like I used to have abs but I liked a bit of a chubby girl; mainly because she treated me like a human unlike some women that give me a disgusted/ick expre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:45 PM
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They are more successful than any other demographic of man, there's literal statistics indicating women are happier in relationships with taller men. Not to mention there are statistics that indicate women are actively seeking taller men. Being tall IS good looking; how is that so difficult to comprehend. They have more sex They have lower divorce rates They earn more money Humans have gotten too tall because of selective breeding, because women LOVE TALL MEN. You're just lying to your self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:37 PM
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They're not incels then, they're literally the most heavily fetishized demographic of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:25 PM
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That is not true at all and you know it, you're saying that as a tall person and it shows. Not only are there statistics to indicate you're wrong I'm yet to see a dating profile asking for a guy to be handsome as a baseline requirement; it's always being in the top 15% height wise. Also been dumped for being 182cm only for a girl to get with an obese guy with acne that was 6'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:44 PM
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Literally how? statistics indicate that meeting through dating apps is a new part of normality and is only getting more popular.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 12:42 PM
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my experience so far with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:40 PM
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*Snap*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:40 PM
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I've seen arranged marriages work beautifully but the women got prescribed tall hard working men, which is what they mean by compatible; at least in my experience. I missed arranged marriage by two generations and I'm pretty salty, not like it's compatible with modern living anymore since wages got obliterated and the single earning household is gone. I'd probably get beat and cheated on by my wife for being 5'11 anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:15 AM
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All of this is exhausting, dating isn't worth it anyway unless you're above 6ft. It's such an uphill battle to get a girl to show you even an ounce of respect at 5'11; just wish they would admit it instead of dancing around it. They do admit it through their actions, just be nice for them to take some accountability and say it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:05 AM
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Use a dating app for 5 minutes as a male
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 12:52 AM
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"It's true that men are often expected to be willing to sacrifice themselves for women in dangerous situations, but this is due to the patriarchal notion that women are weak and unable to protect themselves" Also women "We need tall men (10-15% of the male population") because they can protect us"
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 02:43 PM
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When a Woman mistreated me and I finally stood up for my self and told her to get out of my life she started being a lot more respectful. Still dumped her anyway not dealing with that. I think a lot of women associate being kind = weak, they want a guy that's a complete scumbag to the world but kind to them; not kind enough to be carpet though. I had a lot more girls attracted to me when I was a very resentful 18 year old that loved drugs, I was very much a cut throat. That was very much an edgy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:49 PM
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Yes, three exes admitted they were a bit below me looks wise (they asked me out numerous times until I said yes so I don't think they were lying). I wasn't attracted to any of them either, but I think it's cruel to hold things against people that they can't control so I gave them a chance. They were able to start dating immediately after, literally just had keep dms open on social media or be open at social gatherings. I even had two ex girlfriends say one thing they hated about no longer being …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:35 PM
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Because they're tall, I've seen girls put up with abusive drug addicts because it's less humiliating than telling their friends they're dating a guy below 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:18 PM
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Height is the most important factor in women's attraction, when you hear girls on this subreddit talking about how they see ugly/geeky guys that are balding or whatever it's always a tall guy. I'm by all means average and I've been called ugly and short by a lot of women, I'm 182cm/5'11 and I really don't think I'm ugly, just average. When I tried tinder I had abs and until I changed my height to 6ft rather than 5'11 I only got fat women. You're half right, but you're forgetting even the ugliest…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:13 PM
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People that deny this weren't raised in a household with sisters. Even my mother and my boss that's also a mother are very vocal about how cradled girls are; I think most mothers that have sons are horrified with the treatment of their sons in todays world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:05 PM
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Never seen this work out, it also doesn't really sound like friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:39 AM
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Both do it, there is a slight difference though. Sure men worship Ronaldo but they don't want to fuck him. Women that are obsessed with male celebrities though... I've heard girls talking about the things they'd let Jason momoa do to them; with their boyfriends present. That being said If Ronaldo asked...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:08 PM
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It's weird, I know what I am and I have dated below, even by two ex girlfriends admissions; hence why they asked me out I suppose. They've been in contact recently and both turned to tinder and both complained most the guys were 'too regular'. Maybe I'm better looking than I think but that to me just screams their egos are massively inflated, which I did notice over the course of the relationships because they started treating me like total shit. They both were so sweet at first and bought me lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:16 AM
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Women in general are just less likely to be single because dating is much easier for them... like most things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:41 PM
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This has actually been observed, there's a study out there that indicated most people that considered them selves 'incels' are left wing. I've had girlfriends and so have all my friends, we're by all means very conservative (raised in rural Scotland) but we're all very respectful to the women in our lives. Obviously this is just my experience but most the guys I've met that have been absolutely terrible to women have very much been the chaotic liberal kind, with dyed hair that paint their finger…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:01 PM
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Men generally do worse in divorce court (women more likely to initiate divorce). Men are more likely to abuse their spouse or cheat. Not true, women initiate most domestic abuse not to mention men have a much higher threshold for what is considered abuse. To put it simply, women are emotionally abusive and men are physically abusive, a lot of the time women initiate emotional abuse and men eventually snap and get physical. There are videos on the internet of women literally trying to manipulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:43 PM
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They weren't exactly my social circle, they're certainly not anymore. I wouldn't ever want to deal with people like that again, they were the kind of girls that would say "girly, tea and slay", which I'd imagine you probably hate just as much as I do. Most my friends have girlfriends/wives and children, they never talk about other women and outside of the occasional dark jokes are very respectful. I'm not denying what you're saying but the only men I've heard that speak like that were 40+ There'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:32 PM
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That's gross, I'm assuming women generally don't find men that talk like that attractive either? surely this isn't a me thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:14 PM
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I'm a pretty average guy, I don't approach girls at all but sometimes they just randomly insult me anyway, love just walking home and a couple of drunk girls make a vomiting sound as you're walking past, or being called short by girls online despite being slightly above average height. I've been in relationships with girls that do this as well, just randomly saying mean stuff to guys for no reason. Tell me the way they act towards men isn't identical to how teenagers act towards authority figure…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:12 PM
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Do women really talk like this now? "great dick", "dick game"; surely this is just a parody of people from low income areas.... right? Although to be fair I am Scottish, we might not be 'ratchet' but we do sound drunk all the time. Probably not in any position to judge people for how they speak, do find people that openly talk about sex in such a dehumanising way very unattractive though; it's annoying when men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:39 PM
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It's a lot more socially acceptable for women to thirst over men, or bring up sexual history; especially exes. My ex and her friends were always thirsting over other men right in front of their boyfriends, talking about how big their exes were and they called me insecure after I brought it up. I could tell it made their boyfriends uncomfortable but hey, just do what you have to do. We all know if the roles were reversed you wouldn't hear the end of it, which is exactly what happened when I said …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:15 PM
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