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People on this subreddit have made me realise lots more people need to walk into the woods alone, it'd do a lot of good for humanity. That being said if you don't carry a gun into the woods, you're an absolute dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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If you are too good to be true you'll quickly find they'll do everything in their power to ruin you. You have no idea how horrific dating is as a unproblematic guy, they find it too mentally unstimulating and start doing things to 'spice it up'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:26 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:53 PM
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I've said this so many times, it's money. All of my friends are single now, mostly by choice. I nearly got married but I'm very glad I didn't. I really don't want to work two jobs just to be seen as a potential suiter for the below average woman that spent her younger years sleeping around while the average man (me) rotted away slaving just to make half the disposable income his grandparents did. This is my money, Basically, the life style women demand from us is insanely unrealistic; then you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:28 PM
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After I dated an abusive feminist/misandrist I went down a pretty dark path and the more of a cut throat I became the more women I had trying to get with me. They have strange wiring, they're the ones that reward poor behaviour in men but point the finger at decent guys trying to get by. Even when you look into statistics for men in prison they overwhelmingly come from single parent households, which surprise are mostly single mothers. So we all know abuse goes in cycles, and single mothers are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:36 PM
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Blue pilers just run on an engine of self hatred, they think agreeing with bitter people will lead to success, they're dishonest by nature. Women know this too and it's why women hate them even more than they hate the likes of Andrew tate; at least he gets laid. I do wish they'd just admit they hate us, at least that I'd respect. It'd be a good start instead of pussy footing around; we could actually start making progress and repair the divide between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:12 PM
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Yep, I've had girls make me social media accounts so they could tag me in stuff to show.. their friends? I don't know. Women are much more programmable than men, they'll shame you for not having social media. They'll shame you for doing a lot of healthy, practical and sane things. I see social media as a big glowing red flag, it's weird as hell how women are just casually talking to random men despite having partners. I swear there was a study proving most women have back up men as well. It also…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:41 PM
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It's not acceptable, I've asked even the purple pill women about this and they always point the finger at men saying respect is earned; that we need to become more respectful. How about you just be a decent person and show people some respect? I've had to tell girls off for being disrespectful to my friends for being short, or shaming them for their hobbies and interests. Every relationship I've been in my partner just got progressively more and more disrespectful and downright rude, then you fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:55 PM
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Not sure if it's a hot take anymore, but me and plenty of other guys have come to the conclusion that dating isn't worthwhile for the average man. It's also somehow the average mans fault women don't treat them with common decency. So yea, just not dealing with it anymore. Life has been better single, far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:22 PM
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No, I've never seen this happen in any space. I have however seen men be shamed for being virgins and I've been on the receiving end of it. But this was in college not work. The more 'manly' girls aren't treated as delicately but that's about it. Generally non promiscuous woman are celebrated, whereas men that can't get any are seen as worthless. However, I have observed girls in work slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:19 PM
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Women know this, wasn't there literally an SNL skit making fun of these kinds of men; women HATE them lmao. I was pretty blue pilled, at least I considered my self very much a feminist until I dated one and it flipped my entire view of women on it's head; for about half a decade after I treated every girl I came across like 'ish' and it put me in numerous positions where I could have gotten laid. Matured a good bit from then and I'm not as resentful, but I'm never falling for that trap again; be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:03 PM
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In my experience men become toxic because they dealt with women, me and my friends were happy go lucky simple guys that loved life before we started dating; now we're bitter pessimistic assholes that bond over how much we hated the time we wasted on women. I severely doubt dating has ever been this bad because it's not like it's a small portion of men that are dropping out completely; even in work all we do is talk shit about dating. Generation Z men really are just done. Even saying we want pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:49 AM
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very emotionally charged responses here for something that's been observed for centuries. It's not men that enable bad psychopathic behaviour in other men, it's not men that find it alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:46 PM
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Me, my friends, friends of friends and family have never turned violent. Women just like violent men, I've been in the purple pill spaces long enough to know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:44 PM
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The irony is if you try flip it on it's head and do what they do to us they'll just dump you because they find male vulnerability disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:29 AM
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"I like badboys...wait why are they punching holes in the walls!!!??"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:28 AM
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probably the e-girl thing? it's weird girls go for guys that follow or speak to lots of girls in the first place, I guess it's just attractive because he has options? idk The only women I text are a friend and my mom, probably a major red flag to women but I like it this way. Social media is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:57 PM
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Men don't care about looks anywhere near as much, I think we all know that by now. I was going to say not obese would be nice but there's good looking tall guys that even like that. Just be nice, men like nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:53 PM
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I think it's all commercialised now, or the council do the jobs we would do. Tried to live in the city for a bit but couldn't sleep, although I've heard of people from the city coming out to where I live struggling to adapt; nothing to do and the likes. Have a good un
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:16 PM
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Doesn't really make sense to hate on people just chasing the money, I'm a qualified technician but that's not enough to get a job in tech where I'm from. Money is horrific Hating on men in tech would be like hating on women in nursing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:14 PM
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I'm very much an average joe, literally average face/height/weight or whatever. I wish it was as easy to be an 'average joe' as people make it out to be, I love the countryside and I love my peace and quiet but watching the city absorb the areas around me breaks my heart. I never had access to the education city folks had so all I knew was little cash in hand jobs. It really isn't viable to be a handyman anymore, landlords bought out all the village homes and only city people were making the mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:00 PM
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I genuinely thought your avatar was a close up of me, nearly had a heart attack. Anyways I'm glad abortion wasn't legal at the time because I definitely would have been aborted, actually sometimes I wish I was aborted Nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:17 PM
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Doesn't matter what a woman's views are, most won't date you unless you're making significantly more than them; or you have to be tall to compensate. If you don't have either of those things you are simply not on the radar of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:25 PM
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Wtf I was wondering where this question came from, had no idea it was a huge thing (hermit). My friends girlfriend brought this up and it just turned into a conversation about different kinds of bears and whether or not we could take one in a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:38 PM
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Was just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:41 PM
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"I've been pegged by her", was this her idea? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:58 PM
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Thanks bro, I'll up my shower count to 14 times a week, work on smiling more and hug my mother more; hopefully be 6'2 in a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 PM
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are you sure? like said FB I know would absolutely pretend to love women if he knew it'd get him laid; then dehumanise them in a groupchat after
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:11 PM
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I was friends with a fuckboy, they're shape shifters. He'd pretend to be 'submissive and timid' to appeal to lonely 'femdoms', then brag about it. He truly was a piece of shit, he was mean as hell, always openly hating on women but he was tall and handsome so he got whatever he wanted; it was genuinely quite irritating. He's cheated on every girl he's known and takes pride in it but of course a good chunk of women find that antisocial behaviour alluring; which he knows... hence why he does it. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:02 PM
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I don't need a youtube channel to tell me how fucked I am, I work with a nerdy anxious guy with acne but he's 6' 2" so the girls in work just casually hug him and flirt with him all the time; he barely even speaks back to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:54 AM
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The women at my work do the vast majority of the talking despite being in the minority. Guys socialise yes, but they're usually a bit more direct/concise. That's not to say there aren't overly social men, however there's a reason they're mostly friends with women, or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:34 PM
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Yea I think as long as you practice what you preach and don't shame others for their choices it's all gucci
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:33 PM
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That... is definitely on the rarer side lmao; is there anything in particular that draws you towards a guy that's done that? an ex friend of mine swore he gets a certain demographic of girls by pretending to be 'submissive' and a little bit 'fruity'. It wasn't the fruity stuff that makes him an ex friend, he was just generally a bit creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:03 AM
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Yea I've seen women shame men for having too many partners but also for having too little, I don't even know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:00 AM
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Well I think it's good we had this discussion and I believe having these standards are important as long as you're willing to actually back up your preferences and you actually practice what you preach. I think a lot of women's standards are unrealistic and won't help them but it'll never change, especially if men don't increase their own standards. We all have to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:59 PM
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How is it dumb? also why would it not help me? It's in any potential partners interest that we share similar values, I've rejected girls for their sexual histories and I think that's fine. It's not like I'm shaming them, we're just different and I think it's better for both parties. Would you say women are dumb for having height preferences? or going for a guy for the money he makes? does it not help them? I think it's much more reasonable for somebody to not want somebody that does casual hook …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:54 PM
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I don't care if a girl has had sex in failed relationships, that's not her fault. I just don't want to date one that's ever done anything casual, I've never done that and never had the desire to. Is this fair? it seems like I'm kind of being shamed at times for having this preference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:49 PM
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I've met a lot of women like that as well, had a few try use me for sex. I get why women feel so strongly about it, it genuinely does feel horrible thinking somebody likes you as much as you like them only to find they want something from you; not you. These girls were commonly diagnosed with BPD in my experience, I think in most people it stems from low self esteem, I'm sure on some level you have to be pretty mentally unwell to just want to jump someone's bones without a real connection. Unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:26 PM
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Never heard of demi, by the definition it just seems like being normal right? Me and my friends all went for girls that were sweet to us then built upon that. That being said It's not like average guys have a lot of options, maybe it'd be different if they had more. Although I've got mad at girls for just trying to sleep with me idk I'm just a silly little guy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:09 PM
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I have God, I drink beer with my friends sometimes. Play games with friends and shoot the shit quite frequently, have a good relationship with my family that I love dearly. Have some online friends too that I meet up with from time to time. I have a job where I work far too hard for too little but that's just 2024. I have hobbies that I enjoy. I'm a grown man, I can tell people to fuck off if they're in the way of my peace and quiet; a very underrated part of being a man imo Honestly being singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:49 PM
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I don't think topping your self is rational in any capacity, I'm far from the peak of masculinity and it never occurred to me that I should self delete despite a life of misery, I'm working within the confinements of severe illness... although I am very easily pleased. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of these men had a lot, then lost it. A good chunk were probably divorced and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:34 PM
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I'm not very intelligent, but given it's known most men hide their mental issues because they've been shamed into it for generations, with feminism somehow making it even worse not to mention mental health care being pandered towards females I don't think it's fair to say that a good chunk of them that are LITERALLY blowing their brains out didn't have mental issues... That is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:34 PM
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In my first relationship I got told romance was stupid, all I did was make her some art and get her flowers for valentines day. Yes she was a feminist, and yea that's most likely how I ended up on subs like this. I have a sneaking suspicion most the guys in these communities had similar backgrounds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:48 AM
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Yea, when I was at my peak I figured it would be time to give a girl that liked me a chance. Made my life hell, set me back massively. Find my feet again, give another girl a shot and same thing. I don't understand why they can't just be happy with a good thing, it's like they need some dynamic or they get bored. But all it does is destroy us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:43 AM
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As stated prior, I have tall friends. Even the goofiest looking ones get fetishized for being tall, you can't lie to me. I also have a life and talk to women, I've seen how they react and how they talk about tall men. Just accept your privilege and take advantage of it ffs. Wouldn't catch me on a place like this if I was 6' 4
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:20 PM
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Did you miss the part where I literally expanded on what I meant by dating down? Was trying to squeeze some positivity out of modern dating but this place just leaves me more depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:59 PM
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I'd date a taller girl what? literally any guy would. The average man has less options than the average woman, I think even you would admit that. We don't have the ability to filter out girls over height. Men aren't worried about the 'shame' of dating a taller girl, him and his friends are just calling it "fuckin awesome"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:52 PM
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Then try harder. Men are hardwired to find young women with wide hips and the perfect fat disruption attractive; we've been bashed over the head repeatedly by women for it for years now. I just find girls that are sweet to me attractive, it really isn't hard. I'll notice little things I like about the person after they've got me hooked, like I said treating me like a human helps; judge them for how they treat you and it'll come with time. I know a 6'4 guy, he's by all means what ladies would con…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:46 PM
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Yea, judging people for things they can't control is some goofy ass behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:42 PM
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My friends 5' 5", he might as well be a legal midget going by the women talk about him. The amount of abuse he's received by drunken girls in bars is criminal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:37 PM
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They don't, I'm just honest about my height. They care more about that number more than anything, probably social media I truly do not know. I went out with a girl that thought I was "quite tall" until I told her I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:34 PM
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No, it's just below 6ft (183cm). But yes, I've been called short dozens of times by girls, even when the average in my country is about 5'10. I've also been called short by American girls so I know it's not just an issue in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:04 PM
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I'm probably part of this problem, I've always dated down, because the girls around my level (I'm average as hell) think I'm "too short" at 182cm, I wouldn't ever want to be with anyone that holds that insane standard anyway; it's just a disgusting reflection of character. When I say dating down I mean more measurable and controllable things, like I used to have abs but I liked a bit of a chubby girl; mainly because she treated me like a human unlike some women that give me a disgusted/ick expre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:45 PM
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They're not incels then, they're literally the most heavily fetishized demographic of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:25 PM
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That is not true at all and you know it, you're saying that as a tall person and it shows. Not only are there statistics to indicate you're wrong I'm yet to see a dating profile asking for a guy to be handsome as a baseline requirement; it's always being in the top 15% height wise. Also been dumped for being 182cm only for a girl to get with an obese guy with acne that was 6'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:44 PM
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Literally how? statistics indicate that meeting through dating apps is a new part of normality and is only getting more popular.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 12:42 PM
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*Snap*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:40 PM
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I've seen arranged marriages work beautifully but the women got prescribed tall hard working men, which is what they mean by compatible; at least in my experience. I missed arranged marriage by two generations and I'm pretty salty, not like it's compatible with modern living anymore since wages got obliterated and the single earning household is gone. I'd probably get beat and cheated on by my wife for being 5'11 anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:15 AM
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All of this is exhausting, dating isn't worth it anyway unless you're above 6ft. It's such an uphill battle to get a girl to show you even an ounce of respect at 5'11; just wish they would admit it instead of dancing around it. They do admit it through their actions, just be nice for them to take some accountability and say it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:05 AM
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Use a dating app for 5 minutes as a male
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 12:52 AM
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"It's true that men are often expected to be willing to sacrifice themselves for women in dangerous situations, but this is due to the patriarchal notion that women are weak and unable to protect themselves" Also women "We need tall men (10-15% of the male population") because they can protect us"
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 02:43 PM
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Because they're tall, I've seen girls put up with abusive drug addicts because it's less humiliating than telling their friends they're dating a guy below 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:18 PM
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Height is the most important factor in women's attraction, when you hear girls on this subreddit talking about how they see ugly/geeky guys that are balding or whatever it's always a tall guy. I'm by all means average and I've been called ugly and short by a lot of women, I'm 182cm/5'11 and I really don't think I'm ugly, just average. When I tried tinder I had abs and until I changed my height to 6ft rather than 5'11 I only got fat women. You're half right, but you're forgetting even the ugliest…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:13 PM
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Never seen this work out, it also doesn't really sound like friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:39 AM
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Both do it, there is a slight difference though. Sure men worship Ronaldo but they don't want to fuck him. Women that are obsessed with male celebrities though... I've heard girls talking about the things they'd let Jason momoa do to them; with their boyfriends present. That being said If Ronaldo asked...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:08 PM
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Women in general are just less likely to be single because dating is much easier for them... like most things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:41 PM
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This has actually been observed, there's a study out there that indicated most people that considered them selves 'incels' are left wing. I've had girlfriends and so have all my friends, we're by all means very conservative (raised in rural Scotland) but we're all very respectful to the women in our lives. Obviously this is just my experience but most the guys I've met that have been absolutely terrible to women have very much been the chaotic liberal kind, with dyed hair that paint their finger…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:01 PM
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Men generally do worse in divorce court (women more likely to initiate divorce). Men are more likely to abuse their spouse or cheat. Not true, women initiate most domestic abuse not to mention men have a much higher threshold for what is considered abuse. To put it simply, women are emotionally abusive and men are physically abusive, a lot of the time women initiate emotional abuse and men eventually snap and get physical. There are videos on the internet of women literally trying to manipulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:43 PM
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They weren't exactly my social circle, they're certainly not anymore. I wouldn't ever want to deal with people like that again, they were the kind of girls that would say "girly, tea and slay", which I'd imagine you probably hate just as much as I do. Most my friends have girlfriends/wives and children, they never talk about other women and outside of the occasional dark jokes are very respectful. I'm not denying what you're saying but the only men I've heard that speak like that were 40+ There'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:32 PM
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It's a lot more socially acceptable for women to thirst over men, or bring up sexual history; especially exes. My ex and her friends were always thirsting over other men right in front of their boyfriends, talking about how big their exes were and they called me insecure after I brought it up. I could tell it made their boyfriends uncomfortable but hey, just do what you have to do. We all know if the roles were reversed you wouldn't hear the end of it, which is exactly what happened when I said …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:15 PM
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